Hi Brad, hope you are doing well my friend. Not sure if you remember me but my name is Nick and I signed up to your coaching this time last year so happy anniversary 🤣 (kinda). It has been a tough and long 12 months but now I am in a much better position than when I was the last time I spoke to you. I would love to give you an update with everything that's happened but I don't think this is the right place to do that but I just want to let you know that I am doing very well and that I will never forget how you helped me get back on my feet. Thank you once again and look after yourself. Stay safe my friend! 👍
My ex of five yrs cheated a few years ago. Forgave him at his plea for cheating a few yrs ago. Now currently he couldn't be honest and end it with me instead he ghosted me for a few months. After he unexpectedly popped up at my car to talk but I walked away didn't give him the chance to talk. Told him his demons irritate me. When he ghosted me I started hating him and stopped loving or desiring him. He had nartistic ways. I know why he ghosted me and I so disrespect him. I'd never go back to that creep.
This depends on the circumstance and the issues in the relationship that led to the breakup but as I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved or if it was overall a dysfunctional/toxic relationship. It's your life and it's your decision.
Exactly if she dates or sleeps with another man-goodbye forever, no contact, get a new cell number and by now unfollow and block her on all social media. I will not subject myself to anything involving her ever again. it would end my feelings and any love I have left for her. Won’t be friends either. Too painful and too raw and real. I never would wish her harm , but I’m not accepting infidelity ever.
I agree, once they’ve been intimate with someone else it has the same effect as cheating. You’d have to lack both feeling and self-awareness to be with someone under such circumstances
If she is with someone else it sounds as if the majority of the negative things listed she will not feel. She can’t be lonely if she replaced you with a half ass carbon copy.
That's true to an extent but this is where your history together comes into play. If you've had more good times than bad and if it was an otherwise healthy relationship that went through a rough patch like all relationships do, then the odds are on your side. Good luck!
Hey brother if i can ask you to share your wisdom on small matter....bumped into my ex today after 3 weeks begging and 3.5 weeks now no contact, she hugged me, kissed me on a cheek and ask how i am...only answered to her amazing...dom't feel like share to much....now to understand better last time we hugged we were together....my thinking she's trying to feel where i am, probably thinking gonna text her to boost her ego knowing i'm still around, which in no fckin way ever gonna do that to myself again, also she was overly happy you can feel from a plane she's fakeing that sh....thats about it, what's your opinion if you can share, if not brother i understand.....much love💙@@breakupbradbrowning
Mine was somewhat toxic and she was very insecure. She was caring and supportive and kind when she wasn’t being crazy. I fumbled her and she fumbled me. I broke up with her and then I bring up reconciliation and she went and stole her best friend’s man to replace me so fast even though I told her I needed space and I wasn’t interested in other people. Just needed space from her because our fights were getting nasty. I didn’t beg per se, but I did try to convince her to get back with me but she wasn’t having it. So the only option I have is NC. Oh well. I’m doing NC so good an older ex has come back. Other women have come out of the woodwork too. I miss us though.
My ex sent me an email saying he missed me after about a month of breaking up- more than 10 years relationship- so he def misses me and told me directly however I messed up on No Contact I kept communicating so I’m just restarting my timer - I loved this video This one was relatable ❤
My ex gf blindsided me 7 months ago with breaking up with me after 7 and a half years of being together. We just moved to Florida and 3 weeks later I had to come back to NYC and flew back the next day only to find a note on the table saying she wanted to break up. Don't know why. Didn't hear from her for 7 months, then all of a sudden 2 weeks ago I get a text telling me that she saw my FB story, and then nothing. I said ok and that was it. Been on no contact for 5 months. The first 2 months I asked her to reconsider. When she said let's go our separate ways I went no contact until 2 weeks ago. What should I do now? The longer we're apart, the more I want to stay apart. Thank you for the video's Brad! Very cool!
I did all your strategies brad but in the end we prioritize our self first in this right we forgive each other is this right i dont even beg and please her
It's good you were able to take control of your emotions during this time. Having an amicable breakup is better (because it rarely happens) than you guys blocking off each other. Cut off contact for at least 30 days and focus on yourself. You can then reach out to your ex after the 30-days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: th-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/w-d-xo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: th-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/w-d-xo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
Cool video. I like it ❤ . I am trying to shake my ex off. She's an avoidant personality and I think she's being intimate with another man. It's draining me. I am afraid she'll get or already has an STD.
You're welcome. This may help you process or deal with the breakup more efficiently: th-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/w-d-xo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved him so much i can’t stop thinking about him and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
How can my ex be lonely? His primary relationship is with his best guy friend, and that friendship continues. For all intents and purposes they are married, except for s3x. I'm happy for him, but its not a great recipe for any future relationship with a woman.
His best friend is not you and both provide different kinds of stuff in his life more than the closest friendship ever does. However, let's focus on the issue between you two. Is his relationship with his best friend hindering your relationship? Does he spend his time more with his bestfriend rather than you two? It may just be a matter of who he prioritizes, which, if he really wanted to, he can.
