Fatima Touri Thanks love. I do appreciate it. Even though its still a struggle, I still go on. I have too many people around me that love me and I don't want to let them down
I know this video is 2 years ago.. but reading the comments.. 😩😫🤧 I’m sorry you all had to go through such tragedies.. We’re all in this together. I hope in time you will get healed. All of you.
Thank you for making this. I am a survivor of sexual abuse, and although my boyfriend is so sweet and caring about this, and always tells me that my body is my own, and that I can do what I want with it, this helps me when I'm going through flashbacks on my own. Thank you so much. Stay Strong~
Ashley i am sorry about the sexual abuse you had and a;ways remember you are worth a million rubys and your pretty just the way you are and you will always be loved by your boyfriend....just like mine
I was sexually harassed at 11 and it was at school, plus the police got involved, and I had to lie cause I was already dating someone at that time and I didn't want to hurt them. And then I was dating two people and one person didn't want the poly relationship so I had to leave one of them. Keep in mind that I'm 12 rn. I wanted to D I E.
I'm a survivor myself and I wish the person that I was with would have reacted this way when I was having flashbacks. Next time when the flashbacks happen (hopefully there won't be a next time) I will pull this video up. Cardlin, thank you.
Sorry to hear it, the big mystery to me is why people express trauma in different ways, I went though many phases and wound up indifferent, cold, unempathetic and yet ok with regard to how I feel. Not sure how to explain it, anyway I hope you feel better and get free from wanting to be /feeling dead.
Where was this for the first 15 years of my life? Unfortunately, non-existant. Did I need this? Yes. Do I appreciate the author and the actor for doing this? Most definitely. Thank you Principessa and Cardlin, you have no clue how much this means to me, and most likely means to all of the others who have been through something like this.
@@AsmrHoe wait so if someone was going to threaten him he would use his voice and go Hello This is my Calm and Seduceive voice if you dare threaten me again I shall become even more seductive
I always cry when i hear this audio. It's been two years since my abusive relationship ended and what a lot of people don't understand is that someone doesn't have to hurt you physically for it to be abuse as well. The memories, flashbacks, and nightmares penetrate my thoughts and continue to make me feel alone and sometimes broken. I moved to another state for this person. Loved him and his family dearly and had i known that it would have been like this, i wouldn't have moved and left my friends and family behind. This person isolated me from my friends and coworkers because he felt that they would introduce me to other men, made me lose my job by yelling at me, fighting with me, accusing me and manipulating me from the moment i got home from work until the time when i was supposed to wake up to go back to work the next day until i got so distracted and was late so many times that i got fired. He would sometimes push me off the bed and make me sleep on the floor or he would refuse to pick me up from work when i found another job and i would have to walk home in the middle of the night (from one area of Miami to another) since i had no one else i could call and i didn't have a car or money for taxis/buses. During a fight, he grabbed me and pushed me into a wall and held me there so that i couldn't move...plus many other things... I have a lot of love to give. I always have but idk if i have the courage to allow myself to be vulnerable with anyone again. I'm a teacher now and i try to encourage my students to treat everyone with kindness and patience regardless of how different they are from you or how angry they may make you. It's the right thing to do and if i can show some of them this, hopefully we'll have a more courteous generation of kids that follow us. This audio gives me hope that maybe one day, there will be someone out there who will hear what i've been through and will still love me anyway without taking advantage, trying to manipulate me, or thinking that i'm too broken to be loved in the way that I deserve to be loved. Thank you for writing this script, Principessa and thank you for thinking it was important enough to record, Cardlin. I wish more people understood how hard it is to be strong when something like this happens to you and i hope less people go through this. For myself, I just hope I can put it behind me and move on without it affecting everything i do and say around everyone. To anyone else who's been abused, you're so strong and you didn't deserve it. We'll get through it.
@@wolflover8462 wow....i forgot that i commented this on this video. Thank you for your kindness and hopefulness. My love life is non-existent lol but I pour everything i have to give into my job and into my family. My family and I have a much deeper connection than we did a few years ago. The love I receive from my students, friends I've gained over the years, and my family is enough for now
Our lives are very similar. I escaped mine 2.5 yrs ago. I still suffer with nightmares, flashbacks, anxiety and depression. I am not sure if I will ever be able to trust someone to get close to again. Sending you hugs, love and peace for anytime you need it. 🫂💗✌️
I've been single for 7 years because it's easier to push people away and not have to admit I'm broken because I was abused in my relationship, than open myself up and be vulnerable again.
It sucks especially when you have a flashback in public, there was this guy who did something as minor as touch my shoulder in public and I freaked the hell out, such an unnecessary scene. I just hope that people like me have someone out there to care for them, but also find a way to care for themselves. We are not victims, but survivors
True. I can relate unfortunately it happens to me often being in school still. But unfortunately my teachers and friends don’t have the experience to deal with me atall. It sucks so bad
this brought memories of my obsessive, controlling, abusive ex. my first HS boyfriend. i just stayed because i thought that nobody could love me like he did. he also reminded me that no one else would give a shit about me. and i thought he was right.
This one really hit home for me. Over a year ago...I was raped by someone I thought was a friend. Then a few months ago, just after the one year mark, one of my very best friends who I did have a thing with, tried to rape me. I still get nightmares, flashbacks, heck sometimes flinch. Its not as bad as over a year ago, but listening to this certainly does help in many ways, especially when I feel like I am in a dark place and that I just want to give up. Thank you so much for this
Julienne Bien They do. It may not seem like they do to others with a great life with good friends and family. But to people who don't have that, those kinds of people are every where.
Once again you and Ebba make the perfect team. With her beautiful style of writing and the sincerity and love in your voice, this has to be one of my favourite pieces on this channel. You both should be incredibly proud of yourselves for delivering such a serious message in such a sweet and understanding way. :) x
+Miss Myers Aw, thank you alot Dear! It was a bit of a task, it was, but I am glad we could bring happiness to someones hearts, or at least some comfort or ease. Your words goes to my heart. Have a lovely day ^^
Thanks for this. I really wish this is how people would (have) react(ed) whenever I opened up about this stuff. Instead they just kind of went "ok", like it's no big deal. Really great video, guys.
+Principessa thank you for such beautiful language and wonderful compassion; +CardlinAudio thank you for adding a voice to her words; and thank you both for advocating help for abuse victims and condemning abuse.
