I miss being in love - loving and being loved . I love myself but I want to share things with someone I want to be someone’s safe place and I want to be theirs . I feel something missing. I want a partner, but the right partner. I don’t want to settle.
Hey how's it going? I'm hoping you manifested somebody like this! Pls give us an update so the rest of us can get a boost of confidence! Have a good day!
I never had any partner. Ever. I want this too. I haven't settled in 10 years or 14 years since the last time I dated! I know my wife is out there. I know it. I know what I'm seeking is seeking me. You got to believe this. It's truth. Once you align with that energy, it will come into your life. Remember. We attract what we ARE, not what we want. If you are not attracting what you want, it's because you are there yet. You need to let it go. LEt it go. It will appear when you don't expect it. I"m working on myself and I"m freaking 49 years old.
@bestactress1281 Deborah right? Hey so I just wanna say I was listening to a podcast by Mel Robin's abt confidence and basically she said confidence is not a feeling u feel but a skill you build so you cannot feel confident bc this is not a feeling. And abt finding your right person see the girl that you replied to she said she loves herself but if u r operating from a place of lack and u r like oh when my person will come come onnn then u r forcing things and holding soo tightly onto this which eventually will crash so let go trust the process and and let everything into the lap of God and Universe ❤
I did the exercise right away and felt an instant sense of relief and release, like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders. I finally get it - been giving so much mental energy to something that's not serving me, and now I see that I have the power to let it go. Detachment is truly peaceful, thank you so much for this video! x
I thought about “who would I become if I keep the attachment”; for example, when hanging around a family member- I get “sucked” in to the vibrations of who I once was. I know I have to stay true to myself and continue standing my ground: then I realize I dim myself/ my light so that i can relate to them or connect with them. But I realize I don’t want to be doing that anymore. So detachment here I am, I’m ready to face it, to learn from it, and embody my higher self.
I'm attached on finding true love & start a family. I'm 30 and scared of not finding the right person on time. I'm learning to detach this limited believe & to stay present in the moment ✨
Just get out where you can meet people and enjoy your life! Life is too short to feel so worried about not finding what you want. Fill your life with fun, work and goals and you will find the this person as they will be very attracted to you if you are doing well in life and attracting positive energy.
I'll be 30 this year as well and going through this exact struggle too. I keep trying to remember advice a friend gave me that I think helps put everything into perspective. "It will be what it needs to be."
same here! for me what has helped so far was deleting dating apps and focusing on what makes me happy and just… living. I have many beautiful things to experience and so many great people surrounding me ❤
I’m attached to my SP bcuz she makes me feel safe and comfortable. She brings me pleasure and joy by sharing moments of intimate connection to mundane easy moments. I feel a part of me has been lost bcuz we’ve been together for most of my adult life and now I have to start over.
I was just thinking about this very same thing this morning. I was thinking about how I want to meet my person and have them with me but then in turn I thought about how I don't need them and how I am perfectly content loving myself. I came to the conclusion that I will just go with the flow of where spirit leads me and be surprised by whatever happens in my life. Thank you Leeor 🙏 ❤
Trying to let go completely my boyfriend is needing space at this time my grandma just passed my mom passed 5 years ago and now I’m being attacked by my daughters father trying to take my daughter I have never truly been alone to discover growing for myself living myself I have always put peoples needs before my own I see that I have to release my past!! It does hurt the soul but I know I’m in the right path♥️ thank you for this
i came across this video bc it was suggested to me and i am going through a healing journey right now. i was involved with a guy for a few months and i grew so attached to him, that i abruptly ended things with him. i didnt want to do it and i thought i had made a mistake. i was going through guilt, grief, anger, sadnes, and i felt like i had lost everything. but i didnt. i only gained more strength into realizing that i dont need anyone to give me happiness. happiness lies within me. im on day 5 of my healing journey and by watching videos like this one, i know that i have the power to learn detachment and use it in my next relationship.
Hey girl ❤ I want you to to know how much I enjoy these moments I get to share with you. I am sending you so much love. Have SUCH a good day because you deserve ittttt after all you have done for us 😊
I will be forever grateful that I came across your channel years ago! Today's date is 8.8.2024 and I was reflecting on what I want to manifest and shift my focus towards "what is the person I want to be doing / focusing on?" and the first thing on my list was " detachment from what no longer serves me" (in this case a recent heartbreak). Then this video auto played immediately after I watched your "Design your life for 2024" Exactly what I needed on such a powerful day. Thank you thank you for doing what you do and sharing your gifts with the world. Wishing you and your growing family much blessings and joy
You speak so well. I'm learning how to let attachments relax and breathe, and this video comes at the perfect time. And I just want to say that you reflect the best part of this philosophy, and what you say resonates deeply with me. I really appreciate you making this video. Thank you.
More than a person per se these days, this really clicks for me right now with situations or aspects of self. Letting go and allowing flow and change, is really what I need right now
I started watching videos on detachment to detach from someone a Situationships that I felt was becoming toxic… Little did I realize that the message of detachment actually applies to a lot of other things in my life!