What if you can’t do no contact because of kids? There’s no way to have a mutual party for hand off, he’s been coming to my house for visits, and we were cordial, even borderline friendly again (he’d eat food I’d cooked, seemed comfortable etc) and then I found out he was on dating apps again after just 3 months apart - claiming looking for “friends” - is that the loneliness? Is it possible he’s moved on already? 4 years together and a baby I feel like I’m easily replaceable and I just want to put my family back together
its likely your ex was trying to gauge your reaction to hearing that he's dating and see if you were jealous. if its only 3 months it still probably falls under "rebound".
@@phantasma616 he didn’t know that I would know I don’t think - our son grabbed his phone during a visit and I took it away and it lit up with messages from 2 diff dating apps
I get what you mean. If you're hellbent on trying to work things out, let me just set expectations that it's a tough battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: th-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/w-d-xo.html AND th-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/w-d-xo.html
I think I took a step backwards tonight. In the beginning of the split I’ll admit I got emotional, i begged. Tonight I tried to talk, take accountability for my trust issues and other emotional reactions, and it wasn’t well received. I sent him a message apologizing for that, that it was no excuse, my emotions. No reply from him. I didn’t expect one. I want my family back together. This is the third time we’ve separated and he doesn’t think things can change but I think they can. I don’t know how to show him if he’s not around to see it
Most women have been thinking about splitting up years earlier. They get a man and hide him. She doesn't feel pain when she bails out. She might feel some pain if and when the new guy bails out.
What do i do if we just broke up 3 weeks ago. After 16 years and she is still on our lease and she is still living here. Sleeping in the same bed getting all the fruits of my labor since i have provided for this family and our kids for all this time while she was a stay at home Mom..now she starting a job finally and leaving ! But still will take her a while to move out. And she owes like 30 G's in child suport with her first son .how am i suppose to make her feel ger consequences if she is still living here. Im a fucking mess snf she is so happy while im a fucking wreck. She has veen planning on leaving for a while and has told me nothing until right before x-mas ..i just dont understand what im suppose to do here. I love her anf she is the mother of our 4 boys and i want her to stay..idk what to do.
Hi there! You may still be able to save this. Do your best to play your cards right. Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation where we could get to the bottom of the issue/s: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
I stupidly drunk text her(went into no contact right after) told her I went on a date but that I hope we have a future. I have been watching coach lee who said you never want to let them think you went on a date. I messed everything up. From beginning to end. Should I tell her it wasn’t a date? Please, I’m begging you to help me 😭
Unless you went on a date while still in a relationship, I don't think there's any foul play done here, granted you were the one being dumped and not the other way around. However, what's offensive to your ex may be the fact that you went out of your way to try to make her jealous or get a reaction, especially via drunk texting.
Hey Brad I started your program and I’m about 2 weeks into no contact however I feel like I should do it for longer than 30 days due to circumstances, she seems very upset still she’s been posing all the sad stuff you mention and I’ve been out enjoying time with new friends. Do you think I should try reconnect after 30 days or keep it going longer I scored 61 on your test and I’ve been following all the steps in your program many thanks
Yes, feel free to do so. Average is somewhere around 4-6 weeks. Looks like you're on the right track, so keep it up and follow what's on the guide, yeah? Best of luck!
Great Content Coach. My ex monkey branched, after I called it off with them, but soon thereafter I had a change of heart, but she stayed going towards the new guy, even though I begged. A month in, she’s now posting on her social media with new chap, and I’ve since gone no contact. Imo, she’ll be back, after this new fake relationship fizzles, because I was her best ever bf, (her words), and we were each other’s love of our life, and our memories and experiences were epic. Will update soon.
@@leratoseretsi5603 That’s an ask and assume type question. lol Why do you think it must’ve been game playing? She’s an anxiety/anxious type, (which I did not know at the time is a mental health condition), that caused her to constantly project her insecurities onto me, with bogus accusations of infidelity, an unwarranted attack on my character, and tiring. Next time please try not to ask and assume. Thanks!
@bpoydras1503 yes but instead of discussing and resolving together as a team,you dumped her......when she moved on,maybe its because she felt that she had no security in your relationship....,she felt you can leave her anytime things get rough
My so called relationship 5 yrs was one of misery. He cheated, lied, silent treatments and ghosted me. I found out he had friends with benefits. After ghosting me a month he returned to talk as if he did nothing wrong. I walked away did not give him a chance to talk. I lost feelings and desire for him when he ghosted me. I resent him and will never return to him . I will never talk to him. He played his self and lost a good woman.
Right on! If you ask me, the breakup looks like a blessing in disguise anyway because really life is short and you didn't deserve such mistreatment. Anyway, it's important to take time to heal from the trauma that experience may have brought you and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: th-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/w-d-xo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com Take care!
My partner had an affair which lasted 8 months. He moved back home and said he wanted to live his life with me. Said all the plans, things he wants us to do. We went out the other evening and had a lovely time. We had a disagreement once home, I brought up the other woman. Now he's angry with me, says I've crossed the line. Even though there have been times when he's brought her up saying how much he hates her, has no feelings for her etc etc. What can I do? I don't want this to spoil our relationship
As tough as this sounds, try not to bring up the past anymore. Give him the benefit of the doubt unless you're seeing signs he's being unfaithful again. Take your time in making this decision though. If you can fully forgive him and learn to trust him again, then move forward with him, otherwise you may have to consider moving on from this if you two can't rebuild the trust that was lost because you won't find peace especially if he's uncooperative. Discuss ways to regain your trust and see how he reacts. If you're needing more help, hire me as your coach so I can guide you accordingly, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Talk soon?
