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I was on a date with a guy and he actually said "I don't *think* i was abusive in my last relationship, i can't remember if i was"
Oh god, that's horrifying
Kassie May 😳😳😳 problem...
Omg...I'd run away
Girl run is all I can say
Horrifying, but if you miss that warning sign you only have yourself to blame. Time to do your best Road Runner imitation.
The first girl needs her own TH-cam channel with more dating stories, she’s so entertaining 😂
Agree 😂😂👍😂
whitefigxo Totally! She reminds me a little bit of Mayim Bialik:-)
She called him Steve from blues clues tho 😂😂😂😂😂
She’s very animated! Lol
@@Wutzibutzi100 thought the same!! shes great :D
The first girl is brave to let him know where she lives 😅
Brave!?!?
STUPID/SPAZZY
Bella Bella she could ask the bar to call a cab for her, and used the ladies room excuse to sneak out when the cab arrive.........
@@ariallelee5917 Maybe she didn't know that? I mean this was five years ago, which means that she has way less experience with guys than now.
I felt bad for her. You can tell she didn't want to, but the guy refused to take no for an answer (not surprising 😐) and she felt forced to. I feel like I would have called an Uber and noped right out of there!
@@truth6565 It sounds stupid yes but I think a creepy guy like that would have got pissed with her or killed her if she didn't let him walk her home. Or maybe I just watch way too much forensic files...
The first girls story is hella cringey lmfaooo
Stuart Love so cringeworthy it makes you hope there is a slight exaggeration in the story.
I think she embellished a bit😂
true
i second hand cringe cried for her
She’s such a good story teller
Imagine having a date
Can't relate
A.R.M.Y hahaha someone liking me is a joke at this point
cries in corner
Thats probably cause you like kpop
@@engiethefriendlyengineer what does liking K-pop have to do with anything?
@@hobiness5849 just sayingggggg
oh honey 😂 me
The "I was blinded by abs" line had me weak 😂
Nicole Meneses we’ve all been there before😂😂
aren't women always weak
I actually dated a guy that was obsessed with himself for *6 months!!!* the only reason I did though was because he was pretty good looking and I didn’t think I’d date anyone else... (I didn’t meet very many guys where I lived 😂 lol)
@@GamingKitties
Who hurt you?
Hi there..Am Clifford like to be your friend if you don't mine...we can chat on good hangout cliffordchrisjohnson@gmail.com
I was on a date and this guy literally asked me " I don't understand I always get girls that look okay but never hot why do you think?" Like dude are you serious😑
Damn that back handed compliment. Don't worry girl, you look amazing 🔥
I went out with a guy that said he was surprised I agreed to go out with him because he said I was “so attractive” that he didn’t think he looked good enough for me lol
Girl your profile picture is beautiful tho
I learned one thing from this
Don’t date in New York
Kassandra Valdez 😂😂😂😂 I Herd the same thing
As a guy i can say the same thing.
Kassandra Valdez I live in NY. Don’t date in NY.
LOL🤣
Imagine you dated someone that look like steve from blues clues
Or are as unattractive as Stephanie (ugh)
Drip 💦
Honestly I thought Joe was kinda cute... 😂 lol (I had to watch because my little sister was a *HUGE FAN!!!* lol
Hahaha that one got me😂
frog rolls I died when she said that lmao
Why, ladies, do we override our gut feelings? Let it go at the 2nd warning sign and move on! As soon as he put his hands on you the second time was the time to say "It's not me, it's definitely you!" and leave.
wow you are mature, you might actually pick a good man
💯 agree with you! Most people now days follow along threw the entire date without saying anything which can be interpret in the wrong way.
I think trying to be polite? That’s my guess. The only guy I let touch me multiple times on a date I married a year and a half later 😁❤️ lol
I love my hubby! 🥰😘❤️❤️❤️
_ON GOD 👏_
Off topic but my gut feelings tell me that a guy likes me. What are the chances of it being true?
woaH WoAH WOAH there b a b y b i r d
*THAT WAS THE BEST!!!* 😂 lol
Hawks from MHA flashbacks
@@dons6504 bshwjsbeidbd yeeees
A common theme here is that these women knew immediately to abort the situation yet they wanted to be “nice” to the man in order to not hurt his feelings. Men are fragile beings.
