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  • 13 Ways To RECOGNIZE ENVY And FALSEHOOD In Others | STOICISM
    🔍 Discover the powerful insights of Stoicism and learn how to identify envy and falsehood in those around you. This video delves into the timeless wisdom of Stoic philosophy, offering practical strategies to help you navigate relationships with clarity and discernment.
    🌟 In this video, we cover:
    ✅ How to spot signs of envy in others
    ✅ Recognizing falsehood and deceit
    ✅ The Stoic approach to dealing with envious individuals
    ✅ Building resilience against negative influences
    ✅ Cultivating a mindset of truth and authenticity
    ✅ Understanding the impact of envy on relationships
    ✅ Strategies for maintaining inner peace amidst deceit
    ✅ The importance of self-awareness and observation
    ✅ Practical applications of Stoic teachings in daily life
    ✅ Embracing Stoic virtues to rise above envy and falsehood
    ✅ Enhancing personal growth through Stoic principles
    ✅ Techniques for fostering genuine connections
    ✅ Mastering the art of discernment and integrity
    🔍 Here's what you'll learn:
    00:00 - Intro
    01:09 - 1. The Barbed Compliment.
    04:00 - 2. Selective Support.
    07:01 - 3. The Body Betrays.
    09:56 - 4. The Poisons of Comparison.
    13:09 - 5. The Seeds of Discord.
    16:36 - 6. The Siren Song of Flattery.
    19:40 - 7. Diminishing Your Light.
    23:06 - 8. Broken Promises and Shifting Sands.
    26:37 - 9. The Needy Heart.
    30:04 - 10. The Whispers of Intuition.
    34:08 - 11. Sharing Wisdom Wisely.
    38:27 - 12. Boundaries.
    42:48 - 13. Cultivating the Garden.
    🌿 Join us on this transformative journey as we explore the profound wisdom of Stoicism and provide actionable guidance on how to apply these principles in your daily life. Discover the freedom that comes from recognizing and rising above envy and falsehood.
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    🙏 Thank you for watching! We appreciate your support and look forward to seeing you in the next video. Master the art of discernment and rise above envy and falsehood with Stoicism! 💪✨
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  • @debishaw9355
    @debishaw9355 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Had to give up a friendship because of the backhanded compliments and just plain rudeness…

  • @arleneoruley6896
    @arleneoruley6896 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Great roles & beliefs. Sadly I loyally trusted 2 friends who took my kindness for perfect victim when opportunity arose. After learned my personal info, weaknesses i felt comforted confidentiality had often been exploited. Im lonely, suspicious of anyone now.

  • @robynmoore7847
    @robynmoore7847 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    I have two sisters that are not speaking to me now. One I know is a very envious & jealous person. The other just never liked her family since childhood. I have tried to be a sister to both. I think envy & jealousy is the core problem.

    • @rubenlindo957
      @rubenlindo957 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Other sibling may even steal from you

    • @edgawrysjr
      @edgawrysjr 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      My entire birth family died not shell to me. God Removed those self serving people one by one until I was alone. It was only then could I could rebuild myself into who I was always meant to be. 🙏😎🥳

    • @user-mg2kf7dt9g
      @user-mg2kf7dt9g 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My sister did nothing with her life so she expected me to help her financially which I did from the bottom of my heart no questions asked. However, I woke up and realized that my sister was using me, there was nothing wrong with her physically or mentally. Her envy and jealousy was so obvious and overwhelming, toxic really. I cut ties with her and I noticed I have lost my desired to help her, I don’t want her in my life anymore…done!

  • @edgawrysjr
    @edgawrysjr 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    I’m now an expert at spotting backhanded underhanded slaps. I was raised by narcissist parents and my alleged birth dad was also a sociopath. God saved me 🙏🫡❤️🎯

    • @gigi9301
      @gigi9301 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Um I think you saved yourself but you can thank your imaginary friend if you would persist to believe.. Awesome!!

  • @OSTARAEB4
    @OSTARAEB4 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +48

    I had a “friend” now passed that I came to realize his disdain and envy for me. He would rarely look at me and shift his gaze away and never compliment me if I achieved something. I came to believe he was NPD and had self-loathing.

    • @kalibudlakou
      @kalibudlakou 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Silent treatment…. I am doing that as we speak

    • @OSTARAEB4
      @OSTARAEB4 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@kalibudlakou that’s what I should’ve done but this was years ago before I had any education on personality disorders. I’d call him and knew he was home but engaged in other “phone lines” which apparently were more important than me. I eventually expressed my years of irritation in an email with ended a twenty-five year “friendship” I realize never was. In retrospect, I believe he was NPD and his friend called me to say he passed in his sleep in 2019. Yes, silent treatment and slowly disengage and at some point they’ll realize what’s going on. If they truly valued your friendship, they wouldn’t have treated you in such a bad, abusive manner.

