ASMR Voice: We'll get through this together [M4F] [Comfort for PTSD & Abuse] [Trigger comfort]

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ความคิดเห็น • 831

  • @honeyaudios820
    @honeyaudios820 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1253

    “Hes not here he is dead”
    wElL tHaT tOoK a DaRk TuRn nOw DiDnT iT

  • @icicles8426
    @icicles8426 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1594

    I was sexually abused as a little girl. I never let myself cry, but I just couldn't stop crying because of this. Thank you for raising awareness for the issue of PTSD, and comforting a lot of those who have it.

    • @emmashue6160
      @emmashue6160 6 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      icicles i had the same thing happen to me as a little girl... this video helped me so much... Cardlin is really the best. i feel like all of us who watch him will have such high standards because of how sweet he is to us 😭😭😭

    • @aesthetics9464
      @aesthetics9464 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      icicles I was too I treat it as nothing .-.

    • @shannontaylor4474
      @shannontaylor4474 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      it's a year later but I've been through the same. Although I don't have any flashbacks, it certainly leaves its marks

    • @elizabethvilamitjanacaball6507
      @elizabethvilamitjanacaball6507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Sorry for you.... Hope you will feel beter soon ❤

    • @momtozoo253
      @momtozoo253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      icicles me to,I was so scard..;-;

  • @haeleighmoore7822
    @haeleighmoore7822 7 ปีที่แล้ว +984

    That one line. "When I see scars from where others have hurt you..and..and where you've hurt yourself." I fall apart every time. I wish someone could understand me like that

    • @harleycook336
      @harleycook336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Haeleigh Moore I get you. I do to. But i understand and relate. You are not alone. I am here for you and we can battle this together if you’ll let me Battle with you I would be honored * extends my hand for you if you want me to help you

    • @hayhey4985
      @hayhey4985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I did too💔😔

  • @tarynchantel734
    @tarynchantel734 6 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    About a year ago, before my senior year of high school, I was kidnapped by a guy I thought was a friend, and he took me to another man’s house. We went to the basement, I sat in the corner trying to figure out how I was going to leave. And before I knew it, one of the men had a loaded gun in his hand and was aiming it at me. He told me he was an illegal immigrant and threatened that if I told anyone he would shoot me. He was very intoxicated. Eventually he passed out and there was another boy in the house who I could tell didn’t know what was happening and he was scared too, and he helped me to escape. It’s been a little over a year now. My flashbacks are not as intense as this, but listening to this really helped with calm me down at night when I get scared to be alone. Thank you...

    • @juliaconnolly5870
      @juliaconnolly5870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      taryn chantel I hope all is well 2 years later 💜

    • @cheeseaccent
      @cheeseaccent 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      god bless you

    • @freaknation1558
      @freaknation1558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yeah 2 years later honey your here I know it may have been a while but if you still get flashbacks that's ok it's understandable and understand that it's ok your safe now god bless you and I pray that an angel will be with you you may not be religious but just had to be said

    • @harleycook336
      @harleycook336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      taryn chantel I’m here with you on that. Although not the same conditions a similar scenario. I’m here for yoy

  • @kristineelguea3643
    @kristineelguea3643 7 ปีที่แล้ว +993

    I could never imagine the pain people who suffer PTSD go through. You are stronger then you think. And we love you. And we're here for you. Even when it gets rough.

    • @rebekah3126
      @rebekah3126 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      You are such a good person 😁

    • @Aisurufu
      @Aisurufu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you

    • @shorelinesupport
      @shorelinesupport 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I needed that. Thanks.

    • @laylastarzz
      @laylastarzz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      simplykrissy13 thanks you so much!:)

    • @waitisthisally
      @waitisthisally 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you for that :) truly means so much.

  • @roneshialong53
    @roneshialong53 7 ปีที่แล้ว +830

    i was sexually abused and am dealing with PTSD ❤️ thank you so much for this
    Update: i’ve been doing okay! it’s been hard but i can do it. i’ve seen so many comments and i’ve done by absolute best to reply to all of them. you guys are so strong, you’ve got this, and you’re all amazing. thank you!

    • @Allaroundtheworld99
      @Allaroundtheworld99 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Roneshia Long I hope you're okay, you'll be okay!❤️

    • @roneshialong53
      @roneshialong53 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      KᗩᗯᗩII ᑭOTᗩTO thank you so much ❤️ you're so sweet

    • @roneshialong53
      @roneshialong53 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sophie Roberts aw thank you so much. i'll be okay soon!

    • @youdontwannaknow9610
      @youdontwannaknow9610 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Roneshia Long i've also got sexually assaulted.. this help me so much.. :/

    • @roneshialong53
      @roneshialong53 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      nikita joshi i'm sorry. get well soon 💕

  • @nataliarodriguez1173
    @nataliarodriguez1173 7 ปีที่แล้ว +962

    Him: look for something blue
    me: *finds nothing blue*
    SMASHES HEAD ON KEYBOARD

    • @geniuswierdos7017
      @geniuswierdos7017 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Natalia Rodriguez why is this mE

    • @biddleTM
      @biddleTM 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      My room has NOTHING blue in it...

