If a women likes you, and i mean has genuine HIGH INTEREST in you, she will move mountains to be with you, and she will put herself in your orbit. She will contact you and she will not play these bread crumbing games. The issue within this situation is the girl was not feeling the guy as much. Any man or women who has genuine high interest will not do these games to you. Bread crumbing is highly manipulative. A cut off text might sound petty and hurt but it gets the point across. I had this issue with a girl not to long ago. She did it to me to "string me along" as a back up plan. I eventually called her out on it and ended it and blocked her on all social media. It does not take more than 5 seconds to send a text to someone saying you arent interested in them instead of stringing them along as a back up option or bread crumbing them for god knows how long. Its terrible.
I disagree, identify and eliminate breadcrumbers immediately. If she's truly interested then she won't breadcrumb and/or flake. A zero tolerance policy is the best approach.
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I am so sorry to hear! Could you share this on my free Facebook Group too? I would love to discuss this during my live session. Join and get a feedback from me here facebook.com/groups/goodgentlemangroup/. I go on Facebook live every 2nd Tuesday of the month at 6:30 PST | 9:30 EST. See you there!
Good lord ive never been breadcrumbed in my life ..until This last year!!! My ex that left (we lived together with her daughter) anyways she left and has since pulled This sh$t…its unbelievable brutal on one. Id rather her ghosted like my ex wife did haha. Its a hell Of a lot easier on the system thats for sure. Its Taken a-lot of healing and finally finally finally im detaching and will probably call Her out on it im sure one day and walk away ..i feel for anyone that has gone through this crap. DO NOT PUT UP WITH IT. YOU DESERVE SOMEONE WHO APPRECIATE S YOU AND WILL WANT TO BE WITH YOU !! Take your pride and self worth respect and walk the f$&k away!!! Its a toxic sickening terrible feeling!!!! My god ive had to read soooo much and watch vids like these to help Me through this garbage immature thing!!! All The best and thank u for This video:) every one piece Of advice helps understand and feel that one isnt alone !!! Cheers
Bread crumbing is very toxic and heartless action of the perpetrator and whenever you realise that someone has breadcrumb you just vanish from there and never give him or her a second chance because a person who can breadcrumb you or anyone is heartless and emotionless.
In example two in think he actually made the right move. Im going through a breadcrumbing situation now. And we're both ENM. We're both okay with us dating others.... with the caveat that we still communicate. As of late she's been breadcrumbing me and it sucks. I chose to not engage. Because she gives me the constant line "im busy". Sure you are. Next week I'm cutting her lose.
relationships are Devine timing. If they he/she etc is availiable time current relationship job etc then not meant to be move on. If meant to be it will be. Never except someone who doesn't value as you do them. The future will be Hell.!!!!!!
I hooked up with a girl for two weekends in a row. She was super high interest at first but recently she's been declining my invites to chill and she still responds to me and texts me everyday but I can't help but notice she's noticeably more dry.
sounds interesting...I'd love to explain this further on my FB Group. Would you mind joining? You can chime in during my live sessions every other Tuesday at 6 PM PST. Here's the link to my group facebook.com/groups/goodgentlemangroup/. See you there!
Breadcrumbing is painful. After texting & talking for about 3 months I asked her out on a date. She went silent for 4 days and then responded with blind rage[to the point of hatred] when I tried approach her. Her body language & facial cues gave me my answer - no explanation necessary. Then a few days later she tried to engage me. I replied but kept it very short to avoid the same cycle of engage and discard. i have been in no contact ever since not out of spite but to move on. I'll close by saying, thanks for your content in explaining this dating phenomenon Ms. Love there are lots of people out there experiencing it as I write this.
Hey Ruby, came across your video...and while I agree in principle to some of what you said, what you're suggesting is not realistic when dealing with women who behave like this. -You cannot negotiate desire. No text, call, email, or whatever will make the other person like you more. - Confronting a woman regarding her behavior is weak. It's my belief that you should never argue with a woman about anything, big or small, because you will not win. Men are rational and logical beings, Women are emotional. Trying to rationalize with a Woman, or make her understand where you are coming from, no bueno. Not gonna work. - In my opinion, bread crumbing is just attention and validation-seeking behavior. Most of when this has happened it has become apparent the woman has some sort of PD, usually NPD. Narcisstic women are big red flags for guys because they get you hooked with the love-bombing, attention, and adoration, and what guy wouldn't want female attention? Well, once her narcissistic supply is filled from the validation we give her, share our feelings about her, BAM, she's gone. - Honestly, just block her. These women don't get what they're doing is wrong. I'd love to hear your thoughts! (Not THOTS, SAY NO TO THOTS)
Absolutely agree with you. On the other front it will make you come across as a weak needy person and you know how it ends up. Absolutely never ever fall for a narcisstic but that is the world what social media has created
Agreed mate. I said to her behavior is upsetting me in a tactful way...she didn't take it well and I haven't heard back from her in 2 months now. Silence is a message but a blessing. Cos I'm not wasting my time on a woman who is a master of own drama and self destruction.
