Let’s be honest, we all messed up, we all searched similar things, we watched this vid in our rooms alone thinking about everything. Hey, your not alone everything will be fine no matter how tough it is your family.
dub ledbetter me too, I keep watching yt at night and sometimes I fall asleep with it and my dad comes and sees that the phone was in my bed so he knows I’ve been using it so he banned it once and he’s gonna ask me again y I was using my phone last time I said that it fell on the floor and my brother picked it up and put it on my bed now idk what I’m gonna do 😭
I bleached my hair from dark brown (keep in mind I'm 13) to strawberry blonde my parents hadn't talked to me In 5 days I've tried to say I'm sorry and I love you loads of times and it hurts they won't eve n say I love you back
Sacrifice and blindly attempting will show them. Do what they want you to do without asking. In time they will see you do care and they will as they have always cared. We parents get sick of bending over backwards to then get slapped in the face. It hurts even worse then when they hurt you. To sacrifice all for a child and then get hurt by that child is an experience you will have to just experience to understand.
Sometimes I feel like i was the main cause of destruction in my family. I feel like I ruined their lives just by being myself. I'll bet they wish I was never born
I will try this, i messed up and lied to my parents about me drinking and my mom is really mad, im in my bedroom and downstairs my mom and little sister sounds happy talking to each other :(
this is literally my exact story. I feel you 100%. I was lying about drinking and sneaking out. my mom hasn't spoken a word to me in a week and rubs it in my face that she cares about my little brothers:/
Same for me!They talk about a world that will be peaceful but when you see their actions its total opposite from what religion it's suppose to send as a message
Well me too, they do the opposite of what they say. I don't know what to do. Can never decide for myself n I'm always stuck between what is right n what they think is right.
i just messed up everything and i wanna just cry all day, that's what im doing, like.. 4 years its the same things im just too tired lol im thinking again of giving up but idk
I woke up an hour late for online school, I'm failing 3 classes, my mental health is in shreds, I'm mourning the loss of my pet rats, and I think I'm legit not vibing lmao. i'll be ok just dayummmmm i made a mess of things. this really helped, love, thank you!
I am a parent and I approve your message!!!!! I was actually trying to find videos on rebuilding trust for kids for my child to learn about rebuilding trust, and came across your video. Thanks!!!!
@@user-mv2rq6nk5w I am trying to be one that is present and whose kid can trust them to come to them and give them the support and discipline and the foundation they need. It ain't easy but I am trying.
@@mooret212 Today mom death threats me haha 😄 Bwt you are good mom please be good to your child specially in teenage years AGAIN I WISH I WISH MY MOM WOULD BE A GOOD ONE
It has been 3 months and my mom still doesn't trust me, I've done everything to gain it back and I stopped getting sent to the principles office in school and stopped being rude to teachers and my mom but nothing has worked.
This is so me right now, I lied to my parents about my grades and they are not even upset about the grades, that are upset about the fact that I lied. Now they actually hate me.
See that's the problem. Parents aren't supposed to hate us. They are supposed to love us and support us, make us understand our mistakes in a better way than scolding and mistrust.
Parent's perspective: Three daughters, and right now one is having a very hard time. Dean's list, to "I don't know if she's even going to graduate" bad. Sneaking out, stealing my car (before and after getting her license), drugs, lying... Lying as often and easily as she breathes. You may feel like they hate you, or think you're the worst teenager in the world, but this is NOT true. We're human, we have emotions, and we are sometimes angry, sometimes even say stuff we regret... but there is always love and just wanting to see you be happy and kind to others. Mostly, we just are hurting because we are watching the person(s) we love most in our life, having a hard time. All great advice! I love it! I would add, "Learn how to apologize sincerely". Say "I'm sorry. I know what I did was wrong *because*. What can I do to make it better?" And then follow through on making it better.
My mom. Makes my clean the whole house every day me and my little sister my older sister and brother are on the phone never help so i start telling mom she says leave them alone and jf i just dont do the house she will yell at me and not talk to me until i opplgize i miss my old mom
I need this to work I having been sneaking out and my mom finally caught me and of course she catches when I'm going to the hugest party of the year I've messed up before by having to call her when the cops came to a party once and she needed to pick me up and another when I was in a minor car crash and since I was a minor they had to take me to the hospital because I refused to call my mom but in the end she had to pick me up I just don't wanna miss out on anything I wanna have fun
I live with my grandma and she is in ways abusive so I tell the authorities and they came and didn't do anything so my grandma says she will never regain my trust
This is not your fault she is abusive and say to a teacher or a adult and if you are old enough stay out of the house until she sleeps then come back and work to own an apartment and live away from her
As a parent, coming here and seeing the comments of kids who are in trouble is hilarious! I agree that kids who've lost some favor should stay out of our way. We're upset and its going to take some time before we want to, or are able to, deal with you in a meaningful way. The only real way you can make it up to us is by wanting to change yourself, and not for us, but for yourself. When you finally come to talk to us, you better be coming correct and willing to put all of your cards on the table. Its a HARD road to earn back broken trust. Sometimes it takes months, even years, to fully regain our trust depending on what you did and how reasonable we are. Don't expect it to come easily.
