1. Never invest in a man's business. 2. Never give a man vision. 3. Never be a man's secret. 4. Never get swept away with sexual advances. 5. Never expose yourself emotionally to a new man. 6. Never cancel your plans for a man last minute. 7. Never shrink your profile to accommodate an inferior man's intimidation.
Well I am 55 and In a month I’ll be 56 and still learning. Feel the problem is no strong father figure or strong male figures and accepting less than what I deserve.
1. Never invest in a man's business. 11:30 2. Never give a man vision. 16:40 3. Never be a man's secret. 25:00 4. Never get swept away with sexual advances. 29:00 5. Never expose yourself emotionally to a new man. 35:00 6. Never cancel your plans for a man last minute. 38:40 7. Never shrink your profile to accommodate an inferior man's intimidation. 46:40
I have been celibate for close to eighteen years, it is a wonderful feeling being bombarded by admiration and having the discipline to obtain. I enjoy male company and energy, but have not met the man I am comfortable with. Just left a relationship that was fun, but not the one. Walking away with my body untouched and my mind not broken and my feelings not hurt is so much easier to do when you have not been misused emotionally and physically.
Good point. Queens can not be a man's secret. Queens are never a man's secret. Queen are not going to be secret lover. Ghost lovers. Is disrespectful for a queen to allow secret relationship . I have never seen such a thing in my entire life , where two people are in relationship but not for once know each other. People that are involved in this kind of relationship, I should say are day dreaming for what is not real. Father in heaven , you are too much. You are a real spiritual father.
I have asked for dates I reject cause in their mind is screw not chose easy way to date I like to be besties till u know them inside out I dont go for seconds or no ones mistress side chicks lol
MAN you spoke tonight!! I'm widowed and will not settle because my Husband was everything you say a man is... and I met him at 0! I never had to spend a dollar, opened door, announced our relationship to all he new from day 1. Paid for our wedding. No secrets and revealed all to me. He didn't think he was fine but he was the most handsome man on earth. Super attractive to other women because of how he treated me. That's why it's hard to date. I don't see that today. But I am content with what I was lucky enough to experience.
The purpose of dating is to collect data, not about having sex. Thank you Bishop Blakes! I am abstinent and Queen conscious and will wait until the right one comes into my life!
Yes LORD yes it true my sister's my husband of 29 years waited 4years we were SAVED THE SAME Day and was Married 2 months later 💟🙏🏼 he kept telling me I was different and I was I belong to GOD and if he wanted me he had to belong to Him to🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🥰🌹💕😇🙏🏼🙏🏿
@@shirleybutts9490 thank you for sharing your story. Waiting on God is the best decision I have made and I slowly see the benefits unfold as I mature, build my relationship with God, and become the woman God has intended me to be. But to be honest, it is not easy. God sure is testing my patience 😭🤦🏾♀️ but everyday I choose to wait on His prefect will for my life and let Him surprise me. I have surrendered and everyday it gets easier.
Pastor Blake's your advice is right on for YOUNG women. I wish I took your advice years ago...but for women my age we are facing different circumstances. I am 66 , divorced and I had been with a Narcissist for 13 years...Now what !?? Please give us older women some advice...we are looking at different circumstances as we are....
So true. Before I read this comment I had the thought “praise God that this man is doing God’s will and sharing this message with us”. I didn’t have a father figure capable of teaching me these things and I’m just learning at 30 years old (after much heartache).
Repent for your witchcraft, why are you subscribed to all these witchcraft channels? I say this with love, but it’s an abomination to God. Get right with God and I pray He will bless you with a kingdom marriage. But that will hold you back from right standing with God and favor in this life.
Ask God to guide you, because God knows their heart and will let you see what is in their hearts. Be patient and ask God to help you. God will mold them and it takes time, and God will bring him or her to you. Ask God for wisdom strength and guidance daily, and he will give it to you., ask God for that good God fearing character person.❤❤❤ Pray
I was married for almost 20 years to a man who didn't know his role and position as a man...I'm now happily divorced, and celibate for over 6 years...waiting for GOD'S best for me
20 years is a long time my dear you should have runner for the hills ages ago. Rather than pouring your heart mind and soul into something toxic. But i guess easy said than done. 🤔
Feeling like a Dad is talking to me. I mean my Dad never did tell me such things. But I wish we would have. Because then I wouldn't waste so much time on the wrong men. Those videos are a real blessing. Can't get enough of them. Thank you so much. Leading me back to the right path.
I am approaching 53 years old and i am hearing these teachings for the first time. I wish i knew these things a long time ago as a teenager. I never got married and i have no children. However my life has been painful. I have been messed up but i am not staying in that place. I am now queen concious. Glory to God. 🙏
It’s never too late. It’s not over, it’s not finished; it’s only beginning. Christ the Healer will heal yr broken heart & bring you your heart’s desires!
This man needs a tv show honestly, or seminars idk something… I can’t go one day without watching him!!! I really appreciate it, it hurts, it heals. TOTAL ELEVATION
Bishop dc.blake I'm queen one Day may I find King mean while I still find faults My self fin so I'll keep praying keep Jesus vkdxg wish I meet you sooner your powerful thank you
I am only 15 I haven’t dated anyone yet and your teachings are helping me learn about a relationship I might have with someone in the fire so I am very thankful for this❤️❤️
@@KJAlways Those aren't the people for you. I got a person like that in my life and he disrespects me so I limit time (family member) with him. Yet I find others respect me more when they see I mean business and won't tolerate disrespect.
I am listening to this on Nov 13, 2022. I'm not even halfway through and I've laughed so much. I truly appreciate listening to pastors that are down to eatth amd have a sense of humor. Thank you for the lesson and the laughs while at it. Be blessed!
@Pq M it's just awful but its the reality...even after years of courting and getting to know each other some ppl have a a permanent mask..and drops once they got you by the hook. Never give up that's what will weed them out . Good luck to you
@Pq M you nailed it . I lived through this and not to say Too much as I value my privacy ...you have described my life few years back and i escaped this sociopath...we are constantly learning..its so hard to decipher sometimes and it will take time. That's why getting our selves healed and back to healthy so that we can get back out there and fight this battle of evil! No worries about spelling but you nailed it sister. God is good !
Loved the analogy "sex is the ultimate drug. Sex is like a hallucinogenic. It makes you believe things that aren't real, it makes you see stuff that is not even there". This is soooo true! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 never ever forget it and keep your legs closed!!
Oh yeah when it comes to the money thing, Tony Gaskins said “ a man should not fix his lips to ask you for money. He needs to use all his resources before even thinking of coming to you and he still shouldn’t come to you”.
I swear to God my crown has been adjusted correctly on my head since you came into my virtual life... and REFUSE TO SHIFT IT! GOD BLESS YOU DADDY BLAKES
61 years old and STILL waiting on God to send me the right one IF and ONLY IF that's His will for my life! In the meantime-- I am enjoying my relationship with myself and The Lord! I'm not saying it's easy to wait... But whatever/whomever He has for me will be worth the wait♡ Thank you Pastor- This is a refresher course in what my late Dad told me long ago and far away♡
This is probably none of my business but I have met 3 women who married at 68, 72, and 80....those that I sat down with and talked extensively,,,,keep ur hopeful spirit alive!! xoxo. I am 47 and waiting on God as well....