    • @yuckiducki
      @yuckiducki 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      In my room, my walls are blue so he was like: "Look for something blue"
      Me: The fucking walls...

    • @shadwdemn2012
      @shadwdemn2012 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Natalia Rodriguez
      Him- look for something blue
      Me- so......my emotions?

    • @purplegirl1010100
      @purplegirl1010100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      TheEchoEffect Gaming same

  • @emmakatewood421
    @emmakatewood421 7 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    whenever I hear him cry. I have to pause the video so I dont cry.

    • @ambrosiamosher553
      @ambrosiamosher553 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Emma Kate Wood ikr fuck my heart hurts to

    • @ellisdelk9513
      @ellisdelk9513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Emma Kate Wood
      Same!!!!
      I'm like
      "AHHHHno no no don't cry, stop crying, I'm going to cry!"

    • @_ashy_froggie_
      @_ashy_froggie_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl same

    • @Pearl-cz3dc
      @Pearl-cz3dc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same I had to scroll on TikTok for a minute to not cry

  • @gamerarts3386
    @gamerarts3386 7 ปีที่แล้ว +792

    cardlin i hate hearing you cry, i just want to hug you, now i'm crying gosh darn this audio is powerful it making me cry .. great audio 10/10, i need tissues and a hug jesus cardlin this so wonderful

    • @scorpiobitch3036
      @scorpiobitch3036 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      my head hurts from crying so much but this is so amazing ❤

    • @gamerarts3386
      @gamerarts3386 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      tøptrashphan #1 i know

    • @francesmcneill7100
      @francesmcneill7100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I sometimes get slight warnings of when I am about to have an episode and my boyfriend knows them to so he'll hold me and talk to me like this or sometimes when that doesn't work, he plays this on low and puts part of the headphones on my ear and rubs my back. I'm happy to have him.

    • @sierrarose8684
      @sierrarose8684 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *passes you tissues while crying*

  • @lapan6303
    @lapan6303 5 ปีที่แล้ว +459

    “i’ll never let anyone hurt you”
    *later in october* “i want to see where you bleed most from”

    • @reaganbrooke8578
      @reaganbrooke8578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      For personal reasons I would like to know what video that is from 🙃

    • @a.cnugget0323
      @a.cnugget0323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      😂

    • @notebook1664
      @notebook1664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@reaganbrooke8578 lol me too

    • @a.cnugget0323
      @a.cnugget0323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I bleed most from my vagina when i'm on meh period😉😂😂😂

    • @narulvr3035
      @narulvr3035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@a.cnugget0323 ahhahaha XD😂😂

  • @Cosmickayellie
    @Cosmickayellie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    This was actually pretty accurate, but know that in the cases of PTSD the worst thing is to cry and panic as well. It's hard, but you have to remain calm. I will say that the describing surroundings and getting in touch with reality was spot on perfect.

    • @lucerix6033
      @lucerix6033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      super late but sometimes i block out stuff and i dont remember what im having an attack or PTSD from but the feeling never goes away. i can associate the feeling to a person but not when i see or hear that person. its really weird but im glad im understanding all this more

    • @axehead45
      @axehead45 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Huh, I did not know that. Maybe he just added the panic to make it feel a bit more real? Just a thought.

    • @hayhey4985
      @hayhey4985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Some people cant control their panic

    • @Cosmickayellie
      @Cosmickayellie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@axehead45 it’s highly possible. I think the point of what I was trying to say was for the person trying to calm the person having a PTSD episode not to panic, because that makes the other person panic even more than they already are. It’s been months since I posted the comment so I have no actual idea what my intentions were.
      Thank you for bringing me back to the post so I can reflect on my own comment!

    • @axehead45
      @axehead45 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Cosmickayellie thanks for telling me. I’m not good at understanding comments fully sometimes.

  • @CardlinAudio
    @CardlinAudio  7 ปีที่แล้ว +967

    • @LiliannaVess
      @LiliannaVess 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      CardlinAudio ❤️

    • @nyoslyblueseragaki6926
      @nyoslyblueseragaki6926 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      CardlinAudio

    • @GrayCole96
      @GrayCole96 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      CardlinAudio
      EVERYTHING'S ALRIGHT FROM TO THE MOON AHHHHHH
      Sorry... I loooove that song and was sitting here trying to figure it out for a while!

    • @Mickey-L0ng
      @Mickey-L0ng 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Raelynn Vance i feel the same its really hard for me to communicate to other people so this video really helped me

    • @Delvina596
      @Delvina596 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have delt with abuse from a significant other more then once and sometimes I have nightmares to to this day. I feel bad for people who have this. My brother has PTSD he was in the military and he seen very bad things. This makes me happy. I am only 18 so after being in an abusive and toxic relationship at such a young age effected me very much. I am scared I will end up in another. I don't wanna be I'm another one so I am. Now very cautious. I went a guy like the guy you protray in this

  • @daniellecastillo-blandin5787
    @daniellecastillo-blandin5787 7 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    I sometimes go through episodes of my parents abusing me and my brother's friends doing things to me when I was younger. These kinds of things like seizures, ptsd, depression, anxiety and schizophrenia is what I have to deal with. But thank you so much Cardlin, you provide the comfort that no one gives me.

