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HOW TO LET GO OF A PERSON YOU’VE BEEN SOUL TIED TO by RC BLAKES
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ส.ค. 2024
- In this session I discuss HOW TO LET GO OF A PERSON YOU HAVE BEEN TIED TO.
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Don't lose yourself in the false hopes and empty promises of someone who doesn't deserve you.
Amen!
N@@debralondon2402 6 the
Amen!!👍
Going through this right now and we attend the same church!! I can't stand to look at his lying face!!!😡
Amen!!
Someone that has nothing to add to your life, will help you lose everything. Break the soul tie with that person that soul purpose is to destroy you.
So true
Facts
They can break you . People like this are the most selfish and selfless characters I've ever seen.
Very true
So absolutely true.. I found out they will just subtract from you and feel as if they can do anything to you
I have 100% blocked him, anytime he comes into my mind...I turn my mind to Jesus and pray! Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏
Me too
🙏
Plz help me to forget her
That's what I'll do! Call out his name 🙏🏼
This brought tears to my eyes. I will do this for myself as I am worth what He says I am, I am who He says I am.
God, I need you. This is beyond my understanding
1. Ask for clarity where is this bond
2. Ask to uproot everything in you that’s not righteous , repent for your part
3. Ask to break this bondage
4. Show me my ways/ Quarantine-No contact / No stalking/ Personal initiatives
5. Spiritual balance and direction, surrender to the Divine Will
6. Return to YOURSELF
7. Accept accountability
Get healed, get better, get stronger
“ You crying over a bum, God kicked to the curb for you???!!!” Get Your Vision Back!! Love it, needed to hear this message🙏🏾
Lol 😂
@@jaywills4334 In
Today Jan 12th 2021 God helped me again see the path ahead of me thank you God
Yes absolutely I was 🤣 no more
Yes you are very rite
Be careful once you cut your soul tie. The devil will temp you with what you thought you wanted or something similar. Be careful ladies and gentlemen.
This is the most important thing that's rarely stressed enough.
Yep! Fell for that with this last dude I just left. Thought he’d be everything my ex husband wasn’t, righteous, successful, brilliant,... he was for a while but then began to fall off. Soon I learned he was fronting just like my divorcée did. I now know and understand the lengths a man will go to to get a woman in the sheets that he wants to keep and mold and thinks he can mold to his will through sex and a forked tongue. I don’t intend to allow that to ever happen again.
Just interested in finding myself not looking for no one
This video was for me. Thank you.
@@AchAchoti347
I'm going through a similar experience, its the thought and willpower to cut the ties that's so hard.
Mine is deferred hope, I invested my heart and hopes.
Now I know if I continue on, its going to get very painful for me.
“God has just been waiting on YOU to recognize that YOU NEED HIM”
I wish RC was my father. Every woman deserves a dad like him.
Me too ❤
"Lust will play itself off as love. But love fulfills Lust never fulfills."
Yes. This statement was golden!!!
📝💜
AMEN SO VERY TRUE
Correct is Right
"Soul ties divorce you from yourself and your future." ****finger snaps****
This Bum really put me through soo many Emotions..so difficult to let go,,,may the Lord strengthen me
I know 😢we'll get past this.
Amen
🙏🏾
God is strengthening us
I understand! I would not call him a bum, but instead blame myself for the choice that I made. Now, I have to scrape up my broken pieces and get my life straight with GOD
“You always lose yourself when you run behind somebody else!” Pastor R.C. Blakes, 🙏 thank you!
**that GOD has not sent! Amen
That’s true. 💯
That's what I experienced!! Until decided to not let that man think he's my god
I did it guys! I'm FREE! God is Good! Thank you Pastor, God bless you. Sis don't give up! Make that decision n stick to it. I chose my pain, n now I'm on the path to deliberately heal. I'm ✨single! ✨God is Good!
Good for you!!! Amen! Thanks for sharing we need to hear this.
THATS GREAT! How did you push through without going backwards
Our Most Beautiful, Loving Lord Father God is very good!
Thank you Most Beautiful, Loving King Jesus!!!! Amen
Amen
Amen !!! So many in the church stay with that toxic stuff
You always lose yourself when you run behind someone else. Powerful.
Ain't that the truth! Never again🤦
I never will run or chase behind anyone or thing just pray for their happiness what ever makes them happy.
Message
👍👍
Real talk ❤
😢sitting here crying begging GOD to heal my heart and free me from my unGODLY soul ties… I thought I was free!!! But as time pass on I’m still hurting 😢I thank GOD FOR THIS WORD
I'm on this same journey and this video gave me everything I need to breakaway and cut this ungodly soul tie. The one thing that hit me the most was when R.C. Blakes mentioned we need to choose our pain. Just think do you want to go through pain wasting your life on something God never gave you OR having the pain of cutting ties with the individual for a little while and heal very soon and also getting healthier and better ? I never thought of it that way so I chose to have temporary pain in order to be where God wants to be. To remove everything from my life that's stopping me from reaching my highest potential and eventually being with the kingdom mate God has for me.❤️❤️
Thank you Pastor ! I listen to your messages daily ! They bless me so much 🥰💐💝💫
If it was a long relationship, it really takes time to heal. You are so joined to them in your everyday life and activities. It's a large void. You have to get through and get past the pain of that. You also need to forgive. To release them as a weak man (or woman) who does weak and hurtful things. Hold them accountable, count the cost, be very aware of how they hurt and could hurt you again, but let the Holy Spirit really set you free w/ forgiveness. Then the enemy has no legal recourse to your soul to afflict you any more. Holding grudges and going over all the hurts keeps you prisoner. When the thoughts come back to haunt me, I speak forgiveness to them. There's still some pain, the void is closing 3 and a half months out. I've given up on him changing and even if he ever did, there's no way I'd take a chance.
