How to Drop the Masculine Shield & Be Magnetic Again
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ก.ค. 2024
- Hello my loves!! In this video we dive deep into the powerful journey of dropping your masculine shield, feeling safe, and reclaiming your inner magnetic energy.
Timestamp Menu
(00:00) How To Drop The Masculine Shield
(01:09) Putting Up The Masculine Shield
(05:03) Why Do You Put Up The Masculine Shield?
(07:17) The Physical Elements Of The Masculine Shield
(10:08) Mastering Our Own Inner Masculine Energy
(13:02) 4 Steps To Drop The Masculine Shield
Main themes
Masculine and Feminine Energy
Awareness
Practice relaxation
Affirmations
Journaling Prompts
When have you felt the need to put up your shield?
What was the first time you felt yourself putting up your shield? How did that feel?
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The only woman I trust to give energy advice
Literally
Her and Abraham Hicks 💗
This is so precious. Melts my heart!!!
Take some of her add points but root then in Christ ✝️
Isn't she beautiful 🎉
I've struggled with this for over 20 years. It's hard to feel happiness,joy, and other good emotions. I'm working on finding my feminine self again.
You are such a feminine beautiful flower
Honey. I love you. Work on yourself. Take care of yourself. But dear beautiful soul maybe consider going to therapy. And if it would make you feel better remember there are a lot of spiritual therapists out there.
That's beautiful, may your feminine self shine for the world to witness 😊 thanks for your example and for sharing 🙏
1. Becoming aware and mindful in recognising that patterns of masculine shield
2. Cultivate your intuition and begin to trust yourself (self trust and strong enough to make decisions)
3. Practise relaxation (hypnotise, meditation, journaling, nature walks, massages etc)
4. Affirmations (I am safe, I am protected, I surrender to the flow, I completely let go of my need to control, i melt into my feminine energy, i love and accept myself, I fully trust myself.
This is very helpful. Sadly my shield goes up around family members. I've had to cut some of them off just because I realized they make me feel unsafe for legit reasons. It's sad when a child loses safety because they don't come from a safe home. Thanks for this message.❤
I feel this in my soul 🥺♥️ may God bless you
Lean in to God almighty 🙏🏽❤❤
Reading the title alone made me realize i am uncomfortable with the Idea of "dropping my shield" because who is going to protect me from these predators
yourself. who else? the point is that you don't need the shield when you realise you're strong enough without it.
We need both fem and masc. To fully drop your shield is foolish, a fem knows this. Be in your fem AND lift your boundaries while staying detached. You will stay safe (emotionally/ psych) but physically is a different convo, for that you need to workout and stay vigilant. But usually when you are in your fem, people are gentle w you.
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I think Echart Tolle talks about the pain body… women have a collective pain body. You always bring up a lot of really good 👍🏻 points.
In an age of oversaturation of information, especially when it comes to “masculine vs feminine energy”, this is true wisdom. What I’ve found through years of pain and chaos is that there is no remedy. It’s all about discernment - using the right coping mechanisms for the right amount of time, and then continuing to move forward . Being even-keeled and balanced, and understanding that even if you don’t feel balanced, it’s natural and part of the bigger picture. Leeor’s videos have been immensely helpful to me over the years, there’s something so comforting about her presence.
Thank you for sharing your perspective. 💓
Had my “shield” down before and was hurt by many - friends and romantic relationships. So I put my shield up, ignored many, cut people off immediately and went very private. I am slowly lowering the shield down and working on it but definitely still have hyper independence.
Your energy is so calm and is the reason I watch your videos. You exude realness that makes me trust you and want to match it.
I had an intuitive hit to start relaxing into my feminine energy recently. Then your video popped up on the page. Divine timing. This makes a lot of sense. I used to get people that would meet me for the first time and think that I hated them and it was because of the reserved nature I had and the shield that I put up after all the stuff I went through as a kid and a teenager.
