0:50 - Blame-Shift 1:51 - Disrespecting your boundaries 2:47 - She's negative AF 3:37 - She's disrespectful AF 4:34 - Lack of communication 5:35 - She's critical AF 6:32 - Love bombing 7:30 - Too flirty 8:19 - Unresolved past issues 9:18 - Lacks empathy Thanks. OG! If I may add an honorable mention, it would be to look for certain keywords. Example, if she is stating that you "can't handle" things, or suggesting something is "too tough" for you. These are trigger words to attempt to challenge you into manipulation. Example, I once dated a woman who I cut off after I learned she was very unstable and not independent. Long story short, she claimed she opened her heart and her world to me and understood if I "can't handle" her and it's "too tough" to be with her at her "low". However, she was expecting me to help her with her finances, moving out of her living situation, etc Keep your ears open for trigger words like that, Gentlemen. - and don't forget... easy come, easy go!
Good advice, man. When I was young, too often I'd brush off something a woman (hell, or anyone else) said, figuring it was better to judge people on their actions and not their words. After some disappointing relationships and friendships, I realized people were actually telling me everything I needed to know about them. The other thing I learned is that people often think that you will forget things they've said, and they often think you're not actually paying attention to the MEANING of what they're saying. Some people seem to go thru life BANKING on people not really paying attention to what they say
Another red flag is if she's super critical of, speaks highly negative of, disrespects and constantly gossips about her own friends and family behind their backs. Run like the wind my dudes
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being
If she is texting way tooo much while dating and is extremely picky about where you take her like " Cheesecake Factory" or "Starbucks" or "Shake Shack". Run!
I had a date who talked on the phone wayyyyyy-TOO-much during our date,but,getting tha-COOKIE-later on made-up for it tho. LOL. I asked her not to talk on the phone while out in public with each other ( she complied ) and we dated for a while.
Thank you. This is great content. As a woman I'm constantly making sure I check myself. One you left out was a woman with a foul mouth😮. Every word is a curse word. ❤
Great video! May I Add with regards to disrespect, this is very critical. WATCH how she treats her parents. Major red flag 🚩if she being disrespectful to her parents, run for the hills. I just sent this video to my nephew and told him to TAKE NOTES 📝! Once again thank you and great video O.G.
Not to mention the ones that want the newest and sophisticated cars that push the button when you start them. I’m just fine with my cars. I have a Honda, Camaro and a Corvette. 2003, 75 and 95 respectively.
You won't see this one early, but look out for it - Does she respect your honesty or does she punish you for it? Meaning, does she react to your honesty by trying to make you feel guilty, unreasonable or negative? AND at the same time, is she as honest and transparent to you?
Just broke up with a narcissist woman she did all these things i wish i learned better thank younso much for adressing all of this and im glad now i let that go and have the courage to live single again 😞🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Just called off my engagement because she would blame shift, silent treatment, reaction abuse, love bomb the sex was incredible though. She was a 9 yellow bone, fit and former HBCU homecoming queen
This video was about six months too late for me but glad I saw it today. She displayed all of these attributes. I saw it but ignored it six months later and $5000 down the drain. I’m single again.
I got love bombed by a woman I was engaging in something casual with and it freaked me out, so I just slid away from the situation and I don't regret that choice lol
If she isolates you from your friends and family by wanting to be with you ALL the time. Making you feel guilty for having them around. Also, I truly believe a mother knows when a woman is bad or good for you and if she makes you feel your mom is the enemy......... That is a big red flag.
Just like a good father can spot a sorry man with bad intentions for his daughter, a good mom can pick up "little things" from another woman most sons can't detect. Women are usually more intuitive and know if the lady you've chosen is sincere or just fake. But a good mother also gives you space to figure it out without trying to control you. 🎉
Jeff, these are all excellent red flags that all men should pay attention to, unfortunately, most of us won’t because we think we can fix it or it’s not that bad. We cannot fix it and it is that bad, if not bad now it will be very soon. Cheers.
I was dating a woman for 6month she was showering me with love. I thought I was a king . We talked about blending our kids she was love bombing me 2 weeks ago she ghosted me no response on why.
