Are You Deep Conditioning Wrong?! | Deep Conditioning 101 for Natural Hair
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COUSINNN! A lot of you guys asked in my last video for a Deep Conditioning video in the "101" series, so HERE YOU GO! This video is a little longer than I wanted it to be but I wanted to make sure I covered all your questions about my deep conditioning practices.
* My PRIMARY (first choice) for moisture: 2:30
* Incorporating Oils: 3:30
* Surface Conditioner 4:10
* Favorite MOISTURE Deep Conditioners: 7:55
* Favorite STRENGTH Deep Conditioners: 12:35
How To Read Product Ingredients For Silicones/Sulfates:
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Hair Details
Wash and Go
Co-Wash: Not Your Mother's Naturals Tahitian Gardenia Flower & Mango Curl Defining Conditioner
Deep Conditioner: www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01...
Leave-in: www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00...
Styler: www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00...
Other Products Mentioned:
Aunt Jackie's Soft & Sassy GIRLS Super Duper Conditioner
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FAQs
- I'm from Alabama
- My name is AMBER, not Mary lol Hair Mary is play on a song by my favorite artist, Tupac.
- I DO NOT HAIR TYPE. My hair is Curly/Fine/Low Porosity
- I've been natural for a total of 22 years, but I did have a relaxer for about 4 years. - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
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Before yall go crazy in these comments 😂 Let me just clarify... I KNOW Olive Oil can be a penetrating oil. For MY FINE HAIR... it does not work. It is too heavy so a lot of naturals prefer to use this as a sealant. Just because an oil CAN be used as something, doesn't mean it will work for your hair. This is why you just have to do trial and error and see what works for you 😘
Hair Mary My hair is the same way with olive oil. It makes my hair feels heavy and weighed down.
Raven Black yess and I tried like it so much.
Absolutely, I agree! I love Extra Virgin Olive Oil for my hair-- but my hair HATES Coconut oil... It makes it dry! Thnx for sharing with us! xo-dbj
Hair Mary I doubled checked before posting. Olive Oil has some penetration but not as much as other oils so you are right. Sciencye-y Hair blog has a great post on the science of this. As well as a chart of oils with their penetration capabilities.
DaNi B. Jade My hair hates coconut oil too. It loves its cousin babassau.
"Are you deep conditioning wrong?" Hell, I probably am 😭😂
Jade 😂
😂😂 bye lol
😂😂😭
Girl. The disclaimer. People be so mad at me when I say anything about a product or my hair routine lmao. Like this works on my hair why are you mad 😩😩😩
Girl! lol I swear I've started to have to put those disclaimers in every video because the minute you mention ANY kind of product using it ANY kind of way somebody gone HAVE to comment and correct you or tell you how you "should' use it. 😩 I be like just keep using what works for you, then! We talking about MY hair lol
Hazel Goddesss All the products that work for you works amazing on my hair as well
Hazel Goddesss the amount of people who come for me for saying I don’t like shea moisture or Cantu is ridiculous
If I want to boost my deep conditioner I add a tablespoon of honey to it and it makes my hair SO soft! I highly recommend it!
The silk elements conditioner is currently on clearance and BOGO at Sally's.
okay this is the third video in a row that I've watched of yours! i have to subscribe. i love your hair tips!
By watching your videos I discovered that I have low porosity hair. Went out and brought all new products and my hair is loving it! Thank you so much for your help. New subscriber
That 3 minute miracle is bae 😍😍 I have fine, medium/normal porosity hair and I D.C. With it for about 2 hours with no heat. Sometimes I don't even need to use a rinse out because it's just so bomb imo
Painted Confidence I love it too i have fine high porosity hair i need those cones...💜
I’m a recent subscriber. Building a regimen is so hard appreciate all these videos, thank you.
