THE AFTERMATH OF A SOUL-TIE RELATIONSHIP by RC BLAKES
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- THE AFTERMATH OF A SOUL-TIE RELATIONSHIP by RC BLAKES
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For the first time in my life, I have learned to stay single. I have been single for over a year now, no dating, no entertaining men. If I meet one and see the brokenness in him, I walk away. I'm saving myself for the King that God is going to bring into my life in His timing. I will no longer settle for grown boys...people who will use and hurt others to gratify themselves, and have nothing to offer, no growth, no commitment, no peace, nothing.
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Happy for you!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
My sentiments exactly
Camille D. 🥰
KoncreteRoźe 🥰
Broken people are not satisfied with healthy, normal people. They are used to the dysfunction because they never healed, and will sabotage a good relationship because of that.
You said a mouthful there! Yes ma’am!! 😊🙏🏾❤️
Tappe 😊
I agree...
Derecia Alexander 👍🏽
So true. I experienced it a little while ago with a man so broken he runs away from real love because he doesn't know how to handle it.
I used to be an escort YEARS AND YEARS AGO. And let me tell you soul ties are real. Women in that line of work have heavy spirits. Which is why a lot of them numb themselves emotionally with drugs or alcohol or just build up a wall. “Soul ties disconnect your spirit from your consciousness.” Truth
Carissa M WOW. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏽
Yes. Truth and wisdom.
What does a heavy spirit mean?
@@mirianalajtman7728 heavy spirits- not at peace, a darkness surrounding them, guilt ridden
Thank u for sharing that perspective to all of us. That was very commendable of u.🥰🥰👍🏾👍🏾
I remember living a my ex and I was pregnant I would binge watch your videos you really helped me understand my worth to leave, he was handsome, wealthy, & I was in love so I thought but your word allowed me to trust in God and I’m just grateful I left because after I did he showed me exactly who he was by getting a the girl he was cheating with flaunting her to hurt me not seein the baby etc. I did nothing but love him & he had pleasure in breaking my heart. The devil must be mad, he tried really break me to prevent me from serving God and telling my testimony and helping others I’m now delivered from fornication and idolatry in men and marriage, anger, and deep wounded hurt God is so good
Wow I want to be completely delivered like that sis
God bless you
I praise God for you!
Thank you for sharing 💕
That’s his lost
My soul tie was so bad, that I started dreaming about him. I barely made it out of that situation with my sanity. Now I'm all about my growth and happiness. I can't wait for this covid thing to go away, so that I can start solo traveling internationally again. Traveling and talking to God was so healing for me. Be blessed and not stressed ladies.
I know that's right ✅ 💯
Amen
@Travelingdiva2018 hi sister 💗
Going through this now. Excited for the same goal
Going through similar situation … how did you get out of it? What did you do?
Pastor Blakes, when you say “every woman is a queen. A stripper is a queen on a pole, she just doesn’t know.” This shows that you are truly a spiritual man regardless of religious affiliation. A spiritual person is in touch with his soul and therefore sees the divinity in every person. Many blessings to you.
God is love & not a respecter of person (that's the WORD)
You can be bound by a soul-tie without even sleeping with the person. I was lured by mere words (a so-called online "relationship") and it took root in my mind and soul. Pray to God for healing from within in the days to come
This is very true. I pray all is well with you 🙏🏾
Much better now, thanks.
Yes. We must guard our heart and mind...
Emotions are a gate. Allow no access & watch who tries to access em...
How are you now? And what did you do to get rid of this?
I’ve done that too sis and it was hard but finally. Though much prayer I’m delivered
I’m hurting and missing him. It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. Praying the Lord will heal my heart and touch me with the spirit of forgiveness. Lord, touch my soul. Amen
How’s everything going my love ?
How's everything love
I understand how you feel just continue to call out to God
I love reading the commentary. It helps to know that you're not some isolated rare case .
I know Right??? We are universally the same! Much love from Kenya
I know-- l think the same thing
Amen
This pastor is nothing short of a genius! I've never heard things broken down the way he does it. I am binge watching!
Me to
Me too
Me too as well
Appointed for this time💕🔥
Me too. Lol
When you read the Word, healing ncones faster.. and when you set your desires to be in the will of God.. He will order your life. ...and things will keep getting better. You will be drawn only to relationships that alignment with all you are becoming...and will be quick to identify unhealthy relationships.
Spend time reading the Word of God to renew your mind, heal your heart and to pull you forward to God ultimate blessed will for your life. You will know who you are and what you deserve
Hi Pastor RCBlakes I’ve new to your page I like your videos you speak the truth about relationships that women like myself need to know God Bless You Thank you 🙏 Bridgette Manuel
Amen🌷
Bridgette Bucknor yess this just blessed me reading the word of God Helps heal your heart and renew your mind. Best advice I’ve heard all week.
