ASMR Voice: Comfort for dealing with body image issues [M4A] [Boyfriend] [Body anxiety]

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  • You're beautiful to me and you always have been... now, how do I go about showing you that?
    [I apologize for the sound quality on this one; the traffic's really bad. I'll be converting my closet into a studio once I save up enough, so hopefully this won't always be a problem!]
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    Written by Ebba (Principesa here on TH-cam), who also wrote "Comfort for an anxiety/panic attack" and "Comfort for a suicidal significant other"
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  • @madtophatter1020
    @madtophatter1020 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2740

    my boyfriend just insulted my weight and complimented another girl and now I feel super insecure and unloved, I really needed this right now.

    • @cloroxbleach3838
      @cloroxbleach3838 8 ปีที่แล้ว +689

      Dump him. Who fucking does that to their gf -.-

    • @lillylala1017
      @lillylala1017 8 ปีที่แล้ว +593

      I REALLY hope you dumped that jerk

    • @madtophatter1020
      @madtophatter1020 8 ปีที่แล้ว +318

      I haven't, but it's hard, I've been with him for 12 years and that's a long time to throw away, he's only recently been weird but it just seems that he's more interested in others than he is in me, it's complicated :S

    • @shan-um6ud
      @shan-um6ud 8 ปีที่แล้ว +274

      +mad tophatter it's a long time to be with someone, but if he's acting like that you deserve so much better.

    • @madtophatter1020
      @madtophatter1020 8 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      +Billie Anne but he's my first ever boyfriend, I have social anxiety and I don't think I'll find anyone better

  • @rhiannon909
    @rhiannon909 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1479

    it is midnight
    I'm hugging a body pillow
    yes I'm lonely

  • @itsmaria2426
    @itsmaria2426 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2003

    who's crying im not crying

    • @sophia1777
      @sophia1777 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      5sos tho

    • @MusterFish22
      @MusterFish22 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      +Queen Bee those onions get me everytime 😂😂

    • @Emily1xox
      @Emily1xox 8 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      silly old onions

    • @julietskyes6573
      @julietskyes6573 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Emily Allsop same

    • @kimmatthews4041
      @kimmatthews4041 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      maria xo you know your crying

  • @mintcandy8700
    @mintcandy8700 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1884

    Do boyfriend like that even exist?

    • @reallyrosedraws3372
      @reallyrosedraws3372 8 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Mint Candy yes you just need to find them, but sadly that's all I can say!!

    • @tywilkins2584
      @tywilkins2584 7 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      Yes we do, but we are typically ugly on the exterior, therefore most women walk right by without batting a eye, go right for the guy with a six pack, get beaten and abused, physically and mentally and then wonder what they ever did to deserve this. Take this from a guy who has watched this literally happen to pretty much every girl he knows.

    • @reallyrosedraws3372
      @reallyrosedraws3372 7 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Ty Wilkins it's okay I wouldn't do that I'd get to know him first before all so I think I'll take your word for it bro

    • @galaxydemonchild
      @galaxydemonchild 7 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      this is the reason why i talk with them while not looking at them and making eye contact or talk to them online because even when i see them i dont care what they look like i just care about what they say and how they act and just their full on personality so yeah

    • @ashlynnvega8376
      @ashlynnvega8376 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      |-/

  • @lizzymartinez2078
    @lizzymartinez2078 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3264

    Me: I'm fat and ugly
    Cardlin: How long have you thought that?
    Me: My entire life

  • @cuntbabyandstomachpain1524
    @cuntbabyandstomachpain1524 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2947

    "Your eyes are all red? have you been-"
    Me, an idiot, : SMOKIN DAT KUSH BOIII LMAOOOOO

    • @izdihar17
      @izdihar17 6 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      New favourite person ^

    • @klopia1
      @klopia1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      420 biTC H

    • @hannahklunk5998
      @hannahklunk5998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      Hey dad look, its the good kush
      *tHiS Is ThE DoLLaR sToRe HoW gOoD cOuLd iT bE?*

    • @mychaelacameron2123
      @mychaelacameron2123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      you're now on my list of favorite people

    • @libbylyman9833
      @libbylyman9833 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cunt Baby and Stomach Pain I’m not the only one who yelled it lmaooooooo

  • @annabellegreen8546
    @annabellegreen8546 7 ปีที่แล้ว +893

    and i got a weight watchers ad before this... Damn

    • @morana-exe2477
      @morana-exe2477 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Annabelle Green same, I'm over like...*F U PHONE*

    • @CountryGirl-cy5hy
      @CountryGirl-cy5hy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Annabelle Green well to be honest I am 145 pounds and I wish I was smaller but it is hard to loose weight when my family don’t believe in me