Yeah you think that and then you watch this video and realize no I'm not
It takes time and prayers 😢real talk 🙏💜
I’m a non Christian, I’m actually a Hindu. I really appreciated this and your words and felt like I really needed to hear this. Thank you ❤
@Indiangirl
I'm watching this is '23 I am SOO happy to have this feed came across my app just recently.
Indiangirl may God Forever and ever bless you with all spiritual blessings filled with insight and a yearning to know God more.
I'm heading into quarantine having battle a few years huge setback so now I'm going to run for me life!!!
Be encouraged. Indiangirl keep your hands in God's hands.
Haleluyaaa
U can accept Jesus Christ too
This is how it is... Everyone thinks their religion is right. All religions are right in their own way. God is God and nothing else is God. You never had to go to a preacher, a guru, a rabbi, or a middle man, you just need to go straight to God, and by the way, He never left you, He has been with you the whole time.
@@elainejones4861I didn’t get notifications previously and just seen the likes and comments I’m reading on the back of my comment. 🙈. May god always bless you and protect you, stay blessed ❤
Good morning. I am close to 60, out marriage/relationship. If I heard this 40 years ago, I will not be here and agreeing with every single word of this sermon. Young women...listen carefully and take heed.Everything he says is so true
Absolutely sister....where were our teaches, I am nearly 60 and things had only gotten worse, years of abuse. He said he would kill me if I left and then he tried because I was dying, physically, emotionally spiritually,I was so numb.
Hope, for change was always there...
Amen. Sister & brother💙
💔💜💜💜🙏🙌
"Love is fulfilled, lust is never fulfilled"..
Wow,so true!
This was great. Right in the middle of this message I called the person I’ve been tied to and told him I have to cut ties with him and end it now. I’ve blocked him. I feel the spirit of God surrounding me now. Thank you so much 🙏🏽
Amen, may the Good Lord Bless and keep you.
Going through this at the moment. He ate yesterday evening and slept and snored as I spoke my heart out. He negated his morning duties and routine to punish me. Dressed up and left for work without mending things or comforting me. He treated me like I was non existent. I am currently jobless but am not going to use this an excuse to keep stuck. If people want to walk away from you let them go. I will not speak him into staying, respecting me, valueing me, loving me or validating me anymore. I will remember how he makes me feel over how I feel for him. Pray for me guys. I accept the pain that comes with change. May the Holy Spirit destroy all wrong attachments in my life and yours. Stay blessed 🙏
Married 17 years and I'm tired.
I'm looking for an apartment pray for me.thanks
I wish you many blessings! Hope you are well.
Me too...may the Spirit of God Guide us in Jesus Name
♥️🙏🏾
God bless you 🙏💓
@@birungiliz5550 thank you so much, I just don't have a place to live now
It’s gonna sting a little when you go through the process.... keep your eyes on GOD!!
♥️🙏🏾
So true been trying for 5 years
Help me lord
It really does
Not me. I'm not stinging now.
Thanks to Pastor RC Blakes sent from God!
I needed to hear this again. I married a bom and narcissistic who broke me to pieces after 21 years together. Oh lord Jesus! 😢 im on my way out !
God is with you! Keep moving forward in Gods love!❤
Me seeing this in 2024 bt am so blessed. May the almighty bless you pastor cause u dont know what u have done in me.
Yes 2-16-24 Amen
It's getting to a point where I have to listen to this daily. Sometimes all the begging, crying and stalking makes me feel like I'm the clown! He's living his best life and I'm just poisoning myself for a bottom feeder can continue to lie to my face. I need the express lane to Jesus!
For the past one week, looking for this vedios like there's no tomorrow,I have been saved in the name of God.
Me too
Stay strong baby ..leave room for the right oneee
Poisoning myself for a bottom feeder to continue to lie to my Face. You said this so eloquent. You are so so Right. I stopped doing this and am now seeking The Lord diligently.
This is me too😢
All I can do is cry I don’t even know how I got on this video but I know God is doing something different with me
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Same here god has plans fa me 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
me too
I hear you
Crying right along with you sister
I am a non Christian but i am a muslim and i really needed this. You are like my own father i dont have a father in my life. But today you save a 25 years old. I write down the prayer (DUA) everything you say.
Ne too…
Never knew I had to invite the Holy Spirit in ❤❤
He has me looking at men on a whole nother level. This is amazing and he's the spiritual father that God has sent to us women for such a time as the times we are living
He sure did 🙏🏾
For such a time as this ...our vision supersedes that nonsense.
