10 Minutes Of Massive Red Flags
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- Red Flag Guy reacts to the most red flag worthy viral relationship videos on the Internet in the only way he knows how: by running around a public park with a gigantic red flag.
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Any dating coach that doesnt teach men to leave women alone when they say no is a predator and has probably assaulted someone.
Just once I’d like to see these dating coaches give their “advice” with their girlfriend present. The fireworks show would be absolutely INSANE!
@@shanestachwick4784lol 🤣 although that would be under the assumption that they even have girlfriends to even begin with lol
@@mishtergoose2851 I don’t consider being single a disqualification for giving relationship advice. There’s a difference between that and not knowing what you’re talking about or being a jerk, which are the real problems here.
Coaches don’t play, ya know? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@@shanestachwick4784 my point is they don't have girlfriends because of their absolute shit dating advice lol
bruh everyone knows women suck at communicating, like it's always "oh why men don't chase women anymore" on tik-tok
but all they do is cry for help when I sprint after them at night
"I'm more frustrated than a mosquito sucking on a statue" this broke me
Same, that was a good one.🤭
The girlfriend should come on more often 😂 she was great!
Me too! 😂😂😂😂
"Did you destroy my makeup?"
"Yes, hahaha!"
"You owe me 235 bucks"
😮
It’s probably closer to $400.
@@MsAubreyprobably, they looked hella expensive.
Oh yeah makeup is definitely not cheap, with brands and palettes they can be a pretty penny
And many of the items could have been limited edition..
That would definitely be a first and a last, if it ever even got that far. Why women put up with these kind of trash humans I don't understand. Stop giving them your attention, ladies. You're worth more and can definitely do better.
3:06 For any man seriously thinking of following this advice... Because asking "why wouldn't you be interested in me" makes you sound like a desperate creep.
Or a narcissist
@@gizmo_gadgets6482 Or a narcissist.
Yeah and him saying she needs to come to his house?? Uhhh hello kidnapper??
Also sometimes women are trying to let a guy down nicely and demanding to know "why" pushes her to have to be brutally honest which these types might not like. Just take the 'no' and move on.
When he said “why wouldn’t you be interested in me” my first thought was “why would I be interested in you”
"I'm bringing my girlfriend on for this one" is a MASSIVE green flag
And she ROCKED it
SHE ROCKED IT SO WELL
Her “Sir! Sir!” Made me laugh
She ate with that bar bro
She looks like a badass, and she's a cutie pie!!!!
The dude is mad he had to wait 5 weeks for sex after she literally gave birth.... Bro the doctor literally tells you NOT to for 5/6 weeks so she can heal from pushing a whole human out of her! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
That's not even considering if she had any complications, heaven forbid a C-section- that's MONTHS of recovery right there.
I also like the part where he's mad that a NEWBORN needs attention.
Exactly! There’s a literal open wound from the placenta detaching from the uterus, generally about the size of a dinner plate. Introducing bacteria etc from naughty time is pretty dangerous, especially when you have an unfaithful partner. That guy had me so upset. I wish that woman and her child all the blessings this world has.
I honestly hope that one was fake for viral clout, because otherwise that whole man needs to be thrown away for bragging about how ignorant and loveless he is.
@NatalyaCherry sadly it is true for a lot of women, my dad yelled and slaped my mom in her face when the doctors told her to not have sex for a while. Because they had to remove 3 fibroids and 2 boils in her uterus and her body needid a lot of time to heal after a surgery like that
@@juliaboskamp9666 Unfortunately a lot of men have the same attitude as your father, mine being one of them. A marriage certificate is seen as a bill of sale.
"You've been gaining weight lately," "you can skip a meal." Ya know who tells me that? MY EATING DISORDER
Fking same, dude 😢
it's sad that for some women it's their boyfriends who say that. Heard similiar stories from distant friends and i cant even imagine how vain and unfeeling you have to be to say stuff like that to anyone, especially your SO
I’d say she definitely has to lose a lot of weight: About 80 kilograms or more sitting next to her. That weight is absolutely unhealthy and diminishes her quality of life.
Exactly. I gained almost 20 pounds after I gave birth but my husband never told me that I am fat or that I should skip a meal. Some men are so strange...
Dude is an eating disorder Personified.
That dating coach irritates me so much because his "techniques" are things that work on 13 to 15 year olds. Adult women do not respond the way he's saying they do, children being propositioned by grown men do.
Yeah, negging isn’t exactly some revolutionary technique. It’s toxic but it’s not new.
I highly doubt that dude has ever touched a women that he wasn't paying for that privilege.
That’s a whole over level of red flag right there!
He thinks he's a dom. He's not, he just wants to make women be submissive and humiliate them. He's also a massive liar. He talks about how he has tons of submissives under him, and that he's slept with thousands of women. Any sane person knows he's full of it.
Sir, your fantasies don't count.
I can safely tell you that at 13 and 15, begging would've gotten you laughed at.
7:52 I just want to clarify that she didn't make him wait it's medically necessary for him to wait. Drs recommend 6 weeks as always it could be more or less depending on the individual. My point is she didn't pull a number outta nowhere
It literally shouldn't even need to be clarified. "No" means "no", and I'm appalled that there are men who act as if they genuinely cannot go without sex.
I was so determined to skate by the rules by having fun without intercourse, and even I, the horndog of the relationship, couldn't find the time or energy for weeks.
It’s not going to be less. Six weeks is the minimum
Never less it’s ALWAYS 6 weeks or MORE depending on how much trauma & damage may have happened to the woman’s body after giving birth.
Giving birth is traumatic to the body, it needs time to HEAL properly.
Men who do not get this & only care about their own pleasure are some of the most selfish AH imaginable.
@@elizabethburns-gundel1052
Me either and I had a c section. We tried at 5wks bc of me and I couldn’t do it.i felt like my incision was going to bust open
imagine thinking that the MOST natural form of feeding an infant is incestuous 🤦🏼♀️
I've seen a guy saying its not okay to breastfeed girls because that's how you get lesbians. Some men are truly unhinged.