    • @sweetleafy9446
      @sweetleafy9446 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg that happens all the time

    • @mychaelacameron2123
      @mychaelacameron2123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      wow...thats...unfortunate

    • @mychaelacameron2123
      @mychaelacameron2123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@CountryGirl-cy5hy well, depending on your age, thats pretty good! you could try walking or just drinking more water is really good for weight and stuff. it is hard when people dont believe in you, but you can believe in yourself, and your friends will believe in yourself, I do at least!
      I wish you enough

  • @lilyh826
    @lilyh826 7 ปีที่แล้ว +562

    When you realize that nobody talks to you like this 😭😂

  • @finley5065
    @finley5065 7 ปีที่แล้ว +453

    "calm down,sweetie oh god your quivering!"
    i just pre ordered my tombstone

    • @clementineblack2656
      @clementineblack2656 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      What does it say

    • @Abby-pn3pn
      @Abby-pn3pn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      am i invited?

    • @hooliganhandful1564
      @hooliganhandful1564 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What song are you playing at the service?

    • @ellebroidery
      @ellebroidery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bruh im three years late but what food you got there?

    • @emstumpy9556
      @emstumpy9556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      y’all got lemon bars?

  • @kyleemalone4639
    @kyleemalone4639 8 ปีที่แล้ว +987

    I have listened to every single one of your videos. And I think it's safe to say that I've fallen in love with a man I don't even know a single thing about.

  • @lailas4843
    @lailas4843 6 ปีที่แล้ว +346

    Single as a Pringle *starts laghing laghing slowly turns into crying

  • @katienothing7265
    @katienothing7265 8 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    "Would you mind looking at me, cutie?". I melted.

    • @lilianalozano8147
      @lilianalozano8147 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Katie Nothing gurl same

    • @rosehill664
      @rosehill664 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Katie Nothing Me, low self esteem cause I look too young and cute, cries harder 😂😭

  • @zach_iiii
    @zach_iiii 8 ปีที่แล้ว +546

    "if you looked at yourself the way I see you everyday these tears wouldn't be tears of sadness" *little things start to play in my brain and now i'm crying in the tube* xD

  • @sol2193
    @sol2193 5 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    Pillow? Drenched.
    Eyes? Red.
    Standards? Raised.
    Hotel? Trivago.

  • @BlackDollNerd777
    @BlackDollNerd777 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1058

    gosh I can't help but cry listing to this,not because this is bad or anything. I really don't really believe in these types of super hopeless romantic-y things.
    but its nice to dream.

    • @danielledantzer0990
      @danielledantzer0990 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      BlackDoll NerdPrd I know this is old but same here

    • @upionstallion
      @upionstallion 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It's just a dream...this is what most would want.......but nobody's loving or caring anymore.....so what's the point?...

    • @shadwdemn2012
      @shadwdemn2012 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stiched up heart
      .......yeah...

    • @elenaheartstring2276
      @elenaheartstring2276 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      BlackDoll NerdPrd: I feel ya dude. Us fanpeople are mostly hopeless love romantics.

    • @waitisthisally
      @waitisthisally 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You have to wait. You have to wait for that person and you have to try to find them.

  • @mhudzie
    @mhudzie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    "I'm disgusting, I'm fat and no-one will ever love me"
    Now: "I'm strong,I'm better and I'm proud to be me 💖

    • @Eren-vw8gv
      @Eren-vw8gv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      S l a y
      Q u e e n !!!

    • @pancakes8107
      @pancakes8107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      yesssss.

    • @howdyyall4335
      @howdyyall4335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yay!!! God bless you 💜

  • @annmartinez3844
    @annmartinez3844 7 ปีที่แล้ว +631

    I'm so lonely and insecure that I've reached the point that I feel like no one will ever talk to me the way this guy talks in his videos. I love watching his videos they comfort me somehow but in the end, I feel sad again because I realize I'm still alone.

    • @YNHCLT
      @YNHCLT 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      damn if this ain't me

    • @animeloveepisodesfan
      @animeloveepisodesfan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Gurl same. BIG MOOD.

    • @mayapegues7666
      @mayapegues7666 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ann Martinez same here

    • @Itsjudd_
      @Itsjudd_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Samee😭

    • @yeng_3709
      @yeng_3709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Big mood

  • @lilstick5225
    @lilstick5225 8 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    When you actually start crying...

