Your Silence After their Rejection is Killing Them | Stoicism

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  • @Coldheart1903
    @Coldheart1903 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    This video speaks truth and life changing that I hope people can appreciate…👍

  • @melanieoreilly2565
    @melanieoreilly2565 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    I am worth way more than his disrespect and crumbs. So I switched the music off. I'm dancing elsewhere, and loving it

    • @marytaylor9504
      @marytaylor9504 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I'm saying the sapme!!! I'm of GREATEST WORTH!!!

    • @mantra9wolf
      @mantra9wolf หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Beautifuly said 👍🏼😇

    • @Zeepjeliefs
      @Zeepjeliefs หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm proud of you, you are your own friend 🌻

    • @bettyfelton1362
      @bettyfelton1362 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@melanieoreilly2565 Go tidda girl 🥰

    • @TheStoicBeacon-TGG
      @TheStoicBeacon-TGG หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You deserve so much more than disrespect and empty effort. Turning off that "music" and dancing elsewhere is such a powerful move-focusing on your own happiness and growth is the best thing you can do for yourself. Keep loving yourself first, and watch how your life transforms. You’re worth everything!

  • @dtorres2527
    @dtorres2527 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    “I am worth more than their regret. I choose myself over your temporary feelings.”
    I felt that!

  • @marytaylor9504
    @marytaylor9504 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Silence IS GOLDEN and GOD Is MY Advenger!!!

    • @sandie4870
      @sandie4870 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen. 🙏🏽

    • @mmff5242
      @mmff5242 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      silence is indeed golden. Shut up and get rich.

    • @Scorned405
      @Scorned405 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A genie up in the clouds is your avenger??

    • @privateuser8511
      @privateuser8511 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Scorned405leave other people alone and focus on your own beliefs

  • @redbertiethechampion1863
    @redbertiethechampion1863 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I was her anchor, her safety net for several months. All of a sudden she told me it was over, I got devastated…shocked! I decided to go completely silent; blocked her from every social media there is, no texting, no contact at all. Today, 12 days later, she reached out to me. I haven’t answered her…Not sure i want to! But silence is pure power..💫

    • @hashrosinking1608
      @hashrosinking1608 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      This happened to me but with a 10 year relationship. Day 5

    • @beautifulspirit2973
      @beautifulspirit2973 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@hashrosinking1608 So sorry to hear that . Stay strong. I had a 9 year relationship end in a similar way but now know I’m much happier without him

    • @pedroroque829
      @pedroroque829 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I'm on day 8 today. She basically broke up with me on 15 November and came back on 25 November. She broke up again on 28 November and now I'm serious on no contact

    • @mariaj6551
      @mariaj6551 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Stay strong! Keep going!

  • @maribelavila272
    @maribelavila272 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Silence is my superpower, Jesus is my strength. I will no longer make him an idol above my Lord Jesus Christ my Messiah

  • @mzggina
    @mzggina 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    My silent is hard ..... I'm determined to succeed. No more being disrespected n waiting for a text
    So done!!!
    Going on two weeks with my silent.

  • @MargaretFrank-hg7bz
    @MargaretFrank-hg7bz หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Silence is my power now. I cannot continue the abuse. Thank you.

  • @monikakpos7667
    @monikakpos7667 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Yeah!!! I have gained self respect

    • @joyceclarke2390
      @joyceclarke2390 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm staying strong thank you

  • @joanitanamawejje4645
    @joanitanamawejje4645 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I am irreplaceable my value cannot be filled with anybody else

  • @zenaashworth4950
    @zenaashworth4950 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Silence my superpower

  • @thoudamindibati1505
    @thoudamindibati1505 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Karma is real. Karma will judge equally. Om namah shivay 🙏

  • @stellabandante2727
    @stellabandante2727 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So good!!!! I need to listen to this every day.

