I’ve been married to a soul tie for 11 years and we dated for 4 years. I broke it off in year 5 of the marriage. After being apart for five I took him back. As soon as I took him back I find out he had hidden a child that was conceived in the beginning of our relationship. I took him back in spite of. I started tuning in to Pastors Blakes and I realized this marriage is soul tie. After fasting and praying he walked out on me. God did for me what I was not strong enough to do for myself. Man’s rejection is God’s protection!
I love when God steps in a works on my behalf. He allowed a couple of people I was in a relationship to leave me. Even though there were times they might’ve tried to find their way back or I went back to them casually, He still covered me and kept me. Now I’m free of all of them! Thank God for His protection!
Danielle I wanted to thank you for your post, it is a piece of the journey I have been on. As soon as I read “God did for me what I was not strong enough to do for myself....I knew at that instant that it was from God to me! I have struggled with my narcissist husband leaving me for another women. I would never have left as I believe when I made the vow before God “till death do we part” that was to be kept. In retrospect and seeing your post I know that his leaving me was Gods provision. Thank you for sharing.💕
Because of a soul tie in the past, I thought God told me this man was the "one". Thank God I am not the woman I used to be. Nothing but a vain imagination created by the enemy.
How to break a soul tie? Stop feeding it and just like anything that lives, once you stop giving it your time, thoughts and energy, It will die. ✌🏾 #beenthere #donethat #sogladitsover
Beautifully said. I just let my ex back with a guard up...its been over a year But he has tried a couple lame times. Anyway to skip details. It was great being with him...he love bombed etc...having that year plus made me stronger!!! N when he said he was fixing his roof....money stuff I'm always like out a ring on it. But its niw nine years. He cries like a little boy regarding his stuff....i told him the ring.....he said short story...i wont bother you again ..... i said short story.oves does not walk away He had a million and one chances joining a gym to keep working out and keeping options open time to really move on ..god bless
It's very hard to break a ungodly soultie with a unequally person,only God can break it, I had to cry out to God to save me and break that soultie, I knew it was a unhealthy situationship but I couldn't break free without God, he saved me from that Dark spirit of the Narcissist I was involved with!
@@ginikaonyeador3476 I've been there trying to make since out of a insane person you can't, this to shall pass read your Bible, ask God to heal your mind, the gaslighting and the manipulation has clouded your judgement, stay in your reality! God is with you my friend 🙏
It's like going NC refuels the Narcs need to try to "win" you back. The demon wants to drag you back to the pit away from God. Don't give in regardless of how sweet seductive they become. It's all a play that will turn into a Greek tragedy-hold your ground!!
I can truly say from the depths of my soul🗣 I AM FREE!!! Didn’t happen overnight, I’m far from perfect but I realize that GOD is in control and I no longer wanted to be! Once I surrendered and let GOD, HE showed up and went to work. It’s not easy, I’ve been angry, I’ve cried, I’ve wanted to give up, I’ve felt rejected, I’ve felt sadness, I asked GOD why so many times, I’ve yelled, I’ve bargained then I surrendered. Throughout all this what never left me was a inner calmness and inner peace that I cannot begin to explain..LET GO! LET GOD! HE WILL!!!
Yes!!! I'm working on me and seeing and getting the lessons that God has been trying to teach me for the majority of my life and especially in this 25 year situationship with my husband.
One day I fell to my knees and ask god to just take the soul tie and pain away I was and still struggle from time to time but I feel I’m getting better through prayer I couldn’t understand why I was so attached I knew I didn’t want to be with him I knew he was no good and toxic but I kept being sucked back in for years it’s true you don’t even know why. He was a narcissist and now he’s transferred his narcissism to someone more gullible and recently reached out to me, I ignored and denounced the toxicity
I discovered this year's back and sadly knew on my wedding day and before that the man "I" choose was not the Divine mate for me. I've healed a while back and have moved on in mind, body and sound. We have kids together, they are grown except a 15 year old. We are cordial, I have no hard feelings toward him, for it was I who could've stopped it all. But, no I went against GOD and paid a huge price. Pastor, it's so good that you are speaking this, because I know many who are in this type of bondage. I pray for them. You are right, you got to speak differently abiut your situation and mean it. Praise GOD for you speaking on this. I do believe that is one of the reasons we are in this coronovirus, so people can really deal with the TRUTH of their relationships. It feels good to be on the other side. GOD is so amazing all the time and when you hearken to his will, wow... The FREEDOM and PEACE is soooo amazing. My prayers go out to all dealing with this. Blessings Pastor to you and yours.... Stay Safe! 🙏🏽 ❤️
SANTAUSHA TYSON That is so my situation right now; I went against my Spiritual mother’s advice at that time when she told me this was not the man for me and I ignored her and God and I married him anyway. Although there is no physical altercations, I am emotionally drained from this 61 year old man negative behaviors such as not understanding that quality time with family is needed but he makes sure he spends plenty time to himself to drink alcoholic beverages, to smoke black & mild and weed.... I am diligently working on preparing a home for my son and I to move into and I am listening to motivational speakers daily and I’m praying and leaning on God daily and I anticipating being free in the natural realm because I’m already free in the Spiritual realm.
@@lynnkeyes522 AMEN my Sister. You are free and GOD will see that you and your son are taken good care of. Make sure that you are able to forgive, for it is for you so that you can move freely and be at peace. There is nothing like the peace GOD will give you. Be Blessed! 🙏🏽 ❤️
SANTAUSHA TYSON Amen. I have forgiven him and i still have to forgive him on a frequent basis because of his behavior; His different mood swings are almost like he is bi-polar but “I” have labeled it as Narcissistic behavior... He can be calm and pleasantly speaking to me in one moment & talking disrespectfully in the next. I try to keep him calm when my 13 year old son is present but sometimes it does not pan out that way & I believe he #can behave disrespectfully in front of my son mainly because my son is not biologically his & the fact as I have previously stated he has Narcissistic behavior.... Whatever the case may be, I’m done, I have mentally moved on, I”m anticipating & preparing to physically move on, I have forgiven both him & myself, I talk with my son almost daily so that he knows there is hope, & we do have a brighter & better life Now regardless of what it looks like....I have apologized to him for my choices & that I have learned from them...I tell him often, I’m not a man and that I can not teach him how to be a man, but I can teach him to love and to respect himself. His biological father is active in his life Thank You Lord.... I’m walking with God and educating myself.... I just love listening to Pastor RC Blake, He has truly blessed me.
All praise to the most high ...ive been following you for about 6 months ..i didn't. Kno yo were here in houston ...im very skeptical about preachers for good reason ....but GOD willing if we pull out of this ........pandemic ....i will attend your church faithfully. #brokenbutstronghostonian
My situation is he did care about me and proved it over and over. I stayed with him because of this. I just never felt loved and I didn't want the same lifestyle. I have blocked him from my phone and emails. I have written down every reason why I want to stay away from him. I do really good for weeks and then all the things he did for me makes me feel like I've done something wrong by letting him go. I denounce it every day. Yes it feels a part of me is dying as I haven't been with anyone else in 15 yrs. Please pray for me and for him. Thank you for making this vid.
