FOUR ESSENTIALS TO BREAKING A SOUL-TIE by RC Blakes

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  • @jamnoise72
    @jamnoise72 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    1. Close Your Ears.
    2. Close Your Legs.
    3. Restore Your Soul - Accept God's Forgiveness.
    4. Renew Your Self Respect, Officially Denounce The Relationship.

    • @fefeanng7
      @fefeanng7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This needs more likes 💯

  • @CoachLove
    @CoachLove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +484

    I denounce all of my previous relationships. They received good. My future husband will receive what none of them got, my BEST.

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen.

    • @TempermentalTart
      @TempermentalTart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen!

    • @nicolegreene2208
      @nicolegreene2208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen indeed 🙌🏾

    • @riccotherich2176
      @riccotherich2176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel sorry for your future husband even though more than likely you won't ever get married 💯💰

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I always like your comments. You have a super-power: common sense.

  • @brendafrancis8200
    @brendafrancis8200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +565

    Its important to go NO CONTACT PERMANENTLY!!!!. No Facebook, Instagram, emails and text. Pray daily and ask God to release you from this demonic soul tie. The longer you keep this soul tie it will steal months and even years from your life!!!

    • @empresserica
      @empresserica 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yep. I was a witness.

    • @marciadawkins7731
      @marciadawkins7731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agee!!!

    • @farfetched9296
      @farfetched9296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      It's true. I spent 10 months worrying about a man that didn't give a damn about me. BELIEVE and MAN'S ENERGY & ACTIONS. Be DEAF to a MAN'S WORDS.

    • @brendafrancis8200
      @brendafrancis8200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@farfetched9296 you will be alright. You can do it!!! We must love ourselves first!!

    • @melinatedvessel6840
      @melinatedvessel6840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup it most certainly has.

  • @laurai2599
    @laurai2599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    A 100% spiritual warfare situation. Soul ties are REAL.

    • @JesusSaves77799
      @JesusSaves77799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That reply below is a spam! I’ve seen it on other preacher’s pages as well! I have reported it!

    • @wendywalcott491
      @wendywalcott491 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I going through this right now I need help

    • @larissagonzales6075
      @larissagonzales6075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      seriously I am a strong and self-aware person and it still is hard to break these thoughts of yearning and longing for a stranger.

    • @catherinewhisenand5678
      @catherinewhisenand5678 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree

    • @randigut2490
      @randigut2490 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spiritual Warfare IS life on earth ...we've gotta pick a side a be a warrior for that side ...devil's grabbing every soul he can & gaining ground ...one of his favorite tools (more & more every moment) r one of his favorites; they r able to charm our pants off & get into our head to keep us busy focusing on them, trying to figure out their crazy making fake stuff, so we r not spending time seeking God & His instruction booklet to our life (The Bible)... They r so so good at this too; until we started figuring out their bull & calling them out, then they run from US (instead of us from them), when they see God's truths within us from the beginning or when they know we know, game over; they get the heck out of there lol !!!
      ...Narcissist are so predictable, so easy to spot once we experience them; they r all the same & all ridiculous, once we see thru their unreal egos ...Thank You God !
      My life, after 40 years of Narcissistic Abuse by many of them, who were attracted to my conditioning by my Momma, I'm now free & my life has been spared !!!
      Heck they led me straight into God's Loving arms, my life has NEVEr been better now that I'm free of them; I'm so Thankful, to God ...AND to them lol !
      Their tricks of holding u in bondage has backfired, like everything they do, in the end ...we already know who wins the Spiritual Warfare, Bible tells us ALL !
      See 2 Timothy 3, describes the Narcissist in the "end times" & just like the Psychologists, God tells us to stay away from them !
      Learning to spot them, so we never get entangled in first place (be sure the person u choose loves God, & would love God if NOT with u too), God thru Jesus is The Truth, The Life & The (only) Way !
      Amen; thank You God !

  • @dianeoneil5376
    @dianeoneil5376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    Soul ties are 💯 percent real, folks. Listen to this man!

    • @innerpeaceandselflove
      @innerpeaceandselflove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes

    • @miranda2216
      @miranda2216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      100% real baby!!!!!

    • @monkeymonk227
      @monkeymonk227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yess💯

    • @jennyzavala2803
      @jennyzavala2803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m living this right now don’t know if is my mind intuición or heart telling me get out but ask soon as I act to let go something feel tie up and I star felling guilty I don’t know why

    • @michellenesmith917
      @michellenesmith917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes

  • @lorraineluckett
    @lorraineluckett 3 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Pray for me, 23 years of bondage . I'm getting my freedom!

    • @pbjt2396
      @pbjt2396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I prayed for you sister.

    • @jordanjackson3817
      @jordanjackson3817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ditto

    • @keekee322
      @keekee322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yesssss!!! Whewww I been in it for years and it is horrible but we have to pray our way out

    • @lorraineluckett
      @lorraineluckett 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, everyone.

