You deserve so much more than disrespect and empty effort. Turning off that "music" and dancing elsewhere is such a powerful move-focusing on your own happiness and growth is the best thing you can do for yourself. Keep loving yourself first, and watch how your life transforms. You’re worth everything!
I was her anchor, her safety net for several months. All of a sudden she told me it was over, I got devastated…shocked! I decided to go completely silent; blocked her from every social media there is, no texting, no contact at all. Today, 12 days later, she reached out to me. I haven’t answered her…Not sure i want to! But silence is pure power..💫
I'm on day 8 today. She basically broke up with me on 15 November and came back on 25 November. She broke up again on 28 November and now I'm serious on no contact
Im gaining my self respect back after being disrespcted everday for the last 10 years. I no longer have the burden of making someone feel good that dosnt feel good about themself.
Keep it ooooh this is the best channel for heart break,yes am taking notes...the pain in my heartache is cooling down this video has saved my heart break
This video was incredibly empowering and insightful! The message about the silent strength we hold and how it reshapes our worth was so moving. It’s a powerful reminder that silence can speak louder than words, fostering growth and clarity. Thank you for this profound perspective on reclaiming self-worth and understanding the true power of silence. Truly inspiring!
Words are Silver and SILENCE is gold. Your video is awesome 👏🏽 it strengthens my silence attitude towards disrespect thank you!!!! Despising and Silence go hands in hands.
My situation is a little different.. we both love each other but he needed space. He has a kind soul not narcissistic… I haven’t reached out to him because of the space 😢 it’s just sad
I have a similar situation you and I just did this to my man it took 4 days before he was begging me back and showering me with gifts and asking me what I needed from our relationship. He recognized my worth in his life and it didn't take long it's not always about self-reflection or whatever your man seems to think he needs it's about what you need don't wait around too long if you're worth isn't enough for him it will be for someone else and I know how hard it is because I just did it and I was a complete mess for those days but it had to be done life is short and no one is promised tomorrow take care of yourself be true to yourself put yourself first then you can truly love and be loved I hope everything works out for you the way you want it to and you are truly loved the way you deserve
Same here. He needed space to reflect on his problems but he left lines of communication open and no bridges were burnt. I told him I'll give him space. It's been almost a month and it hurts but I'm not giving in. The ball is in his court.
It's been a long 46 days since he dumped me. I broke the NC two times at the beginning, but I've held strong 21 days now & haven't broke the NC! I'm very proud of myself. Tomorrow is Veterans Day & he was in the Army 22 yrs & served in combat in Afghanistan 4 yrs which he suffers from PTSD. It's going to take every ounce in me not to acknowledge him, but I must keep silent. This will reveal his true feelings for me as you said. Either he'll face his fear and reach out to me, or he'll stay in his own silence which I will begin my new adventure on my own! Thank you for this video!!❣️
This video is pure entertainment. These words can provide comfort for a very short while, but not to be taken entirely seriously. I doubt she is actually miserable without me or drowning in regret. She didn't care. The only option was for me to go away and prioritize self care. Period.
Thanks for this wisdom. This made me realized that by still trying to soothe them and make them feel better (although my intent was to help them and support them) I unknowingly enabled them which has prevented them from growing and learning from their mistakes. This was a wakeup call for sure. It might take some time for me to be able to let them go fully, but you made me realize and acknowledge how crucial letting them go is for my own growth and theirz.
I have been used by this Women . On these sites that they are payed to Chat. I have learned a lot about these Women . And worth every penny. Now I disconnect when . I feel they are playing a game . Even though I have been taught. To street outs as I would like to be treated .I am so grateful for your information. Which give me the assurance that . I will stay strong and stay Disconnected.
It’s really hard actually. I’ve been silent 🤫 over a week but he would NOT commit after 2.5 years and I can’t be with someone who won’t call me his!!!! Ouch either way hurts but this way I’ve taken back my self respect ❤
I was everything for him for over 20 years. All of a sudden 2 days later he decides he doesn't want this anymore 😭😭😭😭 I was blown away my life is shattered my heart is in a million pieces I've been crying over 2 weeks I couldn't believe what I was hearing the man I loved and cherished and gave everything to and I mean everything all of a sudden said goodbye and broke me😢😢😢😢😢 I don't know where to turn everywhere I turn I think of him and the crying is Non-Stop I've been praying please Lord don't let this continue much longer I want to wake up and not feel the same way ever again😢
Silent is my super power. This is my so called Family Members. Am finally alone with God Again and I’m feeling so relieved,Happy And Strong. Snapchat is the only social media I have left and finally they are sending me request. The best thing I’ve ever done is block all of them. I don’t need and more Narcissistic people around me. I have had enough. And living in Paris France is another Narcissistic place. I don’t have Friends I enjoy my own company. People Drain my energy. Everybody looking for something. If I could live on another planet alone or on an island 🏝️ I would be more happy. I want to leave France but it’s just a matter of time. Don’t forget in your prayers 🙏🏿 God bless you and keep up the amazing work❤
The end of his last text said, "I'll come visit you this summer sometime.". I saw thru his lies & texted that back. 4 mos. later, I accidentally touched his number but I hung up right away. He called back but I did not answer. He asked for me to do him a favor. He then said, "We (his mom) miss you, I miss you.". I still kept silent, never called back. Did my accidental call ruin my "silence?"