I was beggining to feel a bit lost, and then out of nowhere I see your notification on my phone, a best friend calls me, and another youtuber I love uploads a video. I have to learn to accept that the universe will come to my aid when I need it, and it's okay 🥺💕 Also, what a powerful and baeutiful message, thank you Leeor. This past two years have really taught me to let go of people I loved, people I didn't want to leave, because I was scared. I was scared of standing on my own two feet. I was scared I couldn't trust myself. But I have... and I have never led me astray, my heart, my soul has never allowed me too. Learing to allow parts of me to die, to feel them literally dying, learning to surf the waves and to allow the universe to guide me. I live so much closer to my heart, to people, to the universe. I am learning to love freely. To love not to hold. To admire, not to acquire. I have learned a very beautiful way of loving. Holding people in my embrace, allowing me to feel their heat, their love, their presence, and allowing me the freedom of letting them go, of holding onto the knowing that everything is okay. I am okay, they are okay, and everything will be okay. P.s: Love you very very much Leeor! Biggest hug ☺
@@Kidrobot016 hello Euseph, thank you for asking :). I think that for me it took a lot of shadow work. I really had to sit with my fears, my discomfort and my pain. For me it was about learning how to find security in myself, so that I know that even if life changes I can trust my decisions, and even if I make a mistake i am capable of acquiring the tools I need to navigate anything that aggravates me. I think a lot of people talk about sitting with things and never go in detail, in my case I had to do a lot, a lot of journaling, I vented a lot to my therapist, and I had to change my beliefs. I used to be very insecure in my own decisions, so I relied on the people in my life to "guide" me per se. So if they though I should do A, even if i thoughy B was better I do A, bcs I was scared of failing or doing something wrong or not being able to deal with my mistakes. Once I tackled that I started becoming much more secure. It's not about knowing I will always do the right think, it's about knowing I'llbe fine even if i don't. My advice for you would be to understand what underlying issue makes you attach to people, are you relying on them to decide for you? Are you scared of change? If so why? It really is about understanding what your fears and insecurities are trying to tell you, and help yourself through them. Hope you find this helpful Euseph, sending you the biggest hug ❤
@Kelly Fortes I just woke up from a dream that I believe came from yet another fear. The universe (GOD) really has my back because right before bed, I asked for strength and guidance to ground myself and the tools to rid myself of my certain fears. I woke up to this comment, and it literally has already made my day! Thank you, Kelly! I always hear about shadow work being a key, but never know if I'm doing it right. I did start to journal, and a lot came out. Yes, you have helped me tremendously. I'm going to continue to sit with myself and journal my fears and insecure thoughts. I also need to practice trusting my ideas and decisions even if someone I think is better has a different plan or idea. That's a really big one for me. I think half the time I just don't speak up or voice my opinion because I've decided they are better or I already lost.
I cried reading this. I never thought about being scared to trust myself or stand on my own until I read those words, thank you for making me more aware of why I’m attached.
Did the journaling and your words gave me so much insight and clarity. I’m currently facing a choice of whether to leave my apartment which comes with identity, ego and stability. Thank you for reminding me it’s a process and taking back our power takes time so to be gentle on ourselves. Much love 🦋✨
Attached to a friend as I enjoy spending my time with her. Sometimes I feel stressed or sad when I don't get to hang out with her as she'll be doing other stuff with her friends. I feel attached way more than I should be which I feel is deteriorating. This attachment just gives me feeling of enjoyment and happiness. If I didn't have the attachment, I don't think I would be very upset about it after a while. I'd be even more open to other friendships as I wouldn't spend most of my time overthinking. Just that, it feels really hard for the first few days trying to detach. At times, I don't feel upset about what goes wrong or what doesn't go the way I want it to, as I know what's meant to be, will be. So there's no reason worrying about the future or dwelling on the past, just live in the present. Know that things are only going to get better and this too shall pass♥
Being too attached doesn’t always mean they are repelled by you personally or consciously , it can also be that they are simply drawn to other energies. So yes, attachment may push them away but it doesn’t mean they are consciously repelled or repulsed by you.
1. A new gentleman 2.an important man is interested in me, provides me value 3. Moving on from past relationship, excitement 4. Losing faith in love again 5. Unsure
Bruhhh I've been wanting to do this since a day or two. I asked for guidance and ofc here you are, you angel!!! We want a video on how you stay so connected to the divine, and connected to God.
I listened to this video back to back like 3 or 4 times to let it digest & not just consume. A season I’m in and working on but I really wrote the questions down and took notes & I will return to it and find out more about myself & how I truly feel.
I didn’t watch TH-cam for 2 months. Today I opened the app and the first video that popped up was yours. Talk about perfect timing. Suffocating someone with my love, being attached…that was me. And it was hurting us both. I was finally ready to figure out how to detach and you’re right on time with guidance ♥️
I’m in the process of detachment on day one after a really hard breakup who I thought would be my husband but my co dependency on him pushed him away. I became so attached to him in so little time that I didn’t realize it was suffocating him to the point where he was begging me for his time alone and I was so blinded in my anxious attachment that I couldn’t give him time and space. Even through the breakup, (it’s been two weeks) and I still call/ text him, which he’s helpi by me by ignoring, and he understands my co dependency that he hasn’t blocked me, but I won’t be surprised when he does
I'm attached to my ex :( He broke up with me 2 months ago and it's been so hard to let him go, our relationship was so amazing and the best i've ever had, we planned so many things for our future together and I was sure he was the love of my life, but he left me because he's going through some tough times and is not emotionally available to have a serious relationship. Although I understand and have empathy for him, I still love him and want to be with him so bad. I think about him everyday and everytime anything reminds me of him or the pain of not being with him, it makes me cry like a baby. I think this video came up in my feed for a reason and everything you said resonated with me a lot. I hope I'm able to move on and let go of him, because so far everything feels like emotional hell :(
I hope my girl thinks like this as well and come back, i really miss her alot, she breakup with me cause just little argument and she go crazy and breakup with me 2 months before
I needed this video. I really did. I put my partner on the highest pedestal and then when his traumas are triggered then he triggers mine and then i find myself seeking validation from my family and friends and its such a cycle for us. I want to learn to seek validation from myself and trust. Trust in myself. Trusting myself that i would walk away when i need too. Trust that i have all the answers inside.
This is beautiful but it is so difficult for me I feel like I have to not gaf or be angry for people to care and it hurts I just wish they would reciprocate
1) I am attached to a girl I just broke up with. One way relationship. No give and take. 2) It says I try to fix broken people. I try to save too much. 3) Nothing 4) Lonely 5) I could be an award winning filmmaker
I’m going through a really hard time of my life right now. Every time I felt anxious, I listened to this and it instantly helped to calm me down and be more peaceful with my inner self. Thank you for creating this video. ❤
Over the past couple of years you’ve literally transformed my life. I am so thankful to you. Your affirmations are the best I’ve come across. Your explanation of LOA and detachment are the best and this video is also extremely well explained and helpful. Thank you. I feel instantly happy after watching this ❤🙏
Attached to somebody who gave me beautiful memories of travels & having fun around but never knew how to treat me. It was like a honeymoon once in a while and for the rest of the year the entire relationship (if I can call it so) was just confusion, low self esteem, etc. I moved on but still I feel I won’t be able to have same memories and fun with other people. How do you overcome it :/? What you talk to yourself about? Thank you!❤ blessings to everyone!
