4 Signs that a Man LOVES you and Adores You (number 2 may surprise you)

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  • @savannahflynn6191
    @savannahflynn6191 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6849

    I always thought when a man was in love with you he sent flowers, sent candy, bought you expensive gifts and took you on exotic vacations. I have been married for 54 years (I was 19 and he was 21). My husband did none of these. What he did do was respect me, took care of me during two bouts of breast cancer and bladder cancer, does laundry, pays bills, when we brought our newborn home from the hospital, he let me sleep and got up with the baby every night and fed and rocked him. He had a full time job but did all this because he loved me and our baby. He is my Rock. I thank God everyday for him. Three years ago he had Quadruple bypass surgery. He also suffered two mini strokes but by the grace of God, he survived both and is doing very well. I am so very blessed.

    • @lalunea6115
      @lalunea6115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +176

      You are very fortunate to have known and still know a love such as this in your lifetime !

    • @ayeshaafreen9165
      @ayeshaafreen9165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      Your kind words give others hope and faith that good human (specially Man) exists in this world. And I’m glad that you have one of them. May Almighty bless you both with good health and prosperity.

    • @willow_pillow
      @willow_pillow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      💙

    • @benitak7951
      @benitak7951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      That’s a testimony right there!!! ❤️👑 I thank God you got your soulmate!

    • @stasia5463
      @stasia5463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤍

  • @melodymyers6622
    @melodymyers6622 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4027

    My husband did most of these things, he wasn’t perfect but loved me and took care of me. He died 11 years ago, oh I miss him so much.

  • @extraudoknight
    @extraudoknight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2028

    I'm a boy. I'm watching to make sure I won't do anything wrong when I meet the right girl for me!

    • @mamamagere
      @mamamagere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      That’s sweet 🙂

    • @samyuktakimchipie7462
      @samyuktakimchipie7462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      cuteeeeeeeeeeeee

    • @YogawithAliBeale
      @YogawithAliBeale 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      That is wisdom and insight. 💗

    • @rachellopes3704
      @rachellopes3704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Save this man at all costs😂

    • @extraudoknight
      @extraudoknight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@aversiontoevil much thanks and appreciation for the advice

  • @didi2.045
    @didi2.045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3333

    When a man loves you.... you won’t question “if he loves me.” You will know.

    • @Anfalmohd9
      @Anfalmohd9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      😂😂😂♥️indeed

    • @alex-fs9yt
      @alex-fs9yt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Well then I guess no man has ever loved me lmao

    • @monikakurowska4081
      @monikakurowska4081 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      Perhaps... but after a few serious disappointments you might be doubting what your guts are telling you.

    • @zinthin8456
      @zinthin8456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I still watch it even though I know he absolutely loves me. So many men told me they love me but only he proves me his love every single day. So I watch it and remind myself he's very special

    • @melodiarodriguez681
      @melodiarodriguez681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hmmm okay but im not my girl🖤💀

  • @Lafilledlapluie
    @Lafilledlapluie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1491

    Watching these while single is the best tbh. It's like studying

    • @YogawithAliBeale
      @YogawithAliBeale 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      So we will recognize it when we see it 😉

    • @lily_an
      @lily_an 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      lmao being prepared :)

    • @bolotabr12
      @bolotabr12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Observing and researching

    • @Maha.s.8
      @Maha.s.8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Indeeeed 😂🤣

    • @ariazer6669
      @ariazer6669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Watching this for some learning about love lmao 😂

  • @salliewashington4345
    @salliewashington4345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +942

    To all you special women that are blessed enough to be loved by a man, cherish it, because not everyone is as fortunate as you are.🙏

    • @huntresskrystle
      @huntresskrystle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @brianhardwick4673
      @brianhardwick4673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👍

    • @Rottimail
      @Rottimail 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I like what you said. I am someone who will be alone forever .... not loved by anyone. My family physically disabled me in childhood and now I'm crippled forever. I will never experience being loved by a man and will never experience being married to a man. I can't have children either because of the damage to my spine. So, if you have a good loving man be grateful that you have him.

    • @shelldavis161
      @shelldavis161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am very blessed he fell in Love with me on line I lost my soulmate in 1992 was not looking but boom in Love again

    • @daledavis6984
      @daledavis6984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen.

  • @me_eh
    @me_eh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4436

    1. He devotes time to you & invests effort into the relationship often. Priorities
    2. He protects you, would give his life for you
    3. Not manipulative, will listen to your feelings. Accepts you the way you are
    4. He tells you he loves you

    • @newbietubes9493
      @newbietubes9493 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Ash thank you

    • @wickedwitch4ever
      @wickedwitch4ever 6 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Sounds like a myth to me. Thanks for sharing.

    • @stephanietaylor626
      @stephanietaylor626 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      THANK YOU

    • @slarkel506
      @slarkel506 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @fat guy Mgtow Love is real, and Ash is correct

    • @umsiee
      @umsiee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @fat guy Mgtow 😂😂

  • @bctclassvideo8025
    @bctclassvideo8025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +798

    I finally found this kind of man. We're crazy about each other. It only took me 40 years to find him. It's so worth the wait.

    • @brianhardwick4673
      @brianhardwick4673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.

    • @manosimandal8375
      @manosimandal8375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My God ! What a long wait 😫

    • @deedawson9437
      @deedawson9437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No matter

    • @leewhite8355
      @leewhite8355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me to ,but he was worth it ❤️

    • @loiseonudi8129
      @loiseonudi8129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thanks. I will wait

  • @cubnation
    @cubnation 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3685

    Don't ever marry a man who lies to you. It does not get better after you are married. Run, don't walk away.

  • @lisabaltzer3163
    @lisabaltzer3163 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1979

    I have been loved by the same man for 41 years ( married for 37). I love him too.

    • @teddyleroy1956
      @teddyleroy1956 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Lisa Baltzer hey that's what it's all about congrats.. man how'd you do that?

    • @ms.5779
      @ms.5779 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Lisa Baltzer That's beautiful..
      ..those kinds of relationships give hope to others. Thanks for sharing that

    • @janechungu2200
      @janechungu2200 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lisa Baltzer how have you managed?.

