So.... its not that we do nothing. We just do less...but be sure to reciprocate a bit (so he doesn't lose interest), although don't reciprocate more than he does. Let him lead.
Let the man be the man. His role is to do the courting and proposing. Women do the choosing of the best suitor for her and her future. Manly men love to earn and win. Dont make it so easy or you're devaluing yourself which isnt attractive. Be feminine, mysterious and a challenge.
I was actually thinking that Elliot! That if a guy is already very interested in you you don’t have to do anything at all. They’ll just keep chasing you forever if they can. But if a guy only likes you a little he will eventually move on to someone else and quickly too.
Or he’s mature & respects himself & finds someone who wants him too 🙄 I can adore someone but I’m won’t wait for them If they don’t want me, I’ll find someone who wants me & I want him too
@ yeah. I wasn’t saying it is right for men to do that. Just saying what Elliot is saying is actually true for the majority of men. Looks like a lot of ppl agree with my experiences too
This is what I’m doing with my current partner. He calls; I answer. He falls back; I don’t step forward to fill the space. I have my own life so he doesn’t think I’m just waiting for him. But I’m always there when he needs me. He has shared that I am all of those 5 things you listed so it makes sense that he said he sees me as his wife one day. We’ve a ways to go before we jump to that point. So glad I’m managing this situation based on your tips here. Thanks!
Don’t worry guys…everything will be alright. Invest in yourself and believe in yourself. Most men are jerks but there are a few good men left…they like when you act like you don’t care but just don’t be mean about it. I am very busy but l am not rude…men like that.
Yea but then that would mean that he loves you more, which is a real turn off for women since it’s also an indication of him being of a lower value than you- causing us to think we can probably do better than this guy- since to be in that position (that is to be the one who cares the most- is actually the weaker position- than the one who cares the least) and being weak only looks good/ ok/ or is in any way acceptable on the fairer sex (that is the woman only)
A better option? I'm no option. I'm either the one or not. If he has options and I gotta fight other women to prove myelf, he can choose them. I'll gladly see myself out of the equation. No man s worth fighting other women over. None! Playing games is not only toxic but stupid. Child's play and immature.
Everyone is an option. They don’t know if they want to “choose” a woman until they spend some time with her. Most aren’t going to commit to speaking to only 1 woman right from the start. It’s not fighting other women for it- we just need to be ourselves, enjoyable & realistic. If the connection is real, the others will dwindle away.
@reneefletcher1143 if a guy I'm interested in is also interested in other women, I walk away. If he can do it during the talking/dating stage he'll do it well into a marriage too. Trust me, the reason why I'm getting a divorce. He cheated with women he met online. Wanna know how we met? Online.
@@reneefletcher1143I am old school too. If a man is in love other women are of no interest. He has the one he wants in his sights and he will not risk losing her. If he is just messing about all other women are still of interest and will continue to be so even in a 'commited' relationship. For the sake of my own future sanity I will not lift a finger for the latter man
I disagree. I was never an option. My husband knew I was the “one” when he first saw me. Some men do know. Depends on the man. Same with my sis and her husband.
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
@@FriskyTendervittles It IS immature. Especially when they are delusional in thinking a 20 year old is going to hit them up for more than their money. Even when it comes to sex, that's all it will be and it won't last because of the frequent misunderstandings and age gaps! And that 20 year old will get old sooner or later and that old guy will get old even sooner (look old)! And she will be VERY embarrased to have chosen someone that could look like her dad! (Heck even grand-dad!) Rather than someone her age or a bit younger/ older give or take. It will be one of the bigger regrets of her life! And biology or not, who would want to give birth to someone's old sperm??! That sperm quality will give her RETARDED and AUTISTIC babies!
Quick question a guy that I dated chose someone else and married her. After years of not talking he’s reached out to me and checks my social status. Not sure why as he chose her. Is he looking for an ego boost?
Yes, he is looking for an ego boost. What us women need to understand is that most men have a bottomless ego pit that never fills up. Even if they have the most beautiful, most elegant and well-behaved wife, they eventually still want more and more. It has nothing to do with us, it's in their biology as filthy animals; it's called the Coolidge effect (scientifically tested). Basically, testosterone fries their brain cells and makes it impossible for most of them to bring any long-term happiness to any woman. I'd say about 98% of men are only capable of bringing short-term happiness and that's it, they are psychologically incapable of long-term loyalty and unconditional love... That's why I personally recommend focusing on being celibate, and looking for lifetime happiness through other means that do not depend on a man 🌻☘
He has no business reaching out to you. He’s not even thinking about the hurt, confusion, and waste of energy this can cause you. I’ve had it happen before. It was very satisfying to block him.