Don't ever forget GOD IS OUR FATHER!! Pastor RC Blakes is an instrument and messenger
Think like a man. Talk like a man. He is a god messenger. Thank you, Rc Blake's
5 yrs in a soul tied relationship. 4 days out of it. Bound by false promises.. FALSE HOPE! of a lifestyle that was never manifested. I prayed to God 2 wks ago to remove EVERYTHING and EVERYONE that is not good for my life. God did exactly that! Now God is revealing to me why I allowed myself to accept a relationship beneath what I deserve. Thank you for this message so fitting for my current situation. ❤👍
I absolutely can relate with you. You have to know your worth and value your life, your emotions, your heart etc and Go free to welcome in what God has for you. 🌸🌷🌼🌺
Hello Sasha. I'm so happy for you
I’m with you… ready to let go of foolishness. 1 yr of pure wasted time. Hope you’re still look forward because what for us will never be behind us.
Praise God! Any update on this?
That’s so encouraging. I divorced a narcissist after 15 years with 4 kids . 2 years later I remarried he seemed like a dream guy but as soon as we married he stoped . I’m exhausted because he neglects everything from paying bills to wanting to make me happy and I feel so hopeless.I’m very tired please pray for me that God helps me to leave . I can’t go on sobbing my bed with tears , and hoping he will change . Blessings
23:56 sometimes it’s just you’re tired by your own insecurities and you’ve subconsciously found your identity and your sense of value in your relationship with this individual
57:40 “all of us have seasons and areas in our life where we need someone who are stronger than we are”
“You so broken because God kicked a bum outta your life!” Yaaaass!! I needed to hear that! Thank you Pastor Blakes! 👍🙏🤗
Took my breath away, Revelation: "Your heart is still tied, because hope is still planted." My current issue right now with a situation I experienced months ago.
That’s me right now
I'm understanding that my hope must be in Christ Jesus...not in a clown.
Same here Stephanie Avila ...
Mine has been waiting 17yrs... guess it's time to stop waiting.
This message was for me😔 I'm going true this situation right now🙁Thank you🙏
Don't know about nobody else....I am being delivered and healed in this session! Lord Jesus!!
Me too 1/22/2022
Yessssss sister
Amen!
Me too sister. God bless you! ❤️🙏
I’m coming higher than thou cus I’m on the other side. 2 yrs after 10. So I really hope y’all delivert. It feels so good on this side
No words for the fact that this video showed up out of the blue exactly when I am fighting the addiction to my narcissistic ex husband. God was at work here and I am forever grateful
Same here. I just had to cut loose a 17 year toxic relationship yesterday and this video showed up today for me!
"No time to waste on a hobo" so true..... I appreciate your support and prayers.
The way you broke it down made me understand every single part of the soul tie I was in. 13 years of pain and trauma has ended in the name of Jesus. Thank you for this message.
I join you say Amen. I am not ready for year 14..All signs are clear he ain't committed or willing to change
Thank you JESUS ❣️
I am ready for the stronghold to end my sisters . Please pray for me🙏🏼
@@mijuajua4820 I pray for u as well as myself . . Because I'm tired of being done!
Amen 🙏🏽
Great message Bishop. So many immature men are missing the mark when it comes to treating women as the fragile vessels and Queens that they are. It's imperative ladies to exercise your worth so that these clowns in crowns won't attempt to approach you.
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Speak
@@nicolegodspower5018 🙏👑
That's it. I've been told by men 'I'm busy'.
Making me feel like I'm asking to much.
Being intimate and chase you in the beginning is no problem for them.
After that the withdrawal and distant attitudes begin
Eten you express feelings like explaining hurt, they don't give you affirmation.
No, they guilt trip that you are not being reasonable and have to accept what you are getting from them
They will act like the victim to busy to send you one little message.
No thoughtfulness.
Silence
Very painful.
I'm alone for many years now though relatively young and I decided to to never accept emotional manipulative or immature men.
I registered on a dating site bc I was fed up with letting faith rule bc I realised I have to create my own life taking charge.
Well.... A man approached me.
Seemed like a gentle man and in a way he acted like it but after our first meeting silence began. Heartache started.
I fought to not let him know but yesterday I told him how I felt and asking for clarity.
Reaction: busy with work and children (from past relationship) talk to you soon.
That's it.
I sent a thumbs up and I will move on.
I feel broken because at first you feel happy... Like finally you meet someone you feel good energy with
Confusing part, I felt positive energy and u smiled everytime we video called.
My smile felt devine.
Now my heart is aching physically for two days.
I let go. My heart feels broken.
I've been put aside like a radio you switch on and off by some men before so it's hard to discern where my own wounds begin and poor treatment of this man starts.
I promised myself that I would never bow down for manipulation or less than I deserve..
It was not about sex with this new man, I'm sure of this but I told him he acts like a little boy wanting to get his way and he admitted he can be like that.
Anyway I'm going to restore myself rebuild myself again.
This man says things like God bless etc.
But a manipulator once called himself a healer but mentally pushed me into doing things crossing my boundaries, calling it prayer.
I don't know why but I feel like blowing on my letters while typing.
Maybe it's the cleaning wind of God blowing over my life.
I'm very sensitive to energies and hidden emotions from my environment so I need to go back to my core where it's me leading. Not behaviors from others/a man.
But my heart says:. I love him.
What if its our human love we automatically give out to people, including a man who will take our devine nature to love into a prison cell with toxicity and getting nothing in return, while our love in itself was from God in us but misformed by a lower level.
Just typing what comes up.
This man said to me:
You have to look for someone with similar goals like building a life together or having children.