My masculine energy has made me isolated, and overthink where id emotionally eat so much. Id feel anxiety around people where id have to really hide my true self because I didn't feel safe, creating this person I am so drained from. I am currently working on this, but been critical to myself throughout
Try Louise L Haye There are audiobooks of hers on TH-cam. She teaches how to be kind to yourself..
I have the same issue but I've been actively practicing self forgiveness. Beating yourself up is useless. It provides no benefit but causes so much damage. The least you can do is not add on to the negative emotions. Its like you're getting jumped so you started punching yourself in the face with them. Instead do the opposite. Practice self love. Stand up for yourself against those negative thoughts. If you really want to protect yourself then treat yourself with care and compassion, the same way you would with anyone else
I needed this big time. I think we can become guarded so easily as a child, and if we never had a safe place to land, it’s hard to come out of it. I am almost 26 and within the last year or so becoming mindful of how much the “shield” is affecting my life. It’s subtle, it gets you places, but only for so long… the guard of masculine energy catches up to you eventually. And you’re so right about it being rewarded, I was rewarded for being the “tough girl” as a kid, not crying when I was hurt, etc… I was the only girl on the sales floor with all men, hustle culture, “tough girl” energy… its all “cool” until it’s not ❤️ thank you for this.
Sometimes we might need that energy to bring it up but the thing is to not get stuck in any kind of created identity except our original one that is infinite conscious and awareness.
I was not safe as a child. My parents asked me for advice and and or to protect one from the other or the boogie man. I became tough, I didn’t know what else to do.
I am strong independent reliable and trustworthy…tired now.
I want to put down my shield…break through from the heaviness of acting like a man when I am a little woman 🦋♥️♥️🙏🏼💕♥️🦋
I'm guarded in relationships and in general. I can't allow others to come into my space. I do this to protect myself from being hurt and because I love deeply. Alot of people do not reciprocate loyalty or support. It's hard to go with the flow because I avoid being hurt or putting myself in a situation that I have survived from and do not want to experience again 😪
You won’t because now you have your intuition and awareness to trust, so the real practice is to stay tuned with yourself when surrounded no matter what your brain might experience as challenges. Fear doesn’t existe, danger surely do.
Trust means you know you can handle so can be moved but your also can handle almost anything because nothing can make you or break you, you are infinite conscious and a multi-dimensional being having a humain experience. ❤️🔥
Teary eyed because I've missed you so much! I didn't know I needed your softness. Thank you :)
Awwww my Rachel!
Trusting myself has been the biggest help to letting ppl in. I could open up and trust that I’d know and be able to move away if I feel unsafe
please do a video about the dark feminine and how that manifests in people who don't feel safe x
Watch Angelina Jolie’s movie Original Sin, one of her first movies. It is all about the dark feminine and a great movie, really shows masculine and feminine energy dynamics in real time.
I have been struggling with this shield for nearly 20 years. Became aware of it close to ten years ago. Has just started deconstructing it and life threw me for a loop and I found myself slip back into it's safety. But this time I was more aware of it so I wasn't lost in it's grip as long. I'm learning to let it fall. It's been a process for sure. But thank you for sharing this. It resonated 110% love it.
I really didn't think this video would make me cry like this. I even resisted the urge to cry while watching. But I decided to give in to my emotions & be vulnerable. I am afraid to trust people. And when she speaks about being open it seems like such an easy, simple thing. But truthfully its not. I never realized how uncomfortable the mere thought of trust made me feel until now. But I want to be better & I know its what I have to do to heal my nervous system and start living again
Got my goddess amulet today & set my intention to heal PMDD. Now I’m right here catching this video as soon as it comes up. DIVINE. Leeor. I LOVE YOU. P.S. passed my exam that I sat the day you released your April energy reading. Love, Gowri Xxx
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Wow! The timing is incredible. I’ve been closed off, protecting myself with this shield for as long as I could remember. Last night I was wondering why I struggle making connections and then I wake up to this video 💖 thank you Leeor.
Took a couple years but being in my feminine energy has allowed many great things to happen in my life.
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I'm a woman but have been too masculine for years now. And yeah,I have been attracting people who only need protection. Same type of people.
