I surround myself with lots of prayers and calmness and they disappear from my life eventually the enemy can be the person closest to you the one that you love and care for ❤
Enemies around me are those jealous people. I passed them though I am their junior. They tried to bully me but I am very thankful of my seniors who supported me in any way and in anytime. ❤❤❤
Evidently you've never been in a situation because ignoring is the last thing that you could possibly do. I was just in a situation And honestly I don't know how I end up getting out of it because this guy had put on gloves and everything. But I already know if something like this happens again i'm going to start carrying for sure
@@tonyphills6075Life in general is a TASK and when you give them a response your ENEMY begins to enjoy himself or herself because your the one who gave them the PERMISSION Be strong courageously with a SMILE have DIGNITY about your own self INTEGRITY is a POWERFUL word which RADIANTLY appeases everyone 🌹
This can especially apply with a hater at work who is threatened by you. If there is someone at work who treats you unkind and with hate for no purpose of your own, doing these things and more can shift things in your favor. I am personally applying these tactics now and they work. Here's more of what I do and have learned that works: Always smile. No matter the circumstances, the hater need to see that you are unbothered even if inside you are. The hater need to get out of your way. You do not get out of their way. In other words, don't shrink down to a mere version of yourself in their presence. They need to see your head held high and you functioning as your usual high level engaging self Speak to them say hello. Then ignore them for the rest of the day. They do not exist outside of a formal greeting--- and you don't ever greet them by name. Not ever. They mean nothing to you and nor does their name. These tactics beat them at their hate of you for no reason. This happens alot at work, especially among women, regardless of age or education.
@@misterjahbless Apply them to your situation and see it it helps. Many times when these haters are defeated by your strength and strong work ethic they usually resort in slandering you throughout the workplace and even going to other staff speaking negatively about you to isolate you. These are clear signs of jealousy if this occur. There are a whole set of circumstances and tactics if it has reached this far.
How....? Iam facing the situation im my hostel roommates.. There's a girl she thinks she's the one.. Trying to rule.. Other 2 roommates being with her.. Iam fighting alone 😭 really don't want to lose before her.. She's characterless person i ever seen... How can I handle
I don't have enemy's i am loving every one that y i got stuck in my life all ways people are making trouble for me but not going to fight with them always God punish them I saw so many things in my life I have good experience kindness people all ways alone thanks sir 🙏
You are singing my song! My continued successes while living apart on my own and independently from those who hurt me only proves that I don't need them.
Don't thrive off of the acceptance of others. Be strong and find that inner strength. When you rely on others to lift you up you'll be disappointed every time. That's why step 2 or whatever one that this video said to do is a BUST! Don't ever rely on others in any situation. Being silent is important but for the best results be content with yourself and give it to God. You got this. YOU alone got this!
No one is my enemy in my life...i forgive everybody in my life.....I'm got no more grudges against anybody in my life....if people think I'm bad they will leave....if they think I'm still lovable they will stay....i cannot compel everyone to be like me.....I'm calm and happy....I'm at peace...god is with me....i trust God 🙏
0:06 1. Stay calm. Don't let your enemies see you upset. 0:30 2. Look them in the eye. Do your best to make and hold eye contact. 1:15 3. Team up with trusted allies. You're more likely to defeat an opponent if you outnumber them. 1:55 4. Build yourself up instead of bringing them down. Disappoint them by being the bigger person. When you lash out at your enemies, it shows that they've gotten to you--which means they've won.
Your enemy will always see you with evil eyes but when you see him just smile. Your enemies can't destroy your future not even they can end your life. With "these poisoned words nothing will hurt you because when someone hurts you be confident because the arrow or a sword can't hit a powerful person it may be broke easily" ❤
When I was a youth growing up, I played the Cornet, & Trumpet, gained grade 5 with distinction. My dad had a short temper, and would belt ne or hit me hard, I said if you hit me again, I will hurt you so much . I think he knocked me out. I didn't, play another Musical note Never spoke to him again. One night I heared such deep sobbing, and crying, asked mom what's going on, she said you have broken your dad's heart❤❤. And you know what. I DID THAT without laying one finger on him.