@@bridgettemanuel1484 ,l👀🌟🤔😬☺️👌🏾✨ good!! Ok bc u xx it xz0909
Amen❤
I'm a Queen!!👑 and it took me this 2nd half of my life to see my Worth! N Values!.
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Me included. Better late than never! Some NEVER 'get it'.
Me too!
Amen
Yes. 54 years old. Knew this stuff but not how my energy contribution or that men make assumptions! Lol wow! 2018 eye opener! Not happy about it but grateful. Lol
I broke down tonight! I finally forgave myself for my allowance and acceptance of being "discardable" just for the "hope" of being seen...I can no longer live as an inferior...a renewed mind has begun!
Thank you for telling it like it is. I finally found and realized the truth. I have been celibate and single for 5 years now. I have been cleaning up my mind, body, and spirit. I thank God for the revelation. I thank you for the word.
Me too. I am 100% with you on this journey. I am walking with God since Jan 26, 2018.
Hello celibacy sister. We are on the same path.. and on this journey I hear the lord more clearly
Me too! 🙌🏽 it’s hasn’t been 5 years yet but it’s a year and counting and never knew I would feel this good and full of life without sex. Praise God
Yep me too, 5 years celibate, we must stay strong
I realized this truth as well sis ❣️
I am 69 years old and have never heard such words from the church. This ministry is desperately needed! Thank you for letting God use you in this way. Carol Moger
When he said, "Can I take my time tonight?", I'm over here nodding my head like, sure, sure of course you can, I got time for this class is in session👌👂👀📝🎓 💎
It’s so funny that he always speaks of dating. I found along my healing journey that I never dated- just jumped into situationships with randoms. The dudes many times today are not even taking us on dates just bringing you to an apartment to “chill”.
Exactly
In one video pastor told that now its now not even “Netflix and chill”, but “quick sex and go”
@@e11ionore79 😂😂😂☝🏽
Totally agree they do not even need to take care of organising a date it s sooooooooo saaad
Right
Not just Black Folks, no folks have these kinds of conversations about relationships.
Fasting is denying the flesh of what it wants not just food. You really are truely a blessing which makes perfect since. We been manipulated by other pastors it a shame to be learning this at 52.
Better late than never
I’m breaking away from a soul tie at 56 honey! 🤦🏿♀️
Amen Sis
Me 57
Better late then. Never! Thank you Jehovah God for helping me.
Insanity: Repeating the same behavior, over, and over, again, expecting different results.
This is me right now.
Thank you for speaking the truth it's been three months since I left a toxic relationship. Thank God I'm recovering from trama. I learned a lesson about waiting on God and not man
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Even when you are waiting on god..they can come as angel of light..they are counterfiets just like god sent..never ignore your intution..pray and ask god to show the truth
Amen that's so true
Wow! "When your spirit is disconnected from your Consciousness, you struggle to discern right from wrong" That statement slapped me right across the face! Thank You! I grew up in church but was never taught about sexual relationships leading to soul ties. This is so important for young ladies to learn sO they are fully aware of the consequences instead of hearing, "don't do it because it's a sin" I can't thank you enough! You have not only helped me personally but you have made a lasting impact on my 14-year-old daughter. Some things are priceless.
Your ability to share the Word has saved my soul!
CHRISMBARNETT so true. He was the reason I was able to know how to successfully break a soul tie.
God bless
It takes years to get over and through the aftermath of these relationships.. The intermittent reinforcement damaged me terribly.. You become addicted to these relationships and the withdrawal is absolutely horrific…
Wow this video came right on time I can’t seem to stop thinking about my ex non stop the soul tie won’t leave me alone it’s so draining I wish I didn’t meet him
I understand. It is difficult when the enemy comes attacking our mind and reminds us of memories of the past but when we leave healing up to Jesus, there is restoration, deliverance, soul ties and chains are broken!! We are made a new!! Our mind is one of the most powerful parts of our body and the enemy knows this! If the enemy can't kill us, he * slows * us down by attacking our mind to keep us from achieving and fulfilling the purpose and calling God has on YOUR/ our LIFE ! There is hope though; I have witnessed healing from years of depression and I know God can heal you from ALL the years of pain from this relationship, previous relationships, soul ties, and trauma from the past. He is redeeming years of pain and giving you a replenishment of years of joy!! Let God heal the memories, let him fight your battles, let him transform your mind, and give you a NEW heart without burdens, brokenness or hurt. He is fighting YOUR battles for you, but he has given you authority over the enemy as well (Luke 10:17-21 ; Matthew 10:7-8 and others speak of authority) if you live according to the Lord's will for your life, rebuke the enemy and spirits oppressing you! They may come back stronger but you have to keep rebuking because they will leave if you have faith! God is and will take CARE of you, may his angels protect you! Will be praying for you. :)
I’m currently going through this same exact thing. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
An wow this just gave me chills, although this was for someone else this minister to my soul. Thank you so much
@@beautifulj2952 Glory to God! Aw, I'm soo, glad to hear! Is there a way I can contact you privately? I have something for you but dont know if I should put it on here. I can comment it but rather send it privately, just let me know. Blessings, take care!