    • @TLovly77
      @TLovly77 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      jane chungu Most likely communication, respect, honesty, compromise and loving each other how they truly are. Relationships have problems and take work but both people need to make that happen. Unfortunately a lot of relationships out here are one-sided with too many selfish people in them. People say they fall out of love but I wonder if it was really the person that they love or did they love what the person does for them. In my opinion real love never dies and this woman and her husband are proof of that. Congratulations to her and her husband☺

    • @deniseyoung4494
      @deniseyoung4494 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      TLovly77 YES, I believe that true love never dies, it just grows stronger.

  • @alex-fs9yt
    @alex-fs9yt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +737

    _"If you have to wonder about his priorities, then that is a red flag."_
    THIS.

    • @devapoole4117
      @devapoole4117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Right! If you are not an natural priority to HIM...
      Let him get a dog to sleep with.

    • @100pinkified
      @100pinkified 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That one hit me too.

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Always

  • @kassidyanderson6558
    @kassidyanderson6558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +838

    His mama raised a man💯

  • @yagmursadegul9435
    @yagmursadegul9435 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1285

    This is the moment i have realized i have never been loved by someone. (Update: Now, I am in relationship for 2 years. All these signs are true and he is doing all of these. Love will come and find you. If you love yourself, discover yourself, love will come to you naturally. Just believe in yourself and life flow❤ )

    • @annasweetblue5868
      @annasweetblue5868 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ....
      (-̩̩̩-̩̩̩-̩̩̩-̩̩̩-̩̩̩___-̩̩̩-̩̩̩-̩̩̩-̩̩̩-̩̩̩)

    • @leninha5549
      @leninha5549 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      You'r not alone realizing this...!

    • @francess.4890
      @francess.4890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same 👍🏻

    • @supadupamuaks
      @supadupamuaks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same here

    • @serahkaluma6725
      @serahkaluma6725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Aaw, too

  • @shellbell8062
    @shellbell8062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +311

    I lived in a town house with my ex-boyfriend and one day out of the blue someone kicked in our front door. My boyfriend jumped behind me and literally used me as a human shield. In that moment I knew that he was not the one.

  • @Secret-sw8ih
    @Secret-sw8ih 6 ปีที่แล้ว +863

    I invest in my dog, I walk on the road side of the pavement & I tell him I love him frequently. I love my dog.

    • @daintyflygirl4va
      @daintyflygirl4va 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Lol, same here

    • @KG-wg8pm
      @KG-wg8pm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      😂😂😂

    • @elee5816
      @elee5816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Love this comment.

    • @Mydogpatrashce
      @Mydogpatrashce 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Huh? Me too..😳

    • @sea9sky9
      @sea9sky9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's me n my bunnies thought 🙄

  • @daintyflygirl4va
    @daintyflygirl4va 5 ปีที่แล้ว +433

    I wish I cn find a guy like my dad. He really loved my mom. On his sick bed before taking his last breath, he once again reminded my sister and I to take care of our mom when he is gone.

  • @hangas-s1507
    @hangas-s1507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +419

    You just described my dog. LOL 1) when I'm upset he takes me to my favourite place. 2) Chases away mad dogs and pulls me up to walk on the pavement. 3) He listens to my whining without interrupting. 4) He looks at me like I'm the only one.

    • @mayanuramalia6827
      @mayanuramalia6827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @fatoucisse8646
      @fatoucisse8646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @yarajaladef9831
      @yarajaladef9831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hhhhahh

    • @classy94
      @classy94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂

    • @minsan1294
      @minsan1294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes.. I agree.. hahaha.. My dog looks at me like that too.. With sparkly eyes and full of love.. Awh.. 🥰

  • @freidasharp7515
    @freidasharp7515 5 ปีที่แล้ว +522

    Ummm I guess I was a very lucky woman when my husband was alive. He told me about twenty times a day he loved me. God I miss him so much.

    • @marcimutz2159
      @marcimutz2159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Frieda, we're in the same boat, here! Understand totally. Mine passed in 2011 a week after " Patriots Day."

    • @mpho4164
      @mpho4164 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope hear this😢with my future husband

    • @brianhardwick4673
      @brianhardwick4673 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.

    • @ailey9293
      @ailey9293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@brianhardwick4673 umm I don’t think doing that is right...if you really love her then you would trust her. I know it must feel horrible thinking that she would do something but I mean still

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ailey9293 you are a good person. Brian isn't. He is just another bot.

  • @victoriarowe7708
    @victoriarowe7708 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Believe me after being in bad relationships you will know when the one comes along I'm going through this now and it's lovely to feel loved and adored

  • @lukiapearl6783
    @lukiapearl6783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I remember while dating my now husband, how we figured out we loved each other beyond like or infatuation. We told each other everything after we became close. The worst regrets, the family hurts, why we struggle with certain things… we shared it all. We agreed that if we even do wrong in a big way someday the love won’t change. We won’t keep mistakes secret; and we’ll encourage each other to grow to become better TOGETHER ☀️ If honesty and the safe space to talk about everything with that person doesn’t exist in the relationship. Move on!! If they can’t accept your worst, your past, the journey to become who you presently are… then they do not deserve you.

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial 6 ปีที่แล้ว +571

    All of these signs are true, but as a woman obviously you can feel it when that man really loves you through their actions and not only his words.

    • @blisteredblues1255
      @blisteredblues1255 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I always have said that actions speak louder than words. My ex gave me all the words I wanted to hear but the actions loudly said hate, disrespect, manipulation. And I am showing by my actions that he is history.

    • @TarotwithRanjani
      @TarotwithRanjani 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True.

    • @sharonofthemosthigh5887
      @sharonofthemosthigh5887 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Truth.

  • @sheliaestesestes1064
    @sheliaestesestes1064 6 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    My husband and I was married 33 yrs, He's dead now but he most difinitely knew how too love me.

  • @lisalyric6711
    @lisalyric6711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +737

    One thing I always hold on to, that my mom taught me. "A man who loves you will say I LOVE YOU with so much conviction, that it would be like its the first time you hear him say those words to you. Even after 20 years of marriage"

    • @throughthestorm3852
      @throughthestorm3852 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Wise mom.