  • @ellakidd6512
    @ellakidd6512 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Iam unshaken by their absent i am building my own strength

  • @Brightestlightt
    @Brightestlightt หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This helped me tremendously thank you 😊

  • @hashrosinking1608
    @hashrosinking1608 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Im gaining my self respect back after being disrespcted everday for the last 10 years. I no longer have the burden of making someone feel good that dosnt feel good about themself.

  • @vrushali3337
    @vrushali3337 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    No amount of books will bring in such deeply profound psychological truth. Thank you very much for the realist life altering insights shared🙏

  • @MariaPeros-Bradica
    @MariaPeros-Bradica หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Keep it up! 3 months into my silence and I’m feeling strong 💪🏻

    • @lovelyblac5481
      @lovelyblac5481 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      2 months an some weeks. Standing 10 toes

  • @opudo
    @opudo หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Keep it ooooh this is the best channel for heart break,yes am taking notes...the pain in my heartache is cooling down this video has saved my heart break

  • @debbieumah6343
    @debbieumah6343 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'm free now in Jesus mighty name and thanks for thus great video

  • @defalcotransport
    @defalcotransport หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am Unshaken by their indifference. I’m building my own strength and worth! Amen 🙏🏻

  • @tommylee2544
    @tommylee2544 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Silence is my superpower

  • @bettyfelton1362
    @bettyfelton1362 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Silence is deadly 😊🔥🫦

  • @Heaven_2U
    @Heaven_2U หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for the comfort of knowing and acknowledging the strength and power that is within us. Our silence is indeed our superpower🩵

  • @StoicPerson0312
    @StoicPerson0312 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video was incredibly empowering and insightful! The message about the silent strength we hold and how it reshapes our worth was so moving. It’s a powerful reminder that silence can speak louder than words, fostering growth and clarity. Thank you for this profound perspective on reclaiming self-worth and understanding the true power of silence. Truly inspiring!

  • @Oceanus00
    @Oceanus00 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    From start to finish - powerful speech and thank you so much for sharing ❤️.

  • @userPs91victory
    @userPs91victory 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Words are Silver and SILENCE is gold. Your video is awesome 👏🏽 it strengthens my silence attitude towards disrespect thank you!!!! Despising and Silence go hands in hands.

  • @paulclarke3621
    @paulclarke3621 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Brilliant advice and so important in these times of mental health increase.

  • @naysilverspirit5411
    @naysilverspirit5411 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    My situation is a little different.. we both love each other but he needed space. He has a kind soul not narcissistic… I haven’t reached out to him because of the space 😢 it’s just sad

    • @poohsroadful
      @poohsroadful หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I have a similar situation you and I just did this to my man it took 4 days before he was begging me back and showering me with gifts and asking me what I needed from our relationship. He recognized my worth in his life and it didn't take long it's not always about self-reflection or whatever your man seems to think he needs it's about what you need don't wait around too long if you're worth isn't enough for him it will be for someone else and I know how hard it is because I just did it and I was a complete mess for those days but it had to be done life is short and no one is promised tomorrow take care of yourself be true to yourself put yourself first then you can truly love and be loved I hope everything works out for you the way you want it to and you are truly loved the way you deserve

    • @naysilverspirit5411
      @naysilverspirit5411 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @ thank you , your words mean a lot❤️❤️❤️

    • @Brutalismus_
      @Brutalismus_ หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here. He needed space to reflect on his problems but he left lines of communication open and no bridges were burnt. I told him I'll give him space. It's been almost a month and it hurts but I'm not giving in. The ball is in his court.

  • @httlawfirm7567
    @httlawfirm7567 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yes I will apply your lesson to be strong & silent

  • @abj99861
    @abj99861 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was brilliant, watching again to fully digest

  • @TheTropics4
    @TheTropics4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    It's been a long 46 days since he dumped me. I broke the NC two times at the beginning, but I've held strong 21 days now & haven't broke the NC! I'm very proud of myself. Tomorrow is Veterans Day & he was in the Army 22 yrs & served in combat in Afghanistan 4 yrs which he suffers from PTSD. It's going to take every ounce in me not to acknowledge him, but I must keep silent. This will reveal his true feelings for me as you said. Either he'll face his fear and reach out to me, or he'll stay in his own silence which I will begin my new adventure on my own! Thank you for this video!!❣️

    • @claita26
      @claita26 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Are you sure you want someone with PTSD! Think abt that 🙏

    • @Reina10
      @Reina10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You don't need him dear. Move on...