    • @kellypolfleit3942
      @kellypolfleit3942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I will add you to my prayers

  • @vmoore8868
    @vmoore8868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    Once a person stops looking for closure and acceptance moving on becomes a little easier. It hurts. The deception and betrayal is real but the love for yourself has to be greater. Like Whitney Houston said...learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all!!!

    • @Downnnn
      @Downnnn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      You never really get closure anyway. If they can't get out of you what they want out of you there isn't any reason for them to talk to you. And apologize? Usually people that we have soul ties with are not one to apologize. They put the blame on you and yet we keep eating candy out of their hands.

    • @jjtw1219
      @jjtw1219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Narcissistic behavior….negativity, and NO benefits.

    • @judahschild8215
      @judahschild8215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Downnnn Peace that surpasses all understanding is closure. The Lord healing one's heart, mind, body and soul is closure 😌🕊️🥁💜💛

    • @mw7882
      @mw7882 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Amen and Whitney Houston was lonely, extremely talented, and did not love herself because of all of the toxic people around her. Eventually that toxic environment not only killed her emotionally but physically.

    • @BIGREDD9305
      @BIGREDD9305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How do you move on when it’s like you find out new things everyday. Like subliminals. Is that just getting all of it out? That’s my issues. I feel that’s where I’m messed up at.

  • @AnjelSpeaks
    @AnjelSpeaks ปีที่แล้ว +12

    How to break a soul tie
    1. Block the access to your ears.
    2. Break the physical addiction by curbing the sexual impulses. In the mind and spirit.
    A. The mind must be preoccupied by something meaningful and righteous to distract from the flesh. Find your purpose, goals, hobbies, that's meaningful to you.
    B. The spirit must be filled with the Holy Spirit.
    C. The flesh must be denied.
    Prayer and fasting (denial of the flesh so the spirit can expand.)
    3. Restore your soul by accepting God's forgiveness/love. (The mind has been damaged to believe your value is less bc of x,y,& z. Spend time in God's presence and feel the forgiveness of God. Bask in the fact that you are right with God and there is no condemnation to you.)
    4. Renew your self-respect by officially denouncing that relationship. Denounce it by your mouth and actions. Do this AFTER doing the other steps. Cancel every word of love or promise you spoke to that person and what they spoke to you. Keep yourself available, clean, and pure for God to send the right person to your life. Lose the desperation. And choose to wait on God for the right one. Submit to God, resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

  • @Ms.Bree8403
    @Ms.Bree8403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    I cut this person off once and made the mistake and responded 5 months later🤦🏾‍♀️ and it was worse this time around. I literally changed my number, deactivated my IG deleted my main email account deleted all pictures and videos. This is a toxic soul tie. And I was tempted to call today but was led here and pastor was live...its deep but I know I'll get over it.

    • @hj0628
      @hj0628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      U got it girl and God got u 😘

    • @p9510
      @p9510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      We all learn from mistakes. God already forgave you and He will bless us with a Godly man ❤️

    • @Ms.Bree8403
      @Ms.Bree8403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@hj0628 thank you, I appreciate you🤗

    • @sharrellfaith
      @sharrellfaith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      U got this sis💪🏿 get many hobbies it helps

    • @trinap.8904
      @trinap.8904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Yes it's much worse the 2nd or more time around. The person is out for revenge; the ego is driving the reunion not love and it's dangerous. Stay away!

  • @lauriemccrackenalsted9778
    @lauriemccrackenalsted9778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    “...Go and sin no more.” You have been called out publicly on your behavior.... renew your self-respect, officially denounce your relationship and MOVE ON!!!!!

  • @Pagingnursejackie
    @Pagingnursejackie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Trauma bonds are real. They are based on childhood traumas. When we are able to recognize that how we were treated as children paves the way for the way we allow people to treat us!

    • @ana999100
      @ana999100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Truth! My heart and soul have been shredded by my parents...:(

    • @vernita0216
      @vernita0216 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's so true... Even after years of therapy, I still have to be extremely conscious that I don't let nobody's dusty son treat me like emotionally broken father did. I have to always be cognizant of my trauma and consciously not act upon it.

    • @DiannePowell-i1n
      @DiannePowell-i1n 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      +😊😊😊😊

    • @DanielCesar-v1z
      @DanielCesar-v1z 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ana999100

  • @angeelee9277
    @angeelee9277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    Yes you are helping. You got to go NO CONTACT. Don't look for them online. Build your mind and set it. You gotta SET YOUR MIND. I have been through this and it is hard but so sweet a blessing on the other side. Gotta go through that fire and come out refined and strong. Glory. God does not want his daughters to be hurt like this. Thank you.

  • @doloreshinson3988
    @doloreshinson3988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    I’ve been struggling and I’m so tired of this soul tie. I need prayer please.

