Queer People Answer Questions You Are Too Afraid To Ask
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.ค. 2024
- "Is there a male G-spot?"
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Dan Rebello: @queer_rave
Aniruddha Mahale: @akneerude
Bidisha Mohanta: @thebidishamohanta
Farhad Karkaria: @theqr8r
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The worst thing I've heard " Asexuality doesn't exist, you haven't found the right person yet" and It pisses me off🖕
Ok Hydra
@Borderline Clown the problem with this troll analogy is that sexuality is not a pie. Stop comparing experiences to objects. But people do understand asexuality finally with your stupid comparison, here it is: In this world everyone is automatically assumed to be a pie lover, and there is no other option for dessert. Thus, even people who hate pie are counted as pie lovers. And this is very important, because society dictates how you are treated based on what flavour of pie you like. The section of that people don't want pie, but are still part of the world, create a cake flavoured pie, that is more suited to their tastes, but now, half the world is mad at them for not liking classic pie, and the other half for creating another flavour. You created labels for sexualities and made it a norm for everybody to have one, so we created a label for people who don't have one to still be seen in this world.
Welcome to my life. I am tired of hearing this.
@@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw exactly what Asexuals have been trying to get across to the world. Asexuality is a lack of sexuality. Thank you.
@@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw but there are people in this world who refuse to believe there can be a lack of sexuality, and undermine the experience, or rather, lack of it. Like you and your troll friend above.
OMG THERE'S ASEXUAL REPRESENTATION I HAVE NEVER BEEN HAPPIER
ASEXUALITY IS SO OFTEN ERASED IN LGBTQA+ DISCUSSIONS AND AS AN ASEXUAL PERSON, I'M SO HAPPY TO SEE THIS!!!
EDIT: THANK YOU FOR 666 LIKES Y'ALL!!
Especially asexuality in an Indian context. I feel like I'm in heaven!!!
@@ananyamukesh6104 IKR!!!!
U r an asexual?...how does it feel to be asexual?...tell me I m just curious
@Borderline Clown that's why its asexual bro, it literally means the stage where your not sexually attracted to anyone, your comment makes 0 sense-
I'm sorry if it's rude of me to ask but could you tell me what the I stands for in LGBTQIAAP?
The gaydar is SO real. I saw a pic of a girl I went to school with then had an inkling she was bi, went onto her twitter and I saw that her profile pic had the bi frame around it
Bi frame ????
Siddharth sen around her picture, there was a frame with the bisexual colors.
@@worldsbiggestholdthegirlfan what are the bisexual colors dude
Siddharth sen if you google search bisexual flag you can see, it is pink, purple, and blue
Hell yes it is!
It's their story to tell you, it is not your story to ask!!
Damn Aniruddh you are too good
or maybe you are easily impressed
@@respekmaauthoritah9089 and you seem to be easily triggered
"A ka matlab Ally nai hai sorry" I can't 😂😂
Loved that🙈
Ikr they showed us lmao
This other guy told me everyone is " asexual " until they get married / have sex. A Cis heterosexual male mansplaining what asexuality is to an asexual. Typical.
@@pretty948 ofcourse they were cis. Why so people with no knowledge on a subject think their opinion matters?
Ikr, they just said 'bye' 😂
I get misgenered all the time (was literally wearing a dress and heels and someone still called me sir). I also have a decent amount of social anxiety. These put together makes me never want to leave the house.
Maybe that's because you looked like a guy in a dress?
If you need anyone to talk to about it we'll be here. Hang in there, it'll get better
@@Al-fm8kh not helping -
@@rivertothemoon I mean how would you expect people to think otherwise especially in india? It's just the truth bro. If you look like a guy obviously people are gonna call you sir
@@Al-fm8kh true that, its hella disrespectful. I remember having short hair as a girl and getting called "dada" (a bengali term for older guys) by the lil kids, I was mad. But...you could have phrased it better? But I do get that you were stating facts
You know you are bisexual when you are in love with Aniruddh and Bidisha...at the same time🤟
pansexula may be
Bruh same
My bi is settling in fast
I am actually bisexual and the time I finally discovered this (after consulting some of my seniors) I was like out of a chain I was tied to cause all confusion just vanished. And presently I can openly get a crush and flirt with any boy or girl I want without questioning myself why do I like him/her
You mean singer aniruddh??
The guy in the denim jacket was hot af.. oh wait so was the girl in the blazer and the guy in the white shirt and the girl in the van gogh shirt. Lmao pansexuality taking over
I relate peepsss
Doctor Who Van Gogh episode shirt
@Gargee Basak bruhh this whole video is a thirst trap for Pans
And bisexuality tooo :" )
*guy in the vab gogh shirt. :) He identifies as a male, I'd assume from the mall episode he mentioned.