When I become friends with a friend,all of them ends up saying am so cute and can make a better man. I once asked myself why they all think the same yet am a lady like them. It made me decide to stay away from people and thought they misunderstand me. But lately i've been able to indentify that chain and working on breaking it.
Few weeks ago something started urging me from wuthin to get into my feminine energy. Its been hard but have been working on me now. I jyst noted that even my clothes are all masculine. And thats a physical thing that I have started changing. I have started feeling relaxed in my feminine and am sure with time I'll be there.
So this video came at the right time. I have to forget the things that made me so masculine
Standing with a cloak of shame, carrying my solid shield.
This is how I stayed alive. Now it is time to FLOw again.
Thank you for your feminine wisdom.
Thank you so much for this🙏🏽needed to hear. It’s a deep thing to acknowledge at 28years(in Saturn return) but I don’t want to keep being afraid and ultimately hiding myself from being seen.. it’s driving me into a loop and I know I’m self sabotaging but the level of emotions feels too heavy to do anything alone.. I am trying to understand why and how to live freely again and stop running back to the same guys that feel “familiar” which feels safer and less scary than putting myself out there just to be hurt again.. I just want to feel safe loved and validated.. 🥴😓 I don’t want to be scared of everything anymore
So valuable thank you. Personally my mother was very violent towards me creating a sense of unsafety since birth. It's hard to even imagine that I can rely on or feel safe besides when alone. I see that I have attracted people who needed masculine energy and I ended up creating safety for others while feeling depleted and unsupported myself. I do want to overcome that limitation and finally feel I can rely on and trust someone. Sending love to all the ladies in these comments & you Leeor. With gratitude.
No, yea I 100% agree with you! When I dropped the masculine shield I was able to connect with more people and was able to make relationships more easier, I noticed right away.
So good to see you again leeor!
Needed to hear this!! Thank you Leeor
Needed to hear this! Thank you!!
So happy you're back! 🙏✨💛
Saving to watch tomorrow morning.
I dont want to be so tough anymore but i refuse to show vulnerability. I'm so independent why let down my walls when i can handle everything myself. I prefer to do things myself anyway cuz any time i ask for help I'm let down. The brain can be so mean sometimes. Ive ruined quite a few good relationships with this mentality of "dudes aint shit." I give them the benefit of the doubt and they just prove why i feel that way. Every time. Sigh. I hope i can heal this very angry part of myself. Men piss me off
Natalia Kobylkina workshops helped me alot to shift back into feminine energy and also to work on the relationship with mother and father. Its very important if you want to be in feminine energy
This resonates so much! Thank you Leeor! 🙏🏻❤️
I was exactly ready to hear this!❤
Love love love Leeor! ❤
Leeor!! Thank you for this, I needed 🥰🧡
Leeor this is what I needed to hear now!
Thank you Leeor !! I loved this message 🥰
Thank you Leeor. This video reminded me how much I really need to work on…my eyes hurt from crying so much but some of those tears were triggered by hope. It’s not over yet. To anyone reading this, you’re not alone. We may have experienced different pasts, but the pain is probably similar. It has made us strong, but it is time for us to let ourselves release the weight and trust. ❤️
You are the one who shifts my energy in 360 degree ❤
When I was younger it was never common to talk about hard things with my parents so I’ve definitely kept this energy with me since then. I also find myself attracting people that don’t align with me because of this. I’m trying to better tap into my feminine every day. Thank you for this ❤️
This is so on time, thank you!!