    • @trinap.8904
      @trinap.8904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      It will hurt like heck! Stay strong, cry it out, talk to God, go deep in your bible and focus on self love.. It will get better slowly by crucifying the old self with the help of Jesus Christ. Praying for you Sis❤

    • @ONLYLOVEIZATION
      @ONLYLOVEIZATION 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      🙏

    • @p9510
      @p9510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You are healed in Jesus name. Amen 🙏🏻

    • @SuperCookie011
      @SuperCookie011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Can you really see him for who he is first? Then understand he is under demonic control and choose your Lord and SAVIOR as your FIRST LOVE. Then RUN to him instead of that person. PRAY for them and work on yourself. Jesus has so much Love/Healing and he is ALWAYS available.

    • @SuperCookie011
      @SuperCookie011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@trinap.8904 well, said!!

  • @yevonnevanhorn8533
    @yevonnevanhorn8533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    PREACH Bishop‼️NO CONTACT for seven months. Thank God I'm FREE 👏🏾👏🏾

    • @classydahlia3933
      @classydahlia3933 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @RC Blakes Jr is this a spam?

    • @inspirationwithnicole
      @inspirationwithnicole 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@classydahlia3933 Yes it is!

    • @classydahlia3933
      @classydahlia3933 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@inspirationwithnicole so sad
      I stopped watching because of this..
      I am laid off and this really put a bad taste in my mouth if that makes sense😞
      I was so happy when I started reading the response to then be let down when I was asked for money and then saw it was copy and pasted everywhere else...

    • @user-yk9sk7pg6v
      @user-yk9sk7pg6v 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You go girl!

  • @blaaahblahh
    @blaaahblahh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    This man that I have been with for 4 years has pushed my buttons to the point that I’ve acted completely out of character when angry. and once an hour or so passes and I think about it I’m so ashamed of my behavior and just hate myself for it. I’m tired of this draining cycle. I pray to God to give me the strength to let go.

    • @pbjt2396
      @pbjt2396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It's okay. I blamed myself and took most responsibility for such behavior for a long time whilst in an abusive relationship. When I finally left him and discussed how disappointed I was with myself, I told my best friend how ashamed I was because I acted out of character. I said the way I acted was not someone deserving of respect from Anyone. She said "But you were Provoked". I remember those simple words each time I think back about my poor behavior. It was purely reactionary, and I became that way after years of being punished, abused, and drained continually by a true narcissist. We don't just betray our morals without extreme pressure and provocation.
      Take RC Blake's advice- PRAY to God and denounce your relationship out loud. SAY It so your subconscious hears it too. Verbalize to yourself that You are worthy of respect and love. Don't let those imperfect moments crush your spirit- forgive yourself and build your spirit up again. I have faith you will be more discerning afterwards

  • @missaliciaandfamily4833
    @missaliciaandfamily4833 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Statement about blocking the individual worked for me !
    1) block the individual
    2) refrain from sexual activity in the mind and spirit. Make your mind focus on something else ( meaningfully ) to avoid only thing of the individual.
    3) we must get out of our comfort zone
    4) guard your mind so the weeds don't take over ( Jim Rohn)

  • @helenjones2663
    @helenjones2663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This man might not be a license therapist or psychologist, but he has sound knowledge and a love for women and people! Definitely helps me!

  • @sljcsu
    @sljcsu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Soul ties are REAL!! Pastor I used to be that person, granting a person access to my mind and body. I am a living witness that Those impulses go when you purge that soul tie, there is a withdrawal period, but when you finally deny that flesh and it's desires, you no longer have those sexual feelings or thoughts! As a matter of fact, your "BS" meter becomes very sensitive..lol

    • @kaim1810
      @kaim1810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here. And it’s been at least two or three times I’ve cut the ties but ended up going back one last time in spite of my better judgement. And this time I was left hurt. And I’ve done the deleting and blocking on everything. Im doing better but still think about them every once in a while. Glad I came here though!

    • @BritTellstheTruth
      @BritTellstheTruth 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

  • @seanmariebee7955
    @seanmariebee7955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    “That’s a soul tie bae!” It’s real. People reject it because they either haven’t been through it or they are in it. It takes one to lay eyes on it or go through it and get to the other side to know it’s real.

    • @manyi4success
      @manyi4success 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Spoken from experience

  • @HeatherDMorris
    @HeatherDMorris 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Before I deleted his pics I focused in on his eyes and cropped it ! I just had his eyes to look into ( without that sweet smile and nice body ) and they were SCARY and had hate and hurt and void of the love I thought was looking back at me for those years . Now I laugh and send it to my friends and say " BOO" and they say dang he looks evil. I am healed though so I don't recommend it to someone still having trouble leaving. I do forgive him now but only for me and I cant go to God in prayer with hate in my heart.

    • @misguidedpearls7456
      @misguidedpearls7456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      2 of my exes had those eyes..they change when u see the truth...i feel you

    • @nicolejones9193
      @nicolejones9193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I did this just yesterday... nothing but evil eyes 👀.