    • @saranghaeyo8992
      @saranghaeyo8992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I want that too

    • @passer-by1510
      @passer-by1510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I hope I get someone like him. ❤️😭

    • @mgsol3316
      @mgsol3316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So very true. I have heard this from my man several times, with such feeling and conviction.

    • @lisalyric6711
      @lisalyric6711 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@saranghaeyo8992 same here... hope u finally got it

  • @crew74731
    @crew74731 5 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I found someone who passed all of these signs! He is even coming to see me after my surgery and offered to be there to take of me!!! Its real just believe! It can happen!

    • @throughthestorm3852
      @throughthestorm3852 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You must be some gal, for him to think you are worth it.
      Get well soon, God bless.

  • @jayariuh
    @jayariuh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1175

    When he said he tells his girlfriend bedtime stories I melted.... I want that

  • @maxinevonminx
    @maxinevonminx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    My ex narcissist did all of these signs in the love bomb stage. By the time the devalue and discard came around, I was paralyzed by cognitive dissonance. I really thought he loved me and that I was the only one. My point is, be careful, always.

  • @ashleyw7868
    @ashleyw7868 6 ปีที่แล้ว +898

    I grew up in a dysfunctional and broken home and never believed that a man could/would put me before himself. I was so blessed to find the man that would gladly put me first over 6 years ago. I know he loves me for me, regardless of how I look or act at times. He's been proud of me when I looked like a fat troll carrying our two children, when I dealt with postpartum psychosis, and all the times I couldn't see my own worth. Two kids, multiple family deaths, a lost job, illness, and 6 years later we are more in love than ever. There is someone out there for everyone, and that initial wave of love won't decrease over time or during challenging times, but instead it will become stronger.

  • @thaispinheiro109
    @thaispinheiro109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    And he introduces you to key people in his life.

    • @sweetnessdrummose1459
      @sweetnessdrummose1459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      At least how many months in a relationship... I. Confused really, in my current situation it's been 6months but says he feels like he hasn't achieved much in his life thus he hasn't invited me to his place

    • @creallyreal
      @creallyreal 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That means he doesn't want you knowing ALL of him, or he's sharing space w/someone else. Or, he could simply be embarrassed of his homespace.
      Either way, he's withholding. Sorry 😢.​@sweetnessdrummose1459

  • @leelinr1259
    @leelinr1259 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I have been with my husband for 52 years and he just passed away and he was the love of my life and he lived me the same we were "TWO HEARTS BEATING AS ONE"

  • @zeezee2535
    @zeezee2535 6 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I was married to my husband for 18 whole years and he always pit me and our 4 children first in everything he did. Totally spoilt me. He died 6 months ago and our lives turned upside down. For the first time in almost 2 decades, I am suddenly talking to the plumber, the carpenter, the mechanic and other repair men. He did everything for us and more.

    • @ikenjumaoas7895
      @ikenjumaoas7895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The same mine! My husband died this New Years day! Very sorrow and painful!😢 he was the best husband and father! He was a great God fearing man..We had a healthy and happy family! He spoiled me also..😢

  • @Tenshus4ever
    @Tenshus4ever 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I don't look for signs to show love for me, I observe and see how he acts, actions speak louder than words

    • @aimisakee867
      @aimisakee867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      For me it goes hand in hand. I'm not convinced if all actions no talk vice versa coz he can be doing just to be nice.

  • @ichigoamanuo1358
    @ichigoamanuo1358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    Finding loving partner is like finding a treasure chest in a deep blue sea.

    • @mab3900
      @mab3900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Couldn't be more true

    • @farahmukhtar3184
      @farahmukhtar3184 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

    • @martinemaryhernandez729
      @martinemaryhernandez729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @LOVE♏️♌️
      I TOTALLY DISAGREE I HAVE A VERY LOVING PARTNER I JUST HAD EYE SURGERY YESTERDAY AND MY HUSBAND IS VERY NURTURING TAKING CARE OF MY EVERY NEED CLEANING MY EYE 👁 AND PUTTING THE MEDICINE IN.. HES MADE SURE IM TAKEN CARE OF BEFORE WORK IN THE MIDDLE OF WORK AND THEN HE TAKES OVER NEVER LEAVING ME ALONE... HES VERY SUPPORTIVE DEVOTED AND DEDICATED TO BEING MY PARTNER💍🔐 I LOVE YOU MARTIN I APPRECIATE EVERYTHING THAT YOU DO FOR ME MY LOVE🐻🐸🐣🐒💫🌈

  • @bonismith5702
    @bonismith5702 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Happy to say my husband does all of the four actions discussed and more to let me know how much I am loved.
    My husband does not just show/tell me once in a while, he makes sure to let me know every day throughout the day.
    I am truly blessed.

  • @joywatson95
    @joywatson95 6 ปีที่แล้ว +664

    NOPE. My ex NEVER loved me ! But I love myself to make him my ex !!!

    • @ryanvtec3885
      @ryanvtec3885 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Joy Watson some of us nice guys care too much but watch out for the alpha sometimes he cant care about anyone but himself

    • @slarkel506
      @slarkel506 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Alpha's are just desperate, they think every woman will just bow down to them lol

    • @gregjones7382
      @gregjones7382 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      What was his name?

    • @Eve15-n7e
      @Eve15-n7e 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are so right

    • @constancejenkins3867
      @constancejenkins3867 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You Go Ms Lady..

  • @aruvielevenstar3944
    @aruvielevenstar3944 6 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    I love the fact that men want to protect us. 😍

    • @zikrqueen
      @zikrqueen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Not all men sometimes the closest hurt you the most

    • @1m2rich
      @1m2rich 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not all.

    • @andersnielsen6044
      @andersnielsen6044 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is so wrong. We only want to protect that ONE girl we love.

    • @Khayran
      @Khayran 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My dad just hurts me, my brothers used to be the same. Normal men want to protect us tho. I wouldn't doubt it

    • @hemantks4353
      @hemantks4353 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And yet women don't want to cook for the men

  • @yolandajohnson8685
    @yolandajohnson8685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    the biggest gift a woman could get from a man is: HIS HEART and everything else will fall into place.