He was at least honest saying he is not a homely man but at the same time he held me, held my hand.
The hardest part to accept for myself is realising that I felt insecure with this man while I am normally, essentially a strong confident person.
It's very true that many men push your physical boundary subtle or openly, rude. Discussions I had to explain to men I'm not having unsafe sex and I only make love not sex. The moment they oppose your truth, boundaries, concerns and values it's bad news. In know it all rationally and I always speak up but they can be so good at dominating a conversation to shut you up. Making you responsible for their needs but when you have an emotional human need they we will not feel responsible for yours........ They will tell you be happy don't worry. The superficial positivity from a narcissist.
Their is no deeper connection with these characters.
A new day to heal my wounds. I have to keep thinking like a soldier but I also feel a little girl in me who is craving to be hugged and consoled by male arms.
This is the deepest root of my pain. Bless your all. I hope God is real I walked with Him but bc of all research about narcissism I also started to doubt if Christian faith was also a fairytale made up by narcissists to control me.
But I always felt good about God knowing He is not religion. He is my creator my Friend My Man, My best respectful company.
God I miss you hold me in Your arms please.
@@peaceofmindofpeace1650 First you have to cut all contact with this guy, clearly he was playing your heart and mind to get to your body. After he received what he wanted he fed you excuses, there's no honesty in him in regards to you.
Second, the heart can be deceptive, your love was or is one-sided, he doesn't feel the same, it was never in him to love you. Listen to God from here on out, not your thoughts or heart.
Third, please heal before involving yourself with someone else. Let this pain become purpose and a message to other women who may be experiencing a similar situation.
Our messes are messages and the purpose is greater than us.
Keep trusting God and protect your temple/body, your husband alone deserves access when that time comes. I'm praying for your Peace of mind of peace.
Tonight my soul was saved with this message, i am eternally greatful
Pastor RC you speak to me like a Dad should speak to their daughter. You helped me see my value. Thank you.
Some soul contracts can ONLY be broken by FASTING and PRAYER. Don't be afraid to do the work. Your better life is waiting for you. 33:07 some things can't be counseled out! You gotta invite the HOLY SPIRIT! That's on God💕🙌🏾
Yes and fasting is not ALWAYS food!!!!
@@kizzyrock aa
Thank you Post or been looking this been trying on my own blessimgs
Im so ready for fasting and praying.against it all; soul ties. Heart ache, Heart break, Any. And every memory, any longing for him at all.
Let the healing begin
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I see I was not the only one. 28 years of pure lies and emotional abuse. CRYING! THANK YOU FOR THIS.
God will bring you out and will find your true identity in him🤗 I am a living testimony. He brought me and direct me to RC Blakes just surfing on TH-cam one early early morning..
Same here. So many lies, betrayal, emotional abuse, stress and over 3 years of litigious divorce with 2 minors involved. It’s so hard to forgive and let it go, but if we don’t shift our minds into a spiritual direction we will end up poisoning ourselves.
Same here after 18 years, I dumped him yesterday.
Thanks for sharing your story. It has opened my eyes to keep pushing and never give up. You are a strong women and I know that God will send the right person to you and give you double for your trouble.
No you were not the only one-30 years...
This is really helping me. Imma listen over and over again. Haven't touched him in almost 3 months and still soul tied to him, and he don't deserve it..🎉🎉
It’s such a relief to hear this. It explains everything. I did quarantine for over a year and it was extremely painful. Still fighting it but now I understand. I was dumbfounded. How can you be so attached to someone you don’t even like or respect? It’s demonic! The healing is not a quick process. It’s a long, excruciating process.
Exactly! There were some great qualities about my person but such qualities should not have superceded the fact that he had huge red flags - the kind of big red flags that turned me off. And yet, I was just so attached and addicted to this person that I was obsessively thinking about him all the time.
Going through the same. Try to stay busy then out of the blue I want to cry. He treated me like dirt. God will get us through it!
@@valwalker9606same traumatizing😭😭💔💔💔
You said it! Why do I give my sacred body to a man who repulsed me? No more...I don't have to give him my body or my time any more. We both must heal or we'll die never having become an adult.
@kellyh5250 I'm a week out of a 14-year relationship. We had great memories and good chemistry. I really thought he was my soul mate until on April fools day last year I over heard him and a female kissing. The conversation was caught on his Google watch. That was the first time I had ever thought about him creeping. He was clearly drunk but no excuse. Ever since that day I've been looking at him sideways. I became paranoid about everything. Anger sat in but I never stopped seeing him and things were never right for us. The disappointment for me was unbearable and I was angry at myself for staying. I thought after that incident he'd work hard to make me happier. SIKE, he wanted more sex and more sex. It was ridiculous. I mean every time he saw me he wanted sex. I started feeling like I was here for his pleasure and my emotional needs were not being met. He pretended to understand and made a bunch of promises he never kept. That added to my frustration.
The blow up came when I tried to have an adult conversation with him and he started gaslighting me. Things got really ugly and I blocked his number. I couldn't read another disrespectful message.
I texted him the other day, silence. .I'm not surprised because he probably blocked me or his just ignoring me.
I'm praying that demon away. I really started to dislike his controlling ways.This video will be in my ear several times daily ❤
I can't believe I had ignored the red flags in the beginning. Your videos have helped me wake up and realize the man only cared about himself.
