Masturbation could be seen as any other bad habit Go for a walk , ride a bike , skate board , word search puzzle just do something that is good for you . sex and orgasm is what connects two people of the opposite sex with each other in a very deep way .
I didn’t watch the full vid, but watching corn white stimulating sex causes a chemical reaction in your brain the convinces you that you have a stronger bond with the person in the video, which causes an addiction due to that connection that causes a positive stimulation in the brain. Better to just go on a run whenever you get the urges to see them as a punishment or transfer the positive thoughts from when you feel like beating it into positive thoughts when you exercise and make it way better for yourself. Just my thoughts:) Edit: jsyk I didn’t watch the vid so these are just my thoughts from what ik rn.
Glad i changed my weird habits, this video and the animations are very cool, you people are really doing something incredible every time you post a video. Glad I can watch
I think it's so addictive because it's one of the easiest and most accessible ways to just make yourself feel an emotion that distracts us from *actually* getting our messed up life together and make a meaning out of it. Our brain gets exhausted just from looking at the amount of hard work we need to invest in our life to make it better, so we just choose to have an orgasm instead of taking care of our own life.
Also, it's an activity that doesn't require too much time. Add this to the easy accessibility already mentioned and you have something easily addictive.
@Glauco.gloster2007 I think Society is the culprit for the extra layer of shame/guilt many people feel during post-nut clarity. Because masturbation is seen as peculiar and a laughing subject when it's literally not. So, not discussing it at all only leads to people struggling with an addiction and not knowing how to get out of it while drowning in shame.
I appreciate that this isn't another "here's why it's bad" video. It feels more like a "this might be why you struggle with it" video, which feels empowering, rather than shaming. At least that's how I took it.
@@Nave6W If you were hoping that’s something I’m insecure about, my name is literally Fluff Lord. But it’s okay dude. There are worse corners of the internet to lash out than a psych 2 go video. I hope you find whatever it is you’re looking for.
@thegunsngloryshowReally sick of people making out that masterbating is inherently a bad thing. It's only bad you don't learn self control and do it in MODERATION. It's the same concept with video games but for me I can go for a week without going on the playstation. I can do all nighters then I'll stop playing when I want to.
Finishes the deed, get notification, reflects on life Edit: fellas please stop it i cant do it while there youtube notifications making my phone a working drill
Nah bro, this thought or the whole train of thought has been in me after 3 months I properly started doing it ! So you're not the only one, out of 100 81-85 Males have this, I've seen it in Real (not reel) !! The only ones who don't get that thought are the people who are Doing well, in/with whatever they want to, & at least 1 & at most All the close people to them appreciate them with whatever they do, or are going to do, or have done, AND They don't regret Almost ANY Of their decision, WHAT-SO-EVER!! Only those people don't get these thoughts, and I've asked, a couple of people who fit that category, & they tell me, on some days they've done masturbation for 5 to 8 times ! So yeah, these thoughts ARE NORMAL, FOR EVERYONE, Except for some people, and let me tell you, out of those some people, 97% of those are narcissistic, individualistic, self-before-anything and with many OTHER psychological problems!! Thanks man, I could type out mind, I hope someone reads this, even a little, and if they've reached here👉👉 THANKS🫠😄 !
Sometimes when I can’t sleep it just helps me fall asleep, all that tension and angst disappears, I don’t do it too often but, it’s the ultimate release.
Omggg yes, when you sleep right after it it's so awesome like all that dopamine and relaxation - sometimes exhaustion too if it was kinda umm.. _extreme_ if y'all get what I'm saying LOL - so, so, so great to send you straight into unconsciousness! 😂🙏🔥
@@Thy_Metronome Porn does tend to have a much more negative effect on people and society. Most pornographic videos are choreographed scenes that do not reflect how real life sex, if done right, actually works. It's too rough/violent on both male and female sensitive parts, the "action" often comes too fast and early without proper foreplay, and there's usually no love or romance involved (which, if you have sex lacking love and romance, you are severely damaging your ability to have healthy relationships.) Then there are unrealistic standards for how genitals should look like, even though ones with "unideal shapes and colors" would still be otherwise perfectly healthy. Lastly, well... obviously, a person exposing themselves to the whole world does kind of hurt their dignity... 😅
@@iPlayOnSpica That's only if you view porn in that way. We all know porn is fake, but you don't have to emulate porn in your sex life. Some people like it rough/violent lol. It's also strange to think that all porn has to be about love. Sex in of itself doesn't have to be about love. In fact I'd argue sex is a biological mechanism for reproducing. Love is a modern concept. There is nothing wrong with hooking up and enjoying yourself with someone, even if it's only for one night. Plenty of couples enjoy porn and in of itself is entertainment and nothing more. The people who compulsively use it and allow themselves to be consumed by it is a problem on its own. Just like gun. It's not the guns that cause crime. It's the owner. There are plenty of sex workers who don't give a shit. It doesn't hurt your dignity. It damages your reputation because society isn't open-minded enough to be tolerant of such an industry.
@@Thy_Metronomenot arguing against your own willpower to control yourself and not be consumed by masturbation but for the general majority of men, using porn can become extremely addictive for them. Telling them to use it in moderation is like telling coke addicts to use coke in moderation.
Yeah. I don't demonize it at all. In my opinion it's a natural and healthy thing to do. But like most things in life, it's fine and healthy so long as you stop when it becomes unhealthy or injurious. Then when you're better you can resume, hopefully with a few lessons learned :D @@Thy_Metronome
Women can orgasm with barely any refractory period to speak of, and you're telling me half of y'all _don't_ take full advantage of that? My bet is on lying too.
@@Renikee Me too. I always thought it had something to do with increased pressure building up as your heart beats faster. More blood going through your head faster, maybe? 🤔🤔🤔
I like that you talked about trauma response. When i was in a bad spot, and was REALLY depressed, i started doing the deed much more often, sometimes multiple times a day. Looking back, it was just because it was literally the only way i could jsut inject my brain with positive feelings. That's not really good longterm, and I'm glad that when depression went away, so did this
Everything is temporary anyway. And I dont think we were meant to go our whole life without ever feeling stress, all feelings naturally have their time and place
@@neortik7 No, hydrogen cyanide or sodium nitrite are poisons to name a few but if masturbation has a similar effect on you I would see a doctor given that you survived the wank. However, judging by you profile picture you never actually tried it.
This is what you have to do, stay in a constant state of post nut clarity Just like that you know the secrets of the universe and how to create the most successful business ever
Thank you for being gentle in this approach of the subject. You aren't forcing people to quit and are not shaming people for doing it. Simple facts that can help make a better relationship with our choices.
