@@nerdemojireal me too! i had to put 90% of my childhood items in a storage room because they were taking up TOO much space, like a little TOO much. my room is coming along. im not yet satisfied with the results but still hopeful.
My bedroom is what I like to call “An Organized Mess” To others it probably looks like a mess, I always know exactly where everything is and have the things that I use the most out.
Somehow, I can relate. As long as nobody touches anything, I know exactly where certain things are. Like that book I borrowed, or the specific shirt among the pile. That being said, once my family moved something, it'll take me ages to find it
Saaaaammeee! I can find everything in less than 10 seconds but if my parents clean up the room, then I have to waste a painful lot of time finding what I need and "reorganizing" everything
"Your bedroom is you mind's physical home." I love this, and it helped me realize why I feel uncomfortable in my room that I haven't gotten the chance to make my own yet, thanks ^^
Kinda same. I have my own room but my parents dont allow me to buy new furniture because everything still functions. I am not happy with my room, but theres no need to renovate it because soon I am moving out anyway ^^
As an adult, particularly a married adult, I feel like these principles can extend to the rest of the house. Each room has a function, but my and my spouse's fingerprints are all over! Our identities, interest, priorities, and habits are on display throughout the house, for anyone to see.
That's what I was thinking. As a married adult, this applies to every room. When it comes to the bedroom it's also different because it is a shared sanctuary space. Personalities are not as apparent in the bedroom as with someone living alone or in a dorm room.
*1. Identity claims **2:13* Identity claims are what you are, and what you want to be. You put them out there for a reason. This shows anyone who enters your room your interests. *2. Behavioral residue **3:16* Unlike identity claims, behavioral residue is what you unconsciously do with your room. Whether it be leaving a dresser drawer open, or leaving clothes on the floor. *3. Thoughts & feelings regulators **4:31* This is things you put in your room to improve your mental health. If you have a lot of these things, it shows that you prioritize your mental health. Side note: I didn’t make this comment for attention, if you’d like to watch the video through then go for it! I just did this to help out anyone who needs it ❤️
Yeah, I'm totally the "stuff things under bed" type and that made me understand that it's OK to do so, since I'm more confortable in my daily mess (but I don't want other to know have to bother with it lol). XD
I just redid my bedroom, and I’m so glad I did. I got rid of half my possessions, and I know have a bed with no space under it and I don’t have any drawers to avoid clutter.
The app would be difficult to monetize or keep maintained. Lots of great utility apps don't look great or function well, because they lack funding or don't get used for long. So ideas like these tend to die within the realm of 'concept'.
My mom didn't allow my brother and I to have many things in our room, but she gave us our own little living rooms on the second floor that we could decorate and fill with clutter as much as we want. She believed that the bedroom was only for sleep and should be free of clutter and airy during the day and dark and cozy at night. I like it because I get a bedroom like this but I also get my own safe space
My room isn’t messy, it’s just organized chaos. I know where everything is and put things where they’re supposed to go, but if someone else went into my room they’d probably think it’s a mess
I’m a maximalist, every meaningful trinket to me must be displayed like a museum on walls and cover the shelves. A beautiful collage of art and themes. It’s my sanctuary. Let’s not talk about my closet though
SAME! it’s organized and cluttered and styled and pretty and colourful. I’m the same with my closet too. My room makes me happy and that’s all that matters. My family doesn’t understand how I can live in such a cluttered space but I think it’s just how my brain works lol
Same here, a rock i found on ghe side of the road? Its being displayed. A painting I spent 6 hours on? Its right next to the rock. Most of the stuff is things ive made. I also have a little display on one of the shelves in my closet thats entirely covered with things. I love having things, no matter how big or small it just makes me so happy.
I took my closet curtains off so it’s an extension of my Maximalism, the curtain made too plain a space. It helps me keep it looking nice bc I cant hide it :)
I hate to be that person but it's collage, not colleague. Colleague means someone who you work with, and collage means a type of art haha. I can relate though, I love displaying all my trinkets in my room.
I love seeing my bedroom tidy, it relaxes me. When it's a mess it means thet I feel stressed. I have noticed it since 2 months and i couldn't explain it. This video is really interesting and helpful for me
My bedroom is a mess because depression. But I’m slowly getting it to how I want it. Kinda hard because I can’t really buy much and have with work with what I have, which most of it is no longer my style. Maybe one day my room will look how I want it to
Yup. Sometimes our spaces haven’t caught up with who we are. And that’s okay. It can be difficult to even have the energy to fold and put clothes away... let alone get out of bed when things are tough. Speaking from experience growing up in an abusive situation. You are so right about the changing of style piece. I’m in a similar boat. Yaaay! That is great you are steadily getting your space how you like it. Go you! Hope it turns into the space you feel at peace in 🤍
I always reccomend thrift stores to find cute inexpensive items. I used to work at one and found the most amazing things plus my house is almost completely furnished from second hand stores or even free pile scores, see if your area has one! I've been exactly where you are and I feel that having your environment under control definitely can hell relieve some negative headspace. Be extra kind to yourself I wish u well.
My bedroom is also the storage room. My parents work in commerce and it was the only room in the house with enough space to store the products. The furniture is improvised, most of it was found or won, some even built with parts from others. I don't like my room, but it's the place I have to sleep. Not even my computer is something I like, I got it after my father fix it (I believe it is about ten years old). But I'm grateful for what I have, because it's all I have.
I was a bit sad looking at the comments because so many people have a room of their own. I live in a 1 BHK with 5 people & my sweet doggo, so I've never had a room of my own. I sleep on bare wood. For years I've only had a phone, until last year my mom got me an expensive laptop of her choice. I'd have much preferred something I could use for digital art, etc. I'm very grateful for it, but most of my stuff doesn't feel mine. One day I'll have a room that feels mine. And I'll have the space to discover myself like I haven't ever. I too, am very glad to have what I have though. If you read this far, thank you
I feel similarly about my bedroom. I share it with my husband, and it's rather messier than I'd like, with hardly any space to just hang out. I'm never in our bedroom except for sleeping. We also don't yet have the money to make it look nice, though I'm hopeful for an improvement, since we are moving soon!
Hey! I live in the laundry room! So I share your feeling. I don't like my room either because sometimes gets flooded and I've lost stuff due to water but well, as you said, at least we have a room, right? I sometimes get permission to sleep in another room cause it can get pretty cold from time to time. I would just recommend to raise some money and try to separate the products in your room from your part of the space. I did that, got some curtains and did some decoration. It doesn't look as ugly as it was before. Take care ❤
1) Identity Claims 2:14 2) Behavioral Residue 3:18 3) Thoughts + Feelings Regulators 4:32 The video was so nice and the animation was so cute. Anyways I had some free time so I made these timestamps! Feel free to use them!
So this video hits home, no pun intended. When she talks about your bedroom having a lack of decor or feeling regulators, it's probably because you are still trying to sort out your emotional needs. I'm going through a divorce, and for all the years my spouse and I lived in our home, I never once decorated the bedroom. I can 100% can attest that it was a sign of emotional needs not being sorted out. I always felt deep down there was something seriously wrong with the relationship and therefore I couldn't figure out how to simply decorate a space to reflect my husband and I. My subconscious was trying to tell me that my relationship was in bad shape and therefore all of the energy I would have put into making my bedroom (and other rooms) pretty went into trying to fix a sinking ship. It may be a big jump to conclusions, but that's what I got from this video that just makes sense.
