ASMR Voice: Comfort For Getting Help [M4A] [Trigger Warning: Suicidal Ideation]
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 พ.ย. 2018
- I am not a professional and don't intend for this video to replace professional help. Professional help is out there, though, and it is available right now. Suicide and depression are very serious problems. If you or a loved one are experiencing any of these truly tragic problems, please know that help is out there, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. There's no shame in seeking help.
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he said “we needa talk” and i went... this ain’t gonna go well...
ive written 6 suicide notes and my boyfriend was helping me clean one day and he found one... i noticed he was reading something and i PANICKED... i swear to god i’ve never seen anyone grab me faster than when he realized what that was...
You're strong and you'll make it through these times❤❤
Your boyfriend is amazing, and all you deserve
❤❤ I love you and you are good, now I'm not going to say that it'll get better because you probably heard and are tired of it so, I believe in you and I believe that you will get through this,I just need you to understand your not alone and people will listen...and that I will promise you❤❤
I’ve probably wrote about 9… I’ve taken up self harming but- uhm… with the help of my best friend, I’m 67 days clean.
@@callmehcrystal2589 thats great!! im so proud of you :) im only 8 days clean but remember that recovery isnt always linear, relapse doesnt mean failure
The sad thing is these videos always help a little but the more you hear them the more you realize how lonely you feel. Maybe that's just me.
Rose C. No it isn’t just you
You aren't the only one
Same here
no sometimes I think so in-depth to the point where I'm like
"im looking up somoun pretending to actually care and love me.......wow"
That's me as well
legit no one:
me: *crying but is shoving cookies down throat*
Same honestly same
Me too tho 🍪🍪🍪
mood right here
same
What kind tho
Cardlin is the dad of the ASMR community PERIODTTT.
Um no he’s the bf of the community
this was posted the day after i had written my suicide note and stopped halfway. the fact that i’m just now seeing this is weird. nonetheless, thank you.
I love you 💖🥰
..dont do it again..
stay with us hun... it'll all be ok. this probably means nothing coming from a stranger on the internet but please hold on... just a little longer
Stay strong honey, we all love you
You got this! Stay strong !!
this will help so many people Cardlin... god I look up to you so much, well done ❤️
U forgot to captipilize God
Karen Henry Nah
You are correct...this and the other audios of his saved me more than once and I'll forever be thankful for him
@@animeboi_btsarmy1148 You forgot how to spell "You."
@@the.shadow897 Everyone can always look up the any positive influence they want.... "God" is just a popular one
Finally somebody who cares...
I'm crying. Thank you, now I feel better
Potterhead 9.3.4 same.....
@@ryeleigh173 oh.. im sorry..
Same 😢😢
Potterhead 9.3.4 it’s fine x
Me to .
I feel that way to. ....
But I hate showing it because I feel like I'm a burden to those around me if I do .
I know this is a serious and sad roleplay
But
"The hole inside you is too big"
*snOrtS*
That's what she said-
lmao thank you for that
(Snorts louder than spy)
OANDIEJAKF OMG IM CRYING THIS IS HILARIOUS AKDKSKKFKANV
Hehehe
Awwwwww. This is so kind. Im sure this will help lots of people .
I deadass forgot this video was playing and Cardlin said “Baby?” And I deadass was like “Yeah?” L M A O
HAHAHHA
I needed this so bad, I started seeing a therapist recently and it was one of the hardest talk I've ever had in my entire life. Suicidal behaviour or thought do not go away in one session, but talking about it does make an impact, a difference. Finding someone who doesn't judge you, who understands you, and who doesn't look at you like a subject but like a human. This, this can save a life. Being suicidal is no joke. And J and Cardlin pictured this just right, with sincerity, emotion, simplicity. This is golden work, Cardlin. I wish you'd get more recognization for all of your beautiful, helpful audios.
I’ve written suicide notes before... 3 to be precise..
I’ve tried 6 times and still want to be gone 😭
Oof. Ive written 2... i think
I’ve written 1
Ive written more notes than i can count but i aint written one since last October either🤷🏻♂️
Same
Damn it Cardlin you almost made me cry... But thank you Cardlin... For giving me strength and courage because I'm in that situation right now... Thank you again ❤❤❤
I hope everything is going well for you after you've talked to the counselor! ♥️
I've never cried over a notification before but seriously this, God this got me bad. Me and my girlfriend are always there for each other and we work together really well and I'm really glad I have her but it doesn't stop me from having these thoughts. I've been avoiding getting help so this helped more than you could imagine.