Y’all I’ve been listening to Pastor Blake’s messages on Soul Ties and how to break them a year and a half into three years of me trying to break a soul tie with a man Pastor Blake’s said was just playing games with me. This message sunk into my DNA like no other and I feel like something has lifted off of me. Y’all I’m finally free. I’M FREE!!!!!Pastor Blake’s Thank You for caring and doing what you do. We support you and love you and your precious wife. *Latreca *PS Kingology Book ordered!
You’re NOT alone! I have been a faithful follower for over 2 years and he blessed me to diminish the soul tie with my ex husband!!! Blessings, joy and peace to you!!!!😊🙏🏾❤️
I can’t remember which of your soul tie videos I was watching but I was literally sitting in the airport watching your video and almost seemed like instantly I stopped craving that person. It was very powerful. You’re such a gift from God seriously
I married my soul tie in 1996 divorced him by 2004 and was apart 2 years and reconciled and continued our relationship as tho we were still married. Great provider but a drunkard who would become abusive verbally and emotionally . This continued till 2019 when I finally out him out. He has been gone for a year but Hoover's constantly. I recently decided to cut him off completely. No calls..No helping out..definnitely no sex! I'm on my way to healing after 25 years of pain .I'm finally free.
I’ve found it amazingly interesting how people who profess to know JESUS, say they are saved, and are active in the church but do not believe [ HE ] Jesus IS ACTUALLY real. The truth is they think he’s fictional like Santa which is sad. God IS real and Jesus is truly the Son of God just like the Bible says.
You can do it, go to GOD and Trust and BELIEVE in him. He will heal and deliver you. I'm telling you from experience. I was stubborn, went against GOD'S WILL, married someone I shouldn't have, not a divine marriage at all. I got 3 beautiful babies now grown from it and honestly, that was ALL! Oh, I learned a lot. Love, the other side of a broken soul tie is so much FREEDOM AND PEACE! I'm 🙏🏽for you, you can do this! 🙏🏽
He will give you strength. He as in the Lord Jesus Christ. Pray and talk and Pray some more with Him..don't stop...He will set you free. Little bit at a time you will feel and Know you are coming out of this toxic situation.
Yep, as if we don't have the sense God done gave us!!!🤷 Days I have waken up and literally asked myself out loud; " What the Fuck am I Doing!!!!!!!!" Excuse my word. But that's what I did. He rolled over, asked what was wrong????🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂 I said Nothing! But in the process and preparing to leave.
I know and understand how hard it is!!!!!!🤦 Because they have many personalities; which we love the nice, charming one, mixed with a little sex. The Name C's know these things, they act a donkey then they know just when to clean up their act! Every time I threaten to leave and he believes I'm serious? He switches for the moment. Then go back to a clown! The worse we can do or have done is to keep saying we're leaving and don't go🙅 they then think we full of it, only do because we're mad. So there it is game on!!!! It then turns into a cycle- "she ain't going nowhere, I can keep acting a fool.... She just mad, talking shit!!!!!" Is how they see it. But this is for any relationship not just the Narc kind.
Elizabeth, you hav to truly make your mind up. Try looking at him different and how you're hurting from his behaviors. He will start to look ugly, and different to you! Think of your great qualities, and beauty, and how a grown mature man would love to be with you; and treat you with the utmost.
The relationship with my progammed low selfesteem is perhaps the hardest soultie to break.. 🥀 The example with the gold bracelet .. cool! Thank you for your support and help. 🌱🌹🌞
Praise His holy Name. Our God is so good. I never thought I would be able to break free of the toxic and demonic soul tie with my abusive narc husband. After 24 years of being together and 19 years of marriage, he brutally discarded me 10 months ago. I really thought I would die. My soul was so broken. Breaking off the trauma bonding, the sex addiction to him was so hard. Once I got to know about narcissism, after extensive research on the subject, I was able to do NO CONTACT. Going on 9 months now and I'm slowly and truly healing. My marriage was just an illusion, a sham. I was unequally yoked. My husband is his own god. Am smiling and laughing again. The only good thing that came out of this "situationship" are my 3 beautiful children. I believe that I had to go through what I went through for me to really learn how to love myself, to heal from all the trauma from my childhood, to value myself, to see my self worth and to finally see myself the way my Heavenly Father sees me. Yes, I've made mistakes too but I am forgiven and I am redeemed. There is no more condemnation for I know who I am in Christ. I've stopped caring what he and his entourage may think or say about me for my validation comes from no man but God. I've been set free for whom the Son sets free is free indeed. Glory be to His Name.
AMEN!! I believe you can also be in a unhealthy spiritual soul tie. He was a narcissist spiritual man. We never had no sex but the love i have for GOD didn't allow me to fall all the way down. He came in and out for 4yrs but everytime he came back i had level up. I was too strong for him to break me down and he was too weak to level up!! He told me i was too good to be true. He just didn't want to do the work because it was too hard to do when your a weak person. I'M in tune with GOD and seeking him at all times. GOD knew he couldn't level up. GOD knew he couldn't level up so he made sure everytime he tried to come back i had leveled up!! Yes!! He got with someone else and brought her to church to hurt me. It did but being at home alone and spending time with GOD. The process was hard and hurtful but the after math is beautiful. GOD had to break me to push me into a better me and into something better!! I'M wiser and strong than ever. I'M empath but going through made me a healthier empath. I will never over look a red flags again!! The best is yet to come!! Loving me 2020!!
Tongula. You are so correct. Time can easily pass and before you know it years pass without any positive gains. It's TRUE when you turn to the Father with ALL sincerity he levels you up. Each time they resurface we are stronger and dismiss the 'foolishness ' much sooner. To GOD be the Glory. I am grateful for LOVE and faithfulness. Bless you.
Thank you Pastor Blake. This was an on time message for me! I left my very abusive/toxic husband back in February and was wondering if I made the right decision. He has been "love-bombing" me to come back and telling me to give him another chance and that things would be different. I was in a state of confusion wondering if I should give him another chance. He is what you would call a "Malignant Narcissist." I discovered this from the many TH-cam videos I watched on Narcissism. From the videos I have watched, Narcissism is a Personality Disorder and majority don't change. As I watched this video, I took meticulous notes on what to do to break this soul-tie. Now, I know that this is confirmation that this relationship was not ordained by God! Now that I have left, my soon to be ex is always bombarding me with scripture about how God hates divorce and how I am abandoning the marriage. This is from someone who was extremely controlling, cheated on me, abused me, and was a drug addict. He also lied about being a Pastor! Sorry to vent, anyway, I have since went "no contact" to allow myself to heal from this toxicity and to draw closer to God. Pastor Blake, this video have brought some sunshine into my life and now I know for a fact that I made the right decision. Thank you Jesus!! The best is yet to come! I AM FREE FROM THIS SOUL-TIE IN THE NAME OF JESUS!!! AMEN
Thank you so much for letting Christ work thru you. Your videos have helped me break a soul tie. You helped me see my sin in the relationship. I took my eyes off Christ and manipulated things myself. Thank you Pastor from SC
Pastor Blake your video touching on "keys to breaking a soul tie" has ignited my life. Also dealing with a female narcissist. Thank you so much. You couldn't of said it better. This quarantine is a plus for my freedom. The struggle is real but my relationship with God is to. Ill be 50 this year and want to be married. Im focusing on self, building self and God will open the door for the Queen that I deserve. But the King will be ready to receive her with strength and dignity grounded in the Word of God. Thanks My Brotha. God Bless Love ya
Thank you Pastor Blake’s: Years ago, I knew nothing of soul ties. I thought a group of my friends will always be my friends yet deep down I knew I had to let them go and one day I walked away. Never saw them or heard from them. Soul ties applies to lady friends and family. How do you be a friend to them and how are they a friend to you? Now I look at how I can continue to add value and the impact in their lives and walk away. I have been listening to you for a year now.
