1. Becoming aware and mindful in recognising that patterns of masculine shield 2. Cultivate your intuition and begin to trust yourself (self trust and strong enough to make decisions) 3. Practise relaxation (hypnotise, meditation, journaling, nature walks, massages etc) 4. Affirmations (I am safe, I am protected, I surrender to the flow, I completely let go of my need to control, i melt into my feminine energy, i love and accept myself, I fully trust myself.
Honey. I love you. Work on yourself. Take care of yourself. But dear beautiful soul maybe consider going to therapy. And if it would make you feel better remember there are a lot of spiritual therapists out there.
I'm a guy, and I had alot of problems in my life emotionally. I started meditating, and I found that my energy was in conflict with the feminine energy, I let my male ego hold my emotions hostage, and would not allow myself to be nurtured, I would block out the nurturing from people. It's still a work in progress for me, but now I am able to recognize when I'm fighting with the feminine energy and male peace with it, and find balance in my life, emotionally and spiritually.
My masculine energy has made me isolated, and overthink where id emotionally eat so much. Id feel anxiety around people where id have to really hide my true self because I didn't feel safe, creating this person I am so drained from. I am currently working on this, but been critical to myself throughout
I have the same issue but I've been actively practicing self forgiveness. Beating yourself up is useless. It provides no benefit but causes so much damage. The least you can do is not add on to the negative emotions. Its like you're getting jumped so you started punching yourself in the face with them. Instead do the opposite. Practice self love. Stand up for yourself against those negative thoughts. If you really want to protect yourself then treat yourself with care and compassion, the same way you would with anyone else
Reading the title alone made me realize i am uncomfortable with the Idea of "dropping my shield" because who is going to protect me from these predators
We need both fem and masc. To fully drop your shield is foolish, a fem knows this. Be in your fem AND lift your boundaries while staying detached. You will stay safe (emotionally/ psych) but physically is a different convo, for that you need to workout and stay vigilant. But usually when you are in your fem, people are gentle w you.
me too. I go to college in IT, full of weak men. I'm alternative, gothic. and I can't imagine myself any other way. No provider man wants a woman like that, so I don't want them either, I prefer my shield than changing my entire personality and being vulnerable and feminine. But it's interesting to be aware of that. my shield may go down when I'm alone. It's easy to tell a woman to feel safe, it's difficult to put it into practice in this world of hostile men
@@xxlia9316 I think men (even provider types) like all types of women, including alternative/goth looking women. Certainly one can be alternative looking and still be feminine if she feels safe to do so. I understand why it would not feel safe for some.
In an age of oversaturation of information, especially when it comes to “masculine vs feminine energy”, this is true wisdom. What I’ve found through years of pain and chaos is that there is no remedy. It’s all about discernment - using the right coping mechanisms for the right amount of time, and then continuing to move forward . Being even-keeled and balanced, and understanding that even if you don’t feel balanced, it’s natural and part of the bigger picture. Leeor’s videos have been immensely helpful to me over the years, there’s something so comforting about her presence.
Such an excellent comment and so true! This is my experience also and this is a great way of putting it. Especially in trusting the balance comes as part of the bigger picture, and is ongoing! Also right coping mechanisms/solutions/focus for the right amount of time 👍🏻
Standing with a cloak of shame, carrying my solid shield. This is how I stayed alive. Now it is time to FLOw again. Thank you for your feminine wisdom.
I had an intuitive hit to start relaxing into my feminine energy recently. Then your video popped up on the page. Divine timing. This makes a lot of sense. I used to get people that would meet me for the first time and think that I hated them and it was because of the reserved nature I had and the shield that I put up after all the stuff I went through as a kid and a teenager.
This made me tear up. I feel like I resonate with this and am usually in a masculine energy when I’m dating guys. I thought it was really interesting that you said that this attracts guys that can make you be more in your masculine and protect yourself. I tend to also attract guys that are more submissive than me and are too people pleasy. It’s just interesting to hear about masculine energy in this way. Thank you for making this video ❤
I needed this big time. I think we can become guarded so easily as a child, and if we never had a safe place to land, it’s hard to come out of it. I am almost 26 and within the last year or so becoming mindful of how much the “shield” is affecting my life. It’s subtle, it gets you places, but only for so long… the guard of masculine energy catches up to you eventually. And you’re so right about it being rewarded, I was rewarded for being the “tough girl” as a kid, not crying when I was hurt, etc… I was the only girl on the sales floor with all men, hustle culture, “tough girl” energy… its all “cool” until it’s not ❤️ thank you for this.
Sometimes we might need that energy to bring it up but the thing is to not get stuck in any kind of created identity except our original one that is infinite conscious and awareness.
This is very helpful. Sadly my shield goes up around family members. I've had to cut some of them off just because I realized they make me feel unsafe for legit reasons. It's sad when a child loses safety because they don't come from a safe home. Thanks for this message.❤
My dear, my shield has gone up because I have been in survival mode since childhood, when my dad left and through many years afterwards as a series of men have hurt me (physically, emotionally, spiritually - all the ways). I have always been my own shield, and it has taken me far - but also blocked so much for me. Just in recent years, I'm learning how to balance these energies in my life. I love this message. Thank you for bringing this to the world! I appreciate you!
Had my “shield” down before and was hurt by many - friends and romantic relationships. So I put my shield up, ignored many, cut people off immediately and went very private. I am slowly lowering the shield down and working on it but definitely still have hyper independence.
Got my goddess amulet today & set my intention to heal PMDD. Now I’m right here catching this video as soon as it comes up. DIVINE. Leeor. I LOVE YOU. P.S. passed my exam that I sat the day you released your April energy reading. Love, Gowri Xxx
I really didn't think this video would make me cry like this. I even resisted the urge to cry while watching. But I decided to give in to my emotions & be vulnerable. I am afraid to trust people. And when she speaks about being open it seems like such an easy, simple thing. But truthfully its not. I never realized how uncomfortable the mere thought of trust made me feel until now. But I want to be better & I know its what I have to do to heal my nervous system and start living again
I’m a nurse health and wellness coach I work with career driven women who want more emotional, spiritual, physical balance with one on one coaching. I love how leeor supports the whole collective and journey I and my clients are on!