I lied about my marks and they've been heartbroken ever since ... They say "they can't face the world anymore" ... My father is a respectful man giving advice to everyone but now I made him say "I don't think I can give advice to anyone if my own kid is like this" ... They say "you think we don't love you'' ... They say alot of stuff right now ... Please tell me it will okay? Someday?
thank u so much....i've been crying for like 2 nights bc my dad found out that i have guy friends not even date them .....and my dad is rlly mad like rlly rlly mad
@@Throwaway-lm2fm just stay quiet and don’t reply back and try to “change” for them. Be more respectful for example or see what they don’t like on you and change it. You can still talk to guys but just put limits and honestly done even date someone. And if you want you can have guy friends but just be a little careful and not let someone knows about it
if anyone is here right, my mom caught be cursing a lot. My mom and i used to have such a good relationship. But i’m honestly getting more mature and she isnt understanding and excepting that. My mom is slowly tearing me apart to the point i’ve had bad thoughts and thought about running away, i’m having a panic attack because she’s gonna check my phone tomorrow.
Everything we all have in our minds "I miss my old mom" She was so nice to me when I was seven but now I didn't even do an apology right even tho I tried my best 😒😒I think apologies might be my worst enemy
The thing is ... When i get my dads trust back, i always loose it. He always thinks im sneeking out with boys and im giing to do bad stuff but im gay and i cant talk to him about it . Theirs no way i can! What do i do ? Just leave it be and let him think what he wants or come out ?
My dad caught me lying this morning!! And the scenario was so disgusting for me. It never happened with me before. I can sense that he's really hurt , he didn't scold me or anything, he just said " I never raised you to lie to me ", ouch !!!
My parents literally took my phone away cause I was using it in the bathroom 😭😭 I lie a lot but about the smallest things like doing homework or doing my chores and whenever they catch me they make it like it’s the end of the world sometimes I wish I could just stay with my aunt.
I'm just here because I lied about studying in karate and I messed up so bad and my Dad said he can never trust me becuase I lie so much. I hope it changes when I'm older...
im so gald that i found this vid...i messed up really really badly..my mother is a single mother and she told my father...they both dont trust me..they trust me cause im their daughter..but they dont fully trust me...but again im very grateful that i found this vid..thank u so much...😖😔👍🏽
I talked back to my dad and yup now i just feel bad cuz he told me not to ask for anything neither talk to him don’t tell him happy fathers day at all or give him anything and now i regret it really bad 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Hey! I really appreciate this! Im so scared that my parents will never trust me again! They can be kinda dramatic and they can get so angry sometimes! I will try this and see how it works out! 😬 once again, *thank you*
Well the problem is i sent a nude to a guy i was dating, i know it wasnt right but my mom was so so upset i cant even look at her nor speak to her to the point she dont trusy me no more. 😢i dont know what to do i love my mom so much but i wanna get her to trust me again
Lia that happened to me but just so you know she still loves you and if you are just good and don't do anything like that again hopefully most likely she'll trust you again
Lia your not alone even me my mom dont trust me also i've tried all my best to be trust but she always make me remember of my past when infact im now different but for her im not.
I'm never able to do this. I'm a dumbass and always work super hard to gain their trust back and right when they're almost able to trust me again, they'll say no to something and I sneak out, and I have to start all over LOL D':
thank you so much I got grounded for 2 weeks for not going to school but I convinced her I would never do it again and so she ungrounded me. Thanks so much once again.
i postes an instagram picture of me in the bath fully clothed, and my mum cant look at me, she called me a whore, and says now i look like im slitting my wrists and my dad doesnt look at me the same, and my austies and cousins are talking bad about me, and i really regret posting that picture, its now destroyed my confidence and the tinies happyness i have
Thank you so. Much for this. Its so helpful. I just messed Everything up so bad and im going to do whatever you said. Thank u again. Ill make sure to let you know how it went. ❤️❤️
thank you so much for the advice, i wish i can find more videos like this. My mom find out that i was dating a guy...(she doesn't let me have on) i lost my second chance... im really sad cause she never had trust on me. She never let me have to prove her that im responsible.. maybe cause im her only child, and she doesn't want anything bad happen to me. thank you once agin. and please i will appreciate if you make more videos like this.