    • @harryquinn8911
      @harryquinn8911 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      True love never dies, fake feelings never existed. You sound like the kind of person all men dream of so be strong it will be worth it ❤

    • @pokeorigin4799
      @pokeorigin4799 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Stay strong 💪🏼

    • @Ladymumma444
      @Ladymumma444 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What was his excuse for dumping? How long were you together? Stay strong 💪

  • @Heal-f8p
    @Heal-f8p 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This video is pure entertainment. These words can provide comfort for a very short while, but not to be taken entirely seriously. I doubt she is actually miserable without me or drowning in regret. She didn't care. The only option was for me to go away and prioritize self care. Period.

  • @MarinaSvensson-w9d
    @MarinaSvensson-w9d หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for this wisdom. This made me realized that by still trying to soothe them and make them feel better (although my intent was to help them and support them) I unknowingly enabled them which has prevented them from growing and learning from their mistakes. This was a wakeup call for sure. It might take some time for me to be able to let them go fully, but you made me realize and acknowledge how crucial letting them go is for my own growth and theirz.

  • @aishablacksa8632
    @aishablacksa8632 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video make me stronger than ever😊 thank very much

  • @BruceMatsche-qi5vx
    @BruceMatsche-qi5vx หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I have been used by this Women . On these sites that they are payed to Chat. I have learned a lot about these Women . And worth every penny. Now I disconnect when . I feel they are playing a game . Even though I have been taught. To street outs as I would like to be treated .I am so grateful for your information. Which give me the assurance that . I will stay strong and stay Disconnected.

  • @noorarahad6345
    @noorarahad6345 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much for this advice. It helps me to survive in my abusive relationship

  • @noorarahad6345
    @noorarahad6345 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Silence is my power

  • @lynnbain2909
    @lynnbain2909 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am open to God for my new chapters 🙏 ❤ Thank you so much for all of the confirmations!!😊

  • @RosalindaDiaz-n9f
    @RosalindaDiaz-n9f 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I choose my self over their dececion ect.....

  • @sallydaly5597
    @sallydaly5597 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you too, for this excillent self management.

  • @evelindasuchiang9641
    @evelindasuchiang9641 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Inspiring ! Thank you. God bless

  • @manischafer1919
    @manischafer1919 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Silence is my super power

  • @stevenmcclam4627
    @stevenmcclam4627 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Silence is my superpower😊

  • @abasstiger26
    @abasstiger26 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Silence is my superpower🙏

  • @Teekhi_mirchi8808
    @Teekhi_mirchi8808 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Silence is my superpower❤

  • @patriciastevenson1079
    @patriciastevenson1079 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow. Wow wow. Thank you 😊

  • @Ladymumma444
    @Ladymumma444 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It’s really hard actually. I’ve been silent 🤫 over a week but he would NOT commit after 2.5 years and I can’t be with someone who won’t call me his!!!! Ouch either way hurts but this way I’ve taken back my self respect ❤

  • @julieryan8179
    @julieryan8179 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Silence is my super power! It's not a weakness it's my strength and he will feel it.

  • @sondrah150
    @sondrah150 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    On my own and loving it

  • @pokeorigin4799
    @pokeorigin4799 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Silence is my strength 💪🏼 silence is my super slower

  • @larverncatron5360
    @larverncatron5360 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Silence is my Super Power!!!

  • @monikakpos7667
    @monikakpos7667 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Am staying strong....

