ASMR Voice: I am here. You are here. You are safe. [M4A] [Comfort] [Trigger warning: Abuse]

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 เม.ย. 2016
  • No matter what happened in your past, that's not who you are now, okay? You're the same person to me in every way. So please... you can tell me.
    Today's audio covers a very serious topic, and Principesa and I both want you to know that there is help out there if you or a loved one are being abused. Please make the right decision and get the help you deserve today. rainn.org/get-help/national-s...
    ~~~
    Written by Ebba/Principesa/Adulescentia and recorded by CardlinAudio
    Cardlin drawn by:
    Fiship! fiship.tumblr.com/tagged/my+art
    Kiddybro! / kiddybro
    Hetaliavodka! www.fiverr.com/hetaliavodka
    Hikkarin! hikkarin.tk/
    Niadrawss! / niadrawss
    i-blame-my-cat! / i-blame-my-cat
    Jess aka Bulldog! / alphuhbulldog
    Staresleep! / staresleep
    Southrobin! www.southrobin.deviantart.com/
    Laura P! / magicallala-draws
    Hollabikki! / hollabikki
    Animekath! / animekath
    Feyrblessed! / feyrblessed
    Straylnao! straylnao.deviantart.com/
    Click to Subscribe ►bit.ly/CardlinSubscribe
    Check out CardlinCasual ►bit.ly/CardlinCasualSubscribe
    Get CardlinAudio merch ► teespring.com/stores/cardlina...
    Get (Spicy!) exclusive audios? Find me on Patreon!
    Cardlin Upload Calendar! ► bit.ly/CardlinCalendar
    Twitch ► / cardlinaudio
    Twitter ► / cardlinish
    Instagram ► / cardlinaudio
    Reddit ► / cardlinaudio
    Want to send me something? First off, thanks! Second, send it right here ► Cardlin Audio
    2066 N Capitol Ave #1070
    San Jose, CA 95132
    Have an idea for a script? ► bit.ly/CardlinScriptIdeas
    Want to vote on what script idea should be written next? ► bit.ly/CardlinScriptIdeas
    Looking for old, unused script ideas? ► bit.ly/CardlinScriptIdeas
    Have a script you want to send me? ► Cardlinscripts@gmail.com
    Also, just to save you the hassle, know that I usually avoid doing scripts on the following topics:
    - High School
    - Vampires
    - Cheating
  • บันเทิง

ความคิดเห็น • 633

  • @softangel6334
    @softangel6334 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2125

    "we are in this together"
    WEARE ALLL IN THIS TOGETHERRRRR

  • @fatimazahraatouri6897
    @fatimazahraatouri6897 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1866

    it terrifies me to think that people out there can think of doing such things. and i 'm so sorry for all persons that might've been victims to it.

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 ปีที่แล้ว +171

      +Fatima Touri Hear, hear.

    • @DeadorAliveLover19
      @DeadorAliveLover19 8 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      As a victim myself it is so wonderful to hear such support. It truly makes the day better

    • @fatimazahraatouri6897
      @fatimazahraatouri6897 8 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. And I salute you for standing tall and not letting it hold you down. Just stay strong.

    • @DeadorAliveLover19
      @DeadorAliveLover19 8 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Fatima Touri Thanks love. I do appreciate it. Even though its still a struggle, I still go on. I have too many people around me that love me and I don't want to let them down

    • @ezramitchell7703
      @ezramitchell7703 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      thank you ❤️

  • @jooniemusic8984
    @jooniemusic8984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +338

    "Breathe in"
    *smells mom's dinner*
    Me: mmmm...smells good
    "AND breathe out"
    Me: NOOOO DINNER SMELLS GOOD

    • @teddyaed3219
      @teddyaed3219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

    • @teddyaed3219
      @teddyaed3219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Ms.Keisha.... Ms.Keisha..... omg she dead Ms.Keisha dead (sorry saw the chance and took it

    • @xxcringeycookiezxx3441
      @xxcringeycookiezxx3441 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ME

  • @voishl8173
    @voishl8173 6 ปีที่แล้ว +459

    I know this video is 2 years ago.. but reading the comments.. 😩😫🤧 I’m sorry you all had to go through such tragedies.. We’re all in this together. I hope in time you will get healed. All of you.

  • @theteenagecatastrophy5354
    @theteenagecatastrophy5354 8 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    I havent been abused or anything like that but however i did cry listening to this...

    • @mjikayla
      @mjikayla 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      The Teenage Catastrophy compassion is a beautiful mess indeed

  • @raycantspellsorry1956
    @raycantspellsorry1956 5 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    Cardlin: Seems like the movie's over. Did you like it?
    Me: No
    Cardlin: Mmm, me too
    lol

  • @violentsludge
    @violentsludge 6 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    Ugh, the CONSENT! I NEED A MAN LIKE THIS!!!

    • @xostrawberry21
      @xostrawberry21 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Cheshire Cat everyone needs someone like this

    • @cosmicfelinesas5191
      @cosmicfelinesas5191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I agree, consent is pretty unheard if these days

  • @nightcoresubliminals2038
    @nightcoresubliminals2038 5 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    9:41 this "please" is so full of raw emotion, it's absolutely beautiful.