My aunt thinks that every time she turns her back my little cousin gets hurt and thinks it's my fuckin fault. IT AINT MY FAULT THAT SHE HIT HER HEAD ON THE DOOR WEN SHE WAS KICKING THE DOG AND SLIPPED. OMFG SHES 2 wtf do u expect
everyone in the comments saying their parents are mad bc they snuck out or drank, but I’m in high school and my parents are soooo pissed bc they found out I watch family guy 😭
My parents saw me sending nudes to my boyfriend, I know its a normal occurrence now a days, but seeing how things are happening and living in a conservative country, I saw the first 3 stages of grief were present, denial, anger and bargaining. I don't know if they can ever forgive me.
I'm going through the worst situation ever in my life. my father trusted me and I didn't respect that or maybe I was not thinking about the circumstamces that I might can face.
I’ve been reading these comments like surely someone has done something worse than me but everyone is like kissing boys and sneaking out. I wish that was all I was in trouble for I’m f**ked 😂
My dad found out I smoke weed and I been on punishment for over a month now, that nigga tweakin. Nigga broke my desk and won’t buy me a new one. I’m bored at the crib cuz I can’t play my pc without a desk
I spent the night at my Aunt's house and my mom read my journal. I wrote about how I sent nudes to my bf (ik....It was a stupid idea) She didn't trust me in the first place and idk why. If you don't trust me I don't trust you. She lost a lot of my trust after that and when you loose my trust you loose a lot of me. She said "You need to talk to me." I'm like why would I talk to you when my trust in you just lowered? She took my phone (that she paid nothing for). She shouldn't be able to do that because I paid for it and I don't have data.
i went behind my moms back an chatted with random people on the internet on her Instagram now my mom cant trust me an im not aloud to have my phone for a few days maybe 1 week i messed up bad i should have just told her that i had an online bff !!
the worst is not having a good reason/not even knowing why you did it and now you just messed up your own life because your not gonna be able to do anything for a loonggg time
I need this. I was around weed and my friend got really badly greened out. 911 was called and I had to confess that I was lying about pretty much everything that was going on. I'm so sorry but idk if they believe me or if they really understand what happened
I hope this works. All I did was forget to call them one night -.-. oh well. My stepdad doesn't trust me even if I'm just sitting at home. This sounds like good advice, thank you :)
We have the same problem. I buyed robux with my mom's card without telling her. and now she wont speak to me nor even say anything. i cant use technology and i feel bad and on top of that i lied.... I hope she trusts me again..
i got in trouble about texting my friend who was in the car about something and my mom doesnt trust me or my friend anymore its sad bc i was just affraid to ask her what i was going to ask her it's complicated thanks for this it helped but i really wanted to go to the beach with her i dunno if its gonna happen now :(
i lied to my parents about everything that happened the last two months, and since yesterday my whole lie-construct crushed down, and they are more than upset, i can't blame them, it was horrible what i did to them, and i don't know how to make it up to them...
i smoke alot of weed my mom found out she was very disappointed so i stopped for a while nd did it again she found out again. i stopped smoking now its been like 1month but she doesn't trust me anymore no matter what i do to make it up to her it doesn't work. everytime i go out she thinks i was smoking.... ANYONE PLZ HELP
I’m here to gain my grandmas trust back because she says I’m a liar and I honestly want to stop lying and I need to gain her trust back so she can believe me more.
My mom says she thinks im watching really bad stuff. BUT IM NOT! so she took my phone ipad tv and toys. Its been a month now..I cry everytime i remeber.. :(
I started smoking marijuana every week, some of my friends snitched on me to my brother because I was hanging out with the wrong people and my brother snitched on me because they were getting worried. I planned on getting bitcoin with someone to make money by selling gummy eddies and my parents found out (well they just freaked out when they saw I had bitcoin, they didn't know what exactly I had it for). Now they've had me on family mode app for almost the entire summer and they didn't trust me going out at all, so I was basically just sitting home a lot and all that did was make me depressed and want to do more drugs, I even got drunk independently a few times. They've also heard I've shoplifted alcohol a few times so now they don't even trust me going into any store. I'm 17 btw
I got caught for drinking and smoking and going to older friends in the park at night when I said I went to a friends house. I feel like it will be akward forever with my parents and they will never trust me again. Does someone have any advice I feel like my world is falling apart
I’ve been repeating the same mistake over and over again and they (parents) finally trusted me and I was so happy and then my older brother started catching me talking to guys or repeating the same mistake. Then he decided to track my calls and messages and caught me talking to a friend abt uni. And now my parents can’t trust me anymore and they took my phone away. I’m gna get my license soon and I’m going to uni and they still didn’t give me my phone back. Any advice? I layed low for a month and a half now and I did try talking to them but they seemed upset so I didn’t start it again what do I do??