  • @lisarusso5096
    @lisarusso5096 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yup!!! Silence...equal my peace and happiness ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @defalcotransport
    @defalcotransport หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Silence is my Super Power. Amen

  • @patriciazello1308
    @patriciazello1308 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Am progressing forward in my quiet withdrawal from family members.
    It's hard but I realize my silence is what I need to do for self preservation.

  • @Vcjphm
    @Vcjphm 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I was everything for him for over 20 years. All of a sudden 2 days later he decides he doesn't want this anymore 😭😭😭😭 I was blown away my life is shattered my heart is in a million pieces I've been crying over 2 weeks I couldn't believe what I was hearing the man I loved and cherished and gave everything to and I mean everything all of a sudden said goodbye and broke me😢😢😢😢😢 I don't know where to turn everywhere I turn I think of him and the crying is Non-Stop I've been praying please Lord don't let this continue much longer I want to wake up and not feel the same way ever again😢

    • @teresacaon6109
      @teresacaon6109 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      He isn't worth your tears

  • @loveiskind-b2n
    @loveiskind-b2n 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video…🙏

  • @beautifulspirit2973
    @beautifulspirit2973 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Silence is my superpower ❤
    I claim me back!

  • @PhilTate-s1g
    @PhilTate-s1g หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    forget apart past relationships if they didn't work either a cheat ??or just move up be happy with yourself meet someone else or not 😮

  • @SANDRA_OKOTIE
    @SANDRA_OKOTIE 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Am unshakened

  • @sandraharding6890
    @sandraharding6890 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm strong and deserved more than an indifferent

  • @ellakidd6512
    @ellakidd6512 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Silence is my supper power

  • @olivermorris9754
    @olivermorris9754 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This really helped me

  • @YasminFisher-o9o
    @YasminFisher-o9o หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Keep it up!

  • @RosalindaDiaz-n9f
    @RosalindaDiaz-n9f 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm worth more than their regrets ect.....

  • @maryanndiamond1690
    @maryanndiamond1690 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow, now I see I was weak in showing all of this in showing kindness. .. You don't know your worth when you give.

    • @Nola5427
      @Nola5427 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Kindness is not weakness.

  • @stoicismphilosophy178
    @stoicismphilosophy178 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "The greater the difficulty, the more glory in overcoming it."

  • @joelmalcolmstewart4868
    @joelmalcolmstewart4868 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Silent is my super power.
    This is my so called Family Members.
    Am finally alone with God Again and I’m feeling so relieved,Happy And Strong.
    Snapchat is the only social media I have left and finally they are sending me request.
    The best thing I’ve ever done is block all of them.
    I don’t need and more Narcissistic people around me.
    I have had enough.
    And living in Paris France is another Narcissistic place.
    I don’t have Friends
    I enjoy my own company.
    People Drain my energy.
    Everybody looking for something.
    If I could live on another planet alone or on an island 🏝️
    I would be more happy.
    I want to leave France but it’s just a matter of time.
    Don’t forget in your prayers 🙏🏿
    God bless you and keep up the amazing work❤

    • @graceokoye84
      @graceokoye84 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Everyone is looking for something

  • @nexult5733
    @nexult5733 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Silence is their Godsend so they don’t have to feel any regret.
    Speak out as much as you want!!!!

  • @JodiScott-e6f
    @JodiScott-e6f หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Keep it up.

  • @MaryWanjiku-nh7cs
    @MaryWanjiku-nh7cs หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lets keep going we have to do this my dear lovely friends give beast long

  • @loladee2144
    @loladee2144 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Silence is my superpower 💪🏾

  • @tayechbelete7381
    @tayechbelete7381 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Silent is my super power

  • @Babyitzabenard
    @Babyitzabenard 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Silence is my super power 🙌

  • @rinkledtomato
    @rinkledtomato หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep it up!!