  • @quackjester9756
    @quackjester9756 8 ปีที่แล้ว +874

    I act along with this and when he said lets see your beautiful face i made a double chin and crossed my eyes XD

  • @Hhshmrii
    @Hhshmrii 8 ปีที่แล้ว +435

    I CAN'T I NEED SOMEONE TO CALL ME PUMPKIN 😩

    • @Rainitdid
      @Rainitdid 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Haya Alshimmari k pumpkin

    • @elliedefranca318
      @elliedefranca318 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Haya Alshimmari i'm 3 years late but hello pumpkin 🌱

    • @abby_hager
      @abby_hager 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My grandma calls me pumpkin 😂
      Besides that.
      Hello Pumpkin! How has your day been, beautiful?

    • @Rainitdid
      @Rainitdid 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      OOfAnimations07 smooth talker Lol 😂

    • @discwar7379
      @discwar7379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pumpkin

  • @linkygirl8381
    @linkygirl8381 8 ปีที่แล้ว +440

    This the kind of man I want! Your woman is so lucky to found a man such as yourself, Cardy. She beat us all to the punch...😵😵😵😧😧😧

  • @hanahakiheart3086
    @hanahakiheart3086 7 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    If I had a boyfriend who is like this to me when I'm crying, I would cry even more like...WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?? COMING TO ME AND BEING A BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEING!!! I LOVE YOU!!!!!! *cries*

  • @jodiesundborg3961
    @jodiesundborg3961 7 ปีที่แล้ว +356

    Damn you onions

    • @pulchrasum6172
      @pulchrasum6172 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      this is a channel name pepper

    • @blueshxdows3879
      @blueshxdows3879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I know 😥 someone get them outta here

    • @ashleyrivera5917
      @ashleyrivera5917 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      SQUIDWARD CRIES, THEN HE NOTICED THE BOWL OF ONIONS IN FRONT OF HIM AND SAID " WOULD YOU GET OUT OF HERE!"

  • @amiahh6157
    @amiahh6157 7 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    The fact that I'm crying because of my own body shaming and whenever someone tells me I shouldn't feel the way that I feel makes me even sadder and mad at myself because I almost feel as if I have to hid my feelings to myself so others are not brought down by my own shame. So when I listen to this, yes, it does give me a sense of warmth I guess, but the fact that I am listening to someone who I wish was actually in my life helping me through this process and I have to use my imagination to help me kinda saddens me bc I'm living that LONER life lol. But it is what it is and I'll get over it...probably...maybe lmao

    • @amiahh6157
      @amiahh6157 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thank God nobody's gonna see this anyway...probably...maybe

    • @pbcj3635
      @pbcj3635 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I saw this!

    • @somewhatartistic7966
      @somewhatartistic7966 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know how you feel

    • @derpycat02
      @derpycat02 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That awko-taco moment when you don't wanna bother people in your life with your problems because they make you feel pathetic so you go online to listen to strangers give you affirmation but then you realize your situation and low key feel even more pathetic...
      Help

  • @BambinaBelleblog
    @BambinaBelleblog 8 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    I suffer a lot with this, because I was bullyed during a big part of my childhood and in high school. And you said everything that I wanted to hear, during those days even when I was in the stage that it was just to hard to believe in anyone, even in my family... I'll defeat this, so thank you for making this video... It means a lot. :)

    • @roxieann6951
      @roxieann6951 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Isabelle Barros I can relate because the only people giving me rude comments on my weight is my family. Its almost always my mom that tells me to stop eating,go workout,and even one time she told me to kill myself.

    • @gamingtheory7209
      @gamingtheory7209 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I know how you guys feel. My mother told me that she never wanted me and that she was embarrassed to leave the house with me because of my weight. I blame myself for being born every single day. My ugly ness is a burden to everyone I love. I just wish, someone would tell me they love me and that I mean something. 😢😢

    • @kithand1106
      @kithand1106 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I watched some of your videos and I just wanted to let you know. You’re beautiful and if anyone tries to tell you otherwise. Just remember, you. Are. Beautiful.

    • @mychaelacameron2123
      @mychaelacameron2123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I relate a lot. long story short, my intermediate family was an asshole for so many reasons ( my exdended was great tho, they're the ones who payed for my therapy. they greatness). so due to that, I developed ALOT of issues mentally. videos like this dont resolve it, but it makes the darkness a little brighter

    • @sm0llqueen289
      @sm0llqueen289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was bullied for my looks from 2nd to 5th grade and I believe them and its honestly hard for me to think that stuff and I was suffering from severe depression and almost committed suicide 3 times I honestly wish I can go back and just try to stop the bullying and probably I'll feel differently about myself idk

  • @ellenxoxo4446
    @ellenxoxo4446 6 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Normally when I listen to these audios I imagine myself as a different person, like you do, hence the word roleplay. But when I listened to this, I felt like myself. I actually imagined myself in this situation. What I’m trying to say is that I found this video so relatable. It hit close to home. Thank you for that. Your other videos are also amazing, I love going to bed and having you ‘cuddle’ me. And when I’m stressed out having you tell me your here for me is so relaxing. Although now my boyfriend expectations are pretty high! But once again, thank you. I don’t even know if you’ll see this, I’m sure you won’t. But if you do, please know that what your doing is so helpful. It’s so comforting. If there’s a small chance your reading this please never stop doing this. Thanks so much.