My parent don't trust me on my computer they think I will play games, so I have to get it on the week ends, they don't care if I go out, because I never go out. My life is my computer and they don't trust me which is so annoying and I am trying to get them to trust me, any help?
![Secrets Preteens Keep On Their Phones [Part 1]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/7EgInbzpV-0/mqdefault.jpg)
Who else is here because they really messed up?🙋🏾♀️ Just remember your not alone.
brooklyn V yea
Me🙋🏻♀️big time............
brooklyn V hi😭
I spent 100 dollars on vbucks
big timee🤕
Let’s be honest, we all messed up, we all searched similar things, we watched this vid in our rooms alone thinking about everything. Hey, your not alone everything will be fine no matter how tough it is your family.
i'm scared of whats gonna happen. it's not happened yet.
she has my phone
dub ledbetter me too, I keep watching yt at night and sometimes I fall asleep with it and my dad comes and sees that the phone was in my bed so he knows I’ve been using it so he banned it once and he’s gonna ask me again y I was using my phone last time I said that it fell on the floor and my brother picked it up and put it on my bed now idk what I’m gonna do 😭
@@dub4979 she say i wont get it back for a few months
I bleached my hair from dark brown (keep in mind I'm 13) to strawberry blonde my parents hadn't talked to me In 5 days I've tried to say I'm sorry and I love you loads of times and it hurts they won't eve n say I love you back
i snuck out twice and got caught both times they don't trust me anymore
Mr.Coochie Snatcher SAME
SAME OMG
Same
Honey Sauce SAME HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH
Same
My parents.....dont trust me to do anything anymore no matter how much i try to make it up to them...😔😔😔😔😔
Sacrifice and blindly attempting will show them. Do what they want you to do without asking. In time they will see you do care and they will as they have always cared. We parents get sick of bending over backwards to then get slapped in the face. It hurts even worse then when they hurt you. To sacrifice all for a child and then get hurt by that child is an experience you will have to just experience to understand.
Me too
Maemae Holt same
same here
same it rlly sux and i hate it
i legit just got in so much trouble.... this is so helpful thank you
what did u do?
@@TaiDoIIaSign lol
What happened
I just shot my tv
Yep
Sometimes I feel like i was the main cause of destruction in my family. I feel like I ruined their lives just by being myself. I'll bet they wish I was never born
Same im like the devil in my family
same lol
Same
Same
That’s not true. Your family may not agree with your choices but that doesn’t mean that they wish you were never born
i nearly killed myself coz of mine everything is my fault
I felt the exact same way
I've been there. I'm glad i didn't commit suicide. 💙
I feel like that right now.
LIL PRINCE its okay dont worry
LIL PRINCE me too. I wanted to die so badly. I wanna cut myself everyday I wanna die.
I will try this, i messed up and lied to my parents about me drinking and my mom is really mad, im in my bedroom and downstairs my mom and little sister sounds happy talking to each other :(
I know you commented this 5 years ago but i got caught for drinking 50% whiskey and im royally fucked my mom is fucking fuming
Tell me about it
Same :(
THIS HAPPENED TO ME TODAY & NOW IM WATCHING THIS TOO UGH
this is literally my exact story. I feel you 100%. I was lying about drinking and sneaking out. my mom hasn't spoken a word to me in a week and rubs it in my face that she cares about my little brothers:/
My parents are super religious I'll never get their trust
Same for me!They talk about a world that will be peaceful but when you see their actions its total opposite from what religion it's suppose to send as a message
Cool.but I warn you:I am really new to snaptchat.I got evertything,but Snaptchat is a new thing for me.
if theyre are religious they gotta trust and forgive yu cuz god never wanted his people to hate and not trust
Megan Hannah what religion?
Well me too, they do the opposite of what they say. I don't know what to do. Can never decide for myself n I'm always stuck between what is right n what they think is right.
Damn going through these comments makes me feel quite a bit better I’m not alone
me too honestly
Me too
@@TheDarkKnight749 Yeh its comforting knowing their is a community of us
Me too
So my mom caught me talking to “boys” 3 times,and now no matter what i do i cant gain her trust back😭
SaME
I caught 5 times
Same 😭😭
Same
Same
If I just randomly started doing chores and being nice after messing up, my dad would *100%* realise that I'm doing it to gain his trust back
So true
i just messed up everything and i wanna just cry all day, that's what im doing, like.. 4 years its the same things im just too tired lol im thinking again of giving up but idk
Same with me i dont have any other option other than giving up 😭😭😭
Something I learned: Ur parents will always find our no matter what. Or at least that’s my mom ::
I woke up an hour late for online school, I'm failing 3 classes, my mental health is in shreds, I'm mourning the loss of my pet rats, and I think I'm legit not vibing lmao. i'll be ok just dayummmmm i made a mess of things. this really helped, love, thank you!