    • @floodworldwide5260
      @floodworldwide5260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wauw looks like ur my twin 😂😂

    • @kimberlyl.mccauley8501
      @kimberlyl.mccauley8501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I've seen that look too...pure evil!😈

    • @SuperCookie011
      @SuperCookie011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well said. We have to forgive.

  • @sgwoodward3017
    @sgwoodward3017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Soul ties are so real. I broke communication over six months ago and my thought still tend to drift to this individual...DAILY! This was just a close friendship. I can't imagine how hard it would be to break a romantic soul tie.

    • @nicolegreene2208
      @nicolegreene2208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Trust me, the latter of the two situations IS even more traumatizing. But all narcissistic relationships are a destroyer so we are all suffering the same foundational toxicity is troubling. But we will be freed and prevail, IN JESUS NAME!

    • @888hereandnow
      @888hereandnow 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you tell your friend that you were moving on and why?Or just block and no contact?Talking about a non-sexual friendship

    • @fefeanng7
      @fefeanng7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very hard 😢

    • @sgwoodward3017
      @sgwoodward3017 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@888hereandnow I told this "friend" that I was done. No contact at all. Blocked on every social media platform and phone access. It's been great!

    • @sgwoodward3017
      @sgwoodward3017 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We had some "words" and he told me to stop texting him. I told him that he would never hear from me again. And he hasn't. That was over three years ago.​@888hereandnow

  • @andthnwat
    @andthnwat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I was in bondage..mind,body and spirit. SOUL TIE! But Jesus!! 🙏

  • @tracyhunter4315
    @tracyhunter4315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My ex creates several social media pages. I blocked all of them. He's mentally ill. A narcissist x100. I praise God for my healing and deliverance!!!!!! 🙏🙌🙌🙌

  • @mcnewcomb
    @mcnewcomb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    “Is this helping anybody??” Absolutely! Thank you! ☺️

  • @geraldbillingsley5108
    @geraldbillingsley5108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I have a dear friend that needed to hear this message today. Trust me I sent it to her. She just happens to be a Minster.

  • @sarahmicro
    @sarahmicro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I am living this for the first time in my life at 37 years old. I am attracted to a toxic man who does nothing for me .i am very strong in life and I met several men before. But this guy has a control on my mind/soul. Very very weird . I always feel connected and drained. Sometimes it woke me up in the middle of the night. Some days it is like fever : I think about him too much and I am drained for 3/4 days and then it is ok.and after a few weeks it happens again. I don’t know why. I never lived this before. People around me don’t understand . So I cut any form of contact , I don’t talk to him anymore

    • @n.b.0212
      @n.b.0212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Soul tie/ trauma bonded.

    • @keekee322
      @keekee322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The worse feeling ever! I know this all too well

    • @brooklynzoo2810
      @brooklynzoo2810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Exactly what I been going through for the past 5 months. Can't stop having this man on my mind at all whatsoever, no matter what I do. I've even had dreams of him too. I really been wanting to get over him too and I've also have prayed to God to help me get over him, still nothing. 😩🤦🏽‍♀️. It feels like witchcraft.

    • @nicolegreene2208
      @nicolegreene2208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@keekee322 You and me both 😣

    • @nicolegreene2208
      @nicolegreene2208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@brooklynzoo2810 You are not alone. This experience is truly of the enemy indeed. We will thrive well as long as we keep pushing day by day.

  • @BeautifulHal0
    @BeautifulHal0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I didn't block his number. He called me Thursday of last week then ghosted me the following Saturday. I was starting to feel better now back to that dark place. You know how when you meet someone & you're so giddy can't wait to see & be around them. The butterflies he gave me he killed them. I can literally feel the dead butterflies inside me.

    • @BeautifulHal0
      @BeautifulHal0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Just blocked him.... Thanks Pastor Blakes💖

    • @n.b.0212
      @n.b.0212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@BeautifulHal0 Good job! One day at a time. Leave them alone, stay strong, stay gone!

    • @BeautifulHal0
      @BeautifulHal0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@n.b.0212 Thanks...💖

    • @manyi4success
      @manyi4success 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He called just to put you back in that dark place. You need to realize these people are the enemy and their biggest weapon is stringing you along with your hope and believe in a change in them.
      As soon as you're strong enough to walk away...they pull on your emotions and You feel sorry for the host soul, cycle continues.
      Shut it down completely. Don't feel bad remorse or sorry for going Savage mode. This is what is required. See it for what it is.
      If you need more confirmation. Pray and ask the lord to show you the demon attached to these people...thier true form. I swear they'll be no going back in your mind once you do see and realize what you have been dealing with this whole time.
      Forget the human suit. These things are ugly inside out

    • @BeautifulHal0
      @BeautifulHal0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@manyi4success Thank you. Your feedback is helpful. Thanks for caring 💖

  • @GwenMotoGirl
    @GwenMotoGirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I truly want to be free from and break the soul tie to my ex- fiancé who texted his breakup to me and walked 3.5 months ago. I blocked him today, finally, even though he has not ever reached out to me. I still needed to do it. We live in a tiny town and I see him almost every time I run errands. I know this is temporary pain and I realize now that God closed the door for me. My ex has zero interest in me and it was hard to accept that. The pain is brutal and deep, but I am determined and relying on God. I’ve done so many good things in my life and career, but made stupid relationship decisions. Praying for discernment and protection. God first.
    And yes, this video helped me. Thank you for taking the time to do this.