    • @Freespiritedqueen
      @Freespiritedqueen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I believe this💯 and he her heart.

    • @brianhardwick4673
      @brianhardwick4673 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.

    • @martinemaryhernandez729
      @martinemaryhernandez729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YES I AGREE 💯💯💯 HIS HEART IS EVERYTHING INDEED💜💚♾💍🔐

    • @kristykreme2623
      @kristykreme2623 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Freespiritedqueen who's heart does he have

    • @kristykreme2623
      @kristykreme2623 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@martinemaryhernandez729 I love his heart. Who has it? 🥺

  • @TheLovedofGod
    @TheLovedofGod 6 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I am blessed. I've been Married for the second time to a Man who worships the ground I walk on. We've been Married since January of 1989. We both Love God and He is in the middle of our relationship which makes both of us stonger and if the emotions are slipping I know I can ask of God and He always pours more love for him into my soul and into His.

    • @adimana1588
      @adimana1588 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Teri Parenteau Happy for you 👌❤️

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wait, how does he worship the ground you walk on and God at the same time....?

    • @tesiasmith6108
      @tesiasmith6108 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏💯❤️

  • @nd6862
    @nd6862 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    My boyfriend is that man...and I think the reason people fail to find that man is because they spend too much time looking for superficial things like good looks and money...but I am so happy that I was able to get over this and finally found a real man. At 25 years I had my first boyfriend and I am so proud of him

  • @mirelizsax5897
    @mirelizsax5897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Blessed are those women who find such loving man

  • @javedanwarrahman
    @javedanwarrahman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I am a man and I do have to admit what he's saying is 100% true. We don't act to protect our lady but it strikes in our head immediately when she's in danger as a mother does to her baby. And the last point is 200% correct. Our body wants to shut down.

  • @LilacofGod
    @LilacofGod 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2752

    Finding a man like this is like finding a needle in a haystack.

    • @ryanvtec3885
      @ryanvtec3885 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      virtue McCrary dont reject guys who say they like you before you have made up your mind on how you feel about him

    • @LilacofGod
      @LilacofGod 6 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@ryanvtec3885 a guy has never told me he likes me. I'm the idiot who likes them. They play me like dice.

    • @rosy6562
      @rosy6562 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂💔

    • @adlofheltirchiefadvisortot40
      @adlofheltirchiefadvisortot40 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      to be honest, most of what the guy is describing is infatuation

    • @ryanvtec3885
      @ryanvtec3885 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@adlofheltirchiefadvisortot40 So you wouldn't protect the ones you love with your life?

  • @SoniaJbrt
    @SoniaJbrt 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Your video made me cry tears of joy! I'm gonna text my husband at work right now and just say thank you and I appreciate him very much, and I can't help but tell him I love him so very much! You just described my husband!

  • @lisarice4402
    @lisarice4402 6 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Sometimes adoration can be lethal. Always be wary of patterns of behavior. Narcissists do the very worst they can possibly do to a person, and sometimes, it simply is Not safe to forgive that individual face to face. Personal safety must always be kept in mind. Narcissists don't find twin flames or soul mates - they simply move onto the next individual whose energy they want to devour. Belittling a another person's experience doesn't shine the light on you at all ... for those of us who have experienced that atrocity in our lives, negative comments by others prove as a warning sign.
    Brian Nox, you do provide some great information, and what you have said is treasured. Thank you - it reminds us there are still very good people out there - we simply need to pay closer attention :)

  • @alinamunir6933
    @alinamunir6933 5 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    This is so my mom and dad. I love their relationship, beautiful 💖

    • @mariaqumayo9442
      @mariaqumayo9442 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Alina, your blessed to have a living example of this kind of love. Some of us have lost all hope in fairy tale love stories. They dont exist. 😔

    • @kelleybright3113
      @kelleybright3113 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me2 40 years later they are still bffs thanks u2 raskl parents of mine I love u

    • @artistrg3487
      @artistrg3487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You guys truly are blessed!
      Never in my 21 years of living have I even seen my parents even hold hands. Sometimes I wonder why they even are still married. :/

    • @dosesandmimoses
      @dosesandmimoses 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      could you add to your mom and dad relationship? and then call it a home?

  • @fleurof28
    @fleurof28 6 ปีที่แล้ว +626

    yeah you're right!!! find a man who loves you...just what i did... I don't waste time with people I like most but for me, I focus on people who loves me most...

    • @auggies1able
      @auggies1able 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      well said and well done.

    • @Missgevious
      @Missgevious 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I totally agree

    • @arkanas7315
      @arkanas7315 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Hey, what u r saying is actually a contradiction because if you are with someone who loves you, and you may not be in that much love with him, what about him then? Is he not with someone he loves but who actually does not like him the way he does? Is this not being selfish? In the same way, you can be with someone you love, but who may not feel that much love for you....relationships are complicated.

    • @gimighore4969
      @gimighore4969 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Fontbuena Fleurdeliz I learnt that after 3 heartbreaks and I'm glad I learnt it . Even princess Diana taught her kids to never let go if someone truly loves you . Hold on to that person.

    • @lalithalakshmen9670
      @lalithalakshmen9670 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fontbuena Fleurdeliz 9

  • @anar.5354
    @anar.5354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I'm so glad that my boyfriend is really like that 😭❤️ and I love him so much. Even with my panic attacks he goes straight to the bed and hold me and tells me how much he loves me until I felt better. We are so connected since we met. Now in distance we are more in love every day. ❤️ I'm so happy with him.

  • @soninChina
    @soninChina 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I was married to my love partner for just shy of 34 years. I NEVER doubted that he loved me. This video had totally illuminated that. I will never settle for less if someone else can bless my life with that kind of unselfish love. Thank you for reaffirming my joyful marriage. I miss that security of knowing he always had my back.

  • @LilacofGod
    @LilacofGod 4 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    Finding a man like this was like finding lysol during this corona pandemic.

    • @Freespiritedqueen
      @Freespiritedqueen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Haha!!