Mmmm.mmmm.mm.mm.m.m ?m??m mmmm?mmmm.m?mmm Mmmm m.mmmm
Juliet Ngorimo mmmmm?
I had suicidal thoughts before ...thanks.
Always here to talk if you want to :)
Same.... it hurts sometimes
Always here to talk too :)
I still have Them hah, it's hard
ily :((
I feel so lonely......
Where my single people at?🙋🏻♀️
hi:(
I'M A SINGLE PRINGLE
I’m not listening for the BF experience. I’m listening because I don’t have anyone to help me.
I've struggled with suicidal ideation for my whole life; it's been hard these past few weeks, so I really needed this. It's taken me so long to be able to feel comfortable with my diagnoses and for my family to accept it as well. My freshman year was spent trying to catch up in my classes from going to the hospital twice in the span of 3 weeks. Right after the first hospitalization my dad realized that the amount of pain I was in and I was able to get the help that I need. I've been in recovery for almost a year now and, yes, there are bad days; however, the good usually outweighs the bad and I am supported by an amazing partner and my family. I especially liked the piece in the beginning about the listener almost wanting someone to find the note; I did that all the time, but most people didn't notice because they don't know what to look for. I really appreciate this because this is my life, my entire life. I feels amazing to have someone who has put this representation into the world. So, thank you, from the bottom of my heart and soul, thank you so much.
There’s so many people struggling with this shit and it’s awful! I have also experienced depression and suicidal thoughts, luckily i received help in time and i hope others will receive help as well. This actually made me cry a bit. Thanks cardlin!
Oh man this was heavy. Thank you for this cardlin...
Not suicidal but terribly unmotivated about life in general... I need these comfort audios.. I usually play positive and comforting for my friends with problems but no one really does all that for me, but you're here.. Wow that sounds so sad.
How are you so bloody perfect on timing!!! I wanted to kill myself today because of all that was happening, and i usually hate talking to people about it, but you posted this, and well uh...
Thank you...
@@theanimalkeaper i will try not to, domt worry
Do you need someone to talk to?
@@maicey_t. Possibly, but i cant afford a theripist or anything like that, soooo uhm... How are you?
@@xinluvx1543 I'm okay, but how are _you?_ Is there anything I can do to help you?
@@xinluvx1543 I'm in no way a professional, but if you need someone to listen I'd be more than happy to. Your well-being matters. _You_ matter. Don't give up, my friend. ♡
Dear Cardlin and J, I want to thank you both from the bottom of my heart. This audio has touched my broken soul and at least for tonight, I’ll probably not feel as broken as I usually do. Thank you💔❤️
OMG You read my mind! I needed this!!!! Going to therapy and stuff always puts me a little on edge. Thank you very much Cardlin!!!
For those who live these moments, these dark thoughts, helpers are there for you. With love and hope because a life of joy, await you ♥️. You're meant to shine and you will!
I was diagnosed with ocd in high school. But mine wasn’t really the routine thing, mine was thought based. Intrusive thoughts took hold of me. I’m lucky to have my mom who has experienced the same thing and she has helped countless times. I’ll have bad days where my depression will take over, but I always tell myself that it will get better.. because it does. We get to experience beautiful sunsets, laughter and finding what makes us happy!
My mom has been trying to get to go to a counselor but Im always bad with talking my feelings to someone, it always gets jumbled.. but this audio is pushing me further toward that option. I’m going to schedule sessions with a counselor. So... thank you Cardlin!
Damn cardi, you’ve never been so on time. This really really is what i needed right now. Thank you for this❤️🙏🏽
@@idilist I noticed too
DAMN it .
The water works are coming.
Shukuteki Ginga Nejire black hole supernova uh oh... gets the pipe wrenches
You posted this a day after the police came to my doorstep haha...