@breakupbradbrowning thank you for the reply. The thing which he is mad about and says I have crossed the line, I said that I was going to email the woman he had an affair with. She left him with some debt. So obviously, he's angry about what she did. I can't remember saying any of it. He's not very tech savvy, so I said, "How can I email someone without any contact details. You should realise that I was obviously talking rubbish. I am not threatened by her, I'm not jealous of her. He thinks it will always be at the back of my mind, and it may come up again. Even though over the last month he's talked about wanting to get his revenge on her. How do I convince him that it won't happen again?
@MichelleShellHolliday it seems he has unfinished business with her and you are now his rebound....you deserve better since he s making you pay for his own frustrations with her.....he learned the hard way and now you took him in to heal him,instead of appreciating, he is acting like you are not important.
Everything you said is what I’m going through though she left me but since then she had her friend staying with her non stop keeping her company etc she looks fine n I’ve left her alone we only had an argument but she said not happy no more cause her prep she competes but 9 years how is it I’m going through hell n she is fine n distracted
Maybe she contemplated the breakup prior to dropping the big news on you? A strong support system can help a great ton in times of hardships. Breakups are never easy and if you can take time to re-organize your life and accept the breakup, the pain will eventually subside and you'll come to full acceptance -- in case the situation with your ex has been damaged beyond repair. This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: th-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/w-d-xo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!
Please don't take an ex back who could not see your value and appreciate you. Especially if they broke up with you. There are 8 billion people on the planet. Your chances are higher in finding someone more suitable for you that a person who can quickly leave and try to manipulate their way back. You deserve better. I don't give second chances.
Hi Brad, my ex and I been apart for 5mts now. We just had a good chat a few days ago and he kept bringing up our relationship and ask if I could cuddle with him, and while cuddling he said we could hang out occasionally. Today he said we will never get back together and said he only puts up with me because I’m familiar, but his action has been saying otherwise. Where talking tonight n idk how I should approach it
Make sure you don't sleep with him too soon. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: th-cam.com/video/STLjybyiaBQ/w-d-xo.html
can the no contact rule last for more than 30 days like 2 months or more??? or do you think it will work more and also to give him more time so that he'll be the one who woukd contact first?
Average time is 30 days but can go anywhere from 4 to 6 weeks in usual cases. If there's been some endless begging and/or refusing to cut off contact on your end, however, I usually suggest to give it more time, around 2 months or even more. Cheating instances are different if you've cheated, could be longer or shorter depending on how your ex reacts. Do take note that in some instances where the dumpee just couldn't take the hint and continually bugs their ex for months, there comes a time where the ex reaches a "breaking point" and confirms it's the right decision to break up and becomes hellbent in moving on from you. So the bottom line is the "no contact" rule is best applied when the breakup is still fresh. Discussed the importance of silence here: th-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/w-d-xo.html Also don't forget to watch my other vids so you'll know what to do after the "no contact" phase, especially if you're not getting my 2.0 version of the Ex Factor Guide. Good luck!
Please I am currently doing no contact with my ex for about 10 days today but my money is with her that I want to collect it. If I do haven't I broken the rule of no contact and need to start over again??
If it's a huge amount which your ex agreed to pay, then yes, that's one of the exceptions of the no contact rule and you won't be breaking the no contact rule if you do that. This vid is for you, too: th-cam.com/video/ek_4wpkV66c/w-d-xo.html
Ive set my boundaries and told her i dont want to be a backup if things dont work out everytime i state my boundaries she acts like i need access to her schedule that i never asked for. I know my mind is healing it just makes it worse when she steps in dont text and then some random text about heading to work.
Good. Have you given each other space yet for at least 30 days though? Perhaps make some changes to your routine and set expectations accordingly? Certain things that used to happen while in a relationship with her need to be stop now that you've broken up. Unfortunately this includes her giving you an update to her whereabouts or whatnot. It's best you don't behave like her boyfriend and allow her time to process the breakup on her own terms, too. This vid is for you: th-cam.com/video/BhgssmO1ty4/w-d-xo.html
It is very hard to have no contact after a break up when you have young kids. Also if your ex is already in a rebound relationship you might as well forget about them and move on which is what I did
It's your right to move on and live your life to the fullest. There's a chance their relationship might not work out, but there's also equally a chance it might but don't wait around to find out. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/ZyJRphwDca4 and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUB
If you have kids and/or other responsibilities still tied to your ex, it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule instead of the full on silence associated with the no contact rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: th-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/w-d-xo.html AND th-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/w-d-xo.html or for a comprehensive guide on how to go about things, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 at www.breakupbrad.com
Could be just her way of coping. Leave it be because that's her page. You can hide her notifications or her profile if you're still friends with her on social media if that option allows you to... or simply stop stalking so you can focus on yourself! :-)
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let her go i did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: th-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/w-d-xo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: th-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/w-d-xo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
You can actually reach out to your ex after the 30 days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: th-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/w-d-xo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: th-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/w-d-xo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
well he cheated on me and then got together with the person, so I guess there will be no comeback, but honestly I wish him the best. I deserve the best and so does anyone else. Still wish he would have been kind and simply openly break up so we could have stayed good friends since we were during that time, but now without him saying sorry or even writing there is no friendship I guess and I accept that aswell in the end I have other friends and there will come other peoples all the time
You have the mindset of a winner and I absolutely agree! What you're expecting of your ex though, as you can see, is close to impossible. Sometimes people are straightforward with each other but oftentimes, folks can't communicate how they want to or have already stepped out of the relationship and has found someone else. People can be selfish, I guess. Anyway I understand what you're going through. You know, moving on is a tricky process and the emotions come in waves. This video is for you: th-cam.com/video/01wvLSaS9_I/w-d-xo.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: th-cam.com/video/2CakOOSwIiY/w-d-xo.html & understand where your ex is at during the breakup process: y2u.be/dqnqGWOk9NA or get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup guide as that will help you and your mindset to evolve from the breakup and therefore become the best version of yourself. Take care!