It comes from the sexual objectification mindset. Clearly her body is his only, not as designed to feed her offspring as all mammals do, but solely his toy for his pleasure. Makes me sick.
I had to formula feed after 2 months & the guilt I felt... as they say, "breast is best".
He’s an infant himself.
Don't stress, there's been no randomized controlled trial showing breast milk is better, and lots of evidence it doesn't really matter. Formula is fine. Your choice though.
There is a huge problem where some fellow men seem to look at womem's breasts as nothing but sexual objects. Fellahs, those are baby food, it's always been for babies, they were specifically made for babies. If you can't understand that at the very least don't be a father.
Those same men miss out on a lot of other things, too. They’re the kind who don’t realize the possibilities that open up when you don’t limit your definitions. But I won’t elaborate on that.
and sadly us Puritanical 'Muricans don't see them as that.
It's indicative of some serious issues where he needs her full attention constantly. Will be a terrible father and husband.
Like, my guy, you were breastfed too by *your mom*. Going by your logic, your wife should be jealous you suck on another woman's breasts!
He acts like her body is his
Not gonna lie, that's an excellent choice of truly outstanding red flags. Side note: if a dude told me that I'd have to come over to his house to find out how awesome he is, I'd flat out tell him that he sounds like a serial killer.
He rlly does sound like a serial killer
Now I don’t like to judge by the way people look but…bro looks like he’d be on the front cover of a newspaper titled dating coach turns murderer
That would be the greatest comeback. He says you'll have to come back to his place to find out how awesome he is, and before he even tries to throw the rest of what he was going to say, you say, "Awesome at what... Being the world's least convincing serial killer?" You'd see the life leave that dude's eyes.
@@_seekingthetruth_1447 True, though when you say something like this, it's good to have trusted company and/or be prepared to run. Fast. You never know with this type of dudes... Some are very prone to physical violence upon getting owned by a simple remark.
I wouldn't even say anything I'd just call the cops right then and there 😭😆
“They’ve been in another man’s mouth.”
That’s… that’s an infant… I’m shocked at the word choice.
And that's what breasts are for, too. The whole thing of viewing them as sexual creeps me the hell out because their purpose is to feed babies. I get they're nice to touch and all but it's still weird
HIS infant.
He felt like he's competing and lost his place to a newborn who snatched his "happy place" from him.
And why would someone decided to put his mouth in your wife chest……….like not even on 50 shades of gray they did this 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
@@89SUSIQ Exactly
I absolutely LOVE your little "I'm more nervous than" remarks. Creative and hilarious.
I write them down! 🤣🤣🤣 They are EPIC! Seeing his beautiful girlfriend getting in on the action is absolutely priceless. Match made in Heaven. Dustin is such a love! I’m old enough to be his mum!
"I'm a professional dating coach..."
I laughed so hard, I spit!
Honestly, the guy that cheated on his wife after she gave birth was truly disgusting. My husband had to wait two months for me because I had a cervix surgery and that pos cheated on her after a month because "he didn't feel loved"??? Not to mention the way he gaslighted her...
Right, he kept saying she wanted a baby, like sir, what does that have to do with your choice of behavior, c'mon now.
Right my husband had to wait over 4 months. Two months because I was healing from tearing and another 2 months after I had surgery to have my tubes removed.
It's extremely obvious he's not present as a dad either. If he was, he wouldn't have time to cheat on his wife when he should be taking care of his 5 week old baby. No wonder she's changed since giving birth, she's doing all the work
I have a very good friend who was with this bitchy woman, and she had a health concern where she couldn't have sex for like 6 months. He didn't cheat. She wasn't interested in sex for another six months. He didn't cheat. She dumped him. But he never cheated. He loved her, despite her being moody, a downer, difficult to please, gave him no sexual attention. He never cheated. Also, "I thought your body wouldn't change." Are you INSANE?! That's how the birthing process works ...
And sounds like he’s making his daughter an emotional spouse
He's insecure about his son when it's not even a sexual thing to begin with. 😮
Dude's gonna have a meltdown if he sees how mammals animals feed their young 😂😂😂
If he goes into a Catholic church he's going to have a conniption
DIVORCE that guy sounds like a narcissist holy shit,if he sexualizes breastfeeding of all things who knows what else he views as sexual
the problem isnt that he views it as sexual the problem is that he (and you all) think sexuality is a bad thing. youre all the same
He's incapable of seeing breasts in a non-sexual way.🙄🤦😬
“Put that sentence back in your mouth!!!” *a personal favorite*
Yep, gave me 'The Room' vibes - but in a GOOD way. 😁
6:10 Sometimes you just want to use a phone and make a video about how you do it, or something. But he immediately jumps into "There's nothing for you to find here", "Nothing good will come out of this" - No $hit, cause she'll dump you. And my favourite "You have to stop with the insecurity"
I mean if she's constantly going through his phone because she doesn't trust him I can see that reaction.
It is not her business to look down his phone, even if he’s hiding something! Maybe she’s the one being a manipulator and always overreacting over nothing, and he’s trying to minimise the explosion. It’s super humiliating for anyone whose phone is being checked, furthermore when you don’t have nothing and you just want to have some privacy.
then she could have said that.
The fact that she refused to sy why she wanted to see it is enough for me to leave.
Not only is she accusing me of one of the worst things possible, she's also lying about it.
Girl, even if he ate Nigerian food those table manners should be enough for you to reconsider.
She should have said, "you want it, cook it yourself."
This is an underrated comment.
I can understand him not being able to eat different kinds of food, but then it's like he could just cook it himself like I've seen other husbands do, not to mention all the slurping ew
I grew up with French Canadian grandparents, you trash talk food like that you get the wooden spoon to the back of the head
Thank you! I wouldve send him back to his mom bc my god even toddlers can eat cleaner than this man. I think its even worse w the look he's sending her like he thinks he looks good eating like that is disturbing me in a bit
How insecure do you have to be to be insecure of your infant son?? 😂😂
100% insecure. All the way insecure. There is nothing secure about this man. In fact, for her security, she needs to get a head start on that divorce.
100% !!!