I’m finally retired now, but I have vivid recollections of the people I’ve encountered through my 43 years in the medical profession, let me be completely frank here folks, medical professionals are the most cuckoo-cuckoo individuals In many ways (not everyone of course) Which brings me back to a very favorite quote from Mark Twain...”The better I get to know people, the more I love my dog.” And you know something? he was right there. 🎯 PS: Tis is directed to all the bullies, the trouble makers, obnoxious Doctors that make nurses cry with their antics, the gossipers and backstabbers. (guess I covered a chunk of traits of the human race there)
If you do not want to be on the wrong side and want to go to hell....together with the many, unsuspecting moving forward on the broad way, finding "a bunch of people" (reasonably quick) becomes impossible to do in this world.
No need for an ally to defeat an enemy! You alone is strong enough to face one. People around you has nothing to do with your own battles. No need to find sanctuary nor find people that will empathized with you. You are not fighting like going into war you are fighting for your truth.
It doesn't matter how well it you handle yourself against a bully, when they are a sociopath who turns all the dumb people against you there's nothing you can do.
In this case it is only God who sees all things who can rescue you. I understand what you said cos I have experienced it before. I suffer!! I survived by the grace of God
The person is not my enemy the devil Is my enemy. He’s simply using them to come against me & they don’t realize it. It’s time we go after the puppeteer and not the puppet. If you simply beat up the puppet, the hand will find another puppet. Go after the puppeteer and eliminate the problem. This is what I’m trying to do. 🇨🇦
But that last part, you’re right, success is the best revenge by being better and focusing on your life, you defeat, your enemies a lot more you pretty much make them seem meaningless and you’re better than them. That’s actually the best kind of revenge. Best kind of success
If you're really want to get them you got to stay calm you got to make a very detailed plan you got to execute your plan with precise timing and then a quick extraction. Anything else is just talk and chatter and yep yep yep yep yep that's all it is
I knew a guy who had a problem with the world because the world always seemed to have a problem with him. He ended up shooting himself in the heart. I was one of his pallbearers. When we put him the ground, all I could think was at least he wasn’t angry at the world anymore. And now the world finally had to leave him alone. I think his enemies won.
Also accept that your enemies exist naturally without you really having done anything all that unique to earn them. They were already there, simply waiting to become hostile towards you because you had the gall to exist in the same space as them/looking or talking at them the unapproved way/having traits or quirks that they don’t appreciate/etc. It’s business as usual. Apply everything told in the video and move along your own daily routines.
This is very true. I suffered this from a so called head of unit at a former job. It was terrible! She hated me for nothing so I realized it was envy. She had issues with a whole lot of people in the office space. She doesn't talk to a number of people, always fighting. She loved to bully others all the time... Hmm, I suffered in her hands. But my God rescued me. My good human relation alone kills her cos she doesn't have it. I thank God for saving me from such a toxic woman of a head of dept.
When anyone is bullying me i will say only one line sorry i can't listen human voice 😑 and just ignored after what they bully me or anything after that i will stay calm😶
A man who remains calm when he is provoked, is a dangerous man.
@EYRM9 I don't think good about god because I just saw your comment.
@EYRM9 I don't think good about god because I just saw your comment.
Being calm in every situation was a dangerous weapon
Fruitbeast? Is that a gay pun? Sounds kinda gay.
I surround myself with lots of prayers and calmness and they disappear from my life eventually the enemy can be the person closest to you the one that you love and care for ❤
I dun have enemies it's their own thinking which I can't change
Actually that's the only way tho he didn't mention it
This message is very true
Fully correct
Prayers come from the root word to prey, ask yourself what preys? Hunters prey on the weak.
Karma wins last and Karma is on my side
God wins. Get God on your side, as it is written, if God is for us, who could be against us. God bless!
