What helped me the most with raising my children was the book ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’. It is honestly a game changer
I had incredibly strict and sheltering parents growing up. I was home schooled, home churched, wasn't allowed to listen to secular music, couldn't date and I wasn't allowed to make any of my own decisions. So when I left at 17, I went absolutely crazy. Became addicted to drugs and self destructive behavior. Until I met my wife at 19. I've been improving ever since. Now that I have my own kids I am raising them totally different than I was, much like the "authoritative parenting" you described. So far they're turning out great! I still struggle with anxiety and depression, but every day I get a little better, and if you had a similar experience and are struggling, so can you :)
TheRevivist New 12: “Video games cause mass shootings and should be banned” Parents: “It’s because of those dang video games that’s why people keep dying”
What I’ve gained from strict parenting; -how to hide my feelings -how to listen to footsteps -people pleasing -how to create a conservative and convincing lies.
I'm also assuming it makes them feel better to break those rules because sometimes parents make dumb rules which your just like *but why tho what's the point*
When I grow up I never want my children to go through what I do. Because my parents feel like as if it is their job to emotionally break their children. I don't want my children to feel as if they can't talk to me about things. I don't want them to be afraid to be in the same room as me.I want them to be able to lean from their mistakes instead of fearing being hit for it.
When I have kids I want them to respect me out love not out fear and strict parents have it backwards because if you are too controlling then they will secretly rebel against you and will hide things in fear of you which in result ruin the relationship between parent and child.
@@CinnaMoonGamer thanks, went down a rabbit hole, fences torned down furiously, bringing dead father's ashes to a meeting and health evaluation of an urn. Jesus christ
I come from an Asian family and they’re pretty strict. I think strict parents fails to realise that children are humans too, and they have their own feelings, opinions, needs and wants. They should really think about these factors before cramming stress and discipline down the children’s throats.
agree my mom is like Oh Im Just gonna clean the house I don't need help! don't worry about me! Im gonna do it all just do whatever you want! 1 min later WHY IS NO ONE HELPING ME??
Mom: Look how well your best friend plays the piano. I wish you were more like him rather than staying on your phone all day. Me: okay?? Later: *he tells me to do something my mom won't like* Mom: WHY DID YOU DO THAT? Me: Mom but it was his idea, what can I do? Mom: SO IF HE JUMPS OFF A BUILDING, WILL YOU DO THE SAME? Me in mind: Mom but you told me to be like him so I did and now you're shouting at me? Parents logic doesnt make sense
What strict parents think they’re doing: Teach us to behave *What they’re actually doing:* Teach us to lie on the spot Listen for footsteps Manipulate someone to calm down
What I have learnt from my semi strict parents: How to use the shortcut that closes all your tabs in one second. How to properly use private search and history clearing. How to hide you personal email so they can't spy on your conversations. How to quietly listen to music when your stressed so they don't come in and make you more stressed.
I have: Learnt to disguise my web browsing as school work(I am learning calculus and undergraduate physics, I just feel insecure revealing that to my parents) Learnt how to hide every personal file on my PC so that they don't find it Learnt how to IMMEDIATELY close every window and tabs when why parents come in the room
??? this is simple stuff lol 1. theres litterally an x in the corner of the screen. unless ur a weirdo that uses one tab on one side and the other on the other side. 2. we all know this lol especially when ur a teen lmfao 3. just get an email they dont know about 4. what? just put in earbuds?????
@@bruh.5620 1. ok, so you want to just close everything your doing and have to go back into it by using the x button? 2. my parents check my browser history every day, so its important i keep things a secret. 3. my dad has acsess to my computer, so he can find all my emails winin a second, so i have to message friends through private search. 4. if i "just put ear buds in" then if they call me while im trying to relax, and i cant hear them, then they will just keep getting louder and louder, then scold me for "not listening to them"
@@Mikey91112 1. minimize then lmfao why did you say close. 2. idgaf if its important or not we all know incognito mode 3. just delete your history or incognito then if he really searches ur history for a different email 4. this is the only one you have a fair point on
for me, my mom is chill, but my dad isn't, we were watching Jaiden Animations and when she said "Like Bill Nye says 'Gender is a spectrum'" my dad got feircly upset and im afraid to come out to him as bi
I Woudnt know because I don’t know my dad so if I ever feel lonely I think of him and that there had to be a reason he left my mom I guess I just kinda had to figure everything out my grandad is more like a father figure to me i kinda have some social anxiety and just anxiety so maby it has something to do with it
I am glad nobody invites me. Not getting an invitation is better than your mother telling you you cannot go there because she does not know them. Says the person who can’t use a Nintendo. Any Nintendo.
InfamousBot 01 My parents wouldn’t let me go to those functions or trips with my friends and while I had to hear about how much fun they had I was just sitting there, this ultimately led to them not inviting me anymore and also led to me not having many close friends So knowing that info Mom: why don’t you go out with your friends Me: what friends?
My parent yells at me everyday, yells at me for crying, tells me to stand up for myself when I never can thanks to them, teaches me how to lie, always says that they respect my opinion when they never do, and so much other stuff. And my parent wonders why I hate talking to people and why emotions are hard for me to control. She somehow believed me when I told her Im not depressed (“funny” enough I have depression and also yes I know the different meaning of “depressed” and “depression” ok?) and she believes me anytime I say that I’m happy when I’m sad. I’m tired right now so I don’t want to continue this.
I always found corporal punishment unnecessary. I mean, you're teaching your child to fear you, the one person in their life they spend most of their time with and trusted when growing up, it's a bit much.
When I was younger, my mom yelled at me over something. She then went in for the hug to tell me she loved me despite just yelling at me. I dodged the hug and my mom got even madder and said me not wanting to hug her was a slap on the cheek. A different time, she asked me what I was afraid of, I said, “you” and she yelled back. I’m still scared of her sometimes.
Sometimes my mum would yell at me, then she’d yell at me for crying, saying it was “unacceptable to show emotions like that” and “why are you crying, you made the mistake”. Now she does it less, but complains about me not showing enough affection and being too reserved...
For me, its like this Me:does bad thing Dad:hey dont do that that's not cool Me 3 days later: does it again Dad:I said dont do that, next time speak to the _chinelos_ Me: does it aga- DAD: *PAF* I DONT LIKE TO REPEAT STUFF, YOU BETTER HEAR ME NOW OKAY!?
Me: (cries) Parents: ... Me: (waits for parents to stop talking) [explains] (while crying) Parents: just breathe slowly, wash your face, go drink some water and then explain Well that's my life👏
@@fahadredalfailchawy9471 it's just that my parents are kinder than before Also I had a lot of emotional build up from moving elsewhere (I won't tell you from where to where because of... Reasons) and I lost my friend... My one friend (yes I only had one friend) and kept it in.. Until I let my emotions run wild and...😭 But {sniff} I'm.. I'm ok now
Emotional build up is a great enemy@UCwu0mG2l73lwVOQF_WddQ7g I have too much of it😐 Some of mine date back 7 years _Reason:_ I'm an introvert... I'm not so social 😐 And my teeth are horrendous... And people only care for looks (that's why I had only one friend {that I moved away from[due to parents work and stuff]}) And if you're not caught off guard by shock of your parents yelling at you and are ok with what I just said (because it's my opinion on people) then... Tough luck buddy😐
I have semi-strict parents. My dad is quick to anger, and when I do the slightest thing wrong (aka crying) I get grounded for a week. My mom on the other hand, doesn’t ground me, but discusses what I did wrong and how to not do it again. If I had to only live with one of my parents, I’d choose my mom anytime
golly the crying thing is so true apparently a lot of people on this comments section have parents like mines who don't allow us to have feelings. Pfft
This is the same for me, but slightly different. If I had to live with one of my parents, I wouldn't pick either. Both react equally as bad to things I do wrong.
This is a real history: When i was younger my mom beated the crap out of me because i had a youtube channel(with less then 10 subscribers)and i made a joke about my grandfather needing money for a prostate surgery(stupid children joke that barely no one saw)she beat me with her hands,with her sandals,choked me and even throw me towards the wall making me hit my head really hard,and guess what i started bleeding but even with that she told me to go study to the test i had on the other day. on the other day she put some bandage around my head gave me some painkiller and send me to school with a letter to my teacher and the principal saying that i hurted my head in the doorknob because i slipped on the wet floor. She tolds all her friends(every women on the street about it)and guess what again all of then tough i was the bad guy on the history Now i not only pray every day to be able to live till i turn 18 because i want to go the hell away from here(Brazil)and start over a new life on Canada because i want to be far as possible from her
NO A REALITY LEVEL THREAT IF PARENTS KEEP BEING STRICT REALITY IS GOING TO SAY:why does graystillplays do this to us last time he another reality inside reality now he is making my mom and dad strict i cant afford to live anymore*self destructs destroying everything
I never realized how strict (and abusive) my parents were until I moved out on my own. Now I’m 23 and finally starting to learn how to freely express myself and have my own autonomy. My mom is not dealing with it well.... apparently I’m going to rot in hell.... but I’m happy and thriving!
why is she not happy you are succeeding. bruh explain every comment is like this i mean if we all knew it was unreasonable why did the last generation also spank. like boomers spank millenials, who say "spanking bad" yet then spank gen z. gen z says spank bad but then maybe in the future they will spank. so if its un reasonable why we all do it seems stupid human race stanky
I always win the argument >:) But then my mom is like: "Huh there you go again. Talking back to me again." Then for like 2 days (except me or my mom apologize) she will not talk to me... at all. But she was cool! She supports me in everything (well except games duhh) And she always forgives me. I'm lucky to have such a nice parent!