Oh bless! I have to agree with your opinion on olive oil-it doesn't penetrate as quickly as coconut oil and avocado oil but that's why I love it!!! Coconut oil leaves my hair hard and avocado oil doesn't make my hair as soft! Fav deep conditioner for strength is mane choice green tea and carrot deep strengthening and restorative mask
Love this video ! I discovered your page after the natural girl Facebook posting. I love the shea moisture mask and I also love the Carol's daughters almond milk mask. I have low porosity hair and it leaves it so moisturized. Try that one I think you'll like it ! It's a little expensive maybe $11 💓
Great info as usual. Congrats on hitting 50k!
Awesome video!! I will definitely try that silk element joint.....matter of fact, I'm on my way to Sallys now. $4 for deep conditioner that's good, uh I'm down. I absolutely adore you Hair Mary and Hazel Goddess....yall are my favs💕. Thanks for sharing the knowledge....
Yessss with the videos this week amber!!
Thank you for sharing.
I use the Aphogee 2-minute Reconstructor, to help strengthen and repair my damaged ends.
Other times I use my OGX Coconut Conditioner mixed w/organic honey. I will put on a plastic cap w/a heavy hat (scully, winter hat, etc.), and tie a silk or satin scarf to hold it in place overnight. It penetrates my hair shaft using natural body heat, similar to a thermal cap.
(No dryer required!)
I find it is healthier for my hair and I get little to no breakage.
These are great tips especially for fine natural hair. I especially loved your tip about only ever using one deep conditioner at a time. Being a product junkie is soooo easy in this world filled with new emerging natural hair companies so often!
I do like the Aussie 3 min Miracle, so far it doesn't seem to be doing anything negative to my hair. A new love is Shea Moisture Manuka Honey DC. I also like Hawaiian Silky Argan DC and Camielle Rose DC.
This was very informative. Thanks for sharing!
I love this channel, your awesome cousin!!
I do my hair twice a week also.
People are really cut up with this no silicone shit lol. Some people have been natural years and used shampoo and conditioners that contained these so called forbidden ingredients and their hair still grew. Just another way to suck all your hard earned cash.
It's not more expensive I find cheap natural products all the time I also had an aunt who got cancer from a sever attack from using products with silicones,parabens and chemicals . Think about it this way would you let a baby use this product. She died by the way and my family is known for being ingredient sensitive . And ask any skin doctor or health trainers natural is better
HippieDippie Aussie is bae and will forever be bae. I don't get a lot of build up but I also don't use gel on my wash and go's. I do understand that everyone hair is different but I just don't like spending a ton of money on products. So when I found that Garnier, Aussie and Herbal Essence products work for me and I can coupon them I have never looked back, lol.
Its also a health and allergy thing
for low porosity, issa no go
You put me on with Naturally Silk Elements. It is AMAZING. I stay on that bottom self at Sally's now! So affordable & moisturizing.
Yes! I had to learn to look on that bottom shelf! The be holding out!
Congrats on 50k subscribers!
people like to come on video like this and tell people how long to leave something on there hair or how to use it. if someone wants to let it set for a week so what. just because it doesn't work for you don't mean it doesn't work for other.
Shanell Pittman thank you like someone said in the comments women need to stop leaving deep conditioners in overnight and leaving deep conditioners in my hair overnight works really good in my hair I actually have some in my head now I don't understand some people 😕😂
vegetarian_life and bubbles lol exactly like imma still leave it in over night sooooooo
For real. 😂😂😭 Your hair is not everyone else's. Everyone's hair is different.
loco.for.coconuts 13 the important thing is pay attention to your hair. Mine absorbs most products because it's high porosity. Some people can do it and be fine. I have overconditioned in the past but almost never had issues with too much protein. Some people are the opposite. I overconditioned by leaving conditioner in too long and at those times didn't understand why other people would need to do that. We have to understand why things work a certain way and tailor it to our needs
HerMajestyBarebone I pray I have high porosity hair my relaxed and bleached hair is low porosity but my new growth seems to absorb everything 🤔
My 2 favorite deep conditioners are Shea Moisture super fruit complex and 2) manuka honey and mafura oil. Congratulations on 50k!
