*SOMEONE FIND THE HUSBAND AND GET HIM ON THE SHOW* *DAVE STOP ASSUMING EVERY MAN IS BAD OR EVIL AND ETC NOT ALL WOMEN ARE SAINTS ALSO LOOK AT THE CULTURE LOOK AT THE DIVORCE RATE THIS IS NOT SAUDI ARABIA THIS AMERICA THIS IS A MATRIARCHY SOCIETY WOMEN CONTROL THE MEN TREAT YOUR WIFE THE EXACT 100% PERCENT WAY SHE TREATS YOU AND DON'T BE SOFT ON HER AND SHE WILL DIVORCE YOU FOR SHOWING TRUE EQUALITY* *SNAPS FINGER*
First she was dumb to sign the prenup. She is young enough to find another millionaire. I would recommend her not getting pregnant with this husband. He can find another young woman to marry and replace her. However she needs to quit and move fast.
@@IMBLESSED-oe6dl dear lady, marry your age poor guy and build wealth together. Any rich man will make you sign prenup. Demand allowance and salary, try to build your Own riches
@@therationalistparty9742 He's a 51 year old millionaire and she's in her 30s. We ALL know why both of them chose who they chose. And I don't think it was love.
@@therationalistparty9742 You get a prenup incase a divorce happens in the future. It's no different than having insurance. Why wait until you have a health crisis to get insurance after it happens? You get it before a health crisis.
@@CNT536 She wants to spend HIS money, not hers. In all my years, one thing has proven true with women over and over and over again. Their attitude is what's you're is mine and what's mine is mine.
@@dsanti4069 The way I'm going to word it when I get married is that the prenup will make it so distasteful for us to get a divorce that you'd rather kill me than go through that process. I see it as a means to keep us together and to force us to work through our problems instead of just giving up like most of the U.S. does. You see she wasn't even considering divorce right?
@@juanmartinez1337 It's not thinking about divorce as an option. It's thinking about doing everything you can to ensure the only choice you have when things get tough is to stay together. That's wisdom. It's foolish to think that in a lifetime of living with another human being, severe conflict won't make a person think about leaving. U.S. law currently makes that decision very palatable for women.
She married a guy 20 years older. Something tells me she married for the money and now regrets signing a prenup. More to this story than just the wife's side.
Very true. Way more to this story. She basically just wanted to vent here. She's smart enough to know what needs to be done but just wanted to be heard and validated. No way she leaves this guy anytime soon.
No he isn’t otherwise he wouldn’t have good married and his prenup is useless in family court. His already passed the event horizon of the black hole. His only hopes is to come out as trans and start identifying as a woman. Then if the courts discriminate then sue them for transphobia.
He shouldn't have married her then, if he doesn't want an equal partnership and if he's that terrified of losing his money. His fear is also not an excuse to manipulate, steamroll, control, and gaslight her.
Random & stupid comment. You know that she doesn’t love him? He has nothing more to offer than his money? Hard to marry for money when you sign a prenup and she never complained about that.
@@grizzlybear2702 - I'll disagree with that. Women get married for a variety of reason. But at the end of the day, it doesn't matter why she gets married. Because at any time she can pull the ripcord and cash out her cash and prizes via the "family" court.
@@bohemiancasanova5538 It's a biological fact that the majority of men think logically and women think and feel with their emotions hence why she's crying. She's not thinking about the logical fact that her husband literally does everything for her and she's still not happy about it.
@@bohemiancasanova5538 most women and lots of men are not honest when they speak about relationship issues. They misconstrue and warp reality to mirror their feelings. They even believe the lies they spout. I was not convinced until I witnessed such dynamics.
She wants alimony and more money on divorce so that she can chill. If you cant handle being a high value mans wife go get a minimum wage worker and keep your mouth shut!
@@hardwork535 He get free work at his companies, an unpaid personal assistant and someone to sleep with at night. He also gets a punching bag that he uses regularly to knock her down.
She’s thinking about leaving him, that’s why she’s having buyers remorse about signing the pre-nup. If she was ONLY concerned about leaving she wouldn’t mention the pre-nup, she would just leave.
She mentioned the prenup because he holds his money over her head to control her. He doesn’t even pay her properly for the work he does at HIS companies nor does he value her opinion at home. Top that off with him telling her she needs mental help. That’s abuse!
Lori L I am not denying that she feels she is in an abusive relationship. I am saying she regrets signing the pre-nup because now she wants to leave him but she doesn’t want to walk away with nothing to show for it.
@@roseking8555 It's probably more her Christian guilt for even considering ending the marriage. The money is just the measure of how little of a priority this man has made his wife - a husband and wife are meant to walk together, not him doing the walk and her being some cheerleader in the background. He treats her as an object.
@@roseking8555 “Feels like” she’s in an abusive relationship? No, she is in one. She held up her end of the deal, and he’s wasting her child bearing years on empty promises of them having children together. I don’t get why you want to hate on her.
Yes, she “feels like she is in an abusive relationship”. I don’t know her or him. I am making comments based on her side of the story. Why would I hate on some one I don’t know? Based on what she stated I feel she regrets having signed that document. That’s all.
Why is she crying? She didn’t pick someone to build with she picked someone who was already built. Is she trying to say he changed after they got married?
@@shonazef7351I met expectations are doing that. This guy is 16 years older than her and already set in his career. Im not sure how she saw this playing out.
So because she starts crying this husband is labeled as an abuser? Because he’s successful he’s controlling? Definitely need to hear both sides of the story before making rash judgments. And this is why you have prenups, she’s already looking to cash in.
I am 35, he is 51 and a self made millionaire. That's a big gap in age difference if you ask me, Prolly why he insisted on a prenup! Prolly saw/sees things we can't see from her story
He made a great move signing a prenup. Woman is a gold digger. If that prenup didn’t exist, she’d already have filed divorce. Man made an excellent move signing that prenup. Salute him.
She's ready to leave him....but realises she would have to start all over again without half of this mans networth to assist her and knows she has stuffed up wasting her prime years of her life married to a sugar daddy. Smart move by this man in my opinion, especially her age, being she was in her late 20s and he in his mid 40s when they met....he saw this scenario playing out.
Maybe. Doesnt justify him demeaning and belittling her. Doesnt sound like he is on board with them starting a family either and at 35 she is running out of time. Look, every woman wants to feel cherished by her husband whether he has money or not.
@@charlottemajewski5992 Except you are only hearing one side. She can easily just be explaining it through her own filter and he probably has his own side as well. How can you know he is belittling her? More than likely, it is just a problem that she works with him. Lots of people in relationships like to complain about work to their spouse, even if they like their jobs. It just doesn't work out when your spouse is also your boss. She clearly demonstrated that he pays all the bills and gave her a job making 50k/yr, she just needs to get a different job. It is good that he got a prenup because she probably would of already left him if it means she can get 50% of his net worth.
@@Lolatyou332 the issue in this circumstance is not a prenup. That is perfectly fine in okay to do in that situation. The issue is after the prenup they are not working together in a team and he is still holding back from her. He may take care of her and provide for her physical needs but is obviously doing a very poor job of providing for her emotionally.
@@IamTheKP Again, we don't know his side of the story. Just because someone isn't happy and is having emotional issues, doesn't mean it is the other partners fault. This is why you don't just listen to one side of the story in court, she could very easily be omitting information or framing it in a way that makes her look better / get support. She probably just needs a therapist and to find a new job. The guy is supposed to be her boss, her husband, her therapist in this scenario. She is putting too much on him IMO and just needs to separate work life and her relationship.
@@elizabethtimothy4776 I believe everyone should get a prenup even if you are poor, I recently got married and with a prenup but I sleep well knowing that I have a trusting wife but if anything where to happen she won’t be able to take my investments, paid off house, or military pension. This is very important considering that I’m 20 so our wealth should grow overtime but it will be safe !