Perfect timing!! I have been attached to the pain and hurt my Ex husband caused! I need to release this TODAY, NOW! I have found an amazing true love that I AM forever grateful for!!
Thank you for this positive message. I am grateful for all the blessing, protection & guidance from the universe! I detach from everything! I trust in the universe & believe in miracles! I am ready & open to receive effortless abundance! Everything is working out for me. Thank you Universe! 💚
Journal prompts: 1) identify what or who you are attached to 2) what is having this thing or person say about you? 3) what is this attachment giving you? 4) who do you think you would be without this attachment? (What are you afraid of?) 5) who could you be without this attachment?
@naomi the way I understand it, it's asking you to reflect on what different things could you feel, do, notice, experience, enjoy, further let go of old/unnecessary attachments by releasing the attachment(s) in the aforementioned journal prompts. What version of self could you be a without this attachment? Does that help?
I’m attached to my ex.. we had a very close bond and connection.. he did step out in our relationship… when we’re together we can we ourselves and really enjoy one another
1. What or who are you attached to? 2. What does having this thing or person say about you? 3. What is this attachment giving you? (Confidence, social status, specialness, etc ) 4. Who do you think you'd be without this attachment / What are you afraid of becoming without this attachment? 5. Who could you be without this attachment? List out all the possibilities!
A lot of the times we have unhealthy attachements and i had to learn the hard way. I've been bullied in school so I never had a lot of friends, also i lost a lot of friends. I guess that's where my attachement comes from. 14 years ago i met some girl at my work who i was on the same page with and we became really good friends. I guess She was the friend i never had before, a few weeks ago she commited suïcide and it created so many anxiety inside of me. This video makes me understand the situation and myself a little better, so thanks for that!
Hey there, if U r struggling right now please remind yourself that 'I' an absolute stranger, I love you and i pray that U come closer to the truth of life and live blissfully...
i never go around commenting this stuff on people’s content but genuinely, i love you Leeor. you have changed my life for the better in so many way, almost held my hand and walked me through my spiritual journey and through so much of my healing. not only that but it feels like you give me cheat codes to life. the work you’re doing matters more than i can even fathom. i’m grateful to have found you when i did ❤️
I'm dying dying dying of pain... good God, how I loved that asshole with all my soul... since February of this year (2023), we're now in May... crisis lines and prayer lines have been my lifelines... my soul is deeply profoundly raped. I am suffering tremendously. I cannot breathe through the pain. HOW COULD MY BEST FRIEND DO THIS TO ME? now I'm all alone and I am terrified and I cannot breathe. I'm in hell with no escape. horrific PTSD. horrific and severe. hell with no escape. I do not breathe. I'm in perpetual freeze mode. it's impossible to describe just how much I wish to die. I live in a state of perpetual trauma and panic and terror. the pain is killing me. I cannot, do not: breathe. constant survival mode. endless pain. he raped me. raped and tortured me. panic panic panic. terror terror terror. I AM TORMENTED AND HAUNTED AND TORTURED AND EATEN ALIVE BY THE HORRIFIC PAIN. PANIC PANIC PANIC DARKNESS ALL AROUND. disgusting cruel abusive PATHETIC man, I dodged a bullet, really. saved and protected. even knowing all that, still... he was my best friend and my addiction, my lifeline, I needed him desperately, wanted him badly. the longing and the grief debilitate and paralyze me. I am drowning in grief and terror and panic and darkness. sadness and grief and longing and aching and misery and nostalgia: flood me. my heart literally physically actually hurts. HOW COULD HE DO THIS TO ME? HOW AND WHY? HOW? HOW? HOW? he raped me. raped my soul. he doesn't miss me? I'm that easy to replace? I'M THAT EASY TO BE THIS CRUEL TO? I don't deserve a goodbye nor an explanation? our connection and friendship wasn't real? I AM STUCK IN FREEZE (mostly, perpetually). my heart is so heavy. the grief; the ache; the longing. I miss him. I needed him. I miss our connection. HOW THE FUCK COULD HE ACTUALLY REALLY DO THIS TO ME? One day we're talking all day, every day, the next, we're complete strangers. I die inside. PANIC PANIC PANIC AND. SO. MUCH. GRIEF!! I truly die inside. The pain is unbearable. I am dizzy with grief. Truly unimaginable darkness. DEBILITATING PARALYZING PANIC... I wish to die. I have severe PTSD. the person whom I thought was my best friend, gave me this PTSD. he raped me. on a soul level. he viciously brutally violently maliciously raped my soul. ghosted me. discarded me like garbage. replaced me for another. (STUPID SICK MOTHER FUCKING ASSHOLE, HE IS!!) I feel the PTSD in my body. I am drowning in darkness. I'm in hell with no escape. I face every moment of every day: with utter dread and sheer terror. and so... as an act of my own free will... I release and detach all vibrations and frequencies that do not serve my highest good. I responsibly cut all cords from all people in my past, and declare and command their energy to no longer have access to the sacred parts of my being! I release and send back their energy to them with the purest intent. I call back my energy from their sacred space. I command this all, for my inner healing and for my inner peace. IN JESUS' PRECIOUS HOLY MIGHTY POWERFUL NAME, I DECLARE, IT IS SO! I am embracing the light within my soul. I forgive therefore I am forgiven. I love therefore I receive love. And so it is. NOTES TO SELF: - work on yourself - heal yourself - purify, release, cleanse, attract, surrender - be independent; fall in love with you - radiate magical energy - develop a sense of mystery and safety and astonishment - visualize wishes fulfilled (COMMAND and FEEL) - live your life on purpose - Radical Honesty = EASY (when you're not afraid of losing something) Thank you Heavenly Father ❤Thank you Universe ❤ Thank you God❤Thank you Gurus❤Thank you Angels❤ Thank you Ancestors ❤Thank you Divine Spirit ❤Thank you Mother Earth ❤ I REMEMBER: A successful woman is one who can lay a firm foundation: with the bricks that others have thrown at her... - I AM feeling the love from the Universe. - I AM feeling a sense of purpose in my life. - I AM being shown and given a magical and miraculous way of living. - I AM connecting with my soul tribe, and (re)uniting with my twin-flame. All the doors to the sacred and to the holy and to the benevolent and to the healing, be open to me, and to my family (and to all who read this), in Jesus' Name... It is during this hour of NOW, that destinies become miracles! Hallelujah ❤ Witches call it magic, the religious call it prayer, spiritualists call it law of attraction, scientists call it quantum mechanics, & atheists call it the placebo effect... it's all conscious intention 🥰 (Forgiveness: to release what has never actually really occurred.)