    • @jacejacobs4044
      @jacejacobs4044 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Danielle Castillo-Blandin I'm in a similar situation. Stay strong ✨💖

    • @catherinejay3851
      @catherinejay3851 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Danielle Castillo-Blandin I go through all of that too. ❤️

    • @shakeyraware4296
      @shakeyraware4296 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Danielle Castillo-Blandin im glad u okay sweetie u are a strong beautiful person and im here for u everything will be okay bby

    • @librainthemaking1675
      @librainthemaking1675 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I hope things are getting better and same I got abused and recently started getting ptsd attacks whenever I feel close to a situation that was like when I was a kid the first time I cried and started saying that I needed to get out of the house asking for it to stop.

    • @zosialee7000
      @zosialee7000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Danielle Castillo-Blandin wait u have all those too? Oh thank god I thought I was the only one this broken ❤️❤️❤️

  • @TanashiASMR
    @TanashiASMR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    This is my second comment, but this is targetted to help somebody else get through a PTSD attack.
    1.) Ask them questions to try and help them snap into reality. Ask them what they see, what colors, what items. Ask them what they hear. What sounds?
    2.) Make a code, a cord word, or signal to tell them that what they are experiencing is not real. A couple taps on the hand, a word, or a noise that they recognize can help lessen the severity of the attack.
    3.) Don't hold the person without their permission. They could think that you are trying to attack them.
    4.) When they snap out of their attack, ask what you can do to help. Could you give them a hug? Could you hold their hand? Hum? Asking questions helps divert their attention to something else other than the attack.
    5.) Tell them to imagine a pastel color slowly swirling around them. Pastel colors are soothing colors, while slow movements helps them concentrate on what it is doing.
    I hope this helped in someway!

    • @benji_and_the_tomatoes
      @benji_and_the_tomatoes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you so much for this. I had to legit search for this comment for two weeks just to show my boyfriend that he was doing the right thing to help me whenever I go back to being a little boy raped by his step father. He does just about everything you have said so thank you. 🥰

    • @a_little_demon
      @a_little_demon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for the advices !

    • @urdelulufriendrd
      @urdelulufriendrd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love you 😭 thankyou for this

    • @urdelulufriendrd
      @urdelulufriendrd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@benji_and_the_tomatoes might be off topic but how are you doing ☺️ you could ignore if u want 😐 good day 🤗

  • @Rhi_willowgrey
    @Rhi_willowgrey 7 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    I hope the people that this helps, feel some comfort and know that they are loved and not alone.

  • @missmyers4
    @missmyers4 7 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    It's so scary to me to think that so many people relate to this and suffer similar problems. To anyone who's been through this kind of thing or is currently going through it, you're going to be ok. Please try and talk to someone about the way you're feeling and find the right help to get through this. I know you can do this. To the author of this piece and to Cardlin, well done on handling this so well. ❤️

  • @sofialouised
    @sofialouised 7 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    This hits so close to home. My mother has ptsd attacks sometimes and it's exactly like this... it's terrifying to witness and even more terrifying to feel like my mom did. :( this was comforting in a way for me. Thanks.

  • @beccaamy3358
    @beccaamy3358 7 ปีที่แล้ว +476

    Thank you so much for this 💙 I was caught up in the attack in Manchester and whilst I'm fine physically, I'm having nightmares, throwing up and hearing things. I can't thank you enough.
    EDIT: people are being so lovely, thank you. I'm doing a lot better now and went back to Manchester a few days ago, and I'm starting therapy next week :)

    • @GraceC
      @GraceC 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Becca Higginson I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I have no words

    • @secretrose5439
      @secretrose5439 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Becca Higginson I can't imagine how scary that was I feel so sorry for you I wish I could give you a hug

    • @esiadamaley3033
      @esiadamaley3033 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm sorry you went through that :( I'm glad you're okay. ❤️❤️

    • @beccaamy3358
      @beccaamy3358 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      All of the love 💜

    • @christianawalsh1161
      @christianawalsh1161 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Becca Amy im so sorry you were caught in that! I'm glad you're okay! I hope you get through anything that might be following you 💙

  • @an33sa.
    @an33sa. 7 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    I actually had to pause it because I was about to sob my heart out. Cardlin, thank you so much for making this for all those brave people in the world. You truly are a gem (the most sparkly and shiny one ever)

    • @scorpiobitch3036
      @scorpiobitch3036 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      same, I cried so much that my head is hurting (also yay phandom)

    • @tompson8173
      @tompson8173 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      inspirational, Doot Howell

    • @Sad_nuggie
      @Sad_nuggie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is doot alright? Does doot need a hug? **pulls out lolly** I HAS A LOLLY FOR YOU DOOT COME HERE YOU CAN’T RUN FOREVER

    • @clover2321
      @clover2321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why why I love your pfp

  • @danielledantzer0990
    @danielledantzer0990 6 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I have ptsd and generalized anxiety and social anxiety. Thanks for this Cardlin. I don't have a boyfriend to do this but when I start feeling scared I listen to your audios and it makes me smile or sleep, or at least calms me so much. I also have a past with abuse. This helps me on many levels.