Wow! The timing is incredible. I’ve been closed off, protecting myself with this shield for as long as I could remember. Last night I was wondering why I struggle making connections and then I wake up to this video 💖 thank you Leeor.
I have been struggling with this shield for nearly 20 years. Became aware of it close to ten years ago. Has just started deconstructing it and life threw me for a loop and I found myself slip back into it's safety. But this time I was more aware of it so I wasn't lost in it's grip as long. I'm learning to let it fall. It's been a process for sure. But thank you for sharing this. It resonated 110% love it.
I'm guarded in relationships and in general. I can't allow others to come into my space. I do this to protect myself from being hurt and because I love deeply. Alot of people do not reciprocate loyalty or support. It's hard to go with the flow because I avoid being hurt or putting myself in a situation that I have survived from and do not want to experience again 😪
You won’t because now you have your intuition and awareness to trust, so the real practice is to stay tuned with yourself when surrounded no matter what your brain might experience as challenges. Fear doesn’t existe, danger surely do. Trust means you know you can handle so can be moved but your also can handle almost anything because nothing can make you or break you, you are infinite conscious and a multi-dimensional being having a humain experience. ❤️🔥
Thank you Leeor. This video reminded me how much I really need to work on…my eyes hurt from crying so much but some of those tears were triggered by hope. It’s not over yet. To anyone reading this, you’re not alone. We may have experienced different pasts, but the pain is probably similar. It has made us strong, but it is time for us to let ourselves release the weight and trust. ❤️
Watch Angelina Jolie’s movie Original Sin, one of her first movies. It is all about the dark feminine and a great movie, really shows masculine and feminine energy dynamics in real time.
Just because it’s taking time for you to find the right people doesn’t mean you’re in your masculine and even during isolation, you’re transforming into your divine feminine.
I'm a woman but have been too masculine for years now. And yeah,I have been attracting people who only need protection. Same type of people. When I become friends with a friend,all of them ends up saying am so cute and can make a better man. I once asked myself why they all think the same yet am a lady like them. It made me decide to stay away from people and thought they misunderstand me. But lately i've been able to indentify that chain and working on breaking it. Few weeks ago something started urging me from wuthin to get into my feminine energy. Its been hard but have been working on me now. I jyst noted that even my clothes are all masculine. And thats a physical thing that I have started changing. I have started feeling relaxed in my feminine and am sure with time I'll be there. So this video came at the right time. I have to forget the things that made me so masculine
So valuable thank you. Personally my mother was very violent towards me creating a sense of unsafety since birth. It's hard to even imagine that I can rely on or feel safe besides when alone. I see that I have attracted people who needed masculine energy and I ended up creating safety for others while feeling depleted and unsupported myself. I do want to overcome that limitation and finally feel I can rely on and trust someone. Sending love to all the ladies in these comments & you Leeor. With gratitude.
I needed this today. I’m so glad I came across this video. I’ve been trying to find balance amongst masculine and feminine for so long. I lived mainly in my masculine my entire life. Small moments I’ve let the guard down and been really soft but then guard went right back up again. This is so wise and so real. 💕
Thank you! Thank You! Thank you! You hit every point and circumstance. I am the protector, even in relationships and instead of attracting a partner with a masculine energy so I can then fall into my feminine, I do the opposite. It all stems back my teenagers and feeling unsafe and being in vulnerable situations.
So glad I found you!! Your video hit home with me, as I’m on a journey to lower my masculine shield from childhood, teen, and adult trauma. I feel lighter already and a lot of the tools I’ve been working with, you mentioned in your video. Can’t wait to explore more of your content! Thank you ❤
First time I have ever understood what I am doing that pushes my partner away, you are a genius! I have the most formidable shield that I am putting down now.
They call it dissociating in psychology, in real life, it's masculine energy :) I'm a therapy veteran at this point.. before being introduced to feminine/masculinity. Now it makes sooo much sense.
I put my shield up as I began going through deep therapy untangling childhood wounds. That was a cocoon for metamorphosis. It wasn’t until yesterday that I realized it had layers. One that I put up to protect myself while I was renewing and another I put on a very very long time ago, to keep me from emotionally connecting with others. I was able to mask this so well that I developed being an insanely great conversationalist. Making others feel so heard and that I am extremely interested in them but it created and attracted these one sided relationships of giving giving giving. So lonely and so isolating. I have such a yearning to be seen. It’s time.
This is the only kind of content ive been taking in lately. On fb and youtube. Im loving seeing more women finally soften up again! Its all about that balance. And yes many of us have had to be in our Masculine because we werent safe or being properly provided for.
Im a tall, muscular, bald man with a very empathic/feminine nature. Raised by a single mother (not unlike most men in my generation,) I am VERY misunderstood. I feel like I’m expected to be tough and stoic, but when I am feeling that way, I’m rejected for being “toxic.” Men and women’s roles are so screwed up today. The pendulum has swung so far, that women are masculine and men are emasculated. Many generalizations here, I know, but tell me I’m wrong.
The other scenario is being a single mother as well as a childhood where I didn't feel safe. As a single mom I felt s thought I had to wear two hats. I was a massive undertaking, but one I agreed to on a soul level (didn't know that at the time however). When I finally aligned with a partner, I wore a badge of honour that "I can fix that, I can do that, I don't need any help". Now I want to leave that behind and embrace my goddess, balance my energies and be in relationship where I can be in my femininity once again. I am discovering, slowly. Thank you sweet soul, I got a ton out of your video and was very timely. I have subscribed as well.