Since the beginning of this year i have been attached to this person hoping that this connection would bloom into a relationship. I lost sight of all my goals and was hyper-focusing only on this man. I get upset when things don't work out the way i hoped they would. I feel myself having mood swings more often, i have been lashing out at people because im disappointed that, that person did not reciprocate things the way i expected them to. This video made me realised how attached i am to this person and how that attachment has been damaging to my life. I have been on a roller coaster of emotions, feeling disconnected from myself, since knowing this person Thank you Leeor for this video. God sent you as an angel on my way to make me realise these things. I hope that i can come back here soon to tell you that i have healed from this and that i am doing better❤🥺
Being laid off for a few months, I have become attached to finding the perfect job within a field and status I want. I will continue to do the work I need to internally and externally but I’m letting go of the attachment to certain roles, companys and even type of work I am desperately holding on to.
1. Meine Kollegin 2. Sie kann mich nicht leiden und zeigt es immer wieder. 3. Es regt mich auf. Es ist meine Ausrede, mich nicht komplett auszuleben. Es beschäftigt mich ohne Risiko. 4. Ich müsste wirklich Dinge voranbringen. 5. Ich könnte toll im Team arbeiten, Aktionen durchziehen, glücklich und erleichtert sein. Wieder Spaß an der Arbeit haben.
Thank you for explaining it so profoundly and deeply. Instead of just telling us to detach and focus on self. 💗 This has helped me so much in my current situation in helping me leg go of my ex after so long…
I can't believe just by watching this video & ofc taking notes and practicing what she said over & over again my whole changed. I can't be enough thankful of you cuz you literally saved my life from super anxious attachment to fully detachment & freedom . I belive I still have lots of things to learn and imma keep my eyes on you ❤️
Leoor this is exactly what I needed!! Randomly out of no where- I’ve found myself ruminating over my first relationship that ended 4 years ago. I don’t think my body fully metabolized the trauma and experience. I prayed today for closure, I still harbor a lot of confusion, pain and anger towards him. I want to break free and call back my power. Thank you!!!
This is what I needed. Thank goodness it found me. I haven't been honest with my attachments in years but lately my pain points have been glaringly obvious. To the point where I can no longer ignore them. I am looking forward to being with myself and completing the journal prompts. I have been in a heart space where I felt like no one chose me but truthfully I haven't made me a choice in years. I am looking forward to just being with me in an honest way; I desire to like and love who I am. Thank you for this video.
I miss being in love - loving and being loved . I love myself but I want to share things with someone I want to be someone’s safe place and I want to be theirs . I feel something missing. I want a partner, but the right partner. I don’t want to settle.
Hey how's it going? I'm hoping you manifested somebody like this! Pls give us an update so the rest of us can get a boost of confidence! Have a good day!
I never had any partner. Ever. I want this too. I haven't settled in 10 years or 14 years since the last time I dated! I know my wife is out there. I know it. I know what I'm seeking is seeking me. You got to believe this. It's truth. Once you align with that energy, it will come into your life. Remember. We attract what we ARE, not what we want. If you are not attracting what you want, it's because you are there yet. You need to let it go. LEt it go. It will appear when you don't expect it. I"m working on myself and I"m freaking 49 years old.
@bestactress1281 Deborah right? Hey so I just wanna say I was listening to a podcast by Mel Robin's abt confidence and basically she said confidence is not a feeling u feel but a skill you build so you cannot feel confident bc this is not a feeling. And abt finding your right person see the girl that you replied to she said she loves herself but if u r operating from a place of lack and u r like oh when my person will come come onnn then u r forcing things and holding soo tightly onto this which eventually will crash so let go trust the process and and let everything into the lap of God and Universe ❤
I know exactly how you feel. Let’s stay hopeful.
Give that to yourself my love ,it has been one of the hardest things I have ever had to endure but do it for you and no one else can stop you
How is she always on time!? Lol.
Literally!
Heheheh🥰
She’s tuned in! ❤
I was totally thinking the same!!!
I said the same thing lol
I let go, I allow what is to be.
I retreat back to me. I release all tension.
I am happy and calm and receptive.
I did the exercise right away and felt an instant sense of relief and release, like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders. I finally get it - been giving so much mental energy to something that's not serving me, and now I see that I have the power to let it go. Detachment is truly peaceful, thank you so much for this video! x
I thought about “who would I become if I keep the attachment”; for example, when hanging around a family member- I get “sucked” in to the vibrations of who I once was. I know I have to stay true to myself and continue standing my ground: then I realize I dim myself/ my light so that i can relate to them or connect with them. But I realize I don’t want to be doing that anymore. So detachment here I am, I’m ready to face it, to learn from it, and embody my higher self.
🎯 I feel you
It's true when they say "you heal the world through you"🙏🏼
I'm attached on finding true love & start a family. I'm 30 and scared of not finding the right person on time. I'm learning to detach this limited believe & to stay present in the moment ✨
I found my true Love at 46 years old … it’s amazing and so healthy!!
You’ve got this ❤
Start loving you and all will fall into place! ❤️
Just get out where you can meet people and enjoy your life! Life is too short to feel so worried about not finding what you want. Fill your life with fun, work and goals and you will find the this person as they will be very attracted to you if you are doing well in life and attracting positive energy.