    • @edgawrysjr
      @edgawrysjr 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Glad you realize it now thanks for sharing that🎉

    • @gigi9301
      @gigi9301 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      yeah I have an asshole cousin who can't stop leaking her jealousy/envy towards me. I'm going along with it for the short term to fulfill family obligations. Such a pain in my ass Never forgets to put me down or bitch about how everybody else has fucked her over. Umm... hello do you not think these same people are not even inviting me to anything. Over it

  • @frankie7508
    @frankie7508 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Two observations that should be included of people that seek and will do harm because of their jealousy and anger towards others. And one should always be on guard. These people are not mentioned in the video. But I give the wisdom freely based upon decades of knowledge and experience. Always be on guard with family members including parents as well as neighbors. And and do as Saint Paul suggests which is to test everyone and everything. And if you do I am confident that you will find both members of these groups including parents who will be jealous and angry towards you because of accomplishments that you have achieved in your life. Thank you for an excellent video and I continue to do my best to follow stoicism in daily living.

    • @udyandas
      @udyandas 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you very much. Am personally the only son and issue of my parents. But my parents were jealous of me. My mother supported my late father always, about his miserly ways to supply as much as minimum money can be given for my physical, mental and academic developments. Though, they themselves spet money on silly matters for own comforts. Not only this, they would spend money repeatedly for rich, corrupt and jealous of me relatives, friends, neighbours and acquaintances. While, right from my childhood days, have been helping them in completing their household chores. Inever perhaps said ' No ' to them, for doing any work. My mother will never ask help for accomplishing any work from my father, but only fr. me. My father, while will go outside and often criticize me falsely. If suppose, my clothes became a little untidy due to my defendimg of myself from my class - room bullies at school, my Mom will 1 st ask me , what happened? I would just ans. shortly, ' Had a defensive fight with 1 or 2 boys '. At that time, it was all over but the moment , my Papa came to house from his outdoor duty of a Railway Dr., my Mother will immediately complain against me. And not elaborately that I fought for my own protection. Immediately, after hearing from my mom, my Father would start beating me bkack and blue by his slippers, belt ir an aluminium - scale. This happened 3 or 4 times. This is just but only an example , of how I was cheated, harassed, exploited and insulted only inside my home. That too, by my own parents, and sometimes before others like, servants and neighbours. Today, my Mama is of 85 years ( now widow) n am a man of 54 years. But of long torturous life in home, just like a jail, my future is ruined. Hve. passed only 11 th class but, never could pass 12 th board( taking Maths - Sc. gp. ) and could never increase my height from my present ht. of 5 ft . and 1 inch. My career, physique and future had been ruined by these 2 villains. My case is very rare. For the 1st time, I came to know from your comment in my cell, such things do happen , not only in India, but also outside. Few parents are there in this world, who are actually and secretly jealous of their children or child. Anyway, my hearty Thanks to You. Everything is God's will. But one must try hard again n again for acheiving success. Good day all.

    • @tinaleigh3273
      @tinaleigh3273 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      My mom admitted she was jealous of me & I cut her a$$ off. It finally told me why she treated me like I was her enemy.

  • @carolineramos559
    @carolineramos559 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    I'm going through this now.
    It's a new job, and these people don't want me there.

    • @inezrosario226
      @inezrosario226 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Oh my. Reminds me of a young man who came to work at my company. Definitely talented and ambitious. But within 4 days of his hire, I saw a shift in his demeanor. I took the leap, asked him to come into my office, closed the door and asked him why he seemed unhappy. He indicated that he felt he was being ignored and not moving into his position as quickly as anticipated, and felt it was because of his race. I knew that was not the reason, that in fact, of all the new hires, he was recognized as the one with the most potential and drive.
      I begged him to have patience, new hires never move up the ranks as fast as he would. Plans were to fast track him. But he had to believe in himself, not allow years of discrimination to ruin this great opportunity. He listened to me. And within 6 months he was working to his potential and beyond.
      Some of those people at your new job may feel intimidated by you, but by sticking it out with unshakable self esteem, they may come to respect you. Respect is far more lasting than being liked for superfluous reasons.

    • @margsme6718
      @margsme6718 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      So sorry …this is a true test but they may be doing a childish initiation test but remember you don’t need their validation you were hired for a reason you will be advanced and never have to see them again if you can rise above their jealousy. Hang in there.

    • @hhrrkk6836
      @hhrrkk6836 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Shift your thinking. God doesn’t want you there and that’s why it won’t work out. He has something better for you, be happy about that and believe it wholeheartedly beloved ❤

    • @user-kv1hy3vu1k
      @user-kv1hy3vu1k 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It can really hurt

    • @carolineramos559
      @carolineramos559 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@hhrrkk6836 omg reading this stuck to me. Did you know that I started getting very sick there and haven't been back. Maybe Monday. I need to pray about this.

  • @starboardquest1005
    @starboardquest1005 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    Don’t forget those whose goal is to make you jealous. When you express your Jealousy they are happy because that was their goal to begin with. To make you jealous and then bask in it.

    • @goddessoflove188
      @goddessoflove188 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That one ☝🏼

    • @janetduncan87
      @janetduncan87 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My late ex tried to make me jealous all of the time. I'm not sure if I was jealous or just ticked off that he was trying. I went on a lot of trips with him, and wish I had taken full advantage of it. I didn't.