Amen
What if u have kids by him
“There are some things that can’t be counseled out. The Holy Spirit has to be invited in.” It can’t be said any better.
Amen and AMEN!!💜
Yes!!
Amen! 🙏
0H
Adding to my first reply- What you said is so profound. It cannot be said any better when the Holy Spirit is at the forefront of our spirit and in our mind. Heart too. Which is why I pray every morning for the Holy Spirit to speak for me and not me for me throughout my day. God. bless you, Tina
This is October 2023. I am in a soul tie for 7 months yesterday Pastor Blake. I miss my husband who passed away 3 years ago. This is one of the hardest things I’m having trouble in letting this new man go. It is sooo hard because I love him but now I’m seeing the real him surface of how he really feels about me. My family and very close friends told me to let this counterfeit go and let God upgrade me with someone who will come to love me a Christ loves the church. The counterfeit has a form of godliness but denies God’s power to try and keep me addicted to him. I will use what you taught here to dismantled this soul tie and stop this insanity. I want to be free and whole again even though the pain is excruciating. I desire you and sister Lisa’s prayers. Thank you so much.🙏🏽
Dear Bishop- PLEASE do not feelyou need to speak “gently”. You are the most powerful in your message when you speak boldly and plainly about soul ties! You hit home and breakthrough broken mindsets and soul tied individuals when you speak bluntly in Truth!
Accountability is a game changer! The moment you begin to accept the level of damage you personally, single handedly allowed to interrupt your journey-the moment you embrace past trauma as a lesson& end the cycle of self sabotage-the moment you stop entertaining a false figment of weak imaginations that make you feel it’s a way to fix someone else’s sick mind-the moment you disengage the weapon of lust-the moment you remove the shameful secrets and begin to give your testimony--YOUR LIFE WILL BE BETTER! YOUR LIFE WILL BE RENEWED! OPPOSITION WILL CEASE AND OPPORTUNITIES WILL BE RELEASED INTO YOUR SITUATION! GOD IS WAITING ON YOU TO COMMIT TO THE WORK. Faith without works is dead! Holding on to a dead situation is not your portion. 💜 💜 💜
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Amen thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you. That was deep.
Beautifully written. ❤️
Wow! You have spoken....thank you so much for this
I just separated myself tonight from a man I was engaged to for 5 years. Perfect timing for this message.
Praise God!!! Thank You!!!
Me too, one week in time, tonight i seperated from my bf....i loved him dearly, but a part of me pushed me to end it for many factors.
I wish him the best...
@@lolaispure4296 be the queen u deserve better!💕
@@bessk8847 thank you my dear❤
Awesome!!!❤🙏❤
The mask falls off and you see the depth of the darkness of the narc and there is no returning to who they pretended to be.
2023 and i am listening with tears down my face pastor blakes you are talking to me
I’m thank you for your messages. I’m a fatherless daughter and my mom passed away when I was five. So having strong male influence wasn’t apart of my cards I guess. A lot of my life lessons have been learned by trial and error. So you officially are my uncle now haha. Because this level of accountability is what I have always searched for. 😊
Thank you
I never thought I would be going through this in my life 😫
@Fee none of us ever do 🙏🏾
Neither did I. Sometimes I find myself crying in MY SLEEP. I just can't escape this pain.
Me either people are past evil.
Me neither xxxx
You must get out of your flesh to overcome the pain. You need to come to the realization that you deserve better than this situation. When you began to believe you truly deserve better you will begin to feel better. Don't focus on time lost, you can't get it back. You are only adding to the time lost by continuing to focus on it.
The addiction lies in our false pride to assume that we can “ fix” a Narc. Only God can do that. So the answer is to let go and let God. Surrender. And ask to be restored to sanity. To realize I’m only human.
I am struggling with a soul tie, it has been eight months. I needed to hear this. Thank you!
Divine order
1. Spirit…sensitive to the Holy Spirit…no contradictions w/in my members
2. Soul… falls in alignment behind your spirit
3. Body - My body follows
4. Need to Quarantine
5. Return to your vision
6. Always loose yourself when run behind someone else
7. Center your soul
8. Accept accountability
9. Hard to see the picture when your in the frame… find someone you can be accountable too…
10. Leave that clown in a crown at the zoo in the cage where he belongs with the lock on the cage the throw away the key and run and don’t look back…
11. GOD WE THANK YOU WE CAN DO THIS WITH YOUR INTERVENTION IN JESUS NAME AMEN!!!
Folks this may not be in the order pastor spoke but I did my best…
This is why fasting and praying is so important
I said ohh the devil thought he had me.. Good thing I never lost my faith.. Blessed.. Thank you Jesus.
Amen
AMEN!!
Amen
Everytime I hear, “life is to short” it shakes me to my core. 34 years old and this message is for me and my current life. I’m waking up though.
I look at my life and realize that toxic relationships in my life are not just with men. I have abusive relationships with family. Learning to change this
@ 57 years old, ive lost almost 11 years of been a Soul tie relationship.
My daddy would be ashamed.
I lost him at 22 years old, long road without his advice and wisdom, but I knew better and stayed in it.
Blessed to Have found you on social media a few month ago.
Amen ! bless your heart. When I hear your messege I pray this young ladies will hear your words and they do NOT WASTE A DECADE as I did.