Hey. Sorry for a bit of a late reply. Thank you for your kind words, these comments really mean a lot. I do get flattered and it warms my heart to see that people enjoy what I write 😊 I am glad Cardlin and myself can reach out to someone out there. Stay safe, and have a wonderful day Dear. Thank you.
I got out of an abusive relationship where I was physically and physically abused. I was forced to do sexual acts too. it's sad because I can relate to this so much. thank you for this video ❤
Sometimes it's hard for me and my boyfriend when it comes to all different kinds of things, because I'm a victim of sexual and verbal abuse. There's certain things that I told him I wasn't comfortable with because of my last relationship. I'm lucky to say that he handles the flashback situations really well. Sometimes we just sit in silence while I regain myself. It's great having a shoulder to cry on. If you're going through abuse of ANY kind, please contact somebody and get help.
Reading through the comments just... damn I'm sorry bout you all. I was in a mentally manipulative and semi mental abusive relationship and just that alone screwed me up for AWHILE. Good vibes, prayers, and love to all yall.
Thank you for making this video. I was emotionally abused in my childhood and from a previous boyfriend, I suffer from GAD because of it. This video definitely helped, as did your other one about panic attacks. I think you and Principesa make a good team when it comes to these serous topics. Thanks again!
+KatieSmiley Hey, how kind of you to say. I am so sad to hear about your suffering, but times will change. You will get through this. I believe in you Hun. Lots of hugs and kisses. I cross my fingers for you. ^^
Yes. Childhood memories can be hard to shake off, but it is done now Sweetie ^_^ It's over and now it's time for you to go out into the world as a unique, beloved person. I am glad things are impoving. After a low, shadowcast valley, there can only be a sunkissed hill ^~^ Never forget that, no matter how deep the valley become. That only means that the hill will be higher and more delightful. Be careful out there.
Usually when this happens I want to feel as small as possible. I curl up in a ball and need to have my blanket with me and yes I still have a blankie judge all u want. That usually helps make me feel better.
I always hear people say that moving on will help. That it will make us stronger but for me moving on is just an scapegoat. No matter how much I tell myself that I'm good, I'm over it a single touch will make me crumble.
Where is the link again? Couldn't find it. Edit: Found it. The link is in a doc linked above. For those looking for the link here it is: docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeoCG4aAHH1oYCoH13lH2ivmuBeEYnkJiGregPKP0KwfZ0SCA/viewform
This showed up in my recommendations at the perfect time. I was in the midst of a panic attack due to flashbacks. I am a survivor of emotional, physical and sexual abuse at the hands of my ex fiancé. I needed this.
As someone who just escaped an abusive relationship with an ex fiancé 6 months ago, I feel you. I hope things got better for you, as I’m unsure of what to do with my life now.
I am a survivor of sexual grooming when I was 7, that's why sometimes when I get hugged from behind I jump- I'm now 13 and it still very much scares me- and just hearing someone say "don't be scared to tell me this" Or "you are strong" Made me burst into tears, thank you for being there Cardlin even when no one else was
I was sexually assaulted 5 years ago. I just found this video and helped me realize that I'm so fucked up from that part of my life. When he started calling the listener "baby" I literally tensed up and felt myself dig my nails into my skin. Thank you for making an audio that accurately represents what it's like to have trauma and have ptsd attacks.
When people touch my neck or stomach I just tell them that I need personal space but it’s really just because I know the memories will never go away :(
I kept my silence for this long. I have listened to all of Cardlin's audios, and this one really helped me through the long run today. Over the years I had to keep quiet and because of that I had to sacrifice so much of my life to keep my dysfunctional family together, and all I get in return is abuse from them to this day. Whenever I have a chance to listen to any of the audios, I cry and I heal from the trauma my parents inflicted on me as a child and a teenager over the years. Thanks Cardlinaudio and each of the scriptwriters for making these videos. I thank you from the depths of my heart. You all are lifesavers and heroes in my eyes.
This is the first ASMR RP video that I have seen, I chose it because I am a survivor of childhood abuse. The words spoken just made me feel such comfort and although I had no such comfort at the time, I truly with all my heart hope that current victims will hear these words spoken to them soon. Thank you so much for making this, I will be playing this often I think
I really do relate to this. as someone who has dealt with (and still dealing with the after effects of) abuse this really, really does help. there are nights I don't want to bother my cousins with my issues, and Cardlin's voice just makes it all go away.
As somebody with RaD (reactive attachment disorder. Was separated from family for most of my early childhood and up until I was 12 for negect and emotional abuse, then was placed with a wonderful family but I failed to make relationships. it came with much more, but forming and keeping close relationships are my main struggle) Having a soothing voice like this can pull me from any panic attack, or whenever I'm reliving something. you really do help people.
I was watching a period comfort Asmr because my cramps kicked in and the woman in the video jokingly raised her voice to get the stubborn listener to go take care of themselves and it triggered me. Shouting was not part of one of the events that traumatised me, but it can be a bad trigger for me that kicks in my fight, flight, fawn or freeze response and causes me to.dissociate quite quickly. So I put this on (I now have a playlist for moments like these) and it helped. Thank you.
Currently in the process of leaving an emotionally & mentally abusive relationship. The trauma bond is so tough. I feel unloved and what I am put through kills my spirit. This video genuinely made me feel loved for a brief moment.
I agree with you here. My father is emotionally abusive and this was the ASMR i could find that covered abuse... like truely covered it. even though I'm pretty sure it's for physical/sexual abuse, it still works mamzing an makes me feel better!
THIS BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL CONSENTING MAN. (but seriously thank you i went through sexual abuse at a young age and i have ptsd from it and this is one of my favorite audios of yours ever)❤️
OMG, Cardlin. You are truly God-given, to me....! Thank you, for all your audios. They help with a lot of issues. I hope you can be with your son, very soon!
I feel terrible to know that people have and are dealing with abuse. Whether it be verbal, emotional, physical, sexual, etc, its still terrible. I'm one of the lucky people who has never been abused. If you are someone who is being or has been abused, its not nor will it ever be your fault and please reach out to someone about it. Sending all my love ❤
This video is four years old but I always come back to it, no matter how far the incident that happened to me is, thank you seriously. I’ve never been able to hear this from someone who knows me but somehow it’s just as amazing hearing it from a stranger I greatly appreciate.
