I once heard a child safety advocate say, "Kids are clueless about the dangers online. If an adult contacts them with sexual intentions, a 12 year old doesn't know what sex is, so they won't even know what's happening and they won't know enough to end the chat." ...probably one of the most ignorant and clueless perspectives ever. Kids are not stupid and they are often the ones pursuing sex online, but I guess this advocate makes a good living thinking that they're stupid.
@@BMFstudiosNYC as an 11 year old almost 12 I knew about s*x since I was like 5, and I literally block anyone who tries to talk to me that I don't know (expect if I trust them and I've seen they're face (etc)) that advocate probably never talked to a 12 year old before
I would refuse to take part in it, like that’s my privacy. if you want to know, don’t try to go through my phone without my permission. ASK! I bet they haven’t tried doing that.
I feel bad. I hide lots of things, no I dont date someone, I dont watch anything innapropriate, I just want to have my privacy. It sucks when people try to disrespect others privacy, it just makes you feel unsafe.
@elxhim Yea,but the vid isn't about phone addiction,it's about what teens hide on their phones. Phone addiction is whole different issue,so that argument doesn't apply here
@@yvettedelatorre3670 The kids don’t have to agree to anything. As long as if the parents agree they can say the kids agree. Why? The parents are the ones making all their decisions. I’m not saying you’re wrong, but it’s possible the kids never agreed.
When you’re a kid, you don’t have any rights which means no privacy. Sucks but that was everyone at one point. I’ve only got about two more years before I’m finally 18. But at the same time, I know adulthood sucks also.
I don't like when my little goes to my phone cuz she keeps going to my privacy stuff and keeps telling my mom and I keep telling her stop this is my privacy and it's none of your business
Not to sound rude. But I had the same mind set, and I I a mother now and its best your parents look cause the world that we live in today is terrifying and the world is messed up .
I mean- I get why parents want to know everything, but keeping secrets from your parents is part of being a child and having fun. If you are a parent or tutor, have a talk with your child about the dangers of social media and set boundaries. You can't talk to random people and you cannot send inappropriate pictures to ANYONE. But also you, as a parent/tutor, don't check their phone and messages or pictures. Just like you need to trust them, they need to trust you, and by you checking their phone it brakes all the trust from them to you. And also respect your children. They deserve as much respect as you deserve
Exactly, my parents are strict on the no social media rule. This makes it so hard for me to interact with kids my age. It’s annoying when a friend ask me what my snap or insta and stuff is and I have to say I don’t have it. Like bruh just teach me what to look out for and give me a break. My parents be so protective if I text to long they are going to ask to see who I’m texting and what about.🙄
@@LaraCroft-or9gc Kifs are a parents responsibility. Trust is earned and with peer pressure along with the wonderful buffet of social media dangers they simply have too much temptation and sources pulling them in a bad direction. The same people on here throwing the kids deserve privacy are the same people who would be saying throw him in jail or how did you not know when my kid suicidrs or shoots up a school. Permissive parents are a large part of how our society got the way it is. Kids have very limited rights or freedoms until they are of age and hopefully prepared to have them.
It is inappropriate when it's used in a different way their is wierd men on the internet that want pictures of kids or little girls and maybe even steal info about them and track them down
Lord where do I begin. When we get into our parents business, they’re all “get off my nerves” when they go through our phones, it’s “it’s my business too.” Or “it’s my phone”
IKR? My mom got a notification while she was driving once and asked who the text was from but told me not to read it. But when I get a phone she goes through my text -_-
My mom asked for my phone once What I did..... Deleted all my history, playlists ALOT of photos,weird games and changed wallpaper...Turns out she just wanted to use it to call someone..........
Me: my head hurts Mom: its because your always on your phone Me:but I'm reading a book Mom:give me your phone Me: (gives phone) Mom: (goes in messenger then facetimes her sisters)
Okay but I actually think that these girls are old enough to have privacy over their phones. I was a bit surprised to hear that their parents had full access to their phones with a code and everything, like they are teens not eight year olds. They seemed to know about boundaries well, the parents should trust their teens more it’s better for the both of them I think.
@@emmamassey001 Yes I agree that is young but they seem mature enough to tell their parents if something is wrong. Some control is fine but they should not know their phones code. Phones are a lot of people’s main communication and conversation between the teens friends and such should be private.