@@beautifulj2952 Please take this into prayer and confirmation before the Lord . Praying for you, there is power in your voice!! There is power in your story, in your testimony, the enemy will no longer lie to you or steal your voice! May the voice of the enemy quiet and God's voice speak boldly and loudly like a roaring lion! May God free your mind and hold every thought slowing you, your destiny , and your purpose down captive right now! May God's love wrap around you and his angels protect you wherever you go spiritually, but especially physically. Spirit of death, confusion, uncertainty have no place in your life anymore! May his love healing, deliverance, transformation, restoration, and the joy of the spirit be upon you!! That the enemy will no longer hold you in a pity party or in sadness or captivity of your mind, there is release and freedom and healing of your mind in the name and blood of Jesus! I plead the blood of Jesus over your heart, mind, spirit, and a binding and crucifying of the flesh! Praying for your mother and your father. Praying healing, salvation, and that the enemy release over your father's mind and physical healing for him and that he be set free by the blood and stripes of Jesus in his glorious name!! Generational curses broken off of you and your children if you have any in Jesus name. Plead the blood of Jesus, accept his love, authority, healing and the freedom he is sending you!! Blessings!
You have a very comforting and pleasant demeanor. Thank you for everything you do 💕
This man right here has definitely help me with relationships soul ties... keep speaking to me
Okkk
Thank you for doing these sermons. No one taught me about relationships or men and I made a lot of mistakes as a young woman. I wish I knew this growing up. I wish I listened to the Holy Spirit when he warned me to stay away.
Same
I see myself as a Queen, and I'm a great woman and person. I know I deserve better than what I've had. I did the inner work to heal, change, and grow. That and patience are key to having the relationship you want in due time. Waiting on God is necessary. This was a hard lesson to learn.
Thank You Pastor for all of your wonderful teaching I’m so touched by all of the testimonies My God is so real He Is walking with me now an I thank Him
Deliverance in this area came into my life. I have abstained sexually for 25 yrs. During that time I was healed in so many ways. So right in knowing that when sex is not necessary any longer we are healed and can move on in peace. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL THAT YOU DO
Wow 25 years. I am so inspired. Thank you for sharing. I bet you feel ao good inside your soul and clean.
I’m so proud of you, it’s been 5 years for me. My ex used sex to control me. It’s not important anymore.
Thank you for all you do and provide online. My life was affected for many years over a soul tie with my ex husband. I just recently as in the last year came to realize what I was dealing with, through The Holy Spirit revealing to me that I had been dealing with Narcissism as I also was raised by this demonic entity. I am in the process of recovering who I am in Christ Jesus..
Thank you Pastor..My own father never taught me this...so this is for me..the cycle stops here..amen ...interestingly, my last relationship ended right before the quarantine. I thought it was me, I did something wrong but God freed me to heal...now finally I got it...and I turn 40 next month. God thank you for waking me up and bringing wholeness ...help me heal COMPLETELY In jesus name amen 🙏🏽
Me too sis.
We shall keep watching
He said something prolific in a msg.
CYCLES ARE SATAN/SEASONS ARE GOD
ITS A FACT
BREAK THE CYCLE SIS! STEP INTO UR SEASON!
I have been working on myself, looking at myself, my mistakes, my vulnerabilities, my healing. I have also studied narcisissm and how to heal from it. I also watch you RC Blakes. I thank you.
I am healing. I can look back and see how far I have come.
This week, the Narc ex has gotten in touch. He wants to get back together (I have told him several times that I am never going back.) I refuse to indulge him. I know that He is hoovering and I feel sad for him. However, I know that he is not my business. My business is to heal and to keep moving forward with my life.
You sound like a very, strong and determined woman, who knows what she deserves! I'm rooting for you and for myself, because I am healing and moving forward, quite gracefully! :-) Some men don't value what they have, until it's gone! If we look back or go back, Satan wins. We are more than CONQUERORS!!! Keep you head up, sis.
@@yvettecook9870 Thankyou. Moving forward, I pray for all the best of things for you and I both.