@@justme-cj7rswell said. 😇
Nobody gets out without facing karma
Enemies around me are those jealous people. I passed them though I am their junior. They tried to bully me but I am very thankful of my seniors who supported me in any way and in anytime. ❤❤❤
When facing an enemy show them that you are confident about the situation Silence is the best remedy 👍just ignore and continue your Life ❣️
@@ravenone6255lol
But internally we are triggered
@@Blessedhappygood Your enemy wants you to get triggered that's their plans RESILIENCE COURAGE is the REMEDY Let them see their own IGNORANCE 👍
Evidently you've never been in a situation because ignoring is the last thing that you could possibly do. I was just in a situation And honestly I don't know how I end up getting out of it because this guy had put on gloves and everything. But I already know if something like this happens again i'm going to start carrying for sure
@@tonyphills6075Life in general is a TASK and when you give them a response your ENEMY begins to enjoy himself or herself because your the one who gave them the PERMISSION Be strong courageously with a SMILE have DIGNITY about your own self INTEGRITY is a POWERFUL word which RADIANTLY appeases everyone 🌹
1. Stay Calm.
2. Look them in the Eye.
3. Team up with Allies
4. Build yourself up. Living best life. Self care.
5.
The actual enemy in the material world is your own mind ...
@@karlriegler1704animals aren't our enemy
@@karlriegler1704-people who are jealous.
And what they are one of the family friend directly looking at their eyes can make the situation more worse.
Thanks for sharing this
God is the weapon against an enemy and silence which is Gold.
can i tell u something?? Gold, has Gods name in it, must be the reason why he uses it in Heaven.
This can especially apply with a hater at work who is threatened by you.
If there is someone at work who treats you unkind and with hate for no purpose of your own, doing these things and more can shift things in your favor. I am personally applying these tactics now and they work.
Here's more of what I do and have learned that works:
Always smile. No matter the circumstances, the hater need to see that you are unbothered even if inside you are.
The hater need to get out of your way. You do not get out of their way. In other words, don't shrink down to a mere version of yourself in their presence. They need to see your head held high and you functioning as your usual high level engaging self
Speak to them say hello. Then ignore them for the rest of the day. They do not exist outside of a formal greeting--- and you don't ever greet them by name. Not ever. They mean nothing to you and nor does their name.
These tactics beat them at their hate of you for no reason.
This happens alot at work, especially among women, regardless of age or education.
Smile mostly when your heart is actually open.
Very true indeed, have been experiencing these kind of problems at work
Man you are on point! Face this every day!
@@misterjahbless Apply them to your situation and see it it helps. Many times when these haters are defeated by your strength and strong work ethic they usually resort in slandering you throughout the workplace and even going to other staff speaking negatively about you to isolate you. These are clear signs of jealousy if this occur. There are a whole set of circumstances and tactics if it has reached this far.
@@akanisilikucali1718 So many of us do. Its a shame people do this to one another, especially at work. Hopefully, these tips can help you? 🙏
This helped me alot my enemy is crying right now
Wow😊 Praise God
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
How
😂😂😂like seriously
How....?
Iam facing the situation im my hostel roommates.. There's a girl she thinks she's the one.. Trying to rule.. Other 2 roommates being with her.. Iam fighting alone 😭 really don't want to lose before her.. She's characterless person i ever seen... How can I handle
I don't have enemy's i am loving every one that y i got stuck in my life all ways people are making trouble for me but not going to fight with them always God punish them I saw so many things in my life I have good experience kindness people all ways alone thanks sir 🙏
Then you are hypocrate nodoubt
If they are doing wrong defeat them or else they will trouble other innocents
Its not possible
More Blessings for your kindness 😊🙏
Very good ....god will take care of u ur life will good always.
I'm am fearce I am unstoppable, with the truth and facts, nothing else compares
"PRAYER ... IS THE BEST ABOVE ALL!"♡
I pray and God leads me into the successful happy life that He wants for me. A life without those jealous angry family members who want me to fail.