  • @MakuyEmatt
    @MakuyEmatt 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Mostly people doesn't know how to care,the person, hiw to respect anyone because if the bad influence. I i understand that it depends the parents how to handle the children to be a good childrens,to be a good servant of God not to be liberated. The childrens need to learned how to love pure ,how to be respect to be an educated person.

  • @baruchmaneke6576
    @baruchmaneke6576 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you for your kindness and rich teachings

    • @StoicRealms
      @StoicRealms  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Our pleasure!

  • @frankie7508
    @frankie7508 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    And one more important point. Lower your expectations for people around you, especially in including relatives and significant others. I know of several people who have never experienced a female in their life, including their own mother, aunt's, sisters, spous(es), and female friends who were NOT jealous and angry were not to be found. It will be very difficult to find a female person who follows stoic and true Christian principles. This person says there are none out there. Perhaps he is right.

    • @la4828
      @la4828 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Even those who say they are “true Christians “ never really know how to let go of their envies. whenever i share great news that happens in our family, so many of their “smiles” reveal the true jealousy they feel towards your blessings. No matter how much they clap, or they say how happy they are for you, their eyes say it all.

  • @leprofesseur1014
    @leprofesseur1014 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Just off the time we surround ourselves with fake friends thinking they are genuine..

  • @clintoniasanders1375
    @clintoniasanders1375 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    THE CHEATER WILL SUPPORT WHO HELP THEM CHEAT, BUT SAY THINGS LIKE SO WHAT WE CHEATED BUT WHAT WAS SAID ABOUT CHEATING WAS WRONG.

  • @s.k.haridas6726
    @s.k.haridas6726 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Desires lead to jealous

  • @janetduncan87
    @janetduncan87 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Lol...
    My ex SIL said I was jealous of their family!! But mainly her. I cringe at the thought that I let those ppl have any piece of me at all. If I could go back, I set fire to my ass and run.

  • @doremifasolatido-ro7zs
    @doremifasolatido-ro7zs 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    my husband always says no to me it's late to know that he's kinda insecure of the success i could achieve i thought he's trustworthy but i was wrong now im living in depression and miserable life.

    • @baybramillion9263
      @baybramillion9263 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      well don't be insecure like he was... believe in yourself ❤

    • @thefarmersdaughter8235
      @thefarmersdaughter8235 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Why should you be depressed because of him. Make new plans and do them!

    • @moniquesleyser689
      @moniquesleyser689 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      And leave and live for yourself!

    • @robynmoore7847
      @robynmoore7847 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Very sad 😭.. I was married 30 plus years. My spouse passed away. I don't want to get tangled again. Even though I had a good marriage. Men are not like they used to be.The world is in a bad shape. I will stay to myself.

  • @baybramillion9263
    @baybramillion9263 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    where are these people? im in Victoria BC Canada 🎉 i read coments where are today's stoic people? reply in each if the clips you listen to😂 wish there was Facebook page.

  • @AngelMelendez-rt8ij
    @AngelMelendez-rt8ij 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    😅a good story inventuer.😅

  • @NoiRosales
    @NoiRosales 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You know maski ano pa gawin ko mag Isa la g ako maski ano pa ang isabi ko totoo di yan paniwalaan,

    • @baybramillion9263
      @baybramillion9263 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I believe you ❤

    • @kalibudlakou
      @kalibudlakou 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Jis ba yo vag bébé.

  • @kendylawrence581
    @kendylawrence581 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Anyone here who can help me sponsor my children? I’m at the verge of giving up in life. Nothing is moving for me, I’m stuck and feel like dying. I’m in Kenya Nairobi

    • @chiwonisomandishona461
      @chiwonisomandishona461 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      How old are your children?
      Where is the mother?
      Are you working?

    • @cliffmahoney3949
      @cliffmahoney3949 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Scammer

    • @jeannettebosma5311
      @jeannettebosma5311 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      God is hearing you. Ask for help and He will not disappoint you.

    • @ramaat2731
      @ramaat2731 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@cliffmahoney3949 right . Imagine spelling your own city wrong Nairobi

    • @kendylawrence581
      @kendylawrence581 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ramaat2731 typo error…and what exactly is it that I’m scamming?

  • @MakuyEmatt
    @MakuyEmatt 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    People make me a bad ,crazy,, or witch. So i avoiding. For my priority my worship enough for me .People doesn't like me anymore even her in my studio. They dont like im wearing a nice dresses they speaks at my back im just ignoring only.Jelousy behaviors so dangerous and no peace of mind can create a darkness not good to the eyes of God .

  • @jeannedouglas9912
    @jeannedouglas9912 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Curious how stoicism philosophy disregards the birth families or the birth tree and all such envy and jealousy within such small family systems and subsequent harmful actions. A free ride by blood to use and abuse? V

  • @zohrehkabirnia1877
    @zohrehkabirnia1877 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I LOVE TRUMP❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