This message needs too be in a bottle on a shelf because I know this will sell out! I'm in a soul tie rehab right now..No sex no Male company!!! Thanks for being so transparent 🙂
You got that right. Off the shelves. Sold Out/Outta Stock. In High Demand!!
OMG Soul Tie Rehab! That is such a great way to put it!
Shut it down!!!! Amen! Three years later and this is STILL a word!! Shut it down- get delivered!
His life, yep sorry it was for my life Lord forgive me for allowing the enemy to deceive me. No one is perfect.
Isaiah 40:31 but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. Thank you Bishop for speaking life to me 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I've practiced abstinence 3+ years twice. I'm currently doing it again. Both times I eventually fell weak. I put my rose colored glasses on and gave in. Please pray for me💜
Praying for you. We struggle with flesh and forgive yourself. Pray harder when you’re tempted it HELPS 💛💛
U can do it ! It's been 10 yrs for me & I must say I feel damn good excuse my French but u will feel so good physically emotionally mentally!
Prayer Going Up
Thank you Pastor....i am watching you from Papua New Guinea... because of you...i realised what i have been through for 11 years...i feel at peace now knowing the truth...please pray for me.
Thank you
jackie
I moved on from the last soul-tie a year ago. I made up my mind that I was done and cut off communication with my ex-narcissist. I started my healing journey from that relationship. He continued to cause destruction and torture in my life even without contact from me, violating protection orders by stalking repeatedly, tampering with my car 4 times, and I have had to deal with detectives, police, and court officials for over a year now. The charges and cases are mounting and still ongoing. I still have to deal with the aftermath from that horrible relationship and I have been no contact since 5/12/20, throughout all of this. It pulls the scabs off every time I have to keep retelling my story to them and dealing with the fact that he has not been brought to justice yet. So it can be a catch-22 for some of us who have actually severed the soul-tie but still have to deal with the aftermath while moving forward.
God is not going to let him get away with it. Justice will be served in your favor.
@@Rose-ez2fm Amen
This is exactly how I feel now. I still have to deal with him after blowing up on him. I just couldn’t take all of his disrespect and gaslighting. I still have to deal with him due to our business; and sometimes it’s so traumatic. I feel depressed all over again, going backwards and down memory lane. I don’t like having to connect not even once a month, but I need my money thought. But God has my back and videos like this keep me in check and I’m greatly appreciative.
I pray he's finally left you alone Toni.
When he started fussing 😂❤️ it’s ok pastor we need tough love sometimes🙏🏽
I was once an adulterous then I found your videos. I wanted to get and this ministry help me to see who I really was.
I thought lust was love! How wrong I was!!!
No
Your not only my sister.
The same here. I am broken right now thinking about how I abused my body.
Same here.....I just got so hook on the lust that I thought it was love.
Now I'm here missing him .....but trying my hardest to stay away. Today was a hard day....but I know it isn't gonna be easy.
Thank you pastor Blake's. I love your messages. Some people won't conquer things, if you don't confess it! I'm glad I matured, and I don't let the truth offend me. We have to look at ourselves inside
Thank you so much best message I've ever heard. God Bless you.
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Bishop I hear you say often that you're not a licensed therapist or counselor. Sir, I beg to differ!! This video is BAR FAR THEE BEST ONE in my opinion. This is not only for the women, but for the men as well. SOUL-TIES are plaguing people all over the world. Having been attached to so many different souls, I have been effected negatively in most of my relationships/situationships. My broken consciousness had kept me from knowing my worth. God bless you for your knowledge and your desire to teach and tell folks how it is and why it is. You've helped me tremendously aa
This is REAL TALK! Straight no chaser women. This is TRUTH so please if you have not already fell for the okedoke don't! I struggled early in my now 12 year marriage due to an ungodly soul tie. God delivered me but Pastor Blakes knows what he's talking about when he says it becomes hard to distinguish love versus lust. The soul tie said he loved me but he really didn't. I was young naïve and dumb to believe him but then now my husband truly loves me and I found it hard to accept believe and receive his love. How backwards is that? But that's from the Devils game book. He knows the more you're broken it's all the more difficult to be set free.
The realness of the Pastor is making me laugh! Our Pastors are such a way, you wouldn't dare have certain conversations 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Thanks for speaking life into us. I have never heard any man of the ministry speak so real about intermingling with the opposite sex in the world. My father didn't talk in depth about dealing in relationships with men. I am thankful of your real talk teachings mixed with prayer for healing and opening up the awareness of men/women.