Prayer is a waste of fkn time.
@@paulleckner8235Tskkk Tskkk Sad Reality 😢. Sometimes friend or other is more better than hmmm tskkk tskkk..
Anyway Good luck to you. Godspeed.
Prayer and action prayer alone is only talking to yourself.
I forgive them and don't hold a grudge against them. However, I learn from what they did or said to me and I don't forget it.
You are singing my song! My continued successes while living apart on my own and independently from those who hurt me only proves that I don't need them.
@@paulleckner8235 Good for you. Good luck to you.
Bingo
stay calm is the most importend. Dont just react, think instead.
overthinking is bad for health tho all the time. So react .Sometimes best to react n sometimes best is to say nothing
Don't thrive off of the acceptance of others. Be strong and find that inner strength. When you rely on others to lift you up you'll be disappointed every time. That's why step 2 or whatever one that this video said to do is a BUST! Don't ever rely on others in any situation. Being silent is important but for the best results be content with yourself and give it to God. You got this. YOU alone got this!
Thank you.
Very well said. I have problem with my family putting me down and my heart gets sore. I will take your advise. God bless.💙
Lot of them their jealous of me because God bless me every day ❤
Really Tskkk woohhhhhh. So sad to know that..
share love
True
No time for bullies keep walking let them move along elsewhere
No one is my enemy in my life...i forgive everybody in my life.....I'm got no more grudges against anybody in my life....if people think I'm bad they will leave....if they think I'm still lovable they will stay....i cannot compel everyone to be like me.....I'm calm and happy....I'm at peace...god is with me....i trust God 🙏
0:06 1. Stay calm. Don't let your enemies see you upset.
0:30 2. Look them in the eye. Do your best to make and hold eye contact.
1:15 3. Team up with trusted allies. You're more likely to defeat an opponent if you outnumber them.
1:55 4. Build yourself up instead of bringing them down. Disappoint them by being the bigger person. When you lash out at your enemies, it shows that they've gotten to you--which means they've won.
You let God take care of them. Vengeance. Is mine saith the Lord.
THERE IS NO GOD . . .
Very good advice and that's what I have done to my enemies and for if someone comes to me and start telling me about them I just keep quiet
That's basically true. Staying calm is remaining positive. Watching all the way from Vanuatu
Thank you for this important information.
Your enemy will always see you with evil eyes but when you see him just smile. Your enemies can't destroy your future not even they can end your life. With "these poisoned words nothing will hurt you because when someone hurts you be confident because the arrow or a sword can't hit a powerful person it may be broke easily" ❤
Nice tips.. Enemy always negative person till die...so be cool and try the best...
It is written, we must endure to the end
When I was a youth growing up, I played the Cornet, & Trumpet, gained grade 5 with distinction. My dad had a short temper, and would belt ne or hit me hard, I said if you hit me again, I will hurt you so much . I think he knocked me out. I didn't, play another Musical note Never spoke to him again. One night I heared such deep sobbing, and crying, asked mom what's going on, she said you have broken your dad's heart❤❤. And you know what. I DID THAT without laying one finger on him.
you are shameless 🙄
Looking people in the eye is the main one
I’m finally retired now, but I have vivid recollections of the people I’ve encountered through my 43 years in the medical profession, let me be completely frank here folks, medical professionals are the most cuckoo-cuckoo individuals In many ways (not everyone of course)
Which brings me back to a very favorite quote from Mark Twain...”The better I get to know people, the more I love my dog.” And you know something? he was right there. 🎯
PS: Tis is directed to all the bullies, the trouble makers, obnoxious Doctors that make nurses cry with their antics, the gossipers and backstabbers. (guess I covered a chunk of traits of the human race there)
A great leader and a great speaker
Hello swapang how's your day hehehe 😁
Thank you sir for your beautiful advice.. I have learned a lot sir..
Thank you! I needed this. I knew that ridiculing myself wasn't the case, and I'm glad I didn't react ❤.
Don't waste time and effort making enemies. Make money, instead.