    • @JC-jb1mn
      @JC-jb1mn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😂 hahaha. God help us find good men. They're usually not always eye candy those are the player types.

    • @TheMallyjoe
      @TheMallyjoe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Or toilet paper

    • @ShellyJellyUpYours007
      @ShellyJellyUpYours007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hahaha i loved what you said! An btw your absolutely right

    • @andreatranchino
      @andreatranchino 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Toda la razón 😃👍👍👍😃

  • @whoyacallinpinheadlarry4205
    @whoyacallinpinheadlarry4205 5 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Shout to all the single people.

  • @bethclay287
    @bethclay287 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    He does all of this. That's why I married him.😃😃

  • @ieshagooden3648
    @ieshagooden3648 6 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    Sounds like my husband. I've been married for 14 years and he does all these things💕

    • @somjaiphon9226
      @somjaiphon9226 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Iesha Gooden lucky woman..did he have sigel bro?😀😀😀

    • @barbie3727
      @barbie3727 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Im happy for u😭❤❤

    • @tealacrane2198
      @tealacrane2198 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      congratulations!! ♥️

    • @europeisthebestloveisblind5524
      @europeisthebestloveisblind5524 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is not a husband it is host which must provide sex and customer services for family and paraditic parasitic women and y8u are racist

    • @joanuyeye2853
      @joanuyeye2853 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Na true

  • @gangster1895
    @gangster1895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Brian. The only thing I wanna say here is that you're love. The way you say all things, and gently teach and the energy you put in and that one handsome smile. Too refreshing to see honestly

  • @EssaryMichele
    @EssaryMichele 6 ปีที่แล้ว +464

    The same thing can be said if a woman loves you. She will invest in you, protect you, nurture you, accept you the way that you are.

    • @theluckypoptart2945
      @theluckypoptart2945 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sachin Kumar no it's true.

    • @e.lynettemccormick-harris2930
      @e.lynettemccormick-harris2930 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Michele Smith then they walk all over you.

    • @ms.5779
      @ms.5779 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      E. Lynette McCormick-Harris LMAO!!

    • @lenalaatsch
      @lenalaatsch 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Just what I do for my boy... Sadly I don't get it back tho

    • @GLORYALEXIS
      @GLORYALEXIS 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Michele Smith a

  • @catslikesaltandvinegarcris110
    @catslikesaltandvinegarcris110 6 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I’m absolutely blessed. Have the most wonderful man in the world x

    • @adimana1588
      @adimana1588 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cats like salt and vinegar crisps 👍❤️🙏

  • @chadmassey9730
    @chadmassey9730 6 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    I LOVE my wife! Protection is the #1 key in a relationship with your significant other.

    • @jollyjokress3852
      @jollyjokress3852 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chad Massey blah blah blah ;)

    • @chadmassey9730
      @chadmassey9730 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We are divorced and no longer together. But, I still unconditionally love Katherine as family and my best friend...blah blah blah

    • @jollyjokress3852
      @jollyjokress3852 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chad Massey that was 3 weeks ago. Im sorry!

    • @chadmassey9730
      @chadmassey9730 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jolly Jokress yah but once a partner is in your life you have to keep them as a best friend or friends with benefits. What do you think?

    • @jollyjokress3852
      @jollyjokress3852 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chad Massey not necessarily. It depends. Sometimes you quit seeing each other or not. If there is still some value to it like you get along together very well (which woild be kinda strange if you got divorced) then yes. If not then not. I have ppl whom i dont wanna see anymore. Its hard to do it at first but it is always better if you know that in the long term you dont want to have to do anything with that person anymore. Though in my case those were school friends and such. You live and you learn and i like my new surroundings a lot better ;)

  • @karashera2252
    @karashera2252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband shows his love for me in subtle ways. He doesn't give me expensive gifts and stuff like that. He makes a living for us and takes care of our home, he brings me flowers now and then because it makes me smile, he listens to my feelings and tries to help, he tries to make every wish come true that I have, he proudly takes me everywhere he goes, he tries to change behaviors that make me feel bad, there's this smile that he only shows for me, and nobody else. And I'm totally the only one who's criticism he's interested in.
    I've had mental health issues for a long time and I've been that kind of person you wouldn't want to have around, but he saw something special in me. He chose to live with me when I was at my worst and helped me get better.
    I can't express how grateful I am that I've found him.

  • @sheem.2450
    @sheem.2450 6 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    My husband does all these things✨

    • @happyhiker965
      @happyhiker965 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mines to, when I was really sick
      he saw me at my worst, made me hot water bottles, cooked for me,
      cleaned up my vomit, played my favorite music, massaged me, told me I was beautiful. He said he would wait for me if I die and we can be together again in paradise.
      I'm selfish I fully expect him to keep his promise, I don't want to live without him, he is my forever soul mate. Thank you to my God
      for my greatest blessing and your Son Christ Jesus for making it all possible, to love my husband forever. I can't wait to live the real life in paradise and have more babies that look exactly like him.

    • @annab8189
      @annab8189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@happyhiker965 oh please. Comments like yours bother me. I watched my mother wither away to half a person when the love of her life - my father - passed away. Be strong in yourself as one day you too could be heartbroken.

    • @brianhardwick4673
      @brianhardwick4673 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.

  • @snowwhite2709
    @snowwhite2709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My hubby does all of this. When our daughter was born,hole in lung, in NICU,after emergency Csection, after I got home,was in bed with him,he was so upset our newborn daughter was alone at the hospital, he asked me if I minded that he got up and went to the hospital to visit her. (parents could visit anytime). He went to be with her. Melts my heart thinking about it even though it was 18 years ago now.

    • @LizaLizzaaaa
      @LizaLizzaaaa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think that's the bare minimum

  • @wolfm2576
    @wolfm2576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    Lol seems like in these times women are the ones protecting men in the dark alley...

  • @indayperl9942
    @indayperl9942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I am so hurt watching this.

    • @risingjudah3064
      @risingjudah3064 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When a man truly loves you, you will know it .