When I was younger it was never common to talk about hard things with my parents so I’ve definitely kept this energy with me since then. I also find myself attracting people that don’t align with me because of this. I’m trying to better tap into my feminine every day. Thank you for this ❤️
Very enlightening your high aura of energy gives a glow a high vibration Thank you for your contribution and content you truly resonate a spiritual blessing
I would love to be the soft version of myself again, to allow things to come and go and find me whenever i am ready. i am scared to get hurt and afraid of a lot of things in life and making mistakes. I think i should do everything on my own but it makes me feel so alone, i want to open up my heart, trust myself and my desisions and look forward to the next day again. I would love to trust my intuition again and connect to the world around me and not feel scared all the time. I thought i had to protect myself to feel safe but the shield is getting so heavy to carry. Its so liberating to hear you talk about this and read the comments and not feel so alone in this journey💕
i needed this Leeor, your videos were always calming to me back when i was on my journey of constant betterment. I've had this shield you talk about in this video for such a long time now and i just want to rip it off and have my energy and love flowing again like they did before
Crazy how you uploaded this today and just had a panic attack a day ago bc I noticed I have a lot going on and I’m such a perfectionist and try and force myself to be In masculine energy so I can feel safe but I don’t feel happy being in masculine energy all the time bc I want to cut everyone off and only work . It’s always a challenge to balance this in my life between nurturing my connections and being successful in my career . I know that at the end being a business owner is something you have to make sacrifices for so I try and give myself grace for that reason .
Thank you so much for explaining this in your beautiful unique way. I needed to hear it explained this way. My shield is strong and sneaky- it’s up even when I’m somewhat open. You’ve inspired me to work on this with gentleness and reading the comments has helped too ❤ this is my first time watching and listening to you and you feel like a breath of fresh air and beauty Xx
Key insights: 🛡 Dropping the masculine shield is a surrendering to the flow of the universe, allowing energy to come in. 💫 Dropping the Shield allows for rebalancing energies and experiencing full magnetism. 🛡 It wasn't until I learned how to put it down that I truly learned how to trust myself and call in a healthy masculine partnership. 🛡 Trusting your intuition and putting down your shield can lead to better decision-making and protection from harmful situations. 💔 The fear of not being good enough can lead people to adopt a masculine shield, impacting their relationships and self-trust. 🛡 The key is to relax into the safety of knowing, faith, and trust, and have access to both feminine and masculine energies at will. 🌟 You can relax in safety and surrender. You can let go of the constant tension and be more you and still be strong successful and independent whenever you need to be. 🛡 Cultivate your intuition and begin to trust yourself, reconnect with your inner self and listen to the still quiet voice within you. TLDR: Dropping the masculine shield and allowing energy to flow, surrendering to the universe, and opening up to intuition and connection with others leads to experiencing full magnetism and rebalancing energies. 1. 00:00 🛡 Dropping the masculine shield allows energy to flow, surrendering to the universe, and opening up to intuition and connection with others, leading to experiencing full magnetism and rebalancing energies. 1.1 Dropping the masculine shield allows energy to flow and surrender to the universe, opening up to intuition and connection with others. 1.2 Masculine energy is a protective shield that can be accessed by anyone, but carrying it for too long can hinder our full expression and disconnect us from our true selves and source energy. 1.3 Many people put up a masculine shield to protect themselves from vulnerability, but dropping it can lead to experiencing full magnetism and rebalancing energies. 1.4 The speaker discusses how they put on a masculine shield to protect themselves from vulnerability and hurt, but by learning to put it down, they were able to trust themselves, fall in love, and call in a healthy masculine partnership. 2. 04:12 🛡 Putting up a shield is a result of feeling unsafe due to past trauma, but dropping it allows for better intuition and protection. 3. 05:41 🛡 Childhood experiences can lead to adopting a masculine shield, impacting relationships and self-trust, causing struggles with forming deep connections feeling unfulfilled, and obscuring natural magnetism. 3.1 Childhood experiences can lead to the adoption of a masculine shield as a means of self-protection, which can result in fears of being truly seen, known, loved, and successful, impacting relationships and self-trust. 3.2 We struggle to form deep connections and feel unfulfilled because we protect our vulnerability, leading to physical tension and an inability to fully experience emotions. 3.3 Being overtly shielded by masculine energy can be offputting and obscure natural magnetism, attracting the wrong people and causing issues in the long run. 4. 08:57 🔮 Rebalancing energies and dropping the masculine shield leads to feeling secure and independent, allowing for success and strength while being true to yourself. 4.1 Rebalancing energies and dropping the masculine shield can lead to feeling more secure and independent, rather than relying on toxic masculine energy for perceived safety and success. 4.2 Developing your personality without shielding yourself from vulnerability allows you to be successful, strong, and independent while also being true to yourself and having access to both masculine and feminine energies. 5. 11:28 🛡 You can drop the shield, relax into safety, surrender, and be more you while still being strong, successful, and independent when needed. 6. 12:51 🛡 Cultivate self-awareness, explore underlying fears, and reconnect with intuition to drop the masculine shield and become more magnetic. 6.1 Drop the masculine shield by becoming aware and mindful of when it's active in your everyday life. 6.2 Identify and explore the underlying fears driving the behaviour of shielding yourself, cultivate intuition, and reconnect with your inner self to be more magnetic. 6.3 Recognizing self-trust, making own decisions, and listening to intuition to drop the masculine shield and be more magnetic. 7. 15:27 🛡 Practice relaxation to drop the Shield, consider hypnotherapy, meditation, nature walks, and affirmations to feel safe and relaxed. 8. 16:58 🔥 Fully trust yourself, like and subscribe, and keep your vibrations high.
Thank you so much for this🙏🏽needed to hear. It’s a deep thing to acknowledge at 28years(in Saturn return) but I don’t want to keep being afraid and ultimately hiding myself from being seen.. it’s driving me into a loop and I know I’m self sabotaging but the level of emotions feels too heavy to do anything alone.. I am trying to understand why and how to live freely again and stop running back to the same guys that feel “familiar” which feels safer and less scary than putting myself out there just to be hurt again.. I just want to feel safe loved and validated.. 🥴😓 I don’t want to be scared of everything anymore
I just wanna say how much I appreciate you. I had awareness of all of this while working with people and going through what I’ve been going through. But thank you for reinforcing it and externalizing it so I can move stronger to my knowing I can’t wait to check out your./))
The timing is perfect I just started to feel like I started to be in my feminine and intuitive energy and dropping my shield after months of therapy that made me aware how anxiously attached I was almost my whole life and how repelling it was. I was a people pleaser because of many repressed emotions and embarrassment to talk about the trauma. I became aware of all those things and finally am able to set boundaries without guilt.