@@ayyjayy2583 I meant being a master at baiting, you can get addicted to that raw too but yeah I get you, po** is a huge issue and if it's overconsumed it becomes a huge issue
@Insanearc The act itself isn't bad. But it can very much so be.. .. depending on ones level of it and if they lack control ... If they lack self control, become weak and worry alot.. it's not a good recipe. It will mess up homeostasis
Thank you. This helped me understand my condition. I have had a masturbation addiction since I was 13. This also happens to be when my parents broke up and when I became depressed. Hopefully, now knowing this, this can help me work on my addiction.
I'm addicted to masturbation, and I am so thankful for you making this video explaining things. It's difficult to talk about these kind of subjects irl, with all the stigma and taboo of talking about these type of mental issues. Thank you for explaining things, and being kind when approaching this topic. This account is super important, and I thank everyone involved for your hard work
@@JustDilasX better off putting it on hold, because as time goes on you're going to "do it" cause "you feel like you have to". Not a good experience imo.
Timestamps 1). Post-masturbation clarity 0:44 2). Trauma response 1:55 3). Happiness hormones 3:01 4). Natural stress and pain reliever 3:34 5). It can be addictive 4:25 6). Underlying conditions 5:34 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I’ve been addicted to masturbation since somewhere near ten (I gained a porn addiction at 7-8, however. I’m 13 now and still struggle with both), and it’s so damn hard to leave it. Anyone who’s trying to quit porn and/or masturbation, I BELIEVE IN YOU! I’m proud of you for even wanting to quit, and it’ll be hard as hell at times, but you can totally do it.
Hey I'm proud of you that you're brave enough to talk about this. I had a similar situation. When I was 7 my male cousin showed me porn and I was also sexually harrased. Later in life I also got addicted to porn and masturbation. Now, I'm doing so much better although masturbating is not at all wrong to do it on a healthy dose, it's just a way of releasing sexual tension.
@@AR-15goBRRR yeah, definitely! I’m a big believer for not being ashamed of human sexuality, we all have hormones and that’s not a bad thing on healthy doses. and i’m so sorry for you about the harrassment and such early exposure to porn. I’m glad to hear you’re doing better now. Thank you as well for sharing your experiences, dude
@@ruthhammon6610 that’s not the craziest thing i’ve done at young ages lmao i mean, i’ve drank, i’ve carried children, i’ve done a lot of shit. results of addict parents and dysfunctionality
God! This is what we say the generation is messed up! Watching These videos at the age of 7-8 god! I am 19 and got to about all these when I was 14 or something!😂
This is a good video because this video doesn't villify masturbation rather it sheds light on both the positive and negative effects of the deed. Anything done in excess is bad so we must learn to remain conscious of our brain and body.
It’s honestly one of the best feelings us humans can experience. I remember when this would happen rarely for me and it always felt so good. And once I figured out what it was and how to do it, I let myself free (if you get me) whenever I get the chance. It’s definitely a very fascinating experience that we humans are born with, if you ask me.
Sometimes post-nut has almost no impact on me, but when I had physical exhaustion or immense mental stress it feels honestly amazing. Like ten boulders getting lifted from your body you didnt even noticed where always there. Im not religious but I get ancient civilisations worshipping fertility/pleasure goddesses, especially when you dont even know its only the four tiny happy hormones being the chemical reason for your seeming transcendence into Nirvana. Your body knows whats right, your mind unfortunately sometimes doesnt. As with anything in life: keep a healthy balace
In all honesty, masturbation has helped me immensely throughout my life. It's like a wonderful release of tension and stress that boosts my morale and overall well being. I'm thankful that I don't have the problems of masturbating to numb grief or trauma, because I know that it's not uncommon. While growing up, I was afraid of this huge change that was occuring in my body, but in many ways, learning sex ed and studying sexual anatomy helped me eliminate this fear, and has helped me live a much happier life. I'm immensely grateful for my mom giving me that introductory sex ed book in high school. 😊
@@damired Thank you! I appreciate it! While there have been times where I questioned myself as to whether or not I was doing it too much, in the end I recognized that I'm doing okay since my masturbation doesn't interfere with my responsibilities or daily activities in the way a true addiction would. It makes me sad that certain people and certain places deem the activity as sinful when it really isn't.
@@Aberinkula9 Thank you! I appreciate your kindness! 😊 I used to feel super down on myself throughout much of middle school and high school, but after senior year of highschool, I finally achieved true self happiness and confidence within myself. It was a difficult journey for sure, but one that I'm very happy that I took! 😁
I liked the video because it can be a difficult topic to make a video about, but the animations and style of presentation kept me engaged. It was just right! And now to lead a healthier life. ONWARDS, everybody!
@@Psych2goi have a crippling masturbation addiction, especially when i see gay furry porn. my parents have disowned me for my public gooning. it's gone so far that i am on multiple UN and INTERPOL lists. pls help
I fell into this trap when I was around 12 years old or so. I didn't have a very strong social life to distract me from the world of pornography, and stressors at home, coupled with no social life in school and a desire to fit in reeled me into this. I'm 31 now and I've come to that point in my life where I want nothing more than to cease this and pursue something better. It's difficult, 'nuff said.
"...but like anything long-term, it becomes a dependence" Thank you @Psych2Go, for being honest about the subject and speaking about the downsides too. Some people in the public education system encourage it, claiming there are no downsides; but many young people get hooked on porn as a result. Some even feel the urge during class, and give in... It can be a really unhealthy fixation.
@@Smoiiny I had a friend who said a classmate did during gym class. The guy did it in front of the group of guys, claiming it was to stay warm in gym attire on a cold day...
If youre curious about what a healthy schedule for a person is, it differs for each person. I say ride the tide, go with the flow, take it in stride, and if it becomes a problem holding back your life then it's a problem. If it doesn't you're good. 😊❤
I have to agree base on same experience, after masturbating, anxiety and forgetfulness kicks In and its difficult, if you quit masturbation for 1 week you feel confident to yourself and better..
This was a great video for me to get a better understanding on what masturbation does to you psychologically. I've been doing this for years now but I think it's finally time to let go. Honestly I thought masturbation was a good thing but now in the present it's starting to become more and more bothersome. I know it's going to be a long road to recovery but it's still worth it.
thank you for this wonderful video, as of now i saw it as a distraction that is hard to ignore. and then i ask myself why do i keep doing it until i realize its an illusion that i create to escape and to have an answer to my desires, i want to escape this illusion that i created for myself and to see my reflection clearer. let this be the start of my journey of detachment from my entanglement of desires
Anti depressants decrease libido. Some people don't even feel anything down there. The signal from the brain is there, but it's blocked by serotonin re-uptake inhibitors and other classes of anti depressants. I wish it was discussed more often.