Virtue Within hows the shea moisture manuka honey and mafura oil on low porosity hair? Is it very moisturizing
I have a mixture of porosity, but I have heard from others with low porosity that it makes their hair VERY moisturized.
Great video! Your hair looks great!
Love your wash and go. TFS love!
I'm still on the hunt for an affordable deep conditioner. I need some major hair revival!
Thank you for sharing this video I will be trying to find that aunt Jackie soft and sassy deep conditioner 😍😊🤗and congratulations on reaching 50k 🎊🎉👏🏾👏🏾😍😍
Great video!!!!!! congrats on 50k 🎊🎊🎉🎉🎉🎉🔥🔥🔥✔✔✔ honestly I've tried the shea moisture African black soap mask and I really like it!!
Hi HM- Your deep condr video was vry vry helpful and vry informative. Thank U!
Congrats on reaching 50K!
Thx for the video! I’m learning a lot while binging on your vids! 😂. My all time favorites for DC are Shea Moisture Manuka Honey and Deva Curl Heaven in Hair. Learning about lo po natural hair is an education and then a process! Please keep the videos coming!
Your hair is soooo beautiful!
Girl! You know your stuff! I've been natural for 5 years and you schooled me today! I'm getting your deep conditioner today(not the kid one lol).
I love your channel!! Idk why but silicone works for my hair.
Hair is so poppin' in this video!!
I never used the Aussie 3 min miracle as a deep conditioner. I only use it as a detangler. My daughter has 4 c hair and it tangles quickly. Aussies 3 min miracle is amazing as a pre poo, then detangle then wash or cow ash then deep conditioner.
I love this introduction 😭❤️ ! Hail Mary !
Thanks for sharing, love your hair
Congratulations on 50k amber 💙 ur channel...😎
Your Hair looks so healthy and Beautiful! I wanted to ask how can u test ur hair to know if it is low porosity? I did a glass of water test and my hair stayed at top of the glass and didn't sink.
Thanks cousin, I needed to find an inexpensive deep conditioner.
Aveda dry remedy and dry remedy moisture is my go to. Moisture and protein.
Hey Amber, will you apply a regular conditioner after a deep conditioner. I saw where someone said to apply deep conditioner, rinse then apply a conditioner, rinse, then do a leave in conditioner. What are your thoughts on this.
COUSIN! COUSIN! I picked up that silk elements deep conditioner and giiirrrrllllll its bomb!!!! For 3.79 that size? Yes. Staple. Hidden gem! I dont really know how to read ingredients other than obvious ones so I dont know how to know if its a good or bad one unless theres a review on it already! But i know mineral oil, petroleum, silicones, sulfates and alcohols are bad except ceteryl in deep conditioners... anything else?? But girl! My hair feels bomb!!!!
Oop goes to blog post!
So since you stopped using the Aussie moist, do you still use it to detangling then you deep condition with another product or did you stop using Aussie all together?
Hey Cousinnn, Im having a hard time finding Naturally Silk Elements Deep conditioner. Ive been told its being discontinued. Is there another conditioner you would recommend other then Aunt Jessie or Shea Moisture in place of the silk elements brand. Thanks Cuz.
Love your hair!
Oh can you answer another question please? When you are replenishing your WnG the 2nd time in the week are you just water rinsing or co-washing then adding back your leave-in and gel? Do you have a video of what you do in a week with your WnG routine?
I know this might be a stupid question but can you use a rinse out conditioner then deep condition because my stylist suggested it to me i read that rinse out conditioner coat the hair and keeps the deep conditioner from penetrating so I don't know 🤷♀️
I have a question that may be silly to ask, but is it better to deep condition natural hair before or after shampoo in your opinion.
Thanks
I love you're makeup
KIMBERLY BOSS thank you little lady
Another question, do you change out your shampoo/conditioner also monthly too?