  • @ashleyodonnell4109
    @ashleyodonnell4109 7 ปีที่แล้ว +628

    Thank you for making this. I am a survivor of sexual abuse, and although my boyfriend is so sweet and caring about this, and always tells me that my body is my own, and that I can do what I want with it, this helps me when I'm going through flashbacks on my own. Thank you so much. Stay Strong~

    • @pamelakelly5864
      @pamelakelly5864 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Ashley O'Donnell I shall pray for you and all survivors

    • @the_king_crow7158
      @the_king_crow7158 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Best advice I can come up with cuz I only have depression advice but every storm has a silver lining in all will clear and it will all pass

    • @hoshyandbabygirl5671
      @hoshyandbabygirl5671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ashley i am sorry about the sexual abuse you had and a;ways remember you are worth a million rubys and your pretty just the way you are and you will always be loved by your boyfriend....just like mine

    • @LinkCanSign
      @LinkCanSign 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I was sexually harassed at 11 and it was at school, plus the police got involved, and I had to lie cause I was already dating someone at that time and I didn't want to hurt them. And then I was dating two people and one person didn't want the poly relationship so I had to leave one of them. Keep in mind that I'm 12 rn. I wanted to D I E.

    • @moeroethler6633
      @moeroethler6633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      people can die from sexual abuse?

  • @courtneybell3319
    @courtneybell3319 8 ปีที่แล้ว +503

    I'm a survivor myself and I wish the person that I was with would have reacted this way when I was having flashbacks.
    Next time when the flashbacks happen (hopefully there won't be a next time) I will pull this video up. Cardlin, thank you.

    • @the_king_crow7158
      @the_king_crow7158 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sadly I only have depression advice but every storm has a silver lining it all will clear and it will all pass

    • @mysticresearchlabs
      @mysticresearchlabs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry to hear it, the big mystery to me is why people express trauma in different ways, I went though many phases and wound up indifferent, cold, unempathetic and yet ok with regard to how I feel. Not sure how to explain it, anyway I hope you feel better and get free from wanting to be /feeling dead.

  • @abbedeluca9724
    @abbedeluca9724 8 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    This was incredibly helpful for me to calm down a PTSD attack from an abusive past. Now I just need to find someone like this in my real life.

    • @Ash-os1mh
      @Ash-os1mh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i agree

  • @jordynd.3613
    @jordynd.3613 8 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    I got up early so I decided to watch this, and right when Cardlin goes "what is wrong" BEEP BEEP BEEP i said aloud "MY DAMNED ALARM"

  • @annatheartperson
    @annatheartperson 7 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    Cardlin: Oh gosh, just lean on me.
    Me: LEAN ON ME!!! WHEN YOU'RE NOT STROOONG!

    • @LIZARDONFIRE
      @LIZARDONFIRE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And i need a friend!!!!!

    • @amandasmith4998
      @amandasmith4998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I"LL BE YOUR FRIEND> I"LL HELP YOU CARRY OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOON

    • @kaennedy.
      @kaennedy. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love these comments 😂

    • @v3lly
      @v3lly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      SOMEBODY TO LEAN ON

    • @Emily-bx2cz
      @Emily-bx2cz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      FOR IT WONT BE LONG TILL IM GONNA NEED SOMEBODY TO LEANN ONNNN.

  • @noodle089
    @noodle089 8 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    I've been single for 7 years because it's easier to push people away and not have to admit I'm broken because I was abused in my relationship, than open myself up and be vulnerable again.

    • @jasminelifestyle9797
      @jasminelifestyle9797 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Don't ruin your life over one bad relationship , give others a chance , not all people are the same x

    • @chocolavarianne8102
      @chocolavarianne8102 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I relate to you

  • @DragonsAreHungry
    @DragonsAreHungry 7 ปีที่แล้ว +411

    "I'll protect you"
    me: you have a machine gun and a box of ammo? :-D

    • @bridges6648
      @bridges6648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Omg I thought you wrote “box of anime”

    • @AsmrHoe
      @AsmrHoe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      No he has a dammmmn seductive and caring voice

    • @jessestone3573
      @jessestone3573 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@AsmrHoe right

    • @audreymcshane5601
      @audreymcshane5601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LadyK1903 i do, I’m texan, what do you expect

    • @aceexists5934
      @aceexists5934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AsmrHoe wait so if someone was going to threaten him he would use his voice and go Hello This is my Calm and Seduceive voice if you dare threaten me again I shall become even more seductive

  • @DeadorAliveLover19
    @DeadorAliveLover19 8 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    This one really hit home for me. Over a year ago...I was raped by someone I thought was a friend. Then a few months ago, just after the one year mark, one of my very best friends who I did have a thing with, tried to rape me. I still get nightmares, flashbacks, heck sometimes flinch. Its not as bad as over a year ago, but listening to this certainly does help in many ways, especially when I feel like I am in a dark place and that I just want to give up. Thank you so much for this

    • @theALLIEwallie101
      @theALLIEwallie101 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Oh my gosh I am so sorry you had to go through that. You are incredibly strong and I hope you continue to feel better! *hugs* 💜

    • @DeadorAliveLover19
      @DeadorAliveLover19 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Jasey Rae aw thank you so much sweetheart. That really means alot to me. It is still a struggle but i am getting there. But thank you for your support

    • @pamelakelly5864
      @pamelakelly5864 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I pray for you

    • @chantelleigh6148
      @chantelleigh6148 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Who ever did it they have no soul you should be treated with care and be loved

    • @sandrafraser2267
      @sandrafraser2267 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are strong
      And you will get through this.
      Love and prayers to you...