I love Lisa... told you, "yes you do have something else to do". She made me smile. I so enjoy your videos. I have been abstinence since my husband passed in 2009. And I am very comfortable within myself. God has blessed me to adjust to life beyond him. l will admit the first two years was hard for me. l miss him even today, but God kept me here for His purpose. I stay busy with family and friends helping them since l retired. After 29 years of being cancer-free, I was diagnosed again in June. 3 surgeries since then, I asked the Lord for 30 more years. I will be 70 yrs young this coming January. Most folks don't think l'm this old which is good. God bless you Bishop and Lisa to keep working in His vineyard. Much love.
Thank you. God is really using you to set women free. Never have I heard anything like this.
I wished there was this same amount of effort and focus geared towards men to be better husband. Maybe there wouldn't be so many broken women if churches and all these social media counselors and love gurus talked to the men instead.
I can’t speak for anyone else, but I do talk to men personally. I have an entire playlist for men- I’ve produced a program called THE MANHOOD ACADEMY for men - I am releasing my latest book entitled KINGOLOGY along with a workbook, for men. I host men’s conferences.
I’m no love or relationship guru. I simply have a message . My TH-cam ANALYTICS dictates that 91% of my audience is female. What you see of me on TH-cam is a fraction of my work.
I ended a soul tie relationship back in 2018. I had a build up of toxicity, about 4 years worth. You definitely helped me heal, thank Pastor Blakes for your insight let by God.
My number one is to reestablish and reconcile my relationship with God Almighty. 🙏🌹💕🦋
Amen 🙏
You made me cry big tears 😭 thanks for opening my eyes, I’ve been listening for a while now .. out of narcissistic marriage and a year later still healing thank you!!! So much!!!! I owe you the world
Same here.
It's true the difficulty to distinguish between genuine love and pervertion. I hear you say a broken soul may struggle to identify true intamcy mistaking perversion for love. But I want to spin that... Sometimes the process of healing, God help you to move forward and may even bless you with True love from someone and the flip side becomes... That one can find the true intamacy and the Small places of hurt (that hidden root) that may still remain causes one to be so hyper sensitve (guard against future pain).that one can mistake love from perversion... Now that's the saddest case. One has to heal fully so that your spirit and your heart and your Consciousness operate In a whole and healed way. Thank God, that healing in full is at the cross.
I went through a violent domestic attack a few years ago and on my journey to find healing, God brought me to your you tube page. I listen to your messages most every night for the past year now. I did not have a mother or father present during my childhood, so I raised myself. I have really learned so much from you and how women should be cherished and treated. I feel comfort but also challenged by you. Your the father figure I never had growing up. I’m very grateful that I was led to listen too your messages. Thank you from my whole heart for submitting to God’s calling. You are the only male pastor I have ever heard speak life into specifically woman’s lives.
May our Heavenly Father continue to Bless and Strengthen you 🇬🇧😊
I am 72 years old and have had a life changing awakening. thankyou Pastor Blakes
I am leaking tears right now...... I'm struggling with this,I knew this guy was not for me & I still tried to maintain a "friendship"with him not knowing he was having sex with a man..... My God, I'm thankful for the clarity,but I am so hurt and angry,even with my self,This message is a blessing & the scripture makes it even better ♥️♥️
Wow, so sorry about that. Heal sister!
THANK GOD AND PLEASE GOD HEAL HER HEART ,AND MINES AS WELL
That's deep I hope you went to get tested.
Pastor RC Blakes - It is like you have a window into the broken consciousness of men and women. Never stop being you! This is truely your calling! I have had my dad, mothers boyfriends, men ive dated young and old, male pastors, I also been married 15 years and you have taught me more about my worth and value that any of those men combined. No monetary gift can match what you have given me.
'If you cannot be transparent, you cannot be transformed. If you cannot be transformed, you cannot be delivered". THAT'S KNOWLEDGE. THAT'S WISDOM.
Great point!
One must be willing to identify the role you played and take responsibility for your contribution in the relationship, once you know this, you can't unknow it, and it is your saving grace.. and it is your criteria for all future relationships with all people.. healing is a process of self discovery and it is lifelong learning, trusting your intuition..
Difficult to believe, understand why you survived, how much you have given, and because of this, you will find the strength to save yourself..bless up!
Today is the first day I let go of my soul tie. Honestly, I am feeling, "what now ?" Its only been a few hours and something inside me needs to hear from him . I feel the need to tell him again how devastated I am , maybe he will get it this time? Maybe he will somehow soften his heart or maybe I need to be more soft and the submissive woman he needs and I'll get the man i know is wanting to come out and love me. BUT my heart , although broken, knows this is only my own self talk in its attempt to give me hope and escape the reality of the truth. My soul is battered and hope that it is strong enough to love me. To assure myself that I am all that I need. I survived one of the most miserable and difficult years of my entire adult life. I started watching pastor blakes for several months now and the information you share gave me the courage to realize I have the power and strength within to break free of this past relationship. I've had zero male role models in my life and thought this is how men love and I just need to accept it. I tell myself repeatedly, no , no, no I'm just as important as him. My feelings are just as worthy as any other human being. I will continue to watch and read your valuable lessons, right now, your messages are the only solid and grounded advice I desperately need in my life.