Sarah Maready and a lot of people think that it’s only women that are 🤣 lol
Yeah because they might kill you from rejection; so I think it's a subconscious survivor instinct🤷🏽♀️
@@MeltingOnYourMind just what I wanted to say
@@jaypritchett6846 from the man prospective there a girl he having a nice time with he not a mind reader
women are taught that men's feelings are our responsibility... and yeah, the whole potentially dying thing too
"Want me to regurgitate in your mouth a little?"
💀💀💀💀💀
I SCREAMED so loud!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣 I dont know whether to be creeped out or find it hilarious! Its creepily hilarious!
It's creeplarious
I went on a date with a guy who had leukemia, I paid for our first date, totally understanding he was low on cash. Found out a week or so later ....he was lying about having leukemia to get leeway from his family and roommates, because he owed them all money.
I paid for the first date because the guy I saw flew from Washington to Southern California and rented a car to spend the weekend with me. (So I thought I could at least pay for dinner)
He was so0o0o surprised that I paid he didn’t know what to say! 😂 lol
In July we’ll be married for 3 years ❤️
Jay Pritchett wow who asked you
@@darklordkitzu I did.
How did u find out?
@@jaypritchett6846 that’s so cute.sometimes guys wanna be treated like queens too
The first lady blocked him everywhere but he knows where she lives 😑 Stay safe ladies x
Like the last chick, I went on a date once where the dude NEVER asked a question about me, in a 4 hour date, which was dinner and drinks after at a second location. He finished the date up by telling me his dream is to have a commune and free love and everyone raises babies together, and OMG I high tailed it outta there.
That happened to me once. One time in the middle of a first date, a guy announced his dream was to move to Alaska and live off the grid. And that’s fine and all, but not for me 😂
@Lews Therin He talked about himself, his ex, his current four gf's, his job, his car, his family, shark week (because the bar we went to had it on, and shark themed drinks), and he spent about 20 minutes telling me about the commune. I responded to his conversation starters, and asked him plenty of questions to keep talking... but he was all about himself. Which was too bad, because he looks like Thor.
Leslie 4 hours??? No way.
*Stalin entered the chat
"I said, 'Ehhh- no thanks" got in my car and sped away." -Me
... always be weary of man-zombies who are decayed in the brain
Omg. I just had a date 2 nights ago on the Baby Bird level of badness. He kept SMELLING ME while we were locked in an escape room! 😳
Hear my words:
Never, like EVER let yourself be locked into an escape room with a more or less stranger.
Nothing good could EVER, like EVER EVER EVER happen in that kind of situation.
Actually I’ve done it before as a first date and it’s been great! That guy was a FREAK 😂 the escape room people LITERALLY TALKED ME THROUGH THE ENTIRE THING so I could get out of there ASAP 😂
"By the way I have a girlfriend"
You say as your on a frickin DATE!
Abby Jaramillo and women constantly complain that men aren’t honest...lmao
Ferien7 yea cause they aren’t and hats why I’m ✨gay✨
Touch my stomach, get a fork in the eye.
Yes indeed
❤️
Robert rodela I'm from Houston
Tx
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Don’t I laughed so hard and I’m on the train
Just Two women share their stories... more people please
To the first girl, on behalf of the male population, im so sorry for meeting the epitome of an incel.
My skin is crawling....
How did you come to conclude that the dude is an incel? And even if he might not be getting laid maybe he doesnt identify with that group. So your attempt to shame him from that perspective says much about you. Is getting laid that much valuable to you that if someone is not you have to shame them?
Mag Neto he’s a incel , you must be an incel too
Blahhh yeah, "mother bird" there is not an incel, that's just a creep. Incels would be people that value relationships so much they believe they're broken for not being able to have them, this guy was just being overly awkward and using some new age hippie lingo thinking he was cutesy and completely misreading the situation.
ok simp
went on a date with a guy and deadass ten minutes in he was talking about baby names
I couldn't stop laughing when I read this🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hi...let's hangout cliffordchrisjohnson@gmail.com
Mooree Johnson why are there so many guys here thinking this is the best place to hit someone up?
I've had this experience.