He broke up with me 3 months we planned a future together he blocked me on everything he seems to be happy and soon moved on with his life going out enjoying himself
Sorry to hear that. Here are the most common reasons for being blocked and my thoughts about it, including what to do: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 and don't forget to take the quiz if you still have want to know what your chances are and/or still have questions on what to do after, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz
Hi Brad, I did the quiz (65) - it’s not looking good for me as it’s been almost 6 months and she’s seeing another guy. All good though… I’ve met someone new and it’s going well 😊
@@breakupbradbrowning hi brad I do feel positive I do all your tips on your videos nothing working for me I looked what to do if he blocked me he anores my text nothing working what you telling people to do
Women with self esteem never feel guilt. Never. Women rarely feel lonelyness bc they have good social circle, parents, kids to be with. Women has too many options to explore too. Men are always intrerested in them. Women in ther 40s and 50s have menopause which makes them asexual too.
Not just women, but men too. We can credit that to almost 8 billion folks on the planet! It's why it's important to not act needy or desperate around an ex because that does nothing but kill the attraction even further.
@breakupbradbrowning women have always plenty of options to explore, unlike men. And they know it. And women have the victim mentality which makes them immoral.
@@breakupbradbrowning women ALWAYS blame men in everything and never feel any guilt themselves. And this a great power -- the victim mentality. Knowledge that you are always right and you can do anything and not caring about ethics etc. And women have this.
My ex, whom I have given my love and devotion to for 12+ years, replaced me with his extremely toxic adult son so he won’t really be lonely or feel the impact of not having an SO. He actually moved his 23 year-old son back in with him, and then tried to breadcrumb me after I moved out. I haven’t initiated contact with him for over three months, and counting.
Why can't you all co-exist together and what is the actual issue? Can't it be all three of you versus the problem instead of you versus him and his son? If the answer is no, then understand that it's his choice and that ultimately the breakup is a blessing in disguise and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: th-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/w-d-xo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com
If she watches all my stories and added me back as a friend on facebook after I’ve done no contact for 2 weeks , is that a good sign , I think she actually broke up with me because of her dad , I’m much older than her and we fought and I said something bad to her in a text and her dad read it and than an hour or less she broke up with me , I got her back after driving 3 hours to her house but her dad stared me down the whole time and the next morning she said it didn’t look good for her to be with me , what do you think
If your ex is in the right age to make her own decisions that’s independent from their parents, then there may still be a chance. Otherwise, it's best to consider moving on from this, okay? I’m not quite sure why parents had to get involved in the first place. It's either you're both too young to date or it has something to do with culture. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: th-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/w-d-xo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: th-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/w-d-xo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
Hi Brad, hope you are doing well my friend. Not sure if you remember me but my name is Nick and I signed up to your coaching this time last year so happy anniversary 🤣 (kinda). It has been a tough and long 12 months but now I am in a much better position than when I was the last time I spoke to you. I would love to give you an update with everything that's happened but I don't think this is the right place to do that but I just want to let you know that I am doing very well and that I will never forget how you helped me get back on my feet. Thank you once again and look after yourself. Stay safe my friend! 👍
Awww thanks, Nick! I'm happy for yah! Thanks for the update. :-)
My ex of five yrs cheated a few years ago. Forgave him at his plea for cheating a few yrs ago. Now currently he couldn't be honest and end it with me instead he ghosted me for a few months. After he unexpectedly popped up at my car to talk but I walked away didn't give him the chance to talk. Told him his demons irritate me. When he ghosted me I started hating him and stopped loving or desiring him. He had nartistic ways. I know why he ghosted me and I so disrespect him. I'd never go back to that creep.
I don't think it is possible to really love someone who broke up with you again and especially they come back after hooking up with other people.
This depends on the circumstance and the issues in the relationship that led to the breakup but as I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved or if it was overall a dysfunctional/toxic relationship. It's your life and it's your decision.