Yeah. I really, really need my sertraline, but I kinda like having sex and every antidepressant so far turns me into an unfeeling zombie. Great for the partner because you can go on forever, but there's no desire or joy in it.
I was the opposite of Trauma Response. My urge would come after something good happened such as learning something new or enlightening, completing an assignment, or after working out sometimes. It was more of a “Reward Response”. Still, doing it too often was counterproductive.
I stick a tampon in to prevent a mess and just do clitoral stimulation during that time. It also makes the period shorter bc the contractions make it go by faster @@graziteixeira9394
I’m addicted to masturbating and I only actually figured it out when I watched this video. Thank you so much for making me aware and starting my journey to stop 😊.
It was an addictive habit and it did start to have a negative affect as i craved for that feeling almost constantly. I was able to moderate to the point where i could continue my life without having it be ruined by masturbation. But i still did it excessively. And now at this point of a few years of that. Im just kinda tired. Like the feelings and stuff are still there but theres nothing new so ive sorta gotten bored and/or been searching for new ways of pleasuring myself. But also its allowed me to find pleasure in finding other things that arent masturbation that i really enjoy. My mental health is questionable but its not terrible. So im kinds just burned out from the almost constant masturbation for years. Very interesting video and learned about new things that it can have. Very cool👍
Iv been doing this for years and realized yeah im doing it for these reasons but no one talked about it the same way i suspected is the reason for me doing it. After all these years i felt like wow im not in this alone. Thanks for the video
@@Name-j6nThe Master Bait is a type of bait that has the best non-consumption rate out of all baits. It is a quest reward from the Angler. It can also be found in Iron Crates and Golden Crates.
Once a day to every other day, sometimes a few days pass and I'm not the slightest bit ashamed. When I start thinking about it, it slowly creeps in to the point I can't think about anything else until I do. I start noticing attractive men more often and the longer I go without the more men I wouldn't normally be attracted to become and I am more likely to engage in impulsive and potentially dangerous situations.
@-._.-KRiS-._.- ovulation fucking sucks bro i don't wanna be addicted to this shi but i can't get my head out of this unless my ovulation end. how do you deal with this?
Thank you for giving this ,me as a girl I'm masturbate because I'm stress , problem and sometimes I want feel like better. This video very helpful to me not to addiction and take care our self healthy and mental help. Keep going share more videos God Bless❤❤❤❤❤
Yes vaping and masturbate help my mental health(war broke me)(news,videos from war, I also can drafted in to army), I also have suicidal thoughts, hello from Russia
@@enfpgirlis pooping good or bad? It depends. It just is. The judgement is contextual and even then it depends on your perspective like is it bad for an addict who copes with their ptsd jorkin it to prevent ending it? Etc The same way pooping too much becomes an issue and too little is a different problem. And for whom? An adult maybe it’s weird but what about a very old person who doesn’t even eat that much anymore? Or a baby who poops all day Etc etc
Therapeutical counselling can be very helpful in navigating through possible traumata, difficulties, addictions to understand the possible reasons & needs behind it and helping finding healthy coping mechanisms to help enjoying life in a sustainable way. I love how the wife of Robbie Williams, Ayda, helped him to realise so he could overcome his addictions. Now they are living as a happy couple and Robbie seems happy.
I used to do it almost every single day. But when I learned about nofap I learned the side effects. Alhamdollilah this is my 3 year to be relieved from this habit
it's also always difficult to tackle that up to 10% of the population can experience it as detrimental to them or addictive, while (as it seems) the other group sees it as something just neutral or even positive
I’m very grateful for this video. I wasn’t aware that you weren’t supposed to self-soothe while masturbating. I’ve been doing it wrong the entire time🤨
Number 5 is such an important one as many people still don't think its possible to be addicted to these things and are blind to the negative effects as a result
The thing people using the "addiction" language don't get is the consequences of using such language. Unlike drugs and alcohol, sexuality is a part of human nature and important aspect of many people's identity. So "addiction" discourse only alienate people from their own sexuality, which would result in shame and guilt. So it's probably not the "negative effects" that lead you to your anti-masturbation views, but the other way around.
I've been pillow grinding ever since I was 2nd grade, I'm 21 now. It's been like the only way to relieve myself before sleep, I do that almost everyday to tired myself, to comfort my body and to not overthink abt other things. It works for a long time but now I feel like my libido is getting low, that's the down side, but the good thing is that it helps me stay true to my desire living in a modest society
Thank you I honestly needed this I’m a young teen struggling with this it’s been such a stress reliever for me it’s like an escape from reality but I have been doing it way too much anytime I’m under stress or something I feel the need to do it
True, masturbation is a normal thing just like sex! People can’t always find a partner to do it with at the right time they want it and the way they want it… It’s a god’s gift for single people/ people who just like doing things on their own.
@@Nowhere9now ain't that the truth! it really is a gift to the single person, cause I don't particularly care about being in a relationship. you have to care about the other persons needs, and I don't really have the time for that, and masturbation is literally all about yourself and what YOU want. pretty incredible if i do say...
good effects of masturbation: > reduced stress > lots of pleasure > slightly better sperm quality > less risk of prostate cancer bad effects of masturbation: > getting ridiculed by your mom after she finds out your habit > feeling embarrassed when dad discovers your search history > feeling unnecessary amount of guilt from time to time > wastes your time when you could be doing something productive instead
The worst thing is adult videos, no matter how many per day, they are still bad, but the deed is just a human needs, and of course if you overdo or do not enough, there are consequences
Depends on the video imo. If it's some professional quality thing yea it sets unrealistic expectations, but there's a reason amateur is such a popular category. Imo.
Going into the dark aspect of tjinhs but. Personally if you have a desired Kink you're into. Your best bet at achieving the Big P is by watching one of fantasies from the many Kinks
Ur channel is an inspiration and saved me. Videos like this can help and save other people, giving them informations of their thoughts or potentional actions. I wish people would understand why people do this type of sexual action to themselves. One of my friends did masturbate due to truama and stress. This video actually helped him and he was able to talk to me. Thank you :) You've also helped me from suicidal thoughts and depression. I hope you continue to help others too. May God bless you. ❤ 😊
I usually help myself with it during my exam week when I can't fall sleep for stress or overthinking and then it helps for sleep. The next morning I'll be cracking do exam without any stress.