I'll be 30 this year as well and going through this exact struggle too. I keep trying to remember advice a friend gave me that I think helps put everything into perspective.
"It will be what it needs to be."
same here! for me what has helped so far was deleting dating apps and focusing on what makes me happy and just… living. I have many beautiful things to experience and so many great people surrounding me ❤
@@dawncollins3161 thank you. I will be 47 on Sunday and am still single.
I’m attached to my SP bcuz she makes me feel safe and comfortable. She brings me pleasure and joy by sharing moments of intimate connection to mundane easy moments. I feel a part of me has been lost bcuz we’ve been together for most of my adult life and now I have to start over.
This is Divine Timing - I’ve been resisting letting go against my own nature - Thank you!
I was just thinking about this very same thing this morning. I was thinking about how I want to meet my person and have them with me but then in turn I thought about how I don't need them and how I am perfectly content loving myself. I came to the conclusion that I will just go with the flow of where spirit leads me and be surprised by whatever happens in my life. Thank you Leeor 🙏 ❤
Trying to let go completely my boyfriend is needing space at this time my grandma just passed my mom passed 5 years ago and now I’m being attacked by my daughters father trying to take my daughter I have never truly been alone to discover growing for myself living myself I have always put peoples needs before my own I see that I have to release my past!! It does hurt the soul but I know I’m in the right path♥️ thank you for this
First line in and you’re already a magician. I’m so happy to be a part of your energy
Our Parents experienced the same
"Detachment Phenomenon", but "They coined the phrase""ABSENTS
MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER"!
i came across this video bc it was suggested to me and i am going through a healing journey right now. i was involved with a guy for a few months and i grew so attached to him, that i abruptly ended things with him. i didnt want to do it and i thought i had made a mistake. i was going through guilt, grief, anger, sadnes, and i felt like i had lost everything. but i didnt. i only gained more strength into realizing that i dont need anyone to give me happiness. happiness lies within me. im on day 5 of my healing journey and by watching videos like this one, i know that i have the power to learn detachment and use it in my next relationship.
Hey girl ❤ I want you to to know how much I enjoy these moments I get to share with you. I am sending you so much love. Have SUCH a good day because you deserve ittttt after all you have done for us 😊
Seeing this while I’m in the process of detachment, works like a good motivation to remain present❤
I will be forever grateful that I came across your channel years ago! Today's date is 8.8.2024 and I was reflecting on what I want to manifest and shift my focus towards "what is the person I want to be doing / focusing on?" and the first thing on my list was " detachment from what no longer serves me" (in this case a recent heartbreak). Then this video auto played immediately after I watched your "Design your life for 2024" Exactly what I needed on such a powerful day. Thank you thank you for doing what you do and sharing your gifts with the world. Wishing you and your growing family much blessings and joy
You speak so well. I'm learning how to let attachments relax and breathe, and this video comes at the perfect time. And I just want to say that you reflect the best part of this philosophy, and what you say resonates deeply with me. I really appreciate you making this video. Thank you.
More than a person per se these days, this really clicks for me right now with situations or aspects of self. Letting go and allowing flow and change, is really what I need right now
Grateful I clicked on this. Definitely a message I needed to hear today 🙏🏻💕
I started watching videos on detachment to detach from someone a Situationships that I felt was becoming toxic… Little did I realize that the message of detachment actually applies to a lot of other things in my life!
“A state of allowing, surrender to cosmic bliss… to the divine.” how beautifully said. Thank you so, Leeor, for your beautiful gift.♥️🙏🏼💫🕊️☁️✨
I was beggining to feel a bit lost, and then out of nowhere I see your notification on my phone, a best friend calls me, and another youtuber I love uploads a video. I have to learn to accept that the universe will come to my aid when I need it, and it's okay 🥺💕
Also, what a powerful and baeutiful message, thank you Leeor. This past two years have really taught me to let go of people I loved, people I didn't want to leave, because I was scared. I was scared of standing on my own two feet. I was scared I couldn't trust myself.
But I have... and I have never led me astray, my heart, my soul has never allowed me too.
Learing to allow parts of me to die, to feel them literally dying, learning to surf the waves and to allow the universe to guide me.
I live so much closer to my heart, to people, to the universe. I am learning to love freely. To love not to hold. To admire, not to acquire.
I have learned a very beautiful way of loving. Holding people in my embrace, allowing me to feel their heat, their love, their presence, and allowing me the freedom of letting them go, of holding onto the knowing that everything is okay. I am okay, they are okay, and everything will be okay.
P.s: Love you very very much Leeor! Biggest hug ☺
If you don't mind my asking, what makes it easier for you to "let go" of someone you didn't want to let go?
@@Kidrobot016 Great Question!!!! 🙏🏻🤍. What do you think please, Euseph?
@@Kidrobot016 hello Euseph, thank you for asking :). I think that for me it took a lot of shadow work. I really had to sit with my fears, my discomfort and my pain. For me it was about learning how to find security in myself, so that I know that even if life changes I can trust my decisions, and even if I make a mistake i am capable of acquiring the tools I need to navigate anything that aggravates me. I think a lot of people talk about sitting with things and never go in detail, in my case I had to do a lot, a lot of journaling, I vented a lot to my therapist, and I had to change my beliefs. I used to be very insecure in my own decisions, so I relied on the people in my life to "guide" me per se. So if they though I should do A, even if i thoughy B was better I do A, bcs I was scared of failing or doing something wrong or not being able to deal with my mistakes.
Once I tackled that I started becoming much more secure. It's not about knowing I will always do the right think, it's about knowing I'llbe fine even if i don't.
My advice for you would be to understand what underlying issue makes you attach to people, are you relying on them to decide for you? Are you scared of change? If so why?
It really is about understanding what your fears and insecurities are trying to tell you, and help yourself through them.