Me: “Stays home and plays video games” Parent: “All you do is stay home and play games. Why don’t you go outside” Me: “Can I go outside ?” Parent: “There’s nothing for you outside why do you want to go there” Me: “To get some fresh air” Parent : “There’s fresh air in the house, you’re staying home”
My friend has to do 5 hours of studying every night in the 3 or 4 weeks before an exam, and still gets low scores. I think overstudying really doesn't help academically.
My parents: To me: strict parents 100% To my little sister: strict parent 0%. I’m honestly surprised on how many people have similar situations to me. Thanks for your support guys!!
Thanks Life Noggin, I really hope this can teach parents, I'll be honest I'm a 12 year old girl. Yes really, I spend a lot of my time on the internet and I'm always afraid to admit my age as people online think I'm just a spoiled brat. Off topic I've always lived with my mom and well.. She's an alcoholic and I've just accepted this, until I was 10, I learned the danger of alcohol and the impacts it has of children.. like me and because I've gone through this so much I can notice the earliest signs of someone becoming drunk, even before anyone else can notice and when I say something their like "Oh she's just tired and bored" and guess what? She's drunk 1 hour later. But I've had some moments from her that I will never forget, one time she literally took me to the alcohol store and I told my nan that she took me to the store, she caught up to my mom and right when we were about to leave after getting the stuff my nan pulled up and wanted me to get in her car, obviously I wanted to go with my nan but my mom tried to convince me to stay, I eventually went with my nan and I can't remember the rest.. sorry but I go through that stuff a lot or she yells at me to sleep at like 6pm, just recently I've started to realize that.. this is my life.. this is how I live and how I will most likely remember it.. I really hope no future parents do this to their children and for those that are in a similar spot like me.. go with your other parents, talk with the person drinking and if they don't listen as a last resort, call Child Protection Services, it will be hard but if its all you got you should really do it. Thanks for reading this I had to this long and hard to post this but it's probably worth getting the stress off of my shoulders.
Ralphy Rodriguez this is so damn true its like if you really think the phone is the problem maybe take it away and see if i'm better of with or without the phone instead of blaming your bad parenting on a device that you let your child have and then blame the child and phone when according too you logic its your fault
My life living with strict parents: • was never allowed to go off my street when outside by myself, even if I’m just goin to a friends house a street over. • Always berated for not getting the “best score” or being “top in the class” • Constantly being compared to others • Getting yelled at for petty things that could easily be solved • Not being allowed to talk back, even if I have a valid argument or point in a conversation • Having parents that think the concept of mental health is taboo *Theres a lot but this is just a generalization of what goes on.*
Dolphin Go Boop Your parents suck. Why would they compare you to other people? Why wont they let you just cross the street if it’s RIGHT THERE and you know what to do at the road?! *_WHY TF WOULD THEY MAKE YOU GET STRAIGHT A’S?!?!_* People are so messed up, and your own parents need parenting lessons.
I quited playing the piano in 2015 and the piano in the living room is just a decoration now. Meanwhile my mom compare me to literally anyone that can play the piano she can find. She doesn't say it, but I know for a fact she does it just to convince my to play the piano again, and it ain't working
I remember there's a difference between being strict and disciplining. I've met some kids that their parents did nothing in their life (besides provide the basic necessities and make sure they're doing good in school) and they sent them to school we're attending a military school to teach them discipline all that even though it didn't do anything and they just were pissed off at their parents even more.
My mum just tapped my and my siblings hands when we misbehaved. It didnt hurt so we're fine now! She saw how strict parents' kids were always sad, so she never hit us, she just talked with us and comforted us!
Mom: tells child not to talk back Mom: immediately thereafter yells confusing question at child, expecting an answer Mom: "Am I talking to a wall?" Don't just stand there. Answer me!"
I believe spanking is good until a certain age of probably around 9, then you try different tactics. Spanking an older kid or teen will just make them angry and it only lasts a short second; However, taking away a privilege works way better because it gives them time to reflect on what they've done wrong and also lets them know that most everything they have actually belongs to their parents who lets them use it. Best case scenarios would be a phone and a car. Those are wants not needs and they don't belong to the child or teen.
Imagine being an abusive parent of a kid with a BDSM fetish. "Honey, Jimmy didn't do the dishes, what should we do?" "I don't know, but whatever you do, do *not* spank him"
What strick parents think theyre learning their child: Being respectful Teaching how to behave How they actually do: Depression, lying on spot, listening for footsteps
Video games HELP me, I have like no friends in real life, but through playing games I have met many amazing friends, and that's just one example of how technology can help someone
Nah it's bs lol, there's a difference between making your child avoid trouble, conflict in the future, and leaving your child in the streets out free all day taking drugs and wanderless. I'm 14, my parents can annoy me at times, we are kids, we rebel against them at times. We need punishment, but not things that are way too far like maybe abusing your child with either fire, weapons and stuff like that. You have to realize that we gotta appreciate parents for intentions, I'm sure a simple spank will not cause depression and all that. I've been diagnosed with anxiety and I know it's tuff, but like at times it can be because a lot of people online, public, trends can influence on us and make us cause mischief. Parents won't be in your lives forever and you will realize that they have made a great choice of discipline, we children can also say stuff too that can abuse parents, such as hateful things, which can hurt them a lot of you think about it. Some strict parents can be helpful in your lives. My mom had a very strict mother,she'd hit her with belts and lots of stuff, and my mom surely does not have mental issues, she's a very much responsible mother of three, along with my dad that had an awful past too. But they are the most civilized parents I've known, but oh well it can affect people differently depending on their mentality 🗣
My mom: grounding me for being be lazy, because I didn't do my chores when i was doing online school. Also my mom: sitting on the couch all day watching tv
Takes out phone: Parents:: u are always on that phone Takes out book Parents: y are u reading now when u had the whole day Takes a step Parents : tf is wrong with u ( and it continues for the rest of the day lecture)
My dad: work smarter, not harder. Try to do things in a different way to make them easier. Me after doing that: well that was easy Him:NO! THATS NOT THE WAY I DO IT! ITS NOT MORE EFFICIENT! STOP TALKING BACK! (And they wonder where my "attitude" comes from)
My mom was lecturing my two brothers about some thing and then she brought this up: “Some parents are so cruel that they can drop off children in human banks” And I was like what the fu- What she meant was an foster home But instead she said something very dehumanizing and controversial and aegis If I were to put what she said in a nutshell and better explained it would be like this A child cannot be respected as a person and can only be treated as an object until he or she is an adult and that’s when one can be respected as a human And also that got me thinking If a child is an object like money in there really was a “child bank” (Child bank is something that I never thought I’d ever have to say in my life) then that means that you could trade in a 12-year-old for12 newborn babies or you could have a loan of a child That’s a really weird analogy Mom You should’ve said foster home-
@@gracesolo2133 My mom used to say some people would come to our house so they could put me in a van and take me to an abandoned house where they murder and abuse children I cried for 3 hours lol
22 year old, unemployed, no skills to find a job. Been kept in a bubble all my life by my parents who controlled so many aspects of my life, no real friend group cause everytime they asked me out, my parents would say "No" so they didnt bother asking again. I am Indian so moving out isn't an option for me, I feel trapped here meanwhile my old schoolmates achieving their dreams meanwhile i had to bury mine, no matter what i wanted to do, I always had to "ask permission". I was a good lapdog for my parents in my teenage years, never questioned them or never rebelled because i trusted them and thought they are doing this for my good, now that I got older, I understand what my parents have done, they are the cause of my breakup of my 2 year relationship because my GF had more "freedom" than me which didn't sit well with them. I feel like an empty shell of a person, I still have dreams and ambition but I dont know where to start, upon that I fucked myself over by dropping out of college due to me being sick of my parents which inturn would've been a blessing if I had attended it, I would've been freed by now. I sometimes wish to end it all but I have a weird motivation to outlive my enemies. I dont know how long this torture might last but I'll tend to pick up some hobbies along the way. I delved into sports and was competing but parents denied me cause its dangerous, whenever i see someone my age or younger than me in sports my heart sinks (good for them tho) idk how long i'll be stuck here but lets hope this thing ends
Me: eating dinner with my mom *moves one inch* Mom: WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR DOING GET BACK HERE YOUNG MAN Me: I just moved one - Mom: NO BACKTALK YOUR GROUNDED FOR 99 YEARS Me: .......