I've never had anyone one to sit me down and talk to me this way not even my mom and now I'm fifty five years old and messed up but Thank God for your love and concern. I will be making some personal changes in my life with the help of ther Holy Spirit. Will you pray for me
My dear you are not alone, I had one male friend tell me when a man approaches you ask him what he wants what are his plans and why he wants to know me.
Your mom couldn't tell you something that she didn't know. Most people was raised to keep abuse and neglect in the household. Nor were they taught how to date. They never learned how to love themselves and God properly. And they just past the pain and sorrow down to others.
If a man expects me to cancel previous plans for him, he will learn the importance of planning and setting time aside to ensure time together if he really wants to spend time with me. Time and Energy are vital! I have to be fair with the people who I made plans with.
I forgot to tell you, K A, that I agree with you that he is always thinking of you of last if he is always calling you last minute. I had friends like that in the past. No good person deserved to be treated that way.
I wish someone had dropped this wisdom on me years ago. I really hope more men learn from you so they can be better at teaching their daughters these valuable lessons. You are a blessing to all of us.
I started watching you last year when I was in an abusive relationship. I'm so happy, 1 year later, I was able to leave that 6 year relationship. Thank you for all you do!
I needed this. I was on my way on a date and came back to this video.. just like if I had a dad.. I'd call him up and this is what he would say... 🥰 perfect thank you dad
Sex is the original drug, a hallucinogenic. Ladies I implore you to stay off yo back. #5 - Queens never expose themselves emotionally to dudes they don’t know. This is very important! Stop telling why your last relationship ended, what you desire in a man 🤫. Move in silence.
Not sure how I found myself here, but this word was soooo good! I laughed and was in the "Amen" section in agreement throughout. Just WoW! Sadly I believe most of us have encountered behaviors from men (boys) that were described smh. Be encouraged ladies, and remember you are a QUEEN and don't settle for anything less than love and respect. Pray God's strength to get you through those challenging seasons or out of that toxic relationship. Blessings!
Unfortunately, I can say I have done every single one of these things. Experience is the best teacher. I definitely will not do this again. I have been soul tie, narc free for over 6 months. Not a big amount of time, but I have to start somewhere, and on my road to recovery. Love this video Pastor
I too am narc free for about 2 years. The sad part I didnt even know he was narc because he was a covert narc and very hidden. We got engaged and we sought premarital counseling. There I found out he had OCD, panic attacks, gaslighting, narcissistic tendencies, and depression. Now repairing the damage aftermath.
Thank you pastor, you have been a gift. I wish I had you to advise me at the beginning of my dating years. We women need this man of GOD to let us know the real things we should be knowing, doing and following without sugar coating anything.
I'm a Muslim girl and in general no one would tell me this kind of tips, I'm really thankful for your advice you just made it clear for me what I've been doing wrong and how to apply my standards, Thank you. Edit: clearly i mentioned my religion to explain why i don't have any information, not to get hate and disrespected.
I thought the families of Muslim girls oversaw this and protected you from predators. Over here in the US, it seems, that overall, so many of the girls and women are up for grabs. We go out into the world without a clue- like a hen in a den of foxes.
@@VicToria-sd1dn Thank you, but I got that from RC- he said once that a woman around a bunch of men was like a hen around a bunch of foxes - I don't remember which of his videos
Been a celibate for 1 year and I'm patiently waiting on God to send the right one. This Covid has set me back to find my purpose and I'm so excited i never settle for less than i deserve. I'm a QUEEN.
You are saving SO many women this generation. God has appointed you for a time such as this!!! I am blessed to take ALL of this goodness in. I am healing, I see where I flawed, God is speaking to me and He's grace is sufficient. THANK YOU from South Africa!
I used to be available for him but when I realized that IAM not engaged nor married to him I took my power back. So I invest in my time when it's convient for me🙄🙄
In the beginning a narcissist will say and do all of the right things. You must be patient and giving it time because they will show the truth if you give in too quickly because it seems so perfect that's when they hurt you. Watch your emotions and it can be so very hard because alot of us have needed to be loved and appreciated so long we become so thirsty. Stay strong everyone 🙏💝
@@brick_housedee6711 If you watch him, you can tell in a space of a week that a man is about nothing. Any man who starts off with smooth talk should be treated with suspicion right off the bat. It's like getting a large Easter bunny that's hollow. That describes these men.
@@miriammarcial3047 A true narcissist never apologizes, they never take ownership for their own negative actions nor will they take accountability for someone else's wrong doings, they love to play the victim. So, maybe your's wasn't a narcissist but a passive aggressive person. Passive aggressive people will be people pleasers but they will secretly resent you, they will purposely do things to try and provoke you or get back at you secretly. They're always first to volunteer to help people but they really don't want to do it, it's more about the image they're trying to project to others. Behind closed doors they are nothing like the image they project to the outward world. Some people confuse passive aggressive behavior with narcissism, because the differences are suttle. When you said, yours apologizes for your wrongdoings then I knew, that's not a narcissist. Bless
This was great! I'm going on 5 years no sex, no dating, no nonsense at all! Some days I have to remind myself why I am doing this, and yes its hard sometimes when you see couples holding hands, kissing etc... but then I remember when I was that same couple feeling empty and unfulfilled. Some nights going without sex is hard, sleeping alone. But then I remembered how alone and detached I felt after seemingly amazing sex. It felt worse. So I don't miss it all. I miss having a secure and intimate friendship. Someone who will always be there for me and love me.
It's like you talking exactly about me. Am facing exactly what you facing. It's worth waiting my dear. God is gonna bring someone special in your life! It's not easy I know!
Same for me but and it's been 3 years without sex and being single. You are right.....it is hard but I love God and I love myself so I know He will send the right man who is meant for me. I know I made the right decision. We have to continue to pray and keep our faith strong! Be blessed queen! 🥰🥰🥰
thank you so much for your great advice , I’ve learned so much about narcissism , my husband is a professional narcissist and since I been watching your videos his little narcissistic tricks don’t work , I am praying for my freedom and I’m no longer praying for him to change, amen
He married me before "asking me to invest" what an awful mistake. He went through my money like water through a colander! Putting my crown on and got it on straight and center! Until I found your videos, I was a mess! Thank you and God bless you and Lisa!
Yes I don't believe a wife should invest in her husband's business either. Even if intentions are good, gender roles are reversed and then lack of respect follows and the beginning of the end. I have a male cousin whose wife invested in his trucking business which lead to him feeling emasculated.
Sadly a lot of women are living pay check to pay check just to say they have a man. And they know they’re being used but that hallucinogenic sex keeps there spirit hostage every time.
So if I'm going in a trip and know my husband may have a need before I return, or in his fishing commercial business how it can be slow sometimes, I should give him a little change and he wouldn't be a real man if he accepted it? Jus trying to clarify what you're saying please.