Thank you ! Even at my age
You have your best day ahead of you. It’s never too late to have the best. I’m proud you made it out of that situation. Stay safe 💕
There are no age limit to a soul tie just deep sexual feelings.
I wasted a decade and I'm trying to get my life back!
Watching this in 2022 I needed to hear this. It's a hard journey and letting go Is the hardest thing I have ever had to do. I keep going back and reinfecting myself. I pray that after hearing this the holy spirit will guide give me the strength to let go of what God has no longer wants in my life. I pray you all find peace and happiness in your journeys too 🥰🥰
I join you and free myself by the end of this Year. I can't continue to live like this.
Me too🥺🙇🏻♀️
Thank you for encouraging words
We were lead here now because the Holy Spirit is working now. Embrace the peace and happiness he bestows. My prayers for you 🙏❤️💪🏻👑
I'm standing with you, holding space, and ending this for good for my self.
20 years with my daughter's father. I asked God for a man who didn't cheat, but I received just as worst. Broken, toxic . I am drained. I want to get over this. I begged God to ease my heart and help me to move . I am so happy I am hearing this. Only God mercy and grace help me.
I understand, more than you know. Take some time for yourself. Let the grace and peace of God heal you, in the Name of Jesus Christ! Amen!
Thank you. I need him immediately, and I have faith
I was crying like a baby watching some parts of this. Thank you so much! You may have saved my life! God spoke through you to me this morning. Amen 🙏
Yes Emily cry, scream, get it all out. I cried, I wrote a letter to myself about what I had dealt with. It's not easy. Just take one day at a time. It's been 6 months now and I feel great. I've started setting goals for myself that I wanna accomplish. I go out to lunch and dinner with friends and family. I'm out of the dating game period. I'm reading self affirmation book for black women. I'm just looking at life differently now.
Crying with you. 😢
Same, girl
And I get emotional again and cry reading these comments.
Glory to God!!!
@@renec.4803same
As a 29 year old single woman, I'm just in awe of some of the stories in this comment section. Thank you ladies for being transparent and sharing your experiences. It has reinforced my desire to wait patiently on the man God has for me.
I wish I can be 21 again and know all of this
Yes,. Just wait on the one that God have for YOU. The story that I can tell you about my life. I wish that I had waited.
Oh Sweetheart You have no idea! Imagine going thriufh many soul ties. Us promiscuous in our pasts were/are heavily demonized needing so much spiritual work. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy!
Pleasseee do wait! God will guide you to the one!
“Wasted your time on a tramp on a bum on a clown in a crown on a hobo” 🤣whew. Needed all of that. I feel so at peace after this video. Thank you
Blakes is going off. I can't stop laughing. He's so right though.
I tried many times to stop with him, but he keeps coming back no matter how many times I blocked hi.. and once he reache out on me I can't just ignore him. I keep forgiving and keep coming back. It's really hard to cut a soul tie even you know it's not a healthy situation. I Keep praying and ask God to help me and lead me to the right direction.. I claimed all the positive energies and abundant blessings solidarity and devine intervention
Whoa!!! watching this on 30th October, 2023...and it speaks right into my heart!!!! 💥💫🔥🔥🔥🔥 God bless you Pastor!! 🙌🙌
I only got to the 10th minute when I started to feel so much wash over me, every single word was spoken personally to me. On Saturday I was praying for this message, for the steps I have to take. I am burning things tied to him, deleting, repenting, packing my things, praying, praying and praying. My 10 year, toxic soul tie, WILL end in these next few weeks.
Praying that things are working out well for you. God bless you give you comfort and strength on your journey...beauty for ashes! 💛
@cherryelisa I've got to do the same. I have all his clothes and shoes in my house and it's so much stuff . Either he takes them or I give them away. When I left the house we lived in together "I carried him" with me to my new place, my own space. Why did I do that!
Ridding yourself of those things don’t help, because they can be replaced. You need to get to a place in your life where you are real with yourself. Make up your mind to leave him alone, and stick with it no matter what. Until you make up your mind, you will keep doing it,
“Your vision will begin to heal your heart from the pain of the disconnect.” That was profound.
absolutely what i needed to get the wheels turning
Yes!!!🤗🙏
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We have to also realize that if we don’t let go now as painful as it is it will be much more painful if something serious happens down the road. In these types of relationships you risk losing family members, jobs etc
I was fatherless growing up he was a drug addiction,alcoholic, and mother the same! I never had a father to tell me all these truthful words!!
Ty sir!!! I greatly appreciate it!!
Boy, did I need this. Took notes and will be speaking them regularly. You really have the gift of testimony. I gave 27 years 4 kids to be discarded now that he has a great career and $. We're going through divorce now. I'm quarantined he's with someone new. I would appreciate prayers.
I hope your in a better place Rhonda.
I also pray for u Ronda that God has given u strength to push forward
Father in Christ name you
Are great and the all seeing only God , who hears the prayers of the Children who call on your name
Your promises are a sure thing, you are not a man
That you should lie, so thank you Father in Jesus name for helping this woman your child get knowledge and understanding , and your
Help in this hurtful situation with her husband. Come Father
With your Devine presence to tell her to pray and stand still and watch the work of your hand in all this. Comfort her children.