I wanna stop but... i just wanna distract myself from the loneliness and the existential crisis i have regularly. After i finish my emotions just feel numb and i forget about the horrors of reality. But that's not an excuse and i still need to better myself.
Brother you can be strong as a man who has a terrible corn and beating habbit I did a 3 week long break I'm not going to sugar coat it, it was hell I was constantly want to beat but in the end I was happier and more confident t in myself because I stopped even if it was only for 3 weeks
Your problems won't be solved if you keep running away from them. It's not like distracting yourself will make your problems solve themselves. No. Let go of fear. It's poison. Stop expecting things to be easy. There's pain in this world. That's reality. Accept the truth & iIt will guide you. If porn & masturbation really were the panaceas that you needed then you clearly would not be feeling guilty. But you are feeling guilty...cuz you're soul knows you're doing something when you should be doing something else. I read somewhere & this really stuck with me. I can't remember the exact words but it went something like - "When you live in fear & runaway whenever you feel afraid everything else you do becomes a cope for not facing your fears."
for any people that is struglling with porn addiction or masturbation addiction: usually the biggest mistake people do is they try to quit two at the same time take your time, slow steps are way better!
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Masturbation could be seen as any other bad habit
Go for a walk , ride a bike , skate board , word search puzzle just do something that is good for you .
sex and orgasm is what connects two people of the opposite sex with each other in a very deep way .
Very good 👍
I didn’t watch the full vid, but watching corn white stimulating sex causes a chemical reaction in your brain the convinces you that you have a stronger bond with the person in the video, which causes an addiction due to that connection that causes a positive stimulation in the brain. Better to just go on a run whenever you get the urges to see them as a punishment or transfer the positive thoughts from when you feel like beating it into positive thoughts when you exercise and make it way better for yourself. Just my thoughts:)
Edit: jsyk I didn’t watch the vid so these are just my thoughts from what ik rn.
Glad i changed my weird habits, this video and the animations are very cool, you people are really doing something incredible every time you post a video. Glad I can watch
@@DonaldRichards-mr3lz couldn't have said it better.
I think it's so addictive because it's one of the easiest and most accessible ways to just make yourself feel an emotion that distracts us from *actually* getting our messed up life together and make a meaning out of it. Our brain gets exhausted just from looking at the amount of hard work we need to invest in our life to make it better, so we just choose to have an orgasm instead of taking care of our own life.
It's addictive because it releases dopamine to your brain, a high compared to normal activities during the day
Also, it's an activity that doesn't require too much time. Add this to the easy accessibility already mentioned and you have something easily addictive.
Couldn't have put it any clearer
It Is all our society's fault
@Glauco.gloster2007 I think Society is the culprit for the extra layer of shame/guilt many people feel during post-nut clarity. Because masturbation is seen as peculiar and a laughing subject when it's literally not. So, not discussing it at all only leads to people struggling with an addiction and not knowing how to get out of it while drowning in shame.
I appreciate that this isn't another "here's why it's bad" video. It feels more like a "this might be why you struggle with it" video, which feels empowering, rather than shaming. At least that's how I took it.
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@@Nave6W If you were hoping that’s something I’m insecure about, my name is literally Fluff Lord. But it’s okay dude. There are worse corners of the internet to lash out than a psych 2 go video. I hope you find whatever it is you’re looking for.
AHAHAHAHAHA Bro is horny!!!
@FlufLord i love you fluff lord
@thegunsngloryshowReally sick of people making out that masterbating is inherently a bad thing. It's only bad you don't learn self control and do it in MODERATION. It's the same concept with video games but for me I can go for a week without going on the playstation. I can do all nighters then I'll stop playing when I want to.
Finishes the deed, get notification, reflects on life
Edit: fellas please stop it i cant do it while there youtube notifications making my phone a working drill
😅😅😅
Post nut clarity becomes post nut wisdom
relatable 🗿
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Am i the only one that after the deed is done just thinks like
"What the hell am i doing with my life why do i do this"
Nah bro, this thought or the whole train of thought has been in me after 3 months I properly started doing it !
So you're not the only one, out of 100 81-85 Males have this, I've seen it in Real (not reel) !!
The only ones who don't get that thought are the people who are Doing well, in/with whatever they want to, & at least 1 & at most All the close people to them appreciate them with whatever they do, or are going to do, or have done, AND They don't regret Almost ANY Of their decision, WHAT-SO-EVER!!
Only those people don't get these thoughts, and I've asked, a couple of people who fit that category, & they tell me, on some days they've done masturbation for 5 to 8 times !
So yeah, these thoughts ARE NORMAL, FOR EVERYONE, Except for some people, and let me tell you, out of those some people, 97% of those are narcissistic, individualistic, self-before-anything and with many OTHER psychological problems!!
Thanks man, I could type out mind, I hope someone reads this, even a little, and if they've reached here👉👉 THANKS🫠😄 !
Post nut clarity
Yes
Honestly exactly how I feel
i turn off my phone and think to myself "i'm worthless" and stare outside and reflect on what brought me here
Sometimes when I can’t sleep it just helps me fall asleep, all that tension and angst disappears, I don’t do it too often but, it’s the ultimate release.
True
This.
The refractory period sucks sometimes, but it's REALLY good for when you need to sleep or need a clear mind lol
i most def agree with this
Omggg yes, when you sleep right after it it's so awesome like all that dopamine and relaxation - sometimes exhaustion too if it was kinda umm.. _extreme_ if y'all get what I'm saying LOL - so, so, so great to send you straight into unconsciousness! 😂🙏🔥
I think a guide to most pleasures in life (like masturbation) can be summed up very simply:
Use. Don't abuse.
People are demonizing porn and masturbation is crazy.
@@Thy_Metronome Porn does tend to have a much more negative effect on people and society. Most pornographic videos are choreographed scenes that do not reflect how real life sex, if done right, actually works. It's too rough/violent on both male and female sensitive parts, the "action" often comes too fast and early without proper foreplay, and there's usually no love or romance involved (which, if you have sex lacking love and romance, you are severely damaging your ability to have healthy relationships.) Then there are unrealistic standards for how genitals should look like, even though ones with "unideal shapes and colors" would still be otherwise perfectly healthy. Lastly, well... obviously, a person exposing themselves to the whole world does kind of hurt their dignity... 😅
@@iPlayOnSpica That's only if you view porn in that way. We all know porn is fake, but you don't have to emulate porn in your sex life. Some people like it rough/violent lol. It's also strange to think that all porn has to be about love. Sex in of itself doesn't have to be about love. In fact I'd argue sex is a biological mechanism for reproducing. Love is a modern concept. There is nothing wrong with hooking up and enjoying yourself with someone, even if it's only for one night. Plenty of couples enjoy porn and in of itself is entertainment and nothing more. The people who compulsively use it and allow themselves to be consumed by it is a problem on its own. Just like gun. It's not the guns that cause crime. It's the owner. There are plenty of sex workers who don't give a shit. It doesn't hurt your dignity. It damages your reputation because society isn't open-minded enough to be tolerant of such an industry.
