What to do when he's not in the mood | Explains Pallavi Barnwal

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  • Men face a lot of pressure from society related to their sex drive. In this video, certified sex coach, Pallavi Barnwal (@pallavibarnwal1) discusses what could be the reasons for avoidance of sex in male partners.
    Discussed in this video:
    → Should men be pressured to always be ready for sex?
    → Is an erection related to emotional health?
    → Do distractions cause men to avoid sex?
    → How does stress affect sex drive?
    → Can medications affect sex drive?
    → How important is sex education for better sexual health?
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ความคิดเห็น • 88

  • @Chandankumar-lc4yz
    @Chandankumar-lc4yz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Singles Are Watching for Knowledge 😎

  • @aarohi.5272
    @aarohi.5272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I am not an expert But I think If He is not in mood then better Leave him alone for sometime and talk to him later,
    It's not Only about being impotent, there might be other reasons too, work pressure is also a real thing.

    • @TheH7hunk
      @TheH7hunk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't use word impotent.

    • @ashimpalak9974
      @ashimpalak9974 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In modern times we have so much knowledge about sex but how our sex life is in jeopardy? However, in the olden days, people had no knowledge of sex but they were sexualy satisfied. So we have to ask what olden days people did and what modern days people do not do or lack?.
      It is mutual consent. It means both have to look after the sexual needs of each other and happiness of each other. Yes, for the husband may want sex another wife is not in the mood or another way around, sometimes the wife wants sex but the husband does not. It goes likewise. Therefore, for the sake of the happiness of the husband, a wife should be able to make herself available and likewise when a wife wants the husband makes himself available. Thus, both make available for the good and happiness of others then a married life becomes enjoyable. Because always for some reason one would be not in the mood then other have to be always waiting. Thus, today woman is not moody and tomorrow man is not in a mood and likewise and it will go on and on. Then either one would begin to feel that if I would had someone who is understanding and willing.

    • @mohammedriazahmed2120
      @mohammedriazahmed2120 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashimpalak9974 agreed what u told is true,,,,,but I'm confused ru male or female and married or single ,,,,plz reply I need ur help

  • @ultimate6243
    @ultimate6243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    What about consent of Men?
    Why only men are supposed take consent and not vice-versa?
    If Women refused to have sex then it her choice but if men refused to have sex then it's a medical problem.
    Why so much double standards?

    • @aaryangupta6865
      @aaryangupta6865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      U r right ✅ 😌

    • @arunbeckham8384
      @arunbeckham8384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      🤣😂what I do you know. I laugh at these channels mate. They tthink that males are always sexually active as if they are sexual robots. This channel is hilarious you know.

    • @modernman1240
      @modernman1240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fact of life: Women dont give a sheeaat abt men. Period.
      Take it or leave it.

    • @mogleesh-22
      @mogleesh-22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@modernman1240 I will take it.
      VVomen really don't give shit. Either man live, rot or die.

    • @jaydutta7711
      @jaydutta7711 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@modernman1240 ये झूठ बोल रहा है।

  • @soumyadipdey6531
    @soumyadipdey6531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Consent of a MAN is equally important my dear woke youtube channel...

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      India don't burn dead body not allowed

  • @user-rf6ju2tz8y
    @user-rf6ju2tz8y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Everything is presented very beautifully and positively. Just wanted to know that does consent matter in cases of male partners as well? Like if the same question would be there about how get a change in girls mood to have sex? Then it would be seen as how to convince or rather force a girl to have sex and the reply will be given with consent in the first priority and concept of consent will be explained. Your channel is really informative and interesting but I think you could have used the word consent in this video as well although you do have displayed your points regarding this but in indirect way. I'm a regular viewer of the videos uploaded on your channel and well aware of the quality content you people provide and also I'm a huge fan of your channel but just giving you a suggestion about it.

    • @vedikajoshi1410
      @vedikajoshi1410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Your point is correct, and it's put across respectfully. People like you make a change. Thank you

    • @magneticfield2318
      @magneticfield2318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This channel is bullshit feminist. Don't believe that they will favour men in any situation. They need to spread their false propoganda.

    • @feminismmyfootjusticeforin1533
      @feminismmyfootjusticeforin1533 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't expect equality from a feminist channel they talk of us as if we are a sex robot

    • @LoveYourself-my9nz
      @LoveYourself-my9nz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think in their videos they always talk about that consent work from both sides. Most of the times women don't really force themselves onto their partners though. But yeah they should have talked about it in this video.