Thank you. I am blessed by God to find you. Throughout my entire life (I’m 67), I have been in soul ties. It began as a young woman/girl. Without getting into details I am so blessed and joyous to FINALLY understand what was going on. Thanks to our Lord I discovered it through you and I can rest now in the grace of Our Lord in peace. I don’t know why my entire life had to be this way but I do know when it began and I pray I can carry on focusing on the pursuit of godliness and help others who may come in my path
Don't feel alone. I'm 63. Have been recovering from codependency thru Celebrate Recovery since 2013. Recovery comes step by step and I'm still finding layers of the onion Jesus wants me to learn and heal from. He's definitely using this man!
I totally agree with everything that was mentioned here. A soul tie is very real. It takes acts, patience, courage, and the replacement of God, wholeheartedly, spirit, and soul.
As simple as “changing the language” and the gold to brass visualization... my lightbulb finally went on. Thank you for blessing me with this talk. Finally feeling a shift is very powerful.
This man literally is helping me change my life and break free from things I didn’t even realize were happening to me. God bless you thank you for these videos
You are really getting me through a very difficult time at the moment. 12 years and 2 children on an unloving situationship.... Well there was love coming from my direction but nothing in return. You are giving me a lot of strength to get through it. I wish we had pastors like you in the UK :)
“Can’t even deliver yourself” let alone someone else. POWERFUL! I can honestly say I was stuck on that for years......that I was placed in a certain situation to deliver someone else. Amazing message! you continue to enlighten and deliver me into healing. Thank you Pastor!
“Baby you can’t deliver yourself, clearly. You ain’t got the power to deliver nobody else. God brought you to the knowledge of the truth that you may deliver you. You ain’t got the power to deliver nobody else, you can’t set nobody free against their own will” Wow 💯 RC dropping fire 🔥 Jesus help us 🙏🏾
U say your not a counselor better than any your Gods voice for his wounded women to heal put that on a shirt pastor thanks peace Miss Rita proud to be single not sick🥰😇😊
How can anyone not like this man of GOD teaching don’t understand who can thumbs downs his videos I watched all of them and I must say I’m in a better place because of him and of course though 🙏🏾 and going back to my Heavenly FATHER who was waiting on me to return to HIM
Omg, I've been looking everywhere for an answer to what I am going through, I just stumbled upon your video , well I may have been guided, but I'm in shock and agree to what you are saying about soul ties. Finally, finally I've been searching for so long. And here you are. I just ordered your book. I cant wait to read it. I've been so challenged by this. I cant begin to say thank you for this information. Yes, I fell, out of grace with God, I was very angry and did something. Well you know, but it got me so stuck in my head. I need to break free so I can find true love again. Just,thank you so much.
Free 1 year 2 months. Praise God. I can laugh so hard at how foolish I was. Thanking God for Rev. Blake’s for helping me through. You keep it real as ever and have me cracking up 😂 at the same time. Jesus is Lord! Happy Resurrection to everyone.
I have lost my sense of religion, I was raised in the religious system, but a lot of the leaders don’t seem authentic to me anymore, But I really appreciate your tone and bible references.
Your teachings have helped me end a situationship where I was actually being taken for granted and used emotionally and physically. You taught and grew so much boldness like a lioness and stop the nonsense. The person is surprised and shocked as he never thought the game will come to an end one day. Praise God for your life...thank you
Your videos have helped me heal from a toxic relationship that lasted almost 3 years. He was a narcissist and strung me along, gas lighting the whole way. I believed him when he said that he wanted to marry me and we even started going to church together. He couldn't keep that lie up too long and we had a nasty breakup. I'm so glad that it's over, I actually prayed to God to remove him from my life because I knew that I couldn't break things off with him. He had a hold on me and it's going on 3 weeks now, I'm focusing on my mental health, my physical health and serving my church. It's been hard and painful but healing. Thank you for your videos! I watch them every day!
I have had these unhealthy soul ties a few times for a long time each. Its NOT that i KNOW i shouldnt be in, its more i cant let ppl go even when i kniw theyre unhealthy for me. and treat me bad
I know exactly what your saying....Im dealing with this at this very moment...Narcissist are so very cruel and evil...Honestly ive learned they can careless who they hurt.
Pastor you are my papa...for 8 months plus keep listening your preach about being true Queen..im not longer the needy gal,lowering my standard to get man and more focus on myself...I love god more..Im Hindu & my shirdi baba bring me to you bcoz he knows your words can heal me..not wash wishy mantras which I x understood...now I start love lord Jesus...I keep tearing evrytime I heard your sharing...how much sin I did..how much hurtings for this body n soul...im now rise a strong girl..head up..and act think like a queen
WOW!!!! That was an amazing word. I truly appreciate your dedication to share this powerful word of freedom. Due to the level of religiosity many of us did not know there is freedom with God. I thank you Pastor Blakes, you've been a blessing to my life. I pray you continue to be blessed.
I admire what you are doing. I was the target of a minister on my church staff. It is alarming that some of the narcissists are using their reputations and positions in the church to hook women.
Pastor Blake’s, I don’t care how many people get on TH-cam and talk, preach or try to teach us this stuff, they are not you!!!!! You are a true man of God with a seriously strong connection to this message. I was in a unequally yoked marriage and even though i was with him for so long, he ran circles around me, i was never in the game. God got me out of there just in time to spared me my 30’s. I have never met you and I feel like you are like an uncle that I’ve never had. You speak the truth in love, there is never any judgement in your voice and I feel like every question that I need answers for when dealing with this tricky relationship/ dating life, i can find it in your messages. I pray that one day I can honestly thank you in person. You honestly don’t know how much you help people, especially us women. I can not thank you enough. Also, i am not getting your alerts as to when you are ever on Live. Can you one day try instagram Live. That to me is the most popular live and it’s so easy for us to share and pass on. TH-cam is kind of what I feel everybody watches at a later date like a Netflix show. That’s just a suggestion, I don’t mean to offend. Once I again thank you thank you, I appreciate you, I love you and I am honored be one of your followers.
Probably the only high value man , who doesn't boast or contrive himself uuurhmgh so many you tube Johnny Bravos out there. You are a breath of fresh air love to Lisa such respect for your union . ❤️ My heroes absolutely 💯. Thank you for this I needed to hear this will listen again and again it is seeping through the grey matter. Wish I could send you something but that soul tie has kept me penniless reliant on him for very little change and its really unprofitable its made me super sick. But God's great and his word iss invoking strength in me slowly 🐌
Thank you Pastor Blake's for this powerful word of God! Thank God I'm free and the soul tie is broken! This is my season to come out, break free and be better! In the name of Jesus! Amen
I also know the devil knows the plans GOD has for our lives. If the devil can keep you from the kingdom man that GOD has design especially for you. After this last one. I know GOD is preparing me for my king!! Even this man seen my gifts and with that i kept the thought that we can build a ministry. GOD knows he wasn't the one!! It was me the whole time. I had to keep it real with myslef. Give yourself time to hurt and heal. I had to do this!! I don't want to take this with me!! Yes!! Mr. Pastor!! Your so right!! Period!!