I am a parent and I approve your message!!!!! I was actually trying to find videos on rebuilding trust for kids for my child to learn about rebuilding trust, and came across your video. Thanks!!!!
You seems be such a good mom
@@user-mv2rq6nk5w I am trying to be one that is present and whose kid can trust them to come to them and give them the support and discipline and the foundation they need. It ain't easy but I am trying.
@@mooret212 I love you as a child I wish my mom would ever be like that I am not good
@@user-mv2rq6nk5w aww hugs and prayers. It takes one day at a time, growing and learning on both parent and child end. You are good.
@@mooret212 Today mom death threats me haha 😄
Bwt you are good mom please be good to your child specially in teenage years AGAIN I WISH I WISH MY MOM WOULD BE A GOOD ONE
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BERRIE BEE BENSON OMG XD
Okaaaaay.......
wtf lol
Whatcha doing step mom?
Tf-
It has been 3 months and my mom still doesn't trust me, I've done everything to gain it back and I stopped getting sent to the principles office in school and stopped being rude to teachers and my mom but nothing has worked.
Did she give it back yet? It’s been 3 years
@@phillysteak-t5v lmao
@@america55pp lol
@@phillysteak-t5v 4 now 😂
Care to leave an update over 5 years
I got in BIG TROUBLE now I can't have a new phone and I can't get there trust back
+Pinksparkles ..me too...
Me too
Me 4
Public Punk lol...we use to say me too ..me 3 me 4 lol in little school
+Tiffany Mcintosh me too but I was bored and half asleep at the time 😂😂
This is so me right now, I lied to my parents about my grades and they are not even upset about the grades, that are upset about the fact that I lied. Now they actually hate me.
Same I did the Same thing bro ... Please tell did it got better or not????
See that's the problem. Parents aren't supposed to hate us. They are supposed to love us and support us, make us understand our mistakes in a better way than scolding and mistrust.
Parents are not perfect neither are children we all have to do our part in the relationship
I keep losing my parents trut and gaining it back, the whole cycle repeats itself since i was born
I texted a dude and she’s MAD af dawg…little did she know I like women better
I've been doing this and staying low for literally a year and they still bring back that one thing I did a year ago
That’s probably what my parents would do even if I stayed low for a year it’s so annoying and don’t worry, you are not alone.
Parent's perspective: Three daughters, and right now one is having a very hard time. Dean's list, to "I don't know if she's even going to graduate" bad. Sneaking out, stealing my car (before and after getting her license), drugs, lying... Lying as often and easily as she breathes.
You may feel like they hate you, or think you're the worst teenager in the world, but this is NOT true. We're human, we have emotions, and we are sometimes angry, sometimes even say stuff we regret... but there is always love and just wanting to see you be happy and kind to others. Mostly, we just are hurting because we are watching the person(s) we love most in our life, having a hard time.
All great advice! I love it!
I would add, "Learn how to apologize sincerely". Say "I'm sorry. I know what I did was wrong *because*. What can I do to make it better?" And then follow through on making it better.
literally in so much trouble rn. this is so helpful
samw
I needed this I lied to my mom and she’s BIG MAD MADDER then I have ever seen her :(
My mom. Makes my clean the whole house every day me and my little sister my older sister and brother are on the phone never help so i start telling mom she says leave them alone and jf i just dont do the house she will yell at me and not talk to me until i opplgize i miss my old mom
i can relate so much it is so annoying..
I need this to work I having been sneaking out and my mom finally caught me and of course she catches when I'm going to the hugest party of the year I've messed up before by having to call her when the cops came to a party once and she needed to pick me up and another when I was in a minor car crash and since I was a minor they had to take me to the hospital because I refused to call my mom but in the end she had to pick me up I just don't wanna miss out on anything I wanna have fun
I had a snap without my aunts premission and I can't have my phone but yeah
SPLASH SISTERS exact same situation rn 😂 any advice?
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@@frooa9211 wait what!?
yo same but insta instead now she hates meeee and i wanna gain her trust back because i also wanna buy a new phoneee
I live with my grandma and she is in ways abusive so I tell the authorities and they came and didn't do anything so my grandma says she will never regain my trust
This is not your fault she is abusive and say to a teacher or a adult and if you are old enough stay out of the house until she sleeps then come back and work to own an apartment and live away from her
Oh my god! Tell ur parents at least!
This kind of made me realize what I actually did wrong! Thanks!
