Things Transgender And Non-Binary People Are Tired Of Hearing | BuzzFeed India
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- Transgender and non-binary folk have been facing prejudice and ostracisation for years because of who they are. Here are some statements that they are tired of hearing.
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Prat (@thepratfalleffect)
Mona Varonica Campbell (@monavaronicacampbell_official)
Bidisha (@thebidishamohanta)
Urmi Jadhav (@princess_queen_urmi)
Saadhy Pawar
Shakti Waghela (@sparklejump1498)
Durga Gawde (@durgagawdestudio)
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The person at 0:46 , Bidisha Di used to be the head girl in our school. Every one loved her voice. I am happy to see that she has been happy and she can express herself in a better way.
she appeared in India's got talent did you know?
Khushi Sitapara I know
She is gorg.
You're from which school in Kolkata?
@@susfranzliszt TBH, I don't know why the hell r u living on earth??
"aye chhakke" dude that hit me hard, people are crucial these days. All respect to you guys.
Chhakke means gay in hindi right? What offensive about it?
@@GolgappaUwU it means a man that behaves like a woman. so, for a trans person (trans women especially) it can be very invalidating and hurtful. also, it is a slur, like the word 'faggot'. i hope that clears it up
@@GolgappaUwU firstly, it doesn't mean gay in Hindi. Being gay is not even close to being transgendered, they're two very different things.
Secondly, it's an offensive slur not a word, used as an abuse.
Guys?
@@GolgappaUwU not at all, gays and transgenders are different ,not all gay are feminine and not every feminine person is gay , and also we have Respectfull names to address them ,so its not good to use offensive slurs for any one
As an Indian Trans Man in the US, this is the first time I've seen other trans/non binary Indian people. My heart is SOOOO happy.
Honestly, IG is super inclusive for that space especially in Brown communities. I stumbled onto this video while binging and it was really affirming too. Check out Queering Desi and other profiles if you wanna see more representation!
@Jazeah Lister bad day?
@Jazeah Lister ah okay, so bad day.
@Jazeah Lister you realize no one cares about your rants about gender? no one is changing their views because of your little temper tantrum
@@mysticall680 noone cares using preferred pronouns, let's call you it
0:47 India's got talent contestant
Woa no toxicity in comment section. Impressed da! Btw, Bengali uses non gendered pronouns and verbs. Oh yeah! 🇮🇳
I found this comment randomly! What are the odds? Eshob kiii
Btw amio etai comment korte jachhilam xD
@@ahonaroychowdhury7078 amio
R. Kr. Shetai!❤️
God only created man and woman!
im a 16 year old cis girl. i couldn't understand what genderfluid or non binary was until like a year ago. not understanding something doesn't give you the right to disrespect it or disregard its existence.
@@justsh934 finally a learned individual.
Your last sentence is a very wise one. Still rare in our society. If someone wants to follow something we shouldnt fight them if we cant understand it, when it doesnt harm us. We follow our own paths.
🤩😍
R. Kr. Absolutely, unless "gender fluids/non-binaries" impose their pronouns on everyone & expect the whole world to change the way we speak just to accommodate their inexistent genders.
They don't want to mess with pronouns that we already use for 'binary' people. They don't want to impose their pronouns on 'everyone', they just want us to call 'only them' by such pronouns. This is because they 'exist' simply because they genuinely feel so and go to great extremes to face hardships to be themselves. Our denial does not make them 'non-existent'.
They exist simply because they ARE THERE and feel that way. We have to just SEE or LISTEN to know this fact.
When she started talking in Bengali,and also the enlightening words I felt like she's my homie😊
Videos like these are an absolute necessity to make people understand that LGBTQ are just as normal as straight people. The day people understand this, then the need to call them with names or make them a different community will not be needed anymore. We don't call straight people as the straight community right? So why them? THEY ARE NORMAL HUMAN BEINGS HAVING EVERY RIGHT TO BE WHO THEY ARE AND LOVE WHO THEY WANT TO. ❤️
Entirely agree✌️
LGBTQIA , don't leave the intersex and asexual behind
@@hht6676 Right. My apologies 🙏
No they are not , no one is normal , each one is unique
Do you have a sister named pubali by any chance?