Omg, when my mom is really mad at me, and im crying cause she hurt my feelings she says "STOP CRYING." I try but i cant, and she says " Fine no screen time for a day." For crying.
You know I blame it on the parents they didn't even grow up with internet and also they don't search weird stuff in the internet cuz I do and I'm only 8 years And should not know where babies are made and how to make them... it's disgusting and ewwwww
I had 2 different ways of growing up. With my mother and stepfather it was horrible punishes that mentally drained me, while I was rarely never abused physically the mental abuse was nonstop. Then when I went to my dads I saw how real parenting worked and was barely punished the way I was at my mothers. In the end I have a stepdaughter and I was taught 2 ways, what NOT to do and what works and I am forever thankful for my dad showing me the right way.
@@Slippery68 Saying phone bad is just as mindless as saying red sus, but instead of the consequence of red doesn't get to play for no good reason, it's someone loses something that keeps them happy for no good reason.
What strict parents think they teach us: • Discipline • Obedience What strict parents do teach us: • How to listen for footsteps • How to find the best hiding places for devices • How to lie well • How to zone out lectures • How to pretend to sleep/work Edit: Yo!!!! Look at these likes! Thanks! 900?! What?!
don't read my profile pic I don’t think it’s word by word but it was inspired by a tweet Plus have you seen your beautifully generic name? It’s more generic than this comment.
@@WAVE0025 idk about yours but mine are jsut your regular parents supportive and strick when needed, also my mom probably cares more of her shoes then my dog(dog quarintining right now since my be positive of corona)
The irony is that if actual strict parents saw this they'd be like :- "Oh you watch this kind of stuff on the internet ? Say goodbye to your net young man."
@@r9fgd193 that sounds like your in an very unhealthy environment. I suggest calling child protection services if this is truly how you feel. And while I don't know your home life the fact that you want to fun away, that your father physical or emotionaly hurts you and yells at you every day is very worrying I hope you are safe and well. Do call child line for help or something akin to that.
As a kid of a strict parent i literally dont even like my mom she is robbing my childhood. I am planning on barely talking to her when I grow up because she has made me miss so many things in my childhood.
also me my parents are like i cant explain but they are very very very very ... ... very very strict against me even tho i have high grades they dont even give me gifts for it
When you answer your parents questions and they say *dOn,T tAlK bAcK aT mE!* Edit: Wooooaah I've never before gotten any likes on a comment I wrote. Thanks guys.
Me: _Doesn’t Want To Talk To People And I Also Cant Control My Emotions_ My Parent: Its The *Phone.* Also My Parent: _Spends The Whole Day On Their Phone_ Also Me: _Cant Even Say Anything About It Because I Don’t Want To Get Yelled At_ My Parent Again: _Yells At Me Anyways_
My mom when I'm enjoying myself : why are you so happy?don't you have studying to do? My mom when I'm studying : why do you look so damn gloomy?cheer up! Me: 👀
My mom would just tell me to stop watching it because ShE iSnT aBuSiVe, and then threaten to beat me like a real abusive parent would, aka “all other parents”. I gotta say she’s real efficient in that regard
every morning, 6:30 AM, i become anxious because that when my parent wakes up, and when i hear footstep, i become more anxious, i am even could differentiate and guess someone just by hearing their footsteps, also not only that, when i hear the sound of open door which had creek sound, i suddenly get panic. Now i am 26, i have job, i had a business i build by my own hand, but i am still can't get out from my parent house, i already experience living alone for 1 year and that so much refreshing, and now want to live alone again, build my own home, but my parent especially my mom prohibit me to live alone, she is manipulative liar, she often use victim card and when i disagree with her, she act like sad even cry but all of that was just an act. This the reason why i dislike my parent, i love them, but not in the term of respecting, in fact i change almost all my identity that associated with my parent from my name, religion and etc because i don't want to be associated with them. Also i had very very rough childhood, i believe you know why i have rough childhood. now i am a smoker, had mental disorder like major depression disorder, panic attack, and anxiety, insomnia, difficult to show emotion, pessimistic nihilistic person, suicidal tendency. That who i am today, they want me to like the fake guru in social media who had lot friend, optimistic and always smile but how the fck i could be like that when they treat me like an object, an asset? well thanks mom and dad, now i really hated life and i believe life also hated me so much too. Also my emotion become numb and everyday day i am losing grasp on life since i don't have hope nor wish because i was a nihilistic person who saw life is meaningless. Thanks so much mom and dad.
Lol if you do anything wrong a couple of times you never have to do it again break all the dishes while washing them throw the clothes on the floor mow the inside of the house
My parents: takes phone away after 2 hours Me: is rebellious and steals phone back and is bassicaly addicted to my phone My friends parents: dont care about her phone My friend: doesn't care about her phone
@@lilyet2930 I KNOW THAT FEELING SO MUCH!! I get my phone once in a month, if i'm lucky, and when I have it, I can't stop playing, even to eat or sleep.
I dont even use my phone anymore because for anything my parents would take it and even if there wasnt anything bad they would come up with something to lecture me about. And, i cant have a password on it or install apps and such. Just not worth it anymore.
Things my parents wanted me to learn 1- discipline 2-responsibility 3-obedience 4-good grades Things I actually learned from my parents 1- how to be a best liar 2- how to hold tears, when someone is using a psychical pressure on me 3- better hearing skills (you always have to be ready for them coming into your room) 4- how to hide things such as phone, money and diaries 5- how to hide apps in your phone, clear your search history and so go on 6- how to find good excuses, if you want to go to the doctor or need to go to the psychologists 7- low self confidence, trust issues, trying to find that warm love in random people and the last one- don't really know how to love someone, because never felt that love.
Thanos can remove existence in a snap. My parents can take my phone, make me grounded, study more, sign me up for extra tutoring, AND do more chore work in a *single snap*
My mom put me in homeschool 10th grade and locked me in my bedroom with a security camera watching me on her phone. Yeeeeeeah long story short, I'm now in foster 😁
What helped me the most with raising my children was the book ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’. It is honestly a game changer
I had incredibly strict and sheltering parents growing up. I was home schooled, home churched, wasn't allowed to listen to secular music, couldn't date and I wasn't allowed to make any of my own decisions. So when I left at 17, I went absolutely crazy. Became addicted to drugs and self destructive behavior. Until I met my wife at 19. I've been improving ever since. Now that I have my own kids I am raising them totally different than I was, much like the
"authoritative parenting" you described. So far they're turning out great! I still struggle with anxiety and depression, but every day I get a little better, and if you had a similar experience and are struggling, so can you :)
Good job to you dude! Keep being a good father and making cool videos 👍
Harrie-B good job bro good for you!!!
damn dude
Wewd
UwU
Because you are taking care of your kids the right way, they love you, and it is a good thing 😊
When kids show this to their parents.
Parents: "Are you really going to believe everything on the internet? You're so naive."
Sadly that's the truth...
im about to send it to my dad wish me luck
Also them: shares everything they found on the internet.
TheRevivist
New 12: “Video games cause mass shootings and should be banned”
Parents: “It’s because of those dang video games that’s why people keep dying”
Meanwhile they’re like I found on a Facebook post that phones cause autism
What I’ve gained from strict parenting;
-how to hide my feelings
-how to listen to footsteps
-people pleasing
-how to create a conservative and convincing lies.
Personally, learning how to make convincing lies from strict parenting made me good at being an impostor at among us
@@WAVE0025
Wow same here
Don’t forget remembering what floorboards or stairs squeak
Yea Same I Know How To Hide My Feelings From Strict Parents
They’re really Strict
Strict parents = WORSE CHILD THAN WANTED
Bad parenting causes brain damage
Kid : *has brain damage
Parent : must be that damn phone again
Amelia Miller that’s literally my mom 😂
lol me too
definitely bad parenting
I hate it when that happens.
So I got an idea... Do a lot of good things and saying that it's the benefit of using the Ipad lol.
Me: Parents watch this.
Parents: Stop watching TH-cam.
Mom: if you tell me the truth i will forgive you!
Me: tells truth
Mother: thats it you're grounded
Relatable
*you're**
@@justanotherpotato5523 just a typical grammar nazi on his duties
@@justanotherpotato5523 no probs
Rabbi Talukdar mother: shocked pikachu face
"Children of strict parents tend to be more rebellious"
Well yeah, because they have more rules to rebel against.
I'm also assuming it makes them feel better to break those rules because sometimes parents make dumb rules which your just like *but why tho what's the point*
You're...... not wrong!
Ah yes, the floor is made of floor.
Nice one tho.
@@zadock6370 *H m .*
Kind of true
When I grow up I never want my children to go through what I do. Because my parents feel like as if it is their job to emotionally break their children. I don't want my children to feel as if they can't talk to me about things. I don't want them to be afraid to be in the same room as me.I want them to be able to lean from their mistakes instead of fearing being hit for it.