My bf was so thankful that I could and wanted to breastfeed. It’s the best f’ing milk for the baby !!
There is a bar, and it's buried under Satan's throne in the deepest pits of hell
Fr Imagine being jealous of your son for just getting nutrients from his mother
lots of men resent their children
I hated the guy who thought that his wife would be exactly the same after forming and pushing out a human that is helpless. Of course, she's not going to look the same for a while. Of course, the baby needs all the attention. She's literally keeping a baby alive! Of course, having a child changes the course of your life! What a selfish and immature manchild!
You know i am convinced that we are doing sex ed all wrong... i honest to god believe that if they went into detail about what truely happens to a womans body during and after pregnancy we would have a drastic drop in underaged pregnancies.. and certainly this guy wouldve thought twice
@@jalenc1997oh, they won't. Nobody would want to get pregnant if we told them the truth. My mom was always very honest about it, but I rarely heard it from other women. Pregnancy SUCKS. I did it once and immediately tied my tubes after. Not to mention, my son is 12 now and I'm still dealing with shit from my pregnancy. It destroyed me.
@@jalenc1997 The teenage pregnancy rate fell off a cliff about 20 years ago. It's one of the reasons the US birth rate has fallen in that same time. Now you've got people complaining that women/couples are waiting to have children OR not having them at all.
Since it is NATURAL for her, she WOULD be
But he is her PARTNER and the newborn's FATHER!
He needs to bring EXACTLY THE SAME as what he is asking for or do NOT ask the same things as he would NOT do himself!
5:04 I think he's a red flag because he decided to yell first rather than saying "Hey I want my moustache." If he had said it nicely first and progressively got annoyed it woulda been better. She kept going back for the moustache, both are red flags imo.
I can see why you’d think that, I can agree with that
The guy’s reaction wasn’t the best, but she shouldn’t have done what she was doing, she should’ve respected his wishes
@@BobaTeaPan-Z325 Absolutely. Both need to work on their reactions and "pranks" hahaha.
also... why isnt he shaving his own face?
@@dustyrose192 Some people don't want to shave, they want to grow out their moustache. It wasn't that he wasn't shaving his own face but that she was FORCING him to try.
Both were toxic. She was a bigger red flag because she obviously knew he wanted his mustache and he told her to use the guard. She deliberately ignored him. He had a right to be angry, but his red flag was how he was expressing his anger. I prescribe a break up for both of them and anger management for him.
6:00 mine does this. he will literally go "you have your own why do you need mine??" even when my phone is either in a different room or nowhere near me..then when I ask if he's hiding something he immediately hits the defensive and goes "fine just fucking use it" and then proceeds to throw it at me whilst throwing a fit like a toddler
Yeah... you should leave.
That’s so toxic. I would leave if I were you
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
imagine referring to your infant son as “another man”
Couldn't be my brothers. Nope, nope, nope.
Edit: Before I start an unintentional war, I'm 100% serious with this comment. My bros would never pu that shit.
The one regarding Nigerian food hurt. I was a picky eater as a kid, but decided to expand my palate. My boyfriend is Indian and he introduced me to Indian food. I was nervous at first because I had no spice tolerance. After trying it, I fell in love with it. Now I've been building my spice tolerance and learning to make Indian food (I now need a spice pantry) from scratch. Nothing brings a partner more joy than you engaging in their culture and showing appreciation for it. Even if the man does not enjoy Nigerian food, his comments were inappropriate. He can either cook his own food, or compromise with his partner to change the flavor a bit to fit his tastes. It pains me that he completely disrespected her culture's food like that.
Yeesss, especially when nigerian food is so delicious too! You put it into words really eloquently!
@@FatShorkBruh, I would jump at trying other cuisines. I just don’t trust myself not to look like a moron going into it (and a suitable restaurant) blind… maybe I can find some recipes?
My parents had a rule that if you wouldn't eat the food that was prepared, you were free to make your own dinner as long as you at least tried everything on the plate. Cooking a meal is a lot of work and that effort should be respected.
I have a ton of sensory issues that make new foods very stressful, but this rule helped me learn to appreciate the value of a cooked meal. If I had a spouse that wanted to cook food from their culture, I would at least try to find ways we could share the meal. Food is such an important part of a person's culture, and when they share it with you that's a gift to cherish
@@BeeWhistler Depends on the cuisine and how authentic you want it to be. For example, Indian food uses so many spices, some of which you have to go into an Indian grocery to find. I would honestly visit local restaurants. Read reviews because sometimes they do cater to the community, which can affect "authenticity." For example, Indian restaurants tend to make their food less spicy to cater to Americans with a lack of tolerance. If you don't feel comfortable going alone, find a friend to go with you. Enjoy different cuisines. It'll be worth it.
hell I'm still a picky eater and I'd give it a try.
as someone who just gave birth 5 weeks ago, it is a hard and very unpretty recovery to get through. the dude who cheated would have hurt his wife if they had sex. bad husband, bad father wtf
Honestly I would say bad person overall, like is she just for s3x smh she literally just had a kid and that's one of the most painful things to endure.its inconsiderate, rude, and frankly kinda invalidating. Like, oh yea you just pushed a baby welp back to it! 🤦♀️ sorry for the paragraph
Yeah, he was a tremendous
a$$hole.
Narcissist. He's so consumed with his own wants and "needs" that his wife's wants and needs do not exist....
7:32 why did you marry her. WHY DID YOU MARRY HER. Why did you have kids with her? Just….WHY?! She needs to get out to save herself and them from you.
I love the angry singing of tiptoe through the tulips lol. Your comments always make my day.
Ok the one where the girl shaved off his beard there are so many red flags on both sides it’s not even funny. Neither one of them should be in a relationship.
Probably for the best they have each other so they don't go out an hurt two other people
And saying "I did you a favor"
Girl...
Yeah. She shouldn't have "pranked" him by doing that. But he should not have reacted like that.
@@DarkF4lcon dude was calling her names I wouldn’t call my own mother…AND while I understand being frustrated dude was seriously close to hitting her.