@@Thy_Metronomenot arguing against your own willpower to control yourself and not be consumed by masturbation but for the general majority of men, using porn can become extremely addictive for them. Telling them to use it in moderation is like telling coke addicts to use coke in moderation.
Yeah. I don't demonize it at all. In my opinion it's a natural and healthy thing to do.
But like most things in life, it's fine and healthy so long as you stop when it becomes unhealthy or injurious. Then when you're better you can resume, hopefully with a few lessons learned :D @@Thy_Metronome
This had interesting timing..
Same…
😂
Exactly
NAWH GUYS CMON
Same
One thing I like about this channel, is that its just STRAIGHT to the point.
the timing is crazy 💀
Fr just finished 😂
Fr 💀
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Y'all wild 💀
I feel stalked
50% ?
Others are lying 💀-
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Yea at least like 40% of them are lying. 90% of every woman I've ever been close enough to know has.
Yeah they’re clearly too ashamed to say the truth. I’m a woman and almost all my female friends do it
Women can orgasm with barely any refractory period to speak of, and you're telling me half of y'all _don't_ take full advantage of that? My bet is on lying too.
all of my female friends do it THESE STATS ARENT RIGHT
LOLLL AGREED
The headaches thing is soo real. You literally feel it dissapearing from your head. It's amazing really
Swear it's so unreal
For me it just worsens my headache
@@Renikee Me too. I always thought it had something to do with increased pressure building up as your heart beats faster. More blood going through your head faster, maybe? 🤔🤔🤔
@@Renikeeyour disgusting stop masterbrating
I like that you talked about trauma response. When i was in a bad spot, and was REALLY depressed, i started doing the deed much more often, sometimes multiple times a day. Looking back, it was just because it was literally the only way i could jsut inject my brain with positive feelings. That's not really good longterm, and I'm glad that when depression went away, so did this
We always say it removes stress etc.. what we forgot to say is that it removes it TEMPORARILY
Everything is temporary anyway. And I dont think we were meant to go our whole life without ever feeling stress, all feelings naturally have their time and place
not if you do it non stop 😎
exactly masturbation is a poison
@@neortik7 No, hydrogen cyanide or sodium nitrite are poisons to name a few but if masturbation has a similar effect on you I would see a doctor given that you survived the wank. However, judging by you profile picture you never actually tried it.
@@neortik7its medicine
That timing is insane man, its legit almost 2 am here.
Great video btw
Pfp checks out
@@tearsintherain6311 fair
1:30 AM rn and the timing is really immaculate
This is what you have to do, stay in a constant state of post nut clarity
Just like that you know the secrets of the universe and how to create the most successful business ever
Thank you for being gentle in this approach of the subject. You aren't forcing people to quit and are not shaming people for doing it. Simple facts that can help make a better relationship with our choices.
Thing is that its literally not as bad as people make it out to be, its actually really good for you GIVEN you arent addicted
@@Insanearc thats the thing most people dont believe they are until they try to stop... too many do not realize the downs of porn
@@ayyjayy2583 I meant being a master at baiting, you can get addicted to that raw too but yeah I get you, po** is a huge issue and if it's overconsumed it becomes a huge issue
@Insanearc The act itself isn't bad. But it can very much so be.. .. depending on ones level of it and if they lack control ... If they lack self control, become weak and worry alot.. it's not a good recipe. It will mess up homeostasis
Thank you. This helped me understand my condition. I have had a masturbation addiction since I was 13. This also happens to be when my parents broke up and when I became depressed. Hopefully, now knowing this, this can help me work on my addiction.
O same
Proud of you two🌱
You can do it bro
You guys got this
@@randomanimatorandgamer9392 whoops, i failed
I'm addicted to masturbation, and I am so thankful for you making this video explaining things. It's difficult to talk about these kind of subjects irl, with all the stigma and taboo of talking about these type of mental issues.
Thank you for explaining things, and being kind when approaching this topic. This account is super important, and I thank everyone involved for your hard work
@@JustDilasX better off putting it on hold, because as time goes on you're going to "do it" cause "you feel like you have to". Not a good experience imo.
Don’t worry bro I also have an addiction to it I at least jerk off once a day and i agree with you that we don’t wanna discuss it with people.
@@JustDilasXnahhhhh bro thats crazy
@@JustDilasX at 12 tho aint no way bwoy😂😂
@JustDilasX it isn't normal but it's normalised. It has only negative effects
😭 Everyone saying it was great timing 🤣😭😭🤣
Meanwhile I'm eating like 👀🤭🤣
I'm actually at work right now, so there's no way in hell I'm doing that while on the job 😅
@@BlazeInferno360why not
@@infinitee1384 Isn't it that sort of thing that you do when you... you know... alone in your room by yourself at night 😅
@@BlazeInferno360 I think in sometime zones it was night.....
Out of topic but i appreciate the male voice, it's calm & above all the speech is slow as well as clear.
Wasn't in the mood before but the moment I saw this video popping up in my feed, I'm started thinking about it.
What a conundrum!
The recommendations are getting crazier. I love it 👍
Timestamps
1). Post-masturbation clarity 0:44
2). Trauma response 1:55
3). Happiness hormones 3:01
4). Natural stress and pain reliever 3:34
5). It can be addictive 4:25
6). Underlying conditions 5:34
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Grateful for comments like this🙏🏼
@@oogaboogapigs happy to help
Thank goodness it's not just oh "masturbation bad." Just don't overdo it, same thing with every other thing.
Why isn't this pinned? 😂
Thanks
I’ve been addicted to masturbation since somewhere near ten (I gained a porn addiction at 7-8, however. I’m 13 now and still struggle with both), and it’s so damn hard to leave it.
Anyone who’s trying to quit porn and/or masturbation, I BELIEVE IN YOU! I’m proud of you for even wanting to quit, and it’ll be hard as hell at times, but you can totally do it.