Hope you find this helpful Euseph, sending you the biggest hug ❤
@Kelly Fortes I just woke up from a dream that I believe came from yet another fear. The universe (GOD) really has my back because right before bed, I asked for strength and guidance to ground myself and the tools to rid myself of my certain fears. I woke up to this comment, and it literally has already made my day! Thank you, Kelly! I always hear about shadow work being a key, but never know if I'm doing it right. I did start to journal, and a lot came out. Yes, you have helped me tremendously. I'm going to continue to sit with myself and journal my fears and insecure thoughts. I also need to practice trusting my ideas and decisions even if someone I think is better has a different plan or idea. That's a really big one for me. I think half the time I just don't speak up or voice my opinion because I've decided they are better or I already lost.
I cried reading this. I never thought about being scared to trust myself or stand on my own until I read those words, thank you for making me more aware of why I’m attached.
what will i gain - Self love, my power back, possibility of meeting someone who will give me love, self respect , clarity. actual hapiness!!!!
Did the journaling and your words gave me so much insight and clarity. I’m currently facing a choice of whether to leave my apartment which comes with identity, ego and stability. Thank you for reminding me it’s a process and taking back our power takes time so to be gentle on ourselves. Much love 🦋✨
Perfect timing per usual 🌟
☺️☺️☺️🫶🫶🫶
All I can say is thank you wow. It was gentle since it all added up and made sense to me
Attached to a friend as I enjoy spending my time with her. Sometimes I feel stressed or sad when I don't get to hang out with her as she'll be doing other stuff with her friends. I feel attached way more than I should be which I feel is deteriorating. This attachment just gives me feeling of enjoyment and happiness. If I didn't have the attachment, I don't think I would be very upset about it after a while. I'd be even more open to other friendships as I wouldn't spend most of my time overthinking. Just that, it feels really hard for the first few days trying to detach. At times, I don't feel upset about what goes wrong or what doesn't go the way I want it to, as I know what's meant to be, will be. So there's no reason worrying about the future or dwelling on the past, just live in the present. Know that things are only going to get better and this too shall pass♥
Being too attached doesn’t always mean they are repelled by you personally or consciously , it can also be that they are simply drawn to other energies. So yes, attachment may push them away but it doesn’t mean they are consciously repelled or repulsed by you.
1. A new gentleman 2.an important man is interested in me, provides me value 3. Moving on from past relationship, excitement 4. Losing faith in love again 5. Unsure
Bruhhh I've been wanting to do this since a day or two. I asked for guidance and ofc here you are, you angel!!! We want a video on how you stay so connected to the divine, and connected to God.
i ha´vent watched your videos before, but i ralley liked it! Thank you
I listened to this video back to back like 3 or 4 times to let it digest & not just consume. A season I’m in and working on but I really wrote the questions down and took notes & I will return to it and find out more about myself & how I truly feel.
Such a compassionate sweet soul and message. Thank you!
Glad to be one of the first people here! ❤ You always bring such a soothing energy with a very powerful message! Thanks a lot Leeor!
Omgoodness!!! Mic drop mind blown!!! What an eye opener for me!!!
You look especially great in this vid!
Awesome insights on attachments appearing to say something about us. Realizing this will be pivotal.
I didn’t watch TH-cam for 2 months. Today I opened the app and the first video that popped up was yours. Talk about perfect timing. Suffocating someone with my love, being attached…that was me. And it was hurting us both. I was finally ready to figure out how to detach and you’re right on time with guidance ♥️
I’m in the process of detachment on day one after a really hard breakup who I thought would be my husband but my co dependency on him pushed him away. I became so attached to him in so little time that I didn’t realize it was suffocating him to the point where he was begging me for his time alone and I was so blinded in my anxious attachment that I couldn’t give him time and space. Even through the breakup, (it’s been two weeks) and I still call/ text him, which he’s helpi by me by ignoring, and he understands my co dependency that he hasn’t blocked me, but I won’t be surprised when he does
This is what I needed right now. Thank you Leeor! You keep our vibrations way way way up ❤
When I detach there is no going back. So how is this intuitive?
I'm attached to my ex :(
He broke up with me 2 months ago and it's been so hard to let him go, our relationship was so amazing and the best i've ever had, we planned so many things for our future together and I was sure he was the love of my life, but he left me because he's going through some tough times and is not emotionally available to have a serious relationship. Although I understand and have empathy for him, I still love him and want to be with him so bad. I think about him everyday and everytime anything reminds me of him or the pain of not being with him, it makes me cry like a baby. I think this video came up in my feed for a reason and everything you said resonated with me a lot. I hope I'm able to move on and let go of him, because so far everything feels like emotional hell :(
I can feel that pain
I'm sorry. Hope you're doing better. I feel the same way.
hi love, how are things going now?
I hope my girl thinks like this as well and come back, i really miss her alot, she breakup with me cause just little argument and she go crazy and breakup with me 2 months before
Yr don't worry everyone is going through the same thing ...just keep faith in god
Needed this today. ❤ I love you Leeor.
I needed this video. I really did. I put my partner on the highest pedestal and then when his traumas are triggered then he triggers mine and then i find myself seeking validation from my family and friends and its such a cycle for us. I want to learn to seek validation from myself and trust. Trust in myself. Trusting myself that i would walk away when i need too. Trust that i have all the answers inside.
Thank you. This was one of the most helpful and spot on videos video i listened about detachment and the most convincing one too. Many thanks🙏🙏🙏🙏❤
This is beautiful but it is so difficult for me
I feel like I have to not gaf or be angry for people to care and it hurts I just wish they would reciprocate
I've got to give you credit. You are dropping some wisdom here.
Thank you for sending this to me exactly when i needed it❤ hope you have a beautifully blessed day
1) I am attached to a girl I just broke up with. One way relationship. No give and take. 2) It says I try to fix broken people. I try to save too much. 3) Nothing 4) Lonely 5) I could be an award winning filmmaker
Dear Leeor, thank you so much for your video. Your words saved my day. 😭
Awesome! I've been feeling overwhelmed and eager for things to change asap, thanks
I just got broken up with for this so I needed this 😭💔
Wow just what I needed, so on time🌞 so tuned in, thank you Leeor❤️
Thank Alexandras, great discussion, loved it and was blessed was struggling in this area of attachment, doing better now!!!!
Loved this video! Thank you!