Today is day #1 and its almost over and I'm afraid ill slip up and read one of his incoming messages and put myself through even more self doubt, almost like a continuation of his punishments that serve absolutely nothing but to hold me down or keep me in check until he decides I'm worthy! How long does this feeling linger??! Even now that he's not here I can feel his energy so strong and mine so weak. I'm just ready to be happy , God thats all I want before this life is over. You're right pastor I have no self worth , I need to forgive myself, and struggle with my self definition! How do I determine this after living a certain way for so long now???!! Im ready to start listening
Don't lie to yourself. He will not change for you the way your heart desires so stop torturing your inner soul. U must block him fully.
It wont change no matter how many times you try....pay attention to actions you deserve better. Im going thru same thing i started writing short poems about Narcissistic abuse , go to my page and check them out might help. Your not the only one its happened to❤stay strong it will hurt for awhile but you'll get stronger each day.
My God … this man is so real!😢 He just keeps touching down!! God bless you sir !
God bless you !
God bless you !🙏🏽💯
13 good years of my life i gave him in our marriage but he left , leaving me to raise 5 kids , how cruel can life be💔💔💔💔😭😭
Please don’t feel alone. I can relate as a mother of 5 myself and having been left behind after 12 years. God’s still got you and you are definitely still valuable! Take it day by day and stay in the fight!!! Sending love ❤️ peace, blessings, joy, strength, favor and hope your way! 😊🙏🏾❤️
Those kind of men are the reason why men like me can never find a descent woman
Jesus 🙏
Brandon Humble I’m glad to see a man comment because this is very true. If we all keep drinking the poison and not get a proper antidote then there will be a perpetual cycle of hurt people hurting other people. Thank God for ministers like Pastor Blakes who attack this issue head-on!
Your blessed. Now you can the rest of your life to yourself and your wonderful family ❤️! It's sucks but it's his loss!
That's all it was I can see clearly now I thought I was in love. My Dad tried to tell me he's a loser etc Thank you so much Pastor for the wake up call❤️
Good evening sir. You are really helping me to get over a 3 mo. toxic relationship. Short time yet, a painful experience that I am overcoming slowly but, surely with God’s help. Thank you for your wisdom sir. 🎖😊
True Intimacy determing love vs. Lust soul sick lust and perversion is not love
I thank God for you because you came into my life at the right time,.
This was very good! I've "shut it down" for the past yr and pray for my husband to come into my life. Seems like it's taking forever
Me too!!
Keep waiting patiently on the Lord.....he is not taking forever to bring your hubby. Grow up in the Lord as u wait
Same here
God is preparing you for your husband.Do not be anxious, delight yourself in the Lord, spend this time investing in yourself and becoming the best version of you, and in God’s time your husband will find you.
Ditto...I'm also waiting patiently for God to send my husband.
Hi pastor I am from Albany, ga. and you have transcended my life And changed me with your messages and through the word So much so that my 11 year old daughter constantly says I love listening to RC Blake's she knows you and I pray that I will be able to continue to raise her as a single mother to be a conscious Queen...I can do it through Christ so I want to thank you God-bless you and Sis. Lisa❤🙏
Praise the Lord from Albany, Ga🌼 please follow the Holy Spirit to the Last Act Church opening soon with Elder Jones and his wife. They will help you grow. AMEN.
It's like you know what I need to hear TH-cam Dad. I really appreciate you. I tried to share one of your messages with a new person ,but on dead ears they have. If they don't understand. I'm not going to make them understand. The world will wake up them. SMH. THANK SO MUCH. You've given me an understanding that my father didnt and I wanna say thank you again.
He was Passive Narassist that messed up my physical reasoning. I've always Loved and Served God. I was younger than he,by 16 years.He was able to reset my thinking.But,the Holy Spirit guarded me in my Soul and Spirit and I walked in God's word.A strong hold God had set to protect me!!!This I now know!! I'm now having to pray constantly allowing God to reset me and in my mind better thinking thoughts to get healed from all of everything that wasn't good!