Amen RC! Speak! You are so amazingly used by Jesus! You have helped me sooooooo much! No more unequal yokes or missionary dating for me! The right man of God will find me one day! I will work on me for now🙏🏽👍🏽
I have much respect and am so thankful that I found your channel when my 28year marriage to a narcissist ended 2 years ago. You helped me to survive and aided the Lord in healing and renewing my mind. I am forever grateful. I am currently reading your book Soul Ties and I have a concern for lack of a better word. In it you state that often times men give money to prostitutes when the wife doesn’t show up in that area. I agree, but it is worrisome that this is typically stated this way in Christian circles, when in reality they often behave this way even though the spouse does show up in that area and may even sell themselves out trying so hard to show up in that area. I think it is important to those spouses who have done their part and obeyed the Lord according to 1 Corinthians 7:5 and tried all they could to have and provide true intimacy etc in their marriage to know that with a narcissist it is never enough. That if they have shown up then it isn’t their fault. The problem lies with the personality that cannot be satisfied and by narcissistic nature only takes and never gives. I know in some situations spouses withhold or manipulate using intimacy as a pawn, but I would hope that isn’t the norm and in today’s world with rampant narcissism becoming so common I believe that the usually empathic, loving, giving people they prey upon are usually more than showing up and to their own detriment and risk.
I have been able to apply the same teaching to the soultie that I have with my family. All I can do is call it what it is and unlearn what I have been taught. I want to be better not bitter. Thank you for allowing God to use you.
1. Change the language you use to describe your feelings. 2. Denounce the bond. 3. Eliminate the lie that God wants you in this. 4. Draw closer to God in prayer and meditation.
Thank you.... Can't get this damaged soul to stop texting....I don't read it, or see it or desire it....when Iam done am done....my strength is powerful he will be running with his pants on fire...Iam FREE! !!!! Thank God thank you his messenger
This is the most cruelest form of bondage the enemy uses to destroy our life. This is done with Love so it's most trickiest and most painful kind of bondage. You are being used very powerfully through the wisdom God has given you to see what soul ties are
THANK YOU! I want to be a CyberMember🤣🤣! You are guiding me, because God put you in my path! Because I just got out of a TOXIC RELATIONSHIP! AND IM STAYING AWAY! With a Narcissist person!
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I’ve been married to a soul tie for 11 years and we dated for 4 years. I broke it off in year 5 of the marriage. After being apart for five I took him back. As soon as I took him back I find out he had hidden a child that was conceived in the beginning of our relationship. I took him back in spite of. I started tuning in to Pastors Blakes and I realized this marriage is soul tie. After fasting and praying he walked out on me. God did for me what I was not strong enough to do for myself. Man’s rejection is God’s protection!
I love when God steps in a works on my behalf. He allowed a couple of people I was in a relationship to leave me. Even though there were times they might’ve tried to find their way back or I went back to them casually, He still covered me and kept me. Now I’m free of all of them! Thank God for His protection!
Oh yes maam
#AMEN# 🙌
Danielle I wanted to thank you for your post, it is a piece of the journey I have been on. As soon as I read “God did for me what I was not strong enough to do for myself....I knew at that instant that it was from God to me! I have struggled with my narcissist husband leaving me for another women. I would never have left as I believe when I made the vow before God “till death do we part” that was to be kept. In retrospect and seeing your post I know that his leaving me was Gods provision. Thank you for sharing.💕
AMEN AMEN AMEN GLORY BE TO GOD.
This is why I don't do casual sex. It's damaging and a waste of emotions built on fantasy and lies.
Teresa Davis you hit that nail dead on the head as my grandmothers used to say!!!! Amen!!!!😊🙏🏾❤️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
My ex husband and I were doing this.... Fantasy and lies is exactly what it is...
Yep, nail on the head! 👍
Amen. Been there done that. Don't ever want to go down that road again
Because of a soul tie in the past, I thought God told me this man was the "one". Thank God I am not the woman I used to be. Nothing but a vain imagination created by the enemy.
How to break a soul tie? Stop feeding it and just like anything that lives, once you stop giving it your time, thoughts and energy, It will die. ✌🏾
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Beautifully said. I just let my ex back with a guard up...its been over a year
But he has tried a couple lame times. Anyway to skip details. It was great being with him...he love bombed etc...having that year plus made me stronger!!! N when he said he was fixing his roof....money stuff
I'm always like out a ring on it. But its niw nine years. He cries like a little boy regarding his stuff....i told him the ring.....he said short story...i wont bother you again ..... i said short story.oves does not walk away
He had a million and one chances joining a gym to keep working out and keeping options open time to really move on ..god bless
Easier said than done
On point🙏🏽
@@niseylee7796 so true going through that but it gets better love 🙏🏽
@@carmel5187 I'm patiently waiting for it to.
I just found your channel 3 days ago. You have led me back to Jesus Christ, scripture, and loving myself. Keep on teaching as you are REACHING.
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Praise the Lord
Amen Sister
That's beautiful-Amen!!
Wow. I pray your healing and learning will continue. Stay encouraged
It’s an illusion. A mirage. And you’re getting nothing out of it but regret.
And lessons!
That is true but also a lesson for life we probably have to learn , listen to Eurythmics “regrets”
Yesssss! My goodness
"Let your heart break so your soul can heal"! ❤️
Amen...
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It's very hard to break a ungodly soultie with a unequally person,only God can break it, I had to cry out to God to save me and break that soultie, I knew it was a unhealthy situationship but I couldn't break free without God, he saved me from that Dark spirit of the Narcissist I was involved with!
Shar Hughes I’m currently going through that process now. It’s painful and some days I think I’m losing my mind
@@ginikaonyeador3476 I've been there trying to make since out of a insane person you can't, this to shall pass read your Bible, ask God to heal your mind, the gaslighting and the manipulation has clouded your judgement, stay in your reality! God is with you my friend 🙏
Shar Hughes hang in there. You can do it. You got this and you are STRONGER than you think!!! 😊❤️🙏🏾
Amen
I know what mean only God Amen
Albert Einstein once said “the definition of insanity is doing something over and over again and expecting a different outcome.”
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Yes .. "Allow yourself to hurt and heal at the same time ".
"Eliminate the lie that God wants this ".
Amen to this powerful teaching.
Always the Best! So powerful
❤ break eminent
Language is so important. Language is everything! I agree that lying to yourself creates mental illness.
A soul tie will keep u going back to the devil even when u don’t want to it’s like it pulls u literally
That part ! ..... “even when yo u don’t want to” I am over my Narc. But there’s still a pull
It's like going NC refuels the Narcs need to try to "win" you back. The demon wants to drag you back to the pit away from God. Don't give in regardless of how sweet seductive they become. It's all a play that will turn into a Greek tragedy-hold your ground!!
No more for me👐🏾👐🏾👏🏾💖
Omg yes
Preach!