I’m going through a really hard time of my life right now. Every time I felt anxious, I listened to this and it instantly helped to calm me down and be more peaceful with my inner self. Thank you for creating this video. ❤
Me too💝
I love that expect nothing from anyone and appreciate everything the art of unattached living
Over the past couple of years you’ve literally transformed my life. I am so thankful to you. Your affirmations are the best I’ve come across. Your explanation of LOA and detachment are the best and this video is also extremely well explained and helpful. Thank you. I feel instantly happy after watching this ❤🙏
Attached to somebody who gave me beautiful memories of travels & having fun around but never knew how to treat me. It was like a honeymoon once in a while and for the rest of the year the entire relationship (if I can call it so) was just confusion, low self esteem, etc. I moved on but still I feel I won’t be able to have same memories and fun with other people. How do you overcome it :/? What you talk to yourself about? Thank you!❤ blessings to everyone!
love the wisdom you share with us. thank you for cultivating a community where we can all do our inner work together and grow😢
Perfect timing!! I have been attached to the pain and hurt my Ex husband caused! I need to release this TODAY, NOW!
I have found an amazing true love that I AM forever grateful for!!
First time at your channel and happy I found it; you are great and so insightful! Thank you
Thank you for this positive message. I am grateful for all the blessing, protection & guidance from the universe! I detach from everything!
I trust in the universe & believe in miracles! I am ready & open to receive effortless abundance! Everything is working out for me. Thank you Universe! 💚
Such great tangible tips!
Journal prompts:
1) identify what or who you are attached to
2) what is having this thing or person say about you?
3) what is this attachment giving you?
4) who do you think you would be without this attachment? (What are you afraid of?)
5) who could you be without this attachment?
can you please further explain number 5 to me? i dont get the question very much. thank you!
@naomi the way I understand it, it's asking you to reflect on what different things could you feel, do, notice, experience, enjoy, further let go of old/unnecessary attachments by releasing the attachment(s) in the aforementioned journal prompts. What version of self could you be a without this attachment? Does that help?
@@samisparkleheart yes! thank you very much 💗
@@naomi-ey7yb yw! ☺️
This video is life changing.
I’m attached to my ex.. we had a very close bond and connection.. he did step out in our relationship… when we’re together we can we ourselves and really enjoy one another
1. What or who are you attached to?
2. What does having this thing or person say about you?
3. What is this attachment giving you? (Confidence, social status, specialness, etc )
4. Who do you think you'd be without this attachment / What are you afraid of becoming without this attachment?
5. Who could you be without this attachment? List out all the possibilities!
A lot of the times we have unhealthy attachements and i had to learn the hard way. I've been bullied in school so I never had a lot of friends, also i lost a lot of friends. I guess that's where my attachement comes from. 14 years ago i met some girl at my work who i was on the same page with and we became really good friends. I guess She was the friend i never had before, a few weeks ago she commited suïcide and it created so many anxiety inside of me. This video makes me understand the situation and myself a little better, so thanks for that!
Hey there, if U r struggling right now please remind yourself that 'I' an absolute stranger, I love you and i pray that U come closer to the truth of life and live blissfully...
“everything has a beginning and an end” i SO needed to hear that 🥰
i never go around commenting this stuff on people’s content but genuinely, i love you Leeor. you have changed my life for the better in so many way, almost held my hand and walked me through my spiritual journey and through so much of my healing. not only that but it feels like you give me cheat codes to life. the work you’re doing matters more than i can even fathom. i’m grateful to have found you when i did ❤️
❤
you have the most perfect timing in my life sometimes❤
I literally took a deep breath. ❤
Wow you’re so ontime🫢leeor plzzzz make a guided meditation for detaching and letting go😢I cant anymore🥲
First time listening to one of your videos. I actually enjoyed it.....
Leeor this video was so helpful! 2 days ago I was talking about this with my friends and today your video shows up ❤️
I'm dying dying dying of pain...
good God, how I loved that asshole with all my soul...
since February of this year (2023), we're now in May...
crisis lines and prayer lines have been my lifelines...
my soul is deeply profoundly raped.
I am suffering tremendously.
I cannot breathe through the pain.
HOW COULD MY BEST FRIEND DO THIS TO ME?
now I'm all alone and I am terrified and I cannot breathe.
I'm in hell with no escape.
horrific PTSD.
horrific and severe.
hell with no escape.
I do not breathe.
I'm in perpetual freeze mode.
it's impossible to describe
just how much I wish to die.
I live in a state of perpetual trauma and panic and terror.
the pain is killing me.
I cannot, do not: breathe.
constant survival mode.
endless pain.
he raped me.
raped and tortured me.
panic panic panic.
terror terror terror.
I AM TORMENTED AND HAUNTED AND TORTURED
AND EATEN ALIVE BY THE HORRIFIC PAIN.
PANIC PANIC PANIC
DARKNESS ALL AROUND.
disgusting cruel abusive PATHETIC man,
I dodged a bullet, really.
saved and protected.
even knowing all that,
still...
he was my best friend and my addiction,
my lifeline, I needed him desperately, wanted him badly.
the longing and the grief debilitate and paralyze me.
I am drowning in grief and terror and panic and darkness.
sadness and grief and longing and aching and misery and nostalgia: flood me.
my heart literally physically actually hurts.
HOW COULD HE DO THIS TO ME?
HOW AND WHY?
HOW?
HOW?
HOW?
he raped me.
raped my soul.
he doesn't miss me?
I'm that easy to replace?
I'M THAT EASY TO BE THIS CRUEL TO?
I don't deserve a goodbye nor an explanation?
our connection and friendship wasn't real?
I AM STUCK IN FREEZE (mostly, perpetually).
my heart is so heavy.
the grief; the ache; the longing.
I miss him.
I needed him.
I miss our connection.
HOW THE FUCK COULD HE ACTUALLY REALLY DO THIS TO ME?
One day we're talking all day, every day,
the next, we're complete strangers.
I die inside.
PANIC PANIC PANIC
AND. SO. MUCH. GRIEF!!
I truly die inside.
The pain is unbearable.
I am dizzy with grief.
Truly unimaginable darkness.
DEBILITATING PARALYZING PANIC...