  • @latifahwalsh7363
    @latifahwalsh7363 7 ปีที่แล้ว +511

    WAS HE FREAKING HUMMING "EVERYTHINGS ALRIGHT"?!?!.......mother of grapes........

  • @heir.of.regulus6924
    @heir.of.regulus6924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    You're safe.
    You're loved.
    You're not in trouble.
    That's a mantra I repeat to myself in times when my ptsd gets bad. I just take deep breaths are repeat those three lines over and over again.

  • @finley5065
    @finley5065 7 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    i have PTSD from a past suicide attempt and this is exactly what i needed after today,thanks cardy💜 (ps when you fake cry i cant help but get emotional)

    • @harleycook336
      @harleycook336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sierra same. I’m here for you

    • @lucerix6033
      @lucerix6033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      me too- we're strong together!!!

  • @Ηλια-λ9ρ
    @Ηλια-λ9ρ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    when he was almost about to cry my heart going like crazy.He is so cute

  • @andrea3429
    @andrea3429 7 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    You made me cry with that humming, "Everything's Alright." So fitting for this audio, it is actually one of the theme songs of my LDR; it is very significant to me. Thank you Cardlin. :3

    • @autumnsummer1103
      @autumnsummer1103 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Andrea Lian Casumbal I thought I was the only one that recognized the song

    • @viajamesw.228
      @viajamesw.228 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Andrea Lian Casumbal what song is it??

  • @sawyersalad0037
    @sawyersalad0037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    OMG THE FIRST TIME HE SAID “ please come back baby” OMGGGG😭💔😭💔😭💔😭💔😭💔😭💔😭💔😭💔😭💔😭💔😭💔😭💔😭💔😭 CARDLIN NOOT^T

  • @R0seGh0st
    @R0seGh0st 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When I was abused as a child, I was given one gift. A torn, shredded, and beat up panda stuffie. When I have flashbacks the best thing to do first is give me my panda. I am 19 and I got the panda around 4 I still have it to this day and I’ll never get rid of it.

  • @potterhead9.3.45
    @potterhead9.3.45 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    "He's dead."
    No but he's actually my "dad"

    • @Octane.on.pawz.
      @Octane.on.pawz. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      no but hes actually my ex best friend who goes to the same school as me.

  • @suftiaa9802
    @suftiaa9802 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Oh my god...I had to pause at 4:57 Cardlin was so broken hearted

  • @charliec4580
    @charliec4580 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    It’s 2 am, I started having flashbacks. I went to wake up my boyfriend in the other room. He barely noticed until the stress made me lose consciousness and when I came to I was angry. Angry at how I have to deal with these emotions in the aftermath, how I can’t process them and I stare into space until I have a stress seizure. Angry at how he didn’t notice sooner. Angry at when I left the room he fell back asleep and I knew I wouldn’t sleep for hours afterward. Angry at how my abuser blames me for it, and how I was the one who did everything bad.
    I got a minute into the audio and heard him start crying. All the anger just melted away and I started fucking sobbing. I was hurt. I was scared. I cried calling hotlines but hung up before I got connected. I couldn’t talk, I just needed to listen to someone’s voice that isn’t the one in my head, repeating everything they said, everything they did.
    Thank you, Cardlin, for being here for me on nights I can barely make it through.

    • @TheMadagascarqueen
      @TheMadagascarqueen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope that shitty "boyfriend" is out of your life.

    • @castaway2850
      @castaway2850 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hi there, i know this is a very old comment but i hope things are going better for you in the present 💜

  • @sssh537
    @sssh537 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1288

    Face it. This isn't asmr, and we aren't here for said asmr.

    • @jeunbug5941
      @jeunbug5941 6 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Sowmya Sheppillayar some of these are rly relaxing thou-
      Like I’ve fallen asleep to his “Hey, Roomie” one once. But other then those few that are relaxing, yeah pretty much 😂😂

    • @desiremilner3229
      @desiremilner3229 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      yes it is shut up

    • @BellaNZai
      @BellaNZai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Trueeee.

    • @cubaku
      @cubaku 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      It's an audio book

    • @s.kenahan2850
      @s.kenahan2850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      yesss

  • @shelbygage1577
    @shelbygage1577 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "starts humming everythings alright"
    Me: *immediate tears*

  • @elainavolkov
    @elainavolkov 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    hearing him cry is actually breaking my heart

  • @whyamihere6465
    @whyamihere6465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    When he started to cry and said someone who loves you i don’t know why but my stomach did my a triple standing backflip. Like wtf happened but something happened.

