A narcissist will WARN you who they are

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  • @WillyNillyBaptistBilly
    @WillyNillyBaptistBilly 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Mine did!!! She said "once we live together I will let you run off a couple times a year when you need a mental health break" I was like "Whaaa?" Now I know. 8 months no contact but did get a once removed triangulation from a flying monkey on June 5th

  • @juanitoloc9378
    @juanitoloc9378 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What I've noticed how they tell on them selves is by talking about someone else. My Narc told me a girl that she knows has sex with every guy she meets. Or also things she spoke she spoke about her mom.

  • @free2be748
    @free2be748 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    They didn't hold back, I'm glad they didn't, I'm also glad I listened and became the one that got away, even they were shocked at how quickly I cut them out of my life...

  • @WaterBug46
    @WaterBug46 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes! He said he never apologizes and will never be vulnerable. I should have believed him as he spoke the absolute truth.

  • @AlineDreams
    @AlineDreams 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This video made me wonder: am I a narcissist, or do I have such horrible self-esteem, I often believe I'm a burden to people and, as such, try to not let them approach me?

    • @AlineDreams
      @AlineDreams 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I've never "bragged" about bad things because I hate messing up and hurting people, but I do often tell people I'm not a good person because I feel I am, in fact, not good enough.
      Well, that's a conversation I should have with my therapist, I believe!

  • @MaryDunford
    @MaryDunford 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think it comes from a need to be the exception. It presumes a double standard based on transient, external, qualities. A person's character is solely about themselves. How people treat others is merely a reflection of that.

  • @bartekgorniak5758
    @bartekgorniak5758 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Most of them will hide from you who they truly are. They were pretend , manipulate you, love bombing etc. But ultimately they will show who they are, if you get close enough to them emotionally. You should be aware even if they dont show big signs of narcism , sometimes those signs are really rare, but they exist always.

  • @kuibeiguahua
    @kuibeiguahua 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    That’s the most insane part of it, it’s all out there, it’s all in the open

  • @Magdalene777
    @Magdalene777 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I find sometimes they will also warn you indirectly about abuse they are doing or plan to do to you. Like an ex was drugging my coffee and based on my symptoms I think it was visible. He would do things like put visine in his eyes in front of me and smirk.

    • @vhayashi7369
      @vhayashi7369 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Wow I'm so sorry! 😢

    • @itchyscratch3829
      @itchyscratch3829 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're lucky, that stuff can cause seizures (or worse) if swallowed. Glad you're away from him now.

  • @polyjb1
    @polyjb1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This 💯. They DO tell you. In the most awkward moments. Like when you are unhooking their bra. Have some restraint!

  • @patricebeene646
    @patricebeene646 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Facts Facts!!! Sure do. Mine sure did.

  • @RedandBlackS10
    @RedandBlackS10 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've only seen that behind closed doors.....never to their partner. Although people will always show you who they are with their actions.

  • @Nerine98
    @Nerine98 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So they sometimes say things like "omg I'm so deeply in love with you but I'm afraid to not mess it all up as I tend to"

  • @almondmilksoda
    @almondmilksoda 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The last one I encountered literally told me that they were trash.
    ... Yeah.
    Believe people when they tell you who they are the FIRST time.

  • @Imnotyourdoormat
    @Imnotyourdoormat 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    *Coming To America - "The Club Scene" Eddie Murphy HD TH-cam Video **2:14*

  • @HatBilly2008
    @HatBilly2008 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes,
    I have known many,
    They said people only like me for a short time.
    I always sabotage my relationships .
    I get bored with people easily .
    My favorite I can never find a person that can deal with my shit.😂.
    Back then I was clueless. I knew something was wrong, but I could put my finger on.
    Yes, they will be happy to tell you that they are abusive, you just have to listen and understand what it means when they talk.
    In my past, I’ve never said I’ve enjoyed hurting someone .

  • @AllNightTNT
    @AllNightTNT 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My covert narc ex literally told me on the first date she had trauma as a child, she wasn't good with long term relationships, and her ex boyfriend cheated on her. Turns out two of those things were true. Extremely true.

    • @itchyscratch3829
      @itchyscratch3829 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Let me guess, the third thing was the other way around...? Always the victim.

  • @IzabelaWaniek-i1x
    @IzabelaWaniek-i1x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Spot on. Brilliantly explained. Thank you 🙏

  • @Doodlefisher
    @Doodlefisher 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I appreciate this advice! This happens just like Danielle said because Ive experienced this too! They always say Im a bad person or they laugh if they’ve done something mischievous that is evil like take something that doesn’t belong to them and blame the victim for not securing whatever they took. My goal is to bypass anyone that displays too many red flags and avoid a scarcity mindset. Not ready for dating yet but one day I will. Hopefully it will be a better time and I will have all my loose ends that I can tied up. 🙏

  • @Agheel963
    @Agheel963 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mine flat out told me what they had done. All just for a reaction

  • @Mike-kj4gx
    @Mike-kj4gx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Several people warned me and I chose not listen.

  • @heatherbowman9450
    @heatherbowman9450 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    45 LIKES ADVOCATE QUEEN 0:59 👑💫✊💍💣💥

  • @richellepeace4457
    @richellepeace4457 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Demons do that...

    • @itchyscratch3829
      @itchyscratch3829 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And vampires, if you "invite" them in after they've declared what they're going to do, it's a golden pass for them to do what they want to you with no fear of karma.

  • @DonnaS-q9s
    @DonnaS-q9s หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nope he never told me

  • @BB-fo5mr
    @BB-fo5mr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You continue putting out the exact same information, recycling points (points that are not definitively accurate or well explained, at minimum), and yet …you continue making ad money off of all this… that in itself is a major red flag.
    Most people who have REAL, long term, Life-altering experience with cluster B people … (particularly people born into it - born to an ASPD) can pick up on the fact that this woman is the narcissist. This woman is the disordered person. She is the cluster B. It subtly reveals itself over time. (This doesn’t apply to all people who put out videos like this. But to many, including the “NPD psychologists” - it does)
    Viewers beware - You need to watch out for this.

    • @bartekgorniak5758
      @bartekgorniak5758 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You cant be sure 100%. She is just spreading knowledge, dont you think? Isnt that good, to make people wise about Narcism? Just think about it. She is usefull for society, becouse she is educating society about narcism.If you want better informations , check Dr. Ramani channel she have awesome knowledge about Narcism.