I’m a teen and there are a lot of things that I want to be keep private. It’s not because there inappropriate but simply because I find them (in my mind) embarrassing. For one example I’m still trying to figure out my style, sexuality, etc and Im not at a state of mind to just walk up to my parents and tell them that. I don’t understand why just because we keep things private it makes us look like monsters
cherry Lol my mom does not say that. They swear a lot so they are like "Hmm whatever" or though my dad was raised not to swear but my moms bad lingwa (Lolz) led him to swearing too BUT he does not swear nearly as often. But my dad will be like "Who tought you to use thia kind of languge?" and then im like "YOU!". (Lol AGAIN). Even if I say something like "What the f?!" he acts as if I swore because he knows what it is suppose to mean. But anyways byeee! Bye because I am so boring and annoying. :P
Okay so this is something I want to talk to about parents , now if you truly want to know why you should check your kids phone and there's also some advice for teens . Here it is - When their children reach the teen years, many parents wonder why their kids suddenly need privacy. Learn the relationship between privacy and trust, why parents should usually respect their child's privacy and when it's appropriate for parents to snoop. The Link Between Privacy and Trust Privacy issues stem from trust issues. Our teens want to be trusted to do more and more things. They want to be thought of as mature and capable of handling independence. It is wonderful when we can give our teens their space and privacy. Time alone, their diary and conversations with friends are examples of private areas we can offer our teens. Sometimes teens may have private conversations with their siblings that need to be respected as well. Sons may feel more comfortable confiding in their father about certain matters, while daughters may feel more comfortable confiding in their mothers. This is especially the case if romantic relationships or the physiological changes they're experiencing at this time are the subject at hand. Other Reasons Teens Need Privacy Teens not only strive to be independent during adolescence, they also endure physical changes that make privacy during this age imperative. A daughter who always felt comfortable changing clothes in front of her mother may no longer want to disrobe in front of her. She may also lock her bedroom door or the bathroom door to ensure that her wish for privacy is respected. The Benefits of Giving Teens Privacy When we give our teens the privacy they need, they become more independent and build their self-confidence. Balance between knowing what your teen is doing, trusting your teen to have some private matters and knowing when to step in is a fine line that parents walk every day. Trust your instincts. When to Invade a Teen's Privacy Sometimes a parent may need to decide that it's time to snoop on their teens. Parents shouldn't take this step to find out why a teen had a fight with a friend or for another seemingly innocuous reason. Instead, they should reserve snooping if an adolescent shows signs of depression or of hurting himself or someone else. If your child sleeps all the time, has lost interest in the hobbies that he used to enjoy, has become withdrawn, stopped socializing, or is showing other red signs, such as drug or alcohol use, it may be time to snoop. Snooping should never be the first move a parent makes under these circumstances, however. First, try to communicate with your teen about the changes in his behavior. Ask why he no longer wants to play on the basketball team or hang out with his best friend since kindergarten. Then, listen to what your child says. If all you get in response is a shrug or "I don't know," consider having your child see a therapist. If the teen directly states that he wants to harm himself or someone else, forget snooping and get medical help right away. Wrapping Up Respecting a teen's privacy is an important move to make if you want your child to believe you trust in her or that she's capable of some forms of independence. However, if your teen is showing major signs of acting out, it is likely necessary for you to invade her privacy to get her the help she needs as soon as possible. We all have secrets that we don’t want anyone to see. Especially when someone tries to go through my phone without my permission. I remember one time I showed my colleague a photo on my mobile phone because of my work, but he secretly browsed all the pictures in my gallery. I am very angry, although there is nothing strange in my phone. But this disrespect for my privacy is very disgusting. I like joking around with my friends but I don’t think trying to get some dirt on your friend’s cell is funny. I find it quite disrespectful. I know just a way to stop your parents from taking your phone. There are some apps that can lock your phone and no one can unlock it without your password. I know sometimes it might be hard for us to tell our parents to stay away from our phone. If you are afraid your parent would be angry for you to lock your phone, you can use the fake cover feature. it would make your phone looks like it’s not working well. And lastly teens who are afraid to tell their parents how they feel about the lack of privacy. Listen tell them as soon as you can because frankly it's better to blush and squirm and have an uncomfortable conversation once then to be pale and frustrated for the rest of your life. And by rest of your life I mean many asian , indian families have adult kids who still live with their parents due to social norms and let's face it you won't be able to move out the second you turn 18 so it is better to just grit your teeth and say it now rather than suffer in silence because if you choose the latter you only have yourself and your cowardice to blame. And if your parents refuse to listen then welll I have given you a tip to protect your phone you might as well use it
@@swimmingrobot1219 most of the time it’s never the phone, they just say the bullshit just to get under your skin and get you upset that’s all they do. It’s hella annoying
@@aiesha2738 this is an immature reply. parents aren't sitting around thinking of ways o piss their children off. they do it out of love, but not every person is perfect. spend as much time with ur parents as possible while u still can
Well here’s the problem, all devices and most apps require parent authorization if they are underage so it’s parents fault. In a prefect world underage kids shouldn’t have smart phones.
Me: *shows my mom a funny meme on instagram* Her: who's that Me: mom its just a meme Her: you shouldnt be posting stuff like that, delete it. Me: uh i didn't upload that *gets grounded for a month*
Exactly I'm 12 and I have a boyfriend and my parents know about it and I don't want them seeing this video because that's going to make them think that a lot and a lot and a lot of preteens and teens do it which will make them trust me less and they trust me a lot and there's nothing I'm even hiding from them but if they see this they're probably going to lose my trust
MasterLuke24 Is Cool lad shut up like your not the one to be telling her if she can or can’t have a boyfriend, it’s probably gonna end in like 2 weeks anyway
as a preteen and even as an older teen, I dont have social media and kids having social media (especially snapchat and instagram) is mind blowing to me
Parents don’t really know their kids as well as they think. I’m in my mid 20’s and have noticed since I was a kid that children have mastered the ability of faking a personality around their family and completely changing around other groups of people. Pretty sad if you ask me. Parents act so “shocked” about finding stuff out but it’s like they don’t even know who their kid really is when they are away
Avery Mentzinger Ok you know that's probably not what it was though lmao. And also it's anonymous so how would she know? I think I'd have the sense to know that would creep someone out when I was 12.
Debunkin’ time 1. Fake calculator? Never heard of it and would rather save my pictures on discord. 2. AskFM? What the hell is that, never heard of it either and seems like a horrible idea. 3. Not every teen is like this, stop acting as if we are all drüg dealers Getting into my own things now 4. Just because I am messaging someone of the opposite gender DOESN’T MEAN I LIKE THEM 5. Online friends are cool, helped me not commit the ha ha funny knife game multiple times 6. I have 7 discord and TH-cam accounts, doesn’t mean I’m hiding anything
I got nothing to hide on my phone, I have no guy to talk to, I don't watch porn, I don't do drugs, I don't party, I only text one person. Honestly if my parents saw my phone they'd be ashamed of how boring my life is
I’m 13. I had an encounter with the “old schooling system” once. I don’t really have to do much chores around my house cause my mom says it’s her responsibility and I should just focus on school (no I’m not some spoiled brat, I’m actually extremely grateful for this). So one day I asked if I could do chores for a bit of money, 20 bucks or so. I continued asking but she never gave me anything I could do. I was gonna go shopping with my friends in a couple days and I wanted money to buy stuff. She said she’d just give me the money but I continued to refuse. A couple days later, I guess she was thinking about it. I got a text saying “You don’t want 20 bucks to pay off some bully at school, right?”. I literally started laughing and thought she was joking but she was dead serious. Nowadays, school is like: wake, walk, talk, do, leave. Nothing eventful happens except boredom. I had to let her know that it was for her birthday present after that, which was why I wanted to get the money myself because otherwise it would just be a “present for herself that I just picked out”. I told her later on that it is nothing like before and bullying doesn’t happen often or at all.