  • @chantellelawton3185
    @chantellelawton3185 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    i suffered with PTSD from the bullying. it was hell. i HATE my first secondary school. I also get suicidal from that. now I'm 22 doing the degree. thanks for making that video. I get flashbacks out of nowhere and something reminds me of things. My 2 dogs and my grandma passed away. It's tough. i almost cried when you acted out your emotions. oh god. I never got abused, just bullying and the teachers makes is worse. I have a speech and language disability and the teachers thought I was autistic. I'm not gladly. When my mum said about the bullying and the school denied about it, they said to her, 'Well, we think it your daughter's fault that she didn't understand.' that's wrong. if I had a boyfriend, he'll understand.

    • @bluebunny638
      @bluebunny638 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Chantelle Lawton I also developed PTSD from bullying, as well as Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Social Anxiety Disorder, Panic Disorder and Major Depressive Disorder. When I first was diagnosed with PTSD, nobody believed me. “You can’t get PTSD from bullying” “You’re too young to have PTSD” “How can you have all that, your life is perfect” it was hard. It’s nice to see I’m not the only one who got it from bullying

    • @giraftlop7047
      @giraftlop7047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Blue Bunny Life is like going roads with forks and hurdles that people go through different ones, but all of it have pain one way or another.

  • @Den1seQu0ta
    @Den1seQu0ta 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Him: please come back... Baby...please
    Me: *looks up* DENISE I SWEAR IF YOU CRY-- *tears from* DAMMIT!!

  • @aprilbisac5461
    @aprilbisac5461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    If my future husband can't comfort me while I'm having my flashbacks then I'm just gonna stay single and listen to cardlin

  • @emilybeckstead7819
    @emilybeckstead7819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can say that I never went thru something as traumatic as others but my dad was always a really aggressive person when other didnt agree with him and still is. I get flinchy and often get scared around people significantly larger and stronger than me bc of this and it can turn to panic attacks if bad enough or if im in a bad enough mental state. the fact someone took the time of their say to bring awareness to things like this is amazing and this kind of stuff really helps rn as I cant really walk over to my bf's house. just wow and thank you

  • @giselegi1
    @giselegi1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This really helped me, thank you. I really never had someone comfort me when I have my episodes, you get trapped and feel all the pain all over again, you can teleport and it is really scary, you nailed this perfectly.

  • @thebutterytoster5721
    @thebutterytoster5721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I was diagnosed with ptsd two years ago from a rape and botched self abortion, watching this helped me get through a flashback episode. Thank you. So so much

  • @firstnamelastname5436
    @firstnamelastname5436 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    i dont listen to asmr much, but i have some serious trauma connected to manipulatation and... needed this. thank you. sometimes you just _need_ to hear someone tell you its gonna be okay. Times like this i wish i could let myself cry, and ask someone if i could give them a hug, but this audio was the next best thing.

  • @saucyauntie3276
    @saucyauntie3276 7 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    This one really got to my heart strings, thank you so much for doing these. 😭😭😭

  • @Cocobojo
    @Cocobojo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My friend sent this to me during a huge C-PTSD attack and I cried so much it made me feel so much better but also really angry at the people who said they cared and just let me have my attacks and watch like I was some zoo exhibit. Even after giving them education on it over and over on how to best help. I needs me a man like this..

    • @samanthaa557
      @samanthaa557 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i’m sorry, and i’m so glad it made u feel better!!

  • @HerBirdieGirl
    @HerBirdieGirl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Just found ASMR well these types & w/ PTSD & insomnia I feel blessed I finally found them! Yes, wished I'd found them 3 yrs ago when the traumatic event happened but just simply thrilled I've found therm now... thanks from the depths of my heart & soul for doing this. I know for me it's the 1st time in 3 yrs I've slept more than an hour maybe 2 at a time. I'll bet you good ASMR folks have only a small idea the # of people they've made life changing help for. Again, thank you & a cyber hug to you {{{{BIG HUG}}}}

  • @TanashiASMR
    @TanashiASMR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you for this. I have heavy PTSD from 2 different events.
    My neighbor was murdered, shot to death back in 2014. Two of the bullets ricocheted off of my window, it almost broke it. I got out of bed and I saw her blood splattered all over her window. It was a traumatizing experience that I'll never forget.
    The second one was from my mom's abusive ex boyfriend. He was calling me a baby and useless, that I was too clingy to my mom. I never had a father figure in my life, what was I supposed to act like? My mom told me to pack up my stuff (we were staying at his house for the weekend) but he heard me walking and he told me to sit the bleep down before he came up here... I cried myself to sleep that night feeling unsafe. I had my earbuds in listening to one song on replay for the entire night, I call that my Trigger Song. I fell asleep to that song instead of listening to the screaming coming from downstairs.
    This is the first time I've ever shared my story for people to see. Please, if you have gone through PTSD attacks or flashbacks, talk with someone. Try to bring yourself back to reality. Therapists work wonders. I've had one therapist since I was 6 to discuss my father isssues. After this happened, I scheduled appointments. My PTSD started getting better. Please, talk to someone. It helps a lot.
    Thank you for reading my story. I love each and every one of you. You can always talk to me.
    -Tanashi ASMR

    • @pinkgirly19
      @pinkgirly19 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i know that pain myself.... i saw two people get murdered when i was little i rember seeing there blood splatter on the wall..... i often watch scary movies to try to combat the ptsd of it tho.....