My favorites are Mielle Organics Babassu, and Jessie Curl Deep Treatment. If there's a good sale I might get Shea Moisture 10 in 1, or Manuka Honey. The Jessie Curl has been my fav moisturizing DC for a long time; probably 6+ years.
1GoldenBreeze love the mielle one too! I just feel like I never get enough because I'm soo heavy handed
sunflower child IKR, I wish they would start making a 12 or 16 oz jar. I always try to catch their BOGO sales.
Very interested in knowing what makes you switch up your deep conditioners every month? Seems like a good idea...just thought I would ask
Can you use the Shea moisture JBCO deep conditioner every week?
Love this video
Would you replace regular conditioner for Deep conditioner at least twice a week?
You look so gorgeous today 😍😍😍...... oh and that aussi moist 3 minute miracle did nothing for my hair. my hair laughed at that conditioner. i gave it away lol. 50k!!!!
I need to try this aunt jackie's deep conditioner because the soultanicals deep conditioner I got only lasted two uses for me and it was 16 dang dollars lol love this video
Bonita Pandora dang two uses and $16 , I know your pockets were crying lol . I was going to buy the soultanicals DC but you saved the Hassel :) I know you get what you pay for I just wish some of these company's would think it more better it should last few wash days .
I actually like auntie jackie's
is rice water good to use if ypur transitioning i started using and Right away i notice hair growth.
Hi cousin,,,,do you deep condition with every wash?
I'm a new subscriber so I missed out on all your videos but imma watch your videos to catch up but do you have low porosity hair?
Has anyone ever tried the Maui Moisture brand? I just got it because it was on sale and vegan, and so far, I like it.
I love that stuff
I like it to an extent but it feels kinda dry for me.
I love it...I only have the shampoo and conditioner...I wish they had a leave in conditioner...I have the green one
Just bought a trial size of the shampoo and conditioner with shea butter and coconut in it. Looking forward to testing it out. As well as the Ever Curl shampoo and conditioner I picked up as well. Never used a curly hair shampoo before. So should be interesting.
I'm gonna be trying the aussie deep conditioner for the first time on my next wash day. Been ignoring it for years.
I'm loving these vids!!!!!!! I don't have IG so I'm missing good vids. I guess I need to create an account 😩
Sarekhi Bailey SAME! Lol😩
Love your video! Hair twin
Thanks for sharing love
Deep conditioners are expensive now. I use to use to cheap packets of deep conditioners and I still use them at time because my hair looked great afterward. I just started using shea moisture jbco strength &restore treatment masque it really like it at first was like idk. I use it like crazy now. I recommend people deep conditioner with heat or a Jt shower with that product.
Questions!🙋🏽🙋🏽 Do you have any videos focusing on natural hair and sleeping? Or do you know of any?? I did a big chop this year and I'm noticing that my hair on the side I normally sleep on is a lot less thick and lush than the side I don't normally sleep on, which I get much better results from on a wash and go. I had no clue this was a thing for my hair until I cut it. I know the obvious response would be to sleep on the other side🙄. It's not as easy as it seems😏.... Also, my hair is low porosity as well. With some products, during my wash and go, I get a white film on my hair. I can even feel it. It happens mostly with Miss Jessie's gel, but I'm loving the results when I let it air dry completely. Can the film be damaging my hair??
What you're talking about with you hair is actually very common. Have you ever seen babys with that "bald spot" in the back of their head because they sleep on their backs? Same thing. Are you sleeping on a satin pillow care or using a satin bonnet? If so... try incorporating an oil like JBCO to help aid in strengthening your hair and promoting more hair growth in that area.
The white film is just build up or excess product. This is common with lop-po hair because our hair can't absorb all the product we put on it to define our curls. It cant technically "hurt"... but make sure you're clarifying at least 1x per month and shampooing with a sulfate free shampoo regularly to keep that build up from blocking moisture.
Hair Mary this is amazing advice thank you!!! I am sleeping with a bonnet, but I will incorporate the oil. Should I put it on at night when I'm sleeping?