  • @Jasmine-zn1nh
    @Jasmine-zn1nh 8 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    Thank you for being "body-type"-neutral. Most body image issue speeches focus on the heavier side of the scale... Not realizing the skinny-shaming happening as a by-product. So, thank you :)

    • @vicjones3670
      @vicjones3670 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes! Body anxiety manifested out of my normal amxoety disorder and i cant even move my arm without thinking about how ugly i think i am because im skinny and flat and not thick. I cant gain weight and every week i gi from 97 to 102 but,,, yeah everythings about heavier people which is great it just makes me feel so alienated

    • @gothgirl4912
      @gothgirl4912 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      that one weirdo who needs to stahp same here i’m skinny and hate myself for it, i want to be thick and curvy and i can’t even wear anything that isn’t baggy cause i hate my body so much

    • @gothgirl4912
      @gothgirl4912 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that one weirdo who needs to stahp same here i’m skinny and hate myself for it, i want to be thick and curvy and i can’t even wear anything that isn’t baggy cause i hate my body so much

    • @arsonthepan4802
      @arsonthepan4802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I hate my body because of how underweight I am, and I constantly get compliments, and I feel even worse. No one wants this

  • @1DNoticeMOi
    @1DNoticeMOi 8 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I really needed this today.
    I have been feeling super ugly lately so thank you so much.

  • @gracepeterson1556
    @gracepeterson1556 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    *cries because this is literally too cute and sweet for me to handle*

  • @flop9265
    @flop9265 7 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    "And I love these lips."
    *bites them and screams internally imagining him kissing me*

  • @kadetori6249
    @kadetori6249 8 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Goosebumps! The "I love your curves" really got to me. I always take your videos personally, and I'm genderfluid -- I can't stand my hips sometimes, so this compliment reminded me that I'm beautiful with the body I have, and just because I have curves doesn't mean I am any less masculine or any more feminine. I loved the end, as well; your brighter endings lighten up my day(:

    • @idilist
      @idilist 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      kade sparks Right, I'm genderfluid too and the lord had to bless me with curves so I'm constantly wearing baggy clothes (Unless I'm female that day. Then I wear slightly less baggy clothes. I like baggy clothes, ok?)

  • @TheJackbilly
    @TheJackbilly 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    “....you’re perfection in my eyes.”
    WELP THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOUR EYES MAN
    Everyone else is crying while listening but for some reason this doesn’t make me cry. IM NOT TRYING TO SAY THAT ITS BAD BECAUSE ITS NOT BAD ITS GREAT but I guess I’m so used to body shaming myself that I don’t really think much of it anymore

  • @fivenineblurry
    @fivenineblurry 8 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    You're so sweet and your voice is somewhat enough to calm me down, but you're doing an amazing job :')

  • @waitjessaminute
    @waitjessaminute 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Damn, my hair trigger heart. The top 3 ideals imbedded in these messages that make it so appealing: patience, understanding, and safety. Three simple ideals that the majority of women, and men, never fully experience in life, love, or relationships. Women aren't mysterious creatures. We just want this.
    Side note: SUBSCRIBED

  • @kazunechan
    @kazunechan 8 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Its amazing! You and Ebba make a great team! 😊

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ey! Thank you! That put a smile on my face ^_^

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      +Kazunechan Agreed! ^_^

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      +CardlinAudio I am so flattered, it actually bothers me >.

  • @saranelson9250
    @saranelson9250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’ve gained eight pounds since quarantine and I’m trying to work out and I’m just crying cause the girl in the video was so better

  • @tylerarke6568
    @tylerarke6568 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I cried during this video. Cardlin, you probably won't see this. I have some major body issues, I've been called fat since pre-k. This video made me a bit more confident about my hips and waist. I do know I am a little pudgy, but that doesn't mean I'm ugly. Thank you Cardlin for helping me realize that.

  • @liv.c9554
    @liv.c9554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was sweating out my eyes then he said he’d pick us up and then I was sobbing cuz like tbh I probably couldn’t be picked up

  • @toastedbagelbites
    @toastedbagelbites 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Cardlin:what's wrong
    Me: I don't have enough money for chicken nuggets

  • @dude3707
    @dude3707 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Reminds me of my boyfriend, he’s so sweet!
    We have been together for a couple years now and he treats me wonderfully and supports me 100%.
    What did I do to deserve a sweet guy?