This is some on point info for older women such as myself as well as younger women. I wish I had knew and practiced these lessons when I was much younger. Now that I'm older it's very hard to meet and date like-minded God-fearing men. I feel like I don't have the same opportunities. And it is frustrating...and disheartening. Thanks so much for these teachings. And you are so right the older you get you can really fall into believing you should lower your expectations but that is NOT the way. A Queen as you said does not become afraid and desperate. What God has for me is for me. Yes @ 63 years young. Amen!
Thank you, I lost my father when I was 11 and wasn't granted the opportunity to have male guidance.Im I'm 29 now and been through a lot. I want to say thank you my spiritual father for changing me and having me value myself and relationships. You changed my life... I'm in tears of joy while writing this. God bless you
I'm so grateful to have stumbled upon this message,I really needed this I've been a widow for almost 5 year's and I've re learned a lot ,and I don't want to be broken anymore I want to a Whole Queen ... Thankful for these truthful words...God Bless you
Good morning real good man will sacrifice make you happy n also ask what ‘s you need help , what ‘s your future goals ! A real good man will send you roses , help with the bills , keep gas in your car , also take you work on his off days , communications is the key n also put you first prosperity in life n also pray god about you being in his life!
I'm 64 years of age , a woman of black slaves and Indian descendants . Single mother for over thirty years of Celibacy . After years of allowing , God to heal my brokenness I took, God with me on a journey to find sex . And like everything else we have experiences I'm encouraged to go into a relationship with ,God to share the love for myself and know when and how to evaluate the present of my husband-to-be . This why I know when I'm in the presents of , God's words. Thanks for allowing me to share.
I have many mentors I subscribed too but the minute I heard you I’m addicted. I’m have a thirst to hear your wisdom! Thank you! The best It’s exciting to hear you !!!
This is the first time I’ve heard, “the purpose of dating is to gather data...” Thank you for opening up this box and helping to free women emotionally. God bless your ministry!
That is such a great thing to remember, as very often when we have low self esteem our concentration is on pleasing him, selling ourselves. It should be called 'selling out our selves'!
Everything you are saying, I heard that from my Dad and elder bro’s....I’m just amazed that there is a FATHER FIGURE here online giving fatherly advices to our young girls of this generation, they needed to hear these...Sir, I love your program and praying to keep it around for a long time, GOD bless you more, Mr Blake’s!!🙂🙏🏼
U giving us hope again especially to younger generations like mine where we have nowhere to look for true wisdom...everything is normalized nowadays and accessible and it's not ok. God bless you
I fall asleep and wake up to your talks because I chose to no longer be that broken codependent woman I'm healing and ready 💞 Thank you for showing me that not all men are the same and bringing peace into my life
I’m so glad I had a dad to teach me how to date men, starting at a young age. But there are some things that you can only learn by experience. I’m learning the hard way that you cannot give a man a vision! He has to come to you with one!! You remind me so much of my dad that I had to send him one of your videos!!! You speak truth and you can back it up with biblical text!!
Boy oh boy... what this taught me is where I've been making some major mistakes.... newly divorced and no, no I refuse to allow my missteps to attract someone who is wrong for me!! Thanks so much for your time and for driving a much needed message home for me.
I wish I saw this video when I started dating!!! But I am still thankful 🙏 for this preaching. This is going to open my eyes in my next encounter with a man.. God Bless you Pastor RC BLAKES AND YOUR FAMILY....
The wrong man will be the best sex!!! Queens 👸 don't bow to this hallucinogenic drug!!! I flatlined! This is sooooooooo profound! Understand that when you lie down, that your soul is at stake, and present!! God I thank You for this Word!
The sex is good,because they use it to tun game they are skilled at what a woman wants,they study us,and the devil uses sex its demonic once you start wanting it,they ready to cut you off,because it was all a gane.Sex is used as a weapon.
You're not lying! This is because that's the best thing he think he had to offer so he becomes good at it. .. with you and the other women he's in and out of. He's lost as hell. The more women he looses as they grow tired and realize they want a real relationship with purpose and standards the worst his sexual preferences are. Those type of men end up having relations with other men because they are sexually addicted. They can also end up rappist, phedofiles, paying women for sex and getting and giving diseases. The wages of sin is death(faster death). Irebuke the spirit of these type men in the name of jesus on me and my family. It's disgusting to even think about once you truly understand what's best for yourself your body and spirit. Be blessed you all
It's been seven years that I been single going on eight I took time out for God and me trusting God In My singleness. I am trying to date now but I have started Fasting before hand to have discernment and guidance along the way. I have been praying that God be all up in my dating business Hallelujah
Omg I love you Spirit Dad RC Blakes Jr! Your reassurance to one of the ladies who just got away from a narcissist as you pointed to the screen and told her, ‘ I will be here celebrating with you as God continues to do many great things in your life’… brought tears to my eyes, God bless you over and over🙏
Talking about vision, I learned the questions to ask when dating from you Pastor. When my current boyfriend showed up, right from the very first day we met, he kept sharing his vision and passion. I once asked him what his dream is and he said "to be a man after God's heart and to be the greatest philanthropist". He picked me not because of my beauty(which he acknowledged) but he was more focused on values and what his wife can pass into his children. When he shared these with me, I was humbled.
I have been celibate for 10 years and I am loving it. I tell any man that I am waiting on my husband. I love your key points. I am divorced but have learned a lot in my 55 years. I don't want potential. Thanks Pastor.
You hit the needle right on the head with #5. This is exactly where I messed up!! I cried in front of a guy that I was dating for several mths, and I regret doing it to this very day.
If you where with a man a few months and you cry and from there on it goes down hill, it also means he was not a man who is atuned to care for a womens emotions and feelings, hurt and so on. This men are handicaped. They do not change either.
I have been gathering data for years...about to write my book. 😂 Lol 🤓 (I divorced my chronically unfaithful spouse of 24 years of marriage in 2005. All Forgiven. I have not seriously dated anyone since 2009. ) I have been celibate going on 12 years, honoring God and waiting well. However, this current season of COVID-19 pandemic, racial, social and political unrest has drawn me deeper and closer to Christ. As a result I have been re-framing what’s truly important dear pastor, and that’s the Great Commission. Lost souls are MORE important to me than having a man or husband. I am all about KINGDOM AGENDA instead of my own. So, I applied to go FULL-TIME on the mission field. Please keep me in your prayers as I prepare to serve - most likely next year in either Africa or Asia. (Been to both before on short-term mission trips) 💕😇 I am grateful for ALL of my life experiences. I immensely enjoy your sage teaching and timely shared life skill nuggets. You are indeed a treasure and needed voice to the beautiful sisters in our world. Keep shining & Stay the course! 🙏🏽🎶🙌🏾🥰
Kiesha Lawrence 💕🙏🏽Thank you dear sister. May God continue to bless and enrich your life. Stay prayed up & Stay the course! Our Abba Father is indeed a Waymaker, Miracle-Worker, Promise Keeper and Light in the darkness! 🎶😇 Trust and abide in Him and watch for the amazing! 🌷🌻💐 Thank you too for your prayers! Much appreciated.🙏🏽
Robin Dear , yes He will! 🌷 I am looking forward to the continued journey He has me on. Thank you most kindly for your prayers and blessings. May God’s favor and anointing be upon you as you walk in alignment with His will for your life. Jesus adores you! Remember this ALWAYS! 💐💕😁
@@taylorwilliams1974 Have you narrowed down which missions organizations you'd like to work with? I like Wycliffe Bible Translators, Operation Mobilization, and WEC.