Same
I don't want kids, but ok
@Caron Nita Yes
@@Lovesickasyy wow you are a nice girl, sorry that you got t
Raped that is seriously insane... Good luck with your life, I hope you succeed! :)
When I have kids I want them to respect me out love not out fear and strict parents have it backwards because if you are too controlling then they will secretly rebel against you and will hide things in fear of you which in result ruin the relationship between parent and child.
Well strict parents teach you this :
faking to work, sleep
Same thing with strict HR that sets counterproductive policies.
You gotta see r/malicioiscompliance for that
@@CinnaMoonGamer thanks, went down a rabbit hole, fences torned down furiously, bringing dead father's ashes to a meeting and health evaluation of an urn. Jesus christ
Are they actually that strict if they tell you to cause trouble?
And fake being busy
And on the spot lie
News : how many times have you spanked your son?
Parents : *yes*
Pssshht white boys. You be glad you don't have an uncle that comes to your room at midnight after Thanksgiving.
@@seanisgone5413 I'm sorry for what happened to you
Fuckass
@Sean Smith It be like that sometimes
Not funny
I come from an Asian family and they’re pretty strict. I think strict parents fails to realise that children are humans too, and they have their own feelings, opinions, needs and wants. They should really think about these factors before cramming stress and discipline down the children’s throats.
Agree, though there has to be a limit somewhere
Parents: *Use abusive tactics for the better half of my first 16 years*
Therapist: Ah great, now look what you've done. It has depression.
I love how u tell it like therapist thinks ur a thing not a human
You have since be sentenced to jail
@@shivanshgupta5637* *it* * lol
Parents: hit the child for having depression
“Now look what you’ve done, it has depression” should be a meme
Kid: gets depression because of bullying
Strict parents: *it’s that damn phone*
Not just strict ones, *A L L* *O F* *T H E M*
Phones are actually bad for kids, just saying.
andrzej Grabiński that’s ironic coming from you because you’re using a phone or something like that to say that
@@Billy-ci6qi I'm an adult so how is it ironic?
andrzej Grabiński oh my bad
It goes from
“I don’t need any help” to “Nobody does anything in this house!”
agree my mom is like
Oh Im Just gonna clean the house I don't need help! don't worry about me! Im gonna do it all just do whatever you want!
1 min later
WHY IS NO ONE HELPING ME??
IKKKKKRRRRRE
@@deerhat7875 IKR IT'S SOOO ANNOYING! THEN THEY SAY 'OH YEAH NO NEED TO DO UR CHORES' THEN EXPECT U TO HOP TO IT OMGGGGGG
You ruined the comment
J.E.R yeah srry
Let’s face it: strict parents raise the best liars and sneaks
i’ve literally become so good at lying it scares me and makes me feel like a shitty person man:/ but u gotta do what u gotta do
@@nikita6822 Play among us, you will win every impostor round.
@@nikita6822 u have any tips for good lies? Like seriously it would be useful
My name means swearing to say the truth and with my strict parents I'm the best liar ever
@@f.b.i9871 ur the FBI and ur asking for good lies?
Shares video with mom
Mom: yeah luckily I don’t do that
Me: uh about that
Gosh, are you ok?
I think he died
Me too lol expect mom and dad and more....
JJayBlue thanks for that information next time don’t get raped
Um I didn’t mean that way
*THE LITTLE PAT PAT THAT BLOCKO'S ANIMATOR GAVE HIM WARMS MY COLD HEART I-*
*weeeooooohhhweeeeeooooh*
3:20
Burnt Toastie it’s not as good as Leo the lion on Netflix
@@giddygamer6490 still tho-
Not every criticism is constructive. Done wrong it leans to verbal abuse.
I swear my parents can’t understand this concept
@@duckymomo7935 same
Its okay guys I'm sure one day you guys will be happy you guys are strong don't give up! :D
Things I’ve learned from strict parents:
•hide feelings
•learn how to lie
•learn everyone’s footsteps
why have i seen this comment everywhere
Mom: Look how well your best friend plays the piano. I wish you were more like him rather than staying on your phone all day.
Me: okay??
Later: *he tells me to do something my mom won't like*
Mom: WHY DID YOU DO THAT?
Me: Mom but it was his idea, what can I do?
Mom: SO IF HE JUMPS OFF A BUILDING, WILL YOU DO THE SAME?
Me in mind: Mom but you told me to be like him so I did and now you're shouting at me? Parents logic doesnt make sense
Yep
Lmao me to
Stop peeking in on my life dude, where’s your secret camera?
Scientist: are you stressed?
Mouse:
Scientist: Oh my god what have we done
You’re a conspiracy theory
Yeah that's why cats are better
Damm they're on to me
Mouse: what's my purpose
Scientist: you stay in the cage
Mouse: O.M.G
Robot: what is my purpose
Rick: to pass the butter
Robot: O
Robot: M
Robot: G
What strict parents think they’re doing:
Teach us to behave
*What they’re actually doing:*
Teach us to lie on the spot
Listen for footsteps
Manipulate someone to calm down
Every day, Strict parents and media stray further from God.
@@emqbaba3890 TRUEEE
Well i can manipulate someone to calm done even tho my parents arent scrict
copied
Your parents arent teaching you to lie. You taught yourself that. Don't blame them
Me: Shows my mom this video
My mom: Your grounded this video is disrespectful
**reports video for child abuse**
i have a feeling thats how my mom would do
either that or be like "parents need to realize that"
and then do nothing about her ways
._. -_- ._.
MasterSah Gaming its a jokeeeee
MasterSah Gaming
R/whooosh
What I have learnt from my semi strict parents:
How to use the shortcut that closes all your tabs in one second.
How to properly use private search and history clearing.
How to hide you personal email so they can't spy on your conversations.
How to quietly listen to music when your stressed so they don't come in and make you more stressed.
WOW that's awesome
I have:
Learnt to disguise my web browsing as school work(I am learning calculus and undergraduate physics, I just feel insecure revealing that to my parents)
Learnt how to hide every personal file on my PC so that they don't find it
Learnt how to IMMEDIATELY close every window and tabs when why parents come in the room
???
this is simple stuff lol
1. theres litterally an x in the corner of the screen. unless ur a weirdo that uses one tab on one side and the other on the other side.
2. we all know this lol especially when ur a teen lmfao
3. just get an email they dont know about
4. what? just put in earbuds?????
@@bruh.5620
1. ok, so you want to just close everything your doing and have to go back into it by using the x button?
2. my parents check my browser history every day, so its important i keep things a secret.
3. my dad has acsess to my computer, so he can find all my emails winin a second, so i have to message friends through private search.
4. if i "just put ear buds in" then if they call me while im trying to relax, and i cant hear them, then they will just keep getting louder and louder, then scold me for "not listening to them"
@@Mikey91112 1. minimize then lmfao why did you say close.
2. idgaf if its important or not we all know incognito mode
3. just delete your history or incognito then if he really searches ur history for a different email
4. this is the only one you have a fair point on
My dad is more Authoritative, my mom is more Authoritarian. No wonder I like my dad more
Same if it was just me and my dad, I would have so much more freedom.
for me, my mom is chill, but my dad isn't, we were watching Jaiden Animations and when she said "Like Bill Nye says 'Gender is a spectrum'" my dad got feircly upset and im afraid to come out to him as bi
I Woudnt know because I don’t know my dad so if I ever feel lonely I think of him and that there had to be a reason he left my mom I guess I just kinda had to figure everything out my grandad is more like a father figure to me i kinda have some social anxiety and just anxiety so maby it has something to do with it
It's the opposite for me
Those are the same thing lmao
Parents: “Get off that computer and start studying!”
*Me who studies computer programming*
Pusheen Cat rip
@@darleendempster9839 I thought the same thing
same!
Same :(
Lol same
Meanwhile my parents wonder why i barely get invited to stuff.
@Crush Ikr
@@sulfur_americium2993 it's hard being the best
I am glad nobody invites me. Not getting an invitation is better than your mother telling you you cannot go there because she does not know them.
Says the person who can’t use a Nintendo. Any Nintendo.
cuz that damn phone
InfamousBot 01 My parents wouldn’t let me go to those functions or trips with my friends and while I had to hear about how much fun they had I was just sitting there, this ultimately led to them not inviting me anymore and also led to me not having many close friends
So knowing that info
Mom: why don’t you go out with your friends
Me: what friends?
My parent yells at me everyday, yells at me for crying, tells me to stand up for myself when I never can thanks to them, teaches me how to lie, always says that they respect my opinion when they never do, and so much other stuff. And my parent wonders why I hate talking to people and why emotions are hard for me to control. She somehow believed me when I told her Im not depressed (“funny” enough I have depression and also yes I know the different meaning of “depressed” and “depression” ok?) and she believes me anytime I say that I’m happy when I’m sad. I’m tired right now so I don’t want to continue this.
Yup basically my life also.
But like my parent say it's just a phase.