  • @ajsweetheart3655
    @ajsweetheart3655 7 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    I always cry when i hear this audio. It's been two years since my abusive relationship ended and what a lot of people don't understand is that someone doesn't have to hurt you physically for it to be abuse as well.
    The memories, flashbacks, and nightmares penetrate my thoughts and continue to make me feel alone and sometimes broken. I moved to another state for this person. Loved him and his family dearly and had i known that it would have been like this, i wouldn't have moved and left my friends and family behind. This person isolated me from my friends and coworkers because he felt that they would introduce me to other men, made me lose my job by yelling at me, fighting with me, accusing me and manipulating me from the moment i got home from work until the time when i was supposed to wake up to go back to work the next day until i got so distracted and was late so many times that i got fired. He would sometimes push me off the bed and make me sleep on the floor or he would refuse to pick me up from work when i found another job and i would have to walk home in the middle of the night (from one area of Miami to another) since i had no one else i could call and i didn't have a car or money for taxis/buses. During a fight, he grabbed me and pushed me into a wall and held me there so that i couldn't move...plus many other things...
    I have a lot of love to give. I always have but idk if i have the courage to allow myself to be vulnerable with anyone again. I'm a teacher now and i try to encourage my students to treat everyone with kindness and patience regardless of how different they are from you or how angry they may make you. It's the right thing to do and if i can show some of them this, hopefully we'll have a more courteous generation of kids that follow us. This audio gives me hope that maybe one day, there will be someone out there who will hear what i've been through and will still love me anyway without taking advantage, trying to manipulate me, or thinking that i'm too broken to be loved in the way that I deserve to be loved. Thank you for writing this script, Principessa and thank you for thinking it was important enough to record, Cardlin. I wish more people understood how hard it is to be strong when something like this happens to you and i hope less people go through this. For myself, I just hope I can put it behind me and move on without it affecting everything i do and say around everyone. To anyone else who's been abused, you're so strong and you didn't deserve it. We'll get through it.

    • @wolflover8462
      @wolflover8462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I’m so sorry for you...I hope you are still going strong in life and have found someone who supports and loves you

    • @ajsweetheart3655
      @ajsweetheart3655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@wolflover8462 wow....i forgot that i commented this on this video. Thank you for your kindness and hopefulness. My love life is non-existent lol but I pour everything i have to give into my job and into my family. My family and I have a much deeper connection than we did a few years ago. The love I receive from my students, friends I've gained over the years, and my family is enough for now

    • @AngeIEmi
      @AngeIEmi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its been 2 years for me since my father got arrested for child abuse.
      I hope ur feeling better!!

    • @endlesspossibilities4852
      @endlesspossibilities4852 ปีที่แล้ว

      Our lives are very similar. I escaped mine 2.5 yrs ago. I still suffer with nightmares, flashbacks, anxiety and depression. I am not sure if I will ever be able to trust someone to get close to again. Sending you hugs, love and peace for anytime you need it. 🫂💗✌️

  • @makena9897
    @makena9897 8 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    It really sucks that people can relate to this video but anyway great video Cardy!

  • @katewinchestertm8821
    @katewinchestertm8821 8 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    this brought memories of my obsessive, controlling, abusive ex. my first HS boyfriend. i just stayed because i thought that nobody could love me like he did. he also reminded me that no one else would give a shit about me. and i thought he was right.

    • @Attackontrashcan
      @Attackontrashcan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I been through the same thing.but there are definitely people who care about you

  • @ExoticFireGirl
    @ExoticFireGirl 8 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Never felt lonelier. listened to this and it warmed my heart I rarely cry because of how I was raised but I cried to this ;(

    • @em-gl1oc
      @em-gl1oc 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same

    • @voishl8173
      @voishl8173 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re an overcomer, you guys can overcome whatever it is you’re feeling. Much love. 💗 I’m sorry.