I love how Indians are slowly opening about it although there are disgusting homophobic people. But us educated ones are gonna support! Yaass!
The inner self needs to be educated. Getting academic degrees does not make us "educated" in the real sense.
@@thefactophilic3193 Bruh, that's the kind of education she meant
@@poojad6936 Thats what I am saying!
@@thefactophilic3193 Sorry, my bad.😅
@@poojad6936 Nice to see people saying "sorry" nowadays. Appreciate ya :)
What pisses me off the most is when people say "maybe this is just a phase" ...like no honey, being straight was a phase😒🙄
This comment section is so wholesome 🥰
That’s because TH-cam blatantly removes comments that oppose the POV shown in this video.
@@yadaKiKhula wait is that true?
@@hwauroraa_ yes. So many of my comments have been removed within seconds after they are posted. Then you need to write carefully some words so as to avoid getting detected by the algorithm to keep your comments intact.
0:58 "because that's what you deserve" lmaooo true tho
I am straight but bidisha makes me question my sexuality
The comment I was looking for.
You might be bi-curios 🙃
Try dating around haha
Uhm same here😬
Ikr, She's so attractive. Btw I'm straight too...or I think so.
@@sanskritipandey7415 it's okay to be confused at this point. 🤭
She even looks like a Wonder Woman 💜
Annirudha is a gem. ❤️.
buzzfeed india is doing such a good job, keep it up guys media is one of the main pillars of democracy, and representation is such an important thing. sending love from the bottom of my heart
I'm👏 so 👏 glad 👏 Indians 👏 are 👏 becoming 👏 accepting👏
This is what our Indian culture and religions have preached for Millenia. Acceptance of all different kinds of people!
Indeed 🤟🏻🤟🏻🤟🏻 our culture is so rich and the erasure of all these is due to British Raj
I'm ashamed of myself. I am a gay but can't generate gaydar . I'm afraid to ask someone out . Stupid me .😂
Me too friend. Me too.
Ughh same 😂
Same shit
Bruh calm down it's aight I'm kinda bad at it too people are diverse so it is kinda hard to point out lol
@@ishita4179 I am kinda happy that my gaydar is not "alive". 😂
All these pretty girls
_A Ka matlab Ally Nahi Hain _*_please sorry_*
Lol love your username dude
@BL Only looks like it's taehyung
@@akshada8623 straight people keep stealing my donuts bruh
@BL Only THATS TAEEE
Ayo Tae!!
Just a few days ago, A friend of mine saw some girl of our class with another girl making out in washroom and told our whole friend group. They're all suddenly kinda grossed out by her?? And it's pissing me off how they're making jokes about staying away from her and that she couldn't have been this type, she's so simple like tf people!? You don't even know about her completely and then doing this on top of that. I tried to put some sense in them and they think I'm abnormal....
People who think abnormality, in terms of such cases, exists are the people who don't have an understanding nature and will judge you jo matter what. It's disgusting how the people of your class behave but it could be because of their orthodox background, regardless you should know that there are people like me who fully support y'all and you should ignore any negativity that comes your way no matter what and heyo ARMY ❤️😂💪
girl i see you everywhere, lemme just subscribe
I'm just so happy that the comment section is filled up with positivity, unlike most of the time
1:47 damn im in love with her
I’m a girl and I shaved my head and too many times it has happen that when I’m going to the bathroom some lady says “it’s the girls bathroom” I know it is why the f else would I be here
Edit: turns out I’m a trans man lol
Girl, same!
I got told on the bus to go back to the men's section 'cause I shaved my head and dressed kinda androgynous.
my response literally would be ‘does it look like I got a dick dangling between my legs’
ANDROGYNOUS GANG RISE UP
Yk I'm gonna have short- short haircut to celebrate my coming-out-of-closet to my friends... Hope it will be smooth ✊
All the best :))
I'm so happy to see ace representation in indian media. "How does it feel to get misgendered" oof.. hits hard. That's why i always look like a non binary formless blob to confuse my sexuality to anybody who sees me. 😂
Formless blobs rise up
Armyyy
@@anjupanch2694 Armyyyyyyyy
non-binary ARMYs wya
@@soapmuncher3135 *SCREAMS IN aRMy* HEREEEEE~💜
ALSO! ALSO! ALSO!