    • @RN_STRM
      @RN_STRM 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Congrats for being with such a good man. You barely find any guys who are nice to their girl.

    • @overgrownminds4603
      @overgrownminds4603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Im so glad you found someone that amazing, I don’t think that I’ll ever find an actually caring/non toxic boyfriend.

  • @racheld2913
    @racheld2913 8 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Wow Cardlin, look at all your fans kind words. I hope you know how much your channel helps them. It's a comforting thought to look down at my phone at the end of the day and see your name in my notifications.
    Bless your heart and soul.
    Good night, dearest Cardlin
    Rachel
    x o x o x

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      +Ellie Phantom It's been such a crazy, humbling, amazing and inspiring trip, Rachel. =] I'm glad for all of it.

  • @danielledantzer0990
    @danielledantzer0990 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    may i also express my appreciation that this fits any body type? my friend feels bad cuz she's a big girl and i think she's beautiful and I'm thin and feel bad and she thinks I'm beautiful..........it goes both ways

  • @Pancakehx3
    @Pancakehx3 8 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This really provokes me to cry.

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah. It was a tough script to finish. Actually, "the emotional part" was when I broke down as I went on writing it. Still it was good to get it out there. Hope you may feel just a tiny bit better ^_^ Someone out there thinks this about or will one day. You just wait and see ^_^

    • @Pancakehx3
      @Pancakehx3 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, I do, this script is brilliant. His voice just makes it so much better and I have a boyfriend, hehe. I just wanted him to say cute stuff like this to me but didn't wanna bother him. It makes me feel so comfortable and much better.

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am so happy to hear that. He is lucky to have you ^_^ Also I am glad you think it is brilliant. It really warms my heart. You deserve to feel the best, we all do ^_^

  • @ryuu1922
    @ryuu1922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ik I'm 4 years late but I had to watch this cuz it hurts that I always want to go into another way more perfect and way more beautiful body.

    • @jaredthehumanbeing3271
      @jaredthehumanbeing3271 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same... I'm extremely insecure about my weight (175 pounds) and my body, and sometimes just wish I could be someone else..

    • @ryuu1922
      @ryuu1922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jaredthehumanbeing3271 Well I think you're perfect 😊

    • @samanthaa557
      @samanthaa557 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      u are beautiful and perfect!!

  • @caley522
    @caley522 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "your eyes are all red, have you been?" NO I SMOKED WEED ;-;

  • @kerryatkinson3492
    @kerryatkinson3492 8 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Crying while listening to this

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oh, I hope they are not the worst kind of tears, and I hope this made an impact. What you might think of as imperfect another person may find beautiful, never forget that. Let yourself be loved by ^you^ from time to time, and if you aren't capable then find someone who will. And don't you worry, you only have too look and you'll find it. Have a wonderful day Sweetie!

  • @mariacristiana7780
    @mariacristiana7780 7 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    *i'm in love with the shape of you* =))

  • @wondercoffee3058
    @wondercoffee3058 8 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    It love this gender neutral ones. So inclusive.

  • @kimmatthews4041
    @kimmatthews4041 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    person : if it bothers you so much I want to know
    Me:I'm gay
    :what all these years....

  • @emmaa1579
    @emmaa1579 8 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Listening to this and just sobbing at 3am after no sleep due to feeling self-concious, this is truly beautiful! I hope one day someone shows me as much love as I'm receiving from this video, thank you so much 😘💘

  • @LiliannaVess
    @LiliannaVess 8 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I definitely needed this today

    • @aracelionline
      @aracelionline 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Lilianna Monroy (Lili) Happy to help, Lils!

    • @jordyy_xo39
      @jordyy_xo39 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +CardlinAudio thanks for this.... I may be only 13. . but I'm VERY insecure. I feel like I need to be super skinny.... to be pretty. My family tells me that I'm not fat. ... I guess I'm not super fat, but I feel like I am. .... I feel like I am still pretty fat.... My boyfriend never really tells me anything. .... he knows that I'm insecure and he tries to make me feel better... it sort of does, but not fully. now, it feels like he's changed.... I

    • @jordyy_xo39
      @jordyy_xo39 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Phan's_Penguin_Is_ Real I feel that he's not the same... and wants more from me ....

    • @medusa4062
      @medusa4062 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I need it every day xD

  • @jiminsdoublechin1065
    @jiminsdoublechin1065 6 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    "If it's something that bothers you so much, I wanna know what's going on"
    Me: well you see I'm on my third pack of ramen in the past hour
    "Hmm... Go on..."
    Me: And I feel a little guilty for listening to this bc I have a boyfriend already but he lives overseas and the time difference screws everything up.
    "What? What do you mean?"