I can truly say from the depths of my soul🗣 I AM FREE!!! Didn’t happen overnight, I’m far from perfect but I realize that GOD is in control and I no longer wanted to be! Once I surrendered and let GOD, HE showed up and went to work. It’s not easy, I’ve been angry, I’ve cried, I’ve wanted to give up, I’ve felt rejected, I’ve felt sadness, I asked GOD why so many times, I’ve yelled, I’ve bargained then I surrendered. Throughout all this what never left me was a inner calmness and inner peace that I cannot begin to explain..LET GO! LET GOD! HE WILL!!!
Amen
Thank you
Yes!!! I'm working on me and seeing and getting the lessons that God has been trying to teach me for the majority of my life and especially in this 25 year situationship with my husband.
AMEN 🙏🏽❤️🙌🏽
Amen!!!!
I type this with HUGE tears in my eyes! I NEEDED to hear this! I have allowed myself to tolerate less than i deserve.
Praying ❤ 2 heal
Crocodile tears means fake tears sis. I don’t think that’s what you meant lol
This video just convinced me to never contact my ex again
One day I fell to my knees and ask god to just take the soul tie and pain away I was and still struggle from time to time but I feel I’m getting better through prayer I couldn’t understand why I was so attached I knew I didn’t want to be with him I knew he was no good and toxic but I kept being sucked back in for years it’s true you don’t even know why. He was a narcissist and now he’s transferred his narcissism to someone more gullible and recently reached out to me, I ignored and denounced the toxicity
Look into limerence. It will explain so, so much.
Soul ties are real
“Self hypnotized by the language you assign to the bogus relationship “ ....... that part right there!
^^^!!!!!
YES. That was GOOD.
I discovered this year's back and sadly knew on my wedding day and before that the man "I" choose was not the Divine mate for me. I've healed a while back and have moved on in mind, body and sound. We have kids together, they are grown except a 15 year old. We are cordial, I have no hard feelings toward him, for it was I who could've stopped it all. But, no I went against GOD and paid a huge price. Pastor, it's so good that you are speaking this, because I know many who are in this type of bondage. I pray for them. You are right, you got to speak differently abiut your situation and mean it. Praise GOD for you speaking on this. I do believe that is one of the reasons we are in this coronovirus, so people can really deal with the TRUTH of their relationships. It feels good to be on the other side. GOD is so amazing all the time and when you hearken to his will, wow... The FREEDOM and PEACE is soooo amazing. My prayers go out to all dealing with this. Blessings Pastor to you and yours.... Stay Safe! 🙏🏽 ❤️
SANTAUSHA TYSON That is so my situation right now; I went against my Spiritual mother’s advice at that time when she told me this was not the man for me and I ignored her and God and I married him anyway. Although there is no physical altercations, I am emotionally drained from this 61 year old man negative behaviors such as not understanding that quality time with family is needed but he makes sure he spends plenty time to himself to drink alcoholic beverages, to smoke black & mild and weed.... I am diligently working on preparing a home for my son and I to move into and I am listening to motivational speakers daily and I’m praying and leaning on God daily and I anticipating being free in the natural realm because I’m already free in the Spiritual realm.
@@lynnkeyes522 AMEN my Sister. You are free and GOD will see that you and your son are taken good care of. Make sure that you are able to forgive, for it is for you so that you can move freely and be at peace. There is nothing like the peace GOD will give you. Be Blessed! 🙏🏽 ❤️
SANTAUSHA TYSON Amen. I have forgiven him and i still have to forgive him on a frequent basis because of his behavior; His different mood swings are almost like he is bi-polar but “I” have labeled it as Narcissistic behavior... He can be calm and pleasantly speaking to me in one moment & talking disrespectfully in the next. I try to keep him calm when my 13 year old son is present but sometimes it does not pan out that way & I believe he #can behave disrespectfully in front of my son mainly because my son is not biologically his & the fact as I have previously stated he has Narcissistic behavior.... Whatever the case may be, I’m done, I have mentally moved on, I”m anticipating & preparing to physically move on, I have forgiven both him & myself, I talk with my son almost daily so that he knows there is hope, & we do have a brighter & better life Now regardless of what it looks like....I have apologized to him for my choices & that I have learned from them...I tell him often, I’m not a man and that I can not teach him how to be a man, but I can teach him to love and to respect himself. His biological father is active in his life Thank You Lord.... I’m walking with God and educating myself.... I just love listening to Pastor RC Blake, He has truly blessed me.
Amen I agree to
I knew my marriage was not put together by God.. i was disobedient... i paid the price... God did rescue me .. thank you for your honest comments
Prevent soul ties by never letting pretenders take up valuable real estate in your head and heart 💥🎯
How 2 Love unconditionaly without preventing pain?
Absolutely!
Single and free of any soul ties. I am the happiest woman Alive!!!!🥳🥳🥳🥳for 11 years now😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
All praise to the most high ...ive been following you for about 6 months ..i didn't. Kno yo were here in houston ...im very skeptical about preachers for good reason ....but GOD willing if we pull out of this ........pandemic ....i will attend your church faithfully. #brokenbutstronghostonian
My situation is he did care about me and proved it over and over. I stayed with him because of this. I just never felt loved and I didn't want the same lifestyle. I have blocked him from my phone and emails. I have written down every reason why I want to stay away from him. I do really good for weeks and then all the things he did for me makes me feel like I've done something wrong by letting him go. I denounce it every day. Yes it feels a part of me is dying as I haven't been with anyone else in 15 yrs. Please pray for me and for him. Thank you for making this vid.
Mannn! I have a good understanding of what you're feeling!! Call unto Jesus! The Holy Spirit is our HELP! 🫂🫂 I hope you are in a better place today ❤
Y’all I’ve been listening to Pastor Blake’s messages on Soul Ties and how to break them a year and a half into three years of me trying to break a soul tie with a man Pastor Blake’s said was just playing games with me. This message sunk into my DNA like no other and I feel like something has lifted off of me. Y’all I’m finally free. I’M FREE!!!!!Pastor Blake’s Thank You for caring and doing what you do. We support you and love you and your precious wife. *Latreca *PS Kingology Book ordered!
Amen!!!! I'm so glad to hear this!
You are still in a soul tie. If you were really free, you wouldn't need to watch a video on it and write about it. Obvious you are not yet over him.
Taghazout Moon Ok....what’s your point? I’m claiming I AM FREE! Because I’m one day closer to being 100%. Take your negative self on somewhere....🙄
You’re NOT alone! I have been a faithful follower for over 2 years and he blessed me to diminish the soul tie with my ex husband!!! Blessings, joy and peace to you!!!!😊🙏🏾❤️
Quin Tessa amen. You got this Queen.
Single and happy and blessed...now..with out my ex narcissist!! LET HIM GO....i'm FREE..AMEN🙏🏽
I can’t remember which of your soul tie videos I was watching but I was literally sitting in the airport watching your video and almost seemed like instantly I stopped craving that person. It was very powerful. You’re such a gift from God seriously
Your talks are literally saving me.
Blessings on you and your family.
RC Blake's out here changing lives!