Sadly in divorce prenups doesn't mean anything. She can have a lawyer argue she was coursed into signing. Honestly, I don't know why men marry these drama queens. It would be better to find a woman that has the same beliefs as yourself and understand the importance of marriage. It sounds like she got into an argument with her husband and lost. He's not hitting her. Shes being dramatic. 1st world problems. Women don't marry if you are self-serving.
@@elizabethtimothy4776 I don't see why. Just don't get married if you feel like you need to get a prenup. Prenup devalues the marriage. If you can't trust each other don't get married period.
She doesn't want to get a divorce, because she will go back to her real economic lifestyle, of a secretary. But doesn't want to stay married because she has no power or authority over him. Well played sir, modern times require modern solutions.
Bingo!! She is realizing that she can’t leave and get half his stuff. So her solution is having his kid and going after child support! And he’s not falling for it and wants her to go see a psychiatrist. Smart guy.
Amen John and Dave!! I was in an unhappy marriage for 14 years until I realized my own self worth. I am now married to a man who cherishes me as a person, you cannot put a price on your own happiness.
So he's a millionaire, pays all the bills, gives her what's likely a very cushy/easy job for 50k year and the only "caveat" is that she can't divorce him and take half of his fortune? Sounds like she did just marry him for the money is upset that she has "only" a 50k salary to spend on frivolous things.
@@juanmartinez1337 WITH NO BILLS. That's literally 50k to spend however you want. Most average American families earn 60k and most of that ends up going to a Mortgage, Car Payments, Bills, Food etc.
I love the comment sections of this TH-cam channel. Ramsey’s financial advice is perfect for staying out of debt and building wealth conservatively. His relationship advice, especially the other guy, is usually terrible. They always side with the woman.
Quit the $50k a year job and go get your own career. Both of you will prob be happier. Then you can contribute to the household bills like every other adult in this world.
Married to him she has no self-worth. Dave and John given the correct advice if she was money hungry she never would have phoned for advice. She should leave him if he won't give herself value.
Yeah, you cannot tell me that she didn't marry him for money with that age difference. They are on different pages in life, and it isn't going to work.
I hate when these guys Take sides with the caller as if the caller is always right lol he provides her with everything except half his wealth when she divorces 😂
I hate when people post comments misunderstanding what was said. IF SHE WANTED HIS MONEY THEN SHE WOULDN'T HAVE SIGNED THE PRENUP. SHE WANTS TO BUILD HER OWN WEALTH AND HAVE KIDS.
Alright Abe, let's look at this rationally. If she wants to have kids in her mid thirties, she needs to get pregnant yesterday. The older a woman gets, the harder it is to conceive, and the more likely she is to have birthing complications. Second, if she wanted to build wealth for herself, she could have done that by staying single and working for her own wealth building. As soon as you get married, it is no longer just about you. It is about the family. Considering she married a wealthy older man, she doesn't need to work a job that pays $50k, especially if she wants to have children. They're well off as is. I know I would have loved having my mother home more often than staying at daycare for all the school days when I was young
I think I missed it in the call- what exactly was the husband doing that was abusive? Providing for his wife? And I’m sure if this guy 16 years her senior had no money instead of being a millionaire she would have been JUST as eager to marry him 🙄.
@@noisespektrum5416 I think "pretty much" means "almost." You can bet that the guy already has kids who are probably between the ages of 21 and 31. so he is used to being a parent to young adults. He married a young adult, who is probably not much older than his oldest kid. That woman married a daddy with money.
@@richardv9648 yes, it is. Age is a big issue even if people in a relationship try to act like it's not gonna be a big deal, it WILL become a big deal in 95% of all wide age spread scenarios.
Being a wife to a millionaire is way different to being a wife to an average man She wont allow herself to enjoy everything he provides If she wanted 50/50 she would marry an average dude Hope he finds some more cooperative woman to be with
But when you married its not like it. You want to support. Support turns to work. He didn't become self made without family friends or relationships he has built. Dramatic maybe but she sounds like a second wife to be honest and no 51 year old man wants to be running around with toddlers..see what you don't pay on the front end you pay on the back end thats what my grandma told me. Its not the money int his situation she is just not happy and you can't teach a old dog...you know the saying...espcially a self made one.
@@MightbePettingmyCat its human behavior. Its not assuming. If he wanted kids he would give her Kids! Self made you still need help. Im self made and people good or bad you learn and grow. You just not objective. He was smart enough to get prenuptial agreement and she signed. Please I was trying be respectful with comment. Idiot.
“Woe is me”, I’m married to a millionaire and my life is hard… give me a break! He’s 51 and you are 35. There is a reason you two married. He is a classic male success object and you’re a classic female beauty object. It’s as old as time. Why would he want kids at 51, anyhow? If it’s that bad, go find a simpleton without the millions. Sounds like an alphamale to me.
I could see this being a problem if he agreed they would have children before they got married. Most people have discussions regarding children before they marry.
She sound dramatic. Haven't heard his side of the story but sound like she need her own career. Don't quit your job to work for your spouse. Most people don't like their boss and nothing would be worst than not liking a boss who's also your spouse. Bosses are the one in power to make the final call and most people ego gets the best if them when a spouse make the final call.
@@dsanti4069 In today's modern world no it is not a bad idea. Today's laws allow women to leave when they are emotionally unhappy which is not a good reason for divorce. Then they get to leave with cash and prizes and on to the next guy.
D Santi divorce rate is through the roof and it’s driven by women who wait until they are 30+ years old to get married. And this girl has all the financial incentive in the world to divorce him without the prenup. Sorry, this is just a logical move in this day and age
@@TheFruitney do you not see the age difference?? 🤣 she knew exactly what she was getting into. If you want to make an argument about how he treats her fair game but don’t for a second act like she wasn’t there for the money.
*You know what’s really bothering this lady? When she divorces this guy she does not get half his money. Each takes with them what they brought. Him, million$. Her, nothing.*
Wrong. If she signed a pre-nup at marriage she knew beforehand that she wouldn't get everything and she still followed through with the marriage because she wanted to be with this person. Just another selfish ignorant comment.
@@DougAlesUSA wow. You've sure got me all figured out. Just like you know exactly what's going on in the situation between this woman and her husband. I've met enough people like you to know that this discussion isn't worth my time. You're just another arrogant selfish man that has no respect for family or women. I cherish my wife and my children and we work together as a team even though I am the sole Financial provider. But, along with finances, I give my wife the emotional support that she deserves and I cherish her for the woman that she is. Have a good day. I wish you the best and I hope that someday you can come off your high horse and look on fellow Humanity with slightly more humility.
Hey times have changed. If their prenup says some sophistication of "I leave with my millions you leave with nothing." That will be thrown out & seen as unconscionable. You'd have to promise something reasonable. Not legal advice. You can't just kick her back out on the street.
Did she really think she was going to be equal partners with a self made millionaire 16 years older than her? She was looking for a provider, and that’s what she got. Please.
@@MoonMoon-fx1op lol any responsibility on her to marry him if she’s unhappy? Let’s be real - she would leave and take half his assets if she could, but she can’t, which is why she is upset. Keep defending her bad behavior though.
@@CNT536 who said I was defending her behavior? Stop putting words in my mouth. All I was saying is if she's a money hungry child and he knew, he shouldn't have married her. Am I wrong in that assessment?
@@MoonMoon-fx1op all that you said was “he shouldn’t have married her” 😂 without mentioning what she should have done differently. He did fine, he married what he wanted. It is her that is unhappy because she signed a prenup and can’t leave with half his assets, she can leave now if she wants, she has free will, but she’s upset that she can’t take her piece that she feels entitled to. Nice try!
Video title update: "Lucky woman wants to have her cake and eat it too." That was just one side of the story. The show should focus on financial advice instead of relationships.