Les C Yeah oil before sleeping is fine. I use this hair growth oil during the week. I just use a Satin Pillowcase, no bonnett because I haven't found the right one.
Thank you for the hair gems sis! Lastly (sorry about all the questions), clarifying and shampooing are two separate things? I know there are clarifying shampoos so I thought that was the same as shampooing lol🤷🏻♀️
thank u 😀 for the info🌷❤️
And ladies need to stop leaving deep conditioners in overnight. You are not going to get any more benefits after 45 mins!!!!
Everybody's hair is different. I notice a big difference if I don't deep condition overnight.
N Rob have you ever tried using it with heat or steam to shorten your routine?
nwsupernova Yes, I have. My hair just responds better to overnight deep conditioning. It has worked well for me for years now. My hair is extremely healthy.
N Rob 🤔 I'm interested.
I used to sleep in conditioner a long time ago because of my schedule & used to wake up with itchy scalp. Think I may give it ago again since it was so long ago
nwsupernova I never have any issues as long as it isn't protein. I only made that mistake one time. My hair was angry after that one. I learned my lesson.
I love your hair where are you from? you sound like you from the South (I'm from the south-Louisiana) also new subscriber:)
Am I first? Never been this early. Hey gurl!
candlesandcarnage heyyy cousinnnn 😘
This is totally unrelated to the video but I know you're a huge Tupac fan. I'd love to hear your thoughts on Kendall and Kylie's tee shirts.
I heard about it, but I honestly didn't even feel no kind of way because that is what they do. Appropriate our culture and act dumb while doing so. Neither of them can probably name 3 songs from either of those men so its whatever.
My daughter's hair loves that Aunt Jackie's
How often do you shampoo ???
How do you get your hair to lay down. Bc i have thicc curly hair and I normally wet it, then twist it and my hair in the front always goes up and out creating like an afro look sum what.
Charisma Roberson you may need to do the front in smaller sections
your hair is so beautiful color n define
Yvonne Caddell thank you!
I understand your videos but my question is what if you have just cut off permed ends and attemp WNG and while ur applying gel you have some curls but when it dries you have just an afro with no curls...
Sheena Burrows loc/lco method. Leave in conditioner is key
do you use a rinse out conditioner after shampooing but before the dc?
Talisa Bracy no I go straight in with my DC
Olive oil absolutely DOES penetrate the hair shaft...however, it is also a heavy enough oil to seal well too. ❤
😐😐😐 which is why I left that little disclaimer pinned to the top of the comment section. I know. But thanks, sis ...
Just out of curiosity what foundation and concealer are you wearing in this video? I'm not sure if it's the same as in other videos but I would like to purchase for myself.
I wanna hear your opinion/video on the new Tupac movie. I saw it first night and I know you said love him so I'm interested and hearing what you think on it
HairByPierre I saw it opening night as well and I did a mini review on my Instagram. Long story short. I thoroughly enjoyed it and took it for what it was. His life was not something that could be summed in 2 hours.
Hey girl. I went to Sallys today..3 of them and they don't carry the Naturally Silk line anymore. I even checked online and I don't see it. What happened to it? I am almost out and I wanted to get a backup.
I'm not sure I don't work for them lol I would just continue to check around maybe.
Hair Mary
I just wasn't sure if you knew of something because it's a fav of yours.
I was also giving you the heads up that it is discontinued.
Gotcha. Thanks for letting me know!
Now that you mention silicones 🤔 I do get hella build up on my scalp easily & couldn't understand why. I do use the 3 min aussie moist and who knows if the other products I use have it too 😩 definitely gonna be on the look out for that now.