Yes thank you so much for this video. Just what I needed to hear to learn to release and to put my masculine shield down and trust that I can take care of myself know I am safe!!
No, yea I 100% agree with you! When I dropped the masculine shield I was able to connect with more people and was able to make relationships more easier, I noticed right away.
The timing of this video is so perfect for me. For a while I've really been feeling like I've got this masculine shield. My Reiki healer wants me to look into wounded feminine energy because I'm too much in my masculine. I'm talking about it in therapy right now too and doing EMDR around all of it. I can't thank you enough for making this video, I'll be watching is several more times this week! ❤
I asked the universe for guidance and it brought me to this video at the right time. Thank you so much Leeor, your words are literally the guidance I asked for. ❤
I do relate to every single word you have said….I was so much more on my feminine frequency when on my 20s…then life experiences and circumstances made me turn and move on my masculine frequency that is high atm…I can see it also on my way to dress…so different than the past. Thanks for this video!🙏🏼
I've been learning a lot about mas/fem energy lately, and this is the first time I've heard about the masculine shield. Such an informative and helpful video, Leeor!
I tried connecting with my feminine energy until a week later. My shield went back up when we woke up to our street and my home was flooded 5 days ago, my partner was in shock, so I yelled at him to follow me in the other vehicle to a safe place.
This is crazy. Your video is giving me so much enlightenment Leeor, so beautifully worded and it is like goes deep into my soul and spirit. I hope you know how much you helped me.
The timing of this video is as always divine, I have been literally searching for this topic on youtube and boom the next day you make a video on it. I love you and your videos so much Leeor and you really help a lot of people with them. I know you have been putting your shield up lately, but I just want to tell you, it is safe, it is safe here. Much love 💖
I have been stuck in my masculine energy all my life and attract damaged men. I grew up in a harsh abusive household with mostly men. I’m trying to learn how to show my feminine qualities
I've needed this shield my whole life, not just for the outer world and peoples opinions but with parents as well, I don't believe it will be easy to learn to be vulnerable
Saving to watch tomorrow morning. I dont want to be so tough anymore but i refuse to show vulnerability. I'm so independent why let down my walls when i can handle everything myself. I prefer to do things myself anyway cuz any time i ask for help I'm let down. The brain can be so mean sometimes. Ive ruined quite a few good relationships with this mentality of "dudes aint shit." I give them the benefit of the doubt and they just prove why i feel that way. Every time. Sigh. I hope i can heal this very angry part of myself. Men piss me off
Natalia Kobylkina workshops helped me alot to shift back into feminine energy and also to work on the relationship with mother and father. Its very important if you want to be in feminine energy
Your messages always come right on time, thank you💞 I would loveeee if you made an affirmations video to help drop this shield and embrace our femininity!
This video is so soothing and calm. It came just at the right time when my intuition guided me to put down my masculine shield and I was struggling to figure out how. Thank you Leeor for all that you do ❤
Hi Leeor, You just keep getting more beautiful every day. You are starting to look a little more like your mom. I hope she is doing good. Sending you love girl!
Thank you so much, Leoor. This reasonates with me fully. My shield has gone up because multiple betrayals by family members and "friends". I have learned to heal through forgiveness and set boundaries but my guard is up. I most certainly will try your suggestions because I am ready to live the life I deserve. I know and trust that it is my time to be happy.😊
At 43 I am really hurt by my mom’s rejection of me for embracing me for who I am . Since then I have been putting up the masculine shield and energy … I feel it and I wanted to shift back to my feminine energy
1. Becoming aware and mindful in recognising that patterns of masculine shield
2. Cultivate your intuition and begin to trust yourself (self trust and strong enough to make decisions)
3. Practise relaxation (hypnotise, meditation, journaling, nature walks, massages etc)
4. Affirmations (I am safe, I am protected, I surrender to the flow, I completely let go of my need to control, i melt into my feminine energy, i love and accept myself, I fully trust myself.
The only woman I trust to give energy advice
Literally
Her and Abraham Hicks 💗
This is so precious. Melts my heart!!!
Take some of her add points but root then in Christ ✝️
Isn't she beautiful 🎉
I've struggled with this for over 20 years. It's hard to feel happiness,joy, and other good emotions. I'm working on finding my feminine self again.
You are such a feminine beautiful flower
Honey. I love you. Work on yourself. Take care of yourself. But dear beautiful soul maybe consider going to therapy. And if it would make you feel better remember there are a lot of spiritual therapists out there.
That's beautiful, may your feminine self shine for the world to witness 😊 thanks for your example and for sharing 🙏
I'm a guy, and I had alot of problems in my life emotionally. I started meditating, and I found that my energy was in conflict with the feminine energy, I let my male ego hold my emotions hostage, and would not allow myself to be nurtured, I would block out the nurturing from people. It's still a work in progress for me, but now I am able to recognize when I'm fighting with the feminine energy and male peace with it, and find balance in my life, emotionally and spiritually.
My masculine energy has made me isolated, and overthink where id emotionally eat so much. Id feel anxiety around people where id have to really hide my true self because I didn't feel safe, creating this person I am so drained from. I am currently working on this, but been critical to myself throughout
Try Louise L Haye There are audiobooks of hers on TH-cam. She teaches how to be kind to yourself..
I have the same issue but I've been actively practicing self forgiveness. Beating yourself up is useless. It provides no benefit but causes so much damage. The least you can do is not add on to the negative emotions. Its like you're getting jumped so you started punching yourself in the face with them. Instead do the opposite. Practice self love. Stand up for yourself against those negative thoughts. If you really want to protect yourself then treat yourself with care and compassion, the same way you would with anyone else
Reading the title alone made me realize i am uncomfortable with the Idea of "dropping my shield" because who is going to protect me from these predators
yourself. who else? the point is that you don't need the shield when you realise you're strong enough without it.