Am i the only one that developed a crush on Bidisha?! Like, God! That voice, that confidence! Like yaaaaasssss sis! (So that means that she's a butch lesbian?)
Yass she's a butch!
@@nicolesaviel2682 i am a lesbian too
Which one are you talking about
@@avastars3393 the drag king
She's a lesbian with masculine expression
Where did all these non biriani people come from?
Non biryani from Hyderabad?
Love the concept of the video! 😍 I love buzzfeed India!!
It's not *their* concept. They copied the idea from BBC Three.
@@EliteXtasy I didnt say I love their concept... I just said that I love the concept...
Wow...
joydeb das yes
I identify as an attack helicopter !
I am not male
I am not female
I am a human
People like you are needed in the society.
So, you are sexless human being with no vagina or penis?
La Fleur Haha. And no grey matter :)
@@lafleur3936 lol yeah
Are you sure?
I never really made fun of any of them but I always maintained a distance from them. But BuzzFeed you made me think things in a whole new perspective. Thank you so much ! I have a trans girl at school and no one is friends with her. But she's my friend from now on ☺️
@@trashbeetle5121 ask her then :) and tell me whatever happens; )
That's awesome! The world needs to be more open minded like you :)
Thats so sweet
Just got back home from San Diego visiting family. My mom was of course transphobic and very unfortunately racist.
I'm sorry you had to go through that...
THIS. WAS. NEEDED. BADLY. 👏🏼
Ghum Paise lol no
@@laralara6607 lol yes
@@notlikeotherfrogs2402 i agree
Gender is never a binary concept which can be classified as either 0 or 1. I think it's more of a scalar in nature where Man and Woman are two extreme ends.
Perfectly said
Was thinking the same, why "Binary"..I second you.
YASSSSS
I personally think that you should only be either straight gay or bi , any other sexuality is wrong
@@broly425 there are 2 sexes biologically, but gender is not equal to sex. There also is a third sex called Intersex, moron.
May the power of the LGBTQ COMMUNITY be as strong as the oak tree. No one can defeat the LGBT. We're strong as ever
LGBPTQIA+ correction😄
@@aishwaryapatil9587 yes that too.
shushruth sudhir I don't understand these terms of lgtb or these people but I do understand that they human being no different than us I respect them n their choice of living more power to humanity
@@jyothibedar1657 agree with you but it's not their CHOICE of living. It's the way they are not a choice😊
Lil Bunny I meant it is their life n choice is their how they want to live who are we to judge spread love n humanity
I hope that in the future this won't be an issue anymore. And that the reaction to someone saying "I'm trans/non-binary" will be "Yes, and?" Like that it becomes so normalized that people don't even bat an eye at it.
YAAAASSSSSS!
Same here
@@lafleur3936 you're the only one that's weird here
@@lafleur3936 you need help.
I identify as the "king of lost island of Atlanta" and I want people to refer to me as Lord Zeus. And also, I'll get offended if ppl don't call me Lord Zeus .I want them to be normal about it
Bidisha 😚😚😚. I literally loved her when she started talking in Bangla cause how much I can relate to her..... BTW i'm gay but....you look so cute......and this video also educated me about the gender fluid spectrum. Thank you 🙏.
As a Indian, We don't care what they do or think.
0:50 .....isn't she from one of the episode of IGT........she sang Laal ishq song there and trust me she killed it
Yes she is !!
I was reading the comments waiting for smbdy to recognize her
Ya
Yasss
Yes, she is the one!
Ok I get it about homosexuality and transgender but wtf is non binary
it is a made up term people use to feel involved with homosexuals and transgenders,
So that people who are not gay can also feel special
@@lilmuffin9253 bullshit
thats weird liberal propaganda
Dw just some attention seeking behaviour by attention whores
Just call 'hey mate' to everyone
Call everyone cunt
BuzzFeed India gives me the feels how BuzzFeed was before everybody worthwhile left like Safiya, Michelle etc
It's funny how mahabharat showed us transgenderism yet people are ignorant
Thank you for spreading a good message buzzfeed😘
Real Craig can u go away?