Part of this is reletable for me part not
This is my parents also, Im tired of living like this, I wish I could just run away from them.
dude if it's that bad, (don't know if these are available in your area but) you should visit a social worker/ therapist
*Hears that over controlling parents causes more depression*
Me: *Turns the sound on full*
parents= that's not true
also parents = AH YES ENSLAVE THE MeDiA
Same
Me also: nudge nudge nudge
Lol my parents don't talk English so they won't understand
Hears the effects of spanking
Me: also turns the sound on full
I always found corporal punishment unnecessary. I mean, you're teaching your child to fear you, the one person in their life they spend most of their time with and trusted when growing up, it's a bit much.
When I was younger, my mom yelled at me over something. She then went in for the hug to tell me she loved me despite just yelling at me. I dodged the hug and my mom got even madder and said me not wanting to hug her was a slap on the cheek. A different time, she asked me what I was afraid of, I said, “you” and she yelled back. I’m still scared of her sometimes.
@@geezeegamez2253 she sounds bipolar no offense
Sometimes my mum would yell at me, then she’d yell at me for crying, saying it was “unacceptable to show emotions like that” and “why are you crying, you made the mistake”. Now she does it less, but complains about me not showing enough affection and being too reserved...
When I’m in trouble my mom literally asks “Aren’t you scared of me and your dad!?” And I’m expected to say that yes, I am scared or them.
For me, its like this
Me:does bad thing
Dad:hey dont do that that's not cool
Me 3 days later: does it again
Dad:I said dont do that, next time speak to the _chinelos_
Me: does it aga-
DAD: *PAF* I DONT LIKE TO REPEAT STUFF, YOU BETTER HEAR ME NOW OKAY!?
You do something bad
Angry Parents : ask something in a terrifying way
Me : try to answer
Parents: DON'T TALK BACK
Logic says that your parents asked you to answer
Me: (cries)
Parents: ...
Me: (waits for parents to stop talking) [explains] (while crying)
Parents: just breathe slowly, wash your face, go drink some water and then explain
Well that's my life👏
@@stopplecone so smart
@@fahadredalfailchawy9471 it's just that my parents are kinder than before
Also I had a lot of emotional build up from moving elsewhere (I won't tell you from where to where because of... Reasons) and I lost my friend... My one friend (yes I only had one friend) and kept it in..
Until I let my emotions run wild and...😭
But {sniff} I'm.. I'm ok now
Emotional build up is a great enemy@UCwu0mG2l73lwVOQF_WddQ7g
I have too much of it😐
Some of mine date back 7 years
_Reason:_ I'm an introvert... I'm not so social 😐
And my teeth are horrendous... And people only care for looks (that's why I had only one friend {that I moved away from[due to parents work and stuff]})
And if you're not caught off guard by shock of your parents yelling at you and are ok with what I just said (because it's my opinion on people) then...
Tough luck buddy😐
I have semi-strict parents. My dad is quick to anger, and when I do the slightest thing wrong (aka crying) I get grounded for a week. My mom on the other hand, doesn’t ground me, but discusses what I did wrong and how to not do it again. If I had to only live with one of my parents, I’d choose my mom anytime
golly the crying thing is so true apparently a lot of people on this comments section have parents like mines who don't allow us to have feelings. Pfft
Same
This is the same for me, but slightly different. If I had to live with one of my parents, I wouldn't pick either. Both react equally as bad to things I do wrong.
Movies about school taught me 1 and 1 thing only, EMOTIONS ARE FRICKIN STUPID, + health videos
Oh boy, do I just LOVE getting punished for something I have no control over!
Fin
This is a real history:
When i was younger my mom beated the crap out of me because i had a youtube channel(with less then 10 subscribers)and i made a joke about my grandfather needing money for a prostate surgery(stupid children joke that barely no one saw)she beat me with her hands,with her sandals,choked me and even throw me towards the wall making me hit my head really hard,and guess what i started bleeding but even with that she told me to go study to the test i had on the other day.
on the other day she put some bandage around my head gave me some painkiller and send me to school with a letter to my teacher and the principal saying that i hurted my head in the doorknob because i slipped on the wet floor.
She tolds all her friends(every women on the street about it)and guess what again all of then tough i was the bad guy on the history
Now i not only pray every day to be able to live till i turn 18 because i want to go the hell away from here(Brazil)and start over a new life on Canada because i want to be far as possible from her
I'm so sorry that hapend. Wish you the best!
That is child abuse! I hope you're okay!
mano chama a policiq
policia
Uh...?
How dangerous is strict parents?
*AN AVENGER LEVEL THREAT!*
Thread??
NO A REALITY LEVEL THREAT IF PARENTS KEEP BEING STRICT REALITY IS GOING TO SAY:why does graystillplays do this to us last time he another reality inside reality now he is making my mom and dad strict i cant afford to live anymore*self destructs destroying everything
@@justsomegameplay1971 He said threat. Didn't you see that?
Chatnawat Narakol you can see the comment was edited right?
@@surgicalmaterials Alright...
tfw your mom lectures you over your book choices because the book you wanted to read was “too depressing”
smh...and they also blame it on video games too, because they’re “violent.”
Spiritliliii I get yelled at for reading a book again that I read years ago. I have fun here
Every time I go to a book fair, my mom forces my to buy books I don't want (I actually don't read them after I buy it)
I never realized how strict (and abusive) my parents were until I moved out on my own. Now I’m 23 and finally starting to learn how to freely express myself and have my own autonomy. My mom is not dealing with it well.... apparently I’m going to rot in hell.... but I’m happy and thriving!
why is she not happy you are succeeding. bruh explain every comment is like this i mean if we all knew it was unreasonable why did the last generation also spank. like boomers spank millenials, who say "spanking bad" yet then spank gen z. gen z says spank bad but then maybe in the future they will spank. so if its un reasonable why we all do it seems stupid human race stanky
Yay I think of Hell as a very long sauna, so go f*** yourself Mom!
@@HANKSANDY69420 Da Faq
@@bruh.5620 maybe her mom is jealous. Or just being herself
As if humans are robots that are made of metal, I don’t believe humans can rot, ROBOTS CAN
When your winning the argument and your parents hit you with the
“Don’t talk back to me” or the belt
I know rt but I've never got the belt
Or both
Ohh yeah my mom does that alot. But instead of a belt she goes WWE and starts pulling my hair and throwing me to the ground or something.
I always win the argument >:)
But then my mom is like: "Huh there you go again. Talking back to me again."
Then for like 2 days (except me or my mom apologize) she will not talk to me... at all.
But she was cool! She supports me in everything (well except games duhh)
And she always forgives me. I'm lucky to have such a nice parent!
Me: “Stays home and plays video games”
Parent: “All you do is stay home and play games. Why don’t you go outside”
Me: “Can I go outside ?”
Parent: “There’s nothing for you outside why do you want to go there”
Me: “To get some fresh air”
Parent : “There’s fresh air in the house, you’re staying home”
lol😂
Bruh
Meanwhile...
*ViDeO gAmEs CaUsE vIoLeNcE!*
Aint it.
Accurate description of my dad
You should do a video on narcissistic parenting and how this affects the life of a child
Psych2go has
Ikr
Bad Parents don't create the child of their dreams
They create the monster they feared
-Me
I really like your profile pic 😊💫⭐️
Yup you literally decided to create a menice to society. As you said "All action have consequences"
it makes sence
@@DaysAreForgottenBaby its oversimplified pfp lol
that is an amazing quote
My friend has to do 5 hours of studying every night in the 3 or 4 weeks before an exam, and still gets low scores. I think overstudying really doesn't help academically.
Yeah I can believe that
👏 👏 👏
Yeah because your overstressed and worried so no matter what you do, ur parents need to fix what they messed up. Tell that kid this, maybe?
This man speaks the truth!
5 hours? *pathetic* I’m forced to do 8 hours! Hahaha.....
Asian parents aren’t the best
When you realize that some white moving rectangles are teaching better than school is.
the school system is fu*ked up
I agree I learn more about science here than sChOoL
What’s skool?
@@thatunknownfella It's hell.
Yep...........we must burn down all school's
My parents:
To me: strict parents 100%
To my little sister: strict parent 0%.
I’m honestly surprised on how many people have similar situations to me. Thanks for your support guys!!
Sorry to break your feelings but that's called favoritism.
I have that too
Same
I don’t have siblings and my parents aren’t strict that much
Right?! It’s so freaking annoying!
