Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage ? Which is better ? | Dr. Shalini explains | MT 134

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  • Dr. Shalini who is a specialist in Psychology in this episode talks about the problems that youngsters face in the family and society. She briefs on Love marriage and Arrange marriage. She talks about the generation gap between parents and kids.
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  • @sanjusanjitha5602
    @sanjusanjitha5602 5 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Should telecast this in TV so that parents can understand the love and feelings of their son or daughter

  • @gowthamnarayan1992
    @gowthamnarayan1992 6 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    சிறந்த நேர்காணல். இது போன்ற விழிப்புணர்வு ஏற்படுத்தும் காணொளிகள் அதிகம் பதிவிட வேண்டும்...

  • @samathuvalibrary2412
    @samathuvalibrary2412 5 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    En caste la thaan naa marriage pannuvannu adamant ah iruka yaarayum thayavu senji marry panniraatheenga🙏🙏namma caste la ipdithaan apdithaan nu dominate panni life naasamakiruvaanga...Ketta namma tradition,namma culture nu solluvaanga..don't hear all that BS.Unless u feel like u need a companion,pls don't step into marriage.Ayayo vayasu aagutho nu kalyanam panni naasama povaathenga.Stands for both men and women

    • @the_number_one
      @the_number_one 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you nanba

    • @satheshkumar9114
      @satheshkumar9114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Superb cobra 🙌

    • @capzin7380
      @capzin7380 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ithalam kekamatanuga !!nasama than povanuga!!patta than thirundhuvanga

    • @deepu1252
      @deepu1252 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nirmal jii

    • @tamizharasi1840
      @tamizharasi1840 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Anandan Thandavarayan காதல் திருமணம் செய்தவர்களின் குடும்பத்தினர் தான் இதற்கு காரணம்.

  • @priyasekarr1401
    @priyasekarr1401 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Arivu adhigama irundha similarity theriyum
    Arivu kammiya irundha difference
    Theriyum
    From
    8:35 to 13:03 👍

  • @kiruthikam3334
    @kiruthikam3334 6 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    Dr. salini mam Is my inspiration lady hatsoff you

    • @nandhinik9376
      @nandhinik9376 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      kiruthika m mine too..... She is great

    • @sriramnathsridhar4135
      @sriramnathsridhar4135 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Intelectual women can change a generation all together...

    • @sps7117
      @sps7117 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Then you are also feminist like her

    • @dragonballfan9997
      @dragonballfan9997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      she's a freaking feminist

    • @coolguy0719
      @coolguy0719 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What does she have?

  • @g5realestate280
    @g5realestate280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m a doctor in USA. Dr. Shalini is excellent. Hope she becomes the health minister.

  • @SrinivasaRao-kh7lk
    @SrinivasaRao-kh7lk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Mam ur words are true. Close relation la marraige panni en life pochu. Kaasu panam mattum life illa. Oru nalla companiyaan illa na ellame irunthum waste than.

  • @sathyasurya428
    @sathyasurya428 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The best interview ever. I hope the intellectual talk will help at least few people who still hold on to their caste and religion which means nothing at all.

  • @RemoRam
    @RemoRam 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Bro nengathaan inimay Face of the behindwoods!

  • @palayamkaruppannan1525
    @palayamkaruppannan1525 5 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    No caste no caste no caste no caste no caste no caste

  • @palayamkaruppannan1525
    @palayamkaruppannan1525 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Government wants to destroy caste system. But politicians want to encourage caste system

    • @dragonballfan9997
      @dragonballfan9997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      who said? government politicians and people want caste system :) only stereotype peoples thinks caste are enemy to man kind.

    • @santhoshkarthikeyan7693
      @santhoshkarthikeyan7693 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No people only wants caste system

    • @aarthyravi9965
      @aarthyravi9965 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Politicians definitely want caste system to assess the strength of their vote bank. Government? What is it other than a political machinery?