@@DarkF4lcon Yeah, he has every right to be frustrated, but no right to physical force. His smacking the wall and motioning toward her is his red flag in this scenario; as an adult you *have* to have better coping mechanisms for your anger, unless you want a visit to the gray bar hotel.
…I don’t wear makeup. I don’t *like* makeup. I generally do not care about makeup. But makeup like that? That shit’s E X P E N S I V E ! ! !
Who does he think he is?! If he can’t afford to replace it, he shouldn’t mess with it!
Same. I don’t really wear makeup. I have a little for big events, but it’s rare that I wear it. But it is absolutely expensive. I’d guess that the guy has no idea that he destroyed a $50 blush brush and about $300 in eye shadow.
I thought he came across as psychotic, with that inane laughter. Who even *thinks* to do that? And films themselves.
Fully agree. I don't wear makeup and no next to nothing about it. But, I could definitely tell her collection looks expensive and clearly means a lot to her. The fact that he just ruined it like that shows how little her actually cares about her feelings and that was sad to see.
I don't care if it's Wet & Wild cheap crap. Destroying your partner's belongings IS A HUGE RED FLAG!!!!
I hate wearing makeup. But what that dude did is horrifying! I ruined my mom’s makeup once when I was little and that was when I didn’t know better! THIS GROWN MAN SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER!
The makeup one makes me so angry because that guy must have no clue how expensive all of those items are. Each of those items are easily $50+ 😬
I just want to know _why???_ What was the point of ruining her things like that?
@@AndaraBledin "It's just a prank, bro"
the only thing that would justify it is if she broke his PS5 on purpose. But either way, it's childish af.
@@GiordanDiodato Ah, yes, the go-to for bullies and immature adults everywhere.
there was no point on doing that. even for a prank, even if youre unaware of the cost, you're still destroying someone else's things
Short history lesson: during the Great Depression my grandmother was widowed with 3 children. It was a scramble to keep the family together while she joined the workforce and got vocational training. Twenty years later, he encouraged my mother to get her bachelor's degree in nursing and always supported her working. He said it was the best life insurance policy he could buy.
3:40 I could NEVER.... like that's A LOT of money wasted. and for WHAT?!?!? gods I'm too frugal for this
"I'm letting you eat."
"You said I could keep the mustache."
That's not how that works. We don't dictate what other people do with their bodies. 🤦
Massive difference between those though, even if that mustache guy was highly exaggerating and had a terrible manner and mood about it she did change his appearance without his consent. That's not okay by her but obviously he should've communicated that in a better way but she was disrespectful and did'nt respect consent.
@@FrejaLindberg-c6v I agree with you 100%
fr the "I'm letting you eat" would make me immediately go "excuse me who tf do you think you are telling me if I can eat or not?" because istg that kind of thing makes me so furious
Why couldn't Mr mustache shave his own face?
@@kalyps30 I wonder that myself
The girlfriend cameo was perfect would ABSOLUTELY be down for a sequel 👏
She's awesome!!! 😮❤️
I loved the facts that she even did the jump and heel click like he does. I was rolling!😂😂😂
I was ☠️
"You do not have to accept her rejection"
Accept this kick in the balls then 💁🏻♀️
Love this ❤
"You don't have to accept this RO either, but then you'll go to jail, creep."
@@dihydrogenmonoxide7056 RO as in reverse osmosis? Wtf are you on?
That and an arrest record 😂😂
I wonder if he will accept bear mace and a taser?
"lemme bring my girl into this" - I was laughing so hard! you two should duo more!
7:12 Bro when I got diagnosed with an autoimmune disease, and was advised by my doctor to completely change my diet, there was a silent agreement between my husband and I that I was going to cook the kind of food I can eat and he could either eat it too or he could make his own thing. But I sure as heck was not going to make two separate meals every single day. He slowly transitioned over to my stuff and honestly he is fine with it because it’s healthy food and he feels good eating it.
That's wonderful for you two! I however do make two separate suppers for my husband and I. He has a severe eating disorder caused by childhood abuse while I am an adventurous eater. He also works roughly 12 hours a day, and I'm disabled so I'm a sahw. I don't mind doing this because my husband will literally throw up if made to put food in his mouth that triggers the disorder. He also has a sleep disorder so he's tired most of the time. I don't mind taking care of things this way because he's happy and shows me a lot of appreciation. Everyone should find the dynamic that works for them, and I am happy you've found yours!
Are we not going to talk about the cheating dude? He wasn't even sorry, he genuinely thought he was justified.
he was effin unreal that's what he was. The entitlement. The disrespect. The total self-centeredness. The absolute lack of remorse. The aggression towards her. Just an all out cad. I feel sorry for that woman finding out who he really is, right after bearing him a child, what an emotional and spiritual sucker punch.
@@Heyiya-if Exactly. I got angry for her. How can anyone, even think they are in the right after cheating on their spouse for any reason, let alone something so pathetic.
People like him should never get into relationships.
Home girl just pushed a whole watermelon out of her vajujay and he was like "ok, can we have sex?". Bro. BRO.
That's how most cheaters are. A lot easier can you live with yourself with a few comfy layers of cognitive dissonance separating you from the person that you know you've become
The sad part is the stigma on "single mothers". Cause I would be single after that. Screw that crap..
2:04 DUMP HIM YESTERDAY!
*Seriously!* "...Or two. ...I'm letting you eat..." WTF?!
i was looking for that comment, you guys didnt catch that he was angry she didnt take much at first? then when he realized what she was doing he was done with her bs and decided to go her way , but you can hear he is still angry ! Read the room
the angry singing did it for me lol
👹 "TIP TOOOE! THROUGH THE TUUULIPS! WITH MEEEE!"
“TIPTOE THROUGH THE TULIPS WITH ME!”
THROUGH THE WINDOW! THAT'S WHERE I'LL BE!! 😂@@Cheetahgirl_Studios
“More frustrated than a ma’squita suckin ona statue!” 😂😂🤣 I love her. Her feet click was 👌🏾 “Sir! SIR! 🚩”
I see so many videos of the guy from 7:16 and why the HELL is she still with him
probably fake atp
The last guy... In france dude would have had to run for his life lmao. Man would have been booed enough for the rest of his life, called so many bird names he would have received a bonus ornithologist degree at the end of the ceremony, and got kicked of stage by both the public AND the staff had he attempted to finish his speech.