There was a boy I grew up in church with. I wanted him so bad. I prayed for years that he’d like me and would date me. I grew more desperate and started calling his house in high school. I sent him presents. I asked him to prom but he said he had to work (different schools). Mom told me to stop. I did. He never called or anything. It just always made me wonder if I should have done something different. He meant so much to me but I could never get his interest. This was years ago before social media but it seems like women can only choose from their options but can never chase who they really want and that’s sad.
Help! 7 weeks no contact. He reached out with 'id like to talk' message. I told him he needed to come clean about some acting out he did. No reply. Back in no contact. Does this look over to you?
Yes ... looks like you didn't react the way HE expected/wanted you to ... so he had to back off again. In other words ... he probably wasn't being sincere !
No it’s not over. He will come back in a few weeks time and repeat his same line. You will probably reply and he disappears again. Enjoy the games and merry Xmas.
Oh, we know it. And is not just a male female thing. Same thing happens in homosexual relationships. The one with more power, for whatever reason the power is is the one that can kick back and not work so hard.
So.... its not that we do nothing. We just do less...but be sure to reciprocate a bit (so he doesn't lose interest), although don't reciprocate more than he does. Let him lead.
Let the man be the man. His role is to do the courting and proposing. Women do the choosing of the best suitor for her and her future. Manly men love to earn and win. Dont make it so easy or you're devaluing yourself which isnt attractive. Be feminine, mysterious and a challenge.
I was actually thinking that Elliot! That if a guy is already very interested in you you don’t have to do anything at all. They’ll just keep chasing you forever if they can. But if a guy only likes you a little he will eventually move on to someone else and quickly too.
Or he’s mature & respects himself & finds someone who wants him too 🙄
I can adore someone but I’m won’t wait for them If they don’t want me, I’ll find someone who wants me & I want him too
@ yeah. I wasn’t saying it is right for men to do that. Just saying what Elliot is saying is actually true for the majority of men. Looks like a lot of ppl agree with my experiences too
I am planning to do nothing at all. I'm keeping my spot. I'm not even sure if I want to date ever again😂😂
I'm never dating again. Accepting courting only.
I feel the same way
Honestly I give up too
I am done
Done, no more of this.
This is what I’m doing with my current partner. He calls; I answer. He falls back; I don’t step forward to fill the space. I have my own life so he doesn’t think I’m just waiting for him. But I’m always there when he needs me. He has shared that I am all of those 5 things you listed so it makes sense that he said he sees me as his wife one day. We’ve a ways to go before we jump to that point.
So glad I’m managing this situation based on your tips here. Thanks!
Don’t worry guys…everything will be alright. Invest in yourself and believe in yourself. Most men are jerks but there are a few good men left…they like when you act like you don’t care but just don’t be mean about it. I am very busy but l am not rude…men like that.
I never save a man's number. That makes it easy to do nothing 😅
That's really smart!
Love it
Never love a man more than he loves you. Heartbreak = caring & loving too much. Also have sex appeal... mystery.. playfulness ✨️
Yea but then that would mean that he loves you more, which is a real turn off for women since it’s also an indication of him being of a lower value than you- causing us to think we can probably do better than this guy- since to be in that position (that is to be the one who cares the most- is actually the weaker position- than the one who cares the least) and being weak only looks good/ ok/ or is in any way acceptable on the fairer sex (that is the woman only)
You going crazy this week with the video drops!!!
A better option? I'm no option. I'm either the one or not. If he has options and I gotta fight other women to prove myelf, he can choose them. I'll gladly see myself out of the equation. No man s worth fighting other women over. None! Playing games is not only toxic but stupid. Child's play and immature.
Everyone is an option. They don’t know if they want to “choose” a woman until they spend some time with her. Most aren’t going to commit to speaking to only 1 woman right from the start. It’s not fighting other women for it- we just need to be ourselves, enjoyable & realistic. If the connection is real, the others will dwindle away.