    • @MariMuthu-mw1kk
      @MariMuthu-mw1kk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Is any difference between politics and government

    • @ramprasadrps9367
      @ramprasadrps9367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dr Ambedkar super

  • @nandhupalani6266
    @nandhupalani6266 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Very useful ma'm.. Amazing vision towards every situation and status in our country!

  • @s.e.kuzhali7014
    @s.e.kuzhali7014 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Perfect need of the hour! Very good one!

  • @ravindarb4265
    @ravindarb4265 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    இது போன்ற சிறந்த நேர்காணல்கள் பல தேவை. பெரியார், கலைஞர் மற்றும் பலரைப்பற்றிய பல தவறான பதிவுகள் உள்ளன, அவற்றில் உள்ள உண்மைகள் பற்றி ஒரு தெளிவான பதிவை டாக்டர். ஷாலினி போன்றோரிடம் பெற்று தரவும்.

  • @jayakrishnan7579
    @jayakrishnan7579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So intelligent and what more, soo patient to explain rational thought to people. May god bless you. May your service continue to reform society.

  • @subash104
    @subash104 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Super , smart questions from various platforms, intellectual answers from a single person......thanks madam

  • @ejr6543
    @ejr6543 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Logical ! practical ! Keep Educating us madam !

  • @munirajrr
    @munirajrr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Avudaiappan @ Super thala, unkidda pudichathey opposite la ullavangala pesa vidura and avanga point ah share panna time kudukkura antha nalla attitude than.. Congrats yaa..

  • @surendranperiyasami778
    @surendranperiyasami778 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Evlo periya matteraaa asualtaaa sollitinga shalini
    👍🏾

  • @VineshKumar88
    @VineshKumar88 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One of the best and useful interview of yours . Keep doing like this more which are useful for our society.

  • @deepalakshmidevi8362
    @deepalakshmidevi8362 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Mam I love you. , unga advice la ye nalla life vaalalam, thanks mam ❤

  • @user-dp5qi8cz1n
    @user-dp5qi8cz1n 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Mam, I believed people who could amass more wealth through street smartness by cheating others were intelligent and those who provided true services to society were dumb, most of the time I was rejected for being true , and service oriented. Now I feel happy for knowing the truth that the society in itself is chaotic , stupid. I feel happy that you have voiced out about this , I value your courage , Mam.

  • @princess5dharshu
    @princess5dharshu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Awesome speech mam, it will be very helpful if you counsel this to my parents

  • @sujazz77
    @sujazz77 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    மிகச்சிறந்த பதிவு 👌👍

  • @Gopalselva99
    @Gopalselva99 6 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Should telecast these informative speeches to colleges and schools

    • @avvairajb6963
      @avvairajb6963 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Gopalakrishnan S correct telecast all channel in India...

    • @sps7117
      @sps7117 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      fucking feminist

    • @mathumitharavikumar761
      @mathumitharavikumar761 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nizzzzz dp

    • @dragonballfan9997
      @dragonballfan9997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      why are u people are so brain dead? she's freaking feminist :)

    • @adrianvann2947
      @adrianvann2947 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dragonballfan9997 Maybe you are brain deal. She explains how nature, human body and mind works. Why is it so difficult for you to understand :)

  • @vidhyachinnaswamy
    @vidhyachinnaswamy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wonderful topic🤩 am so impressed with your speech doctor shalini😍

  • @avvairajb6963
    @avvairajb6963 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Still intercaste marriage is very difficult in our society.All humans are equal in this world...

  • @venkataramansriram4474
    @venkataramansriram4474 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    apart from the so called 'kulagauravam', there seems to be an ego issue - parents, i think, need lot more counselling these days in tackling this perennial aspect of family life. ur forthright approach is very pleasing.

  • @vijayprakash.1987
    @vijayprakash.1987 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Bold and nice speech...tq

  • @sambathkumar5807
    @sambathkumar5807 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    really excellent interview and talk

  • @petrolsynthesis6306
    @petrolsynthesis6306 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    One of the best human in society 💯💯

  • @csravikumar9171
    @csravikumar9171 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Madam very wonderful speech

  • @indhuboopathy538
    @indhuboopathy538 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Dr Shalini for reason Never missed any of your interview videos
    Helps me to understand problem deeply

    • @dragonballfan9997
      @dragonballfan9997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      she's freaking feminist are u kidding?