Hey I'm proud of you that you're brave enough to talk about this. I had a similar situation. When I was 7 my male cousin showed me porn and I was also sexually harrased. Later in life I also got addicted to porn and masturbation. Now, I'm doing so much better although masturbating is not at all wrong to do it on a healthy dose, it's just a way of releasing sexual tension.
I'm sorry. 7 to 8!?
@@AR-15goBRRR yeah, definitely! I’m a big believer for not being ashamed of human sexuality, we all have hormones and that’s not a bad thing on healthy doses.
and i’m so sorry for you about the harrassment and such early exposure to porn. I’m glad to hear you’re doing better now. Thank you as well for sharing your experiences, dude
@@ruthhammon6610 that’s not the craziest thing i’ve done at young ages lmao
i mean, i’ve drank, i’ve carried children, i’ve done a lot of shit. results of addict parents and dysfunctionality
God! This is what we say the generation is messed up! Watching These videos at the age of 7-8 god! I am 19 and got to about all these when I was 14 or something!😂
Very educational! Thank you for doing the video! It's good to speak about it so people know it's normal. Keeps the awkward at bay.
This is a good video because this video doesn't villify masturbation rather it sheds light on both the positive and negative effects of the deed. Anything done in excess is bad so we must learn to remain conscious of our brain and body.
It’s honestly one of the best feelings us humans can experience. I remember when this would happen rarely for me and it always felt so good. And once I figured out what it was and how to do it, I let myself free (if you get me) whenever I get the chance. It’s definitely a very fascinating experience that we humans are born with, if you ask me.
pervert
Masturbation is the original self-indulgence, and like anything else, moderation is key. Great video.
how can pathetic act be pleasurable? lol do better
Sometimes post-nut has almost no impact on me, but when I had physical exhaustion or immense mental stress it feels honestly amazing. Like ten boulders getting lifted from your body you didnt even noticed where always there. Im not religious but I get ancient civilisations worshipping fertility/pleasure goddesses, especially when you dont even know its only the four tiny happy hormones being the chemical reason for your seeming transcendence into Nirvana. Your body knows whats right, your mind unfortunately sometimes doesnt. As with anything in life: keep a healthy balace
universe is giving me messages with this timing bro
Real bro
Your phone listened💀
This was needed, i felt so bad doing it again and i had to do some research. This is so much helpful and thank u
Your body already those it's automatically every few weeks, so you really don't need to force it
In all honesty, masturbation has helped me immensely throughout my life. It's like a wonderful release of tension and stress that boosts my morale and overall well being. I'm thankful that I don't have the problems of masturbating to numb grief or trauma, because I know that it's not uncommon. While growing up, I was afraid of this huge change that was occuring in my body, but in many ways, learning sex ed and studying sexual anatomy helped me eliminate this fear, and has helped me live a much happier life. I'm immensely grateful for my mom giving me that introductory sex ed book in high school. 😊
Way to go bro!
If you feel like you can control your mind, once however won't make any problem, but if you can't resist, perhaps you should do nofap
@@damired Thank you! I appreciate it! While there have been times where I questioned myself as to whether or not I was doing it too much, in the end I recognized that I'm doing okay since my masturbation doesn't interfere with my responsibilities or daily activities in the way a true addiction would. It makes me sad that certain people and certain places deem the activity as sinful when it really isn't.
Good to see someone who seems to be overall healthy and reasonable here in the "internets" every now and then. Way to go Just Alpha!
@@Aberinkula9 Thank you! I appreciate your kindness! 😊 I used to feel super down on myself throughout much of middle school and high school, but after senior year of highschool, I finally achieved true self happiness and confidence within myself. It was a difficult journey for sure, but one that I'm very happy that I took! 😁
I just finished doing it and only few minutes this video, THE TIMING!
SAME
Although....being a teenager I really don't know if it's normal anymore
@@Itscubedslime it's becoming the norm mostly, I mean a lot masturbate every day.
This was the go to destressor for me growing up instead of drinking or worse.
Post-nut clarity is actually a touch of the God asking you "was it worth it?"
or biology saying "you're free for the moment"
That sure hurts.
Your god is a devil then. It's such a non thing for even a deity to judge. Who cares? It doesnt hurt anyone.
Yes. Yes it was.
so true though
I liked the video because it can be a difficult topic to make a video about, but the animations and style of presentation kept me engaged. It was just right! And now to lead a healthier life. ONWARDS, everybody!
I use to be addicted till I got bored of it, such an activity just doesn't hit the same anymore when you're older.
You couldn't have uploaded this at a better time ❤
Yay!💜
@@Psych2go💀 but still thanks for the video
@@Psych2goi have a crippling masturbation addiction, especially when i see gay furry porn. my parents have disowned me for my public gooning. it's gone so far that i am on multiple UN and INTERPOL lists. pls help
@@Psych2gonAh 💀
@@Psych2go 💀💀💀aint no way dawg
…great timing.
Lol 😂
fr , they reading our minds ☠️
👀👀👀
Fr 💀💀💀
Right?!?!
Finally, a field in which i have plenty of experience
😂😂
Yooo
I fell into this trap when I was around 12 years old or so. I didn't have a very strong social life to distract me from the world of pornography, and stressors at home, coupled with no social life in school and a desire to fit in reeled me into this. I'm 31 now and I've come to that point in my life where I want nothing more than to cease this and pursue something better.
It's difficult, 'nuff said.
Well said. Social life is more important than I thought
This video was right on time. Thanks for the info
What do you mean by that🤨🤨🤨
Of course! Thank you for watching!😊
what you mean by right on time 😟
@@Psych2gostill jacked off
"...but like anything long-term, it becomes a dependence"
Thank you @Psych2Go, for being honest about the subject and speaking about the downsides too. Some people in the public education system encourage it, claiming there are no downsides; but many young people get hooked on porn as a result. Some even feel the urge during class, and give in... It can be a really unhealthy fixation.
It legit causes Withdrawal Symptoms. Many are suffering from Anxiety issues because of these bad habits and the medical community is promoting them.
do people actually beat during class 💀
@@Smoiiny I had a friend who said a classmate did during gym class. The guy did it in front of the group of guys, claiming it was to stay warm in gym attire on a cold day...
@@MattP8143 Tbh people who do that probably have something wrong with their brain like mental disorders.
If youre curious about what a healthy schedule for a person is, it differs for each person. I say ride the tide, go with the flow, take it in stride, and if it becomes a problem holding back your life then it's a problem. If it doesn't you're good. 😊❤
It actually damages our brain, I've experienced my anxiety. Leaving it for a week will give you confidence.
Zero legitimate evidence to support what you claim.