Prayers 🙏
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After being with my husband for over 20 years, and I'm 39 (we were high school sweethearts) I watch all your videos but This One really hit home. He promised when we were young a great and happy life, but it's been pure hell. I finally got the strength and took me and my daughter and moved out. Thanks for your teachings it truly blessed me.
Sis, this is my first time listening to this man of God and I have been married for 20 years this past October and my marriage is Hell for me and we have 4 beautiful kids and after hearing his message I was so inspired to hear what I have been thinking but not for sure If I was in Gods will because it is a marriage and I thought let me look down in the messages just to see if it’s another person like me or is this mainly for single people and I saw your message looking like what I was thinking so thx for sharing and I pray your life now is filled with the spirit of God.
Amen
LaTonya, honey I completely understand. My husband and I met when I was 17. We married when I was 20, and after years of broken promises (hope deferred) and affairs, I left 4 days before our 19th weddin anniversary. It hurt like HELL! You here me? But, I knew THAT night that if I didn't leave, I would end up in jail for 25 to life.
@@mz.qleanne1132 you know what sis, you are so right in your decision and I have thought about things like that as well but definitely was like he isn’t even worth me loosing my kids over but because he did change for the most part but still we have not reconnected as husband and wife and I don’t know if it’s because of me holding on to the hurt and never really healing and loosing trust or what. But praise God you are free
Can I ask for an update with you ladies @ all. Its been 19 years, 2 kids including an 8 month baby. I am broken, beyond recognition.
Just started listening, please lord i pray give me strength and let these words move me in spirit towards ONLY what is meant for my highest good til forever. Im so damn tired of being hurt and confused
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In Therapy today, we went over how sex does not equal love. I am healing more and more each day. 🙏
Ive begged God for these answers for a while. I’m so grateful.
So did I...😔 I finally opened my eyes to Gods signs.... 🙏💕💯💯💯💯
So did I. He was speaking to me and I ignored him. Not anymore.
Amen. I broke up with my ex boyfriend three months ago. He was a cheater and drug addict. He played me for 4 years. He did hit me back in 2018. I didn't hold any hatred against him. Now he is trying to play victim that he didn't have STDs. Never take back your ex because you might get yourself more trouble 🙏🕊️
Yes, you WILL
True
This is soooooo good, Pastor. It will be on repeat until I get it. Bless you.
Same here.
I listened to you about one man , then met another and nearly ruined my entire life , my career and everything I’m working for just from being tied to this man. Thank God for helping me find this today and you for being who you are. ❤
I need to watch this daily!! It’s like he’s speaking directly to me... All I can say is THANK YOU
Me too!
Me too
Yessss me too
Amen
I have been dealing with this for the past 2 years. Broke up with my ex/ son father but I have a lot of anger towards him from all his broken promises
I was in a verbal abusive relationship with a guy. I was told about this guy by his mother and sister. I thought things would better. It never got better. I recently broke off the relationship six months. I feel so good .
So glad to know you're doing better
Invisible abuse leave invisible scars
Absolutely this has been a challenge for me w a 12yr situationship it’s been hard but prayer and decernment
I just want to say how much this has helped me and clarify things for me. I had been in a relationship for over 9 years with a man and have a precious 6 year old son with him. In the last few years together we became addicts to sex and drugs, got abusive verbally and physically, homeless and worse our son was taken. The next day after he was taken i laid down the drugs and began to pray. I got a home and will have my son back soon. I ended the relationship with his father. I repentedand gave my life to God. However I have been struggling with the relationship and what to do about it because his father doesn't want it ended and is in alot of pain. I don't want him hurting but I have been confused on what to do. Thank you so much for this video it has truly clarified what I already felt in my heart, but I doubted myself.
I know this was recorded 8 months ago, but I happen to stumble across this video and I desperately needed it. God bless you, this word was for me! I’ve been so caught up on someone who I know doesn’t even deserve me. This message was something I needed. Thank you so much pastor. God bless you ❤️
I am barely listening to it as well. This man is a God sent! Stay strong 👸
I am with you. Just saw this. Been out of my soul tie relationship about seven months. Really shocking and never been involved with a narcissist. He won't happen again. Stay prayed up😇
Wow, It's 6am I been going through with a man whom I am sick & tired of going through with him, I want God to give me directions towards taking the steps towards removing this person out of my life, and work on getting my daughter, grd.kids, relationship back together , I rather be with my family nonsense than an outsider foolishness, this person has no heart just good at pretending, I open my door up to help him, and have regretted every since, I want to get my peace & happiness back by getting this person out of my place & my life for good. Thank you pastor for this word
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️..Pray and Allow your Heart to break.. Been there! The mind is a Battlefield.. Allow your heart to break and miss him. Don’t give in to the temptation and his lies, they only change temporarily to get you back.
@@louloring5306 thank you for your encouraging words blessings to you
The soul tie being due to the hope being deferred, never thought about it like that. Wow.
I also had hope he claimed that we were getting married😢
This is me but I’m getting free today. Let me Hope in God. Not this ungodly soul tie.
We often like to call it, "Potential".
@@truth-is-light1994 Exactly this! I'm so guilty of falling in love with the 'potential' rather than the person he really is.