Honestly, thank you for this though... I'm still super sensitive, because of how overwhelming it all was, but I was able to get some help. Thank you
This made me cry because no one has ever cared about me this much😔
You're a mind reader. I had suicidal thoughts right before I saw that you posted this video. Thank you for making this, Cardlin. ❤️
Actually same, if you need to talk i am as well here for support.
@@xinluvx1543 Thank you. 😊
@@mercuryisbi not a problem
ily :))
@@samanthaa557 ❤❤❤
11:30
This part hit deep, honestly, I needed this, thank you for your videos
when there’s actually isn’t anyone whose heart you could break with a note✌️
Honestly. Thank you. And thank you J. This audio/script. Captured exactly how I feel. Even though I have a therapist, it's still hard. But this made it feel like someone cared. And the fact that you said its my choice(whether or not to go see a therapist) was so needed...thank you
This made me actually want to get the help I need. I’ve been putting it off, because I’m still stuck in the environment that cultivated my depression, but it’s not fair to myself if I ignore the opportunity to get the help I need to at least dull the pain a little. I can’t remember when the last time I considered suicide was, but lately I’ve been wanting to hurt myself more and more, but I’ve been doing anything to keep my mind off of it. So thank you, cardlin. Thank you for being the vocal reminder along with my friend’s texts to stay positive
It's 4 AM and I'm listening to this. I needed this. Thank you, Cardlin. I'm crying myself out.
My crush/best guy friend gave me this talk. Not the same words but close. He also found a note I wrote in my journal that I left open for someone to read. He read it. I didn't expect him to be the one. He cried. He found me with something sharp. He knew what I was thinking. He stopped me. He kept me from doing it. This just all came back to me. I showed him this video and he took me into his arms and hugged me and kissed me on the forehead while I cried again and he just held me. Thank you so much. I can't thank you enough for this second grace.
you okay now ?
i know this is late but am i the only one that could feel cardlin breaking down trying to hold back the emotion
Cardi. thank you. This is incredibly helpful, and beautiful. It’s something that I have a hard time expressing when I’m trying to help friends or myself, but I think you put it into words in a way that says what I tell myself but better.
I just realized this doesn’t make much sense but hopefully you can get the gist of what I’m trying to say XD
This is all I need r n. Thank you, Cardlin. 🙏
And here i am. Depressed af, writing The S Note,again. Alone at 2am.
Unable to call for help. Unable to think i deserve help. Crying while listening to thoses words. The ones i needed.
Thank you, they mean a lot.
Hey
@@burrito5836 uh oh
Tell me why I started comforting him out loud, apologising and saying I'm overreacting. I really don't see my own mental health as valid... that's a new revelation I maybe wasn't prepared for
I know this was made to help, but I just feel so alone now. Like, I feel like I'll never have someone like this who will care. Anyways, thank you for this little glimpse of hope.
I feel the same, I hope you will feel better soon. Keep going bro!
ily :((
I am a person i hope you feel better too :)
can we just appreciate the fact that they put suicide/helpline numbers for like 30 different countries... cardlin you genuinely deserve the world
Such good timing! Thank you! I needed this so much. I've been going through a lot recently. Keep up the amazing work! You have and are helping me so much with all the things that are happening. Your videos have really helped and got me through all the hard times. Thank you so much I am very thankful for your videos. And this is helping me to get help as well because getting therapy always scares me and puts me on edge. Thank you so much Cardlin and all the people who come up with these scripts! And thank you for putting phone help lines for around the world. 💜💙💛💚❤
I'm listening to this with my ear phones, left arm over my eyes, burning in pain as my tears go into my fresh cuts, breaking down and sobbing in guilt and shame. This video made me realize something very important, you've helped me so much. Thank you for making this.
This is very very helpful and sad but a great video
thank you so much for making these, I have no one to talk too so having someone to comfort me, even if it isn’t in person, makes me feel safe.