“even the most involved parents don’t know everything” parents are NOT supposed to know everything, especially at this old of an age. teens deserve privacy.
We need a video that has kids going through their parents phone. Edit: okay so I wrote this 4 years ago when I was 14... and now I know that if I were to go through my dad's phone, I'd be scarred for life lmao. also, I have a newfound respect for parents but let's be honest the lengths helicopter parents go to to violate their kids' privacy is just harmful.
i listen to one direction in the shower and my parents don’t care the fact that my phone goes into the bathroom with me, because they trust me. if you don’t trust your kids you just build an unhealthy relationship with them.
Girl: I have calculator + Other Girls: Embarrassed giggles. Inside the Other Girls heads: OH GOSH SHES GOING TO GET US CAUGHT ABORT MISSION ABORT MISSION!!
I'm not going to lie when she first said calculator + I was like you have a calculator app on your phone how is that so bad and then she said it was an app that looks like a calculator but it's really not so that it was like oh that makes more sense
LOLL, I remember when my parents went through my phone at 13 and found nothing, but never look through my sisters, only once and they found porn and she was 9, yet they still only look through mine 🤦♀️🤦♀️
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she acted like playing music while in the shower was a sin
Ikr lol
Fr
Frfr her name’s Karen
Jordann Owings Lmao
There's no way her name isn't Karen
girl: There's an app that looks like a calculator but it's not.
Parents: *write that down, write that down*
вlιѕѕχƒυll lol this should have more likes
This should have like 7k likes
Edit: Super funny tho lol
@@hersheyparkfan2772 tyy
Charles the French lol
вlιѕѕχƒυll Lol I’m a teen and I wrote that down
They literally snitched on themselves to the news
That is exactly what I said and they expect not to get caught.
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Calculator+ 🤣🤣🤣
200th like
Anything for that 💵
The last girl literally showed that she is aware of internet safety by blocking someone who wanted her number.
Why are they so freaked out?
Because parents will find every reason to punish children for no reason and yet, use the "its for their safety" to other parents for their rep
I once heard a child safety advocate say, "Kids are clueless about the dangers online. If an adult contacts them with sexual intentions, a 12 year old doesn't know what sex is, so they won't even know what's happening and they won't know enough to end the chat." ...probably one of the most ignorant and clueless perspectives ever. Kids are not stupid and they are often the ones pursuing sex online, but I guess this advocate makes a good living thinking that they're stupid.
@@BMFstudiosNYC has that advocate talked to a 12 year old b4?
@@thethreesusketeers8038 I have no idea, but probably the kind of person who just sees what they want to see
@@BMFstudiosNYC as an 11 year old almost 12 I knew about s*x since I was like 5, and I literally block anyone who tries to talk to me that I don't know (expect if I trust them and I've seen they're face (etc)) that advocate probably never talked to a 12 year old before
"We asked the experts!"
who are these experts?
I suppose the 8 or 9 or even 10 year olds.. ;)
Pepe Wuz Here hi Pepe big fan of your meme
Your just pissed that they know what your up to. People in psychology and other postions study this stuff. And they are deadly accurate.
@@Benjamin-1776 no one is fucken pissed
The “experts” are actually just 69
Im a teen and i literally never heard of half of these apps.
sen Squirmle right
sen Squirmle are u like 12 or 13
ima teen and i dont even have a phone
azalea k?
@@graceselleck3989 what?
I have no secrets on my phone, but for some reason when my parents ask for it I think they’re gonna find something
Same
Bella Marie same
Haha I wish I could say that
I have a bunch of memes, anime screenshots k-pop and edits
Bella Marie same
Same
it sucks when you’re watching tv with your parents and a segment like this comes on
*-Omg yeaAaA!-*
Me: smashes the freaking tv
@@cohengamertv6548 pause
Change the channel
FRRRR
i feel bad for these girls, they were probably forced to do this. they’re privacy is being unleashed while millions are watching. horrible.
you know, there is a thing called lying (like i do) *pretend you never saw this*
Yeah millions....like us right now...
I would refuse to take part in it, like that’s my privacy. if you want to know, don’t try to go through my phone without my permission. ASK! I bet they haven’t tried doing that.
they just share the things that they did not care about, pretending to be saints.
I feel bad. I hide lots of things, no I dont date someone, I dont watch anything innapropriate, I just want to have my privacy. It sucks when people try to disrespect others privacy, it just makes you feel unsafe.
One of the moms: She plays music... IN THE SHOWER
Everyone else: *gasps*
Oh my fuckinggod
WHAT A HORRIBLE CHILD
Omg- HORRIBLE
Bring forth the Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch!!!
@elxhim Yea,but the vid isn't about phone addiction,it's about what teens hide on their phones. Phone addiction is whole different issue,so that argument doesn't apply here
@elxhim I started to say something to back up my point,but then I thought about it,and I changed my mind,you're right
Exposing kids about their personal life to the world, poor kids.
Ikr
Absolute bullshit
lol
I though they agreed to it
@@yvettedelatorre3670 The kids don’t have to agree to anything. As long as if the parents agree they can say the kids agree. Why? The parents are the ones making all their decisions. I’m not saying you’re wrong, but it’s possible the kids never agreed.
I feel so bad for the girls, they deserve their own privacy and space and not only that but also for it to be displayed for everyone to see too
Ik. They were clearly forced..
When you’re a kid, you don’t have any rights which means no privacy. Sucks but that was everyone at one point. I’ve only got about two more years before I’m finally 18. But at the same time, I know adulthood sucks also.
@@whyme3772 didnt know kids dont have any rights lol
I don't like when my little goes to my phone cuz she keeps going to my privacy stuff and keeps telling my mom and I keep telling her stop this is my privacy and it's none of your business
my little sister
Me: my leg hurts
Mom or dad: it’s because u been on that stupid phone
that's tough
It’s true even if it doesn’t make sense
SO TRUE THAT IS A EVERYDAY THING IF UR ASAIN
YES
XDxrkX VxibszX facts
"What are you wearing?"
Uh, Khakis
Thermals. Hand them over...stand and deliver, whatevva, like...