Now after 2 yrs I found and I am listening your speech just when I need it.Thank you Holy Spirit
He even told me directly that he wants my soul OMG 😱 I praise God for a deeper Revelation
Lets start 2021 with a renewed mind. Break the soul tie and move your life in a spiritual direction. God bless everyone who watches this video.🙏🙏🙏
Amen
Thank you, and the same to you too.
Amen
Renewing of your mind!!!💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿. It's hard to do! Sad situation...you have decipher between bad and real!
Married 35 years. It got progressively worse until his affairs, emotional and physical abuse. I never knew him, never imagined he was that person.
Same here, not physical abuse but every other abuse you can think of I have suffered, no one believes me no matter what I do or say he's such a narcissist
Thank you so much man of god I've been in a trap most of my life with non available men and now I'm a women of a certain age I have no more time for immature NARCISSIST disregarding men. I always new I was soonf something wrong, I just didn't know how to get the tools to fix my behaviors. Your teachings are Priceless we need your guidance in the black communities.
I am going through the same thing.
@@TheMrsmnymakr may God bless you and protect you always
Going through the same. It's not easy, therefore you must surround yourself with the things of God. Very happy to hear Bishop speak.
I needed this so badly.. I prayed last night for God to help me release someone I’ve been attached to and everytime I tried to cordcut I couldn’t release and would become mentally drained.. now that I know what has really happened and why this happened I can work harder to unwind the cord. Thank you ! Thank you Lord!
I have listened to this 3x, each time it blesses my soul. Thank you
I've been in a 20 year relationship, he never married me and we have no children. I'm so broken and it's so hard to move forward, but I can't invest in another 20 years of being a roommate and no goals. That deferred hopes wow.
I'm sorry my dear. I truly understand your pain and I appreciate your honesty. Blessings on you as you move forward to a new beginning
HONEY I TRULY UNDERSTAND YOUR PAIN, BECAUSE I BEEN THERE.I DON'T KNOW IF YOU OWN YOUR HOME LIKE I DO, BECAUSE IF YOU OWN YOUR HOME MANY MEN WILL USE THAT AND PRAY ON YOU R VULNERABILITY AND THE LONGER YOU LET HIM STAY THE HARDER IT WILL GET .YOU ARE SOMEBODY DON'T LET NO MAN DISRESPECT YOU GOD HAS BETTER FOR YOU. I AM WAITING FOR MINE
Baay Matt, I too can identify. In a relationship 22 years come January 29. No marriage, no kids together (I have 2 from a previous marriage, he has non), I'm now 51, he's 48 and saying there is no NEED to rush into marriage, cause he's only planning on getting married once. I own my own home and he lives there. We've been living together for 21 years. So, I can definitely relate.
Since November I've asked him to use the guest room for sleeping but we share the rest of the house and the responsibilities.
I'm TIRED of being companion and house mate. Obviously he does not want to commit to marriage with ME... yet wants the sexual benefits and the accommodation.
Sigh!
@@angelgray1089 kick him out! If he only wants to get married once, its clearly not to you. Rejection is God's protection,. Please kick that man to the curb and never look back. He's using you, they take what we give and do what we allow. You deserve better, please get rid off him. Good riddance to people like him.
10 months later and I can’t let go of my 22 yrs of marriage after he left. Thank you for this message. His life went ON and I still can’t sleep and have an EXTREME high level of anxiety. Haunted by visions in my mind playing tricks on me. Left and didn’t look back…. HOWWWW can ppl just do that?????? After so many yrs. Never saw it coming😪
Must listen to this a few times to GET IT. This is ON POINT!!!!
How are you now?😢
May God grant you the peace he has for you .Accept it . God bless you.
It takes 2-5 years to psychologically get over a relationship that long. Hang in there it will get better.
God knows I feel Your Pain and my relationship was ONLY 2 and Half years but the Pain was Great in spite of !!!!!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I’m so sorry😪 I know your pain. I don’t understand it either. You’re not alone. My heart goes out to you. The Lord will give you the strength you need to get through it and it will bring you closer to Him which is the best place to be. God bless you 🙏🏼❤️
This Powerful video was made 2 years ago and everything pastor stated was exactly what I’m dealing with right now. I needed this to start my journey of breaking soul tie😩🙌🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🥰
I love when people are obedient to God. This is what I needed when I was 15.. but so so grateful to have it now. This will keep me from being “reinfected”
Thank you thank you 🙏🏻
That prayer was necessary! 2021 I am Free! In Jesus Name, Amen!
Yes! I received that. Amen.
Hugs and kisses from above 🙏
Amen!!!
This is good and so true. I’m 50 and just figured all this out.
Free from bondage free from toxicity & from lies I claim this in the name of Jesus. Strongholds are breaking, Amen!
I really needed to hear this because I know this tie I have with this person is not of God and it’s not natural
Mines to honey but when I tell you my year is not ending like this nor beginning a new year with the BS... that’s what I mean! It’s not worth it your sanity and energy.
@@ntrasmr87 yes !.. I got to leave this situation put it behind me cause I’m loosing myself 2021 cutting all of it out I’m choosing my pain for once in my life
If you don’t have to wait don’t wait til 2021 . The sooner the better .
Jesus 🙌🏼
It's very true sometimes in life we tend to hold on things that are not beneficial in our lives
Especially in marriages even if you can see that it's not working you still hold on to it ending up in chronic conditions that destroys your purpose
Thank you Pastor for this revelation
Very true.