We need both fem and masc. To fully drop your shield is foolish, a fem knows this. Be in your fem AND lift your boundaries while staying detached. You will stay safe (emotionally/ psych) but physically is a different convo, for that you need to workout and stay vigilant. But usually when you are in your fem, people are gentle w you.
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me too. I go to college in IT, full of weak men. I'm alternative, gothic. and I can't imagine myself any other way. No provider man wants a woman like that, so I don't want them either, I prefer my shield than changing my entire personality and being vulnerable and feminine. But it's interesting to be aware of that. my shield may go down when I'm alone. It's easy to tell a woman to feel safe, it's difficult to put it into practice in this world of hostile men
@@xxlia9316 I think men (even provider types) like all types of women, including alternative/goth looking women. Certainly one can be alternative looking and still be feminine if she feels safe to do so. I understand why it would not feel safe for some.
In an age of oversaturation of information, especially when it comes to “masculine vs feminine energy”, this is true wisdom. What I’ve found through years of pain and chaos is that there is no remedy. It’s all about discernment - using the right coping mechanisms for the right amount of time, and then continuing to move forward . Being even-keeled and balanced, and understanding that even if you don’t feel balanced, it’s natural and part of the bigger picture. Leeor’s videos have been immensely helpful to me over the years, there’s something so comforting about her presence.
Thank you for sharing your perspective. 💓
Such an excellent comment and so true! This is my experience also and this is a great way of putting it. Especially in trusting the balance comes as part of the bigger picture, and is ongoing! Also right coping mechanisms/solutions/focus for the right amount of time 👍🏻
Standing with a cloak of shame, carrying my solid shield.
This is how I stayed alive. Now it is time to FLOw again.
Thank you for your feminine wisdom.
I had an intuitive hit to start relaxing into my feminine energy recently. Then your video popped up on the page. Divine timing. This makes a lot of sense. I used to get people that would meet me for the first time and think that I hated them and it was because of the reserved nature I had and the shield that I put up after all the stuff I went through as a kid and a teenager.
Took a couple years but being in my feminine energy has allowed many great things to happen in my life.
Your energy is so calm and is the reason I watch your videos. You exude realness that makes me trust you and want to match it.
This made me tear up. I feel like I resonate with this and am usually in a masculine energy when I’m dating guys. I thought it was really interesting that you said that this attracts guys that can make you be more in your masculine and protect yourself. I tend to also attract guys that are more submissive than me and are too people pleasy. It’s just interesting to hear about masculine energy in this way. Thank you for making this video ❤
I needed this big time. I think we can become guarded so easily as a child, and if we never had a safe place to land, it’s hard to come out of it. I am almost 26 and within the last year or so becoming mindful of how much the “shield” is affecting my life. It’s subtle, it gets you places, but only for so long… the guard of masculine energy catches up to you eventually. And you’re so right about it being rewarded, I was rewarded for being the “tough girl” as a kid, not crying when I was hurt, etc… I was the only girl on the sales floor with all men, hustle culture, “tough girl” energy… its all “cool” until it’s not ❤️ thank you for this.
Sometimes we might need that energy to bring it up but the thing is to not get stuck in any kind of created identity except our original one that is infinite conscious and awareness.
This is very helpful. Sadly my shield goes up around family members. I've had to cut some of them off just because I realized they make me feel unsafe for legit reasons. It's sad when a child loses safety because they don't come from a safe home. Thanks for this message.❤
I feel this in my soul 🥺♥️ may God bless you
Lean in to God almighty 🙏🏽❤❤
Teary eyed because I've missed you so much! I didn't know I needed your softness. Thank you :)
Awwww my Rachel!
My dear, my shield has gone up because I have been in survival mode since childhood, when my dad left and through many years afterwards as a series of men have hurt me (physically, emotionally, spiritually - all the ways). I have always been my own shield, and it has taken me far - but also blocked so much for me. Just in recent years, I'm learning how to balance these energies in my life. I love this message. Thank you for bringing this to the world! I appreciate you!
Had my “shield” down before and was hurt by many - friends and romantic relationships. So I put my shield up, ignored many, cut people off immediately and went very private. I am slowly lowering the shield down and working on it but definitely still have hyper independence.
Girl same
Thank you for sharing it and making the rest of us feel less “alone” ❤
I think Echart Tolle talks about the pain body… women have a collective pain body. You always bring up a lot of really good 👍🏻 points.
Got my goddess amulet today & set my intention to heal PMDD. Now I’m right here catching this video as soon as it comes up. DIVINE. Leeor. I LOVE YOU. P.S. passed my exam that I sat the day you released your April energy reading. Love, Gowri Xxx
GOWRI YOU CONTINUE TO AMAZE ME BABY!!
@@LeeorAlexandra and you continue to amaze me! Always rooting for you from the sidelines my love ❤️❤️xxx
are you still selling this amulet?
Trusting my intuition is my current work. I've lived so long being trained to doubt myself.
I really didn't think this video would make me cry like this. I even resisted the urge to cry while watching. But I decided to give in to my emotions & be vulnerable. I am afraid to trust people. And when she speaks about being open it seems like such an easy, simple thing. But truthfully its not. I never realized how uncomfortable the mere thought of trust made me feel until now. But I want to be better & I know its what I have to do to heal my nervous system and start living again
Trusting myself has been the biggest help to letting ppl in. I could open up and trust that I’d know and be able to move away if I feel unsafe
I’m a nurse health and wellness coach I work with career driven women who want more emotional, spiritual, physical balance with one on one coaching. I love how leeor supports the whole collective and journey I and my clients are on!
Wow! The timing is incredible. I’ve been closed off, protecting myself with this shield for as long as I could remember. Last night I was wondering why I struggle making connections and then I wake up to this video 💖 thank you Leeor.