Many PASTOR'S don't teach on this I believe is because it still hurts too much 💝💝💌🔥🙏🏼🙏🏿
Are you familiar with the late PASTOR Stephen Darby he was one of the most powerful pastors I've ever heard on you tube. May he rest in peace. Go on his page and text soul ties. You'll love it. I listen to this pastor now because Stephen Darby is no longer with us. Ok
SPEAK 2 MY HEART LORD..my daily prayer..and this is definitely what God wants my ears 2 hear..everything u have said is so on point..thank u..I am being delivered..God is directing me..through ur words..thank u😊🤣
I have been following you for some time and your teachings have changed my life forever. I'm forever grateful.
I’m in my process of healing I was stuck for 10years in a relationship that was going nowhere, I always felt like I wasn’t good enough , Now I’ve been healing and it’s been hard to move on after the soul tie but I believe God will bring my King and I’m preparing myself for when he arrives. Thank you
The love you want to give, give it to yourself! Loving yourself will attract the man God has for you.
"You're always better than what you've done!" Preach Bishop! Love You!!!❤💯
You're a True Healer of the Soul with God's hand on your Heart. Thank you Pastor Blakes!
You r a true example of what a real man is👑❤️👑👑
Deliverance isn't an event, it's a process. So thankful for all the trials and all the pain bcuz it's brought me to where I am today. Glory to God. Bishop thank you for all the teachings over the years. They have truly truly blessed me. Blessings & love to you and lady Lisa.
78yrs been in a situation for 11 years. I give God all the glory just a turn on and learn something after all these years.
Thank you.
Pastor... I wish I met you 20 years ago but I thank God I found you while dealing with some issues. You have awoken my spirit and how to value myself. Enough with the abuse from men who think it’s ok and this starts with me. Man in the mirror
At 30 mins that hit me hard. I have been trying for years. I still don’t know what this intimate relationship really looks like for me. So I’ll keep my kids, cat and dog. Do the college I want and move forward. But I can’t figure out that love thing. So I wanna put that on the back burner for a while. Like seven years.
Bishop RC Blakes is the only African American pastor that I have heard discussing toxic relationships honestly and so in-depth. I was constantly encouraged to stay in an unhealthy marriage by pastors who would not discuss the reality of emotional abuse and narcissistic abuse to the detriment of myself and my children. A few would support and enable him. Christian counselors would ignore the obvious characteristics of a personality disorder during sessions. I gave up looking for the confirmation of my church through the guidance of Holy Spirit. After breaking free I found RC Blakes through a search and he has helped me heal and has confirmed what Holy Spirit has shown me. It has been refreshing to hear a man of God who doesn't ignore this issue. God bless you and thank you for your ministry!
Pastor this is one of the MOST POWERFUL lectures ever! I went to La area yesterday and saw sleeping Queens prostituting themselves. It hurt my heart.
I have been single for almost five years of my husband passing. I have never been so moved with the way pastor Blake’s speaks. Completely from God. I was married to a man who abused me emotionally sexually mentally. I’m getting therapy. I pray God helps me restores all the women and men. Whom are so broken and hurt. Please don’t get discouraged. Hod isn’t done with us yet. It’s a tough mountain to climb. The healing is so hard. But Christ saids I can do all things threw Christ whom strengthens us. This is not a coincidence that I bumped into this pastors teaching. They are hard to hear. I cry a lot when I hear him. But…. It’s healing me. God I know that you can repair me. Please make me whole. I know you have a King for me.
God is good!
I received The Life Recovery Bible two years before the Narc.
It is for people in the drug and alcohol addiction but, it has and is helping me with this setback in my life.
Amazing, when you mention demonic union...it is so true like even we could call soul ties = demonic ties. It is so hard to break free from them. NOT KNOWING THAT SCENT CAN BE DEMONIC AND FOR LIFE...soul calls lust and perversion LOVE..omg..i am trying so hard now to repare my soul in a complete loneliness from men. MANY THANKS!!!
Thank you for these. I am so ready for freedom of the lingering soul tie from my former husband. We are legally divorced. Just a few months now, but the separation started a long time ago. I tried reconciling etc, but nothing had changed on end and he had no real remorse whatsoever. Unfortunately it took me years to figure it out. Thank God I grew to a higher understanding of my worth through your Queenology teaching and said enough. However, I have still some lingering emotions ties. Why? I have no idea. Actually I do.. but am working out of it through this instruction and God's help. I'm ready for deliverance and freedom from that wickedness. Just got your book on breaking soul ties and these videos are helping. Thank you Bishop. God bless you and Lisa in these golden years!
I believe it’s very possible from past sexual abuse and or other sexual partners on one or both sides of the marriage. This is main reason we are instructed to wait for marriage or at least wait for sex after a solid relationship has been built.
I am so grateful for you!
Before my husband died I was walking so righteously. My faith was intact, I read The Bible every single day for about an hour before I did anything else..... and then I met the guy I'm with now, and I know it was an attack straight from Lucifer --and yet, even knowing this, I'm still going back-and-forth with him.