Why as soon as I’m about to fall asleep I get an ad and even worse it goes “HeRE At MeNaRdS-!!!!!!” I got so scared I almost peed myself and had to run to the bathroom… I’m never going to menards again.
i am super late to this video but i mean it made my cry, and is amazing that they are people that are THIS supportive even thought it is hard to find them but not impossible, and i am really glad it helps people that had gone into a lot of thing in their life, i appreciate it, and i send all my love to those how need it
Thanks cardlin for this. I found you on TH-cam when trying to recover from a toxic relationship. This helped me comfort myself from every physical abuse episode. Keep up the good work! 🌹
Thank you for making this, I know this is an older video. And I am not exactly ready to come out and say why this video helped me, but again thank you. It helped a lot with what I’m going through.
+Cardlinaudio I would like to say thank you for this video, I am dealing with emotional abuse and I am thankful for this video. the day it came out I listened to it almost 5× since that day I had a bad argument with my father and this helped my cope, now everytime I have an argument with him or have a bad day I find your audios soothing and relaxing. thank you very much for your work
I was gonna write down my story and talk about how I wish I had found this video sooner becuse what happened the year before that on Christmas including my aunts ex boyfriend. I was gonna explain how it felt becus so was so close with him and he was like a second father and how I couldn't stand for anyone at all to touch me or to get very close. I wont get into all the details but I know its now 2018 but... This was comforting acctually and it means alot to me like it does so many others. Your awsome and I do lsiten to your current work and your doing super awsome ive used your videoes for sleep for comfort to help with my panic attacks and anxiety attacks. Your work is awsome and I'm happy I found your channel. Even if no one sees this I'm happy I got to comment and say somthing. Much love!!😁💞
Back in 3rd grade a group of my old friends started to hit me and push me against the lockers in the morning,all because I wore glasses,I know it sounds cliché but it’s true,For the longest time I hated myself due to my glasses,I would cry myself to sleep sometimes because I felt they would never stop,but I found better friends,that had also been in the same situation,and I’m very grateful for them and for this role play,Abuse is a serious topic that people don’t discuss and feel like it needs to be brought up, This really helped me cope with what I’ve been threw *I love you Cardlin Never Stop What You Do 🥰*
I still repeat my grandfather's words to me sometimes when I'm having anxiety or feel like everything is falling apart.. "You're nothing" "You're a problem for everyone and always will be." "You're a f***-up." "You're disgusting" "No one will ever love you in that chair". So I love this audio for telling me something different! I'm saving this video for later when the anxiety comes again. Thank you Cardlin!
I wrote a book about a character in a wheelchair. She slayed life and so do you. You're beautiful and strong and so much more than people tell you. Please remember that. Please. 💞
I had to put up with my dad's crap for the past 8-9 years. It's been a difficult time for me as I have not spoken to him for two years!! I developed a stuttering problem since they split!! One night my dad and I had a fight and said in my face that I was a disappointment to the family!!!! Two years on, I'm not stuttering as I used to and its because I'm moving on :) Listening to this audio made me feel that there was someone there making me feel safe and calm!! Another Superb audio +cardlinaudio and ebba
Hi, oh Sweetie. I'm so sad you had to go through that. Still, you will come out stronger, I know you will ^_^ I'm glad you liked it dear. Have a beautiful day, and lots of hugs from me
I’m a domestic abuse survivor and woke up in the middle of the night in a panic like I always do. I happened to come across this video somehow and I wanted to say thank you so so so so so much for this video. Thank you.
My step dad is abusive mentally and sometimes physically and I've been in really abusive and manipulative relationships and this video helped and helps me get through it
I came here looking for an ASMR for emotional abuse and even though I think this video is for sexual or physical abuse survivors, it still helped me feel better. I know its multiple years old but I still wanna thank you so much for making it!
Honestly this video made me cry. But it felt like I needed that to happen, I had been keeping in everything from my last two relationships, neither of them were good and a bunch of bad shit happened and this video made me feel so much better after watching it. Thank you for letting me and everyone else have an outlet for this
Thank you so much for posting this. This is what I needed to hear years ago when the horrible thing happened to me. Now I know what I’ve been missing, support, understanding, and unconditional love. Again, thank you!
After two friends and I had an afternoon of music and movies, we decided to walk to the store that was practically next door. But on the way we ran into these guys. One of my friends was suddenly scared and wanted to go back to our house. I saw right away what was happening. I asked her if they'd done something and while instantly breaking down, she said yes. The S.O.B. s started joking around about what they were going to do again. I warned them to back off. When they turned to me, I told my friend to take our now emotionally wrecked friend back to the house. She knew if I was stern it meant I was truly mad. And when I get mad I try to control my temper. But sometimes people threaten my loved ones and don't listen when I warn them. They came at me with a knife and before you could count to 30sec, they were messed
God do I relate. I once told someone who I considered to be a very close friend of mine about being sexually harassed, emotionally, and physically abused and they barely batted an eyelash. This video is everything.
Thank you for making this video Card and Princi. My last relationship was with a mental and spiritual abuser. He broke me down and manipulate me to take part in things that nearly had me go down a bad road. It took years to get myself back to what is as close to what I use to be. But I still feel the pain and suffereing of that relationship to this day as if it was new. Hearing this made me feel a lot more hopeful of finding someone that would one day truly accept me and actually care for me. This one audio meant a lot to me. Thank you for doing this!
+Ennalissia Hey Sweetheart. It pains my heart to hear your story. No one deserves what you went through. I am glad that you have fought your way back. You have been very brave. There is someone out there waiting for you, I know it is ^_^ And he (or she) will be such a lucky person. You seem like a real good person. Take care Sweetie, be careful out there. Someone out there loves you, never forget that ^_^
+Ennalissia I'm so sorry to hear you had to go through what you did. Onward and upward to bigger, better things, okay? You'll find that someone, I promise.