You weren’t the reason she ghosted you, it was something internal she has to deal with herself. It may be disappointing, but it wasn’t rejection, it was redirection on your part. It benefited you and also never let someone make you feel like a king, know you are one. Being a king is more of a mindset than status. Bless up
That's a solid list. Another red flag is excessive drinking or drug use. This really should go without saying but too many guys like the idea of that fun and crazy-in-a- "good way" girl attractive until they inevitably get a taste of that crazy-in-a-bad-way side of her.
My mother did everything that he mentioned yesterday, i just gave her the silent treatment. She said she more mad because i don't have nothing to say!😂
0:50 - Blame-Shift
1:51 - Disrespecting your boundaries
2:47 - She's negative AF
3:37 - She's disrespectful AF
4:34 - Lack of communication
5:35 - She's critical AF
6:32 - Love bombing
7:30 - Too flirty
8:19 - Unresolved past issues
9:18 - Lacks empathy
Thanks. OG!
If I may add an honorable mention, it would be to look for certain keywords. Example, if she is stating that you "can't handle" things, or suggesting something is "too tough" for you. These are trigger words to attempt to challenge you into manipulation.
Example, I once dated a woman who I cut off after I learned she was very unstable and not independent. Long story short, she claimed she opened her heart and her world to me and understood if I "can't handle" her and it's "too tough" to be with her at her "low".
However, she was expecting me to help her with her finances, moving out of her living situation, etc
Keep your ears open for trigger words like that, Gentlemen.
- and don't forget... easy come, easy go!
Preach!
Good advice, man. When I was young, too often I'd brush off something a woman (hell, or anyone else) said, figuring it was better to judge people on their actions and not their words. After some disappointing relationships and friendships, I realized people were actually telling me everything I needed to know about them. The other thing I learned is that people often think that you will forget things they've said, and they often think you're not actually paying attention to the MEANING of what they're saying. Some people seem to go thru life BANKING on people not really paying attention to what they say
Wonderful advice, and thanks for taking time to type this out for us Gents!
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THE LIST IS TOO SHORT
Lack of communication, then you get blamed for it.
Lacks gratitude is #1 for me. Someone who isn’t grateful for what they have and constantly wanting and complaining for more is a huge red flag.
Just remember that little lies become big lies
Indeed!
If the phrase "Yass, queen, yasss..." comes up in conversation, run. Run fast.
😂
Hilarious!
That is funny 😂😂😊
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Wild!
Another red flag is if she's super critical of, speaks highly negative of, disrespects and constantly gossips about her own friends and family behind their backs. Run like the wind my dudes
Agreed!
The silent treatment is what kills it for me. Time to put on my running shoes.
Run!
Yes! Ruuuun! Gooooo! Get to the chopper!! lol...
That and the lacking empathy. Very common these days due to sistahood training
@@JazzyJ5G😂
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This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back
Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being
Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.
Ruminating thoughts are a usual part of the grieving process. I suggest looking up ways to manage them or they can tare you apart.
33secs in and already know this is some fire 🔥 content
Thanks!
If she is texting way tooo much while dating and is extremely picky about where you take her like " Cheesecake Factory" or "Starbucks" or "Shake Shack". Run!
I had a date who talked on the phone wayyyyyy-TOO-much during our date,but,getting tha-COOKIE-later on made-up for it tho. LOL. I asked her not to talk on the phone while out in public with each other ( she complied ) and we dated for a while.
Maybe it's just me, but I believe when a women let's you know upfront that they're spoiled, that's a red flag. Something I learned from experience.
💯 facts! That reveals a sense of entitlement
Right. Believe people when they tell you who they are!
@@asiablackgrl6482 Amen!!
This content is gold, Jeff. Thank you, brother! ❤️🙏
My pleasure!
Thank you once again for putting us up on some good game! Definitely some need to know info in this video!
No worries!
Great video ! I’m 71 years old seen a lot of this over my life… that’s why I’m still single… I run 🏃 when I see these behaviors…
Thanks!
That’s the reason you lived to see 71. I tip my hat to you sir!