Yep an men going on date all the time and hear about this stuff
The first lady is so cool. Love her
I was cringing throughout the first story 🙃🙃🙃
I'm pretty sure we all did, I know that I did
I couldn’t breathe I was laughing so0o0o hard!!! 😂 lol
I'd leave immediately after the "baby bird" comment
The first one sounded like she went on a date with Dwight Shrute
I love The Office!
I need the first girl to tell more stories. She's a great storyteller. lol
"I let him talk" that's just a conversation with a man. a dude starts talking to you and 5 min in you're like 'when's the last time i said anything?' and then you start keeping track to see if they notice and they never dooo
Well in order do you to be able to say something, you kinda have to actually say something.
@@glowhoo9226 Believe me, we do. But a lot of times it doesn't even matter if we utter anything, they'll just keep yapping away about the same thing without ever even engaging with anything we say.
And then they say ''the conversation with you is great!!'
I know right. Or sometimes dude use you like a free therapy session and it's like I don't even know you yet, talk to your close friends about mommy issues maybe? We gonna end up splitting the bill anyway so pls don't see us in general as unpaid emotional labourers.
@@justalostlocal I did not know that girls have to bear with this as well. I do not know a single man that behaves that way.
"He seemed normal enough" 😂
"You mean the sketchy like corner in the shadow? "
😂 😂 😂 😂
Blues Clues Guy: "I'm sure you have great ovaries"
Me: THIS MAN IS JACK THE RIPPER! RUUUUN!!!
Moral of all stories: Don't date hot guys.
I have to thank my parents for not giving me a symmetrical face. Who knew ugliness was attractive?
I married one! 😉 lol and he says I could me a model 🥰
I love my hubby 🥰😘❤️❤️❤️
The first guy wasn't hot though and he turned out to be the worst lol
I’ll never get over the time a guy told me he wasn’t looking for anything serious, he just “wanted a muse.”
I need more of that girl from New York 😂
I would have noped out after the first "baby bird".
Stephanie you are a whole mood gurlllll
That first story sounds like one of those pranks where the dude has an earpiece and is being told by someone else what to say.
IMPRACTICAL JOKER'S?!?
MTV’s Worst Disaster Dates. 😅
this makes me never wanna date anyone again, ever.
Good go and buy a pet, future cat Lady.
Zil bet 🤣🤣
On a first date with a guy he took me hiking and accidentally hit me in the head with a large branch which caused a small concussion
We’ve been together for 2 years
Rachel Cunningham cute !!
This is why girls have to stop worrying about "being nice" lol geez
That's fine, you don't have to be nice. Just as long as you understand that people are under no obligation to be nice to you then either.
Oh no I meant in the sense that we can tend to let things go past our comfort levels and bypass red flags so as to not seem rude. I would never suggest people should be less nice lol just that we should be better at sticking with our guns when something doesnt feel right or makes us uncomfortable.
@@lydia1285 This is true for every person with certain personality traits. It's not a girls' only issue. There are lots of men who keep saying 'yes' to things just to not upset their date, girlfriend or wife.
@@youknowwho9247 I know its a people issue not a gender one but the video happens to be about these women
This vid is a whole MOOD
The second lady was like “never listen to your mother” yes that’s me 😅😂
The first girl reminds me of Natasha Lyonne from orange is the new black😄
Lol
The first lady is an amazing storyteller! 👌🏻
When my first bad date happened I was in such disbelief that all of what he was saying and doing was real life. The utter shock when you realize “wow this is my first bad date”. Then panic sets in on how to get out.
"Woah woah woah babybird" has the same energy as "are you lost babygorl?" 😳😂
Clown class? Bad smell? Conspiracies? Was it Shane Dawson?
That “baby bird” one was *insane!!!* 😂 lol when I was dating, I didn’t meet many guys, but they were all in person.