Bella Padua right...he changed my perception in seconds 🙌🏾
Yeah he is! ✊🏾
THIS MESSAGE🎀 PASTOR🎀 IS ALL GOD💕🎀💖 YES LORD💕🎀💖" I NEED YOU💕🎀💖 AMEN🎀 I PRAISE GOD💕🎀💖 FOR YOU🎀🎀 PASTOR🎀 WOW HOW ANOINTED🎀💕" YOU ARE" PASTOR💕🎀💖 AMEN🎀💕💖
All day! Every day!
So prominent in my life right now!! Im excited!
I thank God that I found your channel pastor! I'm finally healing.
I married my soul tie in 1996 divorced him by 2004 and was apart 2 years and reconciled and continued our relationship as tho we were still married. Great provider but a drunkard who would become abusive verbally and emotionally . This continued till 2019 when I finally out him out. He has been gone for a year but Hoover's constantly. I recently decided to cut him off completely. No calls..No helping out..definnitely no sex! I'm on my way to healing after 25 years of pain .I'm finally free.
Yesss 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
🥳🤗👏👏👏
I’ve found it amazingly interesting how people who profess to know JESUS, say they are saved, and are active in the church but do not believe [ HE ] Jesus IS ACTUALLY real. The truth is they think he’s fictional like Santa which is sad. God IS real and Jesus is truly the Son of God just like the Bible says.
Soul ties must be recognized first in order to break them. This has been helpful!!!
3 years later and this message is so timely for me. Wow 👌
“It feels impossible to get out.” This is very true 🙏🏼🧘♀️
You can do it, go to GOD and Trust and BELIEVE in him. He will heal and deliver you. I'm telling you from experience. I was stubborn, went against GOD'S WILL, married someone I shouldn't have, not a divine marriage at all. I got 3 beautiful babies now grown from it and honestly, that was ALL! Oh, I learned a lot. Love, the other side of a broken soul tie is so much FREEDOM AND PEACE! I'm 🙏🏽for you, you can do this! 🙏🏽
MJ Copper But let me tell you it is POSSIBLE.
He will give you strength. He as in the Lord Jesus Christ. Pray and talk and Pray some more with Him..don't stop...He will set you free. Little bit at a time you will feel and Know you are coming out of this toxic situation.
MJ Copper yes it does. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 praying and believing God for strength, peace, and consistency in achieving freedom from it!
SANTAUSHA TYSON 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽. Can’t wait to get through and actually see the other side Lawd Jesus
You must become aware even that God does not want you in this. Awareness.
Amen Pastor.
Melissa Harris that is a profound statement! So true. Amen!!! 😊❤️🙏🏾
if god didn't want it he would make provision for woman. "He" always looks out for men
Soul ties can make a person make very bad decisions, like a crazy person!
Zony West ^^^ Let me tell YOU, I was THERE. Lol Straight crazy and ridiculous! I had to pray and fast that spell away. SMH
Yep, as if we don't have the sense God done gave us!!!🤷 Days I have waken up and literally asked myself out loud; " What the Fuck am I Doing!!!!!!!!" Excuse my word. But that's what I did. He rolled over, asked what was wrong????🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂 I said Nothing! But in the process and preparing to leave.
Yes..im going through the crazy at this very moment....ive been crying out to God but for some reason i can't break free from this Narcissist!
I know and understand how hard it is!!!!!!🤦 Because they have many personalities; which we love the nice, charming one, mixed with a little sex. The Name C's know these things, they act a donkey then they know just when to clean up their act! Every time I threaten to leave and he believes I'm serious? He switches for the moment. Then go back to a clown! The worse we can do or have done is to keep saying we're leaving and don't go🙅 they then think we full of it, only do because we're mad. So there it is game on!!!! It then turns into a cycle- "she ain't going nowhere, I can keep acting a fool.... She just mad, talking shit!!!!!" Is how they see it. But this is for any relationship not just the Narc kind.
Elizabeth, you hav to truly make your mind up. Try looking at him different and how you're hurting from his behaviors. He will start to look ugly, and different to you! Think of your great qualities, and beauty, and how a grown mature man would love to be with you; and treat you with the utmost.
I cried so hard listening to this I’m going through everything you talked about thank you so much
The relationship with my progammed low selfesteem is perhaps the hardest soultie to break.. 🥀
The example with the gold bracelet .. cool! Thank you for your support and help.
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Praise His holy Name. Our God is so good. I never thought I would be able to break free of the toxic and demonic soul tie with my abusive narc husband. After 24 years of being together and 19 years of marriage, he brutally discarded me 10 months ago. I really thought I would die. My soul was so broken. Breaking off the trauma bonding, the sex addiction to him was so hard. Once I got to know about narcissism, after extensive research on the subject, I was able to do NO CONTACT. Going on 9 months now and I'm slowly and truly healing. My marriage was just an illusion, a sham. I was unequally yoked. My husband is his own god. Am smiling and laughing again. The only good thing that came out of this "situationship" are my 3 beautiful children. I believe that I had to go through what I went through for me to really learn how to love myself, to heal from all the trauma from my childhood, to value myself, to see my self worth and to finally see myself the way my Heavenly Father sees me. Yes, I've made mistakes too but I am forgiven and I am redeemed. There is no more condemnation for I know who I am in Christ. I've stopped caring what he and his entourage may think or say about me for my validation comes from no man but God. I've been set free for whom the Son sets free is free indeed. Glory be to His Name.
AMEN!! I believe you can also be in a unhealthy spiritual soul tie. He was a narcissist spiritual man. We never had no sex but the love i have for GOD didn't allow me to fall all the way down. He came in and out for 4yrs but everytime he came back i had level up. I was too strong for him to break me down and he was too weak to level up!! He told me i was too good to be true. He just didn't want to do the work because it was too hard to do when your a weak person. I'M in tune with GOD and seeking him at all times. GOD knew he couldn't level up. GOD knew he couldn't level up so he made sure everytime he tried to come back i had leveled up!! Yes!! He got with someone else and brought her to church to hurt me. It did but being at home alone and spending time with GOD. The process was hard and hurtful but the after math is beautiful. GOD had to break me to push me into a better me and into something better!! I'M wiser and strong than ever. I'M empath but going through made me a healthier empath. I will never over look a red flags again!! The best is yet to come!! Loving me 2020!!
Tongula Jones I ❤️ this!!!
Great Job!!!!💪🏽💪🏽
Tongula. You are so correct. Time can easily pass and before you know it years pass without any positive gains. It's TRUE when you turn to the Father with ALL sincerity he levels you up. Each time they resurface we are stronger and dismiss the 'foolishness ' much sooner. To GOD be the Glory. I am grateful for LOVE and faithfulness. Bless you.
@Jamie Montgomery Thank you so much!! I receive it and believe it. This is my yr. May God bless you as you travel this life journey. Loving me 2020!!