Yeah I'm confused what the purpose of the call was. To vent about her relationship? But I guess bc her husband is a millionaire it gets a financial subject pass? Also Dave is a simp lol
Her husband is really smart. She just wants more money and he was smart enough to get her to sign the prenup so she can't take everything he owns. She really has two options she has to quit working for a husband and go back to her career or she needs to get a divorce and move on and find somebody else. She's crying because she realize she can't get her hands on his money.
@@Jane5720 Yeah she probably taught him the skills and gave him the discipline to make great money. If it wasn't for her he would probably work at McDonald's.
Yep. Probably screwing around with a guy from her work and wants those alimony checks and half his assets to build a new life for her and her boyfriend.
Doesn't apply if you both don't have much before the marriage. If you build a life together while married then yes both people deserve parts of what you built together.
@@HunteroftheNorth This guy is 51 years old, so he most likely had his successful business before he got married. And she wouldn't be the first wife who grossly exaggerates her input.
@@MrClassicmetal Right in this scenario a prenup makes sense, absolutely. If you read the original comment it says "everyone should get prenups." I was simply stating that in a lot of cases of marriage both people build their life together.
Usually Dave is pretty well on point, but I think he missed the mark on this one. Dave said: "Quit and the dynamic will change". It will. The 50 year old guy will just a younger hotter version of the lady that was crying "my husband does everything".
Dave misses the mark on a lot of things that are not related to financial advice. Dave should leave marital counseling to those qualified to do it and stick to charging people for common sense financial advice.
Stop it! She did not marry him for the money, but she’s younger, he’s more experienced, and far more persuasive. His perspective is different from hers. They need some marriage counseling so they bothe recognize they are ONE in this marriage.
A reasonable assessment. At the same time, people going into marriages with this kind of cynicism is probably part of the reason for the high divorce rates. (Chicken or the egg, etc)
@@aaronqueen55 True, but many women these days have just as many, if not more, assets than the men they marry. I hear many women tout prenups and I personally know two couples who went through divorce and the woman is paying alimony to the man in each of those cases. I don’t think that women initiating divorces automatically translates to the women wanting/getting half of what their husbands have. And honestly, if they built it together then of course she would be entitled to half. If I had it my way, divorce would not be legal at all except in cases of proven domestic abuse or adultery.
@@thrillmonkey women paying alimony is statistically rare. But if they built together she should get something fair even if she was a housewife. & I'm currently a cs alimony payor. The state legislatures, the court & her attorney which you pay for will see to that she gets a fair deal. In this case a prenup is warranted. She came in while relatively little. But if the prenup is a she gets nothing deal, it will be thrown out
Future call: Dave I left my millionaire husband like you said and got a new job but my new boss is over bearing and controlling. What do I do. Dave and beta host: I'm so sorry, you tender delicate flower.
The whole tone change around 4:20 kind of weirded me out. She was like woe is me, I gave up my career for my husband and then at 4:20 her tone changes and says my husband says I'm spoiled and entitled etc. I think not only husband but the wife is manipulative too.
I don't think Dave knows how it is now days it's not as simple as oh the husband is and idiot. Dave is just lucky his wife is forever with him. But not all women especially currently behave that way
So…. You’re not living the dream life you imagined being married to an older millionaire and now want out, yet you signed this prenup and know you’re not going to make any real money out of the divorce. Makes sense
As far as I am concerned, he is providing her a cushy lifestyle and if he says jump, her reply should be “how high.” Only in the West can an Uber wealthy housewife be “oppressed” and have all these “issues.”
@@michaelvanhorn3271 but she probably doesn’t want HIS kid. She wants a kid with a beautiful body but dumb brain... she doesn’t want a kid with a big brain like her hubby. Cuz she’s shallow and dumb herself =/
Sounds like someone got tired of being a "trophy wife". I agree with other commenters, there are two sides to this story. John and Dave did a great disservice by taking this callers story at face value. She called the show wanting confirmation and she got it.
Nah they told her right, told her to quit, get another job, be her own person. If husband doesn't like that, then he has a prenup to protect him and she can leave. Dave and John just shined her on a bit to make her feel better. They could have told her to sue him to nullify the pre-nup.
Multi millionaires don’t become multi millionaires by living like they’re multi millionaires. She probably figured that she’d kick up her legs and go on frequent vacations, drive nice cars, and never have to work. She thought wrong. Of course I do sympathize if he’s dragging his feet about kids. That’s legitimate.
@@hornetguy9063 Kids is prob the wife's way to secure some continuous funding when she walks out on him. Since she wont be getting anything due to the prenup.
He's a smart man she wants kids so she can use that as leverage to take half of everything he owns I've seen this for 40 years women do it everyday and they calling the Dave Ramsey and badmouth him when they're not getting his side of the story women cry in the man is the bad guy
He married a younger wife, what do you think that she want or she wants children. He should have married someone his own age and then you wouldn't have that problem
@@Jane5720 the problem once again is that you are relieving the female of all personal responsibilities because of her gender. She knew he was over 20 years older than her when she chose to Marry a Millionaire. End of discussion she wants what every other woman wants money. The kid is just a means to get half of everything he owned smarten up
She knew why she married him. She's crying now because she wants to cash in. She doesn't want Dave to tell her about quitting, she wants him to tell her how to trap this dude and get around the prenup. That's why she threatened to quit and didn't quit, and now he isn't falling for the baby plan either. She needs some ideas. She wants to take half his money and go get a young Chad
@@justinbowman2126 How is she being controlled again? What's stopping her from saying "hey I'm going out to get a job and earn some money and build a satisfying career"?
Lol good question...people like to say "My spouse pulled themselves up by the boot straps/ self made millionaire"...but then say they also helped...most don't know the definition of "self" lol
@@cashkitty3472 Perhaps but you can’t put a monetary number on that. Its like trying to quantify how much you owe your parents. She signed the prenup of her own free will so she gets what he says she gets up to and including nothing. She gets what she came in with. Not nearly as bad as losing half your wealth and usually kids too to your working and fully capable ex spouse as most divorced men do.
Thank you! Glad to see the wisdom in the comment section! Dave might’ve made a good choice in marriage but that doesn’t mean every wife is a good mate.. the scripture describes these things for a reason
If she ever finally leaves, he won't care. He isn't changing because he doesn't have to and she should have known that. It's his nature and her nature put her there.
I understand how she's feeling, but he is literally paying for everything and paying you money to work. He could have paid you nothing and said you're helping run our business. He is lucky he has a prenup because it sounds like she wants half the money to be rich without doing the work to get rich.
I agree with the lady who said it was not Biblical advice. To go and get a job somewhere out of spite to your husband is not right. And to only submit to things you like is no submission at all. That lady should have gone to a Priest with her husband about the baby situation.
I lived her life for 30 years. Get out now. I was told if I was good enough I could have more children. It NEVER happened. I’m sorry for you but it’s a sad life.
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Biblical submission is the woman ducking so God can take a swing at the man!
First she was dumb to sign the prenup. She is young enough to find another millionaire.
I would recommend her not getting pregnant with this husband.
He can find another young woman to marry and replace her.
However she needs to quit and move fast.
Ask him for a salary or just go back to work. Start sending him invoices for ur services.
@@IMBLESSED-oe6dl dear lady, marry your age poor guy and build wealth together. Any rich man will make you sign prenup. Demand allowance and salary, try to build your Own riches
*I don’t blame people for getting a prenups considering the divorce rate in the U.S*
@@therationalistparty9742 nope, that high divorce rate in America is for every relationship. Even Dave’s, protect yourself
Exactly
@@therationalistparty9742 He's a 51 year old millionaire and she's in her 30s. We ALL know why both of them chose who they chose. And I don't think it was love.
That and the fact that most divorces are initiated by women. It's around 70%. I don't blame wealthy individuals, especially men, for doing it.
@@therationalistparty9742 You get a prenup incase a divorce happens in the future. It's no different than having insurance. Why wait until you have a health crisis to get insurance after it happens? You get it before a health crisis.
Bills are all taken care of and you make $50k a year. That’s $50k a year you can use to build your own wealth up.