I GUESS YOUR A HETEROSEXUAL PERSON
Things the rest of us are tired of hearing
I'm trans
I'm non binary
Trans women are women
My pronouns are
This is the sole reason i love buzzfeed india.. You guys are trying to change the thinking of our society.. Keep up the good work..
"Even within the population that strongly identifies as being male or female, there is a whole spectrum of identities, there isn't one conclusive definition of what masculinity or feminity is." And I gotta agree that's damn correct. When you strip away everything else- gender, religion, race, etc, people are just people. We really need to respect the other sex and make India a place where can sex can just relax easy. This sounds like a dream I but I really want it to come true. And it's all in the hands of the coming Indian youth.
Women with bobs, vegana, and now a ding dong?
@@leyshabiswas873 What are you trying to say?
@@bakugop6665 Women can't have the P and men can't have boobs and the v. Is what there trying to say.
Lol religion race strip karna hai. Ooo username checks out"meshram"
Lol I don't want to hear what masculinity is from a female fuck off!
To each one in this video and whoever is a part of the lgbt community in India, i am so sorry that you all have to go through so much in this society. It hurts me having to see someone discriminated for being themselves. Hopefully there will be a day that lgbt community will be more widely accepted especially in india. Power to you all💜
as a non binary indian im wheezing pls
Get therapy
hello I am a bird then
@@leyshabiswas873 get a therapy fool
@@MikoWhackingEi talk about yourself bim**
@@leyshabiswas873 petty little insults isn't gonna woosh me. Go get some fuxking therapy
As a indian i would like to say its a shame that india is really homophobic even after lgbtq rights came in. Only most educated people are aware of it and others usually mock them. Hope this homophobia in india will end soon.
what do u mean by most educated ppl? t
Idiot
What is a women is a documentary everyone should see. I do agree with gay & lesbian.
It's just so inspiring to see people be proud and not ashamed of being different, of being "wrong". It's comforting to know your not alone. Being a part of the LGBTQAP community and being in a relationship is legal by the government, but still it's pretty hard to find people who actually KNOW what it means. I hope it can change soon.
I’m a non-binary person on my period and i haven’t come out yet
I almost had a mental breakdown due to feeling like I’m trapped in this “must be a girl” box and it’s really hard and I don’t know what the hack to do
hey hey hey omg there is no standard for being nonbinary, there is no single representative of all nonbinary people. nb people can be afab or amab, can have periods, can be going through puberty. being nonbinary is rlly rlly cool bc its entirely personal to what you feel like so YOURE SO FUCKING VALID
Identify as a tree 🤣🤣
@@leyshabiswas873 ooo look an ignorant bigot that knows nothing about the trans community and doesn’t bother to educate themselves, and yet still donates so much of their time bullying trans teens on the internet
@@rashaahmed9170 how intolerant of you, when you expect others to accept you for who you identify, yet when anyone else identify as something that doesn't conform to your bullcrap, you invalidate that!! Way to go 🤮🤮🤮
@@leyshabiswas873 seek help
2:56 My heart flew away from the window 🌈!
_S A M E, OML. 💞_
Really ,it blew my mind!💕who else is bong?
Bitch me too TF!! 🌈💗
Same
@@WhyMusTreBeANumber wtf bitch ! That's not what she ment!
Call in Ben Shapiro
Yup
Thank you
@joydeb das omg yes😂
You must be fun at parties
@@ssagere4958 you bet
No matter what we should have humanity and equality to everyone. ❤️ Everyone is beautiful in their own way.❤️
@alex 1 thanks ❤️
@alex 1 are you on Instagram?? If yes!! Follow me
"call_mee_sky" . 😊
@alex 1 we can talk there😊😊
Wrong
" Sexuality is only a part of a person's identity and there is so much more to them ". End.👏.Of.👏. Discussion. 👏👏👏
@Piccolo Jr yeah...I know that now, I've educated myself since then... Let me edit my comment real quick
@Piccolo Jr no
@Piccolo Jr non binary, asexual, transgender and there are many more
@Piccolo Jr bitch what ? Did you just called transgenders deformed ? Sounds transphobic Your comment makes no sense. Non- binary is also a part of people who are unidentifiable.