Thank you Pastor Blake. This was an on time message for me! I left my very abusive/toxic husband back in February and was wondering if I made the right decision. He has been "love-bombing" me to come back and telling me to give him another chance and that things would be different. I was in a state of confusion wondering if I should give him another chance. He is what you would call a "Malignant Narcissist." I discovered this from the many TH-cam videos I watched on Narcissism. From the videos I have watched, Narcissism is a Personality Disorder and majority don't change. As I watched this video, I took meticulous notes on what to do to break this soul-tie. Now, I know that this is confirmation that this relationship was not ordained by God! Now that I have left, my soon to be ex is always bombarding me with scripture about how God hates divorce and how I am abandoning the marriage. This is from someone who was extremely controlling, cheated on me, abused me, and was a drug addict. He also lied about being a Pastor! Sorry to vent, anyway, I have since went "no contact" to allow myself to heal from this toxicity and to draw closer to God. Pastor Blake, this video have brought some sunshine into my life and now I know for a fact that I made the right decision. Thank you Jesus!! The best is yet to come! I AM FREE FROM THIS SOUL-TIE IN THE NAME OF JESUS!!! AMEN
Praise GOD! Wishing you many blessings on your beautiful new journey.
Thank you so much for letting Christ work thru you. Your videos have helped me break a soul tie. You helped me see my sin in the relationship. I took my eyes off Christ and manipulated things myself. Thank you Pastor from SC
Pastor Blake your video touching on "keys to breaking a soul tie" has ignited my life. Also dealing with a female narcissist. Thank you so much. You couldn't of said it better. This quarantine is a plus for my freedom. The struggle is real but my relationship with God is to. Ill be 50 this year and want to be married. Im focusing on self, building self and God will open the door for the Queen that I deserve. But the King will be ready to receive her with strength and dignity grounded in the Word of God. Thanks My Brotha.
God Bless
Love ya
Amen 💛
Amen!!
The same here brother. Quarantine was a blessing!
" It was a sin when you created a covenant God had nothing to do with." RC Blakes
#deceivedLikeEve
#mychoice
#mydecision
#GodsGRACE
100% agree ! But The true God can help.you break free !!
Thank you Pastor Blake’s: Years ago, I knew nothing of soul ties. I thought a group of my friends will always be my friends yet deep down I knew I had to let them go and one day I walked away. Never saw them or heard from them. Soul ties applies to lady friends and family. How do you be a friend to them and how are they a friend to you? Now I look at how I can continue to add value and the impact in their lives and walk away. I have been listening to you for a year now.
Thank you. I am blessed by God to find you. Throughout my entire life (I’m 67), I have been in soul ties. It began as a young woman/girl. Without getting into details I am so blessed and joyous to FINALLY understand what was going on. Thanks to our Lord I discovered it through you and I can rest now in the grace of Our Lord in peace. I don’t know why my entire life had to be this way but I do know when it began and I pray I can carry on focusing on the pursuit of godliness and help others who may come in my path
Don't feel alone. I'm 63. Have been recovering from codependency thru Celebrate Recovery since 2013. Recovery comes step by step and I'm still finding layers of the onion Jesus wants me to learn and heal from. He's definitely using this man!
I’M FREEEEE!!!! THANK YOU GOD!!! I PRAYED ON IT AND YOU SHOWED ME THE WAY!!!!
Yaaaassss....give yourself time to heal!!!! And hurt at the same time!!!
I totally agree with everything that was mentioned here.
A soul tie is very real. It takes acts, patience, courage, and the replacement of God, wholeheartedly, spirit, and soul.
so true
Truly yes, the replacement of God! Hmmmm
As simple as “changing the language” and the gold to brass visualization... my lightbulb finally went on. Thank you for blessing me with this talk. Finally feeling a shift is very powerful.
This man literally is helping me change my life and break free from things I didn’t even realize were happening to me. God bless you thank you for these videos
You are really getting me through a very difficult time at the moment. 12 years and 2 children on an unloving situationship.... Well there was love coming from my direction but nothing in return. You are giving me a lot of strength to get through it. I wish we had pastors like you in the UK :)
Uk dont produce open minded men ...
I thank God for the day I found RC Blake's Jr
“Can’t even deliver yourself” let alone someone else. POWERFUL! I can honestly say I was stuck on that for years......that I was placed in a certain situation to deliver someone else. Amazing message! you continue to enlighten and deliver me into healing. Thank you Pastor!
I’m FREE!! 💪🏾❤️
Amen😍
Amen IM FREE TOO 🙌🏽❤️🙏🏽
The Holy Spirit consistently delivers a healing, through you, which emanates! Thank you, for your obedience!
“Baby you can’t deliver yourself, clearly. You ain’t got the power to deliver nobody else. God brought you to the knowledge of the truth that you may deliver you. You ain’t got the power to deliver nobody else, you can’t set nobody free against their own will”
Wow 💯 RC dropping fire 🔥 Jesus help us 🙏🏾
I'm in the midst of breaking a soul tie!! Please pray...
U say your not a counselor better than any your Gods voice for his wounded women to heal put that on a shirt pastor thanks peace
Miss Rita proud to be single not sick🥰😇😊
This message cannot have a come at a better time in my life 👀....exactly preaching to my soul thats its troubling 😖 God bless you Pastor 🙏🏽
Powerful! Thank you Pastor RC for allowing yourself to be used by God for us. Blessings to you. 🙏
Yes! Yes! And Yes!!! In the Name of Jesus break every soul ties, every chains.
Praising God for the wisdom of your ministry. I pray that your ministry reaches every nation of women. But God!
I’M FREE!!!
I'm free too i was baptised Saturday!! Haha whoop whoop!! Praise God, Praise Jesus! Xx
How can anyone not like this man of GOD teaching don’t understand who can thumbs downs his videos I watched all of them and I must say I’m in a better place because of him and of course though 🙏🏾 and going back to my Heavenly FATHER who was waiting on me to return to HIM
Pastor you know u preaching but more importantly your "TEACHING"!!!! Thank you pastor!!!! God bless ya!!! Memphis,TN
A true blessing to this world 🌎 many many blessings to you preacher . Speaking the truth
I really love when you pray at the end. Much love and respect for what you’re doing to help people. ❤️
Amen....
Omg, I've been looking everywhere for an answer to what I am going through, I just stumbled upon your video , well I may have been guided, but I'm in shock and agree to what you are saying about soul ties. Finally, finally I've been searching for so long. And here you are. I just ordered your book. I cant wait to read it. I've been so challenged by this. I cant begin to say thank you for this information. Yes, I fell, out of grace with God, I was very angry and did something. Well you know, but it got me so stuck in my head. I need to break free so I can find true love again. Just,thank you so much.
Free 1 year 2 months. Praise God. I can laugh so hard at how foolish I was. Thanking God for Rev. Blake’s for helping me through. You keep it real as ever and have me cracking up 😂 at the same time. Jesus is Lord! Happy Resurrection to everyone.
I have lost my sense of religion, I was raised in the religious system, but a lot of the leaders don’t seem authentic to me anymore, But I really appreciate your tone and bible references.
Thank you for speaking this message of hope, change, life, and deliverance. Truly Jesus came to heal, save and deliver
Your teachings have helped me end a situationship where I was actually being taken for granted and used emotionally and physically. You taught and grew so much boldness like a lioness and stop the nonsense. The person is surprised and shocked as he never thought the game will come to an end one day. Praise God for your life...thank you
Pastor...Thank you for your gift today. As always, your Spirit has lifted my heart. You are healing souls everyday. With much Gratitude!