Thanks Life Noggin, I really hope this can teach parents, I'll be honest I'm a 12 year old girl. Yes really, I spend a lot of my time on the internet and I'm always afraid to admit my age as people online think I'm just a spoiled brat. Off topic I've always lived with my mom and well.. She's an alcoholic and I've just accepted this, until I was 10, I learned the danger of alcohol and the impacts it has of children.. like me and because I've gone through this so much I can notice the earliest signs of someone becoming drunk, even before anyone else can notice and when I say something their like "Oh she's just tired and bored" and guess what? She's drunk 1 hour later. But I've had some moments from her that I will never forget, one time she literally took me to the alcohol store and I told my nan that she took me to the store, she caught up to my mom and right when we were about to leave after getting the stuff my nan pulled up and wanted me to get in her car, obviously I wanted to go with my nan but my mom tried to convince me to stay, I eventually went with my nan and I can't remember the rest.. sorry but I go through that stuff a lot or she yells at me to sleep at like 6pm, just recently I've started to realize that.. this is my life.. this is how I live and how I will most likely remember it.. I really hope no future parents do this to their children and for those that are in a similar spot like me.. go with your other parents, talk with the person drinking and if they don't listen as a last resort, call Child Protection Services, it will be hard but if its all you got you should really do it.
Thanks for reading this I had to this long and hard to post this but it's probably worth getting the stress off of my shoulders.
Good
I feel bad for you.
I hope you grow up, and be a independent woman, and hopefully your mom won’t drink near you.
Kid:Gets antisocial,gets depressed,gets brain damage while the parents are mean to child.
Parents: *THAT DAMN PHONE*
Unfortunately true
Ralphy Rodriguez this is so damn true its like if you really think the phone is the problem maybe take it away and see if i'm better of with or without the phone instead of blaming your bad parenting on a device that you let your child have and then blame the child and phone when according too you logic its your fault
Phone: doesnt charge
Moms: its that damn kid
Ralphy Rodriguez yep yep yep that’s me
Ralphy Rodriguez true
My life living with strict parents:
• was never allowed to go off my street when outside by myself, even if I’m just goin to a friends house a street over.
• Always berated for not getting the “best score” or being “top in the class”
• Constantly being compared to others
• Getting yelled at for petty things that could easily be solved
• Not being allowed to talk back, even if I have a valid argument or point in a conversation
• Having parents that think the concept of mental health is taboo
*Theres a lot but this is just a generalization of what goes on.*
Dolphin Go Boop Your parents suck. Why would they compare you to other people? Why wont they let you just cross the street if it’s RIGHT THERE and you know what to do at the road?! *_WHY TF WOULD THEY MAKE YOU GET STRAIGHT A’S?!?!_* People are so messed up, and your own parents need parenting lessons.
Most of these, I can relate. I will send your parents to gulag.
I quited playing the piano in 2015 and the piano in the living room is just a decoration now. Meanwhile my mom compare me to literally anyone that can play the piano she can find.
She doesn't say it, but I know for a fact she does it just to convince my to play the piano again, and it ain't working
Dolphin Go Boop I relate to this way too much
You describe my parents ;(
Parents: prohibits me from going out
Me: grows up with no social skills
Parents:*shocked pikachu face*
*wHeEzE*
This is so funny 😋
Shivesh R story of my life :(
Big bruh moment
I can relate
I remember there's a difference between being strict and disciplining.
I've met some kids that their parents did nothing in their life (besides provide the basic necessities and make sure they're doing good in school) and they sent them to school we're attending a military school to teach them discipline all that even though it didn't do anything and they just were pissed off at their parents even more.
Child that lives next door: Goes outside and to play and ends up breaking his arm
His mom: ITS BECAUSE OF THAT DAMN PHONE MACHINE
Lol phone machine
My mum just tapped my and my siblings hands when we misbehaved. It didnt hurt so we're fine now! She saw how strict parents' kids were always sad, so she never hit us, she just talked with us and comforted us!
Good for you
im so happy for u! :D
Man good for you man
Lucky
Nice
Mom: tells child not to talk back
Mom: immediately thereafter yells confusing question at child, expecting an answer
Mom: "Am I talking to a wall?" Don't just stand there. Answer me!"
ah yeah.....the terrible memories are coming back
Well this is my parent
@@DeathDirector I live them every day
Parents in a nutshell
LMAOOOOOO
Life Noggin: Spanking is bad!
African parents: Imma pretend I didn't see that
Africa that’s called flogging
I believe spanking is good until a certain age of probably around 9, then you try different tactics. Spanking an older kid or teen will just make them angry and it only lasts a short second; However, taking away a privilege works way better because it gives them time to reflect on what they've done wrong and also lets them know that most everything they have actually belongs to their parents who lets them use it. Best case scenarios would be a phone and a car. Those are wants not needs and they don't belong to the child or teen.
@@tripleg2513 but what if the teen bought it themselves? No one can take away something when they didn't buy it because it's not theirs
@@Darkside12... weak argument. As long as it's under the parents roof, it's part of rent.
@@tripleg2513 If they're under 18 they're not required to pay rent. It's theirs because they paid for it from their hard work
Imagine being an abusive parent of a kid with a BDSM fetish.
"Honey, Jimmy didn't do the dishes, what should we do?"
"I don't know, but whatever you do, do *not* spank him"
jimmy: *iLl sPaNk MySeLf!*
Or how about a PARENT with a BDSM fetish?
x_br1ght both scenarios are a big yikes
CKV
i thought so
Hiền Nguyễn Thu thats a little too far...Making him die because of 0 oxygen is too deep.
What strick parents think theyre learning their child:
Being respectful
Teaching how to behave
How they actually do:
Depression, lying on spot, listening for footsteps
That's me
You forgot hatred of other human beings
Strict*
Finnix Gaming
You spelled “strict” wrong, your grammar is atrocious, and only one thing in that comment is correct.
So relatable
My parents: you should socialise more!
Also my parents: you cant bring anyone back home
@@dothefloppa my parents be like lol
Parents: yelling at you for lying
You: catch them lying
Yep
so true
@@smallidot yes
I have caught that before. But I don’t say anything about it until I say the same thing again and then say. But I thought you said blah blah blah.
Most parents always blame everything on “those damn phones” and “them computers”,
Yea and most of the time there on more then there kids
Or you play on the computer for 1.5 hours and they say that you are addicted to them
Parents are only saying that because of they’re bad parenting. And they don’t wanna talk about.
Video games HELP me, I have like no friends in real life, but through playing games I have met many amazing friends, and that's just one example of how technology can help someone
They will never understand our generation.
"How DANGEROUS are strict parents?"
Me: very dangerous.
Warning. Warning. Core temperature rising. Warning. Warning. Core at critical condition. Parent approaching. Parent approaching. Use extreme caution.
as a 27 year old adult who lived the majority of her life with a very strict mom and sometimes dad, i concur they are very dangerous.
Nah it's bs lol, there's a difference between making your child avoid trouble, conflict in the future, and leaving your child in the streets out free all day taking drugs and wanderless. I'm 14, my parents can annoy me at times, we are kids, we rebel against them at times. We need punishment, but not things that are way too far like maybe abusing your child with either fire, weapons and stuff like that. You have to realize that we gotta appreciate parents for intentions, I'm sure a simple spank will not cause depression and all that. I've been diagnosed with anxiety and I know it's tuff, but like at times it can be because a lot of people online, public, trends can influence on us and make us cause mischief. Parents won't be in your lives forever and you will realize that they have made a great choice of discipline, we children can also say stuff too that can abuse parents, such as hateful things, which can hurt them a lot of you think about it. Some strict parents can be helpful in your lives. My mom had a very strict mother,she'd hit her with belts and lots of stuff, and my mom surely does not have mental issues, she's a very much responsible mother of three, along with my dad that had an awful past too. But they are the most civilized parents I've known, but oh well it can affect people differently depending on their mentality 🗣
*shows this to my parents*
*gets grounded*
Me: wth did I do?
Maybe you showed it to your parents
They got offended 🤣
You've got to learn that you CAN'T show and tell them everything about yourself and what you do. Be secretive sometimes
Yeah that’s how strict parents work heheh
*in my room watching this pretending to be asleep*
Denial parents.
My mom: grounding me for being be lazy, because I didn't do my chores when i was doing online school.
Also my mom: sitting on the couch all day watching tv
Lmao
The "Lmao" in this comment is used to hide the pain.
@Jordan Taylor lol
@@jerfwardest7129 i did not know that
lol
BRUH SERIOUSLY?
Mom: You seem stressed it’s probably the dam Xbox
Me: That’s my only stress reliever
Wanna know my stress reliever? Its roblox video games music and space
Ikr
Hahah so relatable
Gta: Vice city
@@saltyermilk8995 wanna know why your fat? Roblox, video games, music and space
Takes out phone:
Parents:: u are always on that phone
Takes out book
Parents: y are u reading now when u had the whole day
Takes a step
Parents : tf is wrong with u ( and it continues for the rest of the day lecture)
SAME
Y u take a step u disrupt the peace you disgusting blob
That’s my mom...God...I hate it so bad
Parent: *yells at me*
Me: *raises my voice by 0.0000001%*
Parent: ur grounded
Me: what did I do
Daniel Manankichian ahhh
Ugghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, so unfair, I know this as well
lol i feel bad
R/relatable
Daniel Manankichian
Parent: So where is the belt?