I don't think so. I think he admitted his discomfort. But sometimes it's hard for a man because of their pride to admit that he needs you back. But I think that you are doing the right thing by staying silent so please stay silent. Stay strong and just stay committed to being true to yourself and true to your needs at this time. I just did this with my man and it took 4 days before he realized my worth in his life and he was showering me with gifts and asking me what I needed in our relationship and we're doing better now. So just stay strong but don't wait too long because life is short and everybody deserves to be loved the way they want to be loved
Do yall have a child together or any other ties that cause you to still have their number in your phone? If not, it may be best to delete his number and block it to prevent any further accidents.
Ive been face to face with the creep and said absolutely nothing.... He texts me every couple of months i dont respond but i didnt block. Thats my sick pleasure now just seeing and not saying sh!t. Its been 7 months. And im not letting this method go.
This video speaks truth and life changing that I hope people can appreciate…👍
I am worth way more than his disrespect and crumbs. So I switched the music off. I'm dancing elsewhere, and loving it
I'm saying the sapme!!! I'm of GREATEST WORTH!!!
Beautifuly said 👍🏼😇
I'm proud of you, you are your own friend 🌻
@@melanieoreilly2565 Go tidda girl 🥰
You deserve so much more than disrespect and empty effort. Turning off that "music" and dancing elsewhere is such a powerful move-focusing on your own happiness and growth is the best thing you can do for yourself. Keep loving yourself first, and watch how your life transforms. You’re worth everything!
“I am worth more than their regret. I choose myself over your temporary feelings.”
I felt that!
Silence IS GOLDEN and GOD Is MY Advenger!!!
Amen. 🙏🏽
silence is indeed golden. Shut up and get rich.
A genie up in the clouds is your avenger??
@@Scorned405leave other people alone and focus on your own beliefs
I was her anchor, her safety net for several months. All of a sudden she told me it was over, I got devastated…shocked! I decided to go completely silent; blocked her from every social media there is, no texting, no contact at all. Today, 12 days later, she reached out to me. I haven’t answered her…Not sure i want to! But silence is pure power..💫
This happened to me but with a 10 year relationship. Day 5
@@hashrosinking1608 So sorry to hear that . Stay strong. I had a 9 year relationship end in a similar way but now know I’m much happier without him
I'm on day 8 today. She basically broke up with me on 15 November and came back on 25 November. She broke up again on 28 November and now I'm serious on no contact
Stay strong! Keep going!
Silence is my superpower, Jesus is my strength. I will no longer make him an idol above my Lord Jesus Christ my Messiah
My silent is hard ..... I'm determined to succeed. No more being disrespected n waiting for a text
So done!!!
Going on two weeks with my silent.
Silence is my power now. I cannot continue the abuse. Thank you.
Yeah!!! I have gained self respect
I'm staying strong thank you
I am irreplaceable my value cannot be filled with anybody else
Silence my superpower
Karma is real. Karma will judge equally. Om namah shivay 🙏
So good!!!! I need to listen to this every day.
Iam unshaken by their absent i am building my own strength
This helped me tremendously thank you 😊
Im gaining my self respect back after being disrespcted everday for the last 10 years. I no longer have the burden of making someone feel good that dosnt feel good about themself.
No amount of books will bring in such deeply profound psychological truth. Thank you very much for the realist life altering insights shared🙏
Keep it up! 3 months into my silence and I’m feeling strong 💪🏻
2 months an some weeks. Standing 10 toes
Keep it ooooh this is the best channel for heart break,yes am taking notes...the pain in my heartache is cooling down this video has saved my heart break
Thanks for the feedback.