I want a kingdom man because I’m a queen. I refuse to date anyone at the moment because I’ve been reborn and rebirthed through God. I am working on myself during this season. I will be sent my kingdom man during dating. Like Pastor Blake’s has mentioned. I will keep my legs closed. Until then I’ll wait. Been there done that I’m not in any rush.
@@wixielane8513 I'm sure broken, damaged, and unsaved men came up with that for their benefit. Women got to think for themselves. Unfortunately low self esteem, and a lack of knowledge have led to poor decisions.
1. Never invest in a man's business.
2. Never give a man vision.
3. Never be a man's secret.
4. Never get swept away with sexual advances.
5. Never expose yourself emotionally to a new man.
6. Never cancel your plans for a man last minute.
7. Never shrink your profile to accommodate an inferior man's intimidation.
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Wish they were time stamped 😞
Thanks for the summary
Thank you😊💛 back to the video
Thank u ❤️
Even old dogs can learn new tricks. I am 76. Just waking up. Thanks to you. I am going to be a Queen.
Crown on Queen 👑👑nothing gets old it’s just vintage
Pastor says in his other video old is just a state of mind. Fix your crown queen 👑 🥰
Estelle Kendall yes 👑✊🏼
love this comment! I always have hope people can change and grow no matter what age.
Well I am 55 and In a month I’ll be 56 and still learning. Feel the problem is no strong father figure or strong male figures and accepting less than what I deserve.
"If a woman has to give a man a vision, he's not her man - he's her son." ~ RC Blakes Jr.
Amen
That part 🙌
Deep
Wheww yes
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1. Never invest in a man's business. 11:30
2. Never give a man vision. 16:40
3. Never be a man's secret. 25:00
4. Never get swept away with sexual advances. 29:00
5. Never expose yourself emotionally to a new man. 35:00
6. Never cancel your plans for a man last minute. 38:40
7. Never shrink your profile to accommodate an inferior man's intimidation. 46:40
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Thank you 💕
I was looking for this comment. Thank you ☺️
Thank you!! 💕
🙏 thank you really
I have been celibate for close to eighteen years, it is a wonderful feeling being bombarded by admiration and having the discipline to obtain. I enjoy male company and energy, but have not met the man I am comfortable with. Just left a relationship that was fun, but not the one. Walking away with my body untouched and my mind not broken and my feelings not hurt is so much easier to do when you have not been misused emotionally and physically.
Yesss Queen facts🧘🏽♀️✨🤍💅🏾
I’ve been celibate for almost 10 years and it’s refreshing to hear someone who’s on the same path.
Amen lady
It’s great to know there celibate women out there. I am on my 6th year. God continue to bless y’all.
Trust yourself go forward touch is Heathy & feels good and you always call the shots. Hand rubs foot rubs kissing yum.
QUEENS are never a mans SECRET...wow,that hit a cord in me👏👏👏👏
I would rather be single and happy then staying in a toxic relationship or marriage!
yay
Amen 🙏🏽
Period
Me too that’s why divorce is on the way
Amen! 🙌💖🙌
Yes! The purpose of dating is to gather data, not sleep with them! Love this!
Yes!
@Tewdy Quew its mass brainwashing from the media we need to spread the word and educate/protect/strengthen our youth!!!
Very True 😊👍
Good point. Queens can not be a man's secret. Queens are never a man's secret. Queen are not going to be secret lover. Ghost lovers. Is disrespectful for a queen to allow secret relationship . I have never seen such a thing in my entire life , where two people are in relationship but not for once know each other. People that are involved in this kind of relationship, I should say are day dreaming for what is not real. Father in heaven , you are too much. You are a real spiritual father.
I have asked for dates I reject cause in their mind is screw not chose easy way to date I like to be besties till u know them inside out I dont go for seconds or no ones mistress side chicks lol
MAN you spoke tonight!! I'm widowed and will not settle because my Husband was everything you say a man is... and I met him at 0! I never had to spend a dollar, opened door, announced our relationship to all he new from day 1. Paid for our wedding. No secrets and revealed all to me. He didn't think he was fine but he was the most handsome man on earth. Super attractive to other women because of how he treated me. That's why it's hard to date. I don't see that today. But I am content with what I was lucky enough to experience.
I love this❤
So amazing to hear that you had such experience with your late husband ❤
So powerful
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I promise to try put all this in practice. Thanks Sir for your words,it makes me stronger all the time in pursuit of the right man.
"Any man that requires a woman to give him a vision is not qualified to lead a woman ANYWHERE."
*PERIOD.*
Amen❣
Felt this to my core☝🏽‼️
Thanks for the wisdom. We need to know the boundaries of queen conscious women.
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Made that mistake
Thank you 🙏🏼 and yes 🙌🏽
You cannot afford to expose yourself emotionally to someone you do not know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!💯
The purpose of dating is to collect data, not about having sex. Thank you Bishop Blakes!
I am abstinent and Queen conscious and will wait until the right one comes into my life!
“A healthy King 🤴🏾 and a healthy Queen 👸🏿 makes great Kingdom.”❤️
Yes LORD yes it true my sister's my husband of 29 years waited 4years we were SAVED THE SAME Day and was Married 2 months later 💟🙏🏼 he kept telling me I was different and I was I belong to GOD and if he wanted me he had to belong to Him to🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🥰🌹💕😇🙏🏼🙏🏿
@@shirleybutts9490 thank you for sharing your story. Waiting on God is the best decision I have made and I slowly see the benefits unfold as I mature, build my relationship with God, and become the woman God has intended me to be. But to be honest, it is not easy. God sure is testing my patience 😭🤦🏾♀️ but everyday I choose to wait on His prefect will for my life and let Him surprise me. I have surrendered and everyday it gets easier.
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Amen....teach pastor
Pastor Blake's your advice is right on for YOUNG women. I wish I took your advice years ago...but for women my age we are facing different circumstances. I am 66 , divorced and I had been with a Narcissist for 13 years...Now what !?? Please give us older women some advice...we are looking at different circumstances as we are....
So many women don't have parents that'll tell them these things. Thank you!
Very True😊
So true. Before I read this comment I had the thought “praise God that this man is doing God’s will and sharing this message with us”. I didn’t have a father figure capable of teaching me these things and I’m just learning at 30 years old (after much heartache).
You are such a cool guy and I like what you have to say
True
+14142158730
I’m just 27, no children yet and do wish to be married. Your teachings are pure gold.
Same sis❤️ May God continue to guide you as you wait for your Kingdom husband 🥰
Repent for your witchcraft, why are you subscribed to all these witchcraft channels? I say this with love, but it’s an abomination to God. Get right with God and I pray He will bless you with a kingdom marriage. But that will hold you back from right standing with God and favor in this life.