  • @mikey25whovian-michaelaflynn10
    @mikey25whovian-michaelaflynn10 8 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I have another great idea for a script I've written myself. It's a comfort for before surgery and recovery at the hospital. You and the viewer are in the operating theatre watching the surgeons prepare to put the viewer to sleep. She starts to feel scared and wants to leave but you reassure her that the doctors know what they are doing and will make her feel better. At this point..the surgeon applies the anesthetic to help her relax. You help her relax by helping her breath and assure that you will be there when she wakes up!! At this point the viewer falls asleep!! Later...the viewer starts to wake up and she finds you on the bedside caressing her face. You tell her the surgery went well and that you and her will be able to leave the hospital soon 😊 I hope you like it +cardlinaudio it would help someone feel comfortable if they have to have surgery for the first time :)
    P.s I love this audio..well done to you and ebba for writing this :) it's great..your voice is soothing :)

    • @Moon-ep2bb
      @Moon-ep2bb 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh yes! I definitely know that comfort in the hospital is very helpful

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You know what? That would be awesome! I am evaluated to maybe get a surgery soon. Also, thank you ^_^ Oh how frickin thrilled I get by all kind words

    • @mikey25whovian-michaelaflynn10
      @mikey25whovian-michaelaflynn10 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Principessa after watching these audios and thinking of other ideas he could do, the surgery audio just popped into my head and I wrote how the audio should be done :) I thought it would help someone going through surgery for the first time!! I like to have someone thank me for coming up with this audio for Cardlin :)

    • @gizmogurlie41786
      @gizmogurlie41786 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      that sounds so awesome!

    • @mikey25whovian-michaelaflynn10
      @mikey25whovian-michaelaflynn10 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope so too ***** :)

  • @emilyjade1052
    @emilyjade1052 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This made me feel a little bit better. I'll be sure to play this every morning. You got yourself a new subscriber, I'm obsessed

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you for subscribing, Em

  • @onemoretime3249
    @onemoretime3249 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Dear god you murdered me brutally! The soothe factor is off the FRICKIN' charts!
    Ignore me. I'm slightly weird

  • @drarryfan5057
    @drarryfan5057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Just two words:
    Thank you
    Thank you for reading this.

  • @DeadorAliveLover19
    @DeadorAliveLover19 8 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Such a beautiful piece. I do have an idea for you. I am thinking comforting due to emotional/verbal abuse from past experience. I know it sounds dark but see...i think this may be something i am going through...or it could just be in my head...but sometimes if you are told something enough you tend to believe it. And also...i dont really have anyone to comfort me when i am in a state where I don't believe anything positive about myself. Maybe the piece could start with a...disagreement if you will and at some point you say something that triggers the last abuse and make it sound like you storm out. Later on you come back to look for your partner...you cant find them so you look around the home until you reach say the bedroom and you find your partner lying on the bed facing away from you, looking straight at the wall with tears falling...just blankly staring at the wall but there is clear pain in your partners eyes because of the trigger...and then the comfort can begin. I hope that wasnt too dark but as i am currently feeling that state right now, i just thought I'd share. Keep up the good work Cardlin. You truly are amazing

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    • @DeadorAliveLover19
      @DeadorAliveLover19 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +CardlinAudio Hmmm that tends to cover more physical assault but...hmm *soft smile* im sorry...i shouldnt make demands like i did...i guess i just needed...help you know...a way to reach out. The message is still there...i am feeling a little better...i guess thats something...thank you Cardlin...i was able to sleep even for a little thanks to you

    • @lavenderrosecosplay5639
      @lavenderrosecosplay5639 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      NightBlossom oh, Honey, I'm sorry! I grew up in an emotionally/verbally abusive environment. Even after moving to a safer place almost 10 years ago, I still have so many habits/insecurities that still affect my daily life. It's only recently, through personal growth, and artists like Cardlin/Madam Wigglesworth, that I'm starting to believe a romantic partner will someday know all my baggage, and love me anyway. I don't know your circumstances, but I'm sure that you are not broken, sweetie, and you are worthy of beautiful things in your life.

  • @Raid3n.sh0
    @Raid3n.sh0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i just needed this because i got bullied at school for my body amd now im very insecure abt my whole body so thank you :)

  • @kaitlynnichole476
    @kaitlynnichole476 8 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Really needed this and since I remain single you will do fine. This was comforting.