Some enemies just come out of the blue, especially those you trusted and family members.
Enemies are not made
@@xolisile34yea u trusted them so much but in the end they'll backstab you and leave you
I bet you’re broke af…
❤
Staying away from toxic people is the best thing you can do for yourself, and just ignore them completely as if they do not exist 😊
Thanks sir I will definitely use some of this
The perfect revenge is to forgive and be confident. That's my line.
really? im dealing with a psycho sis is it ok to just forgive?
Thank you Sir for your
most precious psychological concern on how to defeat the enemies. God bless your channel and you. Amen
It is so truth my friend you are so smart
Very true and leave them alone good things 😊
All these things work very well. Some people can jate u for no reason
Those types of people hate themselves
Very true. Somehow the state of mind is not ok l giuess😁
THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL MESSAGES I HAVE EVER LISTENED TO. IT'S PHENOMENAL..!!!
EXCELLENT VIDEO. We need more videos like these. Anything to stop anger, hate, shootings, etc.
Stay clam, don’t give them the satisfaction, look them in the eye, Smile..
The video is great! Tips like staying calm and finding allies are really helpful for dealing with bullies. Thank you for sharing!
All you need is #3. Having a bunch of people taking your side is hands down the best. You don't even have to be on the right side of the dispute.
If you do not want to be on the wrong side and want to go to hell....together with the many, unsuspecting moving forward on the broad way, finding "a bunch of people" (reasonably quick) becomes impossible to do in this world.
Love it ,exactly what I'm doing,thanks
Love resist hate. Hate resist love.
Be friend first , not be enemy first.
No need for an ally to defeat an enemy! You alone is strong enough to face one. People around you has nothing to do with your own battles. No need to find sanctuary nor find people that will empathized with you. You are not fighting like going into war you are fighting for your truth.
Violence is also a very effective technique
but you can end up in prison...if you get caught ;-)
😂😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It doesn't matter how well it you handle yourself against a bully, when they are a sociopath who turns all the dumb people against you there's nothing you can do.
In this case it is only God who sees all things who can rescue you.
I understand what you said cos I have experienced it before. I suffer!! I survived by the grace of God
@@lindaesmeradaSame
@lindaesmerada You can turn to God in prayer. God will fight for you as you rely on Him one day at the time ✊🙏🙏🙏🙏
YES I BELIEVE AND I HAVE FAITH IN GOD.
That's The Best thing that we can do specially in the time's of difficulties and troubles. Don't lose Faith.
Thank you very much my dear mother universe.
👌🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I'll give you one. The only one "pray".
There is not better weapon.
My Mom told me that the BEST way to get back at people that have WRONGED you is to be successful......
good advice
The person is not my enemy the devil
Is my enemy. He’s simply using them to come against me & they don’t realize it. It’s time we go after the puppeteer and not the puppet. If you simply beat up the puppet, the hand will find another puppet. Go after the puppeteer and eliminate the problem.
This is what I’m trying to do.
🇨🇦
ULTIMATE ONE ...😅 THANK YOU GREATEST DR. KALAM SIR. ALLAH MUST GRANT YOU THE JANNAT 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲
THERE ARE NO "ENEMIES "........THERE IS ONLY YOU
There's both actually. But dealing with ourselves is harder
@@Blessedhappygood ONE IS NOT DEALING WITH OTHERS........ONE IS ONLY DEALING WITH ONE'S OWN SELF.....
@@glenoneill3950 that is true actually
PUTTING ON THE FULL ARMOUR OF GOD AND KEEPING IT ON 💯 SPEAKING LIFE LIVING THE WORD OF GOD OUT IN MY ACTIONS DAILY IN JESUS NAME AMEN 💯 💛 🙏🏼
The sword of the spirit and the breastplate of righteousness.