Thank you. This is great content. As a woman I'm constantly making sure I check myself. One you left out was a woman with a foul mouth😮. Every word is a curse word. ❤
Good point!
This entire video is about my ex-wife. If you meet a woman named Cheryl S. steer clear.
@@manue443 Man I should have believed you. How do I get rid of her??? 😭
Great points made... True facts spoken. 💯❤️Great job bro
Appreciate that Sis!
Facts 💯. Definitely worth listening and deeply appreciated.
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Another wonderful video. Great delivery awesome points! Real talk !
Thanks!
Thank you!
I look out for sociopathic behavior and how she treats her children. Bi-sexuality is a no for me as well. Great info as always. Thanks, O.G.
Great video! May I Add with regards to disrespect, this is very critical. WATCH how she treats her parents. Major red flag 🚩if she being disrespectful to her parents, run for the hills. I just sent this video to my nephew and told him to TAKE NOTES 📝! Once again thank you and great video O.G.
Personally, I also stay far away from women that overdue it with beauty products and designer clothing/accessories.
Not to mention the ones that want the newest and sophisticated cars that push the button when you start them. I’m just fine with my cars. I have a Honda, Camaro and a Corvette. 2003, 75 and 95 respectively.
Always on point OG 💯💪💪
Big up!
You won't see this one early, but look out for it - Does she respect your honesty or does she punish you for it? Meaning, does she react to your honesty by trying to make you feel guilty, unreasonable or negative? AND at the same time, is she as honest and transparent to you?
Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day
I ran for the hills 😅, very inspiring content, salute,O.G,saluute😅
Big up!
What’s good OG. Great tips as always.
Thanks Kevin!
You hit all major ones!!!
And trust me, there are many more.
This goes for both men and women and unlike most red flag vids is probably some of the best advice I've ever heard.
Great video, also would have liked some specific examples
Man, you are spot on. I’m currently going through this. Only I have a different name for it, and that’s narcissism.
Just broke up with a narcissist woman she did all these things i wish i learned better thank younso much for adressing all of this and im glad now i let that go and have the courage to live single again 😞🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
no problem!
@@TheStyleOG thank you sir for replying always appreciate your tips sir salute
That’s 100 I can see why there are so many single women. Single ladies listen to the O.G. and you might get somebody 👍🏾. Great video and salute
Salute!
Keep dropping these gems my guy!!
Will do!
So good OG. Thank you sir🔥🔥🔥
No problem!
Just called off my engagement because she would blame shift, silent treatment, reaction abuse, love bomb the sex was incredible though. She was a 9 yellow bone, fit and former HBCU homecoming queen
Wow!
She likely had plenty of practice in the sex department before she met you?
I just escaped an 8 year marriage to a 9. F*ck that. I’d rather have ended up with a 3 who knows how to be a human.
@TheStyleOG It's my fault I should have walked away sooner.
@@meme-zv7kw Had those cheeks slapped hard before she met you man?
Very informative information
Thanks Denise!
Excellent information sir!!!
Really enjoy your content
Happy to hear it!
Great video bro! Great point of your 10 red flags with a woman. Your breakdown of "Lack of communication I can definitely agree with. 💪🏾👊🏾
Salute!
Great video 👍🏿
Great video, Jeff!
Spot on Jeff! Same goes for (women dating men) 💯
Your blazer is 🔥🔥
This great video bruh
Thanks!
OG that coat is 🔥!! Salute Brother
Salute!
Brother your red flags points are valid, thank you!!!
Never allow hotness to excuse bad behavior. Blazin' sauce at Buffalo Wild Wing is hot too but it leaves you in pain and misery.
AGREED and well said.
Perfect analogy
Wow! Thanks for the shoutout. As always love the video.
No problem 👍
Great list. I use a few of these for the opposite sex. Spot on 👍🏾
Content much needed and we'll explained 👌🏾💯, been checking I'm for awhile and finally sub'd 🙌🏾
For Me It's Takes Fun, Respect, LOVE, Brains & Teamwork.
I'm feeling that jacket. Looks like I'd rock next spring.