  • @cicelialake3388
    @cicelialake3388 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    0:30 him: what’s going on
    Me: in here BREAKFAST

  • @nyapapaya4925
    @nyapapaya4925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I find it sad that I don’t have anyone in my life to tell me this stuff I find it sad that I always have to turn to asmr to make myself feel better about myself. But, I find it good that I do have someone, something that makes me feel better. So Cardlin, I thank you very much for making these videos

  • @fyadollahi4735
    @fyadollahi4735 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    2:53 "I hold you... tight"
    Me: boy I don't think your arms will reach lamooo

  • @pafista
    @pafista 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lately I've been feeling so upset due to my weight and my body. All of the weight I gain goes below my waist and it makes so sad. With this audio, with every compliment I hear, I just say "bullshit", "you're lieing", "you're just saying that to make me feel better". I've been lied to so many times, that I can't even believe anything that people say to me anymore.. It honestly sucks.

    • @katiebobat8e
      @katiebobat8e 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pafista I know what you mean. I feel the same way

  • @misatakahiro1823
    @misatakahiro1823 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im listening to this, crying my eyes out. I came straight to this video knowing Cardlin Dear had to have one...I never had real bullies from school telling me i was too fat or ugly or any of that....it hurts just as bad though when its your own family. Your own mother giving you that motherly side glance when uou tell her you didn't move more then 500 steps today because you didnt have the motivation and courage to go outside...
    It hurts just as bad when its from family, no matter if they mean it to help you and push you forward just to be healthier....its hurts...just as much as any school bully.

  • @clementineblack2656
    @clementineblack2656 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Are you ready?"
    Me: No but I'm overweight

  • @obsessed_tyrant5105
    @obsessed_tyrant5105 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I swear to Voltron, 30 seconds into the audio I keep thinking I’m hearing a lady crying...IDFK if that is just my imagination, but I’m super creeped out. Cardlin...we got ghosts, sweetheart! *Ghostbuster Theme Music starts playing while I do a crappy cartwheel*

  • @amandacarman8324
    @amandacarman8324 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you cardlin I needed to hear this tonight. I look at myself in the mirror and hate myself. This was much needed thanks again

  • @kashifsalahuddin7780
    @kashifsalahuddin7780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Me : crying because I am fat
    Him: pumpkin are you all right.
    Me : *cries even harder* are you calling me Fat!!

  • @moonchild0344
    @moonchild0344 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This really helped me, like it seriously helped. Thank you so much Cardin. I cried while listening to this, it was that good.

  • @coochielips4415
    @coochielips4415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m only listening to this cause I know no one will say it to me in real life ✌🏾😗

  • @bloodgushers6861
    @bloodgushers6861 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    whoa the only person to say these things to me in forever.thank you.

  • @persephoneb3884
    @persephoneb3884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When audios are the only thing that make you feel special

  • @rainakookie2
    @rainakookie2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    where can I find a man like this seriously, I need him.

  • @mags7542
    @mags7542 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve felt awful about myself and just started crying. I’ve never been super attractive, not very fit, and I’ve always felt self conscious about my appearance. I’ve never gotten made fun of it by anyone except myself. Sure there are a few compliments every now and then but it usually feels forced to me. This actually made me cry bc I’ve never had this stuff said to me. Ever. Even though this is old, I’m in love with this audio. Thanks so much ❤️

    • @RN_STRM
      @RN_STRM 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm pretty sure you're the most beautiful being ever. Well..at least, prettier then I am. But still, I'm sure that you're a good individual.

    • @mags7542
      @mags7542 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dark Choco that really means a lot ❤️

    • @RN_STRM
      @RN_STRM 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      No problem. Anytime ^-^

  • @XxSUGACUBExX
    @XxSUGACUBExX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My whole ed: 👁 👄👁 “so am I gonna stay or-“
    Me: “SHHH I can’t hear my boyfriend loving me”

  • @calliratigerrib2804
    @calliratigerrib2804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was nice to listen to after my bf insulted my looks and weight bringing back flashbacks of getting rejected and chosen over by the gymnastics girl that always cheered me up... I'm glad I'm homeschooled now so I don't have to see them anymore

  • @laurakate001
    @laurakate001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Cardlin: there isn’t anything serious is there?
    Me: yes my cereal box is empty!
    Cardlin: oh that’s a relief
    THAT IS DISRESPECTFUL TO HER MAJESTY OF THE CEREALNESS!!!!!

  • @brittneybenavidez8580
    @brittneybenavidez8580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Is it bad that I have to listen to this almost every night

  • @catlyn2010
    @catlyn2010 8 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Can we get a less emotionally unbalanced female for the loving boyfriend character to deal with? He deserves it.

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      +ibeengrown I have a lot of audios like that. ^_^ This "Comfort" series are specifically to help those out there dealing with issues. Check out some of my other work some time =]

    • @catlyn2010
      @catlyn2010 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      +CardlinAudio oh believe me I have listened to EVERYTHING and im not complaining, well barely. :) I understand that this helps people who are going through it as evidenced by the comments. You are perfect.