Yeah that’s the thing once you hookup with another man it’s officially over
Exactly if she dates or sleeps with another man-goodbye forever, no contact, get a new cell number and by now unfollow and block her on all social media. I will not subject myself to anything involving her ever again. it would end my feelings and any love I have left for her. Won’t be friends either. Too painful and too raw and real. I never would wish her harm , but I’m not accepting infidelity ever.
I agree, once they’ve been intimate with someone else it has the same effect as cheating. You’d have to lack both feeling and self-awareness to be with someone under such circumstances
If she is with someone else it sounds as if the majority of the negative things listed she will not feel. She can’t be lonely if she replaced you with a half ass carbon copy.
That's true to an extent but this is where your history together comes into play. If you've had more good times than bad and if it was an otherwise healthy relationship that went through a rough patch like all relationships do, then the odds are on your side. Good luck!
Hey brother if i can ask you to share your wisdom on small matter....bumped into my ex today after 3 weeks begging and 3.5 weeks now no contact, she hugged me, kissed me on a cheek and ask how i am...only answered to her amazing...dom't feel like share to much....now to understand better last time we hugged we were together....my thinking she's trying to feel where i am, probably thinking gonna text her to boost her ego knowing i'm still around, which in no fckin way ever gonna do that to myself again, also she was overly happy you can feel from a plane she's fakeing that sh....thats about it, what's your opinion if you can share, if not brother i understand.....much love💙@@breakupbradbrowning
Mine was somewhat toxic and she was very insecure. She was caring and supportive and kind when she wasn’t being crazy. I fumbled her and she fumbled me. I broke up with her and then I bring up reconciliation and she went and stole her best friend’s man to replace me so fast even though I told her I needed space and I wasn’t interested in other people. Just needed space from her because our fights were getting nasty. I didn’t beg per se, but I did try to convince her to get back with me but she wasn’t having it. So the only option I have is NC. Oh well. I’m doing NC so good an older ex has come back. Other women have come out of the woodwork too. I miss us though.
My ex sent me an email saying he missed me after about a month of breaking up- more than 10 years relationship- so he def misses me and told me directly however I messed up on No Contact I kept communicating so I’m just restarting my timer - I loved this video This one was relatable ❤
My ex gf blindsided me 7 months ago with breaking up with me after 7 and a half years of being together. We just moved to Florida and 3 weeks later I had to come back to NYC and flew back the next day only to find a note on the table saying she wanted to break up. Don't know why. Didn't hear from her for 7 months, then all of a sudden 2 weeks ago I get a text telling me that she saw my FB story, and then nothing. I said ok and that was it. Been on no contact for 5 months. The first 2 months I asked her to reconsider. When she said let's go our separate ways I went no contact until 2 weeks ago. What should I do now? The longer we're apart, the more I want to stay apart. Thank you for the video's Brad! Very cool!
Sorry to hear that. Perhaps there's a reason why you want to stay apart? Watch this first: th-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/w-d-xo.html
I did all your strategies brad but in the end we prioritize our self first in this right we forgive each other is this right i dont even beg and please her
It's good you were able to take control of your emotions during this time. Having an amicable breakup is better (because it rarely happens) than you guys blocking off each other. Cut off contact for at least 30 days and focus on yourself. You can then reach out to your ex after the 30-days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: th-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/w-d-xo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: th-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/w-d-xo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
Cool video. I like it ❤ . I am trying to shake my ex off. She's an avoidant personality and I think she's being intimate with another man. It's draining me. I am afraid she'll get or already has an STD.
You're welcome. This may help you process or deal with the breakup more efficiently: th-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/w-d-xo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!
not your problem, she's his problem now.
Yikes! But yeah, the more she sleeps around, the higher the chances of that happening.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved him so much i can’t stop thinking about him and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Queen Stella Laveau, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
How can my ex be lonely? His primary relationship is with his best guy friend, and that friendship continues. For all intents and purposes they are married, except for s3x. I'm happy for him, but its not a great recipe for any future relationship with a woman.
His best friend is not you and both provide different kinds of stuff in his life more than the closest friendship ever does. However, let's focus on the issue between you two. Is his relationship with his best friend hindering your relationship? Does he spend his time more with his bestfriend rather than you two? It may just be a matter of who he prioritizes, which, if he really wanted to, he can.
What if you can’t do no contact because of kids? There’s no way to have a mutual party for hand off, he’s been coming to my house for visits, and we were cordial, even borderline friendly again (he’d eat food I’d cooked, seemed comfortable etc) and then I found out he was on dating apps again after just 3 months apart - claiming looking for “friends” - is that the loneliness? Is it possible he’s moved on already? 4 years together and a baby I feel like I’m easily replaceable and I just want to put my family back together
its likely your ex was trying to gauge your reaction to hearing that he's dating and see if you were jealous. if its only 3 months it still probably falls under "rebound".