  • @hopevalentine7155
    @hopevalentine7155 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    When he started humming Everything's Alright I flipped.
    I also cried.
    No regrets.

  • @br33maree83
    @br33maree83 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    WHEN HE CRIED AND TALKED LIKE THAT I STARTED CRYING

  • @it_me_ktb
    @it_me_ktb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    As someone with PTSD from childhood (well almost my whole life) trauma, this makes me feel like someone actually cares. I normally suffer through my flashbacks and episodes alone. Makes me wish I had someone to help me through them.

    • @emmacoffelt2077
      @emmacoffelt2077 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Katie Benware I am really truly sorry for whatever happened to you. I hope things have gotten better for you and your happier. Just know people love you and are their for you.

  • @eanerds1913
    @eanerds1913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    9:33 i actually cried when he started humming "everything's alright". for me, touch is a negative stimulant when i dissociate, but sound is my only positive one

  • @aslanjadecallenreese99
    @aslanjadecallenreese99 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you. I don't know what else to say other than thank you, a million times. I bow you didn't ask for a life story but, when I was little my father used to sexually abuse me, i was around four. PTSD is so hard... And nobody seems to understand. People try to normally touch me, and they see me flinch and then they question me no natters how many times i tell them i dont want to talk about it. I've had a situation like this at a friends house when we were messing around and he tackled me. This was so comforting, and all i have to say is thank you. ❤️

  • @RaspberryHugs
    @RaspberryHugs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you. I had to pause to sob but my father was emotionally abusive. He gas lit me from a very young age and used my brother and I as pawns to hurt my mom. My worst memory was I came home early from a friends and I saw my father hold a knife on my mom. He was distracted by the door opening and my mom got it off him. She yelled at me to run to my grandparents and get my granddad. I ran as fast as my little legs could carry me and when I got there I was sobbing so hard they could hardly make out what I was saying. I was so scared. This brought it back so vividly.

  • @robindabank5472
    @robindabank5472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sometimes I can still feel the closet I used to hide in. The coats that would grasp at my hair. But he would always find me. No matter how hard I tried. No matter how many coats and blankets I would shove in front of me. He would always find me

  • @tomboyfangirl3122
    @tomboyfangirl3122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Me- had a trigger ealier today and rushed to my room so I could freak out alone. Me later- goes to TH-cam to find something to listen to to make me smile and finds this video .... I just no amount of words can describe how happy I am that this exists because this does help. Videos like this does help especially during a quarantine where we may not be able to see the person who would usually be able to help us. Just thank you for making this, it’s helps a lot.

  • @lofibxi
    @lofibxi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just finished sobbing and contemplating over my abusive dad.
    Audios like these make me feel sane.
    Thank you for making audios like these :(

  • @TheTrueRattt
    @TheTrueRattt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You really out here makin me cry WTF IS YOUR FAKE CRYING SO GOOD LIKE AHHHH FUCKKKK I get really bad anxiety and bad flashbacks when I hear people cry but like shît you really out here bringing it up

  • @randomez6582
    @randomez6582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is therapy in itself ngl

  • @jaunessethomas4367
    @jaunessethomas4367 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I had a flashback about the past and no one had help until I screamed

  • @Remmy_Swag
    @Remmy_Swag 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "Look for something blue"
    Me in my pitch black room at 3am unable to see anything... "mmm as far as I'm aware, I have a blue thing in my room. Don't know what or where that blue thing is, but it's here"

  • @lazybee4894
    @lazybee4894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Does love with this kinda purity and comfort really exist?

  • @kakyoinkin5586
    @kakyoinkin5586 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Instead of thinking of cardlin saying this I think of my late father and it actually helps me feel hes here for me.

  • @marshmellorainbow2551
    @marshmellorainbow2551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Cardlin: is there anything I can do?
    Me ( with my arms out): Hug?
    Cardlin: you want a hug?
    Me: .....wait a darn second?!(starts looking around my room)

  • @kaitlynlancaster4655
    @kaitlynlancaster4655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you. Not a flashback so to speak but more a vague memory that wouldn't fuck off an was upsetting me. This helped.

  • @samlapointe7905
    @samlapointe7905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don’t get flash backs often but rn I just couldn’t stop thinking about it and it scared me I didn’t know what to do but once I calmed down a bit I listened to this bc no one really cares and doesn’t understand but this helped a lot and even tho I can’t talk bc it’s a video but it helps so thank you

    • @samanthaa557
      @samanthaa557 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i’m sorry that happened to you

  • @ellieept
    @ellieept 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for making these. I use your audios a lot when I can’t sleep because of flashbacks to when I was assaulted and they help me so much.