    • @Heartsforcopia
      @Heartsforcopia 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      PREACHHH

  • @pinkypleather9166
    @pinkypleather9166 8 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    It sucks especially when you have a flashback in public, there was this guy who did something as minor as touch my shoulder in public and I freaked the hell out, such an unnecessary scene. I just hope that people like me have someone out there to care for them, but also find a way to care for themselves. We are not victims, but survivors

    • @sandrafraser2267
      @sandrafraser2267 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You are a survivor
      You are strong
      You are loved

    • @cosmicfelinesas5191
      @cosmicfelinesas5191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True. I can relate unfortunately it happens to me often being in school still. But unfortunately my teachers and friends don’t have the experience to deal with me atall. It sucks so bad

  • @sherrytaylor9746
    @sherrytaylor9746 6 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    "Your beauty shines brighter than sun."
    *Me* aaawwwwww 😄😊

  • @evamaster546
    @evamaster546 7 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    "Ill protect you…"
    OK WHERE ARE THE MISSILES

    • @axehead45
      @axehead45 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ll help

  • @sleuthelle
    @sleuthelle 7 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Where was this for the first 15 years of my life? Unfortunately, non-existant. Did I need this? Yes. Do I appreciate the author and the actor for doing this? Most definitely. Thank you Principessa and Cardlin, you have no clue how much this means to me, and most likely means to all of the others who have been through something like this.

  • @laurenbenoit6209
    @laurenbenoit6209 7 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I got out of an abusive relationship where I was physically and physically abused. I was forced to do sexual acts too. it's sad because I can relate to this so much. thank you for this video ❤

  • @sana_saint
    @sana_saint 7 ปีที่แล้ว +506

    ladies do ppl like this exist irl

    • @DragonPrincessAoife
      @DragonPrincessAoife 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Julienne Bien yup.

    • @mush5414
      @mush5414 7 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Julienne Bien nope none that I've met

    • @aranhallford3829
      @aranhallford3829 7 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Julienne Bien yep they do, they are just really hard to find

    • @tylerarke6568
      @tylerarke6568 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Julienne Bien They do. It may not seem like they do to others with a great life with good friends and family. But to people who don't have that, those kinds of people are every where.

    • @m00dy76
      @m00dy76 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      None that i know..

  • @sawaa2694
    @sawaa2694 8 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    actually grabbed a tissue to dry my eyes

  • @RiahYannaBeans
    @RiahYannaBeans 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I have PTSD from past abuse. And I haven't told my boyfriend but I'd love it he'd react like this

  • @FiyahKitteh
    @FiyahKitteh 8 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    Thanks for this. I really wish this is how people would (have) react(ed) whenever I opened up about this stuff. Instead they just kind of went "ok", like it's no big deal. Really great video, guys.

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      +FiyahKitteh Sometimes it's hard to find the right words to say. It takes bravery to pull through something like that. Thank you.

    • @paperpetrel9360
      @paperpetrel9360 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      IK Bro same

  • @Allaroundtheworld99
    @Allaroundtheworld99 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I need a man who comforts like this, but although the topic is sad, you did a good job at dealing with the situation.

  • @sophielofland2895
    @sophielofland2895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I remember once I had a flash-back and all my friends told me I just mumbled "please don't let her near me" started crying, and then went non-verbal for a solid 30 min. (I blacked out the whole time)

  • @noram4582
    @noram4582 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'll protect my own dang self!
    * bee touches me *
    Aughhhh cardlin help

  • @soupyspoke6785
    @soupyspoke6785 8 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    please do a pregnancy/ labor video xx

    • @mianry2055
      @mianry2055 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Taco Kid Yes :3

    • @connorfung7709
      @connorfung7709 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Where is the link again? Couldn't find it.
      Edit: Found it. The link is in a doc linked above. For those looking for the link here it is: docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeoCG4aAHH1oYCoH13lH2ivmuBeEYnkJiGregPKP0KwfZ0SCA/viewform

  • @thatkitkatvlogs5566
    @thatkitkatvlogs5566 8 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    can you please do one about finding out your gf self harms

    • @fighterdove4937
      @fighterdove4937 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      thatkitkat vlogs I would like that to

    • @andreaharris9428
      @andreaharris9428 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thatkitkat vlogs ,

    • @Sad_racc
      @Sad_racc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Comfort for a suicidal significant other. Trigger warning, gets right in the feels

    • @avawilliams3686
      @avawilliams3686 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      thatkitkat vlogs agree👋🏽❤️

    • @cassidygibson5400
      @cassidygibson5400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh, I'm gay now: I watched that and cried a lot. It was so good though.

  • @kadetori6249
    @kadetori6249 8 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    +Principessa thank you for such beautiful language and wonderful compassion; +CardlinAudio thank you for adding a voice to her words; and thank you both for advocating help for abuse victims and condemning abuse.

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey. Sorry for a bit of a late reply. Thank you for your kind words, these comments really mean a lot. I do get flattered and it warms my heart to see that people enjoy what I write 😊 I am glad Cardlin and myself can reach out to someone out there. Stay safe, and have a wonderful day Dear. Thank you.

  • @mahoushoujocaroline
    @mahoushoujocaroline 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Tw:
    I found out my abuser of 6 years is in jail. I’m relieved but having to get that information terrified me. Thank you for this. Thank you.

  • @reag_a.k
    @reag_a.k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    When people touch my neck or stomach I just tell them that I need personal space but it’s really just because I know the memories will never go away :(

  • @fivenineblurry
    @fivenineblurry 8 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    Thank you so so much for this one.