Plenty of us have booed him.
She's better off without that narcissist in her and her child's life
I was so triggered on her behalf. I would throw hands with that man for her, the fucking audacity of him was insane.
I love the aggressive "tip toe through the tulips"
I can't even comprehend the amount of men I see who cheat, complain, or divorce because they don't get enough pleasing. It's absurd that such a fleeting and temporary pleasure would be so much more important to you than literally anything else in your life. We are evolved creatures, we don't HAVE to obsess and blindly follow base instinct and it's time we start acting like that's the case.
And bet ALL of those men don’t even attempt to please their women.
"I'm bringing my girlfriend in for this one" Killed me
2:22 this....must be a skit or sonething.....
She just shed 200lbs of stupidity and disfunction. Congratulations to her wherever she may be. This will save her and her son decades of suffering.
That first one is some inverse Oedipus complex type shit
Well, Oedipus's father was aware of the prophecy, that's why he kicked him out. So maybe this is just Laios POV
@@BlueGangsta1958laios complex then
Why are certain men so insecure?
Ik right?
Ikr! Like, my brother in christ the patriarchy is literally on your side, everything is literally easier for you, how??
@@FatShorkI wonder if it’s like kids who grow up having everything done for them and then have to go and do for themselves. Never having had to stand alone, they break when their support leaves them. And since they grew up convinced that they would be strong, independent men, and here they are floundering, they become vulnerable to any bloodsucking guru who tells them whose fault it is that they feel weak… if the finger is pointed at someone else. So you see women no longer willing to rely on men, or not feeling safe relying on men, in fact not even feeling they can trust men with the most basic personal info because of those who take advantage, and little Billy grows up thinking the world has turned against men.
They never want to hear the message they need: “Nah, man. The world was too safe for you to learn to protect yourself. You were taught that you were enough without trying and never learned to push yourself to be better. And you were told that strength was how you get things and never learned the virtue of asking respectfully. And evil, cruel men have used their strength to terrorize women… and women are tired of it.”
And change is terrifying.
society
They think it gives them power
5:55 Nahhh man, that's not a red flag. The woman is more of a red flag than him. A friend of mine had a boyfriend who did the same as the woman in the video and secretly added his fingerprint so he could unlock it whenever he got the chance. He deleted photos of her and other guys, even ones with her brother and her father. Deleted contacts with male names. He also changed all of her passwords and logged into her accounts while he was at home. He was controlling, manipulative and jealous. She was blackmailed by him when she finally built up enough courage to break up with him, with threaths of him spreading her 'personal pictures' online.
People have their own lives and their privacy should be respected even when in a relationship. Someone who doesn't respect another's privacy is a huge red flag.
I agree, but she’s ASKING for it. Not secretly opening it without reason. He’s probably cheating.
@@Swiftie_Haunted22I mean, my friend's ex did that too. I don't know what he said, but my friend didn't think much of it when it happened. To me the red flag here is specifically asking for it while refusing to give a reason. Sure, he could be cheating. He could've also been hiding an order of an anniversary present for her, or is secretly planning a surprise birthday party for her, who knows.
The thing is, there's so so much context missing in this clip. Yet people are still extremely quick to judge and label him as a cheater from only a few seconds of footage. Tbh, if my mother would ask me the same as her, I'd refuse to give it too. And I trust my mom more than anyone. Does that make me a cheater then? After what happened to my friend, I've since seen invasion of privacy as a giant warning signal. Why not just try talking to each other like adults whenever something's bothering you instead of demanding actual transcripts to prove someone's innocense? If a couple doesn't trust each other they're better off breaking up, even if neither one of them has actually done anything wrong.
This is not the same situation as what happened to your friend. It’s a red flag that he refuses to give her his phone when she asks. If he’s not hiding anything in there then there is no reason for him to be acting that way. If my partner did this then I would automatically assume I was being cheated on and be very concerned, and probably leave because I can’t trust you anymore.
@@Summerxchild9 We actually don't know the history here, she very well could have a history of invading his privacy. Which would explain him being defensive here.
@@shadenox8164 even if she does, he should have no reason to be defensive about her looking at something on his phone. The only reason he would not let her have his phone is if he was hiding something.
6:43 I don’t know, I feel like asking for a phone with no reason is also bad.
Lol why would you be with your partner if you don't trust them with your phone? That's just silly. My partner doesn't need a reason, they can grab my phone whenever they want. Its just a phone.
@@OrpheusFogg It’s less about the phone, but about how weird she was being about it. She was recording with her phone and for some reason was insisting she looks at her partners without a reason. It just feels weird and like you are trying to be nosey. If it was “Hey, let me google something phone is dead” completely normal.
@@Blue-kt1ed yeah, that makes sense, totally get that perspective if you don't trust your partner. But also you shouldn't be in a relationship with someone you don't trust fully. If the same question came from an stranger or even a friend, I would say you are justified in feeling cautious about the situation, but it's not.
If the same weird question came from my partner, I would've tossed them the phone and said "Have at it!", because I know my partner is always looking out for me and has the best intentions in mind.
@@OrpheusFogg I suppose, I guess I never have trusted anyone 100% if that’s the bar. It’s not really that I expect them to be intentionally harmful to me, just that I always have one braincell on alert, just in case. So, y’know, not really a possibility for me.
@@Blue-kt1edI'm sorry, that really sucks. I hope someone in your life can break that rule for you one day. I realize my bias, apologies.
How are some men honestly so inconceivably insecure?! Like, I would like to have a conversation with the first dude’s mother and tell her how sorry I am that he turned out so awful. I wouldn’t want him around kids either, bc that kind of perverted thinking about a child is so messed up… 😰
If I were to talk to that guy's mother, I'd first find out if she breastfed, and if so, then I'd have to let her know that - according to her son - she committed incest with him when she did. Maybe she'd be able to talk some sense into him. >_>
Yep, if he thinks feeding a baby is a sex act it's most likely due to some ingrained idea that babies are sexual creatures. If he feels that way, about his own son especially, he should not be allowed around children unsupervised.