@@udita_bhaumik yes we're transphobic,wanna cry?
Sab damage ke beemar hai
kya
I remember watching this some years ago, learning about the community (i was always a tomboy and i wanted some answers) and i couldn't understand some parts of this video! Now, i'm a proud non-binary person :). Love whoever the fuck you want. Love is love.
Lust is Lust
mental illness is mental illness
@@ChristianMasihNews and you, are an idiot
It's good to see more indian people coming out and not being afraid. Kudos to you guys!
Ah crap is this degeneracy spreading to India too.I used to be able to sleep at night knowing this was probably only in the west. Now I gotta deal with this in India too ?
lol same
I am pretty sure you sleep just fine even now, pure desh ka theka to nahi le rakha hoga aapne, india me isse kai guna badhi problems h.
@@taka-taktak Dude. Stick to one language. Either hindi Or english. Telle what your saying again but this time use only one language. I will let you choose which
@@adityapai2173 switching languages mid sentance is frustating, expecially when you are capable of speaking in just one language
@@taka-taktak gay anime kid
I have a toddler and she can be whatever religion, sexuality, gender she chooses to be as an adult. I want her and all children of the future to be free with choices. Keep up with the amazing work Buzzfeed India.
Please tell me this is a joke
@@dejankartalija1987yeah, trying to be happy is a joke unfortunately because of people like you
Gods knows what sin your toddler did to have a parent like you grow up clown
I'm literally surprised at the people in the comments section thinking that their opinion on a person's gender identity is more valid than the person's themselves. Like, get over yourselves arseholes! This just shows how threatened people are by anything against their perception of normalcy
I might be a burger flipper by profession but I identify as your landlord.
NOW PAY UP FUCKFACE!
@@mikehunt8301 that's professional identity and not gender identity, you imbecile piece of crap. Try to shut your mouth and open your mind for once.
@@user-yp2ms8dj2u oh you mean I can identify as a different gender but not as a different profession? got it
@@mikehunt8301 if you didnt know, your profession, you choose and can change, similar to your gender. But if you lie about your 'profession'. it.is.not.acceptable.
Maybe if you'll try to just think about what is said and not about how you can 'prove me wrong'
Anyway, I don't expect you to gather anything from this comment either. So yeah unless you are willing to open your mind and accept something against your image of 'normal', please don't waste your time by replying
@@user-yp2ms8dj2u Yeah I get it , things that are hardwired biologically can be changed at the drop of a hat
This is a NEEDED video !!😤
Okay, all of these people are literally SO GORGEOUS I’m crying
Vinatha Madugula OMG, are you literally going into depression, like?
subliminally 2 bitch if I find someone pretty, I compliment them. I genuinely don’t get your point here if using literally and I’m crying makes it a “blonde” comment
subliminally 2 I mean it makes no sense. How in the fuck is complimenting someone irritating and so ironically cringey that it’s necessary for you to go “I support the lgbtq too but”
Bhak gandu itna bhi mat kar
U wud have even called a snake "gorgeous" if it was in this video.
We r all humans no matter if we r transgender...so we must respect each other no matter what
You're ignorance is showing
Reject modernity
"I think all human beings should focus on the fact that we are all human beings" 😍
Why
"We resort to hatred when we feel threatened " very eloquently explained.. 💕
I'm an LGBT activist myself but i have an unpopular opinion.
Fighting gender norms and stereotypes and asking to be identified as multiple genders by conforming to stereotypical gender norms just sounds very contradictory and un-sustainable to me. Hypocritical, even.
On the other hand, sexual preferences are real, gender dysphoria is real and sexual orientation is real. I fail to understand how being gender queer or non binary is something more than a mood/phase. But then again, i would never call someone out for being what they want to be and i don't have a problem with anyone. I just personally cannot bring myself to take being non binary seriously or identify it as an identity. And id love it if someone shines a different light on it
although i respect everyone their opinions and identities, i agree with u too. i somehow feel the non-binary/gender-fluid takes the issue away from the people who are actually transgender and have to deal with looking at themselves in the mirror every morning. Despite being body dysphoric myself in the past (i was overweight) i can't fathom how terrible it must feel.