I wish you all the most happiness and the most joy because you deserve it. I would give you all the world if only I could, but may Cardlin's words be like a gentle hug and if only I could hug you all I'm not really good with words but he is. 💋🌸💛 I love you all. I've not even met y'all but know I'd give you a safe place any day Thank God for Cardlin
I appreciate this audio. I’m stuck with an abusive mother. She abuses my brother physically (he’s 8) and I’m abused physically and emotionally. This brought me tears to my eyes. This helped me so much. Thank you. My mother after beating my brother started screaming at me asking me if I kept enjoying my brother getting hit( I was sitting sadly watching my brother getting hit since I can’t say anything or it will get worse). I appreciate this since I have no one to tell. I get scared saying anything so this is the closest comfort. If anyone else is in the position I wouldn’t mind talking to you. Love you all ❤️
When i was about 8(i think) i was in school and there was this teacher, they where a reading buddy(if you don't know what a reading buddy is, it's basically someone who would take you into an empty class room so it's just you and yhe person and they'd make you read if you where having trouble in school and they'd help) anyways, this teacher would play with my hair and out their hand on my thigh, they'd slowly inch their way to my skirt but I'd get uncomfortable, stand up, and pull it down and start reading again. I remember feeling uncomfortable with the situation but seeming i was so young, i didn't say anything and thought they where just being overly friendly. I heard he did do some worse things to other students(they didn't tell me specifically what they did) and seeming that other student had it worse, the people who heard about it didn't help me, all they thought was the brighter things like "oh, they did worse to this child so the other one is okay" or "thank goodness they didn't do anything worse to this kid" so i didn't get the help i think i needed at the time. The thought of it still makes me stomach toss and i flinch at little things, I'm getting better tho! Which is good!☺️
This really ment alot. My ex broke up with me bc they thought I was "lying" when I said that people In the psych ward physically and sexually abused me. I hate being touched and people hug me all the time without consent. I love how you asked everytime. ❤️
It is the worst feeling ever, when there is that one person who makes you feel safe in their arms, and then you want to go into their arms but all you can think about is the other person and you can't even get comfort for or from the person you love
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"we are in this together"
WEARE ALLL IN THIS TOGETHERRRRR
I found my people
Friends? :3
Lol this is
The best comment
Ever
😂😂
Queen Alisha ANE WE KNOW HOW TO SHOW--BLAH BLAH BLAH *IDK THE REST OF THE SONG*
Hsm
it terrifies me to think that people out there can think of doing such things. and i 'm so sorry for all persons that might've been victims to it.
+Fatima Touri Hear, hear.
As a victim myself it is so wonderful to hear such support. It truly makes the day better
I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. And I salute you for standing tall and not letting it hold you down. Just stay strong.
Fatima Touri Thanks love. I do appreciate it. Even though its still a struggle, I still go on. I have too many people around me that love me and I don't want to let them down
thank you ❤️
I know this video is 2 years ago.. but reading the comments.. 😩😫🤧 I’m sorry you all had to go through such tragedies.. We’re all in this together. I hope in time you will get healed. All of you.
Yeeeerr
yes
Thanks love
Ugh, the CONSENT! I NEED A MAN LIKE THIS!!!
Cheshire Cat everyone needs someone like this
I agree, consent is pretty unheard if these days
Thank you for making this. I am a survivor of sexual abuse, and although my boyfriend is so sweet and caring about this, and always tells me that my body is my own, and that I can do what I want with it, this helps me when I'm going through flashbacks on my own. Thank you so much. Stay Strong~
Ashley O'Donnell I shall pray for you and all survivors
Best advice I can come up with cuz I only have depression advice but every storm has a silver lining in all will clear and it will all pass
Ashley i am sorry about the sexual abuse you had and a;ways remember you are worth a million rubys and your pretty just the way you are and you will always be loved by your boyfriend....just like mine
I was sexually harassed at 11 and it was at school, plus the police got involved, and I had to lie cause I was already dating someone at that time and I didn't want to hurt them. And then I was dating two people and one person didn't want the poly relationship so I had to leave one of them. Keep in mind that I'm 12 rn. I wanted to D I E.
people can die from sexual abuse?
I havent been abused or anything like that but however i did cry listening to this...
The Teenage Catastrophy compassion is a beautiful mess indeed
9:41 this "please" is so full of raw emotion, it's absolutely beautiful.
"Breathe in"
*smells mom's dinner*
Me: mmmm...smells good
"AND breathe out"
Me: NOOOO DINNER SMELLS GOOD
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Ms.Keisha.... Ms.Keisha..... omg she dead Ms.Keisha dead (sorry saw the chance and took it
ME
I'm a survivor myself and I wish the person that I was with would have reacted this way when I was having flashbacks.
Next time when the flashbacks happen (hopefully there won't be a next time) I will pull this video up. Cardlin, thank you.
Sadly I only have depression advice but every storm has a silver lining it all will clear and it will all pass
Sorry to hear it, the big mystery to me is why people express trauma in different ways, I went though many phases and wound up indifferent, cold, unempathetic and yet ok with regard to how I feel. Not sure how to explain it, anyway I hope you feel better and get free from wanting to be /feeling dead.
Cardlin: Seems like the movie's over. Did you like it?
Me: No
Cardlin: Mmm, me too
lol
nice pfp 👉🏽
This was incredibly helpful for me to calm down a PTSD attack from an abusive past. Now I just need to find someone like this in my real life.
i agree
Where was this for the first 15 years of my life? Unfortunately, non-existant. Did I need this? Yes. Do I appreciate the author and the actor for doing this? Most definitely. Thank you Principessa and Cardlin, you have no clue how much this means to me, and most likely means to all of the others who have been through something like this.
"I'll protect you"
me: you have a machine gun and a box of ammo? :-D
Omg I thought you wrote “box of anime”
No he has a dammmmn seductive and caring voice
@@AsmrHoe right
LadyK1903 i do, I’m texan, what do you expect
@@AsmrHoe wait so if someone was going to threaten him he would use his voice and go Hello This is my Calm and Seduceive voice if you dare threaten me again I shall become even more seductive
I always cry when i hear this audio. It's been two years since my abusive relationship ended and what a lot of people don't understand is that someone doesn't have to hurt you physically for it to be abuse as well.
The memories, flashbacks, and nightmares penetrate my thoughts and continue to make me feel alone and sometimes broken. I moved to another state for this person. Loved him and his family dearly and had i known that it would have been like this, i wouldn't have moved and left my friends and family behind. This person isolated me from my friends and coworkers because he felt that they would introduce me to other men, made me lose my job by yelling at me, fighting with me, accusing me and manipulating me from the moment i got home from work until the time when i was supposed to wake up to go back to work the next day until i got so distracted and was late so many times that i got fired. He would sometimes push me off the bed and make me sleep on the floor or he would refuse to pick me up from work when i found another job and i would have to walk home in the middle of the night (from one area of Miami to another) since i had no one else i could call and i didn't have a car or money for taxis/buses. During a fight, he grabbed me and pushed me into a wall and held me there so that i couldn't move...plus many other things...