It is possibly that he's just being a selfish baby himself, and doesn't want to "share HIS toys" with his son though. That's a red flag on its own, but at least it's just greed, entitlement, and selfishness instead of pd file instincts.
@@martibee8984 i think it's more like your second guess. That manchild felt threatened by his own son who "took away his happy place" from his wife. He felt like he's in a competition and losing 🤯
He views bewbs as purely s•xu•l.
They're absolutely fun things to play with, but at the end of the day, their purpose really is to feed infants.
That's not just insecurity at this point.
It just straight up insanity. This dude need serious help.
The mother and her child are better without him that's for sure.
7:27
Look
I am autistic and extremely good sensitive
So I only eat a good few meals
I’m VERY picky
The pickiest person you’ll EVER meet
And that’s why I make my OWN meals
If my boyfriend cooked me a special meal
I’d probably marry him on the spot
You do NOT talk shit when someone makes you food
Me too. I have a personal BYOS(bring your own salad) policy when someone else is hosting, in case an issue arises. If I can't eat something for...reasons, I feel no obligation to be an obnoxious prat about it.
You'd hate me, I'm not going to be nice for the sake of being nice. If your food is shit, I'm going to tell you.
@@minecraftfox4384 that’s just
Like
Mean
You’re just a mean person if you do that
At least be nice about it
That's even a Muslim proverb: Do not abuse the woman who makes your food and sleeps next to you. I'm not Muslim, but I think this is one of the smartest things I've ever read. Because there are plenty of examples throughout history of what happens to men who abuse the woman who makes his food and sleeps next to him.
@@tammymomoftwo honesty isn't mean.
I'm gonna have to finish this later. Didn't know one of these things was a trigger for me (I have PTSD from an abusive relationship) until it came up. I'm gonna go work on that and come back when I'm ready. All I can say is thanks for calling out the bs some men do AND what some women pull. Abuse is not ok regardless of who does it.
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10:13 😂 You’re girlfriend is amazing. Thank you for being in the video. And it yes “Si?Sir?” If that was one of my teachers speech I would have flip out, take the diploma and leave”😅
I'm so happy I gave a normal husband. He looked at how much formula was and said "you going to feed that baby with your boob right?!?" 😂. He was so thankful I was able to feed both our children
these red flags are exactly why women are choosing the bear 😭💀🙏
Say it louder for the people in the back!
Nah but.... bears eat people. Doesn't matter if you're a man or woman. Thw teddy bears you hug during your sleep sinxe you were 1yo aren't the same as the wild animal. Just remember what you wished for.
@@MollyHJohns you’re getting close to the point, do you see it yet?
@@MollyHJohns nah, this has to be a joke, else are you really so out of phase
@@MollyHJohns bears only eat people in exceptional cases, like when they're hungry or if there are cubs nearby. most of the time they're just scared of people or at least not interested in attacking them. as long as they're not starving and don't have cubs to protect, it's fine to be with them on the same territory. ask any forest ranger that had encounters with bears, they'll tell you the same thing: that majority of them aren't dangerous if you keep your distance. men are far less predictable. and i have a feeling that a percentage of violent men will increase dramatically if they happen to be in an isolated space where no one will find out anything.
6:55 I can excuse disliking a specific foreign cuisine, I myself can’t stand Indian food. But you do know that you can shop for and prepare your own meals though, right? If you’re rejecting what’s put in front of you, that’s what you should be doing, not expecting your wife to make two separate dishes.
If you’re not going to eat the same thing, you can at least prepare and eat it together instead of dumping all that work on your spouse.
If she does take on all that work, thank her and look for some way to contribute after the fact. Perhaps solo the cleanup effort, or shop to replace the ingredients she used.
A 🟩 flag would have only taken 20 minutes of work and a pleasant attitude to earn. Do better.
This....All of this!! /∆∆∆
To me, it kind of does depend on whether she's a stay at home wife or if she works. Like if you and your partner have made the agreement that she cooks and you work, then make something you both enjoy. Obviously make your own favorite food from time to time too, but if you cook for someone else, it is kinda rude to always make something they don't like.
Absolutely! A little conversation and compromise is all it takes too. My fiance hates carrots and doesn't like celery. My family has a lot of recipes with one or both of those as the main vegetable, integral to the flavor and texture of the dish. He communicated this preference to me, was willing to try the dishes with the ingredients he didn't like just to check, and tried them again cooked with those veggies but picking them out. Some we discovered were fine as is, some were fine being picked through, and some weren't fine. Now I have some modified recipes and some dishes were he does a little picking (I just make the pieces bigger so they're easier to avoid). Personally, I have a pretty low spice tolerance. In his dishes, he adds a little spice while cooking then puts more spice just onto his own plate, not onto the serving dish or my plate. I hate raw fish and he loves it, so we sometimes go to sushi places but only if they have a vegetable roll I'll like or some kind of other option. I love american food and he's not a huge fan, so we pick places that have chicken wings since he thinks those are pretty good. Understanding someone's preferences takes so little effort and when you're in a relationship it quickly becomes second nature to make small adjustments. I feel cared about when I see him adding chilies to his plate before we eat, knowing he made extra work for himself frying them separately so I could enjoy the meal too. He's said he feels similarly when I cook my family's bolognaise recipe with spinach and mushroom instead of the traditional celery and carrot (even though I prefer it the traditional way) so that he can enjoy it too. If your goal isn't to make your partner feel cared about while still taking care of yourself, why even be in a relationship? It's so rewarding to show your love and care to someone through effort, and it feels so good to have them show it in return.
Hell I'm a pretty picky eater and I'd try it. If I didn't like it, I'd make myself something, not force my SO/Partner to make it.
@@DwynTwoJust don't be picky about it and be an adult. wtf😂
"tiki torches are great for that." Holy shit way to end on a high note. 😂
6:35 To be fair, I am uncomfortable giving my phone to someone without my direct supervision after my ex used my phone to text my mother pretending to be me to try to make our relationship worse. To break down my support systems.