Being masculine and feminine is a gender expression. Not your sex. I'm a woman and I'm pretty masculine.
@@reetikabiswas829 Phew! I thought I'd recieve a ton of hate for this
Aditi G you are speaking truth. Nobody is genderless. Its thier trait that they are masculine or not. Many straight boys are there who aren't masculine or there are girls who are masculine.
I think it is more like this: Trans people experience dysphoria because their innate gender does not coincide with their birth gender. Similarly, a gender fluid or non-binary person's feeling of dysphoria can be towards both male and female gender, or change between one or the other constantly. Just like being trans is not a 'mood' as it is not under their control, neither is the type of dysphoria they experience.
I'm not gender-fluid, but if you'd like to look at a gender-fluid person's perspective on this, you could look at this video :)
th-cam.com/video/PACFGbh6Kcc/w-d-xo.html
Hi! So, being a non-binary person, let me shed some light only point of view on this. I know that gender stereotypes are an unnecessary framework enforced upon us by the society. But on the other hand this understanding does not stop me from being a non binary person. It is because there is a difference between gender presentation and gender identity. I know I can present myself anyway I want, and do anything I want without being enslaved by gender norms, but I still cannot view my gender as my sex. It is more to do with who I am than how I am. I hope you have a better understanding of the non-binary side of the community by this explanation. Have a nice day. :D
Bidisha and Durga is just sooo😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Why can't we teach all this in our academics? I have grown up knowing 3 genders male female trans. I was not even aware of LGBTQ till I was 18years old. People can't be blamed for not being aware of all these things, basically medium like this helps us understand better.
Trans isn't a gender lol. Being male, female or non-binary is. Transgender is term used for people who transition from their biological sex to a sex that they identify with.
Eww . No .
18 years is not a bad age , uske pehle sexual experiences bhi nhi hote koi
It must be so much more difficult in a traditional culture like India than in the US. You are all gorgeous people.
I remember leaving a hate comment here almost a year ago. I was into that Ben Shapiro, JBP, Steven Crowder shithole. Now I realise shit. I am SORRY. I love you all.
JBP Shithole?!
C'mon man don't fall for "this" shit
We appreciate people like you ☺️
big respect to trans folks, y’all are so strong, all the love to you! ❤️
Anyone read this as Non-Biryani People in Notification ? 😆
Edit - I am first 😌😂
Biryani 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
U have Ur priorities sorted man 😂
Abhik Moj Totally dude 😂🙌
Priorities... 😂
Actually we used to accept all the sexualities before British started ruling us .... There have been a lot of books written about these things back then ..... But once the victorians started ruling us ... they kind of prohibited it and now we have reached this state .... The past can't be erased but the future can be made so we should all start accepting , loving each and every person in this world and respect them for whoever they are 😊
The first step to transgender equality in India would be when everyone, even kids understand that the word "chakka" isn't abuse.
It is . I would be disgustied if my relative or son became a chakka
Basically men and women with facade.
Matt Walsh wasn't wrong.
What is a woman?!
In hindi you know we can be gender neutral
Wo kaisi hai? fem
Wo kaisa hai? masc
Wo kaise hai? gender neutral
when respecting adults we use "kaise" and its gender neutral and same can go for any language that has a word for adults or respected people
imagine being born just to not accept your parts, then you change and expect people to accept you when you couldn't accept yourself LMAO
based
Lmao we accept ourselves to be transgender 😂
Based
The tomboy was my neighbour back in Mumbai.
Didn't know she was a tomboy at all🤯
Hopefully she remembers me
A lot of people in the comments do not understand the word "Gender". For everyone who is confused, here is what the dictionary has to say:
Sex: either of the two main categories (male and female) into which humans and most other living things are divided on the basis of their reproductive functions.
Gender: the state of being male or female (typically used with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones). The word Gender is only very loosely associated with natural distinctions of sex.
Thankyou so much for this. i was getting so irritated how people kept mixing them up
1:36
I looked up the word "gender" in Oxford and it said "SEX of a person I.e either male or female"
Them/they/their? How the hell can we say "where'd they(she)go?"?