Thats good :) Ur not in the trouble... Like iam
As a parent, coming here and seeing the comments of kids who are in trouble is hilarious! I agree that kids who've lost some favor should stay out of our way. We're upset and its going to take some time before we want to, or are able to, deal with you in a meaningful way. The only real way you can make it up to us is by wanting to change yourself, and not for us, but for yourself. When you finally come to talk to us, you better be coming correct and willing to put all of your cards on the table. Its a HARD road to earn back broken trust. Sometimes it takes months, even years, to fully regain our trust depending on what you did and how reasonable we are. Don't expect it to come easily.
I lied about my marks and they've been heartbroken ever since ... They say "they can't face the world anymore" ... My father is a respectful man giving advice to everyone but now I made him say "I don't think I can give advice to anyone if my own kid is like this" ... They say "you think we don't love you'' ... They say alot of stuff right now ... Please tell me it will okay? Someday?
thank u so much....i've been crying for like 2 nights bc my dad found out that i have guy friends not even date them .....and my dad is rlly mad like rlly rlly mad
SAME THING HAPPENED WITH ME TODAY PLS HELP ME WHAT TO DO
Pls help
@@Throwaway-lm2fm just stay quiet and don’t reply back and try to “change” for them. Be more respectful for example or see what they don’t like on you and change it. You can still talk to guys but just put limits and honestly done even date someone. And if you want you can have guy friends but just be a little careful and not let someone knows about it
@@Throwaway-lm2fm and also you Have to prove them that you changed and you became the better version of gig
You *
I lied and they've lost trust in me..
me too
i lied 5 times, they think i hate them and they totally hate me 🌚
if anyone is here right, my mom caught be cursing a lot. My mom and i used to have such a good relationship. But i’m honestly getting more mature and she isnt understanding and excepting that. My mom is slowly tearing me apart to the point i’ve had bad thoughts and thought about running away, i’m having a panic attack because she’s gonna check my phone tomorrow.
Just jailbreak your phone and hide anything that is innappropriate.
@@superjester5178 smart
its a lil hard when ya in quarantine
I waited a month and then my parents thought I was depressed
Everything we all have in our minds
"I miss my old mom"
She was so nice to me when I was seven but now I didn't even do an apology right even tho I tried my best 😒😒I think apologies might be my worst enemy
same.........
Me too.....
same
I miss my past. I'm "left alone" (family and my past, bad friends), my sis is barely helping me recover. Just my friends that are trying to help me.
The thing is ... When i get my dads trust back, i always loose it. He always thinks im sneeking out with boys and im giing to do bad stuff but im gay and i cant talk to him about it . Theirs no way i can! What do i do ? Just leave it be and let him think what he wants or come out ?
You should come out totally.
Did u do it?
How are u gay If your a girl
@@xdsaucy6654 hahahhahhahahhahahhahahahhhahahahahahahaha
@@jy4l648 ik
Who else is here to see how bad others messed up to feel better about your mess😅😅
I'm going to have to try this! I feel it will work because I have hard and soft, tough loving parents!
Did it work
My dad caught me lying this morning!! And the scenario was so disgusting for me. It never happened with me before. I can sense that he's really hurt , he didn't scold me or anything, he just said " I never raised you to lie to me ", ouch !!!
same he caught me sneaking in my bf and ive never seen the expression on his face but i never want to see it again
I’m *safely* piercing my ears tonight without them knowing... wish me luck :’)
Update: I didn’t do I got too scared of what my parents would do lmao
Me: "🔎" how to lose you parents trust"
This: "comes up"
Me: *_my life is a lie👏🏻_*
Why you wanna lose ur parents trust ??
My parents literally took my phone away cause I was using it in the bathroom 😭😭 I lie a lot but about the smallest things like doing homework or doing my chores and whenever they catch me they make it like it’s the end of the world sometimes I wish I could just stay with my aunt.
I'm just here because I lied about studying in karate and I messed up so bad and my Dad said he can never trust me becuase I lie so much. I hope it changes when I'm older...
im so gald that i found this vid...i messed up really really badly..my mother is a single mother and she told my father...they both dont trust me..they trust me cause im their daughter..but they dont fully trust me...but again im very grateful that i found this vid..thank u so much...😖😔👍🏽
i don't think i will get my mom trust back for what i did
what did u do?
He died
I snuck out twice and i am grounded for 3 months help please
What did u do?
Same lmao ☠️🥺😭
I talked back to my dad and yup now i just feel bad cuz he told me not to ask for anything neither talk to him don’t tell him happy fathers day at all or give him anything and now i regret it really bad
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
My mum hates my guts and I know 100% she’ll never trust me again.