I'm free now in Jesus mighty name and thanks for thus great video
I am Unshaken by their indifference. I’m building my own strength and worth! Amen 🙏🏻
Silence is my superpower
Silence is deadly 😊🔥🫦
Thank you for the comfort of knowing and acknowledging the strength and power that is within us. Our silence is indeed our superpower🩵
This video was incredibly empowering and insightful! The message about the silent strength we hold and how it reshapes our worth was so moving. It’s a powerful reminder that silence can speak louder than words, fostering growth and clarity. Thank you for this profound perspective on reclaiming self-worth and understanding the true power of silence. Truly inspiring!
From start to finish - powerful speech and thank you so much for sharing ❤️.
Words are Silver and SILENCE is gold. Your video is awesome 👏🏽 it strengthens my silence attitude towards disrespect thank you!!!! Despising and Silence go hands in hands.
Brilliant advice and so important in these times of mental health increase.
My situation is a little different.. we both love each other but he needed space. He has a kind soul not narcissistic… I haven’t reached out to him because of the space 😢 it’s just sad
I have a similar situation you and I just did this to my man it took 4 days before he was begging me back and showering me with gifts and asking me what I needed from our relationship. He recognized my worth in his life and it didn't take long it's not always about self-reflection or whatever your man seems to think he needs it's about what you need don't wait around too long if you're worth isn't enough for him it will be for someone else and I know how hard it is because I just did it and I was a complete mess for those days but it had to be done life is short and no one is promised tomorrow take care of yourself be true to yourself put yourself first then you can truly love and be loved I hope everything works out for you the way you want it to and you are truly loved the way you deserve
@ thank you , your words mean a lot❤️❤️❤️
Same here. He needed space to reflect on his problems but he left lines of communication open and no bridges were burnt. I told him I'll give him space. It's been almost a month and it hurts but I'm not giving in. The ball is in his court.
Yes I will apply your lesson to be strong & silent
This was brilliant, watching again to fully digest
It's been a long 46 days since he dumped me. I broke the NC two times at the beginning, but I've held strong 21 days now & haven't broke the NC! I'm very proud of myself. Tomorrow is Veterans Day & he was in the Army 22 yrs & served in combat in Afghanistan 4 yrs which he suffers from PTSD. It's going to take every ounce in me not to acknowledge him, but I must keep silent. This will reveal his true feelings for me as you said. Either he'll face his fear and reach out to me, or he'll stay in his own silence which I will begin my new adventure on my own! Thank you for this video!!❣️
Are you sure you want someone with PTSD! Think abt that 🙏
You don't need him dear. Move on...
True love never dies, fake feelings never existed. You sound like the kind of person all men dream of so be strong it will be worth it ❤
Stay strong 💪🏼
What was his excuse for dumping? How long were you together? Stay strong 💪
This video is pure entertainment. These words can provide comfort for a very short while, but not to be taken entirely seriously. I doubt she is actually miserable without me or drowning in regret. She didn't care. The only option was for me to go away and prioritize self care. Period.
Thanks for this wisdom. This made me realized that by still trying to soothe them and make them feel better (although my intent was to help them and support them) I unknowingly enabled them which has prevented them from growing and learning from their mistakes. This was a wakeup call for sure. It might take some time for me to be able to let them go fully, but you made me realize and acknowledge how crucial letting them go is for my own growth and theirz.
This video make me stronger than ever😊 thank very much
I have been used by this Women . On these sites that they are payed to Chat. I have learned a lot about these Women . And worth every penny. Now I disconnect when . I feel they are playing a game . Even though I have been taught. To street outs as I would like to be treated .I am so grateful for your information. Which give me the assurance that . I will stay strong and stay Disconnected.
This happened to me too keep your head up stay strong
Praying for you love ❤
Just about made me cry 😢
Thank you so much for this advice. It helps me to survive in my abusive relationship
Silence is my power
I am open to God for my new chapters 🙏 ❤ Thank you so much for all of the confirmations!!😊
I choose my self over their dececion ect.....
Thank you too, for this excillent self management.
Inspiring ! Thank you. God bless
Silence is my super power
Silence is my superpower😊
Silence is my superpower🙏
Silence is my superpower❤
Wow. Wow wow. Thank you 😊
It’s really hard actually. I’ve been silent 🤫 over a week but he would NOT commit after 2.5 years and I can’t be with someone who won’t call me his!!!! Ouch either way hurts but this way I’ve taken back my self respect ❤
Silence is my super power! It's not a weakness it's my strength and he will feel it.
On my own and loving it
Silence is my strength 💪🏼 silence is my super slower
Silence is my Super Power!!!
Am staying strong....