@@chloebellecole 😂😂I really had to go through her subscriptions,to confirm the witchcraft
Ask God to guide you, because God knows their heart and will let you see what is in their hearts. Be patient and ask God to help you. God will mold them and it takes time, and God will bring him or her to you. Ask God for wisdom strength and guidance daily, and he will give it to you., ask God for that good God fearing character person.❤❤❤ Pray
“Just 27” lol
Never make a man feel that he's your priority before he has made you his priority !
Love it. And Pastor Blake is Right.
This was my best statement.
Awesome 👏👏👏👏👏 thank you 🙏
Especially this!
YESSSS
Letting the wrong man into your life can bring you into a world of serious hurt. I know this first hand.
Yes!
That's the truth sister
Say That Pastor Blakes
Tonya L I stay guarded...
Yes, me too!
A lot of us dated with good intentions, but didn’t learn what to look for so ended up in bad marriages. I appreciate you Reverend!
Amen
I know now😁
You are soo right
I agree
Absolutely true, can relate👍💯
We deeply appreciate you Bishop Sir 🙏
❤❤
"Never live your life in a position where you need a man"🎯 👑
I never have..
yeah completely agree that's very dangerous and i witnessed it second hand for a while.
Its crying out desperation, 😢😢
Thank you!!!!
Amen!!
I was married for almost 20 years to a man who didn't know his role and position as a man...I'm now happily divorced, and celibate for over 6 years...waiting for GOD'S best for me
I am celibate for over 4 years and never felt so empowered in my life and closer to God!
20 years is a long time my dear you should have runner for the hills ages ago. Rather than pouring your heart mind and soul into something toxic. But i guess easy said than done. 🤔
Why do our stories sound so similar
Goodness I was 12 years with one man and now 13 with another who definitely is narcissistic. I wasted so much of my life and I am 66 now.
@@sharieallen2719 Thanks for being honest.
Romans 12:15
New International Version
15 Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.
Feeling like a Dad is talking to me. I mean my Dad never did tell me such things. But I wish we would have. Because then I wouldn't waste so much time on the wrong men. Those videos are a real blessing. Can't get enough of them. Thank you so much. Leading me back to the right path.
Pastor Blake ur clou.ncillling
Is he
Health to dignity nd marrow
to character fr self management.❤
Pastor Excelllent council.
"Never expose yourself emotionally to a new man" this was for me thank you for your teaching Pastor
We are all together sister,you are not alone 🙏🤗Bless you
I am approaching 53 years old and i am hearing these teachings for the first time. I wish i knew these things a long time ago as a teenager. I never got married and i have no children. However my life has been painful. I have been messed up but i am not staying in that place. I am now queen concious. Glory to God. 🙏
I am 59 and still learning
Wow... beautiful ... it's never too late for a queen to be a happy Modeste
You still have time
amen
It’s never too late. It’s not over, it’s not finished; it’s only beginning. Christ the Healer will heal yr broken heart & bring you your heart’s desires!
This man needs a tv show honestly, or seminars idk something… I can’t go one day without watching him!!! I really appreciate it, it hurts, it heals. TOTAL ELEVATION
Bishop dc.blake I'm queen one Day may I find King mean while I still find faults My self fin so I'll keep praying keep Jesus vkdxg wish I meet you sooner your powerful thank you
I am only 15 I haven’t dated anyone yet and your teachings are helping me learn about a relationship I might have with someone in the fire so I am very thankful for this❤️❤️
Yassss young queen learn, get the information you need to grow into a healthy young woman..
@@mssayida 💓💓💓
This is the best time to learn it!
I'm proud of you. These will save you heartache.
I didn't date till I turned 19 for that exact reason. Take your time your prince will come.
"Kings love women with boundaries"
Yes they do
I really loved this one and felt good to hear this one!!!! :-)
Exactly
I hope this is true because I have noticed some people don't like boundaries when I set them.
@@KJAlways Those aren't the people for you. I got a person like that in my life and he disrespects me so I limit time (family member) with him. Yet I find others respect me more when they see I mean business and won't tolerate disrespect.
Even at 63, and married I’m learning and taking copious notes. Thank you Sir🤲🏾
When I feel lonely these videos are my best friends
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Same!
True for me too. A blessing!
Same and while getting my hair braided, on elliptical, cooking etc! Love Pastor!❤
Me too .
“I think it’s a bad look to waste your life with someone who should’ve never gotten a conversation with you” Yes sir this spoke so much volume🗣👏🏾
I am listening to this on Nov 13, 2022. I'm not even halfway through and I've laughed so much. I truly appreciate listening to pastors that are down to eatth amd have a sense of humor. Thank you for the lesson and the laughs while at it. Be blessed!
Me too! He has theee best sense of humour 😂
A red flag I noticed is when a man competes with you or keeps one upping you..run
@Pq M it's just awful but its the reality...even after years of courting and getting to know each other some ppl have a a permanent mask..and drops once they got you by the hook. Never give up that's what will weed them out . Good luck to you
@Pq M you nailed it . I lived through this and not to say Too much as I value my privacy ...you have described my life few years back and i escaped this sociopath...we are constantly learning..its so hard to decipher sometimes and it will take time. That's why getting our selves healed and back to healthy so that we can get back out there and fight this battle of evil! No worries about spelling but you nailed it sister. God is good !
Yes!!!!!!!!!!!
Or asks for money Or talks dutch early on! Run for your life!
Yesssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
Loved the analogy "sex is the ultimate drug. Sex is like a hallucinogenic. It makes you believe things that aren't real, it makes you see stuff that is not even there". This is soooo true! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 never ever forget it and keep your legs closed!!
"Keep your legs closed" Lol. Facts only. 💯🤣
This should be required reading for every woman who is dating! Thank you!
Oh yeah when it comes to the money thing, Tony Gaskins said “ a man should not fix his lips to ask you for money. He needs to use all his resources before even thinking of coming to you and he still shouldn’t come to you”.
Laci I just got finished watching that video!
Marshanna Johnson I love both Tony and RC how straight forward they are
What's the title on that video
Summer Dior oh gosh I don’t remember let me try and find it and respond with the link. He has been dropping fire lately
RC Blakes and Tony Gaskins are the only 2 men I listen to because they give away the game to keep us emotionally safe. Straight, no chaser!
I swear to God my crown has been adjusted correctly on my head since you came into my virtual life... and REFUSE TO SHIFT IT! GOD BLESS YOU DADDY BLAKES
Same here my virtual sister 🤣.
Amen , ditto.
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Why would you ever swear to God! That's the craziest thing. You need some more readjusting of your mind or words.
@@danyelgarcia3689 everyone is on different levels.
61 years old and STILL waiting on God to send me the right one IF and ONLY IF that's His will for my life! In the meantime-- I am enjoying my relationship with myself and The Lord! I'm not saying it's easy to wait... But whatever/whomever He has for me will be worth the wait♡ Thank you Pastor- This is a refresher course in what my late Dad told me long ago and far away♡
This is probably none of my business but I have met 3 women who married at 68, 72, and 80....those that I sat down with and talked extensively,,,,keep ur hopeful spirit alive!! xoxo. I am 47 and waiting on God as well....