The only person I met online was my hubby, and that was when it was first coming out, so when you told people that that’s where you met they’d give you a “funny look” lol
I love my hubby 🥰😘❤️❤️❤️
“Looked like Steve from Blue’s Clues”
You say that like it’s a bad thing. Steve was cute
T3R3PY_P1P3S I think Joe was cute (my little sister was addicted to the show, so I had to watch it pretty much every day lol)
I honestly don't give any leeway if I don't wanna do something. A guy at uni was trying to get me to go on a date with him, was really guilt trippy about it, then told me "well I've already booked the restaurant so suit up" and I was just like....yeahhh, no. Then he complained that he would lose money on his booking, so I told him he shouldn't have booked it when I'd already said no. Then he started texting me that he was outside, and was I really gonna leave him out in the cold??! A) it's not even that cold and B) yes I am
I cried so hard at "Steve from Blue's Clues" brooooooo
debrahamz *ME TOO!!!* 😂 lol
Talked to this guy on okcupid for like 3 weeks, kept trying to meet him but he kept saying he was busy and what not. Eventually he dropped the bomb of having cancer, thats why he couldn't meet me. Kept talking for like 3 more weeks before I decided that I couldn't continue this was too much for me. I was like 21 and never met the guy, but I still felt so guilty about it. Like he has cancer and you can't be patient and like potentially date him. Well year or 2 later someone shared a news story about him getting in trouble cause he made a GoFundMe for bills.... that's when I learned he never had cancer. I felt so guilty for not sticking it out but then learned about this and was like wowwww I felt so bad. Pretty sure I cried after deciding I was "too weak".
"he smelled like shrimp, rotten eggs, and horror."
For some reason Joey from friends kept popping up in my head 😂
“How you doin?”
🤣
😂
omg I relate to the second girl’s, second story....i’ve been on a date where the dude just talks about himself the ENTIRE time.
The first girl was “you had me at hel- restraining order”
That first story was gold! I think she went on a date with Steve's "special" cousin.
"I could die right now" LOOL preach
That first lady was also in the Preschool teachers share horror stories video by as/is
I just love the first girl, she's amazing I can't..... Would love to have her as a friend 😂❤️
imagine: steve from blues clues caresses your stomach and compliments your ovaries 😳
*when you've never even been on a date*
Woah there, baby bird
Ask someone
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If you are a woman of legal age and of sound kind and body it is entirely your fault that you’ve never been on a date.
Baby bird??
Are you serious rn?
"Baby Bird" is even more hilarious once you realize it is Chris D'elia's catch phrase from Undateable.
baby bird😂😂💀
dummy dum *THAT WAS THE BEST!!!!* 😂 lol
OMG The first girl's story literally happened to me to LMAO I was on a date with someone and he did this whole "I saved you!" Thing ig was so cringy. He is a nice guy and we are still friendly but that was so imberresing 😅😅😅
Ok but the way Stephanie told the stories was just hilarious, I loved her hahah
This is the most relatable video on dating that I’ve ever seen. There are such weirdos out there y’all!
"I am just shallow like that I guess..."
FULLL A+ FOR HONESTY
"Mom needed to hook me up with someone immediately"
CAN'T RELATE
Hygiene is so important. 😷
My most cringe-worthy moment: I was at a house party of salsa dancers and a guy I'd never seen before asked me to dance. I thought, "Okay, nothing too out of the ordinary" because salsa is a social dance, and you dance with everybody there, and it means nothing romantic. Well instead of salsa he pulled me in to him for a close, slow dance, was very obviously trying to kiss me as I kept my head turned away from him avoiding him (he had his face really close to mine which is why I turned away). Like, I had just met this guy less than five minutes ago, slow tf down!!! But I felt like it would be rude to walk away mid-dance, so for some stupid reason I was going to just stick it out and bear through it for the remainder of the song. THEN the super cringe-worthy thing happened. He took my hand and put my thumb in his mouth. I was just like "WFT?!?!" and high-tailed it out of there mid-song after that. He sat in the corner of the room sulking at staring at me for a while before finally leaving the party.
Hufflepuff710 omg what a weirdo! 😳
It's funny when the girl mention how her mom got her a date, reminds me of a time when I met this older women at a human resource in Universal Studios and all of sudden during the interview she started to introduce me to her daughter like " this her " " she's in college " giving details about her and then she said but you're very nice and smell good, you know what I have connections to this place I will be right back and as soon as she enters the room she was like forget this interview you got the job, Just fill out your information here and you will be ready to go. She would even invite me to lunch a couple of times even tho my lunch break was 30mins, she said she had the power to give me 1hour lunch breaks. Till this day I really don't know if the mom wanted to get to know me more or wanted me to hook up with her daughter.
Definitely for herself because if it was for her daughter then she would have set you up on a date with her by now.