From my experience, a messy room can also be a manifestation of depression, a lack of motivation to keep it clean. Keeping your space clean is good for mental health. That's something I still need to work on, especially when I'm dealing with low energy and motivation. I still have some nice things decorating my room like plushies and such. I especially love my black cat plushie, it's a knock-off squishmallow and it's so soft. I like to hug and talk to it to make myself happy. ^_^
when she talked about what you hide away im sure most people thought of journals and "adult entertainment" and i did to but when she mentioned by hiding it you may be trying to get it out of your life all together and that really made me think about my mental health and how, even subconsciously, by hiding away my bad habits my brain is telling me i have the power to stop them, and thats really sweet.
Meanwhile me over here hiding away my makeup and girl clothes cause of internalized shame from bullying and other factors. Yet for some reason I refuse to put my wigs out of eye shot from the door.. Human brains are so weird
Lmao , actually even my room is pink and stuff but My mom’s planning to repaint it to tropical peach before my bday…..hope COVID doesn’t interfere in my hopes (what I mean is…if there’s a lockdown then the painters can’t come and my room can’t get painted)
So I’m guessing you are either a very cutesy and vulnerable person and the goth look is a sort of disguise to either stand out, fit in, or hide your vulnerability, or your just too lazy to change your room from your childish pink phase.
For the majority of my life, I had to share a room with my sister. This meant we could only have designated regions of the small room to ourselves. I had no control or creativity that could show off my identity. I've been living in my own room in my new house for about 6 months now. I actually feel the most at home because I've transformed it into my creativity cave where I do rest myself and feel the most at ease.
I love how they put it into words! my room is all white & there is nothing on my walls because posters and decor make me overwhelmed. Everyone comments on how bland it is but now that I think about it, it does mirror who I am as a minimalist! :)
My husband is a minimalist and likes things to look nice and organized; however I am a collector due to childhood trauma and don't care what things look like or if they're organized as long as they're accessible. Yes, we argue sometimes, but it's never serious 🤣
i have never met someone who would say they are a collector and values accessibility over organization. I never had a way to put it into words but i feel the SAME way. you say yours stems from trauma? i’m interested in the theory- would you mind sharing further?
You guys are my husband and I. I’m very neat and organized person who loves structure. Him on the other hand takes clothing items off anywhere. Sometimes I want to pull my hair out.
Honestly, I haven't redone my bedroom ever, so its basically just a room full of my changing personality. Its kind of crazy, I have bright blue walls from when I was nine, most of my books from when I was 10, my bedsheets from when I was 10, and then pictures and decorations on my wall from age 11 and up. I almost haven't wanted to change anything in the fear of losing a part of myself.
My bedroom says that I am neat but at the same time quite disorganized. I like to keep track of things and I have a bunch of different styles all through out my room. I love your videos! Keep up the good work.
I recently bought a new bright blue bedsheet cover for my bed and it immediately made me feel uplifted versus the black cover I had for a year. Coming from a frugal person, don’t hesitate to invest in your own room for your mental health, even a new plushie or new blanket will do wonders for you :)
You just inspired me to buy the new bedspread I’ve been departing on buying for so long because it’s kind of expensive. Even though it’s just a blanket I know it’ll make me feel more at peace in my room lol
@@paytongrey8558 Im so glad you decided to make the investment! It really makes the bed stand out. And since then I added a wall tapestry in my favorite color and it really added character to my side of the room ✨🤗 get that blanket you deserve it!💓
I agree! A few years ago I bought what would become my favorite bedsheet ever. It was a bit expensive, but now I deeply enjoy when, after having to change it to wash it, I get to put it on my bed again. The color just makes me so happy even though it does not fit with the color code I have in my room xd
lol i share a room with my sister and I'm too shy to share my interests even with my parents, because of my subconscious fear that they always judge me
"big picture oriented vs detail oriented" is something i had never considered about my trouble keeping my room tidy, i alwayse thought of it as me being easily distracted or lacking motivation to do secondary tasks, but that makes so much sense. i think that was an important thing for me to learn! thanks
I arranged and redecorated my room as many times as I see fit, but no matter how much i organised, theres always this feeling that something's amiss. In life, theres always this sense of "emptiness" I feel that wont go away no matter what I do. I got more things, like trying out different hobbies, in an attempt to fill the void, but it just adds to the clutter. Now I cant find myself anymore.
If I could afford it, my room would be so beautiful!! I can picture it in my mind! I've done my best with thrift store things but I sure wish I could just pick out exactly what I want! But I try to practice gratitude for what I do have, roof over my head, food and companionship. 🙏💜
@@jenniferlawrence9473 we live in inequitable capitalist systems where getting out of poverty is extremely difficult and not fully within our control. So it's kinda messed up to tell people in poverty that they just need to "manifest" better
Even with just a few dollars, you can print a handful of photos and get some cheap frames from the dollar store to decorate. Or make something if you’re artistic at all! You could craft some printed curtains out of an old bedsheet if you have any sewing supplies handy too. There’s a lot you can do with little to no money :)
Thank you. I especially enjoy the cat in your outro animation, hopping up on the bed, kneeding a bit, & settling. That felt loving & peaceful. I could almost hear a healing purr. Thank you. Saturday 5 February 2022; 17:41
since a bedroom is SO personal, I don't really understand the pressure to share a room with a partner. As much as I love being in the same room as my SO, I always long for my own space to retreat to when I need to focus, rest, or recharge. But I've been questioned and judged for having or wanting my onw space apart from my SO. I just think the expectation that partners MUST share a room is unfair.
ah my bedroom is my sanctuary, when sharing a room it was very girly and minimalist due to my sister. now, it is very green and my walls are covered top to bottom, knickknacks, artwork, pictures, cool records, plants, vintage little items. everything. i have a canopy on my bed, and the bed itself is FULL of blankets pillows and stuffies. this is my home, and it is so cozy 🫶 i’m also a part of the “no big light” crew, my vintage lamps light up my LIFE 🫶🫶🫶 loved this video, made me much more confident about my space :)
this was awful convenient timing considering i was just struggling to draw a bedroom for one of my characters... definitely gave me some ideas of how to design it considering their personality!
i freaked out when i saw vriska like what the actual fuck KSSKJSKSLHDJSKSSOJSKAKSJD HOMESTUCK IN THIS PSYCHOLOGICAL TH-cam CHANNEL???????? sounds 'bout r8 >:DDD
“Describe your room in three words” Cluttered. Messy. Silent. My everyday battle with depression gets so bad that I would leave my room like what I described for long periods of time. I either never have the motivation to do most things OR I sometimes do but it’s a “spur in the moment” feeling.