    • @samanthaa557
      @samanthaa557 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i’m so sorry that happened to you

  • @unwoundsprite7364
    @unwoundsprite7364 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The song he hummed halfway through...that’s what immediately got the tears flowing. That song has been a comfort song of mine for a long time, and it shocked me a little to hear it. The whole video made me emotional, but it’s amazing how a mere tune can have that effect...

  • @purpleserpent
    @purpleserpent 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ok I'm literally crying right now and I've listened to this a lot of times and it still makes me cry because I've been there

  • @willowbrown2778
    @willowbrown2778 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I was sec trafficked and this helped me so much. Thank you, Cardlin

    • @kaizerell8777
      @kaizerell8777 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Willow Brown what? I hope you're better now, that's terrible

  • @amestagangsta983
    @amestagangsta983 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Short steps, deep breaths, everything is alright. Dude I love that song so much and not gonna lie made me cry.

  • @milcahrivers351
    @milcahrivers351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't usually post about my personal life things but this made me cry 🤧 I lived with my abusive dad for 14/15 years. I recently moved out away from him a year ago. I was a mess when I got out of that house. My mom said I was really out of it all the time and somewhat emotionless. I'm 16 now and doing much more better than before! I still get flashbacks and moments I can't handle myself. But I'm in a much safer place than I was a year ago 🥰

    • @juliaconnolly5870
      @juliaconnolly5870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Milcah Rivers I hope you are well and are having a nice day/night. Stay strong 💜

    • @milcahrivers351
      @milcahrivers351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@juliaconnolly5870 I've had my ups and downs since this comment. But I'm strong and know I can get through this!

  • @awk-wordwriter7179
    @awk-wordwriter7179 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dealing with PTSD is tough. Mine gets really bad when I'm in crowds or if people are yelling. I remember once I was on a bus. We were returning from camp and everyone was yelling at each other. Some were yelling just to be heard. Others were fighting. One guy was even fighting with the bus driver. I began to feel my heart race and my breathing quickened. So I asked for everyone to quiet down and we could all say our favorite part of camp. The bus driver told me: 'My favorite part is when kids actually listen.' I remember just breaking down. People were even more angry. They began to yell at the driver, yell at each other. And someone eventually asked why I was crying. I told her I hated it when people yelled. She told me there was no reason to cry, sighed when I didn't respond and left. I've been in lines with strangers and tremble because I feel so trapped, and I remember what that little girl felt like. PTSD can be triggered by anything, or nothing. Hang on there my friends. You're strong

  • @brando6786
    @brando6786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ya know what else isn't real? -MY HAPPINESS-

  • @Ham-Prince
    @Ham-Prince 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I had a nightmare about a big sister-figure who abandoned me for two-three years now. This was the closest thing I could find and it's helping me a bit. I woke up crying and this video helped me cry it out. I wish there was a comforting audio for abandonment that's like Cardlin's. That nightmare really messed my head. On the verge of an anxiety attack but at least it's that than what I felt when I woke up. It's been a long time since I came back here but I knew Cardlin has comfort audios for everyone.

    • @angelicavegasanchez8211
      @angelicavegasanchez8211 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      he has a loseing a friend one/toxic friendship one if you want i can give u the link for it

  • @asw7456
    @asw7456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Having been through what I have during childhood, I needed this. There aren't many things that genuinely bring me any kind of comfort but when I heard the right things continue to be said. I felt a bit of relief I haven't before. Thank you to whom ever wrote the script and Cardlin. Sincerely.

  • @isabellanesheiwat8
    @isabellanesheiwat8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    *adds Cardlin to my Christmas list*

  • @scarlettkore
    @scarlettkore 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    For the bottom of my heart thank you for making videos like these.
    💜 It can be very horrible, scary, and emotional to deal with. For me many things can trigger me, some people only have specific things that trigger them.
    I went though abuse and rape while growing up, the abuse was for most of my life and I had a lot of stress with schooling and work. I had a lot of slips up (like cutting) and was lucky enough to meet the love of my life (we live together so he helps me with a lot of problems but when he has work out of town or visiting family I can listen to these videos.) Again Thank You! 💜

  • @leonscottkitty
    @leonscottkitty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    him :the blue viase
    *me haveing a blue viase*

    • @juliaconnolly5870
      @juliaconnolly5870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      _xxgacha love lifexx _ FBI OPEN UP
      wow I am way to hyper today... sorry 😂

  • @キティ-m3y
    @キティ-m3y 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I have an effect where I start growling like a dog and try to bite people Thanks this really helped to make me feel better sometimes it even happened at school...

  • @UnknownUser-xf4vl
    @UnknownUser-xf4vl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    the feels are literally hitting me to my death

  • @flowerfulfox2271
    @flowerfulfox2271 7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    When this world is no more, the moon is all we'll see, I'll ask you to fly away with me, until the stars all fall down, they empty from the sky, but I don't mind if you're with me then everything's alright...