I have a lot of love to give. I always have but idk if i have the courage to allow myself to be vulnerable with anyone again. I'm a teacher now and i try to encourage my students to treat everyone with kindness and patience regardless of how different they are from you or how angry they may make you. It's the right thing to do and if i can show some of them this, hopefully we'll have a more courteous generation of kids that follow us. This audio gives me hope that maybe one day, there will be someone out there who will hear what i've been through and will still love me anyway without taking advantage, trying to manipulate me, or thinking that i'm too broken to be loved in the way that I deserve to be loved. Thank you for writing this script, Principessa and thank you for thinking it was important enough to record, Cardlin. I wish more people understood how hard it is to be strong when something like this happens to you and i hope less people go through this. For myself, I just hope I can put it behind me and move on without it affecting everything i do and say around everyone. To anyone else who's been abused, you're so strong and you didn't deserve it. We'll get through it.
I’m so sorry for you...I hope you are still going strong in life and have found someone who supports and loves you
@@wolflover8462 wow....i forgot that i commented this on this video. Thank you for your kindness and hopefulness. My love life is non-existent lol but I pour everything i have to give into my job and into my family. My family and I have a much deeper connection than we did a few years ago. The love I receive from my students, friends I've gained over the years, and my family is enough for now
Its been 2 years for me since my father got arrested for child abuse.
I hope ur feeling better!!
Our lives are very similar. I escaped mine 2.5 yrs ago. I still suffer with nightmares, flashbacks, anxiety and depression. I am not sure if I will ever be able to trust someone to get close to again. Sending you hugs, love and peace for anytime you need it. 🫂💗✌️
Never felt lonelier. listened to this and it warmed my heart I rarely cry because of how I was raised but I cried to this ;(
same
You’re an overcomer, you guys can overcome whatever it is you’re feeling. Much love. 💗 I’m sorry.
PREACHHH
I've been single for 7 years because it's easier to push people away and not have to admit I'm broken because I was abused in my relationship, than open myself up and be vulnerable again.
Don't ruin your life over one bad relationship , give others a chance , not all people are the same x
I relate to you
Cardlin: Oh gosh, just lean on me.
Me: LEAN ON ME!!! WHEN YOU'RE NOT STROOONG!
And i need a friend!!!!!
I"LL BE YOUR FRIEND> I"LL HELP YOU CARRY OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOON
I love these comments 😂
SOMEBODY TO LEAN ON
FOR IT WONT BE LONG TILL IM GONNA NEED SOMEBODY TO LEANN ONNNN.
It sucks especially when you have a flashback in public, there was this guy who did something as minor as touch my shoulder in public and I freaked the hell out, such an unnecessary scene. I just hope that people like me have someone out there to care for them, but also find a way to care for themselves. We are not victims, but survivors
You are a survivor
You are strong
You are loved
True. I can relate unfortunately it happens to me often being in school still. But unfortunately my teachers and friends don’t have the experience to deal with me atall. It sucks so bad
this brought memories of my obsessive, controlling, abusive ex. my first HS boyfriend. i just stayed because i thought that nobody could love me like he did. he also reminded me that no one else would give a shit about me. and i thought he was right.
I been through the same thing.but there are definitely people who care about you
I got up early so I decided to watch this, and right when Cardlin goes "what is wrong" BEEP BEEP BEEP i said aloud "MY DAMNED ALARM"
jordyn d. honestly me
AHAHAH
I CANT IM DYING LMAOOOOOOO
It really sucks that people can relate to this video but anyway great video Cardy!
This one really hit home for me. Over a year ago...I was raped by someone I thought was a friend. Then a few months ago, just after the one year mark, one of my very best friends who I did have a thing with, tried to rape me. I still get nightmares, flashbacks, heck sometimes flinch. Its not as bad as over a year ago, but listening to this certainly does help in many ways, especially when I feel like I am in a dark place and that I just want to give up. Thank you so much for this
Oh my gosh I am so sorry you had to go through that. You are incredibly strong and I hope you continue to feel better! *hugs* 💜
Jasey Rae aw thank you so much sweetheart. That really means alot to me. It is still a struggle but i am getting there. But thank you for your support
I pray for you
Who ever did it they have no soul you should be treated with care and be loved
You are strong
And you will get through this.
Love and prayers to you...
ladies do ppl like this exist irl
Julienne Bien yup.
Julienne Bien nope none that I've met
Julienne Bien yep they do, they are just really hard to find
Julienne Bien They do. It may not seem like they do to others with a great life with good friends and family. But to people who don't have that, those kinds of people are every where.
None that i know..
Once again you and Ebba make the perfect team. With her beautiful style of writing and the sincerity and love in your voice, this has to be one of my favourite pieces on this channel. You both should be incredibly proud of yourselves for delivering such a serious message in such a sweet and understanding way. :) x
+Miss Myers Aw, thank you alot Dear! It was a bit of a task, it was, but I am glad we could bring happiness to someones hearts, or at least some comfort or ease. Your words goes to my heart. Have a lovely day ^^
+Miss Myers Thank you, ma'am! I'm glad you like our work. =]
"Your beauty shines brighter than sun."
*Me* aaawwwwww 😄😊
I need a man who comforts like this, but although the topic is sad, you did a good job at dealing with the situation.
"Ill protect you…"
OK WHERE ARE THE MISSILES
I’ll help
Thank you so so much for this one.
Oml your profile pic is Ellie
Last Of Us~ 👆
I love ellie from the last of us
Thanks for this. I really wish this is how people would (have) react(ed) whenever I opened up about this stuff. Instead they just kind of went "ok", like it's no big deal. Really great video, guys.
+FiyahKitteh Sometimes it's hard to find the right words to say. It takes bravery to pull through something like that. Thank you.
IK Bro same
actually grabbed a tissue to dry my eyes
TONGUE TECHNOLOGY I'm not even crying and I wiped my eye
+Principessa thank you for such beautiful language and wonderful compassion; +CardlinAudio thank you for adding a voice to her words; and thank you both for advocating help for abuse victims and condemning abuse.