No.
Pay my commissions or get Duped
Like that State Farm ad
Travego. Khakis, no belt, no shave, and hand me the bottle with the khakis. I'll drive.
She sounds hideous
Jake from State farm
Omg did u guys know that listening to music in the shower is illegal
OMG no did u?!
OMG like fr that's so bad smh 😤
THATS SO BAD HOW MUCH MORE REBELLIOUS CAN THEY BE!
@@anoushaplayz BRUH FR!! 😡
That’s so disgusting omgg
“Today we’re looking at what your kids don’t want you to know.” THAT’S👏BECAUSE👏THEY’RE👏NOT👏SUPPOSED👏TO KNOW👏EVERYTHING, ITS CALLED PRIVACY
Not to sound rude. But I had the same mind set, and I I a mother now and its best your parents look cause the world that we live in today is terrifying and the world is messed up .
you're right but you are also cringe
The News When Someone tells them about Privacy : Mmhhmmm I don't think i have it in my vocabulary
@@aubreyreeves8475 you don’t understand what your actually doing
What do they need to hide on their phones though?? Lol, if it’s that bad then parents should know
eXpErTs TeLl Us
I am going to like you comment so your phone rings
YourFired lmao
Experts tell us : "yOu aRE gaY, BrO aNd tIS is ShIT lol."
Lmao.
Stole my damn comment
The dude: *Just what are these kids doing on their cellphones?*
Me: Watching this goddamn video
MILK exactlyyyy
Lol
Lol
@@babyleo3804 EXACTLYY
Son Goku True.
Mum : my daughter is addicted to her phone
also mum : *on phone for hours*
PREACH
Omg yes so true
And laptop
literally my mom ;-;
Playing candy crush 24/7
I mean- I get why parents want to know everything, but keeping secrets from your parents is part of being a child and having fun. If you are a parent or tutor, have a talk with your child about the dangers of social media and set boundaries. You can't talk to random people and you cannot send inappropriate pictures to ANYONE. But also you, as a parent/tutor, don't check their phone and messages or pictures. Just like you need to trust them, they need to trust you, and by you checking their phone it brakes all the trust from them to you.
And also respect your children. They deserve as much respect as you deserve
Exactly, my parents are strict on the no social media rule.
This makes it so hard for me to interact with kids my age. It’s annoying when a friend ask me what my snap or insta and stuff is and I have to say I don’t have it. Like bruh just teach me what to look out for and give me a break. My parents be so protective if I text to long they are going to ask to see who I’m texting and what about.🙄
Bs
@@anthonyg.4761 continue, where did i go wrong
@@LaraCroft-or9gc Kifs are a parents responsibility. Trust is earned and with peer pressure along with the wonderful buffet of social media dangers they simply have too much temptation and sources pulling them in a bad direction.
The same people on here throwing the kids deserve privacy are the same people who would be saying throw him in jail or how did you not know when my kid suicidrs or shoots up a school. Permissive parents are a large part of how our society got the way it is. Kids have very limited rights or freedoms until they are of age and hopefully prepared to have them.
@@anthonyg.4761 agreed, thank you for this. I’ll try to see this topic from more angles.
Inappropriate questions such as “what are you wearing”
Hey what u wearing
@@thereborne5219 pink crocs.
It is inappropriate when it's used in a different way their is wierd men on the internet that want pictures of kids or little girls and maybe even steal info about them and track them down
@@yorkaseona4025 you have a great taste in fashion
That is inappropriate
My phone: **literally has no secrets at all**
Parents: let me see your phone
Me: **internally screaming**
Lîbbÿ Malone omg 🤣🤣 fr
Lol same
Same
Yass!!!
Lîbbÿ Malone fr
Rule number one for us teens, Don’t let your parents see this video 😂
Exactly
That Gurl BriBri you look 10 you ain’t no teen
Xxxcameron_myers first off I’m 14 hop off my case
yess!!
That Gurl BriBri your actually 12. Your own video exposed you liar 🤥
me: “my arm hurts”
my parents: “it’s that phone”
me: “no that’s not it”
Well it might actually be the phone😏😏😏
Texting elbow? 😜
Now that sounds like your talking back 🤣
I get it😢
Me:i have cancer
Mom:that damn phone
“pLaY mUsiC iN tHe ShoWer” omg such a bad child
rebellious and vile. kids these days amirite
What kind of child would do that🙄
@@timtimgaming1064 I’m 9 and I play music in the shower
@@anarii0 same, its a joke lol
@@anarii0 but I'm 11
Isn’t this just a tutorial of how to create trust issues
yep
And how to get a child to hate your guts
Correct
Yup. Now ur kid won't ever confide in u ever again.
basically
“They use that AskFM as well!”
*Shakes* *Head* *in* *despair*
“I thought that was a radio station”
Spongebob!!
Baahahha same
*D E S P A I R*
@@ImNotEpix, D e s p a i r.
Lol
“It was amazing to see the pain and the outbreak”
Do these people have any sense of privacy?
"What are you wearing" VeRy InNaPrOpRiAtE
Eli Mehlhaff lol XD
ikr like wtf😂😂
Someone asked me that on a fudging WORLD chat on a game
im wearing crocs
lmfao 😂😂😂
“So what do you do on your phone?” Watch videos on what other kids do on their phones
Emma Harmon lol
Emma Harmon 😂
Emma Harmon I
Same
Emma Harmon so ttue
who else didn't even know these apps existed and is a teen
Me
uhhh no 👀
I’m 13 and I haven’t heard of most of em
Me.. (I’m 16)
i kinda wanna download calculator plus now lmao
Lord where do I begin. When we get into our parents business, they’re all “get off my nerves” when they go through our phones, it’s “it’s my business too.” Or “it’s my phone”
Or I payed for it so it's mine
@@ericweber5942 fr like??!!!
pls don't use Gods name in vain
Me: Mom I think I’m going through puberty
Mom: THatS BecAusE YOuRE alWAyS On THat DAmn pHONe ALl tHe TiMe
What if kids got to scroll through there parents phone if our parents ask to see ours
If you are pre pubescent you should not be on this website.
