Thank you for offering such a great podcast. I just found you. Your expertise reconfirmed that I did the right thing by leaving my 18 yr relationship/marriage. It hurts. I’m scared for the new beginning and for going through the divorce but I’ll keep listening to learn more.
You're welcome. I wish you well on your journey. You can get information, insights, discussion, support, and three group calls with me each month when you become a member of my Emerging Empowered Community: www.joinintoday.com
"Nobody knows what goes on at home ". So Spot on. Thank you so very much Dr. Shaler . There is a public persona and then there is severe abuse, toxicity and dysfunction at home . Boundary = grey rock then No Contact .
Dr. Shaler is there an age where the Narcissistic behaviour gets worse or comes out in a person? My mom was a Rageaholic. I was physically and emotionally abused. I stayed in my room most of my life and she isolated me from friends and family. She turned my sisters and dad against me and they became her flying monkeys. in her 40s my daughter is showing traits of my mom. We used to be very close but about a year ago she lost her job and started stonewalling and blaming me for everything. And the last thing I would do is hurt my children the way my mom hurt me. But in this past year after my daughter lost her job the actions and things that have come out of her is exactly how my mom treated me. It's actually made me extremely emotionally and Physically sick as I have lupus. She could go around telling me to shut the f*** up and belittle me but if I respond to her hate to defend myself she then makes me into the worst person in the world it's just not healthy. I never thought that narcissism was hereditary but it looks that way. I feel like I've been cursed. I'm 65 years old and I just want to move on with my life and enjoy it. You are Extremely smart bright and comforting. Do you have any suggestions for me on how to handle this?
Thank you for offering such a great podcast. I just found you. Your expertise reconfirmed that I did the right thing by leaving my 18 yr relationship/marriage. It hurts. I’m scared for the new beginning and for going through the divorce but I’ll keep listening to learn more.
You're welcome. I wish you well on your journey. You can get information, insights, discussion, support, and three group calls with me each month when you become a member of my Emerging Empowered Community: www.joinintoday.com
"Nobody knows what goes on at home ". So Spot on. Thank you so very much Dr. Shaler . There is a public persona and then there is severe abuse, toxicity and dysfunction at home . Boundary = grey rock then No Contact .
Excellent!
Great episode!
Dr. Shaler is there an age where the Narcissistic behaviour gets worse or comes out in a person? My mom was a Rageaholic. I was physically and emotionally abused. I stayed in my room most of my life and she isolated me from friends and family. She turned my sisters and dad against me and they became her flying monkeys. in her 40s my daughter is showing traits of my mom. We used to be very close but about a year ago she lost her job and started stonewalling and blaming me for everything. And the last thing I would do is hurt my children the way my mom hurt me. But in this past year after my daughter lost her job the actions and things that have come out of her is exactly how my mom treated me. It's actually made me extremely emotionally and Physically sick as I have lupus. She could go around telling me to shut the f*** up and belittle me but if I respond to her hate to defend myself she then makes me into the worst person in the world it's just not healthy. I never thought that narcissism was hereditary but it looks that way. I feel like I've been cursed. I'm 65 years old and I just want to move on with my life and enjoy it. You are Extremely smart bright and comforting. Do you have any suggestions for me on how to handle this?
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