Big change comes with small habits. Looking at a messy room can feel very overwhelming, and we often associate “cleaning” with “using all of my energy to sling this room back into shape” in sporadic points of time. It is the meaning of cleaning which should be given a new meaning: such as taking a bowl out once we have finished cereal, tossing our pants in the bin once we have taken them off, or putting the book back once we are done with it. I know it may sound simple, but keeping yourself consistent with such small habits will domino into something big! Another good way of looking at it is dishes: if we rinse a dish once we are done with it and place it in the dishwasher each time, we don’t have to look at the gigantic load of dishes with loathing. 5 seconds per dish we toss in, makes up for 30 minutes that we would have to use to wash the load. I have had a borderline unlivable room since I was a child. Clothes were literally in mountains that you could land on safely from a long fall, trash literally surrounding my bed and I left only a small space for me to sleep. I’m not ashamed to say this, because it was the way it was. When I changed my attached meaning to cleaning and began making habit out of the small things, everything fell into place. I now keep a very tidy room, which looks the complete opposite of how it was (only 2 years ago!) it is very much doable. It’s all about the mind attachments to words, and awareness of small habits
This cleared up some confusing things about my room. I purposely “got into” k-pop just as a lark during the pandemic and it’s been very enjoyable. I felt reluctant putting any decorations from young groups in my room but it does reflect good times I’ve had, so it shouldn’t be embarrassing. I’m leaving my desk calendar in place. Another unusual thing i have is a wall display with small shelves of nail polish. People say it looks like a nail salon. I think that’s supposed to make me want to take it down, but it doesn’t. When I need human contact, I go get my nails done and feel much better. I love choosing among all the beautiful colors. At home when I’m feeling well and have a busier life, I do my own nails. The polish lasts a long time, so even just the enjoyment of arranging them and looking at the teals, purples, reds, raspberries, and magentas, etc is pleasing to me. Also, I don’t have any candles or music set up. I don’t know how to self-sooth, so right again i’m on a path of figuring things out. and last, i spend 99% of my time in my bedroom and i better understand that i designed it to be that way, even tho the desktopand game system and bigger screen are in a different room - all in an effort to get myself out of bed. i love the graphics. esp the bunny room. i wish my pet was that perfectly housed
This was actually a cool insight and makes sense. I get extremely stressed in clutter so my bedroom is kept neat & tidy at all times & always with a made bed unless sleeping. Most items I display are on a shelf dedicated to that that have some plants, beach location jars & shells & stuff that keep me peaceful & I guess "beachy" is how I want to be perceived & than my bedside tables whatever two books I'm reading & my journal.
Man, wish I could be like that. I have green walls and paint splatters, along with the nice air freshener scent of cat crap and vomit. There's clothes on my floor and my bedsheets don't match and my life is a living hell, lol. I can never be neat no matter how hard I try, and I have a bunch of bottles on my table im supposed to be cleaning, lol. My makeup vanity is also just the princess table/box i got when I was 7 covered with a stained sheet, and it's SO unorganized
This is me 100%. I designed my room to be clutter free so that I have a "literal room to breathe". And I put mood lighting to calm my anxiety as well as putting my things behind the cover of drawers / cupboards / cabinets.
@@radit8224 Yep! My bedroom is my escape room. I also have mood lights, but lights give me anxiety too 😅 I can only turn on a dim, warm-colored lamp in the corner of my room. It's tragic lol.
Thanks for this comment. I thought "empty" and wondered what that said about me. I only keep clothes, a small basket with make up/body products, about 12 necklaces, my 7 pairs of shoes, a mirror and a teddy bear. It's not very pretty or cute but it's restful.
I think the state of my room is a perfect example of me. I have lots of things given to me, that people think relate to me or are things I enjoy, but they are really just things that bring them happiness and have little to do with my own interests. For example, I have lots of sports trophies from my dad, books from my mom, and small trinkets from my sisters; each things that they find joy in and assume I do too. I am a very empathetic person and generally sacrifice my own needs and wants for the happiness of others, which is exactly what my room shows: things I do for others. Other than that, I'm detail oriented cause my room is spotless. Lol
@@karengerber8390 Not necessarily, but I do find some joy in others experiencing joy. There are some things in my room that are purely me, such as my technology (PC, monitor, peripherals) or the various light fixtures I set up and take constant care of. Although, I don't generally express my needs or interests because I tend to prioritize others above myself.
I feel like gifts should always be something that you enjoy 50% and the other person enjoys 50%. Makes it personal. You're absolutely right in feeling the way you do, but I hope you sometimes delve deeper into personal gifts you get(?) Like I dunno, people recommend music to me that I don't really like, but on days when I'm feeling up for it I give it a try and sort through it to see if I can find what they were tryna communicate. It's nice sometimes. But as you said, you sacrifice your needs for others a lot, so more than likely you've already done these things. I hope you find your own niche more and that people understand your niche and pay attention to your needs rather than just their own. Take care 💗
@@Komorebiki I hear what you are saying. Unfortunately, the longer I've lived, the more I've come to not enjoy things. I'm 19 now, so hopefully that turns around eventually..? I guess at some point I decided that it was better for me to just forget about myself and focus on others. Sometimes I try to do things for myself, but I end up feeling guilty and have to find a reason that benefits others before I do it. I partly think that the reason I haven't gotten into my own things is because of my helpful nature, meaning that I find people who I can help as opposed to people who can help me. I feel like my life would be meaningless if I wasn't doing something to make others happy. Anyways, thank you for the thoughtful words.
I like that I have a lot of my own artwork on my walls, not only is it things that I like but it's also direct pieces of my personality because usually when I make art I tap into an emotion. This was such a cool video cause I've never thought of it this way. What I also found funny was I have a handful of comfort stuffed animals and soft blankets that I would probably shove under my bed because a lot of people don't see that side of me 😓
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I always like to say that your bedroom is a reflection of your mind. Apart from decor and Feng Shui of the bedroom, the state of the room can say a lot about a person's state of mind!
My room had sky-high bookshelves filled with stuff that I never laid a finger on. When I was suffering from depression, I found subconscious comfort sitting amidst those bookshelves- they helped me hide my anxiety. I didn't realize that until today.
I feel safe & wellness in my room. I have a stained glass lamp that glows 2 cozy night lights. I have butterflies on my wall that symbolize my freedom to soar to new beginnings. My quilt print is pretty & has leaves or flower prints on it. It symbolizes my love for nature. I see photos of my children each morning & when I go to sleep. They are the greatest loves of my life. ❤️❤️
“describe your bedroom in three words”
me: work in progress
Same
SAME rn i have so many childhood furniture and things in my room and we still need to remove it but afterwards my room will be so awesome
@@nerdemojireal me too! i had to put 90% of my childhood items in a storage room because they were taking up TOO much space, like a little TOO much. my room is coming along. im not yet satisfied with the results but still hopeful.
@@kaitlynrussell3769 you got thisss!!!!
Baby owns it :)
"Your bedroom is an extension of you"
Me looking at my bedroom that is chaotic and I have no idea where anything is: Ya seems legit
BAHHAHA same
relatable
Empty and yet, messy. That's me
OOF finally I'm not alone 😂😂😂🔥 lol
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My bedroom is what I like to call “An Organized Mess” To others it probably looks like a mess, I always know exactly where everything is and have the things that I use the most out.