Parents: Phones cause your brain to turn to mush
Also Parents: *Level 150+ on Candy Crush*
SO TRUE LMAO
Level 150+ on CHILDREN crush where they crush children's dreams
Parents used damage child:
It's super effective!
150? my mom is on level 9800ish somewhere in that area. and 2700ish in the soda one
@@BNRD.745 my mom was 10000+ in the soda and 0 in original because didn't play that one
My parents are over 1000+ level in candy crush
Mom: Stand up for yourself once in a while!
A day later
Mom: WHY ARE YOU WATCHING YT?!?!
Me stand up
Mom: ArE yOu TaLkInG tO mE bAcK?!
Then I say yes then say smack me it doesn't hurt I will smack you back
My dad: work smarter, not harder. Try to do things in a different way to make them easier.
Me after doing that: well that was easy
Him:NO! THATS NOT THE WAY I DO IT! ITS NOT MORE EFFICIENT! STOP TALKING BACK!
(And they wonder where my "attitude" comes from)
a better way to say is ArE yOu TaLkInG bAcK tO mE
you should've said "thats how a conversation works"
Kid : *Breaths*
Strict Parents and Karens : Video Games have cursed my child
Dang it! Does Karens
@@jorgeurrutia360 ughhhhh those darn Karen's!
*When Karen see dis:*
@@jorgeurrutia360 Karen: WHAT
@@annafrans6714 Me: *I would like to see your manger*
My mom was lecturing my two brothers about some thing and then she brought this up:
“Some parents are so cruel that they can drop off children in human banks”
And I was like what the fu-
What she meant was an
foster home
But instead she said something very dehumanizing and controversial and aegis
If I were to put what she said in a nutshell and better explained it would be like this
A child cannot be respected as a person and can only be treated as an object until he or she is an adult and that’s when one can be respected as a human
And also that got me thinking
If a child is an object like money in there really was a “child bank” (Child bank is something that I never thought I’d ever have to say in my life) then that means that you could trade in a 12-year-old for12 newborn babies or you could have a loan of a child
That’s a really weird analogy Mom
You should’ve said foster home-
I think she meant dark web.
I think that she ia an insane person because that's like saying that she could just through you out.
My parents used to threaten to put me in a foster home all the time because I “talked back” and had an attitude
@@gracesolo2133 You're not the only one...
@@gracesolo2133 My mom used to say some people would come to our house so they could put me in a van and take me to an abandoned house where they murder and abuse children I cried for 3 hours lol
22 year old, unemployed, no skills to find a job. Been kept in a bubble all my life by my parents who controlled so many aspects of my life, no real friend group cause everytime they asked me out, my parents would say "No" so they didnt bother asking again. I am Indian so moving out isn't an option for me, I feel trapped here meanwhile my old schoolmates achieving their dreams meanwhile i had to bury mine, no matter what i wanted to do, I always had to "ask permission". I was a good lapdog for my parents in my teenage years, never questioned them or never rebelled because i trusted them and thought they are doing this for my good, now that I got older, I understand what my parents have done, they are the cause of my breakup of my 2 year relationship because my GF had more "freedom" than me which didn't sit well with them. I feel like an empty shell of a person, I still have dreams and ambition but I dont know where to start, upon that I fucked myself over by dropping out of college due to me being sick of my parents which inturn would've been a blessing if I had attended it, I would've been freed by now. I sometimes wish to end it all but I have a weird motivation to outlive my enemies. I dont know how long this torture might last but I'll tend to pick up some hobbies along the way. I delved into sports and was competing but parents denied me cause its dangerous, whenever i see someone my age or younger than me in sports my heart sinks (good for them tho) idk how long i'll be stuck here but lets hope this thing ends
Me: Breathes
My Mom: *iT's ThAt DaMn PhOnE*
Thats like u cant breathe in life
why does everyone say that like it's getting overused
Finally a turk
@@美咲-v6d overused by parents
Brian Oo? B A C K I N M Y D A Y W E D I D N O T E V E N N E E D T H E E A R T H K I D S T H E S E D A Y S H A V E B E C O M E D U M B Y
Child: *breathes*
Parent: WHY ARE YOU BEING DISRESPECTFUL?!?!?! YOU ARE GROUNDED FOR THE NEXT WEEK.
Yeah, I feel like parents are more disrespectful to their kids than they are when they scream in your ear “STOP BEING SO DISRESPECTFUL”
Me: eating dinner with my mom
*moves one inch*
Mom: WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR DOING GET BACK HERE YOUNG MAN
Me: I just moved one -
Mom: NO BACKTALK YOUR GROUNDED FOR 99 YEARS
Me: .......
Who are you, who are so wise in the ways of my parents
@@tantris2876 lol. A few weeks ago I said ok in a frustrated voice because I was stressed and got in so much punishment. Plus got slapped
Exactly what I’m saying is that we’re not bieng disrespectful or rude
Stop crying before I give you something to cry for!
Wut Duh that will definitely stop a crying cry: their last hope and support turning on them
Omg, when my mom is really mad at me, and im crying cause she hurt my feelings she says "STOP CRYING." I try but i cant, and she says " Fine no screen time for a day." For crying.
Wut Duh OMG I HEARD THAT SO MANY TIMES OML😭
:(
Oh hey i know that one. My entire family tells me that every day
Everyone: *At my funeral*
Me: dead deceased
My mother: *ITS CAUSE OF THAT DAMN PHONE😡*
look im not a simp ok i was just checking if u were a bot that kept following me
In Hell
Mother: What Did I Do?
Satan: "its cause of that damn phone"
@@Mrjestin XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
Me: has anxiety, has a hard time socializing, is an introvert, and has low self-esteem
Also Me after watching this video: iS iT mY pArEnTs
Yes it is
It probably was
Same, and my case is parent only because my parents aren't married and never have.
Yep
It’s a 50 50 chance it is
I mean I have good parents and I have a lot of issues
me: *has my arm chopped off from a lawnmower accident*
parents: “I swear, its always that freakin’ phone.”
(karen's) WHAT IF THEY SPREAD THE VIRUS THROUGH PHONES I have to break my son's phone
You know I blame it on the parents they didn't even grow up with internet and also they don't search weird stuff in the internet cuz I do and I'm only 8 years
And should not know where babies are made and how to make them... it's disgusting and ewwwww
@@Hi.117. yeah, baby making aint that cool as ya thought.
Yeah relatable
Omg ya
Parents when they see I'm depressed and take away the things I love:
Why do I fix everything I touch?
It's because you watch anime
Black Frost I like anime but I don't watch it
Also my parents don't even know what anime is
So true
@@Slippery68 mine do lol well my mom does she also doesn’t think video games cause violence she’s kinda cool my dad is the opposite lol
I love anime too
I had 2 different ways of growing up. With my mother and stepfather it was horrible punishes that mentally drained me, while I was rarely never abused physically the mental abuse was nonstop. Then when I went to my dads I saw how real parenting worked and was barely punished the way I was at my mothers. In the end I have a stepdaughter and I was taught 2 ways, what NOT to do and what works and I am forever thankful for my dad showing me the right way.
me: dead my parents: it’s the phone
who are they talking to if you're dead
Mikado sannoji it’s a joke
Lol
@@Slippery68 Saying phone bad is just as mindless as saying red sus, but instead of the consequence of red doesn't get to play for no good reason, it's someone loses something that keeps them happy for no good reason.
Parents: iT’s tHe pHonE
Kid: gets infected of Coronavirus
Mom: *_videogames._*
Yes
@@phormex1 double yes
AleXander Russell's alt TRIPLE YES
@@devog1842 QUADRUPLE YES
oh yeah what about this?
kid: *gets attacked by dog*
parents: it’s that phone
What strict parents think they teach us: • Discipline
• Obedience
What strict parents do teach us:
• How to listen for footsteps
• How to find the best hiding places for devices
• How to lie well
• How to zone out lectures
• How to pretend to sleep/work
Edit: Yo!!!! Look at these likes! Thanks!
900?! What?!
you know you just copied a tweet word by word? start being original.
don't read my profile pic
Says the one with a “don’t read my profile pic” username.
don't read my profile pic I don’t think it’s word by word but it was inspired by a tweet
Plus have you seen your beautifully generic name? It’s more generic than this comment.
That1RandomGuy its true
Oof, well, it's true...
The average Asian parent,
“Ya’ll hear something?”
I have asian parents and they respect their kitchen utensils more than a child
@@WAVE0025 idk about yours but mine are jsut your regular parents supportive and strick when needed, also my mom probably cares more of her shoes then my dog(dog quarintining right now since my be positive of corona)
@@K_B_C Same. They care about my grades but I think it's understandable if they freak out if I get 65 in maths.
@@mariustan9275 ʜᴏɴᴇsᴛʟʏ ɪғ ɪ ɢᴏᴛ 65 ɪɴ ᴍᴀᴛʜ ɪ ᴡᴏᴜʟᴅ ғʀᴇᴀᴋ ᴏᴜᴛ ᴄᴜᴢ ᴛʜᴀᴛ's ᴀᴄᴛᴜᴀʟʟʏ ᴀ ʙᴀᴅ ᴍᴀʀᴋ
I got Asian parents, fortunately for me though they aren't strict.
