Bro I was about to type this one. No BS. Lol. I was about to say, as I get older the less patience I have for BS/drama. Ok I’m not alone. Edit!! Lol if you’re the real Calabrese, then who am I? That’s literally my last name bro. We related or something? They sure don’t make them like our mothers and nonna’s anymore.
As a man who just turned 40 back in the summer, I have done a lot of reflection. One of the things I occasionally pondering about is I wish my “EQ” (Emotional Intelligence) and discernment was as high now as back in my 20s. I have lost many opportunities over the years due to imploding and overreacting to situations. The most notable being not getting a possible NFL tryout due to not always being coachable and losing out on a having a potential family and life with my college sweetheart resulting from my insecurities and anger. You live and for some of us definitely learn.
Its absolutely amazing how true this is. When i was in my 20s and 30s, i always attracted older women as I was seen as mature for my age by them but now that im in my 50s, the script has flipped as I attract much younger women than I do of those my own age or older and dare i say, more women on a whole now rhan i did when I was younger.
I almost packed my numbered baseball tshirt for a workout and opted for the Adidas atire instead. This is a casual weekend environment though there are business connections that will be present. Your videos gave me that reminder as I considered my decision. Thanks Jeff!
Bro speaks facts. I’ll be 64 in a few months. I went to a show by myself this past Saturday. Two very attractive women, 32 and 33 years old were seated next to me. Both were sending very deliberate signals my way. I’m not bragging but this happens at work, in the grocery store- wherever. I have dated women 20 years younger, but 30 years? Hmmmm
I've always dated women 10 years younger because I stay in shape and don't look my age. I guess it doesn't hurt that I'm educated, successful, own property, no kids, and drama free. I think the commonality with the women I date is that they're looking for someone who has their stuff together. It's different when a woman is looking for a solid black man, because the dating pool is small. And of course, the quality of the woman must reciprocate.
I can’t be mad at what you said because it’s true. But man I can’t help but feel like a failure and unworthy. I’m 27 years old and I promise I’m very ambitious and goal driven but it’s like I can’t figure out what I really want to do career wise in life. I still stay with my mom, broke, and just feel lost. I’m really trying and what you said makes me wonder why some women probably wouldn’t want a guy like me because I’m not financially there or have a career. I hope that I find my path soon man. I’m just tired
You're only 27. When I was 27, I had been kicked out of college twice for behavioral issues. Black colleges at that. I got my act together when I was about that age, went back and completed undergrad in my 30's, and law school after that. I put myself on a 10 year plan, outlining what I wanted to accomplish over that period. I wish I could say the hardest part of that journey was staying away from former bad influences, but I'm from NYC and all my dudes were locked up or drugged out. So, I just focused and did my thing. My word of advice is find something you sincerely enjoy and build a career. Avoid random jobs. Focus on a career and accumulating money. You're young, but don't take that for granted much longer.
@ man I really appreciate you taking the time to respond to me. Your story is really inspiring and I’m really trying my best to not take being young for granted. I live in fear just about everyday because ik this is not my destiny to live this way. I’m really am trying though man. Ik im meant to be more. But thanks for clarifying that im still young
No one is coming to save you. As the respondent above mentioned think about what you are interested in and what the world finds valuable and diverse in. Be specialized, be adaptable and be special ( there is only one you).
@@LoneWolfe_XX Stay on your grind, but you have to think smart. Identify the pros and cons in your life and eliminate and add as you see best. You have good in you, particularly as you’re willing to address your concerns. If you feel that you need mentoring, reach out to those in your immediate location who can help; even if that means exiting your comfort zone to stand among real men. When you feel isolated, that’s an indication that you require support.
_As a 22 yr of age man, me and my friends of the same age always considered ppl age 25+ as "older"._ _So what do you mean by "older guys"?..._ _25+? 35+? 50+? 80+? Different ppl have different opinions ...I'm just trying to understand what you mean by "older guys"?_
Og I need advice , I’m a smaller dude so women tend to be rude dismissive only want to sleep with me at times but nothing serious I’m getting older all the women my age have multiple kids these young girls in they twenties be on me a little but I don’t like / not use to dating younger . I’m stuck In between trying to find a needle in haystack of the 30 plus women without kids ,and stuck in between should I just take on some of these younger chicks 🤷🏽♂️😩😩
There's pros and cons with dating younger women. I'm 59 and my lady's having hormonal problems. She's 43. Her daughter is so seductive and keeps sending me mixed signals. But I'm using my discipline but it's hard. What I'm trying to say is be patient, watch the signs and use your best judgement brother
See, we are high value, so brothers don’t sell yourself short. Take your time to find a worthy woman who matches your worth, and stay away from the delusional gold digging women we see daily. Cheers.