    • @secretrose5439
      @secretrose5439 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      ScarlettMelomaniacFox Steampunk bro you just made cry

    • @flowerfulfox2271
      @flowerfulfox2271 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He almost made me cry when i realized what he was humming!!!

  • @happygirl1039
    @happygirl1039 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    That was such a good one ! Your longer videos always make me feel happier

  • @zach_iiii
    @zach_iiii 7 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    notification squad where you at?! 😂

    • @buntina35
      @buntina35 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SantaGee ./. HERE!

    • @tyrenextdoor
      @tyrenextdoor 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SantaGee ./. here

    • @an33sa.
      @an33sa. 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      SantaGee ./. 31 MINUTES LATE BUT OH SHIT WHADDUP

    • @danitheweirdhuman9889
      @danitheweirdhuman9889 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SantaGee ./.
      HIIII

    • @noram4582
      @noram4582 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Santa Gee here!

  • @zero6673
    @zero6673 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Not really a fun fact but a fact the old Minecraft sounds when you would open Minecraft make me cry or give me a really bad trigger also have a great day

  • @fluffybunny4163
    @fluffybunny4163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This audio helped me when I had flash backs of my past

  • @raeconearbuds2502
    @raeconearbuds2502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just wanted to say, everyone who has been through this is a strong and great human being. You have been through a hard time but there will always be a light at the end of every tunnel. Keep on going strong and lean on everyone who will support you because they will always be there 👍🏻

  • @khadijaabi9040
    @khadijaabi9040 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The author of this audio, bravo. Bravo! 👏👏

  • @ashapercival9311
    @ashapercival9311 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I started crying again by 50 seconds... that's not bad though! I think it means it's realistic

  • @nadiahertzog7390
    @nadiahertzog7390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I was eleven. I don't talk about it. And when someone brings it up, I go silent. If someone mentions it in a call I go full panic. It's been six years...you never forget, and it's hard to forgive, but you slowly learn to let go.

  • @madisonduchnowski9615
    @madisonduchnowski9615 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    IM CRYING OMG JUST HEARING YOU CRY MAKES ME SO SAD😫

  • @eanerds1913
    @eanerds1913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    not physical (mental and emotional), but, i went through what i later realized was abuse. i have PTSD, and often dissociate because of it, and when that happens literally no one can touch me (touch is a "bad stimuli" for me), i kind of detach from reality. and even when i come out of it, i tend to communicate in single word responses for a while after. hearing this was such an actual comfort to me, made me feel less alone to a certain extent.

  • @depressoespresso6607
    @depressoespresso6607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m still mad at myself for not knowing the extent of what he did. I knew what he was doing was wrong but I didn’t know why. And then two years later it all just comes back in a flashback. And it hurt so much. Thank you for making this video even though it came out a while ago.

  • @anypanicatthediscosongever2853
    @anypanicatthediscosongever2853 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I got hit by a blue ball and I'm afraid of blueballs

    • @biddleTM
      @biddleTM 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AYEE
      I like your username xD

  • @non.existant8063
    @non.existant8063 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im legit balling while watching this. not because ive went throught this but the fact that people are still going through and are hurting. the tears are not mainly tears of sadness but anger. its heartbreaking to know that this happens to people who dont deserve it at *all*

  • @sundusbabur
    @sundusbabur 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been abstaining myself from watching this because I wasn't ready to, but I finally watched it and started crying, I can't believe so many of the other viewers in the comment section have gone through experiences as well, its kind of assuring that you arent alone here.

  • @danitheweirdhuman9889
    @danitheweirdhuman9889 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    -DAMN THAT ART IS AMAZING!!- 👍

  • @saofan2263
    @saofan2263 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just can't help but smile when he says: " I'm never mad at you"

  • @kz0204
    @kz0204 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As someone who suffers from ptsd due to abuse in the past, this is really comforting, thank you Cardlin 🙏💛

  • @nicole8103
    @nicole8103 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I had to stop and leave the video about 5-6 times just because I could listen but many hours later I finished it.
    that is what accomplished today it may have taken me a while but I did it.
    If any one wants to talk I'll listen ❤
    thank you Cardlin

  • @mikip282
    @mikip282 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    wow, PTSD has been kicking my ASS right now. thank you for this, Cardlin. I really appreciate it.

  • @supr3m4cy_32
    @supr3m4cy_32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was sexually abused when I was younger and it’s hard for me to forget about it. Thank you for showing awareness towards PTSD and making this video, it kinda relieved a part of me a bit.

    • @samanthaa557
      @samanthaa557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i’m so sorry

    • @supr3m4cy_32
      @supr3m4cy_32 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samanthaa557 it’s hard still for me. But I hope that I forget about it.

  • @mystifyelite5799
    @mystifyelite5799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is honestly, incredible. As a victim of PTSD myself, the things said to try and help were so on point and honestly so helpful. Grounding yourself is rlly important but I fail to manage to ground myself and find someone else having to attempt to talk me out of something. It’s like you become deaf to the outside world and are trapped inside your own mind. Great video!