    • @LoveYourself-my9nz
      @LoveYourself-my9nz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@feminismmyfootjusticeforin1533 nobody thinks men as a sex robot. It's just that even you know the reason that how most of the men act desperate or just ask or message girls to have sex and nothing. Why don't you blame those kind of men who are the real problem here.

  • @vilakkattulife295
    @vilakkattulife295 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very informative. People don't understand the importance of this topic. It is sad that most of us don't understand how sex drive works in our partner of opposite gender. We have not reached that maturity unfortunately.

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      India don't burn dead body not allowed

  • @pragativarsha3479
    @pragativarsha3479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It was informative... Gud intiative by the team... Thnq

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      India don't burn dead body not allowed

  • @tarusheemehra6191
    @tarusheemehra6191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The most click-baitey title ever! Really draws away from the conversation the speaker is trying to have about open communication, seeking help and understanding your partner's emotions before, during and after a sexual act. Do better @shethepeople!

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      India don't burn dead body not allowed

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@arora.akshay2312-Delhidog not allowed ect

  • @tani6071
    @tani6071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    leave him alone.

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      India don't burn dead body not allowed

  • @chinmayshekhar530
    @chinmayshekhar530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Apply for divorce on the ground of impotency of husband and enjoy maintenance for life.

    • @ultimate6243
      @ultimate6243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      If men have sex then it's marital rape.
      If men don't have sex then the man is impotent.
      In both cases women get lifetime Maintainance/Alimony.
      Marital laws are tool of extortion.

    • @feminismmyfootjusticeforin1533
      @feminismmyfootjusticeforin1533 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Along with alimony

    • @LoveYourself-my9nz
      @LoveYourself-my9nz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Because people have right to not live in sexless marriage. And why alimony given to women you should know that. And it's not enough for living for anyone. If somebody's impotent and they marry someone without telling them their conditions is wrong. Isn't it? So you simply ruined somebody life even knowing that you can't have sex and satisfy your partner needs and then shaming women for leaving you. Who is the real hypocrite here? Who is doing victim blaming? Divorce affect both sides but if you have lied then you deserved it not the person who got betrayed.
      Why are men like you are so full of hate and ignorant??

    • @LoveYourself-my9nz
      @LoveYourself-my9nz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ultimate6243 men have sex is not marital rape, men having sex without consent forcefully raping their own wives is marital rape. The things you are trying to compare is just so different not related to each other even a bit.
      Why?? A man who respect women respect his wife will never do that. So why are you angry about marital rape... they both are different ...

    • @feminismmyfootjusticeforin1533
      @feminismmyfootjusticeforin1533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Des Adrian ignore them they are not worth a reply they are brainwashed by feminist channel

  • @amitpaul6120
    @amitpaul6120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    How about just leave him alone. This channel is continuously spreading misinformation about men's health & male anatomy.

    • @feminismmyfootjusticeforin1533
      @feminismmyfootjusticeforin1533 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True bro

    • @LoveYourself-my9nz
      @LoveYourself-my9nz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They are sex educater you know. Of course it depend on the reaction and the situation and yeah even you try too make the mood and they say no then you should leave. But as a partner think that how many times you would not feel doing it or your partner not feel like doing it. Try to make the mood doesn't mean forcing you do it it simply like seducing or partner and simply doing thing which can make them feel like doing it also.

    • @jaydutta7711
      @jaydutta7711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LoveYourself-my9nz The marriage is not only about séx you ignorant. 🤦🏻‍♂️ Sexual pleasure is not the only criteria of marriage. The marriage means the *union* of two souls and body where sex is just a small part of it apart from the LOYALTY and romance. The women who dump men just because of physical incompetence and lack of sexual satisfaction, are nothing but a bunch of próstítutes, bro. So don't take them seriously.

  • @mahfuzamaisha2213
    @mahfuzamaisha2213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The title ruined an otherwise really good informative and understanding video. Really hope shethepeople will change the title for this and represent this properly
    Though many more people are clicking on it exactly for the title, it was only because i watched it to the end that i didn't just post a hate comment. You all should be more considerate taking into account the already divisive nature of such content.
    P.S. for the people who didn't watch the video, this video is not about how to convince your partner, it tells you the various reasons as to why they may not be interested including the fact that men are not always up to have sex whenever and wherever as is expected or thought of in our society. It could still include a small conversation on consent for further improvement but i liked the speaker's manner of speech nonetheless.