Don't tell her that 😂
My thoughts exactly! She could invest that money since he takes care of everything. She would be a millionaire also!
You've missed the point of this exercise. You're not wrong but you've missed the point
She doesn’t want to do that, though. She wants to spend.
@@CNT536 She wants to spend HIS money, not hers. In all my years, one thing has proven true with women over and over and over again. Their attitude is what's you're is mine and what's mine is mine.
Prenup = not the problem.
Relationship dynamic = the problem
Finally one sane comment! Almost none of the comments except yours failed to even recognize this. I mean c'mon isn't this obvious?
Why do you state what he already said???
Why did she bring it up, then? Just a random fun fact for all of us I guess?
@@kebinyo because she _thinks_ that’s the problem 😉
I agree fully. Most people in these comments are selfish and ignorant to the fact that a relationship is more than providing financially for someone.
Of course the dude got a prenup! He wants to make sure she cannot walk in, stay a couple years, and then walk out with half his assets.
@@dsanti4069 The way I'm going to word it when I get married is that the prenup will make it so distasteful for us to get a divorce that you'd rather kill me than go through that process. I see it as a means to keep us together and to force us to work through our problems instead of just giving up like most of the U.S. does. You see she wasn't even considering divorce right?
Thank you!
She doesn’t love him lol it’s only matter of time but smart guy I can see why he’s self made
If you are thinking about divorce before getting married then don’t..
@@juanmartinez1337 It's not thinking about divorce as an option. It's thinking about doing everything you can to ensure the only choice you have when things get tough is to stay together. That's wisdom. It's foolish to think that in a lifetime of living with another human being, severe conflict won't make a person think about leaving. U.S. law currently makes that decision very palatable for women.
She married a guy 20 years older. Something tells me she married for the money and now regrets signing a prenup. More to this story than just the wife's side.
But she makes 50k all for her
Very true. Way more to this story. She basically just wanted to vent here. She's smart enough to know what needs to be done but just wanted to be heard and validated. No way she leaves this guy anytime soon.
@@RGTomoenage11 She married him for his money.
Sometimes the reason a guy wants to marry a woman that much younger is because he figures he can control her.
@@dresser6135 nah,
We all hear about what happens to millionaires in divorce court. He's a very wise guy!
No he isn’t otherwise he wouldn’t have good married and his prenup is useless in family court. His already passed the event horizon of the black hole. His only hopes is to come out as trans and start identifying as a woman. Then if the courts discriminate then sue them for transphobia.
He may be wise, but he is narcissistic and that is abusive.
He shouldn't have married her then, if he doesn't want an equal partnership and if he's that terrified of losing his money. His fear is also not an excuse to manipulate, steamroll, control, and gaslight her.
Sounds more like he is a user of people and entirely selfish.
@@Lon1001 That's her side.
Wise men follow a plan, fools follow their mind without any planning.
feminism and family courts destroyed marriage worse than alcohol and abuse
He planned to be a playboy
@@kazzTrismusDishonest men destroyed marriage. Honest man says "what mine is yours".
@@ludmillabogucharska3182 blahahahahahha
@@ludmillabogucharska3182 OOOOOOHHHHH dear.... That's a yikes
If you marry for money you will “earn” every cent
Random & stupid comment. You know that she doesn’t love him? He has nothing more to offer than his money? Hard to marry for money when you sign a prenup and she never complained about that.
@@DCARA06 - She's complaining about it now. Show's where her priorities are. And it's not being a wife.
She’s crying about not securing divorce settlement profits which is the only reason a woman gets married nowadays.
@@grizzlybear2702 - I'll disagree with that. Women get married for a variety of reason. But at the end of the day, it doesn't matter why she gets married. Because at any time she can pull the ripcord and cash out her cash and prizes via the "family" court.
@@grizzlybear2702 I bet you’re popular with the ladies
There’s 3 sides to a story: her side, his side, and the truth
His side is logic and truth
@@Halgame99 Ya? How do you know? There might be a lot of truth to what she says, we can only speculate.
@@bohemiancasanova5538 It's a biological fact that the majority of men think logically and women think and feel with their emotions hence why she's crying. She's not thinking about the logical fact that her husband literally does everything for her and she's still not happy about it.
@@bohemiancasanova5538 most women and lots of men are not honest when they speak about relationship issues. They misconstrue and warp reality to mirror their feelings. They even believe the lies they spout.
I was not convinced until I witnessed such dynamics.
The fact that she is calling complaining/crying about a prenup, raises red flags.
It will get thrown out in court anyway
@@grizzlybear2702 - They often are. Prenups aren't worth the paper their written on.
She’s not complaining about the prenup. She’s complaining about how her husband treats her. Learn to listen. You sound like the husband.
exactly. she is crying for signing that prenup. she is free to walk away at any time....with NOTHING
@@grizzlybear2702 in California yeah but I don't think Alabama
Would like to hear both sides of this story.
Yup, definitely. It sounds like she's making a mountain out of a molehill.
She wants alimony and more money on divorce so that she can chill. If you cant handle being a high value mans wife go get a minimum wage worker and keep your mouth shut!
Can't make this stuff up...
@@MiyamotoMusakaki It dose not sound like her career is minimum wage.
@@TridentShield22 we got some KS watchers here 👀👋🏽
Once I heard she was in her 30's and the guy in his 50's THAT SAID IT ALL.
I’m sure he’s happy at this point he signed a prenup.
Absolutely women will take everything you’ve built and also ask for spousal support Goodfor him
It makes me wonder why he married her in the first place?
@@farmguy7319 probably felt pressured He gets nothing from marrying her .
@@hardwork535 definitely, nothing he gets being married to her that he wasn’t already getting.
@@hardwork535 He get free work at his companies, an unpaid personal assistant and someone to sleep with at night. He also gets a punching bag that he uses regularly to knock her down.
He married his secretary and she's surprised that there is a power dynamic.
Facts
@A p yea cause im sure he held a gun to her and forced her to sign the prenup lol. she knew what she was doing before getting married
🤣🤣🤣
She’s thinking about leaving him, that’s why she’s having buyers remorse about signing the pre-nup. If she was ONLY concerned about leaving she wouldn’t mention the pre-nup, she would just leave.
She mentioned the prenup because he holds his money over her head to control her. He doesn’t even pay her properly for the work he does at HIS companies nor does he value her opinion at home. Top that off with him telling her she needs mental help. That’s abuse!
Lori L I am not denying that she feels she is in an abusive relationship. I am saying she regrets signing the pre-nup because now she wants to leave him but she doesn’t want to walk away with nothing to show for it.
@@roseking8555 It's probably more her Christian guilt for even considering ending the marriage. The money is just the measure of how little of a priority this man has made his wife - a husband and wife are meant to walk together, not him doing the walk and her being some cheerleader in the background. He treats her as an object.
@@roseking8555 “Feels like” she’s in an abusive relationship? No, she is in one. She held up her end of the deal, and he’s wasting her child bearing years on empty promises of them having children together. I don’t get why you want to hate on her.
Yes, she “feels like she is in an abusive relationship”. I don’t know her or him. I am making comments based on her side of the story. Why would I hate on some one I don’t know? Based on what she stated I feel she regrets having signed that document. That’s all.
He's no simp he's a champion
Definitely munching serious red pills.
He’s not a champion. He’s an abusive husband who doesn’t hold his marriage as a partnership.
dudes is smart.....
once shes gone he can get a younger replacement
I’m not getting married if I do I’m definitely gettting a prenup
Why is she crying? She didn’t pick someone to build with she picked someone who was already built. Is she trying to say he changed after they got married?
Astute comment.
He’s destroying her mentally lol listen her well
@@shonazef7351 her unrealistic expectations are destroying herself
@@shonazef7351I met expectations are doing that. This guy is 16 years older than her and already set in his career. Im not sure how she saw this playing out.