I have been struggling with this shield for nearly 20 years. Became aware of it close to ten years ago. Has just started deconstructing it and life threw me for a loop and I found myself slip back into it's safety. But this time I was more aware of it so I wasn't lost in it's grip as long. I'm learning to let it fall. It's been a process for sure. But thank you for sharing this. It resonated 110% love it.
I'm guarded in relationships and in general. I can't allow others to come into my space. I do this to protect myself from being hurt and because I love deeply. Alot of people do not reciprocate loyalty or support. It's hard to go with the flow because I avoid being hurt or putting myself in a situation that I have survived from and do not want to experience again 😪
You won’t because now you have your intuition and awareness to trust, so the real practice is to stay tuned with yourself when surrounded no matter what your brain might experience as challenges. Fear doesn’t existe, danger surely do.
Trust means you know you can handle so can be moved but your also can handle almost anything because nothing can make you or break you, you are infinite conscious and a multi-dimensional being having a humain experience. ❤️🔥
Thank you Leeor. This video reminded me how much I really need to work on…my eyes hurt from crying so much but some of those tears were triggered by hope. It’s not over yet. To anyone reading this, you’re not alone. We may have experienced different pasts, but the pain is probably similar. It has made us strong, but it is time for us to let ourselves release the weight and trust. ❤️
please do a video about the dark feminine and how that manifests in people who don't feel safe x
Watch Angelina Jolie’s movie Original Sin, one of her first movies. It is all about the dark feminine and a great movie, really shows masculine and feminine energy dynamics in real time.
Thanks I feel nobody speaks about this. God bless you for giving space to this
Thanks!
Just because it’s taking time for you to find the right people doesn’t mean you’re in your masculine and even during isolation, you’re transforming into your divine feminine.
I'm a woman but have been too masculine for years now. And yeah,I have been attracting people who only need protection. Same type of people.
When I become friends with a friend,all of them ends up saying am so cute and can make a better man. I once asked myself why they all think the same yet am a lady like them. It made me decide to stay away from people and thought they misunderstand me. But lately i've been able to indentify that chain and working on breaking it.
Few weeks ago something started urging me from wuthin to get into my feminine energy. Its been hard but have been working on me now. I jyst noted that even my clothes are all masculine. And thats a physical thing that I have started changing. I have started feeling relaxed in my feminine and am sure with time I'll be there.
So this video came at the right time. I have to forget the things that made me so masculine
Thankyou so much, this is very helpful and insightful
I need a full blown series on this! As 23 weeks pregnant it’s particularly important to me!
So valuable thank you. Personally my mother was very violent towards me creating a sense of unsafety since birth. It's hard to even imagine that I can rely on or feel safe besides when alone. I see that I have attracted people who needed masculine energy and I ended up creating safety for others while feeling depleted and unsupported myself. I do want to overcome that limitation and finally feel I can rely on and trust someone. Sending love to all the ladies in these comments & you Leeor. With gratitude.
I'm so happy I've come across this video. Thank you, thank you,thank you 😊❤
I needed this today. I’m so glad I came across this video. I’ve been trying to find balance amongst masculine and feminine for so long. I lived mainly in my masculine my entire life. Small moments I’ve let the guard down and been really soft but then guard went right back up again. This is so wise and so real. 💕
Thank you! Thank You! Thank you!
You hit every point and circumstance. I am the protector, even in relationships and instead of attracting a partner with a masculine energy so I can then fall into my feminine, I do the opposite. It all stems back my teenagers and feeling unsafe and being in vulnerable situations.
So glad I found you!! Your video hit home with me, as I’m on a journey to lower my masculine shield from childhood, teen, and adult trauma. I feel lighter already and a lot of the tools I’ve been working with, you mentioned in your video. Can’t wait to explore more of your content! Thank you ❤
Always happy to be here. Your hair looks particularly flattering todayyy
First time I have ever understood what I am doing that pushes my partner away, you are a genius! I have the most formidable shield that I am putting down now.
They call it dissociating in psychology, in real life, it's masculine energy :)
I'm a therapy veteran at this point.. before being introduced to feminine/masculinity. Now it makes sooo much sense.
I put my shield up as I began going through deep therapy untangling childhood wounds. That was a cocoon for metamorphosis. It wasn’t until yesterday that I realized it had layers. One that I put up to protect myself while I was renewing and another I put on a very very long time ago, to keep me from emotionally connecting with others. I was able to mask this so well that I developed being an insanely great conversationalist. Making others feel so heard and that I am extremely interested in them but it created and attracted these one sided relationships of giving giving giving. So lonely and so isolating. I have such a yearning to be seen. It’s time.
Thank you so much for this. Being feminine again, is really important and healing ❤
This is the only kind of content ive been taking in lately. On fb and youtube. Im loving seeing more women finally soften up again! Its all about that balance. And yes many of us have had to be in our Masculine because we werent safe or being properly provided for.
Im a tall, muscular, bald man with a very empathic/feminine nature. Raised by a single mother (not unlike most men in my generation,) I am VERY misunderstood. I feel like I’m expected to be tough and stoic, but when I am feeling that way, I’m rejected for being “toxic.” Men and women’s roles are so screwed up today. The pendulum has swung so far, that women are masculine and men are emasculated. Many generalizations here, I know, but tell me I’m wrong.
The other scenario is being a single mother as well as a childhood where I didn't feel safe. As a single mom I felt s thought I had to wear two hats. I was a massive undertaking, but one I agreed to on a soul level (didn't know that at the time however). When I finally aligned with a partner, I wore a badge of honour that "I can fix that, I can do that, I don't need any help". Now I want to leave that behind and embrace my goddess, balance my energies and be in relationship where I can be in my femininity once again. I am discovering, slowly. Thank you sweet soul, I got a ton out of your video and was very timely. I have subscribed as well.
When I was younger it was never common to talk about hard things with my parents so I’ve definitely kept this energy with me since then. I also find myself attracting people that don’t align with me because of this. I’m trying to better tap into my feminine every day. Thank you for this ❤️
So positive, accessible, loving and healing. Namaste!