    • @user-du5cs1vs7d
      @user-du5cs1vs7d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😑me too

    • @huntresskrystle
      @huntresskrystle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too. *hugs*

    • @zmcfadgen
      @zmcfadgen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sorry love! I pray you and I both will experience this kind of love someday soon.❤️

  • @samanthacatcher7838
    @samanthacatcher7838 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    My husband is was extremely nervous of me when I use to work for a hotel at night. He would always remind me to take my gun with me to work. Thankfully, nothing ever happened...other than some rude ass customers. And when men staying there hit on me, I always stayed professional so they never got too friendly. Had a few that asked to take me out to dinner but I was quick to tell them I'm married and showed them my ring finger. I'm lucky to have my husband. Always texting me to make sure I'm ok. If he gets worried whenever I don't text back, he calls.❤😘

    • @brianhardwick4673
      @brianhardwick4673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.

    • @samanthacatcher7838
      @samanthacatcher7838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@brianhardwick4673 sure will, thank you! Also, good woman will always stay faithful to good men so don't be too insecure about her trust.

    • @brianhardwick4673
      @brianhardwick4673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@samanthacatcher7838 well I think feeling insecure is just human nature...I need to be showered with love on a daily else I’ll think the connection is no longer there ,but at least I’m more at ease knowing her location always and getting to see her conversations on social media. All thanks to 7hackman on Instagram

  • @elisabethellis3126
    @elisabethellis3126 6 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    My uncle & cousins told me all of these things!
    Always go by what a person does not says.

    • @snap2114
      @snap2114 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      True, my late husband didn't say much lovey, dovey stuff but he treated me like a queen. Aww, how I miss him. 🤔😥

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Every single time

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@snap2114I was lucky my husband expressed his love in words as well as actions

  • @leopoldocapicio136
    @leopoldocapicio136 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    For me no body is perfect,,so if you love someone accept all the trials..Just to stay together

  • @jamiecee4960
    @jamiecee4960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    True Love Gives. True Love doesn't take away.

  • @rosengigi2211
    @rosengigi2211 6 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    I honestly believe God is love and all marriage is instituted by God. So God sustains and renews a couple's love when it diminishes.
    Therefore no advice will ever be perfect to get the perfect guy. Except if God sustains you. Nonbeliever or believer, God's love, grace and mercy sustains all marriages. Until when the devil ruins it.

    • @ryanvtec3885
      @ryanvtec3885 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rose Wang God is the way to true commitment

    • @AntheaPeter
      @AntheaPeter 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true. Thank you for saying this.

    • @chungchihsing752
      @chungchihsing752 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      G g,zz I v, SexCard

    • @donwald3436
      @donwald3436 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      TLDR: I believe that 2=3 therefore only the sky fairy can balance my budget.

    • @KenziBabenzi
      @KenziBabenzi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Pretty Rosie God honors marriage but you need to read scripture, 2 Timothy3:2 for men will be lovers of themselves. Lovers of money, Boasters, proud, blasphemers, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a FORM of Godliness but denying its power. And for such people turn away! For of this sort are those who creep into households and make captives of gullible women loaded down with sins Led away by various lusts, always learning but never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
      So God does not call you to just get married then he’ll bless it. That is a lie. Because men like that, make CAPTIVES of GULLIBLE women. So you have to ask yourself? Is marriage the end all? Or does God maybe want you to be as gentle as a dove and wise as a serpent. Because our goals shouldn’t be to get married, it should be to fulfill our purpose in our life that Jesus has for us. He will bring you the right man when it is time. You don’t have to settle and expect God to “bless it”. Because marriage is one of the most important things you can do and if you disobey God and just expect him to bless it. You’ll end up like one of those women. And trust me it’s not fun... God bless you, search his scripture for Truth not just listening to people on the internet. Because “my people perish for lack of knowledge”

  • @maliahpalomo9796
    @maliahpalomo9796 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1927

    When u realize ur gonna be alone all your life

    • @vaishika3846
      @vaishika3846 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Liah Janae lol. You read my thoughts well.

    • @vaishika3846
      @vaishika3846 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yeah...Ikr. We're all in the same boat.

    • @tariprayitno425
      @tariprayitno425 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Liah Janae @ dude... i feel you 😳

    • @jenniferbibi1972
      @jenniferbibi1972 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Me.

    • @anachanteuse
      @anachanteuse 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Hahahaha lol when you realize you have been deluded all your life

  • @hypatiaofalexandria2669
    @hypatiaofalexandria2669 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You tell her storys when she's sick! That is friggin adorable!

    • @arshemoalla
      @arshemoalla 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Try leaving her alone too

  • @jardemooreb4100
    @jardemooreb4100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The question is, do I love myself enough, to endure somebody else's love...

  • @bitesizedrocks5885
    @bitesizedrocks5885 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My first boyfriend does all the things all the videos say you should keep.. He's so nice, loves me for who I am, and is grateful for my time

  • @thepeaceinsideme9674
    @thepeaceinsideme9674 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Protects you I want a powerful man where I know I'm safe and he would never let anyone hurt me

    • @bmbmbmbmbmbmbmb
      @bmbmbmbmbmbmbmb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts

    • @brianhardwick4673
      @brianhardwick4673 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.

  • @donnasr1799
    @donnasr1799 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You are so right. I am married 33 years and I have fallen in love with my husband over and over again.

  • @brendaa6975
    @brendaa6975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My ex used to read me a book until i fell asleep. He sang songs to me and wrote songs for me. We always said i love you at least 2 a day. He would hug me super tight and kiss my forehead when i would cry. He was amazing until he slowly stopped doing all of that. He left me 2 days before vday. I miss the way we used to be.

    • @ohdear2275
      @ohdear2275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so sorry. I have been there.
      It put me in a state of grief, confusion, disbelief, and shame, too.
      There is another dance, however. You will see.

  • @sweetiepie4328
    @sweetiepie4328 6 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    I've been protected by men that didn't love me.

    • @poppyorangeflower
      @poppyorangeflower 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      And I've been protected by women who are strangers.

    • @amandaree1842
      @amandaree1842 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Protective is different than control and jealousy. We tend to confuse those. I'm guilty....

    • @JJ-yu6og
      @JJ-yu6og 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@amandaree1842 Totally true

    • @sililtatchu
      @sililtatchu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Police officer?