I appreciate you asking me this question. There's quite a bit to unpack here, I'd be happy to provide a detailed response when I go live in my Facebook group. This will be easier to answer verbally than texting out my response (speaking is my stronger suit compared to writing haha). And, I can follow up with you afterwards. If you'd like to join this Free Facebook group, please click here facebook.com/groups/goodgentlemangroup/ and then answer the following questions to be accepted. When I go live on Facebook every 2nd Tuesday of the month at 6:30 PM PST | 9:30 EST, I'll answer any of your specific dating questions. You'll also have support from others there. See you there!
That is actually way too much, if you want to have a further explanation I can answer this on my FB Live. Catch me every Tuesday at 6 PM PST at this link bit.ly/goodgentlemanfbgroup. See you there!
If a women likes you, and i mean has genuine HIGH INTEREST in you, she will move mountains to be with you, and she will put herself in your orbit. She will contact you and she will not play these bread crumbing games. The issue within this situation is the girl was not feeling the guy as much. Any man or women who has genuine high interest will not do these games to you. Bread crumbing is highly manipulative. A cut off text might sound petty and hurt but it gets the point across. I had this issue with a girl not to long ago. She did it to me to "string me along" as a back up plan. I eventually called her out on it and ended it and blocked her on all social media. It does not take more than 5 seconds to send a text to someone saying you arent interested in them instead of stringing them along as a back up option or bread crumbing them for god knows how long. Its terrible.
I disagree, identify and eliminate breadcrumbers immediately. If she's truly interested then she won't breadcrumb and/or flake. A zero tolerance policy is the best approach.
I can talk about this on my live session, please join with this link bit.ly/goodgentlemanfbgroup and hop on my FB live every other Tuesday 6 pm PST. ;)
I agree, it should not be tolerated at all.
After 2 months of strictly platonic dating I expressed my love for her.
She said ‘let’s be friends first’.
That was the beginning of the end 😐
I am so sorry to hear! Could you share this on my free Facebook Group too? I would love to discuss this during my live session.
Join and get a feedback from me here facebook.com/groups/goodgentlemangroup/. I go on Facebook live every 2nd Tuesday of the month at 6:30 PST | 9:30 EST. See you there!
Let me tell u bro, never tell a woman what u feel first. Let her come up with the idea of a relationship.
Good lord ive never been breadcrumbed in my life ..until
This last year!!! My ex that left (we lived together with her daughter) anyways she left and has since pulled
This sh$t…its unbelievable brutal on one. Id rather her ghosted like my ex wife did haha. Its a hell
Of a lot easier on the system thats for sure. Its Taken a-lot of healing and finally finally finally im detaching and will probably call
Her out on it im sure one day and walk away ..i feel for anyone that has gone through this crap. DO NOT PUT UP WITH IT. YOU DESERVE SOMEONE WHO APPRECIATE S YOU AND WILL WANT TO BE WITH YOU !! Take your pride and self worth respect and walk the f$&k away!!! Its a toxic sickening terrible feeling!!!! My god ive had to read soooo much and watch vids like these to help
Me through this garbage immature thing!!! All
The best and thank u for
This video:) every one piece
Of advice helps understand and feel that one isnt
alone !!! Cheers
Bread crumbing is very toxic and heartless action of the perpetrator and whenever you realise that someone has breadcrumb you just vanish from there and never give him or her a second chance because a person who can breadcrumb you or anyone is heartless and emotionless.
In example two in think he actually made the right move. Im going through a breadcrumbing situation now. And we're both ENM. We're both okay with us dating others.... with the caveat that we still communicate. As of late she's been breadcrumbing me and it sucks. I chose to not engage. Because she gives me the constant line "im busy". Sure you are. Next week I'm cutting her lose.
relationships are Devine timing. If they he/she etc is availiable time current relationship job etc then not meant to be move on. If meant to be it will be. Never except someone who doesn't value as you do them. The future will be Hell.!!!!!!