I was trynna read the comments to distract myself from how hard this bit to home and I couldn’t focus
Just think about at night in the hospital bed no one near you no visits you and you can’t leave you have to lay there alone while people slowly forget about you , it’s painful when no one cares for you...(your not alone I’m here for you!!)
my volume was up really high from listening to a quieter asmrist. i click on the video and I just-“ *b a b y ?* ”
I still have my bad days because of an incident in the past and it still takes a toll on me. But, I do have my good days. Thank you for this Cardlin, means a lot. 💜
in my dads side suicide or self harm means “psycho” and when i was depressed my dad found my cuts on my arm he said that only “crazy people” do that and that the next time i cut myself and he finds out im going where all the “crazy people” go meaning a mental facility
I get that from both sides so very relatable
Not everyone knows how to deal with seeing someone they love do that to themself just know he wants to help but is misguided anyway hope you are well
Your audios on the topics of suicide and depression really have helped me as of these past months. Thank you for giving me courage to not end my life; I live for the people around me, but even with them I feel alone. I don't have the courage to tell someone who will do something to help me.
Thanks for the video I needed this right now
I love this comment section so much. People sharing their thoughts and what’s going on in their lives. And then you guys will reply asking if they need help to someone to talk to. This audio made me cry a lot and ya’ll made me cry even more.
I think I'm finally convinced - I need to give therapy another try. Thank you J for this beautiful, moving, very real script.
I had a bombardment of suicidal thoughts today and this really helps. Thank you Cardlin. You help me get through so much.
ily :((
This helped me, thanks Cardlin
I cried watching this.... I have suicidal thoughts and thinking about ending it...., this gave me hope,thank you Cardlin
ily :((
I wish i had someone like this who would cry with me for my own pain..
But i don't....
Wow...
I tried attempting twice, the second time I wrote notes to my dad and mom
And I texted some to my friends
One of my friends texted my dad telling him what I was going to do, and my dad got me help. And I've been getting help and doing somewhat better(it's still a process).
To those who are thinking about it, it doesn't get better after your gone. The pain you leave will linger in your family and friends. I know it's hard, but suicide doesn't solve anything. You will find someone who will love and support you, but until then. Live your life to the fullest. Your life is a book, don't end it yourself. Please stay safe everyone
just reading these comments is making me tear up🥺 YOU GUYS ARE ALL STRONG AND BEAUTIFUL. IDK YOU BUT YOURE AMAZING WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT😠🤜💗💗💗💗💗🥺
You posted this at a perfect time. I've been so low this past while and I really needed this. Thank you. Truly.
god i wish i found these videos when I was suicidal, it would’ve helped so much. thank you
This.. Is so good. The quality of this vid is so good. And soft voice he uses, the words he says and the caring he shows, I feel like this is how you should talk to someone who's depressed or suicidal
And the phone numbers in description just warmed my heart.
Thank you Cardlin so much for this.
I really need to go listen to something fluffy now... But in all seriousness, having been in this exact position on three separate occasions several years ago, the feelings described are 100% accurate and the things said were things I wish I would have heard at my darkest points. This is really going to help a lot of people. Well done to both of you.
This is how ur supposed to talk to someone...but other people yell and get angry..I'm glad this was made I escape the real world with this
It’s bad when you don’t cry anymore. This should help a lot but at the same time I’m thinking about how I’m not allowed to get medication. I’m constantly compared to people who have it worse than me. So, I result to TH-cam that comforts me more than my own mother.
Count me in on comforting you! You’ll get better, I know it’s what everyone says, it’s because it’s true, I hope you got the help you need and feel so much better now!
Okay it’s half 3 in the morning and I’m crying because this hits home but I needed it
This hit me so close, many tears were shed and a lot of flashbacks came back to me. But your words made me feel more reassured than ever and i thank you so much for making me relaxed and take all those worries away for the time being.
I feel bad for this comment...but that bit about dropping the ladder is just-
It reminds me of when in the IT Crowd, Moss comes up with the Moth Ladders, where they are literally LADDERS for when a MOTH gets stuck in a BATH
'I feel trapped. Like a moth. In a bath' ~ Maurice Moss, 2010
You have no idea how much hope you brought me...
You helped so many people watching this video, I'm sure.
Thank you Cardlin, I’m so glad I watched this video.
This... this meant so much to me and I've only discovered your channel today.. hearing your voice break.. thinking you were so close to breaking down.. I needed this..