    • @miac1837
      @miac1837 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oml your profile pic is Ellie

    • @obscureteevee
      @obscureteevee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Last Of Us~ 👆

    • @Ashes652
      @Ashes652 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love ellie from the last of us

  • @empressgeorgena311
    @empressgeorgena311 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    i was actually sexually abused recently this helped me find piece of mind thanks cardlin xxx ur amazing

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      +Jahneikah Coleman I'm so sorry to hear that, lovely, I'm so glad you found your peace. Stay strong!

  • @missmyers4
    @missmyers4 8 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Once again you and Ebba make the perfect team. With her beautiful style of writing and the sincerity and love in your voice, this has to be one of my favourite pieces on this channel. You both should be incredibly proud of yourselves for delivering such a serious message in such a sweet and understanding way. :) x

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      +Miss Myers Aw, thank you alot Dear! It was a bit of a task, it was, but I am glad we could bring happiness to someones hearts, or at least some comfort or ease. Your words goes to my heart. Have a lovely day ^^

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      +Miss Myers Thank you, ma'am! I'm glad you like our work. =]

  • @sittingravenleeson8781
    @sittingravenleeson8781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Reading through the comments just... damn I'm sorry bout you all. I was in a mentally manipulative and semi mental abusive relationship and just that alone screwed me up for AWHILE. Good vibes, prayers, and love to all yall.

  • @Allaroundtheworld99
    @Allaroundtheworld99 8 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This is sad, only because it makes no sense how any moral person could place their hands on another person so cruelly.

    • @Attackontrashcan
      @Attackontrashcan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You'd be surprised how many people find it easy (trust me I know)

    • @sandrafraser2267
      @sandrafraser2267 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Because they have no soul

  • @violetschell4247
    @violetschell4247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Usually when this happens I want to feel as small as possible. I curl up in a ball and need to have my blanket with me and yes I still have a blankie judge all u want. That usually helps make me feel better.

    • @cheeseballs6444
      @cheeseballs6444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Blankies for life

    • @skeleph0ne
      @skeleph0ne 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg i do the exact same thing

  • @mckeeagain2274
    @mckeeagain2274 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Aaaaand 30 years later I finally told someone. Thank you for knowing what to say.

  • @crimson9172
    @crimson9172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sometimes it's hard for me and my boyfriend when it comes to all different kinds of things, because I'm a victim of sexual and verbal abuse. There's certain things that I told him I wasn't comfortable with because of my last relationship. I'm lucky to say that he handles the flashback situations really well. Sometimes we just sit in silence while I regain myself. It's great having a shoulder to cry on. If you're going through abuse of ANY kind, please contact somebody and get help.

  • @atifhaque4127
    @atifhaque4127 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This showed up in my recommendations at the perfect time. I was in the midst of a panic attack due to flashbacks. I am a survivor of emotional, physical and sexual abuse at the hands of my ex fiancé. I needed this.

    • @calistakimball6911
      @calistakimball6911 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      As someone who just escaped an abusive relationship with an ex fiancé 6 months ago, I feel you. I hope things got better for you, as I’m unsure of what to do with my life now.

  • @unknownwonknu2363
    @unknownwonknu2363 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Why as soon as I’m about to fall asleep I get an ad and even worse it goes “HeRE At MeNaRdS-!!!!!!” I got so scared I almost peed myself and had to run to the bathroom… I’m never going to menards again.

  • @merryapple6571
    @merryapple6571 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nobody can do it like Cardlin.

  • @ibasicallyeatpeople7163
    @ibasicallyeatpeople7163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    why did I cry-
    this was the comfort I needed, even if my problems don't match the context if the story.

  • @patriciafortuno3490
    @patriciafortuno3490 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I always hear people say that moving on will help. That it will make us stronger but for me moving on is just an scapegoat. No matter how much I tell myself that I'm good, I'm over it a single touch will make me crumble.

  • @agrape8328
    @agrape8328 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i want to be held as gently as his voice wraps around your consciousness as makes you just want to sleep and be comforted.

  • @KatieSmiley29
    @KatieSmiley29 8 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Thank you for making this video. I was emotionally abused in my childhood and from a previous boyfriend, I suffer from GAD because of it. This video definitely helped, as did your other one about panic attacks. I think you and Principesa make a good team when it comes to these serous topics. Thanks again!

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +KatieSmiley Hey, how kind of you to say. I am so sad to hear about your suffering, but times will change. You will get through this. I believe in you Hun. Lots of hugs and kisses. I cross my fingers for you. ^^

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +KatieSmiley I'm glad I was able to help you out, Katie. I'm sorry you had to go through what you did. Thank you for staying strong!

    • @KatieSmiley29
      @KatieSmiley29 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +CardlinAudio Thank you for your kind words, I appreciate it 😊 I'm seeing improvements, some way to go still.