BOI
Oml my mom said that to me 😂🤣
Story of my lifeeeee
i don’t have anything malicious on my phone but it makes me so anxious when my parents go through it.
You don't have anything _evil_ on your phone...you do realize "malicious" means evil, right..?
Everyone said my name was stupid so I changed it. What was your stupid old name
Omg me too
Same I mean I do have personal stuff i dont want my parents to see
Everyone said my name was stupid so I changed it. Same
I hope my mom doesn't see this and "get inspired"
Thats exactly happens to me
Insufficient Brain Capacity FR !!
Yeahhh
ugh ik🙄
Insufficient Brain Capacity Ikr
When my parents bring up anything about my phone:
my heartbeat: 📈📈📈📈📈
TRUE
And then they like
WHAT ARE YOU DOING? DATING A 42 YEAR OLD MAN??
And I'm like
NO JUST LOOKING AT LGBTQ STUFF
@@Volcanic_Activity same 😭
so true 😭
Same- my hypersexuality
I got nothing to hide in my phone, I just feel embarrassed when they look at my pictures, I feel insecure.
Leda Jane Same
My general memes are inoffensive and acceptable but I try to hide the political memes I have, that goes a bit too far.
Leda Jane samee
Leda Jane same
Leda Jane girl sameeee
*how to lose trust from your kids 101*
Lmfaooo
To*
Lose*
@MyUshyGushyBussy lol like 4 people
Aside the spelling mistakes,true
Why did that one mom need to point out that her kid listens to music in the shower a lot of people do that
Exactly lol
Yeah that’s normal LOL
PopularMods 1 I do that
I know
Wait what people listen to music in the shower, how?
Me: "moody because I'm going through puberty"
Parents: it's that Damn phone
Literally same.
Mom: no more screens today go and read a book moody child.
Me: just does what she says because I don't want to bring up puberty.
@@hgfinch10 aw lol
@@hgfinch10 I bring it up all the time
Me: *smiles at my phone*
My mom: she’s probably talking to some boy...
Me: *looking at dank memes*
Bubblegum trust me, no boy wants to talk to you.
bruh Says the one who like anime
Imagine still using the word dank
Imagine having a name like bruh and liking anime
Bubblegum ye same but im a guy
Why they trying to expose us? Everyone has stuff on there phone they don’t want anyone seeing and that’s fine.
Kylie The Robot Thank you
Kylie The Robot i agree
Kylie The Robot why are they*
yeah but theyre like, 13
IKR? My mom got a notification while she was driving once and asked who the text was from but told me not to read it. But when I get a phone she goes through my text -_-
Parents: My KiDs AlwAyS On ThErE pHoNeS
Kid: hey mom and dad I got an A on my test!
Parent: sHuT uP iM oN tHe PhOnE
It sadly is true but my mom (my dad only uses his phone for pictures and calling) is nice and does not say shut up
Or, shhhh i am in a zoom call
my mom doesn’t even respond sometimes 😂
Their*
this is way to true
The girls were most likely forced to "agree" with this, when I'm a parent I'm not gonna be THAT desperate to see what's on their phone
My mom asked for my phone once
What I did.....
Deleted all my history, playlists ALOT of photos,weird games and changed wallpaper...Turns out she just wanted to use it to call someone..........
UNKNOWN ME my dad does that all the time, he just wants to use it for the calculator 😂 his is always dead
@@Emmalovesdogs678 Daaamnn 😂😂
@Marissa Johnson Yeeeeeep
Marissa Johnson true very true
She doesn't have her own phone???
There’s nothing bad on my phone, but I still don’t like when they touch it, and I don’t know why. (thanks for 5k likes!!!)
ChallengeAccepted same dude
Same
I’m glad I’m not alone
ChallengeAccepted omg same
True
“What are you wearing”
Me:sponge bob pjs
Them:INAPPROPRIATE!
Unicorn onesie
A hoodie and comfy pants
Pajamas
Also pjs.
Hoodie and leggings
I'm 26 and I STILL get anxious when my mom wants to use my phone 🤦♂️
Same 😂😂
Im 14 and when they wonder what im watching, i got panic
@@Mansour4reallomg fr like it’s K-pop and my mom thinks I’m gay and trans for listening to it so I get scared
"ShE PuTs iT iN a ZiPlOcK BaG aNd PlaYs MUsIc In ThE ShOwEr" woah
olivia renee *gasps*
I do that but instead of music i watch youtube in the shower
@@veosins5574 i try to do that but the taps to loud i can't hear anything :(
olivia renee that’s a life hack
"my daughter listens to music while she showers" I thought this was normal
nobody can see my memes collection in my phone
oof yes
I use calculator + for memes
CenTz Yooooo me too
Bro same though
lol my own made memes trn to be stolen
me: mom I have a stomach ache
mom: it’s because if that phone of yours
*WHAT!?*
Me: mom it’s raining, I’m gonna be too cold outside
Mom: cuz u always on that phone
Me:my leg hurts
Mom:I swear that phone is messing u up
Me: my head hurts
Mom: its because your always on your phone
Me:but I'm reading a book
Mom:give me your phone
Me: (gives phone)
Mom: (goes in messenger then facetimes her sisters)
Me: Mom my stomach hurts
Mom: It’s because of that phone
🤨🤔😑
lol parents and old people are like that. They just don't understand.
Okay but I actually think that these girls are old enough to have privacy over their phones. I was a bit surprised to hear that their parents had full access to their phones with a code and everything, like they are teens not eight year olds. They seemed to know about boundaries well, the parents should trust their teens more it’s better for the both of them I think.
One of the girls was twelve that's not even a teenager yet
@@emmamassey001 Yes I agree that is young but they seem mature enough to tell their parents if something is wrong. Some control is fine but they should not know their phones code. Phones are a lot of people’s main communication and conversation between the teens friends and such should be private.
@@emmamassey001 wow that’s such a HUGE gap
@@emmamassey001 they TOTALLY arent about to go through puberty and start liking people, GOD FORBID!