Infiniti Williams I don't like Aussie Moist either, it just sits on my head. I'm going to give it away. Look for all natural products. They work way better & are better for your hair.
doThatGWalk I totally agree w/ you on the natural route. I already make my own toothpaste, deodorant, hair gel, etc. 🤔 I should've been aware of the ingredients in my hair products sooner than this lol but my hair was really acting up & had to look into why. Enough was enough 😤
Infiniti Williams Yeah it matters because what you put onto your scalp seeps into your brain & your bloodstream Look up this shop called Jakela on etsy.com & there is this goodhairgold or something site that I want to buy products from. They have an all natural chocolate deep conditioner. There are still a lot of good brands that are mostly natural like Oyein, Mane Choice, Alikay Natural, Jane Carter, Camielle Rose. Just check the labels. That's good you make your own toothpaste. I never done that before but I do use all natural no flouride toothpaste too.
doThatGWalk thank you for the suggestion ☺ I've shopped on etsy before so I'll be sure to check out that deep conditioner. I plan on transitioning to more natural products once I get this job. You're right about on how those things seep into our brain 😥 I want the best for myself. I'm also vegan 🙄 I will be strict w/ hair products like I am about making sure the foods I eat are vegan friendly 🙏
I have no prb with my hair growing because it is but the thing is it grows outwardly and not downwards.i need my hair to fall to my shoulders and not outwards and yes i got curls too.i dnt understand why.
Because we are the blessed ones. Our hair grows up towards the SUN, not down towards the dirt ❤️
Oh okay..hope i didn't offend u..def wasn't trying to..love all ur help/info u provide for us..
lol No! You didn't offend me. I just saw this being a reoccurring comment already so I needed to clarify that I meant for MY hair.
It's hard to convey everything you mean in a video and then you will get 50 corrections in the comments lol
Lmao I actually just started using Aussie 3 minutes miracle. I'm gonna pay attention to it make sure it don't dry my hair too fast but I am still learning how to keep sis both moisturized, and soft lmao
How do you know your hair is low porosity?...Or how can I find out if my hair is low or high porosity?...
Use the water in glass method. Fill the glass with room temperature water and put a hair string in it. It it float low porosity. If it sink to the bottom hight porosity. If it's in the middle it's normal porosity.
I‘ve noticed that my hair has deteriorated ever since I started ‘deep conditioning’ exclusively with the 3 Minute Miracle (Jojoba Oil) DC. It’s taken me a while, but I think this might the reason for my now constantly dry hair.
So yeah, I also don’t think it’s a deep conditioner at all - probably just a really good conditioner. Sigh.
I find out I'm allergic to Aussie, also have fine hair.
Gemini Love How did you find that out??
Clarify with shampoo and rinse, then use a deep condition and and apply leave in/detangling conditioner to comb through. My deep conditioners NEVER COST OVER $10. Africa's Best Olive oil Deep Conditioner; Also Profectiv Mega Growth.
Which hooded dryer do you use?
It was a really old one at the time of that video. Honestly, I don't recommend a specific kind.
Random but can you do a video on how you get your teeth so white?
lol thank you. I use different things every time and they all work. But right now I'm using the charcoal teeth scrub by carbon coco
Just a pro tip look at ingredients not labels brand make kids products to have consumers buying more spending more but most of times it have the same ingredients or similar ingredients it’s just marketing that’s all it is .
When company’s see that this particular market makes a lot of money they will join that market as well it’s business 101 so buy your products even it’s market towards kids .
do you know your hair type? because my hair is literally the same as yours and idk that much about hair categorizing lol and btw this was a very helpful video 😊 I subscribed instantly!!!
I dont hair type. But thank you!
I don't like the smell of the silk elements DC....Ima look out for that aunt jackies tho
the silk elements naturally products have been discontinued.
Hmm... I haven't had this problem. They're still on the shelves in my local area, so I guess I'll just keep stocking up until I see they aren't there anymore.
Hair Mary I still see them too but I had asked silk elements on their instagram
I called Sally Beauty to place an order and they said the same thing. Naturally Silk Elements products have been discontinued. So disappointing because it is such a great deep conditioner for moisture.
Ughhh 😤😤
I hate Aussie moist products...it makes my hair shed