And now she says he’s “stringing her along” with respect to starting a family. How well did she know this man before she married him?
*Saying prenuptial agreements cause divorce is like saying seatbelts cause automobile accidents.* Wear your seatbelt and get a prenup.
Everyone should get a prenuptial. Even if you don't have money
Or a life jacket makes you drown
So because she starts crying this husband is labeled as an abuser? Because he’s successful he’s controlling? Definitely need to hear both sides of the story before making rash judgments.
And this is why you have prenups, she’s already looking to cash in.
Why work to build up a man when you don't get anything out of it
@@Jane5720 Lol simping hard. Listen to her fake cry. She sucks. She wants to take his money and run.
@@Jane5720 she gets 50k and the bills taken care of. So she can blow that 50k if she wanted to yearly.
@@Jane5720 bruh you ladies are trifling as heck. As if youre doing anything else anyway
in 2021 what exactly is abuse.............
I am 35, he is 51 and a self made millionaire. That's a big gap in age difference if you ask me, Prolly why he insisted on a prenup! Prolly saw/sees things we can't see from her story
Probably*
@@SubToRandomVideos101 Prolly works fine for me. Stop fooling yourself
"Prolly" is street short for probably... boomer
@@waflletoast11 its ghetto af
Seems so
He's too controlling. Translation: He holds me accountable for my actions and calls out my bad behavior.
Bingo!
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Yep!
Exactly. She expected Dave to give her answers to get her scheme going to get around the pre-nup.
He made a great move signing a prenup. Woman is a gold digger. If that prenup didn’t exist, she’d already have filed divorce.
Man made an excellent move signing that prenup. Salute him.
I hope the husband calls in, because I'm itching to know his side. I don't trust likely crocodile tears.
I was on her side until I heard the age difference. I don’t know now
@@gmarie3053 It sounds like she married his money.
@@blackonblack...9244 Yup. He wanted a younger woman and she wanted a sugar daddy.
Same
It's a bit frustrating how Dave responds without getting full context. Doesn't support Dave's image of rational thinking.
She's ready to leave him....but realises she would have to start all over again without half of this mans networth to assist her and knows she has stuffed up wasting her prime years of her life married to a sugar daddy.
Smart move by this man in my opinion, especially her age, being she was in her late 20s and he in his mid 40s when they met....he saw this scenario playing out.
Sounds like she married for money …money she never will get. This is the down side of being a sugar baby
Agreed
She's looking for a payout 🐺😏😏
Very smart Man 👍
Also why he doesn't want kids, that and he's 51
This millionaire took the Rep Pill and never looked back. Fellow men, take note.
The only mistake he made was getting married as some judges will bypass a prenup.
Not sure why he would have his wife be involved in his business.
@@nealp885 He didn't and that's why she is upset.
I FOUND THE RED PILL DEGENERATE!!
@@axelstruelove What is the problem?
For those not familiar with the term gaslighting, it is a trait of narcissism. A narcissist will try to get you to question your own reality.
He sounds like he has OCPD
A reminder that that a wealthy man isn't always generous and an older man isn't always mature.
I bet the smart millionaire probably was married before and lost a lot. Learned from his mistake and has pre-nups now.
He's smart. He likely has his own side that isn't brought up.
I guarantee she would of left with half his net worth without the prenup.
Maybe. Doesnt justify him demeaning and belittling her. Doesnt sound like he is on board with them starting a family either and at 35 she is running out of time. Look, every woman wants to feel cherished by her husband whether he has money or not.
@@charlottemajewski5992 Except you are only hearing one side. She can easily just be explaining it through her own filter and he probably has his own side as well.
How can you know he is belittling her? More than likely, it is just a problem that she works with him. Lots of people in relationships like to complain about work to their spouse, even if they like their jobs. It just doesn't work out when your spouse is also your boss.
She clearly demonstrated that he pays all the bills and gave her a job making 50k/yr, she just needs to get a different job. It is good that he got a prenup because she probably would of already left him if it means she can get 50% of his net worth.
@@Lolatyou332 the issue in this circumstance is not a prenup. That is perfectly fine in okay to do in that situation. The issue is after the prenup they are not working together in a team and he is still holding back from her. He may take care of her and provide for her physical needs but is obviously doing a very poor job of providing for her emotionally.
@@IamTheKP Again, we don't know his side of the story. Just because someone isn't happy and is having emotional issues, doesn't mean it is the other partners fault.
This is why you don't just listen to one side of the story in court, she could very easily be omitting information or framing it in a way that makes her look better / get support. She probably just needs a therapist and to find a new job. The guy is supposed to be her boss, her husband, her therapist in this scenario. She is putting too much on him IMO and just needs to separate work life and her relationship.
No hun, he doesn’t control you because of a prenup. You just can’t leave him and take half his assets lol. Smart move ! Get a prenup kings !
Both men and women should get prenup if the main reason for marriage is money. People are often not truthful with themselves.
@@elizabethtimothy4776 I believe everyone should get a prenup even if you are poor, I recently got married and with a prenup but I sleep well knowing that I have a trusting wife but if anything where to happen she won’t be able to take my investments, paid off house, or military pension. This is very important considering that I’m 20 so our wealth should grow overtime but it will be safe !
A prenup indeed is a sign of a bigger issue. You shouldn't marry that person in the first place
Sadly in divorce prenups doesn't mean anything. She can have a lawyer argue she was coursed into signing. Honestly, I don't know why men marry these drama queens. It would be better to find a woman that has the same beliefs as yourself and understand the importance of marriage. It sounds like she got into an argument with her husband and lost. He's not hitting her. Shes being dramatic. 1st world problems. Women don't marry if you are self-serving.
@@elizabethtimothy4776 I don't see why. Just don't get married if you feel like you need to get a prenup. Prenup devalues the marriage. If you can't trust each other don't get married period.
Bunch of simp advice. This guy is a millionaire for a reason.
You must also listen to Fresh and Fit. Salute brother
She thought she was on the gravy train.
She doesn't want to get a divorce, because she will go back to her real economic lifestyle, of a secretary.
But doesn't want to stay married because she has no power or authority over him.
Well played sir, modern times require modern solutions.
Not sure how this is a modern solution. This is how it should be. Some might say, a traditional solution.
Can you imagine a man wanting to get that from a woman? 😀
That's why she wants to have kids to increase her post divorce finances through child support payments for her.
Bingo!! She is realizing that she can’t leave and get half his stuff. So her solution is having his kid and going after child support! And he’s not falling for it and wants her to go see a psychiatrist. Smart guy.
Amen John and Dave!! I was in an unhappy marriage for 14 years until I realized my own self worth. I am now married to a man who cherishes me as a person, you cannot put a price on your own happiness.
So he's a millionaire, pays all the bills, gives her what's likely a very cushy/easy job for 50k year and the only "caveat" is that she can't divorce him and take half of his fortune? Sounds like she did just marry him for the money is upset that she has "only" a 50k salary to spend on frivolous things.
You nailed it.
50k is pocket change
forgot she's also 20 years younger.
@@juanmartinez1337 WITH NO BILLS. That's literally 50k to spend however you want. Most average American families earn 60k and most of that ends up going to a Mortgage, Car Payments, Bills, Food etc.
I love the comment sections of this TH-cam channel. Ramsey’s financial advice is perfect for staying out of debt and building wealth conservatively. His relationship advice, especially the other guy, is usually terrible. They always side with the woman.
Quit the $50k a year job and go get your own career. Both of you will prob be happier. Then you can contribute to the household bills like every other adult in this world.
But what about half of his money though? - the woman
she either needs to b a mom or get a divorce.... this thing has zero % chance of working
@@NightRidah777 he was a self made millionaire. She’s not entitled to rob his money
But how can she get her millions and free house? 😱
Lady, stash your money and live off his. He's the husband, it's his job to provide for you.
She's going to let John and Dave get her replaced with a younger more cooperative woman
Yep lol.