    • @reeree877
      @reeree877 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's..deep

  • @mickeyloves8959
    @mickeyloves8959 6 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    u r helping me getting rid of my depression.. I was so depressed.. he never gives time and gives excuses about work..

    • @macyerickson7539
      @macyerickson7539 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow

    • @veronikas.8831
      @veronikas.8831 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here. Don't know if I should stay or should I go

    • @t.tischia8205
      @t.tischia8205 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      mickey loves what I have learned is that if a guy loves you or really likes you he will make time for you no matter what...

    • @Pdrum2
      @Pdrum2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tischia Elius Women do the same with guys, as a guy myself

    • @t.tischia8205
      @t.tischia8205 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pdrum2 I agree with ya....!😊

  • @karshape3014
    @karshape3014 6 ปีที่แล้ว +958

    These signs Evey guys do at d very earlier stage in relationship but after some time Evry other bad signs comes and relationships destroyed...

    • @helenh1766
      @helenh1766 6 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      I always thought that way, too, until I met an old man that still glowed every single time she came in the room after 65 years of wedded bliss. Or he would shut the TV off immediately whenever she was trying to talk to him. He totally adored her. After several bad relationships in my life, I now compare every man to him. If they don't measure up to him, I say bye bye.

    • @AmbiCahira
      @AmbiCahira 6 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Many cases yes but there are guys out there that keeps this! Been married 5 years soon 6 and he does all of these E V E R Y day! I get to choose tv programs because it really doesn't matter much to him as long as he gets to see me happy. He cares for me and protects me first and foremost above every single thing in our lives and we have 100 animals depending on us and our responsibility. I come first, always. When I tell a problem he knows I can probably solve it on my own but he does lay out input that I can use if I wish to. Lastly, we have never spent a night apart and have never argued and that's because we respect each others space and when we communicate we lay out ideas and perspective and find common ground and go for that plan. In disagreements we agree to disagree and drop it because no issue is heavy enough to be worth losing a day's happiness of loving eachother and enjoying each others company. They say love is blind and it's quite true. We both have flaws of course but because of love they don't bother us, they are so small that they don't count and some quirks even feels kinda adorable. :) He strives to keep me safe and happy, I strive to keep the household together when he is away and it just works!

    • @soninChina
      @soninChina 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Tashi Sangmo This reply is barely legible. Sorry, but how on earth does it cop all those likes?

    • @samuelmclaws6408
      @samuelmclaws6408 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tashi Sangmo y

    • @tatyanabondari8387
      @tatyanabondari8387 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      It's been 12 years 2 kids, 3 surgerys, cancer, arrest, job loss, financial trouble. We are together and it is all there. When it's love it's love.

  • @jomassey5842
    @jomassey5842 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    WOW! This sounds so wonderful....almost unbelievable! My heart is open but the men in my town love their utes more than their wives!!!

    • @JadedKate
      @JadedKate 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go to another town then.

  • @m3yc13
    @m3yc13 6 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    After watched this video, I’m sure that I never met any man who ever really loves me, and it is so sad .. 😅😂😭

    • @c7dfudi
      @c7dfudi 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      메이리

    • @chitandaeru411
      @chitandaeru411 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same goes for me

    • @sylvia1878
      @sylvia1878 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are pretty...search for the only true love for all eternity....JESUS CHRIST .... if you know him you'll know what true love is.. and HE never leaves us

    • @ttucker10466
      @ttucker10466 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too... 💔💔💔😞😞

    • @beba0174
      @beba0174 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sameee😭😭😭😭

  • @Khadija5732
    @Khadija5732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    His voice is soo soft and calming

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This guy? I was actually thinking of someone I know but he talks to EVERYONE like that

  • @bobbistull374
    @bobbistull374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have been blessed as to finding two men in my life time. I lost my first one a, service man, to cancer. I have been blessed to find another gentleman, again a former service man. This one is all the above mentioned. We are like a mirror to each other. It is such a glorious feeling. We are both loved so deeply and pasionately. I can not wait to see what the future holds for us. I LOVE YOU DARRIN S. E.

  • @craftychick48
    @craftychick48 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great video, as usual. I own a few of your books too. Awesome advice.
    I'm dating a man who does these. #2 example. We were holding hands, walking to the parking lot of a large mall. We stepped from the sidewalk, and he squeezed and pulled my hand toward him as a protective gesture. It was subtle. I told him I appreciated this gesture. He didn't even realize he'd done it. One thing he said is he really likes that I tell him I appreciate what he does for me.

  • @ReltubTheWiz
    @ReltubTheWiz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    that is not just something men do, I'm a woman and I have jumped between an aggressor and someone I love to protect them

  • @julietgraystone6058
    @julietgraystone6058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I found my soul mate thank the Lord!!! HE loves me protected me several times he does the best he can to be with me and he does everything for me he listens to me when I need help or if I'm happy I love him so much Thank you Lord so much for him

  • @jkfarrow6881
    @jkfarrow6881 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am female and I don't wish to be 'adored' by anyone. Simple compatibility and friendship are more important. But we live in a throw-away world where a replacement is a click away on Tinder. Everyone has too many options which makes people more discontent than they realize.

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Those " options" are illusions

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's why I took myself off of Facebook and other forms of social media. I only want a guy I can meet in real life and have a genuine connection with.

  • @kristinajansson7451
    @kristinajansson7451 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    So true those four points! Thank you also for the words “Always behave like the high value woman you are”🙏🏻😍 Really needed to be reminded of that😌🥰

  • @ninaw5743
    @ninaw5743 6 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    Does such a man exist....you are a lovely soul.

    • @norinovak9778
      @norinovak9778 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Nina W yes they are existing but close to extinct nowadays.😉

    • @lisabaltzer3163
      @lisabaltzer3163 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Nina W Yes, I have been married to a man like this for 37 years.

    • @e2-woah939
      @e2-woah939 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes I'm 32. My road is narrow, but now I believe my path is to walk alone. That's ok tho.... all I need is to hold jesus hand as he leads me to our father.