Silent people you can teach them BUT YOU CANNOT MANIPULATE THEM NOR DECEIVING 😢
Very good and yesssss best method
This helped me a lot thanks that I am not alone.Carry on bringing more advises Thank yu
Thank u so much ❤❤ I find myself following these all rules in the present 😊
Thank you God❤
Thsnks friend .Best wishes and good bye .
Tnk u for this powerful video i did once probably do it again for my new journey
Eye to eye contact is great.
Great, thanks for the marvelous advice or teaching.
But that last part, you’re right, success is the best revenge by being better and focusing on your life, you defeat, your enemies a lot more you pretty much make them seem meaningless and you’re better than them. That’s actually the best kind of revenge. Best kind of success
“do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?”
~ Abraham Lincoln~
But some people never change
Oh my God *top 10 worst potus ever * Forgave the Confederacy then he is killed *January 1,1866 KKK is born &his VP was an awful guy 😮
If you're really want to get them you got to stay calm you got to make a very detailed plan you got to execute your plan with precise timing and then a quick extraction. Anything else is just talk and chatter and yep yep yep yep yep that's all it is
Yes, they would like to make what they wish for.
Peace of mind is the biggest wealth.If you have peace of mind,nothing bothers you.🙏
Thanks your advice Sir ❤❤❤🎉😊 and thanks also your reading❤😇🥰
I knew a guy who had a problem with the world because the world always seemed to have a problem with him. He ended up shooting himself in the heart. I was one of his pallbearers. When we put him the ground, all I could think was at least he wasn’t angry at the world anymore. And now the world finally had to leave him alone. I think his enemies won.
Thanks brother i hope god helps you and blesses you
Thanks for yr video it is helpful.
Amen! I am unstopable!
Good advice does it work in 3rd world countries?cultural lingual. Differences could have opposite effect😢
God is in my corner the biggest army
Also accept that your enemies exist naturally without you really having done anything all that unique to earn them. They were already there, simply waiting to become hostile towards you because you had the gall to exist in the same space as them/looking or talking at them the unapproved way/having traits or quirks that they don’t appreciate/etc. It’s business as usual. Apply everything told in the video and move along your own daily routines.
Thank you for your kind words
Thank you. Very helpful.
.....SIG....Silence is golden 😇
Thanks i really needed these suggestions this moment.
AMEN 🙏 BIG TIME 🙌🏾💪🏾👑💝✌🏾💯‼️
Miss you Abdul Kalam😢
We miss you too Abdul Kitab. Hehehe 😂
Very true good quote. Thank you
Perfectly Said... 👍👍👍👍👍
Love this 🙏
oh i love this i learn something thank yuo...
No one's advice or wisdom is valuable...only gods wisdom...🙏☮️❤️❤️☮️🙏
Yes! You got it! Instinct = truth (gods wisdom). Man made wisdom is a fraud.
@@mirailieva8849 I know...I can live more peaceful relying on gods wisdom.....never a wrong decision
One strong trait of a bully's downfall......weakness 💯
People that hate you for no reason are simply ENVIOUS of you. Their hatred ( envy) lets you know you are better than them. It’s flattery. Enjoy it!
This is very true. I suffered this from a so called head of unit at a former job. It was terrible!
She hated me for nothing so I realized it was envy.
She had issues with a whole lot of people in the office space. She doesn't talk to a number of people, always fighting. She loved to bully others all the time...
Hmm, I suffered in her hands.
But my God rescued me.
My good human relation alone kills her cos she doesn't have it.
I thank God for saving me from such a toxic woman of a head of dept.
Excellent points I do follow always 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
This is very helpful
Thank you🙏🙏🙏
Very informative and educative
*ANGER & NEGATIVITIES HATE BEING DENIED AND LEFT ALONE!!!*
*THAT'S WHY MEDITATION AND SILENCE IS EXTREMELY POWERFUL!!!*
Wow love ❤️ love your quote ❤
When anyone is bullying me i will say only one line sorry i can't listen human voice 😑 and just ignored after what they bully me or anything after that i will stay calm😶
I faceing bullies in school, thank you so much for this video❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊
Yes it's true sir.