That's why I think John is an irresponsable therapist, and that Dave is in denial about the state of affairs when it comes to mariages.
Married to him she has no self-worth. Dave and John given the correct advice if she was money hungry she never would have phoned for advice. She should leave him if he won't give herself value.
That Kevin Sam mentality
Very good advice David and John!!! Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yeah, you cannot tell me that she didn't marry him for money with that age difference. They are on different pages in life, and it isn't going to work.
I hate when these guys Take sides with the caller as if the caller is always right lol he provides her with everything except half his wealth when she divorces 😂
It’s like all these talk show think the caller is always right. But this isn’t customer service.
Only the women callers get the support
I hate when people post comments misunderstanding what was said. IF SHE WANTED HIS MONEY THEN SHE WOULDN'T HAVE SIGNED THE PRENUP. SHE WANTS TO BUILD HER OWN WEALTH AND HAVE KIDS.
Alright Abe, let's look at this rationally. If she wants to have kids in her mid thirties, she needs to get pregnant yesterday. The older a woman gets, the harder it is to conceive, and the more likely she is to have birthing complications. Second, if she wanted to build wealth for herself, she could have done that by staying single and working for her own wealth building. As soon as you get married, it is no longer just about you. It is about the family. Considering she married a wealthy older man, she doesn't need to work a job that pays $50k, especially if she wants to have children. They're well off as is. I know I would have loved having my mother home more often than staying at daycare for all the school days when I was young
@@TheFruitneyShe should have married a man on her level then. This guy is already built. She is trying to tag along. What together can they build?
I think I missed it in the call- what exactly was the husband doing that was abusive? Providing for his wife? And I’m sure if this guy 16 years her senior had no money instead of being a millionaire she would have been JUST as eager to marry him 🙄.
Would have left already
Bingo!
Exactly!
@@RGTomoenage11 nah, she never would have even considered him to begin with
@@CNT536 probably
He's 51. You're 35. And you wonder why he acts like your dad. That's because he's pretty much old enough to be.
who has kids at 16?
other women are just jealous. it is not the age difference that matters to these Wheman
@@noisespektrum5416 I think "pretty much" means "almost." You can bet that the guy already has kids who are probably between the ages of 21 and 31. so he is used to being a parent to young adults. He married a young adult, who is probably not much older than his oldest kid. That woman married a daddy with money.
@@richardv9648 yes, it is. Age is a big issue even if people in a relationship try to act like it's not gonna be a big deal, it WILL become a big deal in 95% of all wide age spread scenarios.
Why is everyone so focused on the prenup she isn’t complaining about the prenup but how she is been treated and not valued as a WIFE!
these men are just excited to bring out their red pill handbook.
bitter men who aren't very smart
Being a wife to a millionaire is way different to being a wife to an average man
She wont allow herself to enjoy everything he provides
If she wanted 50/50 she would marry an average dude
Hope he finds some more cooperative woman to be with
She said she helps him in his businesses…. But then she said he’s self made 😂 He made his millions before you. Your help won’t make a difference
He made his millions before she graduated high school probably since he was already around 30 years old.
@@blackworldtraveler3711 Exactly. This girls nuts
But when you married its not like it. You want to support. Support turns to work. He didn't become self made without family friends or relationships he has built. Dramatic maybe but she sounds like a second wife to be honest and no 51 year old man wants to be running around with toddlers..see what you don't pay on the front end you pay on the back end thats what my grandma told me. Its not the money int his situation she is just not happy and you can't teach a old dog...you know the saying...espcially a self made one.
@@DC45193 you are assuming too many things to be making a comment. literally all heresy to what you said. but thanks for ur input
@@MightbePettingmyCat its human behavior. Its not assuming. If he wanted kids he would give her Kids! Self made you still need help. Im self made and people good or bad you learn and grow. You just not objective. He was smart enough to get prenuptial agreement and she signed. Please I was trying be respectful with comment. Idiot.
“Woe is me”, I’m married to a millionaire and my life is hard… give me a break! He’s 51 and you are 35. There is a reason you two married. He is a classic male success object and you’re a classic female beauty object. It’s as old as time. Why would he want kids at 51, anyhow? If it’s that bad, go find a simpleton without the millions. Sounds like an alphamale to me.
I could see this being a problem if he agreed they would have children before they got married. Most people have discussions regarding children before they marry.
i was with you until you threw in that alpha nonsense. a nonsense faux theory that has since been debunked.
She sound dramatic. Haven't heard his side of the story but sound like she need her own career. Don't quit your job to work for your spouse. Most people don't like their boss and nothing would be worst than not liking a boss who's also your spouse. Bosses are the one in power to make the final call and most people ego gets the best if them when a spouse make the final call.
Smart man to make her sign a prenup
If you want a prenup you shouldn’t get married in the first place
@@dsanti4069 that was the dumbest comment I've ever read. Congrats 👏
@@dsanti4069 In today's modern world no it is not a bad idea. Today's laws allow women to leave when they are emotionally unhappy which is not a good reason for divorce. Then they get to leave with cash and prizes and on to the next guy.
D Santi divorce rate is through the roof and it’s driven by women who wait until they are 30+ years old to get married. And this girl has all the financial incentive in the world to divorce him without the prenup. Sorry, this is just a logical move in this day and age
@@dsanti4069 - "If you need a seat belt, you shouldn't drive at all" ~ D Santi, 2021
Props to the husband, he's done the right thing! She showed her true colors, only in it for the money.
HOw? Please explain did you watch the entire video?
@@TheFruitney do you not see the age difference?? 🤣 she knew exactly what she was getting into. If you want to make an argument about how he treats her fair game but don’t for a second act like she wasn’t there for the money.
The title is misleading....the moneyndoesnt control her its the lifestyle. No 51 year old man wants to be running around with toddler's.
Don't ever put your career on hold. No matter how much money your partner makes.
Disagree. Raising kids is super important to some families. And best done by one of their parents instead of the state or daycare.
Exactly. Once she said “I’ve put my career on hold” I was like this is where u messed up gurl
She didn’t put her career on hold… She said she’s making $50k a year plus she isn’t paying any bills… she’s living life easy 😂
If my wife was a millionaire and told me to stay home, I'd say "ok. Deal!"
@@Chet_24 ...and get $50K a year to do whatever I wanted with.....hell yes I'd stay home.
*You know what’s really bothering this lady? When she divorces this guy she does not get half his money. Each takes with them what they brought. Him, million$. Her, nothing.*
Bingo! 😂
Wrong. If she signed a pre-nup at marriage she knew beforehand that she wouldn't get everything and she still followed through with the marriage because she wanted to be with this person. Just another selfish ignorant comment.
@@DougAlesUSA obviously you did not listen.
@@DougAlesUSA wow. You've sure got me all figured out. Just like you know exactly what's going on in the situation between this woman and her husband. I've met enough people like you to know that this discussion isn't worth my time. You're just another arrogant selfish man that has no respect for family or women. I cherish my wife and my children and we work together as a team even though I am the sole Financial provider. But, along with finances, I give my wife the emotional support that she deserves and I cherish her for the woman that she is.
Have a good day. I wish you the best and I hope that someday you can come off your high horse and look on fellow Humanity with slightly more humility.
Hey times have changed. If their prenup says some sophistication of "I leave with my millions you leave with nothing." That will be thrown out & seen as unconscionable. You'd have to promise something reasonable. Not legal advice.
You can't just kick her back out on the street.
Stand up for yourself.
Don't let yourself be taken advantage of.
Get out, move on.
She not about to move on from millions lol. This whole call was handled terribly
Did she really think she was going to be equal partners with a self made millionaire 16 years older than her? She was looking for a provider, and that’s what she got. Please.
seriously I saw/heard right through the crocodile tears
So you don’t think she needs emotional support. Come on
@@williamerazo3921 she needs therapy, sure.
To have a prenup is okay but to treat your wife like a child - deciding for her and even dismiss her opinion. That is no healthy relationship.