Needed this message! Thank you 🖤🖤🖤
Love this topic!! Thank you!🥰🤍💫
Thank you so much for this message 🙏🏽🌟💖
Divine timing thank you leeor
This is literally the best video on TH-cam!❤
Leeor is the OG of energy advice ✨✨✨
This made me tear up. I feel like I resonate with this and am usually in a masculine energy when I’m dating guys. I thought it was really interesting that you said that this attracts guys that can make you be more in your masculine and protect yourself. I tend to also attract guys that are more submissive than me and are too people pleasy. It’s just interesting to hear about masculine energy in this way. Thank you for making this video ❤
The other scenario is being a single mother as well as a childhood where I didn't feel safe. As a single mom I felt s thought I had to wear two hats. I was a massive undertaking, but one I agreed to on a soul level (didn't know that at the time however). When I finally aligned with a partner, I wore a badge of honour that "I can fix that, I can do that, I don't need any help". Now I want to leave that behind and embrace my goddess, balance my energies and be in relationship where I can be in my femininity once again. I am discovering, slowly. Thank you sweet soul, I got a ton out of your video and was very timely. I have subscribed as well.
Totally resonate with this. Thank you ✨
Needed this, came at just the right time!
Thank you for this video! Much love!!!
We love it here!
It is so crazy because I really gave myself to this guy and all he did was break my heart
love this message so much 💖
Thanks for sharing! A beautiful message ❤
Thanks, Leeor, I have been hoping for a video like this from you! ❤❤
Sending you Love and Light Leeor!!!🩷
Thank you! Thank You! Thank you!
You hit every point and circumstance. I am the protector, even in relationships and instead of attracting a partner with a masculine energy so I can then fall into my feminine, I do the opposite. It all stems back my teenagers and feeling unsafe and being in vulnerable situations.
this dropped just in time, thank you!
I really needed to hear this. Explains a lot. Thank you ❤
What I needed. Thank you ❤
I really needed this. The timing is perfect. Thank you Leeor ❤
Yayyy new video 😊😊😊
You posted this at the right moment for me. Thank you, Bless you 🙏🏻
I love this & love your energy
Great advice thanks Leeor
Thank you Leeor, as always. You spoke to a part of myself I didn't realize was there. ✨♥️
i needed this Leeor, your videos were always calming to me back when i was on my journey of constant betterment. I've had this shield you talk about in this video for such a long time now and i just want to rip it off and have my energy and love flowing again like they did before
I really needed to see this!! Thank you so much 🙏🏽💞
Only few mins in and already can’t agree more. Thank you!!
Thank you so much, love this video! ❤
You speak the truth sister ! thank you for these words of wisdom !
Oh my God lady, are you God sent? Because you just described ME even more than I knew 💔💔☹️
in gratitude I offer you my thanks Leeor
Thank you, Leeor, and thank you B community. I love you all
Thank you love for the information
Thank you for this video
I love how you broke that down, I relate completely. Thank you for your help and wisdom on this journey 🙏
I love this. Thank you so much for this video!!
The timing of this video is as always divine, I have been literally searching for this topic on youtube and boom the next day you make a video on it. I love you and your videos so much Leeor and you really help a lot of people with them. I know you have been putting your shield up lately, but I just want to tell you, it is safe, it is safe here. Much love 💖
It's great to hear from you again Leeor! I've been stuck in a rut for a more than 3 weeks and I'd like to go back to myself...from square one...to start over. ❤ thank you for this video, all my love.!
I did feel a slight release of the energy... Thank you .
Great, important video. ❤
Amazing! Just what I needed to hear this morning. You are amazing. Thank you I love you eternally ❤
I'm so happy I've come across this video. Thank you, thank you,thank you 😊❤
I feel like this info will be helpful to me, thank you Leeore. 🙏🏻
Amazing video, very helpful. Thank you❤️
Wow this is incredibly helpful, thank you 💗
Soo necessary at this moment !!!
Thank you so much 😭 The way I started crying almost straight away, excited to drop the shield 💛
My favourite video of yours. Each word struck a chord and reaffirmed my path, thank you
So on point beautiful
What an amazing video. I truly got something good out of this ❤
Thank you for this ❤
So excited for this video! I feel i have forgotten how to release resistance, even though i’ve been SUPER magnetic before. Thank you leeor
Solid information and definitely understood, thank you 🙏
I’ve been asking this so much lately, and here you are addressing the exact thing I’ve been asking and giving answers that I can actually put to use ❤❤😭