Hey. Sorry for a bit of a late reply. Thank you for your kind words, these comments really mean a lot. I do get flattered and it warms my heart to see that people enjoy what I write 😊 I am glad Cardlin and myself can reach out to someone out there. Stay safe, and have a wonderful day Dear. Thank you.
I got out of an abusive relationship where I was physically and physically abused. I was forced to do sexual acts too. it's sad because I can relate to this so much. thank you for this video ❤
Still one of the greatest Cardlin has ever done even 7 years later. 🙏
Thanks Merry Merry :)
Sometimes it's hard for me and my boyfriend when it comes to all different kinds of things, because I'm a victim of sexual and verbal abuse. There's certain things that I told him I wasn't comfortable with because of my last relationship. I'm lucky to say that he handles the flashback situations really well. Sometimes we just sit in silence while I regain myself. It's great having a shoulder to cry on. If you're going through abuse of ANY kind, please contact somebody and get help.
can you please do one about finding out your gf self harms
thatkitkat vlogs I would like that to
thatkitkat vlogs ,
Comfort for a suicidal significant other. Trigger warning, gets right in the feels
thatkitkat vlogs agree👋🏽❤️
Oh, I'm gay now: I watched that and cried a lot. It was so good though.
Reading through the comments just... damn I'm sorry bout you all. I was in a mentally manipulative and semi mental abusive relationship and just that alone screwed me up for AWHILE. Good vibes, prayers, and love to all yall.
Thank you for making this video. I was emotionally abused in my childhood and from a previous boyfriend, I suffer from GAD because of it. This video definitely helped, as did your other one about panic attacks. I think you and Principesa make a good team when it comes to these serous topics. Thanks again!
+KatieSmiley Hey, how kind of you to say. I am so sad to hear about your suffering, but times will change. You will get through this. I believe in you Hun. Lots of hugs and kisses. I cross my fingers for you. ^^
+KatieSmiley I'm glad I was able to help you out, Katie. I'm sorry you had to go through what you did. Thank you for staying strong!
+CardlinAudio Thank you for your kind words, I appreciate it 😊 I'm seeing improvements, some way to go still.
+Principessa Aww thank you, that's really sweet 😊. Things have been slowly improving, I'm excited to see what the future brings 😊
Yes. Childhood memories can be hard to shake off, but it is done now Sweetie ^_^ It's over and now it's time for you to go out into the world as a unique, beloved person. I am glad things are impoving. After a low, shadowcast valley, there can only be a sunkissed hill ^~^ Never forget that, no matter how deep the valley become. That only means that the hill will be higher and more delightful. Be careful out there.
Usually when this happens I want to feel as small as possible. I curl up in a ball and need to have my blanket with me and yes I still have a blankie judge all u want. That usually helps make me feel better.
Blankies for life
omg i do the exact same thing
I always hear people say that moving on will help. That it will make us stronger but for me moving on is just an scapegoat. No matter how much I tell myself that I'm good, I'm over it a single touch will make me crumble.
please do a pregnancy/ labor video xx
+Taco Kid Yes :3
Where is the link again? Couldn't find it.
Edit: Found it. The link is in a doc linked above. For those looking for the link here it is: docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeoCG4aAHH1oYCoH13lH2ivmuBeEYnkJiGregPKP0KwfZ0SCA/viewform
i want to be held as gently as his voice wraps around your consciousness as makes you just want to sleep and be comforted.
i listen to this every night- hope you make more !! this really helps me get through stuff
This showed up in my recommendations at the perfect time. I was in the midst of a panic attack due to flashbacks. I am a survivor of emotional, physical and sexual abuse at the hands of my ex fiancé. I needed this.
As someone who just escaped an abusive relationship with an ex fiancé 6 months ago, I feel you. I hope things got better for you, as I’m unsure of what to do with my life now.
I have PTSD from past abuse. And I haven't told my boyfriend but I'd love it he'd react like this
I am a survivor of sexual grooming when I was 7, that's why sometimes when I get hugged from behind I jump- I'm now 13 and it still very much scares me- and just hearing someone say "don't be scared to tell me this" Or "you are strong" Made me burst into tears, thank you for being there Cardlin even when no one else was
I was sexually assaulted 5 years ago. I just found this video and helped me realize that I'm so fucked up from that part of my life. When he started calling the listener "baby" I literally tensed up and felt myself dig my nails into my skin. Thank you for making an audio that accurately represents what it's like to have trauma and have ptsd attacks.
i was actually sexually abused recently this helped me find piece of mind thanks cardlin xxx ur amazing
+Jahneikah Coleman I'm so sorry to hear that, lovely, I'm so glad you found your peace. Stay strong!
Tw:
I found out my abuser of 6 years is in jail. I’m relieved but having to get that information terrified me. Thank you for this. Thank you.
I'll protect my own dang self!
* bee touches me *
Aughhhh cardlin help
When people touch my neck or stomach I just tell them that I need personal space but it’s really just because I know the memories will never go away :(
I’m so sorry
I kept my silence for this long. I have listened to all of Cardlin's audios, and this one really helped me through the long run today. Over the years I had to keep quiet and because of that I had to sacrifice so much of my life to keep my dysfunctional family together, and all I get in return is abuse from them to this day. Whenever I have a chance to listen to any of the audios, I cry and I heal from the trauma my parents inflicted on me as a child and a teenager over the years. Thanks Cardlinaudio and each of the scriptwriters for making these videos. I thank you from the depths of my heart. You all are lifesavers and heroes in my eyes.
This is the first ASMR RP video that I have seen, I chose it because I am a survivor of childhood abuse. The words spoken just made me feel such comfort and although I had no such comfort at the time, I truly with all my heart hope that current victims will hear these words spoken to them soon. Thank you so much for making this, I will be playing this often I think
I really do relate to this. as someone who has dealt with (and still dealing with the after effects of) abuse this really, really does help. there are nights I don't want to bother my cousins with my issues, and Cardlin's voice just makes it all go away.
As somebody with RaD (reactive attachment disorder. Was separated from family for most of my early childhood and up until I was 12 for negect and emotional abuse, then was placed with a wonderful family but I failed to make relationships. it came with much more, but forming and keeping close relationships are my main struggle) Having a soothing voice like this can pull me from any panic attack, or whenever I'm reliving something. you really do help people.