There are some good videos out there on narcissism and toxic relationships put out by people like Dr Les Carter and Stephanie Lyn Coaching and Dr Romano....but YOURS are based on sound Biblical wisdom! And when one gets to the root of it-- that's where it's at!!
There is another guy I like on TH-cam that approaches the subject Biblically named 'Stephan Speaks'. You are doing great work!
Thank you Pastor Blakes for sharing this message! You just confirmed I'm going in the right direction! I certainly could not have explained it as well as you did. But I certainly do feel the difference, the purity, and the closeness with the Lord like never before. When we obey His Word and follow His plan for us, it's so rewarding! Thank you again for your encouragement and for all you do in fathering those who will listen. Much love!
I like how he made a parable about a residue of a soul tie when he said it's like gardening. You put new soil in the ground but when it starts to sprout and grow you see the old weed plucking up around the new.
Amen to your wisdom and Gods word it speaks to my heart this is exactly what I'm going through 😔
As you were talking, I was crying, not because I'm still in the situation, not because I'm dating anyone, but because even though I put it in the past, there is still an area where I needed to be ministered to. At one point I was very comfortable of being by myself, but I feel it's time the Lord wants me with the person He has chosen. For awhile I felt, I did not want anyone because I was too comfortable and the thought scared me. Now I think I'm almost ready, and not ready yet. Until after completely healed.
I'm a new subscriber and I been watching your videos. I have never heard anyone talk about this in the depth that you do and using scripture with your talks..I've never been able to watch others videos on this subject and feel spiritual growth like I do with your videos..I can feel my spirit being fed. Love your videos and thank you for what you do
Amen🙏 thank God I came across his video at this time that I’m transitioning to a more spiritual and loving relationship with God. I had no Idea my soul ties were still hindering me no matter how much knowledge and what God was feeding me more visions to my future life. But I always felt the memories and experiences with past soul ties coming through and wanting to experience them again, but I can say now his videos definitely helped me see the bigger picture and now I know why I have all these unwanted feelings of past soul ties, I feel more liberated now having listening to this
'Natural New Orleanian' living in my husband of 37yrs birth place, Virginia. Met him in New Orleans through my mom. I'm a widow now, he recently passed away last year. As for myself, you can take the woman out of New Orleans, but you can't take New Orleans out of the woman. Thanks so much Pastor for your inspiration. Continue to keep on keeping it real, no fake! Thanks Again! 😇🙏
Sometimes a Soul Tie can be malignant. It doesn't reveal itself until a trigger happens. I had to accept that I had a soul tie to a church. I had to truly process the experience and seek healing and deliverance.
Establishing boundaries are critical.
God Bless on your journey to truth!!🙏💯I totally understand, been there before!
Ms Paulina Johnson, I never knew I had a soul tie until I had a trigger that brought everything to the surface. By then,I had fallen into fornication. Thank God he made me realize it on time and I knew I had work to do. The guy ended up leaving. Breaking free requires hard work . Thank you pastor Blakes for providing me with clarity.
Yes, the thing that keep me as straight as I am is the fact that I don’t like bad consequences. I’m smart enough to know that every action has consequences whether good or bad.
Hi pastor , I was in a very toxic n abusive, sole tie relationship and was struggling for a long time, didn't know my worth .However I started listening to you teachings and it did something great for me .I build the courage to leave and now l single n doing my bachelor's in nursing, focusing on God and my gals ,so thank you .
Definitely Anointed to DELIVER from perversions. Four years later and God is still using you in the same videos to HEAL
God bless you Bishop, we Honour You. ❤
Hallelujah- the Lord has spoken and you took the words right out of my mouth. God willing the growth doesn’t stop here.
Thanks for being obedient and sharing his words.
Thank you again! Pastor🙏🏽I prayed for discernment over going in and out of unhealthy relationship and I lost the urge for intimacy! I believe Absence is the best thing I have ever done! I just can’t get anyone I’m involved with to understand why I’m doing so! Keep it coming Pastor 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I really enjoy every segment you post. Your a blessing.
I would prefer a man that cannot preform sexually but can give me the love and respect i deseve !!
No you aint
You say that now, it’s ok to ask God for what you want. I’ve been in a relationship with a guy and he respects me, helps me pay bills, but We hardly ever have sex, there is no intimacy, no romance, and he never sent me a sexy text in 2 years.
Yes im with a man like that and to me he is awesome. He gives me his all and i don't have to worry about him sleeping around
@@terryreese9594 why are you taking his $. If you can’t accept him for whom he is, and you desire more, be honest and up front.you don’t deserve his $. You’re wasting your time and his. Are not learning anything here?