I wish to die.
I have severe PTSD.
the person whom I thought was my best friend,
gave me this PTSD. he raped me. on a soul level.
he viciously brutally violently maliciously raped my soul.
ghosted me. discarded me like garbage. replaced me for another.
(STUPID SICK MOTHER FUCKING ASSHOLE, HE IS!!)
I feel the PTSD in my body. I am drowning in darkness.
I'm in hell with no escape.
I face every moment of every day:
with utter dread and sheer terror.
and so...
as an act of my own free will...
I release and detach all vibrations and frequencies
that do not serve my highest good.
I responsibly cut all cords
from all people in my past,
and declare and command their energy
to no longer have access
to the sacred parts of my being!
I release and send back their energy to them
with the purest intent.
I call back my energy from their sacred space.
I command this all, for my inner healing and for my inner peace.
IN JESUS' PRECIOUS HOLY MIGHTY POWERFUL NAME, I DECLARE, IT IS SO!
I am embracing the light within my soul.
I forgive therefore I am forgiven.
I love therefore I receive love.
And so it is.
NOTES TO SELF:
- work on yourself
- heal yourself
- purify, release, cleanse, attract, surrender
- be independent; fall in love with you
- radiate magical energy
- develop a sense of mystery and safety and astonishment
- visualize wishes fulfilled (COMMAND and FEEL)
- live your life on purpose
- Radical Honesty = EASY (when you're not afraid of losing something)
Thank you Heavenly Father ❤Thank you Universe ❤
Thank you God❤Thank you Gurus❤Thank you Angels❤
Thank you Ancestors ❤Thank you Divine Spirit ❤Thank you Mother Earth ❤
I REMEMBER:
A successful woman is one who can lay a firm foundation:
with the bricks that others have thrown at her...
- I AM feeling the love from the Universe.
- I AM feeling a sense of purpose in my life.
- I AM being shown and given a magical and miraculous way of living.
- I AM connecting with my soul tribe, and (re)uniting with my twin-flame.
All the doors to the sacred and to the holy and to the benevolent and to the healing,
be open to me, and to my family (and to all who read this), in Jesus' Name...
It is during this hour of NOW, that destinies become miracles! Hallelujah ❤
Witches call it magic, the religious call it prayer, spiritualists call it law of attraction, scientists call it quantum mechanics, & atheists call it the placebo effect...
it's all conscious intention 🥰
(Forgiveness: to release what has never actually really occurred.)
Since the beginning of this year i have been attached to this person hoping that this connection would bloom into a relationship. I lost sight of all my goals and was hyper-focusing only on this man. I get upset when things don't work out the way i hoped they would. I feel myself having mood swings more often, i have been lashing out at people because im disappointed that, that person did not reciprocate things the way i expected them to.
This video made me realised how attached i am to this person and how that attachment has been damaging to my life. I have been on a roller coaster of emotions, feeling disconnected from myself, since knowing this person
Thank you Leeor for this video. God sent you as an angel on my way to make me realise these things.
I hope that i can come back here soon to tell you that i have healed from this and that i am doing better❤🥺
How are you doing? 🥺🩷
Same situation 😢
Totally understand. I am also letting go of someone and putting the focus back on my life, happiness. ❤
This sounds like anxious preoccupied attachment. You can heal some of those wounds. Look into Thais Gibson’s Personal Development School videos etc.
Crazyyyy timing girllll, thank you!
Nothing in this life is constant except change.
I am scared of change.
You are truly yourself when you let go.
Forcing ourselves out the comfort zone all summer 2023
@@angeliclizzie we are! 💗
Being laid off for a few months, I have become attached to finding the perfect job within a field and status I want. I will continue to do the work I need to internally and externally but I’m letting go of the attachment to certain roles, companys and even type of work I am desperately holding on to.
Thank you for this video Leeor ❤ right on time with this message 🕯️
What I love about you is that you never talk about ''attachment'' as something shameful
I needed this so much ! Thank you going to go through these questions and let go ! ❤
Thank you soon much. I really needed to hear this right now. 💚
Such a great one again Leeor!... I'll turn it into a daily practice for now because it's very necessary 😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💋
1. Meine Kollegin
2. Sie kann mich nicht leiden und zeigt es immer wieder.
3. Es regt mich auf. Es ist meine Ausrede, mich nicht komplett auszuleben. Es beschäftigt mich ohne Risiko.
4. Ich müsste wirklich Dinge voranbringen.
5. Ich könnte toll im Team arbeiten, Aktionen durchziehen, glücklich und erleichtert sein. Wieder Spaß an der Arbeit haben.
Thank you for this beautiful earth Angel 💕
Thank you for explaining it so profoundly and deeply. Instead of just telling us to detach and focus on self. 💗 This has helped me so much in my current situation in helping me leg go of my ex after so long…
u are amazing!!! I REALLY NEEDED THIS
I can't believe just by watching this video & ofc taking notes and practicing what she said over & over again my whole changed. I can't be enough thankful of you cuz you literally saved my life from super anxious attachment to fully detachment & freedom . I belive I still have lots of things to learn and imma keep my eyes on you ❤️
❤❤❤
Binge watching all of your attachment videos haha
You are glowing 😍🫶🧿
cried at number 2 ♡ this was amazing. thank you
Leoor this is exactly what I needed!! Randomly out of no where- I’ve found myself ruminating over my first relationship that ended 4 years ago. I don’t think my body fully metabolized the trauma and experience. I prayed today for closure, I still harbor a lot of confusion, pain and anger towards him. I want to break free and call back my power. Thank you!!!
Over thinking of someone who just left for no reasons
Amazing video. Thank you 🙏❤
1.1k likes and 111 comments, I’m meant to be here :)
This is what I needed. Thank goodness it found me. I haven't been honest with my attachments in years but lately my pain points have been glaringly obvious. To the point where I can no longer ignore them. I am looking forward to being with myself and completing the journal prompts. I have been in a heart space where I felt like no one chose me but truthfully I haven't made me a choice in years. I am looking forward to just being with me in an honest way; I desire to like and love who I am. Thank you for this video.