    • @KatieSmiley29
      @KatieSmiley29 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Principessa Aww thank you, that's really sweet 😊. Things have been slowly improving, I'm excited to see what the future brings 😊

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. Childhood memories can be hard to shake off, but it is done now Sweetie ^_^ It's over and now it's time for you to go out into the world as a unique, beloved person. I am glad things are impoving. After a low, shadowcast valley, there can only be a sunkissed hill ^~^ Never forget that, no matter how deep the valley become. That only means that the hill will be higher and more delightful. Be careful out there.

  • @marialoboe
    @marialoboe 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you for doing this cardlin! You had me in tears , I wish someone could've shown up earlier to help me cope with abuse but I'm glad you did it.

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Lobo Means wolf You're welcome! Thank you for making it through those tough times to better days. =]

  • @emmay317
    @emmay317 8 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    +CardlinAudio you should do a Pregnancy, Labor, Delivery

  • @jaxoninstasi8784
    @jaxoninstasi8784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    “Overheating with cold ass feet”
    That’s me alright 😂

    • @axehead45
      @axehead45 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel attacked

  • @aslanjadecallenreese99
    @aslanjadecallenreese99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    THIS BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL CONSENTING MAN. (but seriously thank you i went through sexual abuse at a young age and i have ptsd from it and this is one of my favorite audios of yours ever)❤️

    • @sillyrabbit7744
      @sillyrabbit7744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I spy with my little eye a Yagami Yato fan

    • @aslanjadecallenreese99
      @aslanjadecallenreese99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Silly Rabbit I spy with my little eye an Unus Annus fan 👀

    • @sillyrabbit7744
      @sillyrabbit7744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Buzzybeautifulsunshinenugget16 I spy with my little eye an LGBTQ+ member!❤️

    • @aslanjadecallenreese99
      @aslanjadecallenreese99 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Silly Rabbit I spy with my little eye a Melanie Martinez fan👀

    • @perpetual_sigh
      @perpetual_sigh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aslanjadecallenreese99 entirely unrelated and over a year after this was posted, but your username is my namesake

  • @sleepingdragonzzz7937
    @sleepingdragonzzz7937 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I was gonna write down my story and talk about how I wish I had found this video sooner becuse what happened the year before that on Christmas including my aunts ex boyfriend.
    I was gonna explain how it felt becus so was so close with him and he was like a second father and how I couldn't stand for anyone at all to touch me or to get very close.
    I wont get into all the details but I know its now 2018 but... This was comforting acctually and it means alot to me like it does so many others.
    Your awsome and I do lsiten to your current work and your doing super awsome ive used your videoes for sleep for comfort to help with my panic attacks and anxiety attacks.
    Your work is awsome and I'm happy I found your channel.
    Even if no one sees this I'm happy I got to comment and say somthing.
    Much love!!😁💞

  • @tarotgirl315
    @tarotgirl315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Currently in the process of leaving an emotionally & mentally abusive relationship. The trauma bond is so tough. I feel unloved and what I am put through kills my spirit. This video genuinely made me feel loved for a brief moment.

    • @sillyrabbit7744
      @sillyrabbit7744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree with you here. My father is emotionally abusive and this was the ASMR i could find that covered abuse... like truely covered it. even though I'm pretty sure it's for physical/sexual abuse, it still works mamzing an makes me feel better!

  • @user-cc4mo9sz3b
    @user-cc4mo9sz3b 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Cardlin:I am here
    Me:ALL MIGHT??

  • @bribridraws443
    @bribridraws443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am a survivor of sexual grooming when I was 7, that's why sometimes when I get hugged from behind I jump- I'm now 13 and it still very much scares me- and just hearing someone say "don't be scared to tell me this" Or "you are strong" Made me burst into tears, thank you for being there Cardlin even when no one else was

  • @_kat0x
    @_kat0x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i listen to this every night- hope you make more !! this really helps me get through stuff

  • @lucyyy9614
    @lucyyy9614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really needed to hear this. My own family says things like it's my fault and I need to get over it. Thank you Cardlin.

  • @theblackrosedaughter
    @theblackrosedaughter 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    PTSD is a hell I have unfortunately been "gifted" with in this existence.....thanks ma.....

  • @ava-janegresham260
    @ava-janegresham260 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Back in 3rd grade a group of my old friends started to hit me and push me against the lockers in the morning,all because I wore glasses,I know it sounds cliché but it’s true,For the longest time I hated myself due to my glasses,I would cry myself to sleep sometimes because I felt they would never stop,but I found better friends,that had also been in the same situation,and I’m very grateful for them and for this role play,Abuse is a serious topic that people don’t discuss and feel like it needs to be brought up,
    This really helped me cope with what I’ve been threw *I love you Cardlin Never Stop What You Do 🥰*

  • @kaitlynlancaster4655
    @kaitlynlancaster4655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was watching a period comfort Asmr because my cramps kicked in and the woman in the video jokingly raised her voice to get the stubborn listener to go take care of themselves and it triggered me. Shouting was not part of one of the events that traumatised me, but it can be a bad trigger for me that kicks in my fight, flight, fawn or freeze response and causes me to.dissociate quite quickly. So I put this on (I now have a playlist for moments like these) and it helped. Thank you.