She’s a money hungry child
@@yuriypono3666 he shouldn't have married her then
@@MoonMoon-fx1op lol any responsibility on her to marry him if she’s unhappy? Let’s be real - she would leave and take half his assets if she could, but she can’t, which is why she is upset. Keep defending her bad behavior though.
@@CNT536 who said I was defending her behavior? Stop putting words in my mouth. All I was saying is if she's a money hungry child and he knew, he shouldn't have married her. Am I wrong in that assessment?
@@MoonMoon-fx1op all that you said was “he shouldn’t have married her” 😂 without mentioning what she should have done differently. He did fine, he married what he wanted. It is her that is unhappy because she signed a prenup and can’t leave with half his assets, she can leave now if she wants, she has free will, but she’s upset that she can’t take her piece that she feels entitled to. Nice try!
She's 35, and he's still dragging the kids conversation. Woman run, this guy don't want to have children with you. I've been there.
He’s smart. Child support is just financial security for the woman when she files for no fault divorce.
@@ברונמןמלכותִי she can still conceive
@@kiwiskiwi I agree.She just need to make a decision and move on very quickly.
She ain't going anywhere with that prenup. Little miss Tracy wants that payday before "jumping ship" like every other gold digging 304.
Video title update: "Lucky woman wants to have her cake and eat it too." That was just one side of the story. The show should focus on financial advice instead of relationships.
Yeah I'm confused what the purpose of the call was. To vent about her relationship? But I guess bc her husband is a millionaire it gets a financial subject pass?
Also Dave is a simp lol
Yeah totally cool for a husband to be abusive like that. I hope you dont have a wife, if you do I feel bad for her
especially when Dave always takes the side of the woman regardless.
@@troyspears6470 how was that abusive? That's litterally a disgusting thing to say, when there are people actually being abused. Shame on you.
Oh boy here come all the redpill virgins.
Her husband is really smart. She just wants more money and he was smart enough to get her to sign the prenup so she can't take everything he owns. She really has two options she has to quit working for a husband and go back to her career or she needs to get a divorce and move on and find somebody else. She's crying because she realize she can't get her hands on his money.
She knows exactly that she will be unhappy the moment she married him. This is the price of marrying someone for the wrong reasons
The price of being a gold digging 304 who married a guy who's a lot smarter than she is.
This is too funny. Her husband isn’t keeping her from working. She acts like she made him lol. Geeeez
Maybe she did
@@Jane5720 Yeah she probably taught him the skills and gave him the discipline to make great money. If it wasn't for her he would probably work at McDonald's.
@@Jane5720 How is that possible when she signed a prenup AFTER dating him for four years? This means he was already a millionaire when they married.
@@Jane5720 no she didn’t
Exactly. Sounds like to me he's where he is at with his millions bc of her.
He sounds like a smart man, she can't manipulate her husband; so she's using external validation to publicly shame him. She needs a shrink.
I think that was profound.
You must be her husband.
Interesting take on it. I can see that as being true. She is no victim, that is for sure.
Her husband needs to put her back on her place for embarrassing him on a radio show. Back to the street where she came from.
Yep. Probably screwing around with a guy from her work and wants those alimony checks and half his assets to build a new life for her and her boyfriend.
I would pay all the money in the world to hear his side of the story. I have a feeling we'd all be in for a treat.
You give me all the money in the world and I will tell you his side - promise 😅
Everyone should get a prenup, unless you want to lose your assets
Doesn't apply if you both don't have much before the marriage. If you build a life together while married then yes both people deserve parts of what you built together.
@@HunteroftheNorth 100% agree
most people would spend more money on the prenup legal fees than they are worth if everyone did one....
@@HunteroftheNorth This guy is 51 years old, so he most likely had his successful business before he got married.
And she wouldn't be the first wife who grossly exaggerates her input.
@@MrClassicmetal Right in this scenario a prenup makes sense, absolutely.
If you read the original comment it says "everyone should get prenups." I was simply stating that in a lot of cases of marriage both people build their life together.
Usually Dave is pretty well on point, but I think he missed the mark on this one. Dave said: "Quit and the dynamic will change". It will. The 50 year old guy will just a younger hotter version of the lady that was crying "my husband does everything".
Dave misses the mark on a lot of things that are not related to financial advice. Dave should leave marital counseling to those qualified to do it and stick to charging people for common sense financial advice.
She’s 35, he’s 51. It’s Obvious she married him for his money. He’s not stupid. He knew exactly what she was plotting.
Yeah, she wanted to have kids and a financially secure future. He wanted free labor and to lie to her about all the things she wants.
Not only that, but most of these modern women and feninists these days are unmarriageable.
@@Austenfan177 With a prenup😉
There's always more to the story. And their advice to get get another job is spot on.
Stop it! She did not marry him for the money, but she’s younger, he’s more experienced, and far more persuasive. His perspective is different from hers. They need some marriage counseling so they bothe recognize they are ONE in this marriage.
Everyone wants a high value man until its time to be a high value woman haha
Exactly. Love your comment! 💯 correct!
High value doesn't equate dominating or overbearing.
Fresh and fit my friend mixed with some Dave Ramsey
I may plagiarize that.
@@ensignmjs7058 Yes it does
Honestly prenups should just be a part of the marriage process. At the time you sign the marriage certificate, you also sign a prenup.
I think it's fair if they both work but if one of them stays home and takes care of the children then it's not that clear cut anymore.
The husband was wise to protect his assets with divorce rates being what they are.
A reasonable assessment. At the same time, people going into marriages with this kind of cynicism is probably part of the reason for the high divorce rates. (Chicken or the egg, etc)
@@thrillmonkey women initiate divorce the vast majority of the time.
@@aaronqueen55 True, but many women these days have just as many, if not more, assets than the men they marry. I hear many women tout prenups and I personally know two couples who went through divorce and the woman is paying alimony to the man in each of those cases.
I don’t think that women initiating divorces automatically translates to the women wanting/getting half of what their husbands have. And honestly, if they built it together then of course she would be entitled to half.
If I had it my way, divorce would not be legal at all except in cases of proven domestic abuse or adultery.
@@thrillmonkey I don't hear of many men getting a windfall in divorce court though
@@thrillmonkey women paying alimony is statistically rare. But if they built together she should get something fair even if she was a housewife. & I'm currently a cs alimony payor. The state legislatures, the court & her attorney which you pay for will see to that she gets a fair deal.
In this case a prenup is warranted. She came in while relatively little. But if the prenup is a she gets nothing deal, it will be thrown out
smart husband, this woman shouldnt be wanting his money like this. shows something darker about her.
He made a massive mistake, he brought her into the businesses.
Future call: Dave I left my millionaire husband like you said and got a new job but my new boss is over bearing and controlling. What do I do.
Dave and beta host: I'm so sorry, you tender delicate flower.
Fax
Lol.. exactly!
Dave: Self yourself
This is why I left the church. Beta pathetic men and radical women have taken over.
@@RagnarLothbrok2222 🤣🤣🤣
"This is what you call an idiot" - Dave Ramsey 2021 🤣🤣
Her husband is definitely not the idiot and this is why she is mad
@@yuriypono3666 she should not have married him. They don't even have anything in common.
@zPersistz
That's beautiful.
Dave decided the guy was a monster after hearing one side of a story. Maybe she’s just a master manipulator and got Dave too.
Both guys fell into her trap after she started her fake crying crocodile tears, and both went into simp mode.
You summed it up perfectly.
@@SjaakadeliC It was a pathetic sight to see. Both the host and the other dude have no idea what they are talking about
The whole tone change around 4:20 kind of weirded me out. She was like woe is me, I gave up my career for my husband and then at 4:20 her tone changes and says my husband says I'm spoiled and entitled etc. I think not only husband but the wife is manipulative too.