Honestly, these parents were so annoying. They kept on talking over eachother
First Last ikr!!! The kids were more polite than the parents
I’m in Algebra 1 and when she said calculator plus, I thought it was an online TI-84+
Krish Bb57 literally same
Krish Bb57 so true
Lol same
Krish Bb57 I have the open so as soon as I heard the porn hub intro went trough my head
HAHAHA SAME
My mom checked my photos once and just found memes
She was very concerned
I’d be concerned as well look at ur profile pic
Sqüid I am to bc of your profile pic lmaoo
Your profile pick tells us all. But it's weird and funny
My mom found jojo memes and was very confused
Lol
I’m a teen and there are a lot of things that I want to be keep private. It’s not because there inappropriate but simply because I find them (in my mind) embarrassing. For one example I’m still trying to figure out my style, sexuality, etc and Im not at a state of mind to just walk up to my parents and tell them that. I don’t understand why just because we keep things private it makes us look like monsters
THIS it’s usually just bcuz I’m embarrassed
*how to stop teenagers from being teenagers: 101*
How to protect your teenager because they think they are invincible and that bad things only happen to other people 101.
just look up how many teens get kidnapped raped and murdered every year because they do dumb shit
CORENS Well tell them not to do dumb shit
CORENS well good, those people are getting rid of the retarded kids
calboy seseman you sound like a liberal, shut your fucking mouth
Experts = 40 year old people that know nothing
Prabhjot Lidhar and my daddy
fr tho
You know more asshat?
Gen X-er!
Well I'd like to think so
Understandable, have a great day.
If my dad looked through my phone he would whoop my ass all the way to outta space
I was showing my mom and dad how dumb my ex was by showing the types of messages she sends and I accidently scrolled past a dick pic.... Ruh roh
Deadshot Legacy hahahahah i feel so sorry for you. What happened after??
Lil Hudz i looked at both of them and said "you aint see nothin"
Deadshot Legacy oh haha I would be in massive trouble like u dunno how much
cherry Lol my mom does not say that. They swear a lot so they are like "Hmm whatever" or though my dad was raised not to swear but my moms bad lingwa (Lolz) led him to swearing too BUT he does not swear nearly as often. But my dad will be like "Who tought you to use thia kind of languge?" and then im like "YOU!". (Lol AGAIN). Even if I say something like "What the f?!" he acts as if I swore because he knows what it is suppose to mean. But anyways byeee! Bye because I am so boring and annoying. :P
Okay so this is something I want to talk to about parents , now if you truly want to know why you should check your kids phone and there's also some advice for teens .
Here it is -
When their children reach the teen years, many parents wonder why their kids suddenly need privacy. Learn the relationship between privacy and trust, why parents should usually respect their child's privacy and when it's appropriate for parents to snoop.
The Link Between Privacy and Trust
Privacy issues stem from trust issues. Our teens want to be trusted to do more and more things.
They want to be thought of as mature and capable of handling independence. It is wonderful when we can give our teens their space and privacy. Time alone, their diary and conversations with friends are examples of private areas we can offer our teens.
Sometimes teens may have private conversations with their siblings that need to be respected as well. Sons may feel more comfortable confiding in their father about certain matters, while daughters may feel more comfortable confiding in their mothers. This is especially the case if romantic relationships or the physiological changes they're experiencing at this time are the subject at hand.
Other Reasons Teens Need Privacy
Teens not only strive to be independent during adolescence, they also endure physical changes that make privacy during this age imperative. A daughter who always felt comfortable changing clothes in front of her mother may no longer want to disrobe in front of her.
She may also lock her bedroom door or the bathroom door to ensure that her wish for privacy is respected.
The Benefits of Giving Teens Privacy
When we give our teens the privacy they need, they become more independent and build their self-confidence. Balance between knowing what your teen is doing, trusting your teen to have some private matters and knowing when to step in is a fine line that parents walk every day.
Trust your instincts.
When to Invade a Teen's Privacy
Sometimes a parent may need to decide that it's time to snoop on their teens. Parents shouldn't take this step to find out why a teen had a fight with a friend or for another seemingly innocuous reason. Instead, they should reserve snooping if an adolescent shows signs of depression or of hurting himself or someone else.
If your child sleeps all the time, has lost interest in the hobbies that he used to enjoy, has become withdrawn, stopped socializing, or is showing other red signs, such as drug or alcohol use, it may be time to snoop. Snooping should never be the first move a parent makes under these circumstances, however.
First, try to communicate with your teen about the changes in his behavior. Ask why he no longer wants to play on the basketball team or hang out with his best friend since kindergarten. Then, listen to what your child says. If all you get in response is a shrug or "I don't know," consider having your child see a therapist. If the teen directly states that he wants to harm himself or someone else, forget snooping and get medical help right away.
Wrapping Up
Respecting a teen's privacy is an important move to make if you want your child to believe you trust in her or that she's capable of some forms of independence.
However, if your teen is showing major signs of acting out, it is likely necessary for you to invade her privacy to get her the help she needs as soon as possible.
We all have secrets that we don’t want anyone to see. Especially when someone tries to go through my phone without my permission. I remember one time I showed my colleague a photo on my mobile phone because of my work, but he secretly browsed all the pictures in my gallery. I am very angry, although there is nothing strange in my phone. But this disrespect for my privacy is very disgusting.
I like joking around with my friends but I don’t think trying to get some dirt on your friend’s cell is funny. I find it quite disrespectful.