The irony is that if actual strict parents saw this they'd be like :- "Oh you watch this kind of stuff on the internet ? Say goodbye to your net young man."
My reaction to this: Goodbye, net! **waves goodbye to a literal net**
ikr
I sent this vid to my mom ima tell u how she responds 😶
Change the world my final message
G o o d b y e
@@CXXCHIEMAN how she responded ?
*Picks up phone*
*Strict Parent:* WHERE IS MY BELT?!
@Crush Thats not his parents do and this a joke man
I always get revenge when somthing dumb happens or I say "what else couldive i done". Why do some parents have a kid just to have fun torturing it?
I think it might be because they were raised in a way to think doing this to your child is *good* and -healthy- or _something_ along those lines...
@@toddtoddtoddtoddtoddtoddto9851 then that kid should avoid their grandparents.
I never had so many likes thank you all.
@@alexh349 I wasn't expecting this to rise so quickly...
@@r9fgd193 that sounds like your in an very unhealthy environment. I suggest calling child protection services if this is truly how you feel. And while I don't know your home life the fact that you want to fun away, that your father physical or emotionaly hurts you and yells at you every day is very worrying I hope you are safe and well. Do call child line for help or something akin to that.
As a kid of a strict parent i literally dont even like my mom she is robbing my childhood. I am planning on barely talking to her when I grow up because she has made me miss so many things in my childhood.
If I show this to my parents they would throw my phone to the furnace and take it's ashes to a volcano
Echostrikes just watch Leo the lion on Netflix
@@giddygamer6490 I just tried to watch... I got 30 minutes into it and then I proceeded to completely cancel my Netflix and burn my house down
@@Tazman55x yes
@@giddygamer6490 you keep saying that wth. Anyways I needed something to watch on Netflix so I will
also me my parents are like i cant explain but they are very very very very ... ... very very strict against me even tho i have high grades they dont even give me gifts for it
When you answer your parents questions and they say
*dOn,T tAlK bAcK aT mE!*
Edit:
Wooooaah I've never before gotten any likes on a comment I wrote.
Thanks guys.
Luna Torres true.......
My mom never lets me to talk back so I can never argue and always keep in my feelings
@@goatsanimations4480 same here
But my mom is not that bad so don’t worry
lmao
Our house: *becomes peaceful for one second*
Mom: *_HOW BOUT NO?!_*
*turns on vaccum cleaner*
*turns on washing machine*
*turns on dishwasher*
*turns on mexican cleaning music*
Me: plays my phone and coughs
Mom: says that my phone ruined my health
Also mom: spends 6 hours on her phone
Me: _Doesn’t Want To Talk To People And I Also Cant Control My Emotions_
My Parent: Its The *Phone.*
Also My Parent: _Spends The Whole Day On Their Phone_
Also Me: _Cant Even Say Anything About It Because I Don’t Want To Get Yelled At_
My Parent Again: _Yells At Me Anyways_
Lol yeah me too buddy
same
Me with a hammer: *SAYONARA*
They're equivalent to a mean substitute teacher.
Mean/strict teachers are mostly the one who cares alot for their students and wants their students to pass the year.
Benny B that’s bullshit
Glymph lmao
Especially Jaiden's
@@bennyb4283 not necessarily
My mom when I'm enjoying myself : why are you so happy?don't you have studying to do?
My mom when I'm studying : why do you look so damn gloomy?cheer up!
Me: 👀
I can relate
parent's logic
Yep same here
My mom after spanking me: *WHAT'RE YOU CRYING FOR? I'LL REALLY GIVE YOU SOMETHING TO CRY ABOUT!*
My mom doesn’t ask me if i’m happy? aren’t ur parents supposed to make you happy?
Me:*watches life noggin*
Parents: GET OFF YOUR DANG TABLET!
Me:*shows video*
Parents: oh..
Yes That is me
parents: im just gonna pretend i didn't see that
My mom would just tell me to stop watching it because ShE iSnT aBuSiVe, and then threaten to beat me like a real abusive parent would, aka “all other parents”. I gotta say she’s real efficient in that regard
I wished that's how it worked
every morning, 6:30 AM, i become anxious because that when my parent wakes up, and when i hear footstep, i become more anxious, i am even could differentiate and guess someone just by hearing their footsteps, also not only that, when i hear the sound of open door which had creek sound, i suddenly get panic. Now i am 26, i have job, i had a business i build by my own hand, but i am still can't get out from my parent house, i already experience living alone for 1 year and that so much refreshing, and now want to live alone again, build my own home, but my parent especially my mom prohibit me to live alone, she is manipulative liar, she often use victim card and when i disagree with her, she act like sad even cry but all of that was just an act. This the reason why i dislike my parent, i love them, but not in the term of respecting, in fact i change almost all my identity that associated with my parent from my name, religion and etc because i don't want to be associated with them. Also i had very very rough childhood, i believe you know why i have rough childhood.
now i am a smoker, had mental disorder like major depression disorder, panic attack, and anxiety, insomnia, difficult to show emotion, pessimistic nihilistic person, suicidal tendency. That who i am today, they want me to like the fake guru in social media who had lot friend, optimistic and always smile but how the fck i could be like that when they treat me like an object, an asset?
well thanks mom and dad, now i really hated life and i believe life also hated me so much too. Also my emotion become numb and everyday day i am losing grasp on life since i don't have hope nor wish because i was a nihilistic person who saw life is meaningless.
Thanks so much mom and dad.
Just run, get outta of their house!
Me: Does something wrong
My mum: Oh okay don't do that again
My ADHD: No, I don't think I will
As a kid on the autism spectrum with ADHD and depression, I can verify this as accurate.
hahaha sameeeee
Lol if you do anything wrong a couple of times you never have to do it again break all the dishes while washing them throw the clothes on the floor mow the inside of the house
@@The_Blue_Ender Yes
why can i relate
Don’t you hate when you’re parents think their right and pull the “i’m the adult card”
Or when you prove them wrong they call u disrespectful 😂
Yes. Or when they conveniently 'forget' something you have said so that their arguement works
ALL THE TIME AAGGGG
Or they “never heard” something that you said so they can get their way
My parents are NOT like that. I guess i’m lucky?
They do that to me all the time
My parents: takes phone away after 2 hours
Me: is rebellious and steals phone back and is bassicaly addicted to my phone
My friends parents: dont care about her phone
My friend: doesn't care about her phone
Yeah my friend goes on 36 hour gaming binges because his parents only let him play 1 hour a week
@@lilyet2930 I KNOW THAT FEELING SO MUCH!! I get my phone once in a month, if i'm lucky, and when I have it, I can't stop playing, even to eat or sleep.
Are u guys in the comment sections readin my life or somethin👀
I dont even use my phone anymore because for anything my parents would take it and even if there wasnt anything bad they would come up with something to lecture me about. And, i cant have a password on it or install apps and such. Just not worth it anymore.
@@Lovesickasyy he means they take it away after they use it for 2 hours, not as a punishment, just as a rule.
Things my parents wanted me to learn
1- discipline
2-responsibility
3-obedience
4-good grades
Things I actually learned from my parents
1- how to be a best liar
2- how to hold tears, when someone is using a psychical pressure on me
3- better hearing skills (you always have to be ready for them coming into your room)
4- how to hide things such as phone, money and diaries
5- how to hide apps in your phone, clear your search history and so go on
6- how to find good excuses, if you want to go to the doctor or need to go to the psychologists
7- low self confidence, trust issues, trying to find that warm love in random people and the last one- don't really know how to love someone, because never felt that love.
Thanos can remove existence in a snap.
My parents can take my phone, make me grounded, study more, sign me up for extra tutoring, AND do more chore work in a *single snap*
Unless your 17
Plot twist: our mom is thanos
furious hell hound they'll just kick you out for several hours if your 17
My mom put me in homeschool 10th grade and locked me in my bedroom with a security camera watching me on her phone. Yeeeeeeah long story short, I'm now in foster 😁
why is the emoji not 😅
Willydoo that’s actuallly messed up. Sorry this happened...
@@yous5668 thank you, thankfuly I'm in a loving new foster home
@@mitchtom1409 it's supposed to be an akwerd smile lmao
Oh my god.... I’ve seen messed up things in my life but this is crazy
parents: no talking to boys
also parents: when are you going to get a boyfriend
No talking to boys
Ur dad is a boy
What if ur teachers a boy?
What if ur a boy?
*laughs in straight male*
My parents don’t allow me to talk to the different gender but they do as a friend like what and I’m 14
Also parents: *Arranged marriage* 😏👌🏼
i mean my parents would never let me wdym
*forces me to do courses I don’t want to do*
*then gets mad when I don’t do good in a course I did not choose*