So you masturbate🥸@@michaelbrooks742
@@michaelbrooks742 plenty of evidence out there. Do some research before justifying your addiction.
porn damages your brain, not masturbation
I have to agree base on same experience, after masturbating, anxiety and forgetfulness kicks In and its difficult, if you quit masturbation for 1 week you feel confident to yourself and better..
This video was what I needed to hear
This was a great video for me to get a better understanding on what masturbation does to you psychologically. I've been doing this for years now but I think it's finally time to let go. Honestly I thought masturbation was a good thing but now in the present it's starting to become more and more bothersome. I know it's going to be a long road to recovery but it's still worth it.
I've secretly needed to see this video. Thank you.
thank you for this wonderful video, as of now i saw it as a distraction that is hard to ignore. and then i ask myself why do i keep doing it until i realize its an illusion that i create to escape and to have an answer to my desires, i want to escape this illusion that i created for myself and to see my reflection clearer. let this be the start of my journey of detachment from my entanglement of desires
Anti depressants decrease libido. Some people don't even feel anything down there. The signal from the brain is there, but it's blocked by serotonin re-uptake inhibitors and other classes of anti depressants. I wish it was discussed more often.
Yes Ive heard of that because I suffer from anorgsmia but I never took any of those meds.
It's not a guaranteed side effect. There's plenty of thirsty ass people with no orgasm trouble on antidepressants.
How to resolve such issue?
Yeah. I really, really need my sertraline, but I kinda like having sex and every antidepressant so far turns me into an unfeeling zombie. Great for the partner because you can go on forever, but there's no desire or joy in it.
I was the opposite of Trauma Response. My urge would come after something good happened such as learning something new or enlightening, completing an assignment, or after working out sometimes. It was more of a “Reward Response”. Still, doing it too often was counterproductive.
I can confirm that it is in deed an excellent pain reliever, it helps me a lot with menstrual cramps✨
🫣🫣🫣
How do you do it on your period?
I stick a tampon in to prevent a mess and just do clitoral stimulation during that time. It also makes the period shorter bc the contractions make it go by faster @@graziteixeira9394
@@graziteixeira9394Women can do it in different ways, not just there
@@graziteixeira9394 it's not all internal
I’m addicted to masturbating and I only actually figured it out when I watched this video. Thank you so much for making me aware and starting my journey to stop 😊.
It was an addictive habit and it did start to have a negative affect as i craved for that feeling almost constantly. I was able to moderate to the point where i could continue my life without having it be ruined by masturbation. But i still did it excessively. And now at this point of a few years of that. Im just kinda tired. Like the feelings and stuff are still there but theres nothing new so ive sorta gotten bored and/or been searching for new ways of pleasuring myself. But also its allowed me to find pleasure in finding other things that arent masturbation that i really enjoy. My mental health is questionable but its not terrible. So im kinds just burned out from the almost constant masturbation for years. Very interesting video and learned about new things that it can have. Very cool👍
You and I share the same question's mentally.
Iv been doing this for years and realized yeah im doing it for these reasons but no one talked about it the same way i suspected is the reason for me doing it. After all these years i felt like wow im not in this alone. Thanks for the video
Didn’t know fishing was so dangerous.
Fr
Not that pfp again
Bass turbation
Master baiter 😂
@@Name-j6nThe Master Bait is a type of bait that has the best non-consumption rate out of all baits. It is a quest reward from the Angler. It can also be found in Iron Crates and Golden Crates.
I have become addicted to this and I am trying to stop it to get a better lifestyle, so I will document this in edits every week or so.
Thanks for another informative video!
thank you for posting this!
I really needed this
For ?
I need this ma dawg, thanks for the info and knowledge.
Thank you for this.
Once a day to every other day, sometimes a few days pass and I'm not the slightest bit ashamed. When I start thinking about it, it slowly creeps in to the point I can't think about anything else until I do. I start noticing attractive men more often and the longer I go without the more men I wouldn't normally be attracted to become and I am more likely to engage in impulsive and potentially dangerous situations.
thats not normal
This is a relatable statement theoretically 👁️🫦👁️
I have these effects during my ovulation cycles and right before menstruation.
Hmm interesting.
@-._.-KRiS-._.- ovulation fucking sucks bro i don't wanna be addicted to this shi but i can't get my head out of this unless my ovulation end. how do you deal with this?
Thank you for giving this ,me as a girl I'm masturbate because I'm stress , problem and sometimes I want feel like better. This video very helpful to me not to addiction and take care our self healthy and mental help. Keep going share more videos God Bless❤❤❤❤❤
i’m more worried about my depression, suicidal thoughts, vaping addiction, soon to be drug addiction, and like 30 more huge issues.
I believe in u bro fight it
@@00Human0 i got a gf so im finally healing lol.
Yes vaping and masturbate help my mental health(war broke me)(news,videos from war, I also can drafted in to army), I also have suicidal thoughts, hello from Russia
I believe in you too fam
I am just taking my time overcoming my own masturbation addiction.
Wow! Knowing that more than half of us all do this makes me feel less embarrassed about "squeezing one out" from time to time 😊
Alot of people doing it doesn't mean it'd good tbh
It’s normal
@@enfpgirlis pooping good or bad? It depends. It just is. The judgement is contextual and even then it depends on your perspective like is it bad for an addict who copes with their ptsd jorkin it to prevent ending it? Etc
The same way pooping too much becomes an issue and too little is a different problem. And for whom? An adult maybe it’s weird but what about a very old person who doesn’t even eat that much anymore? Or a baby who poops all day
Etc etc
@@enfpgirlalthough I disagree and it depends on the individual, you can say this about literally anything 💀
Therapeutical counselling can be very helpful in navigating through possible traumata, difficulties, addictions to understand the possible reasons & needs behind it and helping finding healthy coping mechanisms to help enjoying life in a sustainable way.
I love how the wife of Robbie Williams, Ayda, helped him to realise so he could overcome his addictions. Now they are living as a happy couple and Robbie seems happy.
❤️
From the comments i think everyone is watching this with mind clarity 😭😭
I can’t get over how good the timing of this was 😂😂😂
I used to do it almost every single day. But when I learned about nofap I learned the side effects. Alhamdollilah this is my 3 year to be relieved from this habit
hey i know you commented 8 months ago, i'm also a muslim and i have a question but beforehand may i ask if you're a man or woman? thanks..
NNN participants taking notes rn
just started doing it today, im glad I saw this video. It really changed my perspective on things.