Very enlightening your high aura of energy gives a glow a high vibration Thank you for your contribution and content you truly resonate a spiritual blessing
You need to balance masculine energy with feminine you need to stand up for yourself and protect yourself
I would love to be the soft version of myself again, to allow things to come and go and find me whenever i am ready. i am scared to get hurt and afraid of a lot of things in life and making mistakes. I think i should do everything on my own but it makes me feel so alone, i want to open up my heart, trust myself and my desisions and look forward to the next day again. I would love to trust my intuition again and connect to the world around me and not feel scared all the time. I thought i had to protect myself to feel safe but the shield is getting so heavy to carry. Its so liberating to hear you talk about this and read the comments and not feel so alone in this journey💕
It is so crazy because I really gave myself to this guy and all he did was break my heart
i needed this Leeor, your videos were always calming to me back when i was on my journey of constant betterment. I've had this shield you talk about in this video for such a long time now and i just want to rip it off and have my energy and love flowing again like they did before
Crazy how you uploaded this today and just had a panic attack a day ago bc I noticed I have a lot going on and I’m such a perfectionist and try and force myself to be In masculine energy so I can feel safe but I don’t feel happy being in masculine energy all the time bc I want to cut everyone off and only work . It’s always a challenge to balance this in my life between nurturing my connections and being successful in my career . I know that at the end being a business owner is something you have to make sacrifices for so I try and give myself grace for that reason .
Its so interesting how lately so many ppl have struggled with panic, me included. I hope you feel much better soon❤️ Sending you all the love
Thank you so much for explaining this in your beautiful unique way. I needed to hear it explained this way. My shield is strong and sneaky- it’s up even when I’m somewhat open. You’ve inspired me to work on this with gentleness and reading the comments has helped too ❤ this is my first time watching and listening to you and you feel like a breath of fresh air and beauty Xx
Thanks!awesome!🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you!!
Key insights:
🛡 Dropping the masculine shield is a surrendering to the flow of the universe, allowing energy to come in.
💫 Dropping the Shield allows for rebalancing energies and experiencing full magnetism.
🛡 It wasn't until I learned how to put it down that I truly learned how to trust myself and call in a healthy masculine partnership.
🛡 Trusting your intuition and putting down your shield can lead to better decision-making and protection from harmful situations.
💔 The fear of not being good enough can lead people to adopt a masculine shield, impacting their relationships and self-trust.
🛡 The key is to relax into the safety of knowing, faith, and trust, and have access to both feminine and masculine energies at will.
🌟 You can relax in safety and surrender. You can let go of the constant tension and be more you and still be strong successful and independent whenever you need to be.
🛡 Cultivate your intuition and begin to trust yourself, reconnect with your inner self and listen to the still quiet voice within you.
TLDR: Dropping the masculine shield and allowing energy to flow, surrendering to the universe, and opening up to intuition and connection with others leads to experiencing full magnetism and rebalancing energies.
1. 00:00 🛡 Dropping the masculine shield allows energy to flow, surrendering to the universe, and opening up to intuition and connection with others, leading to experiencing full magnetism and rebalancing energies.
1.1 Dropping the masculine shield allows energy to flow and surrender to the universe, opening up to intuition and connection with others.
1.2 Masculine energy is a protective shield that can be accessed by anyone, but carrying it for too long can hinder our full expression and disconnect us from our true selves and source energy.
1.3 Many people put up a masculine shield to protect themselves from vulnerability, but dropping it can lead to experiencing full magnetism and rebalancing energies.
1.4 The speaker discusses how they put on a masculine shield to protect themselves from vulnerability and hurt, but by learning to put it down, they were able to trust themselves, fall in love, and call in a healthy masculine partnership.
2. 04:12 🛡 Putting up a shield is a result of feeling unsafe due to past trauma, but dropping it allows for better intuition and protection.
3. 05:41 🛡 Childhood experiences can lead to adopting a masculine shield, impacting relationships and self-trust, causing struggles with forming deep connections feeling unfulfilled, and obscuring natural magnetism.
3.1 Childhood experiences can lead to the adoption of a masculine shield as a means of self-protection, which can result in fears of being truly seen, known, loved, and successful, impacting relationships and self-trust.
3.2 We struggle to form deep connections and feel unfulfilled because we protect our vulnerability, leading to physical tension and an inability to fully experience emotions.
3.3 Being overtly shielded by masculine energy can be offputting and obscure natural magnetism, attracting the wrong people and causing issues in the long run.
4. 08:57 🔮 Rebalancing energies and dropping the masculine shield leads to feeling secure and independent, allowing for success and strength while being true to yourself.
4.1 Rebalancing energies and dropping the masculine shield can lead to feeling more secure and independent, rather than relying on toxic masculine energy for perceived safety and success.
4.2 Developing your personality without shielding yourself from vulnerability allows you to be successful, strong, and independent while also being true to yourself and having access to both masculine and feminine energies.
5. 11:28 🛡 You can drop the shield, relax into safety, surrender, and be more you while still being strong, successful, and independent when needed.
6. 12:51 🛡 Cultivate self-awareness, explore underlying fears, and reconnect with intuition to drop the masculine shield and become more magnetic.
6.1 Drop the masculine shield by becoming aware and mindful of when it's active in your everyday life.
6.2 Identify and explore the underlying fears driving the behaviour of shielding yourself, cultivate intuition, and reconnect with your inner self to be more magnetic.
6.3 Recognizing self-trust, making own decisions, and listening to intuition to drop the masculine shield and be more magnetic.
7. 15:27 🛡 Practice relaxation to drop the Shield, consider hypnotherapy, meditation, nature walks, and affirmations to feel safe and relaxed.
8. 16:58 🔥 Fully trust yourself, like and subscribe, and keep your vibrations high.
Really useful info and easy to understand and apply. Thank you!