The dude running back and forth with the red flag cracks me up more than the videos. LOL
1:42 man dropped that green flag like a hot rock
I love the, “let’s play this game when I get home from work” guy.
What he meant to say was:
“Let’s play this game after I’ve deleted all the evidence.”
If your partner doesn’t immediately hand over their phone, they’re cheating and/or lying to you in some capacity.
6:27 If there is nothing there, why are you so worried? My ex gave me the pin code without me even asking for or wanting it. I never snooped on his phone.. Just the concept of him being carefree if I see what's in there or not, made me feel like I'd never have to snoop.
I just tell my husband to answer my phone. I hate talking on the phone and he knows it. I wouldn't want to mess with his phone, though, because he has work stuff on there. He doesn't try to quickly cover up his screens on any device and he never hears me when I walk up behind him. This is why you don't marry a player.
Because it’s his right? She doesn’t have to see his phone (in my country it’s illegal to look to you partner phone with his/her consent!), even if he’s hiding something. We don’t know the context of these videos, maybe she’s the manipulator and she’s the one who overreacts over something.
@@elenagarcia4871 That is not what I'm referring to though. I don't think one should snoop in others phones either. But what my ex did, without me even asking for it, was a definite sign of trust. Getting all skittish if you're not hiding anything is so unnecessary.
@@elin_ he doesn’t have to! It’s his privacy, and everybody should respect that, even his/her partner. I agree with you that is a sing of trust, but if he/she wants not to, you should trust him/her anyways. If you’re suspecting of cheating, there are better ways to find out! And maybe he’s (the guy of the video) is being skittish because she’s the one being a manipulator and a abusive person over him, that’s my point here! In some of them, context is missing, so we shouldn’t judge just for half a minute of interaction.
With the Nigerian food, if he doesn’t want to eat it that’s fine, but he shouldn’t expect her to make him a separate meal every single day if everyone else in the house will eat the first meal. If he wants something else he can make it for himself.
So why are you in the house then? Move out if you aren't going to do your job.
4:14 She's literally using the tone you take with a toddler in response. Insane behaviour, sue him for the damages.
Another great video! Thank you. The guy at the end? His mom his a medical physicist and his sister works in the medical field too. What a twit. And the guy who goes a is unfaithful to his wife who just had a baby and think he is right? Omg... And on and on...Love your wife at the end.
To be fair, the full, uncut speech made it sound more like "hey, don't discount being a homemaker, it's a legitimate career path too." But yeah, cut down like that made him sound, um, not smart. 😂❤
A twit? Really? You clearly heard nothing he said. He is encouraging and praising the women who will go on to become mothers (because many of them will. And it was a Catholic college after all where there are many, many like-minded people in that regard.) There is nothing wrong with that. How does praising motherhood make a man a jerk?? He never said anything *against* women pursuing a career, he simply stressed the value and importance of those who become mothers and take care of the home, which frankly as a woman I truly appreciate in a world that is constantly criticizing and demeaning those of us who want to live that lifestyle.
@@MaryIsabella55 You misunderstood me. I am a stay a home mom. I just don't like the way he says it, the tone he takes and his words : 1. It is you, women, that are told the most diabolical lies? 2. Most of you are most excited about the marriage and the children you will bring in this world? 3. Her life truly started when she began living her vocation as a wife?. Women just want a choice, staying home with her children, working or having kids and working. A CHOICE. The choice to go work is not diabolical. Some women are excited about mariage but not Most. Her life truly start? Vocation? Yes, but not all women. That's all.
@MaryIsabella55 -- Your self-centered and hysterical attack on another commenter is unacceptable. Women like you are toxic. Seek help cuz you've clearly got some shit to work through.
Literally nobody is demeaning you. On the other hand it is actually the sahm who are the most vocal in going against working women. You just like to paint a fake target on yourself.
OMG!! Flag fort?!..... I just spit my coffee everywhere! You are hilarious!!😂😂😂😂
5:40 Pretty glad he called out both parties there. Toxic relationship.
"NOPE. Put that sentence back in your mouth." 🏃🚩 🤣🤣🤣
"Okay, I'm turning myself into a... Taquito." 🤣🤣🚩🚶
The last one REALLY ruffled my feathers. In front of women who have JUST GRADUATED?!?! I would’ve lost my shit.
I actually heard that he gave that speech at a catholic school graduation…..and you know they eat that submissive wife shit for breakfast…….so he was making that speech for a specific audience and when it got leaked everyone just assumed that it was for a random graduation…..so I get why he said it at that particular graduation but yeahhhhh it sounds extremely archaic in todays world lol 😂😂
@@twigb6863 If “for most people, your family will be the most precious thing and greatest achievement of your life” sounds “archaic” to you, that’s a red flag not just because it shows you lack common sense, but also because it seems you might be so “advanced” and “modern” that you don’t value human relationships
He said it to the men as well. Unless you’ve been brainwashed to where you’re setting out with a point to prove that the greatest thing about your life will be something other than your family, it seems bizarre as to why this would ruffle your feathers. Most people don’t live to work, regardless of their career. Your job isn’t the most important thing in the world, it’s the people in your life. It’s wise and humanizing to be reminded of this as you prepare to go full-time into the working world (for the vast majority of those graduates). It’s concerning to me that people like you don’t see this. If you feel like you’re one of those exceptional people and your family won’t be your greatest achievement (man or woman), then good for you and best of luck- but don’t act like most people are like you, because they’re not.
@@hitthurdeaux yeah you didn’t read my comment as thoroughly as you should have mate. Family is important OBVIOUSLY. The part people took the wrong way was the part of the speech where he said that women COULD go out and get jobs and make a living but they shouldn’t want that life because the best thing they could be is a wife……basically saying screw your aspirations go make a man happy and start a family that you’ll be saddled to the second you graduate. THAT is what is archaic
@@hitthurdeauxIf that's the case, they would be applauding women becoming single moms and valuing the relationship with their children. But they don't support that. They only support women getting married and having children. And it's not be aise two parent households are better for kids, because tribal childrearing is even better than nuclear family childrearing, and they don't applaud the tribal method. They don't care what best for children. They want to reap women and turn us into their personal incubators.