Somehow, I can relate. As long as nobody touches anything, I know exactly where certain things are. Like that book I borrowed, or the specific shirt among the pile. That being said, once my family moved something, it'll take me ages to find it
@@plantedlife YO, SAME THO-
Saaaaammeee! I can find everything in less than 10 seconds but if my parents clean up the room, then I have to waste a painful lot of time finding what I need and "reorganizing" everything
I like to think of it as an extra security measure against would-be thieves. xD
Envy, mine is just a mess
"Your bedroom is you mind's physical home."
I love this, and it helped me realize why I feel uncomfortable in my room that I haven't gotten the chance to make my own yet, thanks ^^
I wrote that description down bc I love it, too! 🥰
@@Bookdrogan It’s such a cute description!
Can feel you. sigh*
Kinda same. I have my own room but my parents dont allow me to buy new furniture because everything still functions. I am not happy with my room, but theres no need to renovate it because soon I am moving out anyway ^^
same here-
that’s the perfect way to put it lol
As an adult, particularly a married adult, I feel like these principles can extend to the rest of the house. Each room has a function, but my and my spouse's fingerprints are all over! Our identities, interest, priorities, and habits are on display throughout the house, for anyone to see.
Yes ♥️♥️
amen!
That's what I was thinking. As a married adult, this applies to every room. When it comes to the bedroom it's also different because it is a shared sanctuary space. Personalities are not as apparent in the bedroom as with someone living alone or in a dorm room.
I once heard "Your room is a scenery only you can enjoy" and i totally stand by that
It's true. We are looking at our inside person.😊 and I love it. ...Husbands in his bedroom with all his cluttered junk lol I mean his treasures😂
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Ohh yea me too that sounds right
"describe your bedroom in three words"
me: i can explain-
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HAHAHAHA. Again, ask your Greek Chorus to do it!
*describe your bedroom in three words*
Me: I can’t explain.
Bahahahaha my excuse is
that I am sharing my room w brother and sister
Um..to many people
*1. Identity claims **2:13*
Identity claims are what you are, and what you want to be. You put them out there for a reason. This shows anyone who enters your room your interests.
*2. Behavioral residue **3:16*
Unlike identity claims, behavioral residue is what you unconsciously do with your room. Whether it be leaving a dresser drawer open, or leaving clothes on the floor.
*3. Thoughts & feelings regulators **4:31*
This is things you put in your room to improve your mental health. If you have a lot of these things, it shows that you prioritize your mental health.
Side note: I didn’t make this comment for attention, if you’d like to watch the video through then go for it! I just did this to help out anyone who needs it ❤️
Thank you for this comment!
Thanks! 😄
“Your outer world is a reflection of your inner world” 🙏🏽
people with depression who would be having very fun lives without depression: *are you sure about that*
Hitting home pimp
Not true.
Facts💯
A mess :)
“What your bedroom says about you”
**you may not rest now, there are monsters nearby...**
Omg-
Nooooooo the spiders are back we need pest control
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My-my mind thinks these things and it’s annoying😔
*I love how they can describe things without offending anyone*
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Yea, i mean they nailed it!
Nowadays it's actually something remarkable
Yeah, I'm totally the "stuff things under bed" type and that made me understand that it's OK to do so, since I'm more confortable in my daily mess (but I don't want other to know have to bother with it lol). XD
lol wish I had that trait too ;(
I just redid my bedroom, and I’m so glad I did. I got rid of half my possessions, and I know have a bed with no space under it and I don’t have any drawers to avoid clutter.
So I'm not a slob. I'm just "bigger picture oriented."
😂🤣
this the one
Much needed comment
Yup, that's exactly what I'm gonna tell my mom next time she calls me a slob for not cleaning my room.
Lmao same
this made me think what if there was a tinder for finding roommates based on what you liked to decorate your room with
omg this needs to be an app. call it roomiez or something cutesy lol
Omg that a good idea
i could never use it, mine is awful lol.
The app would be difficult to monetize or keep maintained. Lots of great utility apps don't look great or function well, because they lack funding or don't get used for long. So ideas like these tend to die within the realm of 'concept'.
@@jnesis555 im not looking to materialize this idea but thats a good thing to keep in mind i suppose!
My mom didn't allow my brother and I to have many things in our room, but she gave us our own little living rooms on the second floor that we could decorate and fill with clutter as much as we want. She believed that the bedroom was only for sleep and should be free of clutter and airy during the day and dark and cozy at night. I like it because I get a bedroom like this but I also get my own safe space
So y'all got 2 bedrooms. Lucky af
@@neowolf09 I don't even have 1 💀
That’s actually pretty cool
My room isn’t messy, it’s just organized chaos. I know where everything is and put things where they’re supposed to go, but if someone else went into my room they’d probably think it’s a mess
Saaaame
Me all the time:))
THIS
Definitely said it for me
"organized chaos" perfect description of my room
I’m a maximalist, every meaningful trinket to me must be displayed like a museum on walls and cover the shelves. A beautiful collage of art and themes. It’s my sanctuary. Let’s not talk about my closet though
SAME! it’s organized and cluttered and styled and pretty and colourful. I’m the same with my closet too. My room makes me happy and that’s all that matters. My family doesn’t understand how I can live in such a cluttered space but I think it’s just how my brain works lol
Same here, a rock i found on ghe side of the road? Its being displayed. A painting I spent 6 hours on? Its right next to the rock. Most of the stuff is things ive made. I also have a little display on one of the shelves in my closet thats entirely covered with things. I love having things, no matter how big or small it just makes me so happy.
I took my closet curtains off so it’s an extension of my Maximalism, the curtain made too plain a space. It helps me keep it looking nice bc I cant hide it :)
I never heard of maximalist but I do kinda consider myself a minimalist.
I hate to be that person but it's collage, not colleague. Colleague means someone who you work with, and collage means a type of art haha. I can relate though, I love displaying all my trinkets in my room.
Me who sleeps with my entire family in the same room: hmmm interesting
Ahhahaahah y e s
Same
yes
Same lol
SAME xD
I love seeing my bedroom tidy, it relaxes me. When it's a mess it means thet I feel stressed. I have noticed it since 2 months and i couldn't explain it. This video is really interesting and helpful for me
I 100% agree with you
My bedroom is a mess because depression. But I’m slowly getting it to how I want it. Kinda hard because I can’t really buy much and have with work with what I have, which most of it is no longer my style. Maybe one day my room will look how I want it to
This comment explained my situation perfectly. I hope you get your room just the way you like it soon :))
Yup. Sometimes our spaces haven’t caught up with who we are. And that’s okay. It can be difficult to even have the energy to fold and put clothes away... let alone get out of bed when things are tough. Speaking from experience growing up in an abusive situation.
You are so right about the changing of style piece. I’m in a similar boat.
Yaaay! That is great you are steadily getting your space how you like it. Go you! Hope it turns into the space you feel at peace in 🤍
I always reccomend thrift stores to find cute inexpensive items. I used to work at one and found the most amazing things plus my house is almost completely furnished from second hand stores or even free pile scores, see if your area has one! I've been exactly where you are and I feel that having your environment under control definitely can hell relieve some negative headspace. Be extra kind to yourself I wish u well.
I relate so hard to this...
@@katelynadams4417 me who lives in the uk:😔
My bedroom say's:
Mixed aesthetics, strange and kinda introverted, and nerdy.
same lol
Same haha
So your bedroom says you're not like other girls?