@@phantasma616 he didn’t know that I would know I don’t think - our son grabbed his phone during a visit and I took it away and it lit up with messages from 2 diff dating apps
I get what you mean. If you're hellbent on trying to work things out, let me just set expectations that it's a tough battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: th-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/w-d-xo.html AND th-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/w-d-xo.html
I think I took a step backwards tonight. In the beginning of the split I’ll admit I got emotional, i begged. Tonight I tried to talk, take accountability for my trust issues and other emotional reactions, and it wasn’t well received. I sent him a message apologizing for that, that it was no excuse, my emotions. No reply from him. I didn’t expect one. I want my family back together. This is the third time we’ve separated and he doesn’t think things can change but I think they can. I don’t know how to show him if he’s not around to see it
Most women have been thinking about splitting up years earlier. They get a man and hide him. She doesn't feel pain when she bails out. She might feel some pain if and when the new guy bails out.
Thanks for dropping by!
Agreed. And they don't miss the sex because they have new sex lined up before they split with you.
What do i do if we just broke up 3 weeks ago. After 16 years and she is still on our lease and she is still living here. Sleeping in the same bed getting all the fruits of my labor since i have provided for this family and our kids for all this time while she was a stay at home Mom..now she starting a job finally and leaving ! But still will take her a while to move out. And she owes like 30 G's in child suport with her first son .how am i suppose to make her feel ger consequences if she is still living here. Im a fucking mess snf she is so happy while im a fucking wreck. She has veen planning on leaving for a while and has told me nothing until right before x-mas ..i just dont understand what im suppose to do here. I love her anf she is the mother of our 4 boys and i want her to stay..idk what to do.
Hi there! You may still be able to save this. Do your best to play your cards right. Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation where we could get to the bottom of the issue/s: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
I stupidly drunk text her(went into no contact right after) told her I went on a date but that I hope we have a future. I have been watching coach lee who said you never want to let them think you went on a date. I messed everything up. From beginning to end. Should I tell her it wasn’t a date? Please, I’m begging you to help me 😭
Unless you went on a date while still in a relationship, I don't think there's any foul play done here, granted you were the one being dumped and not the other way around. However, what's offensive to your ex may be the fact that you went out of your way to try to make her jealous or get a reaction, especially via drunk texting.
Hey Brad I started your program and I’m about 2 weeks into no contact however I feel like I should do it for longer than 30 days due to circumstances, she seems very upset still she’s been posing all the sad stuff you mention and I’ve been out enjoying time with new friends. Do you think I should try reconnect after 30 days or keep it going longer I scored 61 on your test and I’ve been following all the steps in your program many thanks
Yes, feel free to do so. Average is somewhere around 4-6 weeks. Looks like you're on the right track, so keep it up and follow what's on the guide, yeah? Best of luck!
Great Content Coach.
My ex monkey branched, after I called it off with them, but soon thereafter I had a change of heart, but she stayed going towards the new guy, even though I begged. A month in, she’s now posting on her social media with new chap, and I’ve since gone no contact.
Imo, she’ll be back, after this new fake relationship fizzles, because I was her best ever bf, (her words), and we were each other’s love of our life, and our memories and experiences were epic.
Will update soon.
Never beg. Try to apply the tips from this vid first: th-cam.com/video/Y5jwPaxmJUM/w-d-xo.html
Why did you dump her some people dont have time for breakup games
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That’s an ask and assume type question. lol
Why do you think it must’ve been game playing? She’s an anxiety/anxious type, (which I did not know at the time is a mental health condition), that caused her to constantly project her insecurities onto me, with bogus accusations of infidelity, an unwarranted attack on my character, and tiring.
Next time please try not to ask and assume. Thanks!
@bpoydras1503 yes but instead of discussing and resolving together as a team,you dumped her......when she moved on,maybe its because she felt that she had no security in your relationship....,she felt you can leave her anytime things get rough
@@bpoydras1503 but I don't think she s gone for good
My so called relationship 5 yrs was one of misery. He cheated, lied, silent treatments and ghosted me. I found out he had friends with benefits. After ghosting me a month he returned to talk as if he did nothing wrong. I walked away did not give him a chance to talk. I lost feelings and desire for him when he ghosted me. I resent him and will never return to him . I will never talk to him. He played his self and lost a good woman.
Right on! If you ask me, the breakup looks like a blessing in disguise anyway because really life is short and you didn't deserve such mistreatment. Anyway, it's important to take time to heal from the trauma that experience may have brought you and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: th-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/w-d-xo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com Take care!
My partner had an affair which lasted 8 months. He moved back home and said he wanted to live his life with me. Said all the plans, things he wants us to do.
We went out the other evening and had a lovely time. We had a disagreement once home, I brought up the other woman. Now he's angry with me, says I've crossed the line. Even though there have been times when he's brought her up saying how much he hates her, has no feelings for her etc etc.
What can I do? I don't want this to spoil our relationship
As tough as this sounds, try not to bring up the past anymore. Give him the benefit of the doubt unless you're seeing signs he's being unfaithful again. Take your time in making this decision though. If you can fully forgive him and learn to trust him again, then move forward with him, otherwise you may have to consider moving on from this if you two can't rebuild the trust that was lost because you won't find peace especially if he's uncooperative. Discuss ways to regain your trust and see how he reacts. If you're needing more help, hire me as your coach so I can guide you accordingly, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Talk soon?
@breakupbradbrowning thank you for the reply. The thing which he is mad about and says I have crossed the line, I said that I was going to email the woman he had an affair with. She left him with some debt. So obviously, he's angry about what she did. I can't remember saying any of it.