+Tsuharu Takada I'm so glad I can help. I wish you the absolute best :)
+CardlinAudio and for the weirdest reason, the beginning reminded me of Edward Cullen. ^_^
I was watching a period comfort Asmr because my cramps kicked in and the woman in the video jokingly raised her voice to get the stubborn listener to go take care of themselves and it triggered me. Shouting was not part of one of the events that traumatised me, but it can be a bad trigger for me that kicks in my fight, flight, fawn or freeze response and causes me to.dissociate quite quickly. So I put this on (I now have a playlist for moments like these) and it helped. Thank you.
Currently in the process of leaving an emotionally & mentally abusive relationship. The trauma bond is so tough. I feel unloved and what I am put through kills my spirit. This video genuinely made me feel loved for a brief moment.
I agree with you here. My father is emotionally abusive and this was the ASMR i could find that covered abuse... like truely covered it. even though I'm pretty sure it's for physical/sexual abuse, it still works mamzing an makes me feel better!
This is sad, only because it makes no sense how any moral person could place their hands on another person so cruelly.
You'd be surprised how many people find it easy (trust me I know)
Because they have no soul
I really needed to hear this. My own family says things like it's my fault and I need to get over it. Thank you Cardlin.
THIS BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL CONSENTING MAN. (but seriously thank you i went through sexual abuse at a young age and i have ptsd from it and this is one of my favorite audios of yours ever)❤️
I spy with my little eye a Yagami Yato fan
Silly Rabbit I spy with my little eye an Unus Annus fan 👀
Buzzybeautifulsunshinenugget16 I spy with my little eye an LGBTQ+ member!❤️
Silly Rabbit I spy with my little eye a Melanie Martinez fan👀
@@aslanjadecallenreese99 entirely unrelated and over a year after this was posted, but your username is my namesake
OMG, Cardlin. You are truly God-given, to me....! Thank you, for all your audios. They help with a lot of issues. I hope you can be with your son, very soon!
I feel terrible to know that people have and are dealing with abuse. Whether it be verbal, emotional, physical, sexual, etc, its still terrible. I'm one of the lucky people who has never been abused. If you are someone who is being or has been abused, its not nor will it ever be your fault and please reach out to someone about it. Sending all my love ❤
Aaaaand 30 years later I finally told someone. Thank you for knowing what to say.
This video is four years old but I always come back to it, no matter how far the incident that happened to me is, thank you seriously. I’ve never been able to hear this from someone who knows me but somehow it’s just as amazing hearing it from a stranger I greatly appreciate.
i’m so sorry:(
Thank you for doing this cardlin! You had me in tears , I wish someone could've shown up earlier to help me cope with abuse but I'm glad you did it.
+Lobo Means wolf You're welcome! Thank you for making it through those tough times to better days. =]
Why as soon as I’m about to fall asleep I get an ad and even worse it goes “HeRE At MeNaRdS-!!!!!!” I got so scared I almost peed myself and had to run to the bathroom… I’m never going to menards again.
Nobody can do it like Cardlin.
i am super late to this video but i mean it made my cry, and is amazing that they are people that are THIS supportive even thought it is hard to find them but not impossible, and i am really glad it helps people that had gone into a lot of thing in their life, i appreciate it, and i send all my love to those how need it
Thanks cardlin for this. I found you on TH-cam when trying to recover from a toxic relationship. This helped me comfort myself from every physical abuse episode.
Keep up the good work!
🌹
Thank you for making this, I know this is an older video. And I am not exactly ready to come out and say why this video helped me, but again thank you. It helped a lot with what I’m going through.
“Overheating with cold ass feet”
That’s me alright 😂
I feel attacked
I listen to this one every day and sometimes more then once.
+Cardlinaudio I would like to say thank you for this video, I am dealing with emotional abuse and I am thankful for this video. the day it came out I listened to it almost 5× since that day I had a bad argument with my father and this helped my cope, now everytime I have an argument with him or have a bad day I find your audios soothing and relaxing. thank you very much for your work
I was gonna write down my story and talk about how I wish I had found this video sooner becuse what happened the year before that on Christmas including my aunts ex boyfriend.
I was gonna explain how it felt becus so was so close with him and he was like a second father and how I couldn't stand for anyone at all to touch me or to get very close.
I wont get into all the details but I know its now 2018 but... This was comforting acctually and it means alot to me like it does so many others.
Your awsome and I do lsiten to your current work and your doing super awsome ive used your videoes for sleep for comfort to help with my panic attacks and anxiety attacks.
Your work is awsome and I'm happy I found your channel.
Even if no one sees this I'm happy I got to comment and say somthing.
Much love!!😁💞
Back in 3rd grade a group of my old friends started to hit me and push me against the lockers in the morning,all because I wore glasses,I know it sounds cliché but it’s true,For the longest time I hated myself due to my glasses,I would cry myself to sleep sometimes because I felt they would never stop,but I found better friends,that had also been in the same situation,and I’m very grateful for them and for this role play,Abuse is a serious topic that people don’t discuss and feel like it needs to be brought up,
This really helped me cope with what I’ve been threw *I love you Cardlin Never Stop What You Do 🥰*
I still repeat my grandfather's words to me sometimes when I'm having anxiety or feel like everything is falling apart.. "You're nothing" "You're a problem for everyone and always will be." "You're a f***-up." "You're disgusting" "No one will ever love you in that chair". So I love this audio for telling me something different! I'm saving this video for later when the anxiety comes again. Thank you Cardlin!
I wrote a book about a character in a wheelchair. She slayed life and so do you. You're beautiful and strong and so much more than people tell you. Please remember that. Please. 💞
I had to put up with my dad's crap for the past 8-9 years. It's been a difficult time for me as I have not spoken to him for two years!! I developed a stuttering problem since they split!! One night my dad and I had a fight and said in my face that I was a disappointment to the family!!!! Two years on, I'm not stuttering as I used to and its because I'm moving on :)
Listening to this audio made me feel that there was someone there making me feel safe and calm!! Another Superb audio +cardlinaudio and ebba
I am sorry you had family issues! But I am so happy that you have built up courage to overcome it. And to that I applaud you. :)
+Shelby Brown thanks :)
Hi, oh Sweetie. I'm so sad you had to go through that. Still, you will come out stronger, I know you will ^_^ I'm glad you liked it dear. Have a beautiful day, and lots of hugs from me
+Michaela Flynn I'm so sorry you had to go through this, lovely. Stay up and stay strong. =]
CardlinAudio Principessa Thank you for your kind comments..It's been hard but I'm getting there :)
I cried when I listen to this. I've been thru this before. Thanks for this audio, Cardlin. x
+bella tomlinson I'm glad you made it through. =] You're welcome.