Your username is such a facking mood 🥺💜
i really hope our generation is acceptable and humble to the lgbt community
I love that India is discussing these things
I’m so glad there’s all types of sexual representation on this channel! thank you thank you thank you!!! :D ❤️❤️
I would have loved it if Ally was a part of the acronym 😂(me being a proud one), but I'm not going to rain on your parade.❤🌈🌈
PS- Kudos on the asexual representation. As someone whose best friend is a cis-gendered asexual, it feels nice to know more about her through this video.
love you sm!!!
Dan is such an inspirational person!
The boy in the Van Gogh shirt......how is he so precious?! Especially when he talks about Gaydar, why is it so cute?!!
I loved that Doctor Who t-shirt 😻😻
Totally 😍😍😍
Doctor kon hai inhmese mujhe nahi dikha
Doctor who is the name of a British serial.
I basically did a double take and paused for a moment before screaming
The bases.. 😂
Epic!
Empathy is all we need
I'm in awe of how brave u all r to come out.
OMG the answer to the question "What is the best part of be queer" Made me cry, the answers everyone gave was so Beautiful. Yes indeed I agree. We can be ourselves. We don't have to pretend to be someone else . Love y'all everyone! 🏳🌈❤
The best line ' That we are embracing ourselves exactly the way we are '
The Doctor Who T-Shirt tho ✨♥
Yes, they are right! I have a friend who is like a sister to me and she herself admitted to me that she is bi; I never asked her about that but she herself has told me and I accepted her truth wholeheartedly ❤
@@virenmehra5998 yes I agree. But you don't worry cause there are many people out there who support lgbtq😊 so be who you are, no need to change yourself.
@@virenmehra5998 where do you live?
@@virenmehra5998 mention not 😊
@@virenmehra5998 oh I see. It's OK whatever your sexual preference is and I hope that your parents will understand you even if they are not very comfortable or familiar with these things. I wish you luck! ❤
"iT's jUsT a pHasE" *sure*
I'm a pansexual girl from West Bengal 👍🏼👍🏼
What does that actually mean?
@@Riteshkrpanda It means that I can fall in love with anyone irrespective of their gender . Like some people fall in love with only partners of opposite gender or same gender or both or anything else .....similarly I can fall in love with a person of any gender .
Be happy sis :3
@@rivertothemoon I am happy, thank u 😆
But my parents think that its a phase lol
When I came out to my mom she made a poker face and told me to go back to my room and study 🤣
@@simamandal5633 ohhh i see
I am so happy you guys included asexuality!
I missed you Aniruddha 😍❤😍❤
this is important!
It is lucky to have outspoken people like you to understand what humans are like, which is a thing that was not taught in Indian schools.
Sexual education is still considered not to be taught to students of schooling age. But thanks to social media, every person needs to know how we humans must live in harmony, irrespective of gender and personality.
By the way, Aniruddha's words hit me most emotionally. Kudos #Buzzfeed and #AniruddhaMahale
Love has no boundaries. Happy pride month my closeted and non closeted friends! 🏳🌈you are loved! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
1:19 Gaydar is actually an inborn talent
I agree that is indeed first base lol
No that was bs, can't make that generalization
I thought my gaydar worked amazingly so (with confidence) i ask a girl in my class if she knew what gaydar is and that it says its you
She - I don't know how to react but i am straight and thank you i guess
Me- (Regrets instantly, got conscious about being *CLOSETED* bi)
I'm bisexual and I'm afraid to tell my frds n parents...
I am also Bi hello from USA
@@kcrown364 I'm surrounded by HOMOPHOBIC PEOPLE 🥺
Are you male or female
@@kcrown364 Male :)
@@mrain37 really?? Why’s that so
This was fun to watch!
Hello 🌈 family from LA California 👋🏽
"A ka matlab ally nahi hai . please . sorry " I laughed so hard and it is literally 2:30 am right now 😭😂
Beta itna deer tak nahi jagna chahiye 🌚
@@lastbraincellofdulapeep5325 thank you so much for the unnecessary advice dear! par kya kare aadat se majboor hun mai
@@ananyasingh9495 I was just kidding lmao 😭
@@lastbraincellofdulapeep5325 arre i was being sarcastic too .Sorry if it came off as rude 😭
Is it okay to ask them what their preferred pronouns are?
Yes you can ask because you're not calling them but you're trying to know their preferred pronouns....
as a non-binary person myself, I'd say GO FOR IT. Asking someone their pronouns is not disrespectful, instead, assuming theirs and misgendering them is.
Yes! Go for it! With respect!
yes!