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +ibeengrown Thank you so much! I'll be sure to add some more non-comfort work soon. =]

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Haha, I guess I am quite the emotionally unstable female >.< Sorry!

    • @catlyn2010
      @catlyn2010 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Principessa
      Girl, no thats not what I meant. Its like, of course, when I'm listening I'm the female character and I'm like am I crying again? And it bums me out a little, but If i was going through the issue I could see where it may make me feel better. I'm new here so now I know to listen to the comfort series when I need comfort. You do I fine job at writing these scripts. Keep up the good work.

  • @riversworld96
    @riversworld96 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Cardlin: let me see your beautiful face
    Me: um sorry kinda left mine at home.. I only have the ugly one with me...

  • @bryannasay-zel9458
    @bryannasay-zel9458 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When he said that I could cry, I let everything out. Thank you so much for this video

  • @angwilliams7036
    @angwilliams7036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Me in the corner: what I’m not crying my eyes are just sweating

  • @WuHasArrived
    @WuHasArrived 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Me: *sees body anxiety in the tittle*
    Suddenly imagines someone looking in the mirror then screaming in fear like an idiot...
    Yes I did imagine this yes I know this was 4 years ago...
    Btw also dang you’ve been doing asmr for a long time😳

  • @kaitlyndtrainor8151
    @kaitlyndtrainor8151 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just relapsed back into my eating disorder and this popped up. I don't think I've really cried like this in a minute. You reminded me of my first love. He always compliments the arches of my lips he definition of my thighs the way my hair falls crazy. Made me feel loved. Like I could actually be beautiful.

  • @gdove5968
    @gdove5968 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wish somebody loved me like this. You are incredible Cardybear.

  • @phoenix4576
    @phoenix4576 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When you said angel it reminded me of an old boyfriend of mine that moved away and it made this seem even more real to me

  • @Allaroundtheworld99
    @Allaroundtheworld99 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    THIS REALLY HELPED ME BC I HAVE SO MUCH INSECURITY OMG THANK YOU ILYSM

  • @GT-uz9wm
    @GT-uz9wm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i just cried for 2 hours straight about my body and i can’t even look in the mirror without sobbing again.
    this was very much needed, and i will frequently visit this video. 😌

  • @MotherLettuce
    @MotherLettuce 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    AAAHHH MY FEELINGS I CAN'T HANDLE THIS THIS IS TOO SWEET
    I love this so much, Christ. Your voice is so soothing and amazing and this video is wonderful, as always. I hope you're having a lovely day, dear because you sure made mine lovelier. 💕

  • @crimcrim1987
    @crimcrim1987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for making this even though im halfway cringing through my potato shaped body

  • @danielledantzer0990
    @danielledantzer0990 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    what about loss of a pet or family member? idk if you've done that one yet but you are absolutely amazing. New Subscriber here

    • @CardlinAudio
      @CardlinAudio  7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Great idea. ^_^ Thanks for subscribing, btw!

  • @lindslu
    @lindslu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “you still are an absolute dream” oh my god 🥺

  • @crose2496
    @crose2496 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is amazing, and is great after a judgemental day at school, or anywhere else... Thank you for making this. ^•^
    And Kazunechan is right, you and Ebba are a great team.

    • @thatscandigirl5189
      @thatscandigirl5189 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Woop! Happy you liked them! It makes me so excited. I try what I can ^_- Hope it dosen't bleed through in the audios that English isn't my mothertounge though O.O

    • @crose2496
      @crose2496 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Principessa Haha, don't worry. If it does, it's not very noticeable. 😜

  • @kai-spy4921
    @kai-spy4921 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Christ, I had no idea how much I needed this... I have SERIOUS body issues. My current boyfriend is amazing, but I don’t believe him when he says I look just fine. Thanks, Cardlin, for doing this. I... really needed this.

  • @carolreyesify
    @carolreyesify 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wish my boyfriends tells me those words

  • @togabbie3395
    @togabbie3395 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This brought me to tears. It brought me to tears because I wish I had someone to tell me these things, not some man with an angelic voice talking through a screen...

  • @renee3214
    @renee3214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this literally made me cry

  • @joannagonzalez-clawson8243
    @joannagonzalez-clawson8243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I liked how I started crying and talking about my insecurities but now I kinda fill better

  • @YoYo-dj4th
    @YoYo-dj4th 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why is there invisible ninjas cutting onions in my room?!

  • @aryiabanihashem-ahmad9167
    @aryiabanihashem-ahmad9167 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When he says “if it’s something that bothers you so much then I wanna know.” *CRIES* “I CAN’T FIND THE COOKIES!”