9:05 THE AUDACITYYYY
OMGGGG IMMEDIATE ICK
BROTHA EUGGHH
That “dating coach” did nothing with any girl later. That guy cried.
Thank god dudes like that eventually reveal themselves to us.
Loved ya girl coming in at the end 😂 i rewinded just to watch her say how frustrated she was a few more times.... me too girl me too
I love the tortoise on your profile pic - is it yours?
@vekaroni135 yeah I have two
@@Lillypop93 I love that! What type are they? I had a greek tortoise whom i loved dearly, but she sadly passed away last year.
@vekaroni135 sulcatas they're still small
my bf got them for me because I'm a huge animal person. We saved a wild turtle crossing the street the day before and I told him I always wanted a pet turtle so he got us one each.
@vekaroni135 he does shorts of them might be a lil hard to find but his name on YT is
Captain Spaulding 8311
2:34 "professional dating coach" more like professional mysogin
2:30 - 3:20 Is definitely one of those "I swear it happened. You wouldn't know her ... she's from 2 towns over" kind of dudes.
He claims you can see proof of his relationship on his website...after paying $3000 to sign up for coaching. He also claims he can't show his six girlfriends because people doxxed them and contacted their families BEFORE his video blew up recently. Bro has like a thousand subscribers after being roasted nonstop everywhere, no shot that really happened before he even had his five minutes of fame.
"Honestly, I thought you were gonna look the same..."
"I am gonna roll myself into a taquito..."
Congrats on 70k!! And how can you be that insecure that you're jealous of your infant that he is getting nutrition from his mother? You know the real purpose of boobs are to feed your child?! Right?! A divorce is a great idea! Have a good day Dustin
A divorce attorney would look at those texts and go it's an easy win.
@@catandrobbyflores yess!
the gf guest star was epic XDDD also, for the last guy. "he don't have to worry about mosquitos. They don't like garbage"
Holy crap! I know you had mentioned your girlfriend was, what, a bodybuilder, but it was a shock to see her in all her muscular glory! That flag looked like it was just a toothpick she was dragging around. She even did the jump! Loved her.
“Brace for impact Plum Boy!” Had me 💀
"🎶TIP TOE THRU THE WINDOW🎵" is my new exit phrase in ALL circumstances!!
😂😂😂😆😆😆❤💚
Agree with all the former commentators. Plus: The way the man ate his spaghetti was SO childisch i found myself asking: "you saw him eat like THAT and you STILL had kids with him? Why?" which of course is very mean and i felt bad immediately but seriously: he cannot even roll them up and has to slurp these 20cm noodles like a baby? That was very unattractive -like the fact that he's apparently to dumb to make his own noodles. I can't for the LIFE of me understand women who go with men like these. Do they think they don't deserve better? If the man wants his own food he should be able to do it himself. End of discussion. That one really got on my nerves. Spaghetti is the easiest warm food you can make. If you cannot do it yourself how in the HELL are you going to rais a human?
Seriously! And that meal of his would be like... 20 minutes of his precious time, tops, to prepare. And most of that would just be waiting for the water to boil. Spaghetti is the easiest damn thing in the world to make. Literally it was the first thing I learned to cook on my own! (I admit I am Italian, but still...)
Usually those that date or reproduce with these kind of people think they can fix them. Or that the person will change to become the man they think they could be.
It ends up being a sunk cost fallacy when not even having kids change them and they still sticking around.
@@AgFalcon84, He probably couldn't spread butter on toast.
The entire point of this is that she's raising one more kid than she had naturally.
The "you can skip a meal" video seems kinda staged to me... Maybe I'm just hoping?
And btw, your girlfriend is ADORABLE!
It feels fake to me
Agreed. She's overexplaining it. I've seen a couple do something similar but a green flag version and I feel like they pulled it off better because the husband is "good" so he can notice that her plate is too empty, but "bad" husband wouldn't notice that she doesn't have enough food so then the whole thing gets unnatural. I'm glad it's probably staged.
Seeing that a guy as wonderful as you has a girlfriend gets me all giddy! May you both live long!
I like when during the food one at the beginning you were holding the green flag and then dropped it in disgust
5:48 as a woman, I respect you so much for this
I find it very scary that in this world if you take something away from a man, it’s fine but if you take something away from a woman, it’s terrible
The world never fails to terrify me
What I’m trying to say is
Consent is with everybody, and the fact most people don’t realize that is scary
I'm like stuck at the first one. I had to pause it. He made me so upset. That and the one you posted the other day. I just have been so shocked at how awful these men could be and I've experienced my share of narcissist men but man these guys are out shining them. Ugh
We need more of you guys making videos together. I loved it so much!
Love that you brought your girlfriend in 😂 and she matched the energy unfazed
7:43 bro can't even eat spaghetti properly! Omg i feel so triggered. You need to twirl the spaghetti on your fork!
Sincerely,
Daughter of an Italian immigrant.
Can I cosign as a fellow daughter of an Italian family?
@AgFalcon84 Hell Yeah!
I think there's are bigger issues there than the way he eats his spaghetti. Maybe the fact he makes her make a separate meal for him?
2:17 LETTING HER EAT? EXCUSE ME?
I had to stop. Who does he think he is?
@@danika9411 Like what do you mean LETTING?
For real, she should have dumped that plate on him and told him he could afford to miss a meal or two.
yall missed it rewatch it ! he is angry at first and then when he understands what she is trying to pull off he doesnt entertain her bs and go along with it ! but he is still angry, you would be too if your boyfriend/girlfriend tried to pretend you take away from them, or trying to victimize themselves by vilifying you !
"I'm more frustrated than a mosquito suckin on a statue!"😂
LMAO bringing on the girlfriend to run the red flag and her "im so frustrated " pun was good xD
"a cat in a laser maze" 😂😂😂😂😂😂