Hey! I really appreciate this! Im so scared that my parents will never trust me again! They can be kinda dramatic and they can get so angry sometimes! I will try this and see how it works out! 😬 once again, *thank you*
My parents hate me. Hope this works, thanks
I fucked up by accidentally doing the dishes wrong
im in so much trouble I'm not even allowed to be on youtube but I need this so, here I am
Well the problem is i sent a nude to a guy i was dating, i know it wasnt right but my mom was so so upset i cant even look at her nor speak to her to the point she dont trusy me no more. 😢i dont know what to do i love my mom so much but i wanna get her to trust me again
QueenLee wth
Lia that happened to me but just so you know she still loves you and if you are just good and don't do anything like that again hopefully most likely she'll trust you again
Lia your not alone even me my mom dont trust me also i've tried all my best to be trust but she always make me remember of my past when infact im now different but for her im not.
@@mariellegrace_cacho8696 Same. I understand. Going through the same thing
Can I have one?
I'm never able to do this.
I'm a dumbass and always work super hard to gain their trust back and right when they're almost able to trust me again, they'll say no to something and I sneak out, and I have to start all over LOL D':
Who else thought their parents had work and you skipped school now your hiding behind your door. Waiting for my dogs to bark at me
did they figure it out???
Whay u meannn??? "relax" when they mad they make me clean the whole house
thank you so much I got grounded for 2 weeks for not going to school but I convinced her I would never do it again and so she ungrounded me. Thanks so much once again.
It went awesome! My phone is in half, and i got told that no one loves me
Sorry man...
i postes an instagram picture of me in the bath fully clothed, and my mum cant look at me, she called me a whore, and says now i look like im slitting my wrists and my dad doesnt look at me the same, and my austies and cousins are talking bad about me, and i really regret posting that picture, its now destroyed my confidence and the tinies happyness i have
i am so sorry
Thank you so. Much for this. Its so helpful. I just messed Everything up so bad and im going to do whatever you said. Thank u again. Ill make sure to let you know how it went. ❤️❤️
thank you so much for the advice, i wish i can find more videos like this. My mom find out that i was dating a guy...(she doesn't let me have on) i lost my second chance... im really sad cause she never had trust on me. She never let me have to prove her that im responsible.. maybe cause im her only child, and she doesn't want anything bad happen to me. thank you once agin. and please i will appreciate if you make more videos like this.
who else is here for doing a big mistake? i hit my ipad cause it kept crashing apps.
My aunt thinks that every time she turns her back my little cousin gets hurt and thinks it's my fuckin fault. IT AINT MY FAULT THAT SHE HIT HER HEAD ON THE DOOR WEN SHE WAS KICKING THE DOG AND SLIPPED. OMFG SHES 2 wtf do u expect
I know how u feel
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yepp true that happens whenever im with my brother
everyone in the comments saying their parents are mad bc they snuck out or drank, but I’m in high school and my parents are soooo pissed bc they found out I watch family guy 😭
LMAOOO
I got caught watching porn.....i never came out of my room ever again....well except for school lol
That's why I'm grounded 😞
My parents saw me sending nudes to my boyfriend, I know its a normal occurrence now a days, but seeing how things are happening and living in a conservative country, I saw the first 3 stages of grief were present, denial, anger and bargaining. I don't know if they can ever forgive me.
my parents found my spam insta and they saw all my messages, they took away my phone completely i literaly hate it here bruh
@@Nataliepena06 did u get it back
@@Nataliepena06 did you get it back?
@@Nataliepena06 same thing happened to me and rn I am texting with my relatives phone and the reason she took my phone was because of my gc 🙃
@@itsrayanxs yeah i got it back
i keep luing and lying and sneaking and sneaking and i cant stopp and my parents have lost their trust in me😢
I'm going through the worst situation ever in my life. my father trusted me and I didn't respect that or maybe I was not thinking about the circumstamces that I might can face.
I think that this video is gonna help me
Spade Ghosty same
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I’ve been reading these comments like surely someone has done something worse than me but everyone is like kissing boys and sneaking out. I wish that was all I was in trouble for I’m f**ked 😂
What did you do
My dad found out I smoke weed and I been on punishment for over a month now, that nigga tweakin. Nigga broke my desk and won’t buy me a new one. I’m bored at the crib cuz I can’t play my pc without a desk
I spent the night at my Aunt's house and my mom read my journal. I wrote about how I sent nudes to my bf (ik....It was a stupid idea) She didn't trust me in the first place and idk why. If you don't trust me I don't trust you. She lost a lot of my trust after that and when you loose my trust you loose a lot of me. She said "You need to talk to me." I'm like why would I talk to you when my trust in you just lowered? She took my phone (that she paid nothing for). She shouldn't be able to do that because I paid for it and I don't have data.