  • @HeatherDMorris
    @HeatherDMorris 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I was thinking that too. If u dont like the name " soul tie" call it something else! A bad bond...a unhealthy connection" ..a soul tie !
    They really have to be out of sight, smell, hear , touch to be out of mind eventually! And once that hurt , and it's a bad hurt, starts to heal you appreciate even having a real smile on your face! Leave these losers !! Jesus heals. He will be what you need instead if the narcicist. I found the gym to be my hobby outlet and I am in my best shape ever and strong mentally and physically..
    I pray for anyone foinf through this. It is gut wrenching, devastating and just heart breaking when we have to part from what we thought was real . I am healed. I dont deal with pre programmed robots that have no empathy anymore .
    Thank you for what you do. You are like a father to thousands of daughters ( and sons ) you have never met !!

  • @Milnjed
    @Milnjed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm not even a Christian, and who knows which god has brought me here. But, whoever it is, I'm so thankful. Those first few minutes were filled with my continuous AHA moments... So, so precise description of my toxic relationship and my chronic disability to end it...

  • @KashG901
    @KashG901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Soul ties are REAL! Like Bishop said, (I’m paraphrasing) “someone is feeding and the other is feasting” or vice versa. You have to delete the pictures and all methods of communication to the person.

  • @viviancheek8531
    @viviancheek8531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Real soul ties withdrawals just like any other type of substance.

  • @rachelrose9348
    @rachelrose9348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Reading the bible helps so much to distract and brings peace because it explains how my story ends. Wait on the Lord. Vengence belongs to God he will repay

  • @kaythompson2772
    @kaythompson2772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Pastor you are soooo awesome I just got out of a toxic narcissist soul tie relationship and your messages give me life!!!!! I listen to them daily weather if it’s one month old same day or years old thank you so much🙏🏽please keep doing what you’re doing, I need it!!♥️

  • @xKATHiSROd28
    @xKATHiSROd28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Man. You just set me straight 😣 called me out on my nonsense lol.

  • @fititntownsend6839
    @fititntownsend6839 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    01/08/23 lord have mercy! This has blessed me beyond measure! Such a on time word from the Lord. You nailed it when you said and the sex ain't even that good! I have never heard that preached before. THANK YOU for your boldness and speaking of the truth! This message I know is going to change my life. I can't thank you enough for keeping it 💯. God bless you!

  • @mariagraciani5112
    @mariagraciani5112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    You're God sent💖

  • @dawnandersen4276
    @dawnandersen4276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is SO helpful! Finally walked away from an affair…. Thank you RC Blakes for your spirit led counsel. You understand soul ties like nobody I’ve ever encountered. Finally I have hope!

    • @blueseptember2174
      @blueseptember2174 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm glad you moved on. This is no judgement on you. But as a wife I've been cheated on. I was a good wife too with littles. Can I ask do the women affair partner ever think about how destroyed the wife and children are? Like we will be divorcing and future forever different. I always wondered if the woman cared or not. Like I said not judging you. Proud of you! Just wanted to get your perspective to a question I've always wondered but couldn't ask. ❤

  • @brittanyb5942
    @brittanyb5942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Going no contact is the best thing you can do! If they show up at your door DO NOT ANSWER if they keep on call the police. Block every number they call from and get off social media!! Get a new number and move if all else falses!

  • @adellajackson561
    @adellajackson561 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have struggled with an individual for years, pure toxicity in the relationship. I am ready, my mind, body and soul, is depleted. Prey for me.

  • @yasminreid4507
    @yasminreid4507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve been in this cycle for two years. Gone no contact many times but always relapse after a few weeks or months. His persistent, amazing with words.. and undoubtedly I do love him. But is it healthy? Definitely not. This soul tie is so real, I have no problem starting the no contact but with time it seems to get harder because I can’t erase the memories. I’ve blocked access to my ears, but I still feel the need to check his social media! And my flesh craves him, intimately. I’ve decided to start today, to block him, delete all pictures and videos and try again. Fall down seven times, get up eight! Thank you for this video. I needed this once again ❤️

    • @becurly8784
      @becurly8784 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you think of possibility of marriage and being with him as a family since you have a connection and love him?