Sending you Love and Light Leeor!!!🩷
Thank you so much for this🙏🏽needed to hear. It’s a deep thing to acknowledge at 28years(in Saturn return) but I don’t want to keep being afraid and ultimately hiding myself from being seen.. it’s driving me into a loop and I know I’m self sabotaging but the level of emotions feels too heavy to do anything alone.. I am trying to understand why and how to live freely again and stop running back to the same guys that feel “familiar” which feels safer and less scary than putting myself out there just to be hurt again.. I just want to feel safe loved and validated.. 🥴😓 I don’t want to be scared of everything anymore
So good!!! Def gonna have to watch again ... & take notes!
I just wanna say how much I appreciate you. I had awareness of all of this while working with people and going through what I’ve been going through. But thank you for reinforcing it and externalizing it so I can move stronger to my knowing I can’t wait to check out your./))
The timing is perfect I just started to feel like I started to be in my feminine and intuitive energy and dropping my shield after months of therapy that made me aware how anxiously attached I was almost my whole life and how repelling it was. I was a people pleaser because of many repressed emotions and embarrassment to talk about the trauma. I became aware of all those things and finally am able to set boundaries without guilt.
Yes thank you so much for this video. Just what I needed to hear to learn to release and to put my masculine shield down and trust that I can take care of myself know I am safe!!
No, yea I 100% agree with you! When I dropped the masculine shield I was able to connect with more people and was able to make relationships more easier, I noticed right away.
The timing of this video is so perfect for me. For a while I've really been feeling like I've got this masculine shield. My Reiki healer wants me to look into wounded feminine energy because I'm too much in my masculine. I'm talking about it in therapy right now too and doing EMDR around all of it. I can't thank you enough for making this video, I'll be watching is several more times this week! ❤
Great advice thanks Leeor
Excellent, thank you 🙏🏼
That was divinely heard + received.
I asked the universe for guidance and it brought me to this video at the right time. Thank you so much Leeor, your words are literally the guidance I asked for. ❤
You are the one who shifts my energy in 360 degree ❤
I do relate to every single word you have said….I was so much more on my feminine frequency when on my 20s…then life experiences and circumstances made me turn and move on my masculine frequency that is high atm…I can see it also on my way to dress…so different than the past. Thanks for this video!🙏🏼
I've been learning a lot about mas/fem energy lately, and this is the first time I've heard about the masculine shield. Such an informative and helpful video, Leeor!
I tried connecting with my feminine energy until a week later. My shield went back up when we woke up to our street and my home was flooded 5 days ago, my partner was in shock, so I yelled at him to follow me in the other vehicle to a safe place.
This is crazy. Your video is giving me so much enlightenment Leeor, so beautifully worded and it is like goes deep into my soul and spirit. I hope you know how much you helped me.
The timing of this video is as always divine, I have been literally searching for this topic on youtube and boom the next day you make a video on it. I love you and your videos so much Leeor and you really help a lot of people with them. I know you have been putting your shield up lately, but I just want to tell you, it is safe, it is safe here. Much love 💖
I have been stuck in my masculine energy all my life and attract damaged men. I grew up in a harsh abusive household with mostly men. I’m trying to learn how to show my feminine qualities
I've needed this shield my whole life, not just for the outer world and peoples opinions but with parents as well, I don't believe it will be easy to learn to be vulnerable
This was really helpful and easy to understand. Thank you for this!
Saving to watch tomorrow morning.
I dont want to be so tough anymore but i refuse to show vulnerability. I'm so independent why let down my walls when i can handle everything myself. I prefer to do things myself anyway cuz any time i ask for help I'm let down. The brain can be so mean sometimes. Ive ruined quite a few good relationships with this mentality of "dudes aint shit." I give them the benefit of the doubt and they just prove why i feel that way. Every time. Sigh. I hope i can heal this very angry part of myself. Men piss me off
Natalia Kobylkina workshops helped me alot to shift back into feminine energy and also to work on the relationship with mother and father. Its very important if you want to be in feminine energy
Your messages always come right on time, thank you💞 I would loveeee if you made an affirmations video to help drop this shield and embrace our femininity!
So excited for this video! I feel i have forgotten how to release resistance, even though i’ve been SUPER magnetic before. Thank you leeor
this dropped just in time, thank you!
This video is so soothing and calm. It came just at the right time when my intuition guided me to put down my masculine shield and I was struggling to figure out how. Thank you Leeor for all that you do ❤
Mindfulness my favorite place to be. ❤Great message thank you.
Excellent deep dive into the masculine and feminine energies!! You gave explicit examples that gave me an even deeper understanding. Thank you. 🙏🏻
Thank you. I didn't know how much I needed this. ❤
The most beautiful thing is that this video found me ❤
absolutely love you, thank youuuu
Going to watch this very soon!! I know it will be absolutely spectacularly blissfully amazing. Thank you, Leeor!! 🙌🏻✨💚🙏🥳
Thanks, Leeor, I have been hoping for a video like this from you! ❤❤
I really needed this. The timing is perfect. Thank you Leeor ❤
Thank you, Leeor, and thank you B community. I love you all
This video was great! Fantastic ideas
Hi Leeor, You just keep getting more beautiful every day. You are starting to look a little more like your mom. I hope she is doing good. Sending you love girl!
Only few mins in and already can’t agree more. Thank you!!
Thank you so much, Leoor. This reasonates with me fully. My shield has gone up because multiple betrayals by family members and "friends". I have learned to heal through forgiveness and set boundaries but my guard is up. I most certainly will try your suggestions because I am ready to live the life I deserve. I know and trust that it is my time to be happy.😊
Thank you! This is true wisdom and needed to hear this today!
I’m feeling lighter already without that heavy shield 🛡️
I miss your vlogs and seeing your routines its one thing to tell us spiritual stuff but it's nice to see it in practice
I had no idea that I had masculine shield for so long. Thank you for the awareness
At 43 I am really hurt by my mom’s rejection of me for embracing me for who I am . Since then I have been putting up the masculine shield and energy … I feel it and I wanted to shift back to my feminine energy