He's not very tech savvy, so I said, "How can I email someone without any contact details. You should realise that I was obviously talking rubbish. I am not threatened by her, I'm not jealous of her.
He thinks it will always be at the back of my mind, and it may come up again. Even though over the last month he's talked about wanting to get his revenge on her.
How do I convince him that it won't happen again?
@MichelleShellHolliday it seems he has unfinished business with her and you are now his rebound....you deserve better since he s making you pay for his own frustrations with her.....he learned the hard way and now you took him in to heal him,instead of appreciating, he is acting like you are not important.
Everything you said is what I’m going through though she left me but since then she had her friend staying with her non stop keeping her company etc she looks fine n I’ve left her alone we only had an argument but she said not happy no more cause her prep she competes but 9 years how is it I’m going through hell n she is fine n distracted
Maybe she contemplated the breakup prior to dropping the big news on you? A strong support system can help a great ton in times of hardships. Breakups are never easy and if you can take time to re-organize your life and accept the breakup, the pain will eventually subside and you'll come to full acceptance -- in case the situation with your ex has been damaged beyond repair. This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: th-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/w-d-xo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!
Please don't take an ex back who could not see your value and appreciate you. Especially if they broke up with you. There are 8 billion people on the planet. Your chances are higher in finding someone more suitable for you that a person who can quickly leave and try to manipulate their way back. You deserve better. I don't give second chances.
Complacency is a major relationship killer. It's important to take time to appreciate your partner every now and then and vice versa.
Hi Brad, my ex and I been apart for 5mts now. We just had a good chat a few days ago and he kept bringing up our relationship and ask if I could cuddle with him, and while cuddling he said we could hang out occasionally. Today he said we will never get back together and said he only puts up with me because I’m familiar, but his action has been saying otherwise. Where talking tonight n idk how I should approach it
Make sure you don't sleep with him too soon. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: th-cam.com/video/STLjybyiaBQ/w-d-xo.html
can the no contact rule last for more than 30 days like 2 months or more??? or do you think it will work more and also to give him more time so that he'll be the one who woukd contact first?
Average time is 30 days but can go anywhere from 4 to 6 weeks in usual cases. If there's been some endless begging and/or refusing to cut off contact on your end, however, I usually suggest to give it more time, around 2 months or even more. Cheating instances are different if you've cheated, could be longer or shorter depending on how your ex reacts. Do take note that in some instances where the dumpee just couldn't take the hint and continually bugs their ex for months, there comes a time where the ex reaches a "breaking point" and confirms it's the right decision to break up and becomes hellbent in moving on from you. So the bottom line is the "no contact" rule is best applied when the breakup is still fresh. Discussed the importance of silence here: th-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/w-d-xo.html Also don't forget to watch my other vids so you'll know what to do after the "no contact" phase, especially if you're not getting my 2.0 version of the Ex Factor Guide. Good luck!
Please I am currently doing no contact with my ex for about 10 days today but my money is with her that I want to collect it. If I do haven't I broken the rule of no contact and need to start over again??
If it's a huge amount which your ex agreed to pay, then yes, that's one of the exceptions of the no contact rule and you won't be breaking the no contact rule if you do that. This vid is for you, too: th-cam.com/video/ek_4wpkV66c/w-d-xo.html
what do I do if she contacts me to give my belongs back?
This vid is for you: th-cam.com/video/2OfUA9o2Opw/w-d-xo.html
She was looking for contact and to hurt you
Hey Brad, My ex says we’re never getting back together because thats going backwards he said.
Hi! This vid is for you: th-cam.com/video/519e6C-H9zU/w-d-xo.html
Ive set my boundaries and told her i dont want to be a backup if things dont work out everytime i state my boundaries she acts like i need access to her schedule that i never asked for. I know my mind is healing it just makes it worse when she steps in dont text and then some random text about heading to work.
Good. Have you given each other space yet for at least 30 days though? Perhaps make some changes to your routine and set expectations accordingly? Certain things that used to happen while in a relationship with her need to be stop now that you've broken up. Unfortunately this includes her giving you an update to her whereabouts or whatnot. It's best you don't behave like her boyfriend and allow her time to process the breakup on her own terms, too. This vid is for you: th-cam.com/video/BhgssmO1ty4/w-d-xo.html
It is very hard to have no contact after a break up when you have young kids.
Also if your ex is already in a rebound relationship you might as well forget about them and move on which is what I did
It's your right to move on and live your life to the fullest. There's a chance their relationship might not work out, but there's also equally a chance it might but don't wait around to find out. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/ZyJRphwDca4 and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUB
How do you that when you have kids together
If you have kids and/or other responsibilities still tied to your ex, it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule instead of the full on silence associated with the no contact rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: th-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/w-d-xo.html AND th-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/w-d-xo.html or for a comprehensive guide on how to go about things, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 at www.breakupbrad.com
Narcissist humans everywhere kids too 😮😮😮
I covered that topic on my other channel,. Here's the link: th-cam.com/video/0jBl_lD35JQ/w-d-xo.html
Hi Brad
I want to know she keeps posting on status what made us break up. What does it mean ?