  • @anitanash7777
    @anitanash7777 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you, this is a very insightful & helpful vid.
    May God keep & guide all Truthseekers
    🙏💪❤️‍🩹🌱🌻

  • @stephaniejones6745
    @stephaniejones6745 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Keep ut up

  • @brendapezeron4984
    @brendapezeron4984 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks

  • @dedereimer5472
    @dedereimer5472 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The end of his last text said, "I'll come visit you this summer sometime.". I saw thru his lies & texted that back. 4 mos. later, I accidentally touched his number but I hung up right away. He called back but I did not answer. He asked for me to do him a favor. He then said, "We (his mom) miss you, I miss you.". I still kept silent, never called back. Did my accidental call ruin my "silence?"

    • @nancyaustin4665
      @nancyaustin4665 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am free now

    • @ellakidd6512
      @ellakidd6512 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My silence is my strength

    • @poohsroadful
      @poohsroadful หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't think so. I think he admitted his discomfort. But sometimes it's hard for a man because of their pride to admit that he needs you back. But I think that you are doing the right thing by staying silent so please stay silent. Stay strong and just stay committed to being true to yourself and true to your needs at this time. I just did this with my man and it took 4 days before he realized my worth in his life and he was showering me with gifts and asking me what I needed in our relationship and we're doing better now. So just stay strong but don't wait too long because life is short and everybody deserves to be loved the way they want to be loved

    • @uagang3872
      @uagang3872 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Do yall have a child together or any other ties that cause you to still have their number in your phone? If not, it may be best to delete his number and block it to prevent any further accidents.

  • @SkinWzrd
    @SkinWzrd หลายเดือนก่อน

    30 years and I'm now understanding what I was dealing with. Now it's silence and he disappeared into the night. So painful..

  • @johnnysunset2740
    @johnnysunset2740 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Silence is my super power, day 7

  • @leratoseretsi5603
    @leratoseretsi5603 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Keep it up❤

  • @ElizabethDiaz-q4b
    @ElizabethDiaz-q4b 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Silence is my superpower! How long does this take? It hurts so bad

    • @Genci-sj5qt
      @Genci-sj5qt 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Forever darling.. i have the same question and the answer to that question you already have.. and you know it.

  • @Lightwhite136
    @Lightwhite136 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Iam free now

    • @mariajosefinagravides3711
      @mariajosefinagravides3711 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm happy to see comments that they're healed. I hope I can post a comment like this

  • @stevieblackburn3811
    @stevieblackburn3811 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Silence is OUR super duper pooper scooper power 😮in Christ

  • @michelle-wh2cg
    @michelle-wh2cg 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm staying strong

  • @dododoreen1
    @dododoreen1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Keep it up

  • @Lisa-v8w
    @Lisa-v8w 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is my life at this very time !

  • @lynnbain2909
    @lynnbain2909 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keeping it up 🙏💯

  • @monikakpos7667
    @monikakpos7667 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Am irreplaceable...

  • @jemimamentoor
    @jemimamentoor หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lord strengthen me,empower me with super power from above

  • @SammieDuncan-v3u
    @SammieDuncan-v3u หลายเดือนก่อน

    Staying strong

  • @aprilbronze4801
    @aprilbronze4801 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ive been face to face with the creep and said absolutely nothing.... He texts me every couple of months i dont respond but i didnt block. Thats my sick pleasure now just seeing and not saying sh!t. Its been 7 months. And im not letting this method go.

  • @jemimamentoor
    @jemimamentoor หลายเดือนก่อน

    Silence is my superpower.

  • @hellr4zer0
    @hellr4zer0 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am irreplaceable! 💯❤️‍🔥

  • @sallydaly5597
    @sallydaly5597 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So what about the new supply? Is she not able to help the narcissist in times of these desperation?

  • @LiamScanlan-p9m
    @LiamScanlan-p9m หลายเดือนก่อน

    Silence is my super power.

  • @MrWhaatay
    @MrWhaatay 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I went silent 8 months ago and they just went silent in return. Most of the time they just don't care or are happy you are gone.

  • @Unrattled
    @Unrattled หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She said she wanted me to leave her alone, so I left her alone. No calls, no texts. I stopped existing in her world.