I’m a domestic abuse survivor and woke up in the middle of the night in a panic like I always do. I happened to come across this video somehow and I wanted to say thank you so so so so so much for this video. Thank you.
I love waiting for your videos.Cant wait until I come home form school and see this thank u
Same
me too!
same! ^^
Same! ☺️ I always patiently wait for Friday
Same
My step dad is abusive mentally and sometimes physically and I've been in really abusive and manipulative relationships and this video helped and helps me get through it
I came here looking for an ASMR for emotional abuse and even though I think this video is for sexual or physical abuse survivors, it still helped me feel better. I know its multiple years old but I still wanna thank you so much for making it!
Honestly this video made me cry. But it felt like I needed that to happen, I had been keeping in everything from my last two relationships, neither of them were good and a bunch of bad shit happened and this video made me feel so much better after watching it. Thank you for letting me and everyone else have an outlet for this
brought me to tears. This was the comfort I needed when I went though this but never got.
Bless you for reading this thank you jeeze
Cardlin is so emotionally available unlike most guys. I love that about him.
Thank you so much for posting this. This is what I needed to hear years ago when the horrible thing happened to me. Now I know what I’ve been missing, support, understanding, and unconditional love. Again, thank you!
Your stuff feels so natural, like conversations you’d actually have! And I love it.
After two friends and I had an afternoon of music and movies, we decided to walk to the store that was practically next door. But on the way we ran into these guys. One of my friends was suddenly scared and wanted to go back to our house. I saw right away what was happening. I asked her if they'd done something and while instantly breaking down, she said yes. The S.O.B. s started joking around about what they were going to do again. I warned them to back off. When they turned to me, I told my friend to take our now emotionally wrecked friend back to the house. She knew if I was stern it meant I was truly mad. And when I get mad I try to control my temper. But sometimes people threaten my loved ones and don't listen when I warn them. They came at me with a knife and before you could count to 30sec, they were messed
God do I relate. I once told someone who I considered to be a very close friend of mine about being sexually harassed, emotionally, and physically abused and they barely batted an eyelash. This video is everything.
Thank you for making this video Card and Princi. My last relationship was with a mental and spiritual abuser. He broke me down and manipulate me to take part in things that nearly had me go down a bad road. It took years to get myself back to what is as close to what I use to be. But I still feel the pain and suffereing of that relationship to this day as if it was new.
Hearing this made me feel a lot more hopeful of finding someone that would one day truly accept me and actually care for me. This one audio meant a lot to me. Thank you for doing this!
+Ennalissia Hey Sweetheart. It pains my heart to hear your story. No one deserves what you went through. I am glad that you have fought your way back. You have been very brave. There is someone out there waiting for you, I know it is ^_^ And he (or she) will be such a lucky person. You seem like a real good person. Take care Sweetie, be careful out there. Someone out there loves you, never forget that ^_^
Thank you! That means alot to me.
+Ennalissia Oh of course Sweetie ^_^ Have a really nice day!
+Ennalissia I'm so sorry to hear you had to go through what you did. Onward and upward to bigger, better things, okay? You'll find that someone, I promise.
this made me cry, felt very real. thank you
I wish you all the most happiness and the most joy because you deserve it. I would give you all the world if only I could, but may Cardlin's words be like a gentle hug and if only I could hug you all I'm not really good with words but he is.
💋🌸💛
I love you all. I've not even met y'all but know I'd give you a safe place any day
Thank God for Cardlin
+Ellie Phantom Thank YOU, Ellie, for this beautiful message. =]
I appreciate this audio. I’m stuck with an abusive mother. She abuses my brother physically (he’s 8) and I’m abused physically and emotionally. This brought me tears to my eyes. This helped me so much. Thank you. My mother after beating my brother started screaming at me asking me if I kept enjoying my brother getting hit( I was sitting sadly watching my brother getting hit since I can’t say anything or it will get worse). I appreciate this since I have no one to tell. I get scared saying anything so this is the closest comfort.
If anyone else is in the position I wouldn’t mind talking to you. Love you all ❤️
Omg I am so sorry! I’m late but please know everything will be alright! I love YOU. Please I’m always here to talk ❤️🤟
PTSD is a hell I have unfortunately been "gifted" with in this existence.....thanks ma.....
When i was about 8(i think) i was in school and there was this teacher, they where a reading buddy(if you don't know what a reading buddy is, it's basically someone who would take you into an empty class room so it's just you and yhe person and they'd make you read if you where having trouble in school and they'd help) anyways, this teacher would play with my hair and out their hand on my thigh, they'd slowly inch their way to my skirt but I'd get uncomfortable, stand up, and pull it down and start reading again. I remember feeling uncomfortable with the situation but seeming i was so young, i didn't say anything and thought they where just being overly friendly. I heard he did do some worse things to other students(they didn't tell me specifically what they did) and seeming that other student had it worse, the people who heard about it didn't help me, all they thought was the brighter things like "oh, they did worse to this child so the other one is okay" or "thank goodness they didn't do anything worse to this kid" so i didn't get the help i think i needed at the time. The thought of it still makes me stomach toss and i flinch at little things, I'm getting better tho! Which is good!☺️
All I can say is thank you so much for this, you just helped me through so much.... Love ya
+Carly waters You're welcome, Carly. ^_^
CardlinAudio Fan girling because you replied ahhhhh lmao
This really ment alot. My ex broke up with me bc they thought I was "lying" when I said that people In the psych ward physically and sexually abused me. I hate being touched and people hug me all the time without consent. I love how you asked everytime. ❤️
It is the worst feeling ever, when there is that one person who makes you feel safe in their arms, and then you want to go into their arms but all you can think about is the other person and you can't even get comfort for or from the person you love
I dealt with abuse and I’ve had two large scars on my shoulder because of the abuse. Thank you so much for helping me cope.
“We’re all in this together”
WERE ALL IN THIS THING TOGETHER