“It is disrespectful for a man to tell you to keep a/the relationship a secret”(pastor RC Blakes).
True words
Also to the woman why should it be secret
Either man and woman. It is disrespectful
I've never had anyone one to sit me down and talk to me this way not even my mom and now I'm fifty five years old and messed up but Thank God for your love and concern. I will be making some personal changes in my life with the help of ther Holy Spirit. Will you pray for me
My dear you are not alone, I had one male friend tell me when a man approaches you ask him what he wants what are his plans and why he wants to know me.
Your mom couldn't tell you something that she didn't know. Most people was raised to keep abuse and neglect in the household. Nor were they taught how to date. They never learned how to love themselves and God properly. And they just past the pain and sorrow down to others.
Ladenna Young lord have mercy. So true sister. Say so!!!
@@ladennayoung2939 Deep
I hear you, same here. I made lots of mistakes to the point where I feel like I've given up on love or undeserving of it. It's been a tough road.
Amen. Your identity is tied to your creator and selfawareness and not to some relationship with a man. Powerful statement. 🙌🙌
If he's always calling you last minute that means he's always thinking of you last!
If a man expects me to cancel previous plans for him, he will learn the importance of planning and setting time aside to ensure time together if he really wants to spend time with me. Time and Energy are vital! I have to be fair with the people who I made plans with.
Absolutely me first . Been used but I see . How they react to your sadness days alot about them you bring it on yourself really took me long enough.
I forgot to tell you, K A, that I agree with you that he is always thinking of you of last if he is always calling you last minute. I had friends like that in the past. No good person deserved to be treated that way.
Loved this!!❤❤
6. Never Cancel Your Plans For A Man Last Minute
I wish someone had dropped this wisdom on me years ago. I really hope more men learn from you so they can be better at teaching their daughters these valuable lessons. You are a blessing to all of us.
I started watching you last year when I was in an abusive relationship. I'm so happy, 1 year later, I was able to leave that 6 year relationship. Thank you for all you do!
Praise God!
Same!❤️ It really hurts, but something better is coming my way.
@@leximakeupful Peace
Dating is to gather data! Great information Bishop Blakes
I needed this. I was on my way on a date and came back to this video.. just like if I had a dad.. I'd call him up and this is what he would say... 🥰 perfect thank you dad
“How am i going to give you a vision & then trust you to lead me” 🤯🙌🏽
COME ON SIS🙏🏽👋🙏🏽
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Sex is the original drug, a hallucinogenic. Ladies I implore you to stay off yo back.
#5 - Queens never expose themselves emotionally to dudes they don’t know. This is very important! Stop telling why your last relationship ended, what you desire in a man 🤫. Move in silence.
Not sure how I found myself here, but this word was soooo good! I laughed and was in the "Amen" section in agreement throughout. Just WoW! Sadly I believe most of us have encountered behaviors from men (boys) that were described smh. Be encouraged ladies, and remember you are a QUEEN and don't settle for anything less than love and respect. Pray God's strength to get you through those challenging seasons or out of that toxic relationship. Blessings!
This spoke to my spirit “ if a man is hiding something he’ s either illegal or immoral” thank you RC Blake! 🙏🏾
Unfortunately, I can say I have done every single one of these things. Experience is the best teacher. I definitely will not do this again. I have been soul tie, narc free for over 6 months. Not a big amount of time, but I have to start somewhere, and on my road to recovery. Love this video Pastor
I love him too! I love the way he explains things!
I too am narc free for about 2 years. The sad part I didnt even know he was narc because he was a covert narc and very hidden. We got engaged and we sought premarital counseling. There I found out he had OCD, panic attacks, gaslighting, narcissistic tendencies, and depression. Now repairing the damage aftermath.
@@janjoy9759 Just keep going, and don't look back!!
@@bybyana26 Yes!!
Thank you!!!
i’m 22 years old, working on loving myself and walking in my feminine energy. i love your videos, you continue to remind me of my worth 💜
7. Do Not Shrink Your Profile To Accommodate His Intimidation !
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That's real talk
Dating is for gathering data!! Lord I’m 22 and thankful for this video 😩👏🏿👏🏿
I feel you..am 22and early saved
Thank you pastor, you have been a gift. I wish I had you to advise me at the beginning of my dating years. We women need this man of GOD to let us know the real things we should be knowing, doing and following without sugar coating anything.
I'm a Muslim girl and in general no one would tell me this kind of tips, I'm really thankful for your advice you just made it clear for me what I've been doing wrong and how to apply my standards, Thank you.
Edit: clearly i mentioned my religion to explain why i don't have any information, not to get hate and disrespected.
As Salaamu Alaikum my Sister🥰
I thought the families of Muslim girls oversaw this and protected you from predators. Over here in the US, it seems, that overall, so many of the girls and women are up for grabs. We go out into the world without a clue- like a hen in a den of foxes.
@@truthseeker3967
You said it so well. '...like a hen in the den of foxes'.
@@VicToria-sd1dn Thank you, but I got that from RC- he said once that a woman around a bunch of men was like a hen around a bunch of foxes - I don't remember which of his videos
Sorry , Jesus is the only way to Heaven
Been a celibate for 1 year and I'm patiently waiting on God to send the right one. This Covid has set me back to find my purpose and I'm so excited i never settle for less than i deserve. I'm a QUEEN.
7 years for me and I am waiting for God to send me the man HE wants for me !!! I am a QUEEN as well!!!
You are saving SO many women this generation. God has appointed you for a time such as this!!! I am blessed to take ALL of this goodness in. I am healing, I see where I flawed, God is speaking to me and He's grace is sufficient. THANK YOU from South Africa!
I’m 52 years old and wish i knew all this 30 years ago. It would have saved me from alot of bad situations.
Never too late to evolve
Never 2 late..keep moving forward toward the mark..work on yourself never too late
FACTS
I know wat u a saying. We need pple 2 give us a full picture
Same .... I’m very thankful I can start over by 44
I had to send this to my son so he could know how to treat his wife better. Thank you!
Thank you Bishop Blake. On October 12, 2021 I’ll be celebrating 10 years of celibacy and I am confident and happy to wait on God.
I used to be available for him but when I realized that IAM not engaged nor married to him I took my power back. So I invest in my time when it's convient for me🙄🙄
I know that's right.
How did he react to that?
Proud of you!
In the beginning a narcissist will say and do all of the right things. You must be patient and giving it time because they will show the truth if you give in too quickly because it seems so perfect that's when they hurt you. Watch your emotions and it can be so very hard because alot of us have needed to be loved and appreciated so long we become so thirsty. Stay strong everyone 🙏💝
Exactly!
@@brick_housedee6711 If you watch him, you can tell in a space of a week that a man is about nothing. Any man who starts off with smooth talk should be treated with suspicion right off the bat. It's like getting a large Easter bunny that's hollow. That describes these men.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Biblical breakdown excellent teaching. Have a lovely day & God bless.