Your videos have helped me heal from a toxic relationship that lasted almost 3 years. He was a narcissist and strung me along, gas lighting the whole way. I believed him when he said that he wanted to marry me and we even started going to church together. He couldn't keep that lie up too long and we had a nasty breakup. I'm so glad that it's over, I actually prayed to God to remove him from my life because I knew that I couldn't break things off with him. He had a hold on me and it's going on 3 weeks now, I'm focusing on my mental health, my physical health and serving my church. It's been hard and painful but healing. Thank you for your videos! I watch them every day!
I have had these unhealthy soul ties a few times for a long time each. Its NOT that i KNOW i shouldnt be in, its more i cant let ppl go even when i kniw theyre unhealthy for me. and treat me bad
I know exactly what your saying....Im dealing with this at this very moment...Narcissist are so very cruel and evil...Honestly ive learned they can careless who they hurt.
Jmarie S yes me too
Iam the same way 23 years married an so unhealthy why can’t I let go
@@lizca8905 pray to God to release you it works 🙏🏻
There is no competition. Biblical truth sets us free from bondage. Thank you Pastor 🙌🏾
I love you, Paster Blakes, Jr.! You are most certainly my paster/teacher/dad! Thank you! GOD Bless us all!!
Pastor you are my papa...for 8 months plus keep listening your preach about being true Queen..im not longer the needy gal,lowering my standard to get man and more focus on myself...I love god more..Im Hindu & my shirdi baba bring me to you bcoz he knows your words can heal me..not wash wishy mantras which I x understood...now I start love lord Jesus...I keep tearing evrytime I heard your sharing...how much sin I did..how much hurtings for this body n soul...im now rise a strong girl..head up..and act think like a queen
WOW!!!! That was an amazing word. I truly appreciate your dedication to share this powerful word of freedom. Due to the level of religiosity many of us did not know there is freedom with God. I thank you Pastor Blakes, you've been a blessing to my life. I pray you continue to be blessed.
When I came across your channel it made me realise why putting God 1st is a must!
"God's created this no contact situation" Amen!
I can breathe so much lighter 💜💜💜
Thank you
I admire what you are doing. I was the target of a minister on my church staff. It is alarming that some of the narcissists are using their reputations and positions in the church to hook women.
Pastor Blake’s,
I don’t care how many people get on TH-cam and talk, preach or try to teach us this stuff, they are not you!!!!! You are a true man of God with a seriously strong connection to this message. I was in a unequally yoked marriage and even though i was with him for so long, he ran circles around me, i was never in the game. God got me out of there just in time to spared me my 30’s. I have never met you and I feel like you are like an uncle that I’ve never had. You speak the truth in love, there is never any judgement in your voice and I feel like every question that I need answers for when dealing with this tricky relationship/ dating life, i can find it in your messages. I pray that one day I can honestly thank you in person. You honestly don’t know how much you help people, especially us women. I can not thank you enough. Also, i am not getting your alerts as to when you are ever on Live. Can you one day try instagram Live. That to me is the most popular live and it’s so easy for us to share and pass on. TH-cam is kind of what I feel everybody watches at a later date like a Netflix show. That’s just a suggestion, I don’t mean to offend. Once I again thank you thank you, I appreciate you, I love you and I am honored be one of your followers.
THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING U SPEAK ON....... I PRAY GOD CONTINUES TO BLESS YOU TO HELP US CHANGE AND GROW
Probably the only high value man , who doesn't boast or contrive himself uuurhmgh so many you tube Johnny Bravos out there. You are a breath of fresh air love to Lisa such respect for your union . ❤️ My heroes absolutely 💯. Thank you for this I needed to hear this will listen again and again it is seeping through the grey matter. Wish I could send you something but that soul tie has kept me penniless reliant on him for very little change and its really unprofitable its made me super sick. But God's great and his word iss invoking strength in me slowly 🐌
Thank you Pastor Blake's for this powerful word of God! Thank God I'm free and the soul tie is broken! This is my season to come out, break free and be better! In the name of Jesus! Amen
Now knowing that I couldn’t do this without God has brought me to him and Now I Am Free!! Thank you Lord
I also know the devil knows the plans GOD has for our lives. If the devil can keep you from the kingdom man that GOD has design especially for you. After this last one. I know GOD is preparing me for my king!! Even this man seen my gifts and with that i kept the thought that we can build a ministry. GOD knows he wasn't the one!! It was me the whole time. I had to keep it real with myslef. Give yourself time to hurt and heal. I had to do this!! I don't want to take this with me!! Yes!! Mr. Pastor!! Your so right!! Period!!
Amen RC! Speak! You are so amazingly used by Jesus! You have helped me sooooooo much! No more unequal yokes or missionary dating for me! The right man of God will find me one day! I will work on me for now🙏🏽👍🏽
This video is amazing!! Just wow! I feel your words. I might have to listen multiple times. 🙏💕
I am learning to preach to myself now, thta i am goign through this dificul time, all glory to God
I have much respect and am so thankful that I found your channel when my 28year marriage to a narcissist ended 2 years ago. You helped me to survive and aided the Lord in healing and renewing my mind. I am forever grateful. I am currently reading your book Soul Ties and I have a concern for lack of a better word. In it you state that often times men give money to prostitutes when the wife doesn’t show up in that area. I agree, but it is worrisome that this is typically stated this way in Christian circles, when in reality they often behave this way even though the spouse does show up in that area and may even sell themselves out trying so hard to show up in that area. I think it is important to those spouses who have done their part and obeyed the Lord according to 1 Corinthians 7:5 and tried all they could to have and provide true intimacy etc in their marriage to know that with a narcissist it is never enough. That if they have shown up then it isn’t their fault. The problem lies with the personality that cannot be satisfied and by narcissistic nature only takes and never gives. I know in some situations spouses withhold or manipulate using intimacy as a pawn, but I would hope that isn’t the norm and in today’s world with rampant narcissism becoming so common I believe that the usually empathic, loving, giving people they prey upon are usually more than showing up and to their own detriment and risk.
Greatest time for breaking a soul time. Distancing. Have gained much from the lockdown and distancing.
Thank you.🙏🏻
43:35 your conviction! Your whole spirit lit up right there. I'm convinced. Whom the Son sets free, is free indeed.
I have been able to apply the same teaching to the soultie that I have with my family. All I can do is call it what it is and unlearn what I have been taught. I want to be better not bitter. Thank you for allowing God to use you.
This is the truth that sets many free, preach 🙌🏽.
1. Change the language you use to describe your feelings. 2. Denounce the bond. 3. Eliminate the lie that God wants you in this. 4. Draw closer to God in prayer and meditation.
Thank you.... Can't get this damaged soul to stop texting....I don't read it, or see it or desire it....when Iam done am done....my strength is powerful he will be running with his pants on fire...Iam FREE! !!!! Thank God thank you his messenger
This is the most cruelest form of bondage the enemy uses to destroy our life. This is done with Love so it's most trickiest and most painful kind of bondage. You are being used very powerfully through the wisdom God has given you to see what soul ties are
THANK YOU! I want to be a CyberMember🤣🤣! You are guiding me, because God put you in my path! Because I just got out of a TOXIC RELATIONSHIP! AND IM STAYING AWAY! With a Narcissist person!
I’m so GRATEFUL that I found your channel. You are helping me and so many others with for the wisdom and messages you share. Thank you Pastor Blakes!!