  • @krishnakumar-jh8yl
    @krishnakumar-jh8yl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I like Your Speak 🗣 Ms. Dr. Shalini Mam. Iam Many More life Information For Learning Your Speak 🗣 Mam Thank You.

  • @kaviarasu2720
    @kaviarasu2720 6 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Very nice interview. Interviewer was very humble and pleasant to watch,and as usual shalini mam rocks. Mam,Your children's are very lucky to get you as a mom. Hats off to the team.Great work guys keep going.

  • @surulirajbojan5487
    @surulirajbojan5487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Perfectly explained. Loveless relations are very basic cause for all health disorders. All explanations are worth listening. Alcohol is good invention if used sensitively and no substitute for it. But the issue is the way the substance is being handled and the knowledge levels one has on this unique substance. All are Superbly explained.

  • @venkatesanrajamanickam6554
    @venkatesanrajamanickam6554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you shalini madem for solving family conflict.

  • @ranjitharanjitha4737
    @ranjitharanjitha4737 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great info on love....Sir ur asking questions nice... keep it up

  • @jeyaseelanjeyaram6538
    @jeyaseelanjeyaram6538 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well said dr. India needs thousands of drs like you

  • @sheebasolomon
    @sheebasolomon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Please telecast this on Vijay TV ( repeat)

  • @phantompain9
    @phantompain9 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dr. Shalini - excellent as always in her views and the way in which she describes those viewpoints.
    Behindwoods - this end of the interview plea to click the bell icon needs to stop. It is highly annoying.

  • @michaeljp7899
    @michaeljp7899 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Bro.. Neenga one of the matured interviewers. Innum neraya content kudunga.

  • @nanthakumar4776
    @nanthakumar4776 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    one of the best interview i have ever watched...👍👍👌👌

  • @sinthiyabalan2410
    @sinthiyabalan2410 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Avudai Anna always rocking.. because of you and your show with Dr.Shalini mam , I subscribed this channel.. please come up with more videos.

  • @kannanramasamy2035
    @kannanramasamy2035 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice interview . Thanks

  • @abinayamadhialagan5400
    @abinayamadhialagan5400 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I got lots of knowledge from ur intrvw mam thank u so much

  • @sathishkumar3039
    @sathishkumar3039 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a explanation mam.hands off you mam.👏👏👏

  • @menaharani8612
    @menaharani8612 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Super mam.. Have no words to say... What an explanation.. Excellent mam..

  • @shamsundar9093
    @shamsundar9093 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    great inspiration mam

  • @sampath3842
    @sampath3842 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    நீண்ட நாள்களுக்கு பிறகு சாலினி அவர்களின்அருமையான சிறப்பு நிகழ்ச்சி . குற்றம் பற்றி ஒரு சிறப்பு நேர்காணலை அவர்களிடம் எதிர்பார்க்கிறேன். நன்றி.

  • @GFIFA96
    @GFIFA96 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    👌🏻 superb interview

  • @vishnulingam3413
    @vishnulingam3413 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Awesome thoughts from Dr. Shalini.... Parents should consider the life of their kids... Not their honor or prestige... Factu line "life without love is pain"... Live... Let others live..

  • @sundaraselvi325
    @sundaraselvi325 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Excellent research Mr. Avudai Keep up the good work.

  • @Senthilganapathy
    @Senthilganapathy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    In every video Shalini never miss to inspire you. Good job behindwoods

  • @lakmichinto5086
    @lakmichinto5086 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Whatever said..
    It is not about social status or financial status.. It is about our ways of life..
    The problem starts when we follow certain ways of life be it the way of praying to god or household day to day chores differs from home to home
    Religion to religion
    Caste to caste
    The adaptability gets difficult when there is an inter caste or inter religion.

