My husband said he didn't love me the way he used to, he wanted to leave then found out he was seeing someone, we have been together for 19 years. We have kids as well. Within a month he moved in with her, they are in a relationship and he says she gets me and I was stupid and tried to get him. I went from contact to no contact to contact. Now today I've detached from him and had no contact again. I know my worth I know I'm one in a million.
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
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What if you weren’t with the person long enough to have any arguments or that much drama and history but they still left you for their ex when things were going great between you two? Would they even care enough to regret and come back?
@earthtoangel652 I wouldn't bother.... if he comes back under this conditions it is because he ran out of options, not because he had a realization that he wants you. Don't waste your time on people that don't want what you want. Not worth it
What if he broke up with you about insecurities about other guys would it not make it worse by going on apps? 🤔and if he broke up due to arguments will he be back after no contact?thanks!
I felt like you were speaking directly to me like a big brother lmao. This is my current situation, I broke up with him on thanksgiving due to his behavior and lack of commitment but we do this over and over so he knows we may get back together. I usually make him buy for things to get back with me but it’s not enough. I know i need to really stop speaking to him.
I went quiet 5 months, he wanted me to chase him & always be the one to reach out & I am not going to do that shit - he recently started to follow my business page & views every story there & likes the posts of reels etc (sometimes likes) what’s it mean?
Okay but I’ve left him several times, told him what I want and need too. He always comes back and does it again. Last time I even deleted him from everything and he popped back up texting me on thanksgiving and chasing me saying he misses me. I let him back in and now he’s ghosting while watching my snap stories again lol. He’s going back in the dog house and he’s gonna have to prove this time or I’m gone for good
@Callieforniiaa This is what Elliot means. The dig house is not a hotel (temporary housing). Once you kick him out of the real house, he needs to stay on the street. You can't blame him anymore because you're the one reinforcing the behavior! Every time he comes back, you let him in. You're the fool. He's just playing the game.
What if things didn't worked out between the two of you, (he wasn't over his ex and that broke my heart because I really liked him), and now he's going after another girl in our dance scene (our tribe)... What is the best thing I could do here? I would die to see them together.... and him giving her all the things I wanted with him (a home full of love & animals). I would fantasize what I would say to him, something like 'Oh, well I don't see her as competition. And if you hurt her, I'm going to be there for her. ' Would that work?
I don't think you need to waste your time saying anything to him, he is not worth it. I was in the same situation 2 months ago, he was never available, always claiming to be busy every time. I tried to make sure the relationship worked, but he left me for someone else. The day I saw him with her, I didn't say a word to him till today, it's almost 3 months now, it was really hard, sometimes I had the urge to say something, but I feel it's better to leave him to his conscience, I knew I never did him wrong, but since he feels I'm not worth his love, it's fine. I know someone who will love and appreciate me, will find me. So just be strong, try to make yourself happy, you will be fine. It's not going to be easy but you will be fine eventually ❤.
Good luck weaseling back in when he’s blocked, I’m off social media and I left the state. ✌️ ❤
Me too. All i have is TH-cam now. Love not being on instagram. Even started reading books.
same😂
My husband said he didn't love me the way he used to, he wanted to leave then found out he was seeing someone, we have been together for 19 years. We have kids as well. Within a month he moved in with her, they are in a relationship and he says she gets me and I was stupid and tried to get him. I went from contact to no contact to contact. Now today I've detached from him and had no contact again. I know my worth I know I'm one in a million.
You are the only one who says true!!!!! Especially about “easy one”. Thank you for all your videos
Man, he came back around and wants to be friends. No thanks. I don’t take demotions.
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
What if you weren’t with the person long enough to have any arguments or that much drama and history but they still left you for their ex when things were going great between you two? Would they even care enough to regret and come back?
Probably not. If they went back to their ex, you were the rebound. You need to better than his ex for him to regret losing you.
@ okay but what if his ex played him and just used him for a place to stay and now they’re broken up again?
@earthtoangel652 I wouldn't bother.... if he comes back under this conditions it is because he ran out of options, not because he had a realization that he wants you. Don't waste your time on people that don't want what you want. Not worth it
What if he broke up with you about insecurities about other guys would it not make it worse by going on apps? 🤔and if he broke up due to arguments will he be back after no contact?thanks!
I felt like you were speaking directly to me like a big brother lmao. This is my current situation, I broke up with him on thanksgiving due to his behavior and lack of commitment but we do this over and over so he knows we may get back together. I usually make him buy for things to get back with me but it’s not enough. I know i need to really stop speaking to him.
I went quiet 5 months, he wanted me to chase him & always be the one to reach out & I am not going to do that shit - he recently started to follow my business page & views every story there & likes the posts of reels etc (sometimes likes) what’s it mean?
Okay but I’ve left him several times, told him what I want and need too. He always comes back and does it again. Last time I even deleted him from everything and he popped back up texting me on thanksgiving and chasing me saying he misses me. I let him back in and now he’s ghosting while watching my snap stories again lol. He’s going back in the dog house and he’s gonna have to prove this time or I’m gone for good
@Callieforniiaa This is what Elliot means. The dig house is not a hotel (temporary housing). Once you kick him out of the real house, he needs to stay on the street. You can't blame him anymore because you're the one reinforcing the behavior! Every time he comes back, you let him in. You're the fool. He's just playing the game.
But should I swipe him right on the app?
Heck no
No f%$king way! it makes you look desperate and available, like an option for him to pick up n put down
😊👏👏👏👏👏❤️
What if things didn't worked out between the two of you, (he wasn't over his ex and that broke my heart because I really liked him), and now he's going after another girl in our dance scene (our tribe)... What is the best thing I could do here? I would die to see them together.... and him giving her all the things I wanted with him (a home full of love & animals).
I would fantasize what I would say to him, something like 'Oh, well I don't see her as competition. And if you hurt her, I'm going to be there for her. ' Would that work?
I don't think you need to waste your time saying anything to him, he is not worth it. I was in the same situation 2 months ago, he was never available, always claiming to be busy every time. I tried to make sure the relationship worked, but he left me for someone else. The day I saw him with her, I didn't say a word to him till today, it's almost 3 months now, it was really hard, sometimes I had the urge to say something, but I feel it's better to leave him to his conscience, I knew I never did him wrong, but since he feels I'm not worth his love, it's fine. I know someone who will love and appreciate me, will find me. So just be strong, try to make yourself happy, you will be fine. It's not going to be easy but you will be fine eventually ❤.