@@soapmuncher3135 why is your username so relatable goddammit 🗿
I came for bidisha and I stayed for EVERYONE including bidisha. Love. ♥️♥️
Omg the three bases. Spot on .. 😂😂🤣🤣
"First of all, why do you need to ask?" So Correct!
I'm sorry 😓😓but what is G spot i heard that term in many videos but i didn't get what's is it?
They seemed a little rude....people just want to know, you don't have to be offended by everything.
THANK YOU FOR THIS❤❤
Yay! More power, all love
Security waali aunty bahot bekaar hoti hai, I swear to god.
Great job
O MY GODS DAN REBELLO IS WEARING A DOCTOR WHO T SHIRT
HELLOOOOOO
just putting it out there, the bases at the end was an "individual's answer", please don't use that for every homosexual man. I'm 28, hella gay and hella monogamous and never got around anal sex in any of my sexual relationships (that lasted for months) so that generalisation is BS #smh
I didn't even know there is something called gaydar,😂😂....mannn gay people have superpowers yaaarr
The 3 bases lmao loved it 😂😍
OH GOD I'M FANGIRLING!!! THEY ARE ALL SOOOO CUTE!!!! WHENEVR YOU GET A PARTNER PLEASE SHARE IT!!
Okay but I call dibs on making Bidisha and Aniruddh mine. Y'all gotta back off 😤😂
Edit: I want Dan too.
Aniruddha You're the Sweetest person on this planet. I wish you were my Friend 😔
loved this so much, esp all the answers to what's the best part about being queer🌈
ok but this needs to be longer
That last part sooo true 😂
I'm here for thisss
They put an activist among common people.
A girl with checks black jacket she was in IGT🇮🇳....She sings so Well!!!
Why should people be afraid of asking these questions. If people are afraid how will they ever learn. We can't just keep talking to people who know all this.
You can think you are anything I am okay with it but don't force it on others. It's their choice
I like these folks!!! 💖💖💖💖💖
Indians are getting back to their roots of free living and accepting.
I'm so proud of these people omg❤️❤️❤️❤️gemsss
Last answer though!! 🤣🤣
Great content
This video made me so happy😭
Farhad is such a sweetheart 🙂 my first reaction to these videos and I already like him !
Am finally happy to see that slowly Indians are being so open minded rather than being homophobic. They've finally started accepting the LGBTQ community. I am one of it too🏳🌈😁. And the LGBTQ people can finally live peacefully in India ☺ I genuinely feel so content after seeing India Being so Accepting and understanding. Otherwise mostly people from the LGBTQ community living in India have no choice but to go live in Other countries and live there. . Thank You everyone soooo much for accepting the LGBTQ community!! Love y'all everyone equally! ❤🏳🌈
❤🧡💛💚💙💜
If y'all are reading this, and are from the LGBTQ community pls do like this comment 😁
And that's on what? PERIODT.
*why was I not notified by TH-cam*
*I pissed at TH-cam rn*
Amazing people ❤️
DANNNN, MY BOIII
Aniruddha my heart just skipped a beat 🙈😘❤😂
She is wearing a tshirt having 'starry night'✨
he* he is a boy
@@sparklingstickynote i will cry ! I 😭 thank you
@@danrebello5591 I'm proud of you
Lol hey ARMY. Also yeah, reminds me of MAMAMOO's song
Everyone is a part of the community and no one should be discriminated
2:37 this guy is so cute........
I'm an aromantic gay person living in a small conservative fucking city of Shillong. I just wish to have some gay acquaintances. Gay friends will be too much to ask for now. People in Mumbai, Bengaluru and Delhi are so lucky.
I really have a mixed personality I sometimes want to dress like a hot and handsome boy and I don't know if I'm straight or not because I sometimes get attracted to girls who look like boys and are Tomboy types
Who is this denim guy?!!! OMG, he is so pretty I want to cryyy!!!!!!
The "Male" and "Female" tags should be given but never to indicate sexuality but rather the kind of body a person has so as to better understand their physiology not their psychology.
So I don't agree with the fact that gender has been constructed just to create a divide. Gender was a way of discerning what kind of treatment you would receive , be it medical or not. It was just a way to differentiate not discriminate until it wasn't so anymore. Gender gives us important information about the type of body and medical treatment that a person can require.
what you're talking about is sex. sex isn't a social construct, gender is.
Gender and sexual orientation are two different things
my favourite youtube channel
I love this. So so so much I can't even explain .....
I love you all
Omigod Dan's wearing a TARDIS T-shirt!!! I know this is probably the wrong takeaway from this video but I get really really happy on seeing a fellow Whovian anywhere... I guess representation really does matter lol
Thank you, come again
I want to be friends with Dan Rebello