  • @anithabharathi5243
    @anithabharathi5243 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi shalini mam... sema speech and interesting... nenga neya nana varum podulam enaku happy aaaidum mam...

  • @shyamalasruthi7368
    @shyamalasruthi7368 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing madam what a speech !

  • @vishnunevetha5102
    @vishnunevetha5102 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    ஷாலினி மேம்க்காகவே உங்கள் சேனலை அதிகம் பார்க்கிறேன்..சமூக மாற்றத்துக்கான கேள்விகளை அதிகம் கேட்கவும்..சுருக்கமாக சொன்னால் திருக்குறள் போதித்தவைகளை பற்றி...

  • @cutiepie-xh9ty
    @cutiepie-xh9ty 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank u for ur speech mam...I really thanks to u

  • @abimuthukumar7528
    @abimuthukumar7528 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sema speech...sema bold ah pesuringa madam..super

  • @saaraahpk2560
    @saaraahpk2560 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    A very nice interview. My parents should watch this. Shalini maam what if they try to emotionally blackmail us.

    • @MrSiva66
      @MrSiva66 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got trapped in this situation and experiencing the pain

  • @vishnumarleycena4809
    @vishnumarleycena4809 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    அருமை

  • @akilagopinathg
    @akilagopinathg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great thoughts Shalini mam

  • @vaishnavimasaiah6637
    @vaishnavimasaiah6637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice explanation mam .parents must watch this...

  • @aishwaryap9306
    @aishwaryap9306 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ur always best and your speech are perfect and always making us strong

  • @aakashb1170
    @aakashb1170 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nice interview

  • @abinayaselvam5799
    @abinayaselvam5799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Super mam ......👏👏👏...this speech is very important to every parents...super .. it's true speech mam

  • @jayanthithangaraj
    @jayanthithangaraj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome mam ... very informative

  • @ashkutti
    @ashkutti 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    amazing mam !! :) much needed video

  • @alwayshappysri
    @alwayshappysri 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Superb....Thanking you

  • @nazeerau420
    @nazeerau420 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    More better topics explained than your headline....In most of the interview videos la neenga headline la kodukura visayatha vida matha visayangal than adhigama vivadhika paduthu...So ini varum videos la headline ku inum nala effort podunga... Its a viewer opinion...Manasula pattadha solliten... Aavudai bro and teams ku vazhthukkal....Inum worth ful interviews edhir pakurom....

  • @sathiyarajsathiya821
    @sathiyarajsathiya821 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good information mam .Thank u

  • @amritaselvavinayagam7722
    @amritaselvavinayagam7722 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The list out things you said is apt for all senario..

  • @gowthamvallalar2600
    @gowthamvallalar2600 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sena! It should go into everyone’s thinking,
    Not just watching and skipping

  • @toplaz007
    @toplaz007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    @Avudai bro, please ask about remarriaging widow/divorcee and single parenting.

    • @jeniferranjili747
      @jeniferranjili747 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's a good point... Thanks for thinking out of the box..

  • @nivetharamkumar658
    @nivetharamkumar658 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How can I contact you mam for consultation

  • @rekhagowri2802
    @rekhagowri2802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Appo love marriage dha best ah ana na yaraiyum love pannalaiye enaku 26 years agudhu arrange marriage dha pannanumnu iruka Enna panradhu😟

  • @karthicks1469
    @karthicks1469 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best explain use full topic😍

  • @sahayajayanithya8034
    @sahayajayanithya8034 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Age difference marriage pathi plz video podunga.

  • @yuganathkrishnan
    @yuganathkrishnan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Monthly one interview of her ...enlightening boss

  • @actionarjun
    @actionarjun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    சகோதரியின் காணொளி அற்புத விழிப்புணர்வு

  • @christyjo7127
    @christyjo7127 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are really awesome mam....used to listen u all times👏👏👌👌

  • @sabiyayunus8687
    @sabiyayunus8687 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome 👌 👏 👍 always Dr. Shalini rocks

  • @eniyamurali6270
    @eniyamurali6270 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gud message. Very good interview. Do more interview with her.