I know just a way to stop your parents from taking your phone. There are some apps that can lock your phone and no one can unlock it without your password. I know sometimes it might be hard for us to tell our parents to stay away from our phone. If you are afraid your parent would be angry for you to lock your phone, you can use the fake cover feature. it would make your phone looks like it’s not working well. And lastly teens who are afraid to tell their parents how they feel about the lack of privacy. Listen tell them as soon as you can because frankly it's better to blush and squirm and have an uncomfortable conversation once then to be pale and frustrated for the rest of your life. And by rest of your life I mean many asian , indian families have adult kids who still live with their parents due to social norms and let's face it you won't be able to move out the second you turn 18 so it is better to just grit your teeth and say it now rather than suffer in silence because if you choose the latter you only have yourself and your cowardice to blame. And if your parents refuse to listen then welll I have given you a tip to protect your phone you might as well use it
Me: "hey mom, I've been feeling pretty low lately, I just want to have a bit of support"
Mom: "it's that damn phone"
I mean it probably is (not that I'm justifying.that response)
@@swimmingrobot1219 most of the time it’s never the phone, they just say the bullshit just to get under your skin and get you upset that’s all they do. It’s hella annoying
@@aiesha2738 this is an immature reply. parents aren't sitting around thinking of ways o piss their children off. they do it out of love, but not every person is perfect. spend as much time with ur parents as possible while u still can
When I had been diagnosed with autism, my mother literally said it's because of my phone
Mostly of time its all the homework i have to do due tomorrow
because flirting is illegal rn
MyNameIs Me obviously
Flirting with 12 year olds IS illegal
good o'l me plant not if you’re a 12 year old
uhhhh yeah id hope it would be illegal for a 19 year old to flirt with a 12 year old
Well here’s the problem, all devices and most apps require parent authorization if they are underage so it’s parents fault. In a prefect world underage kids shouldn’t have smart phones.
*Deletes Wattpad*, *1,000 pictures*, *Logs off all social media*, *Clears all history*
Greasy Bangtan ACCURATE
sO ACCURATE WITH THE WATTPAD ONE. (and b a n g t a n)
I had to delete my wattpad, DANG YOU LEMONS
Bangtan wattpad lmao
*Resets phone*
I like how they’re no boys in this because they literally don’t care what they’re doing.
Me: *shows my mom a funny meme on instagram*
Her: who's that
Me: mom its just a meme
Her: you shouldnt be posting stuff like that, delete it.
Me: uh i didn't upload that
*gets grounded for a month*
Dora true
Dora that is actually how stupid some parents are
T H O T why is this so true
Hey It’s Hailey! Because its true
Dat bullshit xd
Imagine being a boomer who still says “smartphone”
Thanos imagine being Thanos, that’s badass
Thanos Imagine being a boomer that gets offended by the word ‘boomer’
@Sam K I made this comment 2 months ago when the joke was still a thing. Makes sense
@Sam K We are ur future shutup
400th like
That title makes it sound like every teen is doing it, which pisses me off.
One puuuuuuunnnch
Exactly I'm 12 and I have a boyfriend and my parents know about it and I don't want them seeing this video because that's going to make them think that a lot and a lot and a lot of preteens and teens do it which will make them trust me less and they trust me a lot and there's nothing I'm even hiding from them but if they see this they're probably going to lose my trust
Exactly it's brainwashing people
kyster 7 you’re too young to have a boyfriend
MasterLuke24 Is Cool lad shut up like your not the one to be telling her if she can or can’t have a boyfriend, it’s probably gonna end in like 2 weeks anyway
Me: **plays club penguin rewritten with a teen boy**
My brother: I'm gonna tell mom
My mom: what!?
Jk jk, everything's fine
GOTTA HIDE THE WATTPAD
penfur 48 THISS
penfur 48 LOL SAME
GOTTA HIDE THE LEMON FANFICS
YES
Same
“We found some inappropriate posts like ‘What are you wearing’ *remember, she’s 12*
Do you seriously not get it?
@@NataliesArt no.....?
Sydneyirishdances 💀💀💀
LMFAO I DIED WHEN HE SAID THAT
Me: *Smiles at phone*
Parents: Who are you talking to? A crush?
Me: Bold of you to assume I could get my crush to talk to me
Bruh I wish I had my crushes number oof
GuardedFilms iMessage games :)
My crush actually got my number and we text and FaceTime lol
What i'm actually smiling at: th-cam.com/video/MkZhsgvXbqU/w-d-xo.html
💀
as a preteen and even as an older teen, I dont have social media and kids having social media (especially snapchat and instagram) is mind blowing to me
Mom: Can i see your phone?
me: uhh yeah
me: *deletes 10,000 pictures of memes and vines*
Tea Updatez literally same
Ive never related more to anything in my entire LIFE.
HAHAHAHA STORY OF MY LIFE, my mum would just call it rubbish 😂😂😂
Yessss
"We found some inappropriate posts on Tammy's page:" "Do you push the elevator button more than once? Does it really make the elevator faster?"
Steve Komperda LOL
Steve Komperda yeah and how is telling people what you're wearing because 9/10 you're going to be wearing clothes that are appropriate
that’s horrifying!!!
I'm scared that my parents will find my dank meme stash
Oh jeez
New Dank memes are far and few inbetween nowa days, i refuse to belive you have an entire stash
69
I’m afraid my dad will find my bts meme collection
Omg...
Parents don’t really know their kids as well as they think. I’m in my mid 20’s and have noticed since I was a kid that children have mastered the ability of faking a personality around their family and completely changing around other groups of people. Pretty sad if you ask me. Parents act so “shocked” about finding stuff out but it’s like they don’t even know who their kid really is when they are away
“BUT EXPERTS TELL US...”
HAHAHA
Hippihippo Studios whispers never tell
AKA THEY’RE FLIPPEN KIDS
Hippihippo Studios same
Hippihippo Studios i
“What are you wearing right now” “keep in mind she’s only 12”... uh what if one friend just wanted to know what they were wearing??
Avery Mentzinger Ok you know that's probably not what it was though lmao. And also it's anonymous so how would she know? I think I'd have the sense to know that would creep someone out when I was 12.
Just be like
Uh clothes
“what are you wearing?”
not in appropriate but k.
yes it is
r/boneappletea
Seriously the most innocent thing I have ever read
Avocado Austin it’s supposed to be spelled ‘inappropriate’
my mom lets me wear crop tops day by day to school. but not like to my chest
Debunkin’ time
1. Fake calculator? Never heard of it and would rather save my pictures on discord.
2. AskFM? What the hell is that, never heard of it either and seems like a horrible idea.
3. Not every teen is like this, stop acting as if we are all drüg dealers
Getting into my own things now
4. Just because I am messaging someone of the opposite gender DOESN’T MEAN I LIKE THEM
5. Online friends are cool, helped me not commit the ha ha funny knife game multiple times
6. I have 7 discord and TH-cam accounts, doesn’t mean I’m hiding anything
I got nothing to hide on my phone, I have no guy to talk to, I don't watch porn, I don't do drugs, I don't party, I only text one person. Honestly if my parents saw my phone they'd be ashamed of how boring my life is
It's_ Nia lol
same
It's_ Nia same...