These past months have been so hard for me, I’ve contemplated suicide and self harm many times and sometimes actually pulling through with it... not that many people actually talked to me like this to help me so it does something to me, make me feel more loved and cared for... but it makes me really sad that it has to be from some audio of someone who I don’t personally know rather than my family. But still, really bless you for this for this has helped me and will pull me through the next few months hopefully❤️
I hope you're doing alright. If you ever need someone to talk to please feel free to message me. You're not alone in this. And things do get better. I promise.
ily :((
Yano, when I first read the title I wasnt interested but then I decided to watch it and oh man this hit me hard. I don't think u realise how much I needed this. And bless u for putting all the numbers in the description. I acc started to cry cuz I felt as if for once in my life someone acc understood me and cared. And ik that's daft cuz there r many people in my life who care for me but something like really felt personal. This had a real effect on me. Bless u for doing this ❤️❤️❤️
Also when u started crying I started crying 😣
Thank you cardlin, you have no idea how much i needed this, you will be helping so many people with this audio so thank you from the bottom of my heart ♡
What a great way to start my day, thank you Cardy for this video! This is a heavy topic and you find ways to help people through things like this. This is such a good idea for a video, thank you again. ❤️
I can relate to this...I've been through so much pain..hearing this really brings me joy...ty for this audio.
I lost my friend to suicide on august.
There was no note, or message, nothing. What it left behind is grieving friends and family and endless unanswered questions. Self-blame and sadness that I think will never fully go away.
If you are reading this and struggling, please seek help. Don`t struggle alone. There IS always someone who will care and listen. Reach out. ❤
I really needed this... schools been getting tough with stress and all and this really makes me feel better.
I was a small girl (10), got to a point that I couldn’t take it anymore and still felt broken inside. I’m now 12 and this video helped me become more confident, i’ve now watched this over and over again each day being more happier and happier. I look up to you and say “Damn, this man is a wealthy person..“. You deserve alot of appreciation 🥺
Damn my guy even took the time to find and copy the numbers in his description
Dude. This made me cry cuz its. Relatable as hell. I now you arent directing this AT ME like but. It makes me feel i aint alone right now. Thank you cardlin. This video and your other videos have made me feel so much better..
You have so much potential and so many things ahead of you birthdays and Fourth of July fireworks and amazing sunsets..that part made me smile and tear up it was a very heavy and caring conversation and then you tried to make her see all the happy things and you were so innocent in that moment I loved it thank you Cardlin and J!
My mom doesn't knock
And she walked in on my balling my eyes out
Hopefully she helped you and comforted you, we’re here for you!
Cardlin you really hit home with me on this one thank you
Reader Chan: 🥺 ok I will, please don’t cry or I will cry too.
I’m really happy you made these Cardlin..all of your mental health ones. I know it’s not meant to cure, but it does help, truly. I’ve coming back to them when things get dark and they help me stabilize to see the light again. I’ll shake and I’ll cry, and then I listen & feel better, even if its temporarily. I cannot thank you enough for this.
Thank you for this.
Thank you Cardi.. I tried to take my life last week and have been struggling since, and this has been so helpful, so yeah.. thank you 💘
You have no idea how much this helps me, thank you so much.
this was so perfectly timed for me... i'm speechless 😢😢😢😢😢
Is it only me who is afraid to listen such audios because they open up my hidden fears and self hate...
I just started crying. Thank you so much for this.
OMG...you saved my life, actually, this audio made me rethink about many things of my life and my problems...about the note that I wrote several days before😥thank you so so much❤
Today I walked into Aspen Pointe (the mental health center in my city) for the first time in years. Recently my mind keeps giving me suicidal/self harm images. Thank you for giving me the courage to get the help I need.
“Baby.... we need to talk” best intro hands down
Half the time listening to these only makes things worse for me cuz then it's on my mind even more.
But this one melts my heart.
This hit me right in the feels. I’m actually crying. Thanks this helped a lot, it makes me think that maybe somewhere someone cares enough about me that they want me to live.
I want you to live.
Maicey Throckmorton awe thank you 😋😊
The moment you starting talking about the suicide note I burst into tears and was crying through the whole thing. Time after time I was almost at the point where I didn’t wanna go on. Thinking that nobody cares. Things would get better then it would get bad again and it’s just an ongoing cycle. But to think about what it would do the people around me like my mum and family, really makes me think. Thank you Cardlin for making me realise