    • @vetrijayam
      @vetrijayam 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eniya Murali
      Good

  • @sharmilam7602
    @sharmilam7602 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Semaya neraya vishyatha explain panirukanga.neraya yosikavum vachitanga.nice

  • @pandia4188
    @pandia4188 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Shalini mam..... U r Thinking different dimensional... Very informative

    • @thomasmathew2611
      @thomasmathew2611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @pandia raj not different she speaks normal (practical thinks)but nowadays people's do think everything extremely always normal peoples looks different for extreme peoples

  • @classicstressbusters4876
    @classicstressbusters4876 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wowwww sema mam, evryone must watch

  • @thirumoorthy
    @thirumoorthy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    அதனினும் கொடிது அன்பிலா பெண்டிர் கையால் இன்புற உண்பதுவே... ஔவையாருக்கு அடுத்து நீங்கதான்.. :)

  • @anulavanya3233
    @anulavanya3233 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Let our parents see this vedio.. tamizhaa..

  • @radhikagowri5483
    @radhikagowri5483 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    really very nice video.... i have never heard about like this inspirations and motivational video.... i started watching this video today only it was amazing shalini madam.... pls do speak more interesting topics....

  • @vishnuprasad3872
    @vishnuprasad3872 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Respect you Dr..Very informative & practical.I'm fed up of explaining my ppl who are blind folded in the name of caste & society.

  • @SimplyWOW
    @SimplyWOW 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hats off to Shalini mam!!!. Anchor is also good, some people talk in between the guest, but he is very professional!!!

  • @arunchandran9259
    @arunchandran9259 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Another masterpiece 😍😍

  • @sankarir1856
    @sankarir1856 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Do lot of interview with Shalini

  • @Dineshs-qp6et
    @Dineshs-qp6et 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is gold bro,😊😊😊

  • @yuvarajv4134
    @yuvarajv4134 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Superb video waiting for part 2

  • @tamilarasan1121
    @tamilarasan1121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Intha caste nala ah than ya en love uh marriage varaikum pogama love layae poidichi.😭😭.

    • @sivanisrini
      @sivanisrini 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Many true love due to parents caste and religion it's not successful, not sure when this will change

  • @maha9179
    @maha9179 6 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Watever is the marriage ...it depends on the people who are joining hands ... compatibility is only key factor ...I have seen many ppl loving for years and getting married just within few months divorcing ...and those who haven't met before ..they had lived together until end ...so compatibility is must in any of the marriage ...otherwise be it love or arranged ...life ll be hell

    • @etheranimus
      @etheranimus 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Except for marriage between relatives like marrying cousin or niece, basically, incest/inbreeding which is still quite common among Tamils or south Indians in general even in 2018.

    • @meharunisha5842
      @meharunisha5842 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      maha lakshmi n

    • @DeepakKumar-vd9tr
      @DeepakKumar-vd9tr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I agree Compatibility is the key factor in marriage. At least love marriage gives us the chance to find whether the person is compatible or not by knowing him/her before marriage. But how could anyone find the person is compatible to you in arrange marriage before itself, If you know the trick can you share with us!

    • @DeepakKumar-vd9tr
      @DeepakKumar-vd9tr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ludic, I think Incest is a strong word to describe, hope you know the real meaning of it! and more over specifically mentioning or targeting the one particular race is not welcomed! You've rights to express your beliefs but no rights on insulting any race or person or their belief system.

    • @navina2366
      @navina2366 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      love marriage leads to intercaste marriages and loss of culture....so keep ur advice to urself bitch

  • @sandhiyas1092
    @sandhiyas1092 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mam.... can u talk about whether astrology is needed for love marriage??

    • @AK-hp9pd
      @AK-hp9pd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      love will destroy all rules and regulations... u think u have correct selection as a life patner.
      if both of u correct,, love make ur mariage life correct madam.

  • @balajit5870
    @balajit5870 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow what an explanation about caste....and relationship