    • @lisabaltzer3163
      @lisabaltzer3163 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      e2- woah I am happy to see that you know Jesus. My son was in your situation and he was praying for a wife. He got a wonderful Christian wife out of Mexico. He got married at 32 and now they have a boy and a girl. They are happy and so is my husband and me. Don’t give up.

    • @lisabaltzer3163
      @lisabaltzer3163 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      e2- woah P.S. My parents were only married for less than 2 years and my father never remarried. He chose to stay single even after my sister and I were grown up. He raised us on his own and our mother was never in the picture. He likes being single.

  • @LB-ow6lp
    @LB-ow6lp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My man is a musician. He made me a song when I'm not able to sleep. (Long distance relationship)

  • @bonniewilson1453
    @bonniewilson1453 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My guy does all of these things daily :). I'm very happy with him. Thanks for the video.

  • @ThaoNguyen-ki7kv
    @ThaoNguyen-ki7kv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Lol, we walk side by side and try to protect the dog!!!

  • @queenofthorns4053
    @queenofthorns4053 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I had it and I miss it. Lost him due to my stupidity. This video made me cry and miss him.

  • @anabenitonicolas5199
    @anabenitonicolas5199 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Married for 6 years and two children. I just love when he lets me sleep. no better sign of love than that. ooo and when he brings my favorite treats after work. surprising me by cooking and cleaning. mmmmm now that is sexy. this video just shows the beginning of a relationship. with kids if he takes the kids to the park and lets me watch my favorite series. now that is Hardcore Love. 😉🖤🙈💜🤗❤️😎

    • @noeliajaime7656
      @noeliajaime7656 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly my situation too!Almost 15 years and 2 kids LOL.

  • @fedora9575
    @fedora9575 5 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Finding a man like this is like finding a cat in a darkroom.. and most times, there is no cat.

    • @pragyashah7120
      @pragyashah7120 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lol. I love this!!!

    • @fedora9575
      @fedora9575 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pragyashah7120 Thanks😁

    • @CM-cl2pz
      @CM-cl2pz 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😀😀

    • @fabkings7612
      @fabkings7612 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nope! It's because men like that don't attract women nowadays, some women goes further saying "he's too nice". Well it's the world we live in today. Good things are less valuable while bad things are more valuable

    • @queen_nika8862
      @queen_nika8862 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@fabkings7612 I don't see that at all especially here in Colorado guys just want sex and if you don't give it up then the guy will find the next female that will.....then get this
      When that female gives them AIDS or HIV then they say all women are hoes or all women are bad.
      It's really messed up.
      Good women like me are overlooked just because we are not hoes or wanting to have sex with random guys.

  • @The1ByTheSea
    @The1ByTheSea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes the number one sign is investing into the relationship,especially at the beginning stages ,and then keep it up ,as well.Feeed the fire ,do not let it extinguish.

  • @dawna4185
    @dawna4185 6 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    i don't know any guys who wouldn't protect a woman in distress.....not helping a distressed woman is just a lack of character.....

    • @Lalala-fz2ci
      @Lalala-fz2ci 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Donna Perry .....are you living in the 21st century like the rest of us?? Lol

    • @dawna4185
      @dawna4185 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ...hopefully not....lost here in my illusions

    • @chrisnelson3936
      @chrisnelson3936 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Donna Perry That would be the characteristic of a pussy!!😂

    • @ElinWinblad
      @ElinWinblad 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      It’s 2018 men are afraid to help women for fear of going to jail for whatever crazy reason she can create.

    • @smendes2004
      @smendes2004 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Chris Nelson the pussy is the strong sex.

  • @wendipasa7109
    @wendipasa7109 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Destiny once a man knows u have been abused if they are abusers they will abuse u because they know u will take and believe that is what you will accept , no loving relationship will ever hold you down and intimidate and terrorize you , put you down or hurt you in any way . That is emotional abuse which ALWAYS escalates to physical at some point , I am a survivor and must tell you that you must decide to walk away and find courage to know and believe u are worth more , I am praying for you to find courage to know u are AWESOME young woman who deserves so much more love ... Never tolerate abuse I pray God rescues you and that u take time with God and counseling to make sure you don't continue picking or inviting the same kind of people , having a big heart is tough

  • @kimedward6659
    @kimedward6659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you for reminding me what an amazing husband I have - married 4 years this year and all 4 points very consistent.

  • @annalisa3370
    @annalisa3370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This just makes me realize that I have the most amazing boyfriend. I didn't search this up, but i'm glad i found it..

  • @donnalittle1964
    @donnalittle1964 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This is great for 20 to 40 but up in age 50 and up not so much ..Reality is the older you get your looking for companionship not fairy tale island...

    • @snap2114
      @snap2114 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LOL! I am 62 so I get you. I am right there with you. My hubby passed away in 2016 & I am just now starting to feel the need for companionship again but it's a jungle out there. I don't have men lining up to date me anymore. I am not a bad looking woman, mind you, but I live in an area of the country where women far outnumber the men. So the pickins are slim. 😏

    • @dalcox3250
      @dalcox3250 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Try online dating. It's a great alternative for meeting potential suitors

  • @mickeyloves8959
    @mickeyloves8959 6 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    u r the best man.. ur gf is too lucky to have u..

    • @sililtatchu
      @sililtatchu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If he loves the gf

    • @c7dfudi
      @c7dfudi 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      mickey loves

  • @dloacct2
    @dloacct2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you Bryan for sharing this with me. You do sound like you are a wonderful caring and compassionate man. I pray and ask the good Lord that He continues to bless and support your ministry of Love. I know that God is Love not Like a Devil who is playing a fiddle.😈👿 Like an Angel who is there to help you at all times😇. Thank you for sharing 🤗🤓

  • @seviregis7441
    @seviregis7441 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I know these are things a man does when he’s in love, but these are things I routinely do with and for my friends. Just seems these are the right way to behave whether friendship or romance, male or female. If someone attacked a man I was with, I’d fight along side him to subdue the attacker. All these things should be mutual. And though I’d love to be protected by an all powerful, deeply loving man, even he’d be human and need back some of what he gives in time of need. And I’m there for it.