@reneefletcher1143 if a guy I'm interested in is also interested in other women, I walk away. If he can do it during the talking/dating stage he'll do it well into a marriage too. Trust me, the reason why I'm getting a divorce. He cheated with women he met online. Wanna know how we met? Online.
@@reneefletcher1143I am old school too. If a man is in love other women are of no interest. He has the one he wants in his sights and he will not risk losing her. If he is just messing about all other women are still of interest and will continue to be so even in a 'commited' relationship. For the sake of my own future sanity I will not lift a finger for the latter man
I disagree. I was never an option. My husband knew I was the “one” when he first saw me. Some men do know. Depends on the man. Same with my sis and her husband.
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
How immature. Are men ALWAYS going to act this way even when they are 40's, 50's and older? So sad.
Yes .. & shit gets even weirder lol
Not immature. BIOLOGY
@@FriskyTendervittles You mean, primitive and indistinguishable from animals 🦧🦟 I agree.
YES
@@FriskyTendervittles It IS immature. Especially when they are delusional in thinking a 20 year old is going to hit them up for more than their money. Even when it comes to sex, that's all it will be and it won't last because of the frequent misunderstandings and age gaps! And that 20 year old will get old sooner or later and that old guy will get old even sooner (look old)! And she will be VERY embarrased to have chosen someone that could look like her dad! (Heck even grand-dad!) Rather than someone her age or a bit younger/ older give or take. It will be one of the bigger regrets of her life!
And biology or not, who would want to give birth to someone's old sperm??! That sperm quality will give her RETARDED and AUTISTIC babies!
The timing of this was absolutely perfect Elliot!! Thank you so much!! ♥️
I am destined to watch this video.. it suddenly appears.. perfect timing.. ❤
I know dating can be heartbreaking I know I get it totally xxx
Quick question a guy that I dated chose someone else and married her. After years of not talking he’s reached out to me and checks my social status. Not sure why as he chose her. Is he looking for an ego boost?
Yep
Yes. My ex did it once a month for 9 months..I finally stopped answering for my sanity.
Yes, he is looking for an ego boost. What us women need to understand is that most men have a bottomless ego pit that never fills up. Even if they have the most beautiful, most elegant and well-behaved wife, they eventually still want more and more. It has nothing to do with us, it's in their biology as filthy animals; it's called the Coolidge effect (scientifically tested). Basically, testosterone fries their brain cells and makes it impossible for most of them to bring any long-term happiness to any woman. I'd say about 98% of men are only capable of bringing short-term happiness and that's it, they are psychologically incapable of long-term loyalty and unconditional love... That's why I personally recommend focusing on being celibate, and looking for lifetime happiness through other means that do not depend on a man 🌻☘
He has no business reaching out to you. He’s not even thinking about the hurt, confusion, and waste of energy this can cause you. I’ve had it happen before. It was very satisfying to block him.
Yes he is looking for an ego boost and attention because he is selfish. Never respond to him.
There was a boy I grew up in church with. I wanted him so bad. I prayed for years that he’d like me and would date me. I grew more desperate and started calling his house in high school. I sent him presents. I asked him to prom but he said he had to work (different schools).
Mom told me to stop. I did. He never called or anything. It just always made me wonder if I should have done something different. He meant so much to me but I could never get his interest.
This was years ago before social media but it seems like women can only choose from their options but can never chase who they really want and that’s sad.
This can be taken out of context... if your married, the woman needs to do something. It's just that the man still has to keep his role
This is his most honest video, ngl.
Ok suppose iv dun all that 🤦♀️ is it possible to reverse it ?
Help! 7 weeks no contact. He reached out with 'id like to talk' message. I told him he needed to come clean about some acting out he did. No reply. Back in no contact. Does this look over to you?
Yes
Yes ... looks like you didn't react the way HE expected/wanted you to ... so he had to back off again.
In other words ... he probably wasn't being sincere !
No it’s not over. He will come back in a few weeks time and repeat his same line. You will probably reply and he disappears again. Enjoy the games and merry Xmas.
Oh, we know it. And is not just a male female thing. Same thing happens in homosexual relationships. The one with more power, for whatever reason the power is is the one that can kick back and not work so hard.
Preach 🙌
What?