If you are dating a much younger woman it’s best not to impede her progress. More than likely you’ve had lots of relationships maybe a couple ex wives and a few kids. Enjoy the time with her but let her go when the time comes.
As I've gotten older, my enjoyment and tolerance for BS and drama has gone away.
Bro I was about to type this one. No BS. Lol. I was about to say, as I get older the less patience I have for BS/drama. Ok I’m not alone.
Edit!! Lol if you’re the real Calabrese, then who am I? That’s literally my last name bro. We related or something?
They sure don’t make them like our mothers and nonna’s anymore.
Consistency is another trait. Plus we don’t smell like weed. 😂
HA!
Facts 😂
Lol. Yeah we used to smell like weed when we were younger. But now we smell more like Aqua Di Gio Profumo....✌
Speak for yourself 😂
0:49 STABILITY
1:43 LIFE EXPERIENCE
2:41 MATURITY
3:34 REFINED SENSE OF STYLE
4:27 STRONG VALUES
5:27 FAMILY ORIENTED
6:24 EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
7:19 COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY
8:25 MORE PATIENCE
9:17 MENTORSHIP/GUIDANCE
10:05 CONFIDENCE
As a man who just turned 40 back in the summer, I have done a lot of reflection. One of the things I occasionally pondering about is I wish my “EQ” (Emotional Intelligence) and discernment was as high now as back in my 20s. I have lost many opportunities over the years due to imploding and overreacting to situations. The most notable being not getting a possible NFL tryout due to not always being coachable and losing out on a having a potential family and life with my college sweetheart resulting from my insecurities and anger. You live and for some of us definitely learn.
Respect! You are on your way to greater than you can imagine.
Kevin Samuel put me on to this dude, great brother with a great channel
600,000 subscribers is dope. U definitely deserve 1 million. Great content/advice. Salute 🫡
Appreciate that! 💯
We all know where the term sugar daddy comes from. You catch more bees with honey. 😁. Great video and salute.
Appreciate that!
Hand down bro you nail this 💯excellent job. You nailed it🎯
Its absolutely amazing how true this is. When i was in my 20s and 30s, i always attracted older women as I was seen as mature for my age by them but now that im in my 50s, the script has flipped as I attract much younger women than I do of those my own age or older and dare i say, more women on a whole now rhan i did when I was younger.
Same here!!
Hey Style OG! Are you Prior Service? U give me Drill Sergeant/ T.I. Vibes
Strong values 💰 🥰
Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day
Thanks! You too!
Thanks!
No problem!
I almost packed my numbered baseball tshirt for a workout and opted for the Adidas atire instead.
This is a casual weekend environment though there are business connections that will be present. Your videos gave me that reminder as I considered my decision. Thanks Jeff!
That jacket! Very nice 👍🏼
I'm 10 years older than my wife she's 43 and I'm 53 but you couldn't tell unless you no us
Salute! Crazy editing
Salute!
Confidence and maturity I'm working on constantly. Great stuff sir. Helps me to improve as a man in his 30s 👑👑👑👑
Sounds like you’re on the right path!
Means a lot coming from the legendary @TheStyleOG 😭🙏🏾😭🙏🏾
@TheStyleOG thank you sir. Means a lot
Nice jacket 👌.. Hands down, all your points are solid . Excellent video.. Salute 🫡
Bobby B checking in ✊🏾
I am seeing a rise in this trend. Women in their 20’s going for men in their 40’s and 50’s.
Bro speaks facts. I’ll be 64 in a few months. I went to a show by myself this past Saturday. Two very attractive women, 32 and 33 years old were seated next to me. Both were sending very deliberate signals my way. I’m not bragging but this happens at work, in the grocery store- wherever. I have dated women 20 years younger, but 30 years? Hmmmm
Massaging the mind gets them all the time. Gaining access to the young lady.
Older guys should have that consistency and stability, but also some life and love skills.
maturity!!! salute
Salute!
Great video, OG!
I've always dated women 10 years younger because I stay in shape and don't look my age. I guess it doesn't hurt that I'm educated, successful, own property, no kids, and drama free. I think the commonality with the women I date is that they're looking for someone who has their stuff together. It's different when a woman is looking for a solid black man, because the dating pool is small. And of course, the quality of the woman must reciprocate.
True 👍👍👍👍👍
Salute brother, keep us focused and on point. I appreciate you, fam.
Thanks fam!
We have the Experience and the excellent Core Values!
indeed!
All of this is true. Unfortunately, it is all predicated on her being aware he’s in the room. Typically they completely ignore us. 😒
Sounds good to me.
in my 20s I fancied women in their early to mid 30s, now nearly 50. It hasn't changed ;)
Where's the background music?
Another awesome video, Style OG! I love how articulate you speak and the pea coat that you have on is 🔥 🔥. Where did you get the jacket from?