  • @jeneciagallimore7096
    @jeneciagallimore7096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    God bless u Rc blake u are a real spiritual father to me. How I cut a soul tie was block all communication, delete pictures got rid of gifts from that person. Repent of my sin, Praying to god to help me heal. Talk about it with my mom which is my best friend. And also getting busy doing wat I love and focus more on me self love is very important

  • @staceytillman2301
    @staceytillman2301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Bad signal or not, I RECEIVED THIS ENTIRE MESSAGE Bishop. Thank you from the bottom of my heart🙏🏾💜

  • @eyesonthemosthigh9241
    @eyesonthemosthigh9241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Had a soul tie super strong. Still denouncing it but it gets easier. Thank you Mr.Blakes as always.

  • @debperry2379
    @debperry2379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I severed a soul tie relationship almost 4 years ago. It was not healthy and I had a really hard time letting go and getting out of it. Finally I did thanks to binging on the pastor's videos and now I have no emotions toward that person and there is no hurt or pain or contact anymore however I still think about them everyday 🙄 this is real.

  • @mystiqueqoi523
    @mystiqueqoi523 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Facebook is not about God. Keep preaching truth! We that hear the truth need to hear what you say!

  • @antvondia1313
    @antvondia1313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Yes it’s helping. I read the book years ago and I’m 💪🏾 now and able to break soul ties.
    Praise God I’m forgiven

  • @ZeeJewel
    @ZeeJewel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I am based in Namibia, Africa and I can wholeheartedly say that you have changed my life. Thank you and continue doing Gods work. Your reach is far and wide.

  • @louiseottley4995
    @louiseottley4995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Looking on from Trinidad I've learned a lot from u Especially on soul ties it's real

  • @GoldFeather123
    @GoldFeather123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have cut the flesh off over a year ago. I have started to volunteer at a church I was involved with before him and keep myself busy helping my friends and family. I sense the Holy spirit is protecting me right now. God bless you Pastor Thank you for all you do!! 💓💓

  • @user-yk9sk7pg6v
    @user-yk9sk7pg6v 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    (Pastor Blakes, I'm agnostic, but you're making me start to believe in the big man upstairs because I can see him from behind your eyes).

  • @christineAnderson-f9h
    @christineAnderson-f9h 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    “Stop seeking acceptance of men and accepting the forgiveness of God” amen this helped me so much thank you God bless you

  • @MsFitVegan
    @MsFitVegan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is the realest thing on TH-cam!!!!

  • @corinnenorton6746
    @corinnenorton6746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    The Holy Spirit has been guiding me through this addictionship. I feel HIS presense standing right next to me... All of the steps but the Iast one has happened. I am preparing to ask him to leave MY home!! I feel calmness in my spirit because I know where the wisdom and strength are coming from. Thank you Pastor for this message and confirmation.

    • @angelicearth78
      @angelicearth78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The Holy Spirit help me too to end a 5 year relationship. You can do it, God is amazing!

  • @ladylilo6044
    @ladylilo6044 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pastor RC your teachings have literally helped me to heal and love myself, my soultie WAS a narcissist as well. I cried long tears but have come to realize that he was not God's best...Jesus is my husband♥️ You have taught me so many things about relationships, God bless you! And thank you❤️

  • @GoldFeather123
    @GoldFeather123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I blocked him all day and I was calmer and didn't miss him AT ALL ! Came home in the silent treatment and DON'T CARE !! He is still living in my home. I have begun my financial freedom from him. He's on his way down the road. Thank you Pastor for your guidance ❤️❤️

  • @myishiaiyanna2029
    @myishiaiyanna2029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Amen Pastor Blakes this was much needed!!!!!!!! 🙌🏾🙏🏾 blessings to all of us that have watched this video!!!

  • @florencebowden3980
    @florencebowden3980 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    U ARE 100% TRUTHFUL... U MUST GET TO THE ROOT OF THE PROBLEM...

  • @Bmitchell10
    @Bmitchell10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I denounce my last relationship no more control never in my life! I will wait on God to send me a Man that will be right for my life, soul and love God! I have grown from this relationship no more power in the name of Jesus 🙌🏾 Thank you Bishop for words of wisdom!

  • @_madame_sene
    @_madame_sene 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I blocked him just now 🙏 i don’t need anyone triggering and mocking my pain when I’m already vulnerable and healing. I allowed this man to assault me in every level. No more!

  • @user-yk9sk7pg6v
    @user-yk9sk7pg6v 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This channel is a blessing. This man is a blessing. Life is a blessing . We are blessed!

  • @SanctifiedSyd
    @SanctifiedSyd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Rc blake's sir u r the bomb!!!! God blessed me when I found ur youtube videos. Thank u for caring about us and giving us the help we need. U r making a difference. U really r. Thank u sir may God continue to protect u and bless u 💯💯🏆🏆🏆

  • @sharonbenjamin9310
    @sharonbenjamin9310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    We appreciate your efforts, Biblical wisdom and discernment Bishop R.C. Blakes Jr.❤

  • @reneetuer3525
    @reneetuer3525 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are 100% correct! I haven't blocked him yet! So upset & confused as to why I can't. I am an intelligent, independent woman, and I feel I love myself & certainly more than him. So once you understand why, then you can start the healthy actions necessary. It is time, and I just started counseling with the Deacon at my Catholic Church. He asked me if I knew what a soul tie was, and suggested I look it up. Also, he asked me what would God or my own Father think of my decision, to give this man time & thought.