  • @marlenemorga4891
    @marlenemorga4891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I kept my silence for this long. I have listened to all of Cardlin's audios, and this one really helped me through the long run today. Over the years I had to keep quiet and because of that I had to sacrifice so much of my life to keep my dysfunctional family together, and all I get in return is abuse from them to this day. Whenever I have a chance to listen to any of the audios, I cry and I heal from the trauma my parents inflicted on me as a child and a teenager over the years. Thanks Cardlinaudio and each of the scriptwriters for making these videos. I thank you from the depths of my heart. You all are lifesavers and heroes in my eyes.

  • @timooliver16
    @timooliver16 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My ex boyfriend was mentally abusive towards me. He said that when I first broke up with him, he tried to kill himself. I don’t take that kind of stuff lightly. He also got really angry and he punched the wall. I always imagined myself in front of the wall with him about to punch me. Sorry for the long comment, just felt like I needed to get
    That off my chest. 😅😔

  • @andrewj.knight929
    @andrewj.knight929 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is the first ASMR RP video that I have seen, I chose it because I am a survivor of childhood abuse. The words spoken just made me feel such comfort and although I had no such comfort at the time, I truly with all my heart hope that current victims will hear these words spoken to them soon. Thank you so much for making this, I will be playing this often I think

  • @katm5010
    @katm5010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    After two friends and I had an afternoon of music and movies, we decided to walk to the store that was practically next door. But on the way we ran into these guys. One of my friends was suddenly scared and wanted to go back to our house. I saw right away what was happening. I asked her if they'd done something and while instantly breaking down, she said yes. The S.O.B. s started joking around about what they were going to do again. I warned them to back off. When they turned to me, I told my friend to take our now emotionally wrecked friend back to the house. She knew if I was stern it meant I was truly mad. And when I get mad I try to control my temper. But sometimes people threaten my loved ones and don't listen when I warn them. They came at me with a knife and before you could count to 30sec, they were messed

  • @CatSmith87
    @CatSmith87 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really do relate to this. as someone who has dealt with (and still dealing with the after effects of) abuse this really, really does help. there are nights I don't want to bother my cousins with my issues, and Cardlin's voice just makes it all go away.

  • @anastasia-cs8mv
    @anastasia-cs8mv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    iv never been abused, but this is really sweet

  • @jademondia6568
    @jademondia6568 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    OMG, Cardlin. You are truly God-given, to me....! Thank you, for all your audios. They help with a lot of issues. I hope you can be with your son, very soon!

  • @zoomiezthygreat8419
    @zoomiezthygreat8419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This really ment alot. My ex broke up with me bc they thought I was "lying" when I said that people In the psych ward physically and sexually abused me. I hate being touched and people hug me all the time without consent. I love how you asked everytime. ❤️

  • @tsuharutakada8461
    @tsuharutakada8461 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As somebody with RaD (reactive attachment disorder. Was separated from family for most of my early childhood and up until I was 12 for negect and emotional abuse, then was placed with a wonderful family but I failed to make relationships. it came with much more, but forming and keeping close relationships are my main struggle) Having a soothing voice like this can pull me from any panic attack, or whenever I'm reliving something. you really do help people.

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Tsuharu Takada I'm so glad I can help. I wish you the absolute best :)

    • @tsuharutakada8461
      @tsuharutakada8461 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +CardlinAudio and for the weirdest reason, the beginning reminded me of Edward Cullen. ^_^

  • @sillyrabbit7744
    @sillyrabbit7744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I came here looking for an ASMR for emotional abuse and even though I think this video is for sexual or physical abuse survivors, it still helped me feel better. I know its multiple years old but I still wanna thank you so much for making it!

  • @anonymoussnaos1229
    @anonymoussnaos1229 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cardlin is so emotionally available unlike most guys. I love that about him.

  • @jakeserem462
    @jakeserem462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel terrible to know that people have and are dealing with abuse. Whether it be verbal, emotional, physical, sexual, etc, its still terrible. I'm one of the lucky people who has never been abused. If you are someone who is being or has been abused, its not nor will it ever be your fault and please reach out to someone about it. Sending all my love ❤

  • @chibibabe682
    @chibibabe682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for making this, I know this is an older video. And I am not exactly ready to come out and say why this video helped me, but again thank you. It helped a lot with what I’m going through.

  • @rhapsody9733
    @rhapsody9733 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your stuff feels so natural, like conversations you’d actually have! And I love it.

  • @naevis9407
    @naevis9407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This helped me. I had an abusive ex and he hit me everytime i was alone with him and he always never respected me. i told him many times im not with him and he kept saying him and i were still together and i couldnt get out of it. until his mom was called and he was told to stop touching me and hitting me.

  • @seokermom
    @seokermom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m a domestic abuse survivor and woke up in the middle of the night in a panic like I always do. I happened to come across this video somehow and I wanted to say thank you so so so so so much for this video. Thank you.