@@BennyFNV lmao
@@BennyFNV kinda
Before I redid my room I always found myself thinking “I wanna go home” while I was sitting in my room. But now I feel very at home after I redid it.
me too! especially if your parents are divorced, having a room that feels like home is so nice.
I can't seem to get mine together. I just can't get it right. You know that feeling of I'll know it when I see it? That's how I feel
My bedroom is also the storage room. My parents work in commerce and it was the only room in the house with enough space to store the products. The furniture is improvised, most of it was found or won, some even built with parts from others. I don't like my room, but it's the place I have to sleep. Not even my computer is something I like, I got it after my father fix it (I believe it is about ten years old). But I'm grateful for what I have, because it's all I have.
I was a bit sad looking at the comments because so many people have a room of their own. I live in a 1 BHK with 5 people & my sweet doggo, so I've never had a room of my own. I sleep on bare wood. For years I've only had a phone, until last year my mom got me an expensive laptop of her choice. I'd have much preferred something I could use for digital art, etc. I'm very grateful for it, but most of my stuff doesn't feel mine. One day I'll have a room that feels mine. And I'll have the space to discover myself like I haven't ever. I too, am very glad to have what I have though. If you read this far, thank you
So you're basically me.
Hey your lucky that you even HAVE a computer because..... 😅
I feel similarly about my bedroom. I share it with my husband, and it's rather messier than I'd like, with hardly any space to just hang out. I'm never in our bedroom except for sleeping. We also don't yet have the money to make it look nice, though I'm hopeful for an improvement, since we are moving soon!
Hey! I live in the laundry room! So I share your feeling. I don't like my room either because sometimes gets flooded and I've lost stuff due to water but well, as you said, at least we have a room, right? I sometimes get permission to sleep in another room cause it can get pretty cold from time to time. I would just recommend to raise some money and try to separate the products in your room from your part of the space. I did that, got some curtains and did some decoration. It doesn't look as ugly as it was before. Take care ❤
1) Identity Claims 2:14
2) Behavioral Residue 3:18
3) Thoughts + Feelings Regulators 4:32
The video was so nice and the animation was so cute. Anyways I had some free time so I made these timestamps! Feel free to use them!
Thanks:)
Thank you : ) .
Thanks for creating the time stamp!! And thank you for the feedback! :)
@@Psych2go
:))))))))))
Me who doesn't have my own bedroom:
*laughs in living room couch*
I get it. I have a daybed by the front door.
HAHAHA same
Yes 🙌 another couch sleeper here 👍👍
your not alone.
I found my kind of people 🤩
this made me kinda realize how emotionally connected i am to my room and why i should take better care of it
I love for the “experiment” segment where she shows the kids guessing the students rooms, they used MHA students and dorm rooms, it made me happy
This vid was randomly recommended to me today and I feel like it’s solely because of the MHA cause I was JUST watching it 😭
“Describe your bedroom in three words”
*An Organized Mess*
Sad but true
That me through and through
Facts 😂
same here! I prefer to say cozy though. I feel a bit called out haha
Oh! I only knew "organized mess", I should of thought of adding "an", lol!
“Do you often leave your shoes lying around”
Me, and Asian who doesn’t wear shoes indoors: 👁👄👁❓
Only the Americans do that lol
I can relate😂
Lol same
Only heathens enjoy tracking dirt and debris all throughout the house. 🤣😳
Wearing shoes on carpeted floor is a sin 😂
Describe your bedroom in three words.
A bloody mess. I'm not lying about the bloody part
Bland, comfortable and cold.
man
Bad messy dumb
It is messy
So this video hits home, no pun intended. When she talks about your bedroom having a lack of decor or feeling regulators, it's probably because you are still trying to sort out your emotional needs. I'm going through a divorce, and for all the years my spouse and I lived in our home, I never once decorated the bedroom. I can 100% can attest that it was a sign of emotional needs not being sorted out. I always felt deep down there was something seriously wrong with the relationship and therefore I couldn't figure out how to simply decorate a space to reflect my husband and I. My subconscious was trying to tell me that my relationship was in bad shape and therefore all of the energy I would have put into making my bedroom (and other rooms) pretty went into trying to fix a sinking ship. It may be a big jump to conclusions, but that's what I got from this video that just makes sense.
I am so sorry to hear about that my mom's parents are divorced and it is really hard for her
Me too! I’m so sorry for you but glad you did the right thing:)
For those who don’t want to scroll :)
Intro 0:35
1. Identity claims 2:14
2. Behavioral Residue 3:18
3. Thoughts + Feelings Regulations 4:32
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HERO
thanks i'm lazy
Tyyyyyyyyyy❤️
"We often pick items that reflect who we are, and who we want to be."
Me: looks at plushies and painting supplies
"Sounds about right."
OMG THATS ME TOO
I want to be a plushie as well
@@katieschexnayder4690 W-wait
Me except it's fluffy blankets instead of plushies
Wait a minute... why are you me !
“Describe your bedroom in three words”
me: shares with siblings
@Evelyn star my sister left our house mora than 10 years ago. I still have the same fucking wall paint and courtains. Spoiler: I fucking hate them
ah yes, where you have to literally get the measuring tape to make sure it’s “fair”
Same
Hard life eh?
Same. I have a 3x1m space for my stuff, the rest of the room is the mess of my sister.
From my experience, a messy room can also be a manifestation of depression, a lack of motivation to keep it clean. Keeping your space clean is good for mental health. That's something I still need to work on, especially when I'm dealing with low energy and motivation. I still have some nice things decorating my room like plushies and such. I especially love my black cat plushie, it's a knock-off squishmallow and it's so soft. I like to hug and talk to it to make myself happy. ^_^
My bedroom says:
-You little freak who likes everything in order except for that corner.... its like a black hole in there
😱 I think we share a room
That's my closet hehe-
Same lmao
My corner is my bed
That black hole is my whole room.
"do u leave ur shoes lying about"
*disagrees in asian bc we don't wear shoes in the house*
Same w/ Russians
Same w/ Poles
Same w/ Czechs
Same w/ Finns
Trrue
"what your bedroom says about you"
Me: *my bedroom talks?- confused screaming*
WTH😂
I bet my bedroom talks shit about me when I’m gone
The four walls are closing in
"Damn if these walls could talk"
The prophecy has been fufilled
BRUH
when she talked about what you hide away im sure most people thought of journals and "adult entertainment" and i did to but when she mentioned by hiding it you may be trying to get it out of your life all together and that really made me think about my mental health and how, even subconsciously, by hiding away my bad habits my brain is telling me i have the power to stop them, and thats really sweet.
Meanwhile me over here hiding away my makeup and girl clothes cause of internalized shame from bullying and other factors.
Yet for some reason I refuse to put my wigs out of eye shot from the door..
Human brains are so weird
Wow, TH-cam understands me better than my parents now.
Understand me better than my parents u mean right
Why do I relate 😔
I can relate
Same
Same
I LOVE how they picked the bedrooms from my hero Academia. Mina, sero, Kirishima. 🤣🤣
They also had a poster of hinata (difrent anime)
And Vriska Serket!