  • @MICROVISIONDETECTIONS
    @MICROVISIONDETECTIONS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Emotional attachments are more important ! microMan 😎

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Suicide not allowed

  • @NobyAli-vv2rq
    @NobyAli-vv2rq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    some girls have always stagnant in doing sex...and some men also similar..try to exchange and have a better life..

  • @dialga7777
    @dialga7777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yeh kaisa title hai?
    Cringe

  • @manyasharma3674
    @manyasharma3674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Most people are complaining about women taking advantage of the laws and criticizing the video for it.The video is about understanding and supporting male partner. As for the consent, helping to create mood is not the same as violating consent. Most of these suggestion also apply for female partner. So I do not see any issue with the video. I guess these people will be satisfied they they make a video on "what to do when she is not in the mood"

    • @ultimate6243
      @ultimate6243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      No means No.
      It equally apply on both Gender.
      The whole video is about "Victim blaming".
      When a woman deny sex it's her choice but when a man deny sex it's a medical problem. Is it not double standard?

    • @feminismmyfootjusticeforin1533
      @feminismmyfootjusticeforin1533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow ur feminist hypocracy is exposed by your comment

    • @LoveYourself-my9nz
      @LoveYourself-my9nz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ultimate6243 who told you that when man deny having sex it's medical condition. That's totally wrong. And like this commenter had said this applies to both sides. Your partner or you are not always in the mood at the same time. And they have or you have right to say no. But it doen't mean that you can't try to make the mood. You don't just go and have sex with your partner you talk or do other to make the mood but even after that they say no then we should respect that decision.
      You know what people like you always say feminist hate men but feminist don't hate men. They just want respect and love from their partners which most of them not receive. You are the one who hates women whatever they do people like you just find reason to hate them. Get out of it ... you will feel happy and the women too.

    • @LoveYourself-my9nz
      @LoveYourself-my9nz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@feminismmyfootjusticeforin1533 and can you tell us what hypocrisy you are talking about please tell us.

    • @UncleIndiaTV
      @UncleIndiaTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most Men Always Ready to connect the gap of Enlightenment Nirvana Secretly Experience Say's to connect on.

  • @sarfrajkhan9215
    @sarfrajkhan9215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That's Awesome 👍🏻

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      India don't burn dead body not allowed

  • @eternitythehero6300
    @eternitythehero6300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    BramhaCharya aphna Lo 🙂

  • @mohdaleem8572
    @mohdaleem8572 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shukriya bhena(sister) ,

  • @hitteshnial6969
    @hitteshnial6969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bilkul mam men ka vi hamesha mood nahi hota.

  • @attitude4989
    @attitude4989 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    please make a playlist of your videos

  • @praveenbalan7655
    @praveenbalan7655 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why woman are reluctant to take the initiative? It is not always the men need it all the time women are just giving consent.

  • @surendarkumaragarwal2689
    @surendarkumaragarwal2689 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice 👍🏿

  • @KpxUrz5745
    @KpxUrz5745 ปีที่แล้ว

    I did not watch this, but I'm sorry, my eyebrows went up in the air just reading the title. Seriously, I have never imagined such a concept. HOWEVER, nearly all men are thinking, "No! The question should be what to do when SHE'S not in the mood!"

  • @cinemaholic1528
    @cinemaholic1528 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What's wrong in sexless marriage

    • @AnilQuad
      @AnilQuad ปีที่แล้ว

      What if one partner wants it and other one doesn't?

  • @DurgaPrasad-fo9iu
    @DurgaPrasad-fo9iu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Could you please tell about nofap??

  • @ashimpalak9974
    @ashimpalak9974 ปีที่แล้ว

    You women have vilified men as having toxic masculinity. And now when men do not have a mood or interest in sex. Then, again women will say he is impotent to humiliate him more. Thus, sex for men is a dangerous path to go on because women can accuse men mercilessly when it comes to sex offences and put them in great trouble. Men want none of that foolishness but rather live in peace. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @jayendrasingh2810
    @jayendrasingh2810 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nhi h nhi h mood

  • @user-fl5jo4nx2f
    @user-fl5jo4nx2f 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @rogerleasor4242
    @rogerleasor4242 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pull rank and make him stand at attention

  • @heisenberg86072
    @heisenberg86072 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aisa ho skta h bhla 😀