This is so true. Mine ALWAYS apologized even when I was the who was wrong.. he always looked to please me.. not any more.
@@miriammarcial3047 A true narcissist never apologizes, they never take ownership for their own negative actions nor will they take accountability for someone else's wrong doings, they love to play the victim. So, maybe your's wasn't a narcissist but a passive aggressive person. Passive aggressive people will be people pleasers but they will secretly resent you, they will purposely do things to try and provoke you or get back at you secretly. They're always first to volunteer to help people but they really don't want to do it, it's more about the image they're trying to project to others. Behind closed doors they are nothing like the image they project to the outward world. Some people confuse passive aggressive behavior with narcissism, because the differences are suttle. When you said, yours apologizes for your wrongdoings then I knew, that's not a narcissist. Bless
Being 69 years old pastor I'm still learning I do listen to you every night you are one of God's best
He is. Praise Jehovah
Your identity is tied into your relationship with the Creator.
This is the most powerful thing there is.
Legit
AMEN!!!!!!
This was great! I'm going on 5 years no sex, no dating, no nonsense at all! Some days I have to remind myself why I am doing this, and yes its hard sometimes when you see couples holding hands, kissing etc... but then I remember when I was that same couple feeling empty and unfulfilled. Some nights going without sex is hard, sleeping alone. But then I remembered how alone and detached I felt after seemingly amazing sex. It felt worse. So I don't miss it all. I miss having a secure and intimate friendship. Someone who will always be there for me and love me.
It's like you talking exactly about me. Am facing exactly what you facing. It's worth waiting my dear. God is gonna bring someone special in your life! It's not easy I know!
Thank You have so much insight into men I’m thankful my daddy is gone and I appreciate all you have to say thank you
Amen🙏🏿
But did you have a committed intimate relationship? Were you really safe and secure?
Same for me but and it's been 3 years without sex and being single. You are right.....it is hard but I love God and I love myself so I know He will send the right man who is meant for me. I know I made the right decision. We have to continue to pray and keep our faith strong! Be blessed queen! 🥰🥰🥰
thank you so much for your great advice , I’ve learned so much about narcissism , my husband is a professional narcissist and since I been watching your videos his little narcissistic tricks don’t work , I am praying for my freedom and I’m no longer praying for him to change, amen
Congrats Queen,..,,.you have begun to take your POWER back,.,……THAT has to a feel Gggooooddd,.,…..✊🏿👸🏽👸🏽💕🎼💕🎼💕🎼💕🎼💕🎼💕🎼💕
I will never allow another man to disrespect me ever again! I am no one's property or slave!
Amen
Amen !
Queens never invest in a man's business venture. Your ministry is a blessing 🙏
WOW!!!
I love your no nonsense videos!
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This message was excellent. "Marry your vision" is an great quote. Thank you Pastor Blakes for your heart for empowering women. 🙏🏾❤
He married me before "asking me to invest" what an awful mistake. He went through my money like water through a colander! Putting my crown on and got it on straight and center! Until I found your videos, I was a mess! Thank you and God bless you and Lisa!
Yes I don't believe a wife should invest in her husband's business either. Even if intentions are good, gender roles are reversed and then lack of respect follows and the beginning of the end. I have a male cousin whose wife invested in his trucking business which lead to him feeling emasculated.
Similar trapped me with a child then started asking for money even as 20 years younger.
Exactly a man would never take money from you if he's a mature, empathetic, and respectful man that is capable of love!
True that!!
Exactly
Never ever ever!
Sadly a lot of women are living pay check to pay check just to say they have a man. And they know they’re being used but that hallucinogenic sex keeps there spirit hostage every time.
So if I'm going in a trip and know my husband may have a need before I return, or in his fishing commercial business how it can be slow sometimes, I should give him a little change and he wouldn't be a real man if he accepted it? Jus trying to clarify what you're saying please.
This is some on point info for older women such as myself as well as younger women. I wish I had knew and practiced these lessons when I was much younger. Now that I'm older it's very hard to meet and date like-minded God-fearing men. I feel like I don't have the same opportunities. And it is frustrating...and disheartening. Thanks so much for these teachings. And you are so right the older you get you can really fall into believing you should lower your expectations but that is NOT the way. A Queen as you said does not become afraid and desperate. What God has for me is for me. Yes @ 63 years young. Amen!
Thank you, I lost my father when I was 11 and wasn't granted the opportunity to have male guidance.Im I'm 29 now and been through a lot. I want to say thank you my spiritual father for changing me and having me value myself and relationships. You changed my life... I'm in tears of joy while writing this. God bless you
I second that miss!!
"Queens vet every word that comes out of a man's mouth." AMEN! Lord, I surrender to Your Guidance. 🙏🏿 🎇
Amen!!! I am constantly listening very carefully to every word a man says!!!
I'm so grateful to have stumbled upon this message,I really needed this I've been a widow for almost 5 year's and I've re learned a lot ,and I don't want to be broken anymore I want to a Whole Queen ... Thankful for these truthful words...God Bless you
Absolutely Pastor Blakes. I don't have time to waste. Don't wear painful shoes ladies
I almost made the mistake of going back....then this came on my timeline....thank you so much Pastor! A true God sent ❤️
Good morning real good man will sacrifice make you happy n also ask what ‘s you need help , what ‘s your future goals ! A real good man will send you roses , help with the bills , keep gas in your car , also take you work on his off days , communications is the key n also put you first prosperity in life n also pray god about you being in his life!
I'm 64 years of age , a woman of black slaves and Indian descendants . Single mother for over thirty years of Celibacy . After years of allowing , God to heal my brokenness I took, God with me on a journey to find sex . And like everything else we have experiences I'm encouraged to go into a relationship with ,God to share the love for myself and know when and how to evaluate the present of my husband-to-be . This why I know when I'm in the presents of , God's words.
Thanks for allowing me to share.
I have many mentors I subscribed too but the minute I heard you I’m addicted. I’m have a thirst to hear your wisdom! Thank you! The best
It’s exciting to hear you !!!
This is the first time I’ve heard, “the purpose of dating is to gather data...” Thank you for opening up this box and helping to free women emotionally. God bless your ministry!
That is such a great thing to remember, as very often when we have low self esteem our concentration is on pleasing him, selling ourselves. It should be called 'selling out our selves'!
Everything you are saying, I heard that from my Dad and elder bro’s....I’m just amazed that there is a FATHER FIGURE here online giving fatherly advices to our young girls of this generation, they needed to hear these...Sir, I love your program and praying to keep it around for a long time, GOD bless you more, Mr Blake’s!!🙂🙏🏼
Love this! It will be evident(most times) that he loves God 1st, and never crosses certain boundaries, especially sex outside marriage.
U giving us hope again especially to younger generations like mine where we have nowhere to look for true wisdom...everything is normalized nowadays and accessible and it's not ok. God bless you
“Lets fly under the radar, nope let’s fly right into the camera 😂”. A queen should never be a man’s secret !!!!
I HOLLERED!!!
MsCupcake39 Girl you and me both 😂
I went through this recently.