@@LordZurkov finally someone else who seas that its vriska!!! }:)
i was just about to comment on that- it made me so happy!!
"Your bedroom is an extention of you"
*me looking around my pink, cutesy anime room*
*looks at my very goth and dark looking self*
My room is where color and cute things go. It's private. However, how I dress is 99% black because it's calming and not vulnerable.
As a kid I was/is the tousled opposite of goths but we got along because our mutual interest was anime
Lmao , actually even my room is pink and stuff but My mom’s planning to repaint it to tropical peach before my bday…..hope COVID doesn’t interfere in my hopes (what I mean is…if there’s a lockdown then the painters can’t come and my room can’t get painted)
So I’m guessing you are either a very cutesy and vulnerable person and the goth look is a sort of disguise to either stand out, fit in, or hide your vulnerability, or your just too lazy to change your room from your childish pink phase.
@@zanderblankenship3849 neither, i just like both styles, i just moved here in September and I'm not cutesy and vulnerable
For the majority of my life, I had to share a room with my sister. This meant we could only have designated regions of the small room to ourselves. I had no control or creativity that could show off my identity. I've been living in my own room in my new house for about 6 months now. I actually feel the most at home because I've transformed it into my creativity cave where I do rest myself and feel the most at ease.
Me too
"We often pick items that reflect who we are, and who we want to be."
*looks at hisoka lamp*
😂😂
holy crap that made me WHEEZE!!!!!!! 😆
dude you wanna be a psycho-??
@@yon4d423 NOO i just have it cause my best friend bought it for me
@@quincena get it out before tmr-
you might be hisoka
"what your bedroom says about you"
Me:idk it hasn't spoken yet
I love this🤣
👌🏼 😂😂
Hahaha love this comment 😂😂
LOL😆😆
😂😂
everyones talking about the bnha reference but im onto you and your homestuck one
the vriska at the beginning :0
I’M SCARED THIS GODDAM WEBCOMIC WILL NEVER LEAVE ME D=B
WAIT SHIT
@@shinypie1111 You cant fight the homestuck!
FR ITS ALL SMACK DAB IN YOUR FACE
Hi? 2B and Miku Hatsune?
I love how they put it into words! my room is all white & there is nothing on my walls because posters and decor make me overwhelmed. Everyone comments on how bland it is but now that I think about it, it does mirror who I am as a minimalist! :)
My husband is a minimalist and likes things to look nice and organized; however I am a collector due to childhood trauma and don't care what things look like or if they're organized as long as they're accessible. Yes, we argue sometimes, but it's never serious 🤣
i have never met someone who would say they are a collector and values accessibility over organization. I never had a way to put it into words but i feel the SAME way. you say yours stems from trauma? i’m interested in the theory- would you mind sharing further?
u ok? :(
@Dru Baxter so, there's this thing called, self-therapeutic behaviour
You guys are my husband and I. I’m very neat and organized person who loves structure. Him on the other hand takes clothing items off anywhere. Sometimes I want to pull my hair out.
@@makeuplover4532 collecting is different than hoarding...
who needs enemies when you have -friends- bedrooms who will talk crap about you
That hit differents 😔.
Damn😭
This is the best thing about this comment section.
@@Sarah.MuMu21 bedrooms not friends
1:51 can we appreciate that they used Mina, Sero, and Kirishima's bedrooms as examples
Thanks for the likes :)
BRO I WAS THINKING OF THAT LMFAO
FINALLY SOMEONE RECONIZED IT
FINALLY SOMEONE SAW IT YESS
And there was haikyuu posters which was so fricking cute
YESSS
THAT'S WHAT I WAS THINKING
"Simply put, your bedroom is your mind's home" 💖Thank you so much
Me who sleeps in my cat's bedroom: hmmm interesting
MEOW
....
I sleep in my cats room too. My own bedroom has been empty for years.
i guess you really are No Longer Human
Ahh a fellow cat. 😌
Honestly, I haven't redone my bedroom ever, so its basically just a room full of my changing personality. Its kind of crazy, I have bright blue walls from when I was nine, most of my books from when I was 10, my bedsheets from when I was 10, and then pictures and decorations on my wall from age 11 and up. I almost haven't wanted to change anything in the fear of losing a part of myself.
That sounds so nice. I love that, I like your room.
Me: *watching the video*
Also me: "IS THAT A MY HERO ACADEMIA REFERENCE?!"
Sameee
Same lol I like freaked out for a second 😂❤️
YESSS straight after I saw mina and sero I scrolled down immediately to see who caught on
Nvm I found it 🥺😭
@@gabriella.insert.missing.name. WoO
My bedroom says that I am neat but at the same time quite disorganized. I like to keep track of things and I have a bunch of different styles all through out my room. I love your videos! Keep up the good work.
i-is everyone ignoring that there were bnha characters-
ouhh yeah- I forgot to add hehe-
And Homestuck
i freaked out for a sec when i saw them
IKRRR I JUST SAY THATTTTY LMAOOOOOO
Lol I’m not I was looking for this comment
I recently bought a new bright blue bedsheet cover for my bed and it immediately made me feel uplifted versus the black cover I had for a year. Coming from a frugal person, don’t hesitate to invest in your own room for your mental health, even a new plushie or new blanket will do wonders for you :)
You just inspired me to buy the new bedspread I’ve been departing on buying for so long because it’s kind of expensive. Even though it’s just a blanket I know it’ll make me feel more at peace in my room lol
debating *
@@paytongrey8558 Im so glad you decided to make the investment! It really makes the bed stand out. And since then I added a wall tapestry in my favorite color and it really added character to my side of the room ✨🤗 get that blanket you deserve it!💓
I agree! A few years ago I bought what would become my favorite bedsheet ever. It was a bit expensive, but now I deeply enjoy when, after having to change it to wash it, I get to put it on my bed again. The color just makes me so happy even though it does not fit with the color code I have in my room xd
“Your bedroom represents you”
Me who sleeps on the couch:
👁💧👄💧👁
Same here.
i just love a feeling of a room being snug and comfortable
Can I just say I really like how they draw their characters. They are so adorable 🤍
Thank you so much for the feedback!!
Yes me too
They are ^^
"Describe your bedroom in three words"
*Permanent unplanned disassembly*
Mood
Mood
Mood
Mood
red mess. thats all i need
what i learned: my scented candle obsession is justified
4:20
**Reaches under bed and grabs book**
Wha-
"Top Ten Anime Betrayals"
most people: talking about their rooms
me: *bold of you to assume i even have a room*
Yeaaaaa i mean, since june 2020, my little brother take my bedroom as his room and now i didn't have a room :""""" .......
I miss my bedroom :"
Yeahh we kinda live in an apartment and we're not even broke
Sleeping in the bathroom?
lol i share a room with my sister and I'm too shy to share my interests even with my parents, because of my subconscious fear that they always judge me
@@hah-no. Your friend is a vegetable? I pity you...