Just walk away and move on. Its the best thing you can do. Stay frosty.
I hooked up with a girl for two weekends in a row. She was super high interest at first but recently she's been declining my invites to chill and she still responds to me and texts me everyday but I can't help but notice she's noticeably more dry.
sounds interesting...I'd love to explain this further on my FB Group. Would you mind joining? You can chime in during my live sessions every other Tuesday at 6 PM PST. Here's the link to my group facebook.com/groups/goodgentlemangroup/. See you there!
Breadcrumbing is painful. After texting & talking for about 3 months I asked her out on a date. She went silent for 4 days and then responded with blind rage[to the point of hatred] when I tried approach her. Her body language & facial cues gave me my answer - no explanation necessary. Then a few days later she tried to engage me. I replied but kept it very short to avoid the same cycle of engage and discard. i have been in no contact ever since not out of spite but to move on. I'll close by saying, thanks for your content in explaining this dating phenomenon Ms. Love there are lots of people out there experiencing it as I write this.
Waited too long to see her
Being stuck on read for days, or reply really quick, then they fall off the map.
Thank you very much! I've been breadcrumb-ed almost exactly to your description. I am now aware and enlightened. I finally have answers.
You are welcome. I am glad to know that you are enlightened :)
I going through that right now for the past two weeks 😔...
Thanks, its very useful :)
Good advice but I say have a honest convo. Especially if it’s been a few dates you have earned the right to atleast ask.
Hey Ruby, came across your video...and while I agree in principle to some of what you said, what you're suggesting is not realistic when dealing with women who behave like this.
-You cannot negotiate desire. No text, call, email, or whatever will make the other person like you more.
- Confronting a woman regarding her behavior is weak. It's my belief that you should never argue with a woman about anything, big or small, because you will not win. Men are rational and logical beings, Women are emotional. Trying to rationalize with a Woman, or make her understand where you are coming from, no bueno. Not gonna work.
- In my opinion, bread crumbing is just attention and validation-seeking behavior. Most of when this has happened it has become apparent the woman has some sort of PD, usually NPD. Narcisstic women are big red flags for guys because they get you hooked with the love-bombing, attention, and adoration, and what guy wouldn't want female attention? Well, once her narcissistic supply is filled from the validation we give her, share our feelings about her, BAM, she's gone.
- Honestly, just block her. These women don't get what they're doing is wrong.
I'd love to hear your thoughts! (Not THOTS, SAY NO TO THOTS)
Absolutely agree with you. On the other front it will make you come across as a weak needy person and you know how it ends up. Absolutely never ever fall for a narcisstic but that is the world what social media has created
Agreed mate. I said to her behavior is upsetting me in a tactful way...she didn't take it well and I haven't heard back from her in 2 months now. Silence is a message but a blessing. Cos I'm not wasting my time on a woman who is a master of own drama and self destruction.
What if she says “Lets call again later” but doesn’t pick up and doesn’t reply to follow up texts
I appreciate you asking me this question. There's quite a bit to unpack here, I'd be happy to provide a detailed response when I go live in my Facebook group. This will be easier to answer verbally than texting out my response (speaking is my stronger suit compared to writing haha). And, I can follow up with you afterwards.
If you'd like to join this Free Facebook group, please click here facebook.com/groups/goodgentlemangroup/ and then answer the following questions to be accepted.
When I go live on Facebook every 2nd Tuesday of the month at 6:30 PM PST | 9:30 EST, I'll answer any of your specific dating questions. You'll also have support from others there. See you there!
How about waiting several years? casually checking in over time and still no response?
That is actually way too much, if you want to have a further explanation I can answer this on my FB Live. Catch me every Tuesday at 6 PM PST at this link bit.ly/goodgentlemanfbgroup. See you there!
Any tips for dating a single mom?
This is great topic, I'll take note of this and stay tuned!
Don’t
Breadcrumbed are nasty
she is insecure it seems to me.
she might bread crumb my entire family, for meeting her end, seems to have a hiidden agenda
What if she's a single dealing with a lot of stuff at the moment?
Keep asking until someone says ok. Your money and time...SIMP
She's busy dealing with getting run through by men.