Where'd they go? Is actually a correct grammatical expression for someone who's identity is unknown or in this case unsure... Please go through a grammar book before commenting things like this
Priyanka Basu gtfo with ur "grammar". What "these kind of things" did i comment?
Please go through the comment once again before reply stupidly and thinking that you are the only smart one here.
I did go through it and actually replied that instead of simply commenting you could've checked that it's actually correct... If you wanna comment on language, be prepared to be told about it too🤷🏻
Also "quotes" don't make u look intelligent... Just sayin
Shahzeb Khan (If you are Indian) While having a face to face conversation, it's wiser to speak in the Indian language. English will raise these confusions.
BuzzFeed India making us happy with these videos!🌈🙌❤️
Are you lesbian because u used the word us
One of them came in IGT!!
Hey ..so happy to see Bidisha here😄😄.. i have seen her in India's got talent.. my sis called me from kitchen nd said ,you should be like her ( coz of the dressing),, i felt soo happy nd at the same time uncomfortable coz i m not out yet ,so i was scared nd tried to ignore the fact that she is gay nd talked more about her singing... coz why not everyone wants to be recognized by their talent nd not by their orientation..
😍😍loved the video ...
Hoping to see Bidisha in more videos👌👌...
I don't hate transgender
I don't hate BuzzFeed
I'm just annoyed of the fact I've been forced to see your ad everytime I watch anything online... So I started watching offline videos and still I see your ad... It's been more than 50times and this ain't funny or inspiring to me anymore. Like watching same ad makes me totally annoyed, so either show different add then same add.
yeah I got this add about dating in India which im sure is a great video but like after a while it gets repetitive
Who else saw the episode of Indias got talent in which bidisha performed??
Btw I am not sure if that's her?
2:58 made me proud.
I am straight but I fell for Bidisha 😍🔥❤
Fake account
Yea u ain't straight
1:38 I think it is very important to clarify the distinction between sex and gender in the trans dialogue
Because sex is biological, and gender is a social construct. Sex is male or female, while gender is man or woman or non-binary or gender queer or genderfluid.
Sex is innate and the binary and it's distinctions are highly important in medical sciences, but gender is a social construct with arbitrary gender roles (such as males should have short hair and cannot wear skirts, women should wear skirts, men should be masculine, women should be feminine and so on) which have no scientific basis whatsoever and are entirely made up by society to seemingly befit the sexes, but because of their completely baseless nature, they don't.
A trans person cannot change their sex, but they can change their gender.
So a trans woman would be biologically male, but her gender would be woman. A trans man would be biologically female, but his gender will be man. BUT, just because their sex is male or female, you can't guess what their genitalia maybe on that basis alone. They may have undergone gender reassignment surgery or not, but that still doesn't mean you should try guessing what genitalia someone may have because that's just creepy and rude.
Trans is a gender identity and not a sexual orientation, so they may be straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, asexual, pansexual, or any other orientation.
Most importantly, intersex (the I in LGBTQIA+) is a medical condition and does not show that sex is a spectrum, and intersex people, as a group, do not want to be included in the community because theirs is not an identity or orientation, but something they're forced to bear. Kindly be respectful and use the acronym as LGBTQA+.
TL;DR: don't use sex and gender interchangeably, they are not synonyms and represent two completely different things. Using them interchangeably only serves to spread misinformation and further confusion about a topic that isn't very openly discussed.
2:55 omg her personality kind of changed when she spoke bangla, I wasn’t expecting that
No sweetheart. You aren't lucky because you're educated. People who are not educated are unlucky though. You're very normal. And in every aspect❤
@@sidharthbhattacharjee8824 fuck your hatred and get some life instead of roaming around here if you don't agree with these "normal" things. And mostly,if people like you don't believe such things, why do you roam in such content..? To spread hate even more..?
Lol
Beautiful message. Everybody deserves respect!! Ppl should stop making fun on them, their identity, feelings, choices, n etc.
Wrong. Not everyone deserves respect especially if they demand it from others. The world doesn't care about a person's feelings which the community can't seem to grasp.