"big picture oriented vs detail oriented" is something i had never considered about my trouble keeping my room tidy, i alwayse thought of it as me being easily distracted or lacking motivation to do secondary tasks, but that makes so much sense. i think that was an important thing for me to learn! thanks
Me who sleep in the living room: hmmm interesting
Very interesting indeed.
hmm
Lol, I sleep in my living room as well, I sleep on the floor because my bed is so filled with trash😂💀
Lmao why this is so me🤧😭
Same
I arranged and redecorated my room as many times as I see fit, but no matter how much i organised, theres always this feeling that something's amiss. In life, theres always this sense of "emptiness" I feel that wont go away no matter what I do. I got more things, like trying out different hobbies, in an attempt to fill the void, but it just adds to the clutter. Now I cant find myself anymore.
People that doesn't have their own room be like: 👁💧👄💧👁
also ppl with small rooms lol
@Evelyn Aviles ah yes👁💧👄💧👁
I can relate to you at a very spiritual level. My room isn't exactly mine but rather a study and only I use it.
Siblings room lol
I share my room with 2 other people 😐 the problem is theyre 6 and 4 and i CANNOT decorate it because itll all get broken by them
alternative title: What is your "dream" bedroom says about you
Literally
If I could afford it, my room would be so beautiful!! I can picture it in my mind! I've done my best with thrift store things but I sure wish I could just pick out exactly what I want! But I try to practice gratitude for what I do have, roof over my head, food and companionship. 🙏💜
"We often pick items that reflect who we are, and who want to be"
Me:*looks at the skull decorations*
Also me: yeah dead sounds right
Same 😭
So you've got skull decorations In ur room and Kirby on profile pic? Nice
I’m giving my bedroom a makeover and this really helped thank you 😊
"Describe your bedroom in three words."
I am broke.
Never say 'I am broke.' You are manifesting that reality.
@@jenniferlawrence9473 what if I don’t believe in manifestation😐
@@jenniferlawrence9473 we live in inequitable capitalist systems where getting out of poverty is extremely difficult and not fully within our control. So it's kinda messed up to tell people in poverty that they just need to "manifest" better
@@jenniferlawrence9473 what if they're actually broke lol
Even with just a few dollars, you can print a handful of photos and get some cheap frames from the dollar store to decorate. Or make something if you’re artistic at all! You could craft some printed curtains out of an old bedsheet if you have any sewing supplies handy too. There’s a lot you can do with little to no money :)
"What your bedroom says about you"
Me: My bedroom talkin' crap about me?
Heheh if u don't keep it neat-
😂😂
Our bedrooms backstabbing us
Lol
I knew my bedroom was a fake b****.
HOW IS NOBODY TALKING ABOUT THE MY HERO ACADEMIA REFERENCE edit: Ik edits are annoying but Tysm for 50 likes lmao I’ve never gotten so much
I KNOW WTFF
I KNOW RIIIGHT???
Iida 😌😍🤭
Yesss
YES I CAME STRAIGHT TO THE COMMENTS WHEN I SAW THAT
Thank you.
I especially enjoy the cat in your outro animation, hopping up on the bed, kneeding a bit, & settling. That felt loving & peaceful. I could almost hear a healing purr. Thank you.
Saturday 5 February 2022; 17:41
"What your bedroom says about you."
Me: *You little snitch.*
Hahaha 😂
This is funny as heck-
Starts punching the walls and yelling at them
Neighbors observing the shadows from outside:
(O__O)
Yes!!! ❤️❤️❤️
W h a t
Can you do a video about why people have security items (like a blanket or stuffed animal)? That would be really interesting to watch.
Right it would interesting on this duvet is kinda of security to me atleast
i have about 10 stuffed animals surrounding my bed so i can sacrifice them to monsters first and live longer XD
omg, give the script writer a raise... the words used are so concise and respectful to the viewer😔✊✨
Honestly,my bedroom is plain and boring,yet,I don't have enough money to design it yet
Relatab,e
Me too, I've always wanted my room to look like a night sky/dream/concert/ocean but it feels like everyone has the same room these days..trends.
Same XD
@@saudadeanguish3139 Idk why but you literally explained what I want perfectly😂
I can relate
since a bedroom is SO personal, I don't really understand the pressure to share a room with a partner. As much as I love being in the same room as my SO, I always long for my own space to retreat to when I need to focus, rest, or recharge. But I've been questioned and judged for having or wanting my onw space apart from my SO. I just think the expectation that partners MUST share a room is unfair.
this made me realize that my bedroom is just the embodiment of me being lazy and procrastinating :)
Same
I see!! How do you feel about that?
Me too! Especially my desk
I laughed so hard because this is so me 🤣🤣 I really need to stop procrastinating and get something done!
you sneaky little-
yea I saw all those anime references.
Same
YES
and webcomic references
Homestuck is an anime so true
Nobody:
Me: Squeling at the mha dorm refrences
Also me: scrolls to the comments section
Comments: Nah imma ignore that
ikr? it’s so cute 🥺
I saw Kirishima and went back to see if it was just me and came to check the comment section-
@@eternallyhyukas lol my BNHA senses were tingling as soon as I saw the pink leopard skin of Mina’s dorm.
Ikr
FINALLY! THANK YOU
ah my bedroom is my sanctuary, when sharing a room it was very girly and minimalist due to my sister. now, it is very green and my walls are covered top to bottom, knickknacks, artwork, pictures, cool records, plants, vintage little items. everything. i have a canopy on my bed, and the bed itself is FULL of blankets pillows and stuffies. this is my home, and it is so cozy 🫶 i’m also a part of the “no big light” crew, my vintage lamps light up my LIFE 🫶🫶🫶 loved this video, made me much more confident about my space :)
this was awful convenient timing considering i was just struggling to draw a bedroom for one of my characters... definitely gave me some ideas of how to design it considering their personality!
Could be fun indeed ! Can I see your stuff somewhere ?
I wanna see it art too haha
Some advice I can give u, is to make the whole house in sims. It helps a lot to see what options u have and see how everything is in 3d
@@dailyniconico
That’s true if you have problems imagining objects !
@@atownicpepperoni7217 you wanna see my art?
All references I spotted: Homestuck, My Hero Academia, Hatsune Miku, Among us, Final Fantasy 7 (Cloud's Sword), Pokemon, and Haikuu.
i freaked out when i saw vriska like what the actual fuck KSSKJSKSLHDJSKSSOJSKAKSJD
HOMESTUCK IN THIS PSYCHOLOGICAL TH-cam CHANNEL????????
sounds 'bout r8 >:DDD
Clannad...
@@juuuuuuuunie *ALL THE IRONS IN THE FIRE*
Omg yea when I saw they were refrencing to Mina sero and kirishimas bedroom I nearly lost it 😂
And when I saw hinata on the poster !!!
“Describe your room in three words”
Cluttered. Messy. Silent.
My everyday battle with depression gets so bad that I would leave my room like what I described for long periods of time. I either never have the motivation to do most things OR I sometimes do but it’s a “spur in the moment” feeling.
Exactly same for me
Get well soon and hugs🤗😍and love❤
Yeah, mine too
Big change comes with small habits. Looking at a messy room can feel very overwhelming, and we often associate “cleaning” with “using all of my energy to sling this room back into shape” in sporadic points of time. It is the meaning of cleaning which should be given a new meaning: such as taking a bowl out once we have finished cereal, tossing our pants in the bin once we have taken them off, or putting the book back once we are done with it. I know it may sound simple, but keeping yourself consistent with such small habits will domino into something big!