  • @maxdecember7485
    @maxdecember7485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Me: *starts crying*
    Him: “here’s a tissue”
    Me: H-how did- 👁💧👄💧👁🧻🤏🏻

  • @racheld2913
    @racheld2913 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wish you all the most happiness and the most joy because you deserve it. I would give you all the world if only I could, but may Cardlin's words be like a gentle hug and if only I could hug you all I'm not really good with words but he is.
    💋🌸💛
    I love you all. I've not even met y'all but know I'd give you a safe place any day
    Thank God for Cardlin

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Ellie Phantom Thank YOU, Ellie, for this beautiful message. =]

  • @Ehsidorah
    @Ehsidorah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks cardlin for this. I found you on TH-cam when trying to recover from a toxic relationship. This helped me comfort myself from every physical abuse episode.
    Keep up the good work!
    🌹

  • @samanthawarne5524
    @samanthawarne5524 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    +Cardlinaudio I would like to say thank you for this video, I am dealing with emotional abuse and I am thankful for this video. the day it came out I listened to it almost 5× since that day I had a bad argument with my father and this helped my cope, now everytime I have an argument with him or have a bad day I find your audios soothing and relaxing. thank you very much for your work

  • @merryapple6571
    @merryapple6571 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I listen to this one every day and sometimes more then once.

  • @maureenmooney8159
    @maureenmooney8159 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I still repeat my grandfather's words to me sometimes when I'm having anxiety or feel like everything is falling apart.. "You're nothing" "You're a problem for everyone and always will be." "You're a f***-up." "You're disgusting" "No one will ever love you in that chair". So I love this audio for telling me something different! I'm saving this video for later when the anxiety comes again. Thank you Cardlin!

    • @deal_with_it810
      @deal_with_it810 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wrote a book about a character in a wheelchair. She slayed life and so do you. You're beautiful and strong and so much more than people tell you. Please remember that. Please. 💞

  • @Fauziputra8976
    @Fauziputra8976 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much. You've helped a lot of people by this audio. Me too, a part of that people. I truly appreciate this.♡

  • @Jay-hn6bo
    @Jay-hn6bo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Can you do one with just you saying cute nicknames please

  • @sherrymerrill6317
    @sherrymerrill6317 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for posting this. This is what I needed to hear years ago when the horrible thing happened to me. Now I know what I’ve been missing, support, understanding, and unconditional love. Again, thank you!

  • @tonigrace3877
    @tonigrace3877 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i have extremely bad PTSD from mental, emotional, and physical abuse as a child. my ex...didn’t react well. thank you for this💕

  • @tealouie.3
    @tealouie.3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When i was about 8(i think) i was in school and there was this teacher, they where a reading buddy(if you don't know what a reading buddy is, it's basically someone who would take you into an empty class room so it's just you and yhe person and they'd make you read if you where having trouble in school and they'd help) anyways, this teacher would play with my hair and out their hand on my thigh, they'd slowly inch their way to my skirt but I'd get uncomfortable, stand up, and pull it down and start reading again. I remember feeling uncomfortable with the situation but seeming i was so young, i didn't say anything and thought they where just being overly friendly. I heard he did do some worse things to other students(they didn't tell me specifically what they did) and seeming that other student had it worse, the people who heard about it didn't help me, all they thought was the brighter things like "oh, they did worse to this child so the other one is okay" or "thank goodness they didn't do anything worse to this kid" so i didn't get the help i think i needed at the time. The thought of it still makes me stomach toss and i flinch at little things, I'm getting better tho! Which is good!☺️

  • @hamiltonatthedisco8823
    @hamiltonatthedisco8823 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love this piece very much and I hope it helps people out!

  • @kendalsatterfield8251
    @kendalsatterfield8251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve never been through physical abuse but I just went through emotional psychological and mental abuse and I just got out of the situation it only lasted a few months but it was the worst months ever and I’m still suffering and I don’t have anyone to tell me what this video says thank you so much for this I’m still suffering a lot though bc of it and I’m still scared every day even though I blocked the person I’m still scared of things and my mind wonders really bad sometimes

  • @lilwolf5469
    @lilwolf5469 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I cried when I listen to this. I've been thru this before. Thanks for this audio, Cardlin. x

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +bella tomlinson I'm glad you made it through. =] You're welcome.

  • @alyssamangubat1270
    @alyssamangubat1270 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Bless you for reading this thank you jeeze

  • @lpsprincess67
    @lpsprincess67 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God do I relate. I once told someone who I considered to be a very close friend of mine about being sexually harassed, emotionally, and physically abused and they barely batted an eyelash. This video is everything.

  • @deadroses4385
    @deadroses4385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My step dad is abusive mentally and sometimes physically and I've been in really abusive and manipulative relationships and this video helped and helps me get through it

  • @cw5601
    @cw5601 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    brought me to tears. This was the comfort I needed when I went though this but never got.

  • @Pip-aroo
    @Pip-aroo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was sexually assaulted 5 years ago. I just found this video and helped me realize that I'm so fucked up from that part of my life. When he started calling the listener "baby" I literally tensed up and felt myself dig my nails into my skin. Thank you for making an audio that accurately represents what it's like to have trauma and have ptsd attacks.