I asked queer folks in O Bar about dating in Manila | Ted Talks | Theodore Boborol

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  • I went to O Bar, one of the top Manila gay bars, for the first time, and interviewed some people about queer dating in Manila. You will be surprised by their answers.
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  • @jpherreramdrn
    @jpherreramdrn 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    It's really difficult to find someone to make relationship with. And it's true that there's no perfect person but the key is always the 3 C's - Communicate, Compromise and Commit.

    • @jonathanbalagtas848
      @jonathanbalagtas848 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Now a days, indeed it is very difficult to have a romantic relationships between 2 men. Unlike in the 80's, 90's and early 2k. ...Its because of someone's attitude, prespective, and mind-set. And the absence of "challenge" and absence of commitment.

  • @20knighty
    @20knighty 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    i like the 2nd Kuya’s advice, halatang yung mga nasabi nya base on his experienced in 10 years grabe, sana all tlga😅mahirap nman tlga maghanap kse yung iba ikama lang ang hanap🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @juanchofrancois5369
    @juanchofrancois5369 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Dapat magkaroon ng center for lgbt match making ang pilipinas. Kasi dapat may counselor ang mga dating gay couples. If wala silang gabay, hindi nila mananavigate ng maayos ang relationship nila kasi nga may kanya kanya silang standards kahit contradicting sa pakikipagrelasyon tulad nalang nung "no monogamous ekek".
    Dapat talaga may counselor ang mga single lgbt na looking for partners. At dapat may match making center sila.

    • @TheodoreBoborol79
      @TheodoreBoborol79  17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Good idea! They can also joins Sparks Camp (shameless plug! :D)

    • @NaldV-vd8if
      @NaldV-vd8if 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      💁🏻‍♂️✝️🙇🏻‍♂️🌇🤦🏻‍♂️😢
      "Por Favor no practiquen la sodomia homosexual porqué serán condenados en el Juicio Final ante el Gran Trono Blanco De DIOS.
      💁🏻‍♂️📖🔍LEER EN LA SANTA BIBLIA PALABRA DE DIOS EN APOCALIPSIS 20.
      😢🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♀️"!NO HABRÁ EXCUSAS!"

  • @retailryph
    @retailryph 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love this! 🧡🧡🧡

  • @JohnDoe-fk6uu
    @JohnDoe-fk6uu 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    hui this is fun! No one does this in the Philippines. I love the rawness of answers and the different perspectives about gay dating. Please make more videos like this pls!!

    • @TheodoreBoborol79
      @TheodoreBoborol79  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Awww thank you. I'm really hoping to get to film another video like this.

  • @Dpageantbuff
    @Dpageantbuff 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The 2nd guy Yun pastry chef gave some really good advice!

  • @reynaldobumatayjr.3678
    @reynaldobumatayjr.3678 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    nice video. nice content. real and raw.

  • @RRzlopez6700
    @RRzlopez6700 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Its the opposite Baron! here in the province mas wild. Recycled ang ka hook ups kasi community is smaller. I preferred sa big city, matino naman ung iba

    • @TheodoreBoborol79
      @TheodoreBoborol79  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's an interesting perspective!

  • @nursedada
    @nursedada 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ka miss mag O… ❤❤❤

  • @akosinubitah
    @akosinubitah หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    relate sa 2nd guy sa planetromeo,,, only, i didnt find my one true love yet. anyway, life

  • @loujoa
    @loujoa 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sana may list ng mga IG accounts, sa description 😅

    • @TheodoreBoborol79
      @TheodoreBoborol79  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Haha! Sensya na! That night ko lang din sila nameet. Next time! Pag makagawa ulit ako ng ganitong content.

  • @PEWPlays
    @PEWPlays 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    swerte nalang tlga, hindi ko na kailangan magBar hopping at dating apps para makilala yung soulmate ko.

  • @akosinubitah
    @akosinubitah หลายเดือนก่อน

    Medyo malakas background noise sa loob ng club. Hehe

  • @boyetarizala2992
    @boyetarizala2992 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    15:15 😘

  • @tancready9180
    @tancready9180 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    in demand or demanding hahaah

  • @shamc8325
    @shamc8325 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mahirap sa Pilipinas kasi everyone has very high standards. Kahit mga panget. Kaya yung talagang guapo either taken na with another guapo or nakaangkla na sa mayaman. Yung iba naman kahit meron interesado puros yung kapintasan ang nakikita. Hindi ganyan sa ibang bansa. Sa ibang bansa pag nagkakoneksyon ka with someone khit mas guapo o mas chaka ka sa kanya..usually it’s given a chance. Masyado marami nagmamaganda sa Manila. Kahit saan ka oumunta na gay spot ganyan. Mga di naman kagandahan pero ang gusto model

  • @jajagaela5219
    @jajagaela5219 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ano po ig ni 3rd guy?

  • @macman2132
    @macman2132 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "Their is no such thing as a monogamous relationship"
    Me: ahhhh, malantod 🤣

    • @crush9lfe
      @crush9lfe 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Red flag 🚩🚩🚩… sounds like he has a lot of unresolved traumas. Run Sis!!

  • @scottiandiaz1268
    @scottiandiaz1268 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Kim, gusto mo ba makapunta sa amerika?? hahaahhahh

  • @reynaldobumatayjr.3678
    @reynaldobumatayjr.3678 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    wait... director ka sir di ba?

  • @ninicast7570
    @ninicast7570 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    hirap nga kasi mostly walang sense kausap iba puro landian habol at ons lang

  • @GQ-ul1rl
    @GQ-ul1rl 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Natatangahan Lang ako Sa question na: "Sa guapo mong Yan bakit Ka single" Such a backward thinking.

    • @TheodoreBoborol79
      @TheodoreBoborol79  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sorry po. It was meant to be taken lightly para ma relax siya pero sorry if it appeared tanga.

    • @kristofferabellon2734
      @kristofferabellon2734 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Not necessarily. let's admit that dating starts with physical attraction. So, if someone attractive is single, the next question would be, why. What underlying issues are there, since obviously it's not a superficial reason. Unlike kc sa atin na d kapogian or walang abs, alam na natin na konti lng choices natin at onti lng magkakainteres satin. 😊

    • @GQ-ul1rl
      @GQ-ul1rl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@kristofferabellon2734 and you never ask why someone is single. "Why" is something people should be careful to use specially when you're not a trained psychologist. There are other polite questions such as, "when was you last relationship? or "Are you in the dating scene?"