  • @91jmchan
    @91jmchan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you 💛 everything you said is on point... This soul tie has gone on for a year and we didn't even have sex (which in hindsight was truly God's protection). The moment you acknowledge you deserve better, that you need to honour yourself, and the only way to do that is to walk away and remove their access to your life.. Everything starts to get a whole lot better!! Peace starts returning to your soul again.
    Healing isn't linear, I still dream of him now and then but at least I'm feeling a little better each day, closer to coming home to myself..
    Thank you so much for all the wisdom you share, it is a true gift to the world.
    Lots of love ❤️

  • @godzillamanstreb524
    @godzillamanstreb524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    True with sibling and friend soul ties too.....thank you Pastor💙👑👑👑‼️

  • @monicamikulichmyka-powlife201
    @monicamikulichmyka-powlife201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Amen 🙏 Bishop Blakes! I’ve gone through all of these steps the last 2 months and praise Jesus I know my strongholds are broken.
    The Narc is still trying to contact me but I’m strong in Christ and healing more every day 🙌 No Contact ever ever again.

    • @monicamikulichmyka-powlife201
      @monicamikulichmyka-powlife201 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are not RC Blake’s Sir. I’ve seen you make this exact comment on other channels as different spiritual leaders. I rebuke you in Jesus name and bind you spirit of deceit.

  • @sheiladay9775
    @sheiladay9775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are helping me a lot! The reception is fine here, in Denver, CO.
    You have to renew your self-respect after having been with a narc. Denounce the emotionally abusive relationship. Keep available for God to send the right person into your life. Someone you deserve. Submit to God. Resist the devil.

  • @klewiis009
    @klewiis009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thanks for calling me out!‼👑🙏🏿

  • @sisteroflight
    @sisteroflight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Praise God. To God be All the Glory Always!!
    The advice is truly spiritually healthy.

  • @Momma766
    @Momma766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The truths in this video are real. Holy Spirit finally getting through.

  • @andrewboyddotcom
    @andrewboyddotcom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Valuable teaching. Just broken a ST. Demonic. Biggest takeaway - get busy with righteous activity. Many thanks.

  • @AroundTheWayGirl88
    @AroundTheWayGirl88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    FACTS! Not sure who gave it thumbs down! 😔 💯

  • @reginaj54321
    @reginaj54321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true false soul mate I am moving on after ten years filed for a divorce please pray for me going through justice system thanks for sharing RC Blakes

  • @sharonbenjamin9310
    @sharonbenjamin9310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Bishop RC Blakes Jr. for giving us an awesome explanation of a soul tie or trauma bond from a spiritual perspective. Also, in layman's terms breaking relational connections with toxic people can cause psychological rumination. What causes ruminating?
    People ruminate for a variety of reasons. According to the American Psychological Association, some common reasons for rumination include:
    A. Belief that by ruminating, you’ll gain insight into your life or a problem.
    B. Having a history of emotional or physical trauma.
    C. Facing ongoing stressors that can’t be controlled.
    Ruminating is also common in people who possess certain personality characteristics, which include perfectionism, neuroticism, and an excessive focus on one’s relationships with others.
    If a person has not learned to set healthy boundaries and gotten positive emotional coping tools like meditation, prayer or professional counseling to help them stop the negative mental thoughts or loops then they'll be likely to keep choosing intimate partners that display the same toxic/negative behavior patterns.

  • @deltastarr3167
    @deltastarr3167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Pastor, your TH-cam videos are food for my soul. Thank you so much for illuminating the darkness and chains of a demonic soul tie relationship I had with my husband who is an addict and womanizer. My soul tie with him kept me in bondage for more than 25 years until he finally walked out of my life for another woman. With God's help, I have been able to repair my life and soul. I am and will continue to follow all of the steps you mentioned in the video. My final step - forgiveness -- happen 2 months ago. To say that my heart was broke, is an understatement. 💔💔God did for me what I did not have the strength to do. My heart was destroyed when my husband left, but my soul is healing. I can finally see my way of the darkness and love the person I am becoming.💯

  • @raddb5696
    @raddb5696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This one feels like it was made for me Thank you Lord I have been fasting for a break through like this Thank you pastor