Thank god this come up girl I needed this
i went behind my moms back an chatted with random people on the internet on her Instagram now my mom cant trust me an im not aloud to have my phone for a few days maybe 1 week i messed up bad i should have just told her that i had an online bff !!
the worst is not having a good reason/not even knowing why you did it and now you just messed up your own life because your not gonna be able to do anything for a loonggg time
this so helpfull tho cause my mom just found out that i orderd $100of stuff without her knowing........i know im bad BUT im gonna fix starting tonight
I need this. I was around weed and my friend got really badly greened out. 911 was called and I had to confess that I was lying about pretty much everything that was going on. I'm so sorry but idk if they believe me or if they really understand what happened
You dont have to call 911 if someone's greening out but I feel your trouble man! I was greening out WHILE I WAS HAVING A CONVERSATION WITH MY MOM
@@whos.matthew nah she was CRASHED she was like, 95% unconscious and pissed herself too. It was horrific
@@guestb6319 Idk usually its fine
@@whos.matthew absolutely it ended up ok but we had to bring her to her house and her aunt was extremely worried and called them
@@guestb6319 Oh ok
I hope this works. All I did was forget to call them one night -.-. oh well. My stepdad doesn't trust me even if I'm just sitting at home. This sounds like good advice, thank you :)
My mom won't trust me again because I have a rlly bad habit of lying to her. But i wanna stop so i'll try this.
We have the same problem. I buyed robux with my mom's card without telling her. and now she wont speak to me nor even say anything. i cant use technology and i feel bad and on top of that i lied.... I hope she trusts me again..
You helped me so much, ily. 💙
i got in trouble about texting my friend who was in the car about something and my mom
doesnt trust me or my friend anymore its sad bc i was just affraid to ask her what i was going to ask her it's complicated thanks for this it helped but i really wanted to go to the beach with her i dunno if its gonna happen now :(
Thank you so much! This helped me a lot❤
i lied to my parents about everything that happened the last two months, and since yesterday my whole lie-construct crushed down, and they are more than upset, i can't blame them, it was horrible what i did to them, and i don't know how to make it up to them...
i smoke alot of weed my mom found out she was very disappointed so i stopped for a while nd did it again she found out again. i stopped smoking now its been like 1month but she doesn't trust me anymore no matter what i do to make it up to her it doesn't work. everytime i go out she thinks i was smoking.... ANYONE PLZ HELP
I’m here to gain my grandmas trust back because she says I’m a liar and I honestly want to stop lying and I need to gain her trust back so she can believe me more.
same
I'm legit so scared right now
My mom says she thinks im watching really bad stuff. BUT IM NOT! so she took my phone ipad tv and toys. Its been a month now..I cry everytime i remeber.. :(
I hope this will work they get suspicious if I do stuff around the house that I don't normally do they know what I'm trying to do and they ignore it
I started smoking marijuana every week, some of my friends snitched on me to my brother because I was hanging out with the wrong people and my brother snitched on me because they were getting worried. I planned on getting bitcoin with someone to make money by selling gummy eddies and my parents found out (well they just freaked out when they saw I had bitcoin, they didn't know what exactly I had it for). Now they've had me on family mode app for almost the entire summer and they didn't trust me going out at all, so I was basically just sitting home a lot and all that did was make me depressed and want to do more drugs, I even got drunk independently a few times. They've also heard I've shoplifted alcohol a few times so now they don't even trust me going into any store. I'm 17 btw
Very good advice :) 😘😘👌😄😄❤️❤️ my parents will totally unground me 😂😂 UR THE BEST BTW this is Yaells cousin
I’ve been in trouble for 11 months
I got caught for drinking and smoking and going to older friends in the park at night when I said I went to a friends house. I feel like it will be akward forever with my parents and they will never trust me again. Does someone have any advice I feel like my world is falling apart
I’ve been repeating the same mistake over and over again and they (parents) finally trusted me and I was so happy and then my older brother started catching me talking to guys or repeating the same mistake. Then he decided to track my calls and messages and caught me talking to a friend abt uni. And now my parents can’t trust me anymore and they took my phone away. I’m gna get my license soon and I’m going to uni and they still didn’t give me my phone back. Any advice? I layed low for a month and a half now and I did try talking to them but they seemed upset so I didn’t start it again what do I do??
bruhhh im in the same fucked up situation as you but i was caught smoking weed
Bro Im curious what happened after??
u know what this is one of the best videos in youtube .
Thank you very much. I really hope it'll work out for me.
My parent don't trust me on my computer they think I will play games, so I have to get it on the week ends, they don't care if I go out, because I never go out. My life is my computer and they don't trust me which is so annoying and I am trying to get them to trust me, any help?
🤦♂️caught while playing in phone at late night