Suitsupply
as long as you have , body in good proportion ,, and are or look rich ,,
At the moment I’ve got a lady that’s 10yrs younger than myself. She been giving me a run for my money, to say the least!
I can’t be mad at what you said because it’s true. But man I can’t help but feel like a failure and unworthy. I’m 27 years old and I promise I’m very ambitious and goal driven but it’s like I can’t figure out what I really want to do career wise in life. I still stay with my mom, broke, and just feel lost. I’m really trying and what you said makes me wonder why some women probably wouldn’t want a guy like me because I’m not financially there or have a career. I hope that I find my path soon man. I’m just tired
You're only 27. When I was 27, I had been kicked out of college twice for behavioral issues. Black colleges at that. I got my act together when I was about that age, went back and completed undergrad in my 30's, and law school after that. I put myself on a 10 year plan, outlining what I wanted to accomplish over that period. I wish I could say the hardest part of that journey was staying away from former bad influences, but I'm from NYC and all my dudes were locked up or drugged out. So, I just focused and did my thing. My word of advice is find something you sincerely enjoy and build a career. Avoid random jobs. Focus on a career and accumulating money. You're young, but don't take that for granted much longer.
@ man I really appreciate you taking the time to respond to me. Your story is really inspiring and I’m really trying my best to not take being young for granted. I live in fear just about everyday because ik this is not my destiny to live this way. I’m really am trying though man. Ik im meant to be more. But thanks for clarifying that im still young
No one is coming to save you. As the respondent above mentioned think about what you are interested in and what the world finds valuable and diverse in. Be specialized, be adaptable and be special ( there is only one you).
@@terranceware4627 yea that’s true. I’m going to try hard and find it man
@@LoneWolfe_XX Stay on your grind, but you have to think smart. Identify the pros and cons in your life and eliminate and add as you see best. You have good in you, particularly as you’re willing to address your concerns. If you feel that you need mentoring, reach out to those in your immediate location who can help; even if that means exiting your comfort zone to stand among real men. When you feel isolated, that’s an indication that you require support.
Style OG What brand of jackets do you wear in these videos? They are smooth 😎
Women love classy men and appreciate some style.
For me it doesn’t happen much ,,,most don’t like my goodvibe personally
This could easily be “11 reasons I’m still married!”
_As a 22 yr of age man, me and my friends of the same age always considered ppl age 25+ as "older"._
_So what do you mean by "older guys"?..._
_25+? 35+? 50+? 80+? Different ppl have different opinions ...I'm just trying to understand what you mean by "older guys"?_
Here in the UK women love gay guys. Is it not like that in the USA?
For some odd reason I thought the title was "11 reasons men love older women" (i have to cut down on the coffee) .
Salute
Salute!
💪🏾😎
Og I need advice , I’m a smaller dude so women tend to be rude dismissive only want to sleep with me at times but nothing serious I’m getting older all the women my age have multiple kids these young girls in they twenties be on me a little but I don’t like / not use to dating younger . I’m stuck In between trying to find a needle in haystack of the 30 plus women without kids ,and stuck in between should I just take on some of these younger chicks 🤷🏽♂️😩😩
There's pros and cons with dating younger women. I'm 59 and my lady's having hormonal problems. She's 43. Her daughter is so seductive and keeps sending me mixed signals. But I'm using my discipline but it's hard. What I'm trying to say is be patient, watch the signs and use your best judgement brother
@ 💯💯💪🏽
1 reason money
Money x 11.
I am 78 years old and fiancé is 30 years old
Slow hand remember that
Reasons 1-11 Money
What makes older men attractive to women.. money...
it's usually the guys without money or women who think its because they don't have money, they don't have women...not saying that's you of course!
@@TheStyleOGunless you come across a girl who flat out tells you that it's about money
@TheStyleOG o.k
never had that problem Playboy..
@@TheStyleOG well we all can't be as fortunate as you
😊😊❤❤🎉🎉💯💯 🫡🫡!
Well,for your wallet though !!
Bingo
i've never had that issue, so I guess I've never attracted that kind of woman...I've been broke and well off and it's never been much of a difference
@TheStyleOG Good luck with that!
See, we are high value, so brothers don’t sell yourself short. Take your time to find a worthy woman who matches your worth, and stay away from the delusional gold digging women we see daily. Cheers.
Um... actually, women don't
If you are dating a much younger woman it’s best not to impede her progress. More than likely you’ve had lots of relationships maybe a couple ex wives and a few kids. Enjoy the time with her but let her go when the time comes.
My guy are you a male feminist or something? Chill out, 😂😂
@ Nope just have a lot of options when it comes to women. Nice to keep them for a while but no long term commitment. Having just one is no fun
At the moment I’ve got a lady that’s 10yrs younger than myself. She been giving me a run for my money, to say the least!