I'm the opposite wow
It's_ Nia me too
Why are there not any boys getting there phones checked
Elizabeth Hernandez cause you know their History browser is all cleared
@@kayzadiyah3112 Your right
History is paused
I clear my history on everything 😂
Oh God.....
Clears history.
What are preteens keeping on their phones?
Maybe normal preteen things
Maybe.
Maybe.
Ya I have pictures of Phone cases I want makeup looks I want to try and selfies with me and my friends and just me lol
For me memes and bAnd pIcTuReS
_Maybe_
I’m 13. I had an encounter with the “old schooling system” once.
I don’t really have to do much chores around my house cause my mom says it’s her responsibility and I should just focus on school (no I’m not some spoiled brat, I’m actually extremely grateful for this). So one day I asked if I could do chores for a bit of money, 20 bucks or so. I continued asking but she never gave me anything I could do. I was gonna go shopping with my friends in a couple days and I wanted money to buy stuff. She said she’d just give me the money but I continued to refuse. A couple days later, I guess she was thinking about it. I got a text saying “You don’t want 20 bucks to pay off some bully at school, right?”. I literally started laughing and thought she was joking but she was dead serious. Nowadays, school is like: wake, walk, talk, do, leave. Nothing eventful happens except boredom. I had to let her know that it was for her birthday present after that, which was why I wanted to get the money myself because otherwise it would just be a “present for herself that I just picked out”. I told her later on that it is nothing like before and bullying doesn’t happen often or at all.
I’m 13 and tbh if my parents looked through my phone I would get beat and disowned
I would question this buttttt I know whatya mean
Zoogle yeah lmfao
Yusuf Rehman why same
_same_
Random person um what
“even the most involved parents don’t know everything” parents are NOT supposed to know everything, especially at this old of an age. teens deserve privacy.
There TWEENS, WHAT PART OF IT DONT YOU UNDERSTAND
A TWEEN IS AGES 10-12
@@pinkperfumefairy9205 Tween girls are going through puberty. It is normal for them to be curious have romantic desires etc. They deserve privacy.
Everybody deserve privacy
@@pinkperfumefairy9205 the part where i have to commit to no privacy because of my age...?
@@pinkperfumefairy9205 they still need privacy smart ass.
I wish they did this with older teens. Like THAT would be interesting
Ikr half the girls aren't even teens
@I get more head Than the French Revolution ikr
Lmao I would have been buried alive if my parents saw what was in my phone at that age.
*finds onlyfans*
@I get more head Than the French Revolution lol ik, my younger cousins/ siblings purposely say that to get on my nerves
don’t u love how parents complain ab the littlest things when ur phone is why ur still alive 😀
Mom: lemme see your phone for a sec
Me: yeah hold on
Also me: *deletes over 3000 pictures of chicken nuggets*
ya_boi_Waffle xz but are the chicken nuggets accompanied by ketchup or bbq?
@@jasminerodriguez4855 BBQ all the way 😂
When i was in fourth grade, for some reason i had a lot of pictures of potato smiles and guinea pigs 😂
Oh yes 👌
TRUMP: I PRESENT
*CHICKEN* HUB
We need a video that has kids going through their parents phone.
Edit: okay so I wrote this 4 years ago when I was 14... and now I know that if I were to go through my dad's phone, I'd be scarred for life lmao. also, I have a newfound respect for parents but let's be honest the lengths helicopter parents go to to violate their kids' privacy is just harmful.
XD
Without the parents deleting shit first and have the kids be teens , the parents can fuck themselves
I’m still shooken when I took that into my own hands
I search trough my mom's phone
Omg YES
“what are you wearing?”
“clothes”
omg too inappropriate
Ya
What a sin
LOL I literally said the same thing when some mf asked
What a sinful child she needs Jesus 😤
Without much detail, there's nothing incriminating with that question. And how does someone posted that comment knew that the girl is 12?
i listen to one direction in the shower and my parents don’t care the fact that my phone goes into the bathroom with me, because they trust me. if you don’t trust your kids you just build an unhealthy relationship with them.
Girl: I have calculator +
Other Girls: Embarrassed giggles.
Inside the Other Girls heads: OH GOSH SHES GOING TO GET US CAUGHT ABORT MISSION ABORT MISSION!!
Fr
I'm not going to lie when she first said calculator + I was like you have a calculator app on your phone how is that so bad and then she said it was an app that looks like a calculator but it's really not so that it was like oh that makes more sense
Anyone notice how there were only girls lmao under the age of 13
hense the term "preteen”
LOLL, I remember when my parents went through my phone at 13 and found nothing, but never look through my sisters, only once and they found porn and she was 9, yet they still only look through mine 🤦♀️🤦♀️
@@cameronh.6753 i think the point is there were no boys XD
@@abigailvest4363 yeah but i think the point is there are no boys
“Preteen” think about what that means.
Those kids look 15 not 12
RagingBeef ikr
RagingBeef
Girls mature at an earlier age then boys
Bofa Deez I know 12 year olds and they don’t look like that
That's how they built nowadays😬
RagingBeef actually they look older than that
gotta love "*who are you texting!?!*" everytime i check the time
“PlAyS mUsIc iN tHe ShOwEr” omg that’s so bad🤧
Oh nO ThAt ShOuLd bE iLlEgALL sMh
Rebel 🤘
YoU gOiNG tO hELl foR tHaT
How dare they. The disrespect 🙄😒
That's so illegal 😡😭
what do i do on my phone?
i go on youtube 24/7.
Toast same
Preach
Accurate 10/10
Me too
SAME HERE!!!!
Experts say:
PhOnEs ArE sUpEr pUpeR bAd
No
PhOnEs ArE sUpEr *DuPeR* pUpeR bAd
Trust me, the more invasive you are, the more secretive your children get.