I understand that change starts from home but there's no way I am dealing with my homophobic and transphobic parents. Just nope. I'll just wait things out for 10-15 years until the next generation takes over and things are better
Good for you
@@leyshabiswas873 shut up
Hate comes from fear not from sexualityor religion
I hate why we as people feel to put everyone in a certain category that has specific guidelines and if someone does not fit in that guideline instead of getting to know them , we start hating the person. I hate that we are not curious and accepting of the unknown , we must start getting to know the unknown rather than brushing them away, why do we need terms like straight, gay, lesbian, transgender, queer, etc. We forget that in the end no matter what , everyone belongs to a greater group that we believe in thats HUMANITY. lets stop hating and start loving . #stopthehate
most of us are just plain tired of hearing about yall tbh
Maybe if we weren't seen as weird or scary, tbh.
@@um868 No one can convince me that the people in the video aren't weird
@@ЯненавижуРыбы i agree bro these ppl look so dammn insane
If I had a dollar for every gender I would have 2
youre bigender??? thats cool
@@rashaahmed9170 nah you weirdo
@@rashaahmed9170 genshin 🤮🤮🤮🤮
I identify as albino rhinoceros. My pronouns are it, he & shemale.
I'm calling you shemale 😂😂😂😂
@@JM-ir1fi the comment is hilarious tho.
@@JM-ir1fi There are 2 genders. Facts don't care about your feelings.
I have nothing against LGBTQ community.
But why am I getting bombarded by ads of this video?
BuzzFeed are you listening?
Bidisha went to India Got Talent
Hi
Such a wonderful initiative by Buzzfeed India. More power to you, always.
i was always told in my country to keep distances from these 'kind' of people but now that im living in a foreign country i've learnt to respect people. i believe respect is everything. if u don't like someone's way of dressing, of behaving or mentality it's ok, just don't disrespect them. everyone deserves to be respected. even in a relationship before love/romance the respect comes before. if ur partner doesnt respect u, ur future will be dark.
Bidisha from india's got talent😐
" you can't identify as neither gender" I'm sick 9f hearing this
Yeah, maybe these are all things that make you feel awful, but other people have opinions just as you do, and when they don't match, neither is necessarily at fault.
I see gender and sex as the same, so I would never refer to a biological male as a woman. That's my opinion, you're free to disagree, but not free to try to force me to say something I don't see as true.
Honestly
I am very much confused about where I stand in my opinion about gender and sex
Like
I disagree with the idea of gender and sex being COMPLETELY different and I also disagree with the idea of gender and sex being COMPLETELY same
Because gender dyspohria is a real issue
Reminds me of the quote
"You can be whatever you want to be, but don't expect me to participate in your delusions"
Ben Shapiro enters the chat.
* Destroys with facts and logic *
And these people still won't understand shit
I identify as crow my pronouns are ka/kra 💀
End of the day you want to be happy even if it's delusion so be it.
Do you believe in god??
How does it matter, and yes I do believe in God but not religion and man made gods. I believe there's some force which gave birth to this universe around us that's my God.
@@raghusj2473 do you workship it??
No I don't I am just thank full, where are you trying to arrive with this?
@@raghusj2473 that means atheist??
As a person who asks a lot of questions....I didn't realize people don't like being asked questions about themselves.....if a dialogue has to start between us all we have to learn to openly share details about each other with each other...that is how we will be able to understand what someonelese is going through or why they think the way they do or what kind of stuff they are dealing with and how you can help them......also I think the plus size super model was right you don't need gender reassignment to be a woman, man or whoever you were meant to be......please research carefully and see how dangerous these surgeries can be before undergoing any procedure.....We want all transgender individuals to be safe and healthy first !
when bidisha started speaking bengali my heart just leaped - finally someone from bengal, damn.
late but hi fellow bengali!
I appreciate these people for standing up along with this hypocrite society.
It takes a lot,seriously a lot of courage .
This melts my heart to see how much we've come far. Ofcourse we still have a long way to go before everyone starts accepting all kinds of people but this is a great start. Keep spreading love buzzfeed! ❤
I think more videos like this should be shared because we are literally never taught anything about the LGBTQ community
I'm a transman.
I didn't have a surgery I'm only a cross dresser.
You can be a Nishtha or anything you like but it doesnt give you the right to not make an effort to look presentable.