I cried laughing
... right into the camera 🤣🤣🤣
I fall asleep and wake up to your talks because I chose to no longer be that broken codependent woman I'm healing and ready 💞
Thank you for showing me that not all men are the same and bringing peace into my life
Pastor Dr Bishop Blakes! You should be on National TV. This information you are sharing is Priceless! Thank you Sir! Blessings Lady Blakes!
I’m so glad I had a dad to teach me how to date men, starting at a young age. But there are some things that you can only learn by experience. I’m learning the hard way that you cannot give a man a vision! He has to come to you with one!!
You remind me so much of my dad that I had to send him one of your videos!!! You speak truth and you can back it up with biblical text!!
Boy oh boy... what this taught me is where I've been making some major mistakes.... newly divorced and no, no I refuse to allow my missteps to attract someone who is wrong for me!! Thanks so much for your time and for driving a much needed message home for me.
A Real Man Comes w A Vision Included!
I was screaming "PREACH" this whole sermon . He spoke NO LIES ! God Bless You
I wish I saw this video when I started dating!!! But I am still thankful 🙏 for this preaching. This is going to open my eyes in my next encounter with a man.. God Bless you Pastor RC BLAKES AND YOUR FAMILY....
The wrong man will be the best sex!!! Queens 👸 don't bow to this hallucinogenic drug!!! I flatlined! This is sooooooooo profound! Understand that when you lie down, that your soul is at stake, and present!! God I thank You for this Word!
Facts only.
The sex is good,because they use it to tun game they are skilled at what a woman wants,they study us,and the devil uses sex its demonic once you start wanting it,they ready to cut you off,because it was all a gane.Sex is used as a weapon.
🤣🤣🤣 at “I flatlined.”
Lori Brewster Yes that was such a POWERFUL STATEMENT 🙌🏽
You're not lying! This is because that's the best thing he think he had to offer so he becomes good at it. .. with you and the other women he's in and out of. He's lost as hell. The more women he looses as they grow tired and realize they want a real relationship with purpose and standards the worst his sexual preferences are. Those type of men end up having relations with other men because they are sexually addicted. They can also end up rappist, phedofiles, paying women for sex and getting and giving diseases. The wages of sin is death(faster death). Irebuke the spirit of these type men in the name of jesus on me and my family. It's disgusting to even think about once you truly understand what's best for yourself your body and spirit. Be blessed you all
It's been seven years that I been single going on eight I took time out for God and me trusting God In My singleness. I am trying to date now but I have started Fasting before hand to have discernment and guidance along the way. I have been praying that God be all up in my dating business Hallelujah
Great idea sis. I’m gonna try it. Fasting before dating for discernment
Pastor Jesus favor your life.pastor i knew that you fear the LORD
Pastor i have a.big vision coming for the world in Jesus name.holinss comes with a price
Omg I love you Spirit Dad RC Blakes Jr! Your reassurance to one of the ladies who just got away from a narcissist as you pointed to the screen and told her, ‘ I will be here celebrating with you as God continues to do many great things in your life’… brought tears to my eyes, God bless you over and over🙏
Talking about vision, I learned the questions to ask when dating from you Pastor. When my current boyfriend showed up, right from the very first day we met, he kept sharing his vision and passion. I once asked him what his dream is and he said "to be a man after God's heart and to be the greatest philanthropist". He picked me not because of my beauty(which he acknowledged) but he was more focused on values and what his wife can pass into his children. When he shared these with me, I was humbled.
So what became of it? 🤗
Give it time and see if he is really working towards that philanthropy
Wow. Thank God for your partner. Men like him are very hard to find. Cherish him. Your future husband
@@kholisaablejp .
I have been celibate for 10 years and I am loving it. I tell any man that I am waiting on my husband. I love your key points. I am divorced but have learned a lot in my 55 years. I don't want potential. Thanks Pastor.
You hit the needle right on the head with #5. This is exactly where I messed up!! I cried in front of a guy that I was dating for several mths, and I regret doing it to this very day.
If you where with a man a few months and you cry and from there on it goes down hill, it also means he was not a man who is atuned to care for a womens emotions and feelings, hurt and so on.
This men are handicaped. They do not change either.
It’s okay sweetheart. Lesson learned never let any mascara run down again unless you’re in the altar 😉.
I have been gathering data for years...about to write my book. 😂 Lol 🤓 (I divorced my chronically unfaithful spouse of 24 years of marriage in 2005. All Forgiven. I have not seriously dated anyone since 2009. ) I have been celibate going on 12 years, honoring God and waiting well. However, this current season of COVID-19 pandemic, racial, social and political unrest has drawn me deeper and closer to Christ. As a result I have been re-framing what’s truly important dear pastor, and that’s the Great Commission. Lost souls are MORE important to me than having a man or husband. I am all about KINGDOM AGENDA instead of my own. So, I applied to go FULL-TIME on the mission field. Please keep me in your prayers as I prepare to serve - most likely next year in either Africa or Asia. (Been to both before on short-term mission trips) 💕😇 I am grateful for ALL of my life experiences. I immensely enjoy your sage teaching and timely shared life skill nuggets. You are indeed a treasure and needed voice to the beautiful sisters in our world. Keep shining & Stay the course! 🙏🏽🎶🙌🏾🥰
God bless 🙏 and sister God bless you on your journey 🙏 pastor is a blessing i listen to all his teachings
Oh wow!!! That is SO wonderful! May God richly bless you in your endeavors for His sake! I know He will!
Kiesha Lawrence 💕🙏🏽Thank you dear sister. May God continue to bless and enrich your life. Stay prayed up & Stay the course! Our Abba Father is indeed a Waymaker, Miracle-Worker, Promise Keeper and Light in the darkness! 🎶😇 Trust and abide in Him and watch for the amazing! 🌷🌻💐 Thank you too for your prayers! Much appreciated.🙏🏽
Robin Dear , yes He will! 🌷 I am looking forward to the continued journey He has me on. Thank you most kindly for your prayers and blessings. May God’s favor and anointing be upon you as you walk in alignment with His will for your life. Jesus adores you! Remember this ALWAYS! 💐💕😁
@@taylorwilliams1974 Have you narrowed down which missions organizations you'd like to work with? I like Wycliffe Bible Translators, Operation Mobilization, and WEC.
Never financially invest in him period, not just his business!
Got That Right!!!!!!
Damn right.
AMEN! NEVER
you better shut up & come on with it 👋
Bishop, you are such a blessing to be ministering to women🙏🏽🙏🏽
I want a kingdom man because I’m a queen. I refuse to date anyone at the moment because I’ve been reborn and rebirthed through God. I am working on myself during this season. I will be sent my kingdom man during dating. Like Pastor Blake’s has mentioned. I will keep my legs closed. Until then I’ll wait. Been there done that I’m not in any rush.
Amen☀️
Can u imagine the lies we were told about testing the waters. What nonsense
@@wixielane8513 I'm sure broken, damaged, and unsaved men came up with that for their benefit. Women got to think for themselves. Unfortunately low self esteem, and a lack of knowledge have led to poor decisions.
Yea they did come up with that so sad
I feel you dear💕