ALL FACTS✔✔‼NO LIES DETECTED‼💯💯🎯
This video was about six months too late for me but glad I saw it today. She displayed all of these attributes. I saw it but ignored it six months later and $5000 down the drain. I’m single again.
What about constantly asking for a favor?
Appreciate you OG
Right back at ya!
I got love bombed by a woman I was engaging in something casual with and it freaked me out, so I just slid away from the situation and I don't regret that choice lol
Pay attention & Heed these warnings. It's okay to be single fellas.
If she isolates you from your friends and family by wanting to be with you ALL the time. Making you feel guilty for having them around. Also, I truly believe a mother knows when a woman is bad or good for you and if she makes you feel your mom is the enemy......... That is a big red flag.
BRUUUUH😂 I BEEN THERE
Just like a good father can spot a sorry man with bad intentions for his daughter, a good mom can pick up "little things" from another woman most sons can't detect. Women are usually more intuitive and know if the lady you've chosen is sincere or just fake. But a good mother also gives you space to figure it out without trying to control you. 🎉
Dude, PERFECT!!
That manipulation w/ gifts was a good one 🎯
Nice video 🔥
Thanks!
Excellent content 👌
Thanks!
@TheStyleOG you're welcome your content is always on point and true. I've learned a lot from your podcast
Jeff, these are all excellent red flags that all men should pay attention to, unfortunately, most of us won’t because we think we can fix it or it’s not that bad. We cannot fix it and it is that bad, if not bad now it will be very soon. Cheers.
I was dating a woman for 6month she was showering me with love. I thought I was a king . We talked about blending our kids she was love bombing me 2 weeks ago she ghosted me no response on why.
Wow!
You weren’t the reason she ghosted you, it was something internal she has to deal with herself. It may be disappointing, but it wasn’t rejection, it was redirection on your part. It benefited you and also never let someone make you feel like a king, know you are one. Being a king is more of a mindset than status. Bless up
You dodged a bullet, man. Any woman who would do that is seriously messed up and not worthy of more time with you. Good that it ended early.
Bless up 🙏🏾
Bless up!
That's a solid list. Another red flag is excessive drinking or drug use. This really should go without saying but too many guys like the idea of that fun and crazy-in-a- "good way" girl attractive until they inevitably get a taste of that crazy-in-a-bad-way side of her.
My mother did everything that he mentioned yesterday, i just gave her the silent treatment. She said she more mad because i don't have nothing to say!😂
Definitely had a few of these and they never worked out.
Just generally looking sloppy is a turn off
Great video
Thanks!
This is another awesome video... Thanks again, Jeff .🫡
Nice blazer, where did you get it from ?
So good. Makes me not want to bother with taking a woman seriously……
When she says...."It's Yours"...Major lie
well..
Salute! Preach it. I am a returning subscriber
Salute!
Thanks I’m a Widower and need the help getting back into the dating game
No problem!
I've got some trouble communicating with mine
If only this was uploaded back in March... 🐈 Was too good!
Salute!
Truth💯
RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Had a short relationship (the only one I had in my life) and she had all of these red flags. I never had another relationship in the years following
Are you enjoying the peace and quietness?
@@tyvillianheartthrob1856 absolutely
listen up guys he's spot on.
At 9:10...EXACTLY!
Salute Jeff
Salute!
My patience is razor thin OG. When I sense the presence of any of the 10 things you mentioned I move like Husan Bolt
What about a woman that only takes but only thing they have is pudding pie?
You did not leave out anything. I just hope that I can find a woman who checks all those boxes!
Jeff has described a NARCISSIST. "Don't use rubber. Rubber break. I know." -Chico Escuela
still talks to her ex boyfriends
Poor conflict resolution skills is a major red flag
Definitely stay away from women who thinks it's all about them. That's a sign that it's her way or the highway.
Indeed!
My last girlfriend had every single one of these red flags.
Damn true facts
Salute!
Gentlemen, this information outstrips all of The Style O.G's fashion tips that he has ever given. Oay attention. Watch and observe!
1:46 Take # 1 seriously Style O.G. eyes got huge 👀
thxs og
LOVE the suit! A+++++
Someone who says “I’m doing me” is a red flag not to date. We can be friends but can’t date you.