Both fool
Finally topic I have experience in
Stephanie: You don’t own them ANYTHING!
Julie: DONT GO OUT WITH A GUYS WHO IS HOT OR LISTEN TO YOUR MOM (sometimes)
When I was 18 a guy came into my work and told me I was a reincarnated bird demon. He said it like he was flirting though? Some people are just weird.
Shannon 025 hehehehehehehe
I was once threatened with a “tirade of abuse” if I didn’t reconsider a second date with a guy. Until then he seemed like a cool guy, but I genuinely felt no connection and I didn’t know why. I cried out of fear after he said that to me, thinking that I didn’t want to date if I was going to be threatened just for not feeling something
The last one😂😂 i really can undrestand the being funny part
I was on two dates with a guy and he was kinda weird so I decided not to go on a third one. When he asked and I said no he came to my apartment and called me to open the door. I obviously didn't answer nor did I let him in. A few minutes later it knocked on my door, turns out he had waited for someone to leave the apartment so he could get in. He knew I was home since earlier so I felt like I had to open. Big mistake. He rushed in and kissed me before he began a speech about how he wanted to be with me and how he was ready to fly to my city every weekend just to see me (he lived on the other side of the country thank god). After TWO dates???
I love this type of video!!! Just confirms to me that I am normal. At least I'm more normal than the weirdos. LOL
they're both great storytellers
Am I the only one who cringed when I saw the " way to into himself" yikes
Dear God these poor women. The way she said baby bird had me DYING
Just imagine dating someone
*just imagine*
Honestly 7:20 is a real issue.... I struggle with it alot and actually caused me all sorts of mental trauma as well as a eating disorder. Of course other things factor in to it but it was a huge part of it. However apart from that the dude did seem very self absorbed.
2:05 you really coulda suggested not eating a snack while watching this 🤢
I remember going on a date with this guy I met on Tinder. As soon as we met up, I immediately noticed he was short. Like, he was my height and I'm 5'3. But whatevs, right? We went out for BBQ and talked a bit. I noticed he was kinda into the date as he was making these gestures like leaning into me or leaning his head near my head, etc. But I just wasn't into him. His personality and mine really didn't match imo. As he was walking me home, he asked if he could hold my hand. My gawd. I was already freaking out a bit about the part of him knowing where I live (I don't remember why I didn't refuse his offer to walk me home, I think it was because of timidness). In the end, I kept making a ton of excuses about how I didn't know him yet and that holding hands for me is an intimate thing yadda yadda yadda. Awkward.
@@pianoandkpop You're right! To be honest, I would have declined but I guess I was too stunned by the awkwardness. There are just some moments when the awkwardness is too real and I forget what to do 😂
Here's to hoping to never have a story like the ones in this video.
Reguritation is hot! Said no woman.
Idk look on porn hub
@@engiethefriendlyengineer I'd rather not. Thanks 🤣
@@alleycatalog I don't blame you.
Let’s all be real, women are more sexist and assault more than men FACTS
@@adrianayo2024 Saying something with absolutely no sources to back you up and then shouting facts at the end of it doesn't actually make what you said a fact.
I once had a date where the guy GOT UP on a kissing scene to use the restroom because he felt awkward. It gets worst. The third time he got up to use the restroom... the dummy opened the “emergency exit” where the alarm went off in the middle of the movie. I legit should have just left but I wanted to be nice. I learned then to just leave the guy even if he embarrasses himself.
Stephanie is hilarious and I want to be her friend.
I’m so glad I am old and out of this painful game - I’m sure women are glad too.
Omg. This baby bird story is horrifying I would have left phew. Then again I’m speaking at my current age, younger I might have stayed.
I was on a date with this guy that i had a huge crush on.We met on this restaurant and we ordered some drinks.After some time the bill came in and I offered to pay for it and he obliged.I was happy until he told me that he intentionally didn’t bring any money on his wallet and also his wallet is torn and that I should buy him a new one.
Totally agree about self absorbed actors
well no dates in New York for me lol
“Just way to into himself” smh
1st story is the most hilarious thing I heard in ages 😂😂
1:29 to 2:07 ok, this cracked me up!!! I mean seriously?!? Who goes on a date and calls there date a "'baby bird?"" What?!?
julie needs to have social media pls 🥺
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