Yup!!! Silence...equal my peace and happiness ❤❤❤❤❤
Silence is my Super Power. Amen
Am progressing forward in my quiet withdrawal from family members.
It's hard but I realize my silence is what I need to do for self preservation.
I was everything for him for over 20 years. All of a sudden 2 days later he decides he doesn't want this anymore 😭😭😭😭 I was blown away my life is shattered my heart is in a million pieces I've been crying over 2 weeks I couldn't believe what I was hearing the man I loved and cherished and gave everything to and I mean everything all of a sudden said goodbye and broke me😢😢😢😢😢 I don't know where to turn everywhere I turn I think of him and the crying is Non-Stop I've been praying please Lord don't let this continue much longer I want to wake up and not feel the same way ever again😢
He isn't worth your tears
Great video…🙏
Silence is my superpower ❤
I claim me back!
forget apart past relationships if they didn't work either a cheat ??or just move up be happy with yourself meet someone else or not 😮
Am unshakened
I'm strong and deserved more than an indifferent
Silence is my supper power
This really helped me
Keep it up!
I'm worth more than their regrets ect.....
Wow, now I see I was weak in showing all of this in showing kindness. .. You don't know your worth when you give.
Kindness is not weakness.
"The greater the difficulty, the more glory in overcoming it."
Silent is my super power.
This is my so called Family Members.
Am finally alone with God Again and I’m feeling so relieved,Happy And Strong.
Snapchat is the only social media I have left and finally they are sending me request.
The best thing I’ve ever done is block all of them.
I don’t need and more Narcissistic people around me.
I have had enough.
And living in Paris France is another Narcissistic place.
I don’t have Friends
I enjoy my own company.
People Drain my energy.
Everybody looking for something.
If I could live on another planet alone or on an island 🏝️
I would be more happy.
I want to leave France but it’s just a matter of time.
Don’t forget in your prayers 🙏🏿
God bless you and keep up the amazing work❤
Everyone is looking for something
Silence is their Godsend so they don’t have to feel any regret.
Speak out as much as you want!!!!
Keep it up.
Lets keep going we have to do this my dear lovely friends give beast long
Silence is my superpower 💪🏾
Silent is my super power
Silence is my super power 🙌
Keep it up!!
Thank you, this is a very insightful & helpful vid.
May God keep & guide all Truthseekers
🙏💪❤️🩹🌱🌻
Keep ut up
Thanks
The end of his last text said, "I'll come visit you this summer sometime.". I saw thru his lies & texted that back. 4 mos. later, I accidentally touched his number but I hung up right away. He called back but I did not answer. He asked for me to do him a favor. He then said, "We (his mom) miss you, I miss you.". I still kept silent, never called back. Did my accidental call ruin my "silence?"
I am free now
My silence is my strength
I don't think so. I think he admitted his discomfort. But sometimes it's hard for a man because of their pride to admit that he needs you back. But I think that you are doing the right thing by staying silent so please stay silent. Stay strong and just stay committed to being true to yourself and true to your needs at this time. I just did this with my man and it took 4 days before he realized my worth in his life and he was showering me with gifts and asking me what I needed in our relationship and we're doing better now. So just stay strong but don't wait too long because life is short and everybody deserves to be loved the way they want to be loved
Do yall have a child together or any other ties that cause you to still have their number in your phone? If not, it may be best to delete his number and block it to prevent any further accidents.
30 years and I'm now understanding what I was dealing with. Now it's silence and he disappeared into the night. So painful..
Silence is my super power, day 7
Keep it up❤
Thank you, I will
Silence is my superpower! How long does this take? It hurts so bad
Forever darling.. i have the same question and the answer to that question you already have.. and you know it.
Iam free now
I'm happy to see comments that they're healed. I hope I can post a comment like this
Silence is OUR super duper pooper scooper power 😮in Christ
I'm staying strong
Keep it up
This is my life at this very time !
Keeping it up 🙏💯
Am irreplaceable...
Lord strengthen me,empower me with super power from above
Staying strong
Ive been face to face with the creep and said absolutely nothing.... He texts me every couple of months i dont respond but i didnt block. Thats my sick pleasure now just seeing and not saying sh!t. Its been 7 months. And im not letting this method go.
Silence is my superpower.
I am irreplaceable! 💯❤️🔥
So what about the new supply? Is she not able to help the narcissist in times of these desperation?
Silence is my super power.
I went silent 8 months ago and they just went silent in return. Most of the time they just don't care or are happy you are gone.
She said she wanted me to leave her alone, so I left her alone. No calls, no texts. I stopped existing in her world.