Could be just her way of coping. Leave it be because that's her page. You can hide her notifications or her profile if you're still friends with her on social media if that option allows you to... or simply stop stalking so you can focus on yourself! :-)
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let her go i did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: th-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/w-d-xo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: th-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/w-d-xo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
It more than 30days of No contact it almost two months now he hasn't reach out
What should I do has he forgetting me totally
You can actually reach out to your ex after the 30 days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: th-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/w-d-xo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: th-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/w-d-xo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
Make um feel it,they run further away..
Just save yourself,not them
Thanks ford dropping by!
well he cheated on me and then got together with the person, so I guess there will be no comeback, but honestly I wish him the best. I deserve the best and so does anyone else. Still wish he would have been kind and simply openly break up so we could have stayed good friends since we were during that time, but now without him saying sorry or even writing there is no friendship I guess and I accept that aswell in the end I have other friends and there will come other peoples all the time
You have the mindset of a winner and I absolutely agree! What you're expecting of your ex though, as you can see, is close to impossible. Sometimes people are straightforward with each other but oftentimes, folks can't communicate how they want to or have already stepped out of the relationship and has found someone else. People can be selfish, I guess. Anyway I understand what you're going through. You know, moving on is a tricky process and the emotions come in waves. This video is for you: th-cam.com/video/01wvLSaS9_I/w-d-xo.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: th-cam.com/video/2CakOOSwIiY/w-d-xo.html & understand where your ex is at during the breakup process: y2u.be/dqnqGWOk9NA or get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup guide as that will help you and your mindset to evolve from the breakup and therefore become the best version of yourself. Take care!
He broke up with me 3 months we planned a future together he blocked me on everything he seems to be happy and soon moved on with his life going out enjoying himself
Same with me 😢
Stay strong and best of luck
Sorry to hear that. Here are the most common reasons for being blocked and my thoughts about it, including what to do: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 and don't forget to take the quiz if you still have want to know what your chances are and/or still have questions on what to do after, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz
Hi Brad,
I did the quiz (65) - it’s not looking good for me as it’s been almost 6 months and she’s seeing another guy.
All good though… I’ve met someone new and it’s going well 😊
@@breakupbradbrowning hi brad I do feel positive I do all your tips on your videos nothing working for me I looked what to do if he blocked me he anores my text nothing working what you telling people to do
Did your ex ever reach out to you???
He is stubborn he didn't even say happy birthday to me
That's happened to me for 2 Valentine's Days and 3 birthdays.
That's harsh. Sorry to hear that.
I put a 2 yr restraining order on my ex i wont look back at her
Well, good for you. Thanks for dropping by! :-)
Women with self esteem never feel guilt. Never. Women rarely feel lonelyness bc they have good social circle, parents, kids to be with. Women has too many options to explore too. Men are always intrerested in them.
Women in ther 40s and 50s have menopause which makes them asexual too.
Not just women, but men too. We can credit that to almost 8 billion folks on the planet! It's why it's important to not act needy or desperate around an ex because that does nothing but kill the attraction even further.
@breakupbradbrowning women have always plenty of options to explore, unlike men. And they know it. And women have the victim mentality which makes them immoral.
40s asexual?😂😂😂😂😂 how about hypersexual
@@breakupbradbrowning women ALWAYS blame men in everything and never feel any guilt themselves. And this a great power -- the victim mentality. Knowledge that you are always right and you can do anything and not caring about ethics etc. And women have this.
My ex said he is relieved
That's the first stage of an evolving 6-stage process of a dumper...which I've covered here: th-cam.com/video/dqnqGWOk9NA/w-d-xo.html
We me there is NO comeback if she cheats.
The ball is in your court and if she's not trying to get you back, I agree, you ought to move on completely.
Lol this video just sounds like someone who’s really sour who cant move on😂
Maybe... or maybe it's for those folks who love truly and want to let their ego down and give it one last push so they can move on without regrets.
My ex, whom I have given my love and devotion to for 12+ years, replaced me with his extremely toxic adult son so he won’t really be lonely or feel the impact of not having an SO.
He actually moved his 23 year-old son back in with him, and then tried to breadcrumb me after I moved out.
I haven’t initiated contact with him for over three months, and counting.
Why can't you all co-exist together and what is the actual issue? Can't it be all three of you versus the problem instead of you versus him and his son? If the answer is no, then understand that it's his choice and that ultimately the breakup is a blessing in disguise and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: th-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/w-d-xo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com
If she watches all my stories and added me back as a friend on facebook after I’ve done no contact for 2 weeks , is that a good sign , I think she actually broke up with me because of her dad , I’m much older than her and we fought and I said something bad to her in a text and her dad read it and than an hour or less she broke up with me , I got her back after driving 3 hours to her house but her dad stared me down the whole time and the next morning she said it didn’t look good for her to be with me , what do you think
If your ex is in the right age to make her own decisions that’s independent from their parents, then there may still be a chance. Otherwise, it's best to consider moving on from this, okay? I’m not quite sure why parents had to get involved in the first place. It's either you're both too young to date or it has something to do with culture. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!
Look for someone around your age
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach one?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips:
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including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process:
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but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at
www.breakupbrad.com