I don't think Dave knows how it is now days it's not as simple as oh the husband is and idiot. Dave is just lucky his wife is forever with him. But not all women especially currently behave that way
Dave: "This is what we call an idiot."
John (and everyone else): "Whooooaaaa"
😂
She knew what she was getting into, marring an older, wealthy man. A woman should always have her OWN money. Nothing to cry about. Leave.
Simping ain’t easy. They are never interested in getting both sides of the story!
How many simps get a woman who's 20 years younger, and gets her to signs a prenup...
Deborah isn't an idiot. She is Tracy's mother-in-law.
😂🤣
Can’t she be both?! 😂
Salute to him. If he's too controlling why won't you leave and find another millionaire?
Chances are she won't find another millionaire and she risks being held back by a working man with no $. As her youth and beauty escape her.
@@colemanhigley747 you know a great way to not get held back? get a fucken job yourself
@@MightbePettingmyCat working is beneath her
Because the wall is undefeated. Men of means and wisdom don’t marry 35 year old divorcees.
So…. You’re not living the dream life you imagined being married to an older millionaire and now want out, yet you signed this prenup and know you’re not going to make any real money out of the divorce. Makes sense
That's what I heard.
As far as I am concerned, he is providing her a cushy lifestyle and if he says jump, her reply should be “how high.”
Only in the West can an Uber wealthy housewife be “oppressed” and have all these “issues.”
I guess the sugar daddy wasn't all he was supposed to be.
Thus she wants a kid
@@michaelvanhorn3271 but she probably doesn’t want HIS kid. She wants a kid with a beautiful body but dumb brain... she doesn’t want a kid with a big brain like her hubby. Cuz she’s shallow and dumb herself =/
Sounds like someone got tired of being a "trophy wife". I agree with other commenters, there are two sides to this story. John and Dave did a great disservice by taking this callers story at face value. She called the show wanting confirmation and she got it.
Taking one side and assuming it is fact is SOP for this show.
Nah they told her right, told her to quit, get another job, be her own person. If husband doesn't like that, then he has a prenup to protect him and she can leave. Dave and John just shined her on a bit to make her feel better. They could have told her to sue him to nullify the pre-nup.
She needs to call the Godfather, Kevin Samuels. He will bring her back to reality.
I think their advice was pretty good. Get another job, and get a marriage counselor. What is wrong with that?
@@violettippet5246 Shes a grifter that's what!
Set aside the characters, this exactly what a prenup helps in this scenario.
Just tell me when he writes a book cause he sounds like a “Boss” and knows how to protect all his hard work.
Shoutout to the husband. My role model.
Marriage is dead. Don't play the game.
Sounds like she married for money with a 16yr age difference and now she's regretting it
Multi millionaires don’t become multi millionaires by living like they’re multi millionaires. She probably figured that she’d kick up her legs and go on frequent vacations, drive nice cars, and never have to work. She thought wrong.
Of course I do sympathize if he’s dragging his feet about kids. That’s legitimate.
@@hornetguy9063 Kids is prob the wife's way to secure some continuous funding when she walks out on him. Since she wont be getting anything due to the prenup.
No matter how flat as a pancake there will always be two sides just like there's two sides to the story
She must be an entitled femenist
U better say the same if it was him calling in 😏😘
@@wanefelicia8779 don’t worry, we would. The problem is that modern women are allergic to accountability.
He's a smart man she wants kids so she can use that as leverage to take half of everything he owns I've seen this for 40 years women do it everyday and they calling the Dave Ramsey and badmouth him when they're not getting his side of the story women cry in the man is the bad guy
He married a younger wife, what do you think that she want or she wants children. He should have married someone his own age and then you wouldn't have that problem
@@Jane5720
Men dont wanna marry old women. We want 18 to 35 pre wall.
@@varg8696 We? Is that your own picture on your profile sir?
@@varg8696 well then you gotta PAY FOR THAT. YOUNG WOMEN WANT KIDS AND TO BE TAKEN CARE OF..😂 deal with it
@@Jane5720 the problem once again is that you are relieving the female of all personal responsibilities because of her gender. She knew he was over 20 years older than her when she chose to Marry a Millionaire. End of discussion she wants what every other woman wants money. The kid is just a means to get half of everything he owned smarten up
This is more than about a prenup, this is way more deep
She knew why she married him. She's crying now because she wants to cash in. She doesn't want Dave to tell her about quitting, she wants him to tell her how to trap this dude and get around the prenup. That's why she threatened to quit and didn't quit, and now he isn't falling for the baby plan either. She needs some ideas. She wants to take half his money and go get a young Chad
She was hoping for advice for free...
Normally Dave encourages millionaires to get a prenup before getting married. What changed?
He didn't say the prenup was the issue.
Its more than 5M i think and that too if other is making way way less
The prenup wasn’t the problem, the controlling husband was the problem
@@justinbowman2126 she is free to leave if she is not happy
@@justinbowman2126 How is she being controlled again? What's stopping her from saying "hey I'm going out to get a job and earn some money and build a satisfying career"?
Her husband is my hero 🙏🏾💯
Oh what a poor baby..... she made decisions and now she doesn’t like them... the problem is people who don’t steer their life
"I put my career on hold to help him"
Well is he a self made millionaire or did you help him get there?
Lol good question...people like to say "My spouse pulled themselves up by the boot straps/ self made millionaire"...but then say they also helped...most don't know the definition of "self" lol
Women want to wait at the finish line for a winner to join in and say "Look at what we did together!" Nah.
Imagine having a millionaire husband and you’re crying because he won’t allow you to walk with half his fortune.
Not different if she's helping him with the business and Hes massively gaslighting her. She should get some money if she had given up her career
You did not listen to the same woman I did.
@@cashkitty3472 Perhaps but you can’t put a monetary number on that. Its like trying to quantify how much you owe your parents. She signed the prenup of her own free will so she gets what he says she gets up to and including nothing. She gets what she came in with. Not nearly as bad as losing half your wealth and usually kids too to your working and fully capable ex spouse as most divorced men do.
@@cashkitty3472 he pays all her bills. she is just upset that she can’t get her hands on his money
She literally signed up for this and now have an issue. How exactly does being married to her benefit this man?
Doesnt benefit any man.
@@andrew8168 I agree I see no benefits
So then why did he do it?
"You know why you feel that way, because it's the truth." Dave Ramsey
Um...that's not how anything works.
It does to women. Feelings = reality to them.
If she doesn't like it, that big fancy mansion door is wide open for her.
@1 and a 24 year old.
What would make this woman happy?
I was afraid to see how many people bought into her lies when she started crying good to see that nobody here fell for It.
The fake Crocodile tears was a dead giveaway! She has probably been getting away with doing that since she was in grade school
My thoughts exactly. Right after I said “she’s about to start crying to pour it on thick”, the tears started. LOL
@@RagnarLothbrok2222 i cant respect a woman that tries to use crying to get what she wants. Like a grown child
The co-host fell for it.
Thank you! Glad to see the wisdom in the comment section! Dave might’ve made a good choice in marriage but that doesn’t mean every wife is a good mate.. the scripture describes these things for a reason
If she ever finally leaves, he won't care. He isn't changing because he doesn't have to and she should have known that. It's his nature and her nature put her there.
I understand how she's feeling, but he is literally paying for everything and paying you money to work. He could have paid you nothing and said you're helping run our business. He is lucky he has a prenup because it sounds like she wants half the money to be rich without doing the work to get rich.
I agree with the lady who said it was not Biblical advice. To go and get a job somewhere out of spite to your husband is not right. And to only submit to things you like is no submission at all. That lady should have gone to a Priest with her husband about the baby situation.
I rarely disagree with Dave, but he's gotta stop taking one side of the story based on crocodile tears. That woman sounds like all kinds of trouble.
This guy was so smart! I would love an update on where this lady is now.
I lived her life for 30 years. Get out now. I was told if I was good enough I could have more children. It NEVER happened. I’m sorry for you but it’s a sad life.