  • @shelleydavis5231
    @shelleydavis5231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I got one where I've known him for years, no intimacy, weve been friends for years. Both are divorced now, my last partner of many years passed away tragically. So this guy I've known for years and has now reappeared, but we've always just been platonic friends. So now there's that mutual attraction but he's neither here there or anywhere.
    Wants my time but have lots of women friends, wants me to, just like he has all the other women friends, come around and spend time at his place.
    I'm sorry, I have to put gas in my car to go spend time at a person's house who has multiple women doing the same thing????
    When we do get to a bit of serious talk, then the cop-out is usually, come pop in, we're friends, but the flirtation of a possibility of a relationship is always an undertone in conversation. Mind games.
    I'm sorry but I'm used to being treated like a Queen, I can't and won't get used to this mediocrity, so I let them win him. I feel pitty for women who allow men to treat them like that, and even making them compete with each other for a title they're never going to get. There are good men out there, but we have to have the self respect and common sense to know our worth. There's nothing wrong to be single and to desire love, but there's something wrong to be desperate for love and settle for toxic. Block and delete fools wrapped in aluminium foil, time wasters 😁

  • @innerpeaceandselflove
    @innerpeaceandselflove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I always have to hit the like button before I even watch,cuz its gonna be 🔥🔥🔥

    • @gwendolynhall2321
      @gwendolynhall2321 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too bc I already know that it's going to be good!

  • @mystiqueqoi523
    @mystiqueqoi523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    #1) Done
    #2) Done
    #3) Done
    #4) DONE
    AMEN!

  • @charchar7897
    @charchar7897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This was awesome Bishop. I needed this msg last weekend when I ran into the narc thru a mutual friend. I felt set up, but once I processed it, I held myself accountable. " If he can get in your ear, he can get in your bed", is nothing but the truth. I blocked him already but wasn't expecting to see him, and I responded to his presence, and it has caused a riff between our mutual friend and I. I heard you when you said , " Get rid of the friends". Done and done!

  • @Ebonicurls1
    @Ebonicurls1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was great. Extremely helpful for me. The devil didn’t want you to get this message across that’s why the internet kept messing up. BUT GOD!!

  • @sophiafrancis6538
    @sophiafrancis6538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That's right, people who are soul tied needs diliverance.

  • @Cjones-fm2yi
    @Cjones-fm2yi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow. Believing in beginning the process of breaking soul ties and purifying for my future spouse

  • @lyanne9444
    @lyanne9444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mr. Blakes i deleted the number messages pictures and anything that reminded me of that dark phase in my life! Thank you for your messages, many times thy have saved me during a state of depression

  • @Vanilla66102
    @Vanilla66102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you, Pastor Dad, because, I right now am DONE WITH A SOUL-LYING-TIE!
    I will use every step giving and They are released from by me! ❤️💛🙏🏾
    IN JESUS NAME AMEN!

  • @ProGambler101AP
    @ProGambler101AP 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This is helping me immensely, thank you kindly, I will play again and take notes. 🙏thank you God for sending this message through my pastor of choosing, thank you Reverend RC Blakes!

  • @queentanika4337
    @queentanika4337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You should want to see your likes because that's your engagements.
    I know you put time into this because your points be right on.
    May this channel be blessed all the more.
    The wisdom you share is needed and essential to bettering ones self.

  • @laurensk9859
    @laurensk9859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    1 year and counting of minimizing contact with my coparent. 💪🏾RC Blakes’ wisdom gives me strength to keep the soul tie untied.

  • @nombusomtungwa1041
    @nombusomtungwa1041 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God is with this Pastor. Please God protect him from the evil one.

  • @Qhht.Illinois
    @Qhht.Illinois 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was and is my current situation. It's extremely difficulty to release. I'm praying for God's help🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 thank you for your videos. Total perspective. 💯

    • @SuperCookie011
      @SuperCookie011 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stay in the word and worship...Perfect peace of God "whose mind is stayed on me"Isa. 26:3

  • @MemeMoneymoves
    @MemeMoneymoves ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bless God! Thank God for the messenger and the message.

  • @DarlingNikki111
    @DarlingNikki111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This spoke everything to me. There's nothing fake at all about soul ties.. This message is powerful 🙏🏽

  • @Mel4everable
    @Mel4everable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was 45 days no contact but I succumbed and let my guard down. I’m starting over though and this time I won’t retreat. It’s time to move on 🙌🏾

  • @jackksterr
    @jackksterr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom Pastor!! I'm 24 and I save these gems to my playlist to re-watch whenever I need to hear the word! God bless you and your family/ministry sir!!

  • @GinaMBoyd-wl5tg
    @GinaMBoyd-wl5tg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank You Jesus for walking me through breaking soul ties 🙌🏾

  • @pamelawilliams3365
    @pamelawilliams3365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you Pastor for this message. I have a soul tie to what I believe is a narcissist. I have blocked off all communication and in therapy as well. I am in deep prayer from deliverance from codependency and soul tie as well as toxic relationships.

  • @LoveWithin
    @LoveWithin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m so distraught, my Mom has had a soul tie with a guy for almost 50 years. She doesn’t realize how this has affected our relationship negatively. I pray and pray for her to be free of him. But I guess since it’s a soul tie she has to pray?

  • @tpurdi1
    @tpurdi1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    THANKS TO GOD, I finally did it!

  • @jmfbby
    @jmfbby ปีที่แล้ว

    15 minutes in and I’m being read to filth, much needed video. Thank you.