You should talk more about this. There's lots of misinformation on internet, most of which has ideological or religious postures.
it's also always difficult to tackle that up to 10% of the population can experience it as detrimental to them or addictive, while (as it seems) the other group sees it as something just neutral or even positive
Bro the timing is crazyyy
The internet knows the internet knows
Doesn't know enough tho.
I’m very grateful for this video. I wasn’t aware that you weren’t supposed to self-soothe while masturbating. I’ve been doing it wrong the entire time🤨
Number 5 is such an important one as many people still don't think its possible to be addicted to these things and are blind to the negative effects as a result
The thing people using the "addiction" language don't get is the consequences of using such language. Unlike drugs and alcohol, sexuality is a part of human nature and important aspect of many people's identity. So "addiction" discourse only alienate people from their own sexuality, which would result in shame and guilt. So it's probably not the "negative effects" that lead you to your anti-masturbation views, but the other way around.
THE TIMING IS CRAZY
😭😭
Bro
I've been pillow grinding ever since I was 2nd grade, I'm 21 now. It's been like the only way to relieve myself before sleep, I do that almost everyday to tired myself, to comfort my body and to not overthink abt other things. It works for a long time but now I feel like my libido is getting low, that's the down side, but the good thing is that it helps me stay true to my desire living in a modest society
WHAT
2nd grade is crazy
@@Zenskolol uncensored internet back then indeed fucked me up alot💀
2nd grade is diabolical
Thank you I honestly needed this I’m a young teen struggling with this it’s been such a stress reliever for me it’s like an escape from reality but I have been doing it way too much anytime I’m under stress or something I feel the need to do it
When nobody around so you do😂 let's do you and me😛
@@legendmaster6904 lol
Self-control is strength.
Doing alone is boring let's do you and me👉👌
@@xanderxxvblaze I need to learn that lol
Why did this came on best timing possible
This is a good bit of motivation that won’t last more then an hour.
It's so sad how many people in the comments still treat it as a horrible sin 😢 we have a long way to go as a society...
True, masturbation is a normal thing just like sex!
People can’t always find a partner to do it with at the right time they want it and the way they want it… It’s a god’s gift for single people/ people who just like doing things on their own.
@@Nowhere9now ain't that the truth! it really is a gift to the single person, cause I don't particularly care about being in a relationship. you have to care about the other persons needs, and I don't really have the time for that, and masturbation is literally all about yourself and what YOU want. pretty incredible if i do say...
It has done harm to many marriages, you can't ignore that.
It is a horrible sin.
@@reginald8947 ever heard of the word NUANCE???? 🙂
good effects of masturbation:
> reduced stress
> lots of pleasure
> slightly better sperm quality
> less risk of prostate cancer
bad effects of masturbation:
> getting ridiculed by your mom after she finds out your habit
> feeling embarrassed when dad discovers your search history
> feeling unnecessary amount of guilt from time to time
> wastes your time when you could be doing something productive instead
Well said.
The Cycle is real
At this point I think I have the cure for prostate cancer in my blood 😭😭😭
I mean, aren't the bad effects you have mentioned is pretty much the definition of skill issue?
Masturbation doesn't decrease prostate cancer.
Just quit porn and masturbation and you'll be more happier than you've ever been.
The worst thing is adult videos, no matter how many per day, they are still bad, but the deed is just a human needs, and of course if you overdo or do not enough, there are consequences
Depends on the video imo. If it's some professional quality thing yea it sets unrealistic expectations, but there's a reason amateur is such a popular category. Imo.
Amateur is the best, I can’t enjoy professional videos.. too much acting and very little authenticity.
Going into the dark aspect of tjinhs but. Personally if you have a desired Kink you're into. Your best bet at achieving the Big P is by watching one of fantasies from the many Kinks
Ur channel is an inspiration and saved me. Videos like this can help and save other people, giving them informations of their thoughts or potentional actions. I wish people would understand why people do this type of sexual action to themselves. One of my friends did masturbate due to truama and stress. This video actually helped him and he was able to talk to me. Thank you :) You've also helped me from suicidal thoughts and depression. I hope you continue to help others too. May God bless you. ❤ 😊
I’m 2 weeks clean! ❤️ wish me luck
I usually help myself with it during my exam week when I can't fall sleep for stress or overthinking and then it helps for sleep. The next morning I'll be cracking do exam without any stress.
The timing couldn’t be any better
Imagine getting a notif for this vid while ur at it
Damn... Idk if I'd finish or just stop 😂
I wanna stop but... i just wanna distract myself from the loneliness and the existential crisis i have regularly. After i finish my emotions just feel numb and i forget about the horrors of reality. But that's not an excuse and i still need to better myself.
Brother you can be strong as a man who has a terrible corn and beating habbit I did a 3 week long break I'm not going to sugar coat it, it was hell I was constantly want to beat but in the end I was happier and more confident t in myself because I stopped even if it was only for 3 weeks
Your problems won't be solved if you keep running away from them. It's not like distracting yourself will make your problems solve themselves. No.
Let go of fear. It's poison. Stop expecting things to be easy. There's pain in this world. That's reality. Accept the truth & iIt will guide you.
If porn & masturbation really were the panaceas that you needed then you clearly would not be feeling guilty.
But you are feeling guilty...cuz you're soul knows you're doing something when you should be doing something else.
I read somewhere & this really stuck with me. I can't remember the exact words but it went something like -
"When you live in fear & runaway whenever you feel afraid everything else you do becomes a cope for not facing your fears."
Just enjoy it while you're young. One day you won't have it
Feels like getting married in a healthy relation ship is better :), hope our families become stronger and more united
Awesome, please make another one about "The Effects of Celibacy on your Brain"
I think it would be very interesting to compare the two
The emptiness after makes it easier to fall asleep because it's such an enveloping feeling
for any people that is struglling with porn addiction or masturbation addiction: usually the biggest mistake people do is they try to quit two at the same time take your time, slow steps are way better!
I was watching an anime and then I saw this notification and I immediately clicked on it 💀
Songbirdbabe [after BR]
✔ this warning! hope redheads ain't your fave....
Which one?
@@notmo.I think we all know the type of anime... hahaha
@@pent6841 I wasn't asking for the type, I was asking for the title if you get me
@@notmo. My bad lol, I was trying to be funny.
Oh definitely. It's also a method of pain relief. Very effective for temporarily Relieving cramps.
That means you do it
Real love is when post-nut-clarity hits and you still can't get her out of your head.
TISAJM!!!!!!!
exactly bro. i end up feeling even more love towards her (assuming you're also talking about a partner)
I’ve stopped for 2 months and I don’t even crave it anymore