Another good way of looking at it is dishes: if we rinse a dish once we are done with it and place it in the dishwasher each time, we don’t have to look at the gigantic load of dishes with loathing. 5 seconds per dish we toss in, makes up for 30 minutes that we would have to use to wash the load.
I have had a borderline unlivable room since I was a child. Clothes were literally in mountains that you could land on safely from a long fall, trash literally surrounding my bed and I left only a small space for me to sleep. I’m not ashamed to say this, because it was the way it was. When I changed my attached meaning to cleaning and began making habit out of the small things, everything fell into place. I now keep a very tidy room, which looks the complete opposite of how it was (only 2 years ago!) it is very much doable. It’s all about the mind attachments to words, and awareness of small habits
@@hannahwillis9838 *when you cant make habits because you have bad ADHD and will immediately forget the next week*
This cleared up some confusing things about my room. I purposely “got into” k-pop just as a lark during the pandemic and it’s been very enjoyable. I felt reluctant putting any decorations from young groups in my room but it does reflect good times I’ve had, so it shouldn’t be embarrassing. I’m leaving my desk calendar in place. Another unusual thing i have is a wall display with small shelves of nail polish. People say it looks like a nail salon. I think that’s supposed to make me want to take it down, but it doesn’t. When I need human contact, I go get my nails done and feel much better. I love choosing among all the beautiful colors. At home when I’m feeling well and have a busier life, I do my own nails. The polish lasts a long time, so even just the enjoyment of arranging them and looking at the teals, purples, reds, raspberries, and magentas, etc is pleasing to me.
Also, I don’t have any candles or music set up. I don’t know how to self-sooth, so right again i’m on a path of figuring things out. and last, i spend 99% of my time in my bedroom and i better understand that i designed it to be that way, even tho the desktopand game system and bigger screen are in a different room - all in an effort to get myself out of bed. i love the graphics. esp the bunny room. i wish my pet was that perfectly housed
This was actually a cool insight and makes sense. I get extremely stressed in clutter so my bedroom is kept neat & tidy at all times & always with a made bed unless sleeping. Most items I display are on a shelf dedicated to that that have some plants, beach location jars & shells & stuff that keep me peaceful & I guess "beachy" is how I want to be perceived & than my bedside tables whatever two books I'm reading & my journal.
Man, wish I could be like that. I have green walls and paint splatters, along with the nice air freshener scent of cat crap and vomit. There's clothes on my floor and my bedsheets don't match and my life is a living hell, lol. I can never be neat no matter how hard I try, and I have a bunch of bottles on my table im supposed to be cleaning, lol. My makeup vanity is also just the princess table/box i got when I was 7 covered with a stained sheet, and it's SO unorganized
My room is very organized and minimal. I am a procrastinator, but having a disorganized room and having "too much going on" gives me extreme anxiety.
This is me 100%. I designed my room to be clutter free so that I have a "literal room to breathe". And I put mood lighting to calm my anxiety as well as putting my things behind the cover of drawers / cupboards / cabinets.
@@radit8224 Yep! My bedroom is my escape room.
I also have mood lights, but lights give me anxiety too 😅 I can only turn on a dim, warm-colored lamp in the corner of my room. It's tragic lol.
@@anon0268 yup I do the same thing! I only dialed my led lights to warmer colors and on the dimmer side, it helps calm me down
Thanks for this comment. I thought "empty" and wondered what that said about me. I only keep clothes, a small basket with make up/body products, about 12 necklaces, my 7 pairs of shoes, a mirror and a teddy bear. It's not very pretty or cute but it's restful.
@@gardeninginthedesert You have exactly what you need, and that's what's important ♡
I think the state of my room is a perfect example of me. I have lots of things given to me, that people think relate to me or are things I enjoy, but they are really just things that bring them happiness and have little to do with my own interests. For example, I have lots of sports trophies from my dad, books from my mom, and small trinkets from my sisters; each things that they find joy in and assume I do too. I am a very empathetic person and generally sacrifice my own needs and wants for the happiness of others, which is exactly what my room shows: things I do for others.
Other than that, I'm detail oriented cause my room is spotless. Lol
@@adriannelson6039 Indeed.
Do those items you listed spark joy for you? Or are you being driven out?
@@karengerber8390 Not necessarily, but I do find some joy in others experiencing joy. There are some things in my room that are purely me, such as my technology (PC, monitor, peripherals) or the various light fixtures I set up and take constant care of. Although, I don't generally express my needs or interests because I tend to prioritize others above myself.
I feel like gifts should always be something that you enjoy 50% and the other person enjoys 50%. Makes it personal. You're absolutely right in feeling the way you do, but I hope you sometimes delve deeper into personal gifts you get(?) Like I dunno, people recommend music to me that I don't really like, but on days when I'm feeling up for it I give it a try and sort through it to see if I can find what they were tryna communicate. It's nice sometimes.
But as you said, you sacrifice your needs for others a lot, so more than likely you've already done these things. I hope you find your own niche more and that people understand your niche and pay attention to your needs rather than just their own. Take care 💗
@@Komorebiki I hear what you are saying. Unfortunately, the longer I've lived, the more I've come to not enjoy things. I'm 19 now, so hopefully that turns around eventually..? I guess at some point I decided that it was better for me to just forget about myself and focus on others. Sometimes I try to do things for myself, but I end up feeling guilty and have to find a reason that benefits others before I do it. I partly think that the reason I haven't gotten into my own things is because of my helpful nature, meaning that I find people who I can help as opposed to people who can help me. I feel like my life would be meaningless if I wasn't doing something to make others happy. Anyways, thank you for the thoughtful words.
I like that I have a lot of my own artwork on my walls, not only is it things that I like but it's also direct pieces of my personality because usually when I make art I tap into an emotion. This was such a cool video cause I've never thought of it this way. What I also found funny was I have a handful of comfort stuffed animals and soft blankets that I would probably shove under my bed because a lot of people don't see that side of me 😓
“your bedroom is an extension of you”
mess😍
Yes.
Sorry I don't mean to say you're a mess.
I mean it is relatable.
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"Describe your bedroom in three words"
- *the living room*
@Evelyn star ..ok
thought i was the only one lmao yes
@Evelyn star That was... a mouthful. 😅
Ahhh memories~
@Evelyn star I’m not gonna ask 😂
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I spend very little time in my room other than just going to bed. I spend most of my time, when at home, at my computer desk.
I always like to say that your bedroom is a reflection of your mind. Apart from decor and Feng Shui of the bedroom, the state of the room can say a lot about a person's state of mind!
My room had sky-high bookshelves filled with stuff that I never laid a finger on. When I was suffering from depression, I found subconscious comfort sitting amidst those bookshelves- they helped me hide my anxiety. I didn't realize that until today.
I feel safe & wellness in my room. I have a stained glass lamp that glows 2 cozy night lights. I have butterflies on my wall that symbolize my freedom to soar to new beginnings. My quilt print is pretty & has leaves or flower prints on it. It symbolizes my love for nature. I see photos of my children each morning & when I go to sleep. They are the greatest loves of my life. ❤️❤️
My bedroom feels like best place here, I keep it clean and fresh and when I open the window the sun rays on green trees make me so happy.