The Unique Way a Man Communicates When He Loves You
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A lot of women overanalyze what men say, but they really mean exactly what they say because they are just that simplistic
@@thierygidh6003 most people try too hard and that's they're downfall
Totally
Unless you've ever been involved with a narcissist who never say what they mean or mean what they say ....so you're conditioned to over analyse or over think as their words & actions never jive
But not if he is a narcissist. Then he doesnt say what he thinks but what he assumes you like to hear. Regards from Germany! 🙂
And WE saying something else 😂
I've learned not to be concerned with words, only actions, saves alot of time.
True
Both important
Good point
I'm discovering more and more how true this is. Men actually get frustrated at us for not being as frank as they are.
@Darcy Royce Therapeutic Art In Rhythm And Rhyme Yes, Thats my experience as well. “Too forward, too aggressive, blah blah” Guys are confusing
Ι'm actually a lot more frank than he is and so are quite a few of my female friends that i' ve known for some time now. Doesn't make any difference, or rather, he can't handle me being direct. It all boils down to ones character, true intentions, knowing what one wants and going for it. Otherwise you get these wishy washy situations that eventually lead to break ups and heartache. A guy that TRULY wants to be with you will find the way to communicate invest in the relationship and make you feel secure. Anything less is just wishful thinking on our part and trying to find excuses to stay in a dysfunctional relationship. I'll pass...
Well if a guy can't handle your frankness, that's really his problem, isn't it? You can't change him, but if you're being open and honest, a guy can't ask for more, and you know you tried. What's the point in wasting time on word games? As someone else mentioned, if he cares and wants a relationship with you, he'll make it work and maybe find himself growing emotionally more mature.
Hm I think men get frustrated with double meanings and guessing what a woman said.
Its not always good to drop the bomb. While it's honest, it's also overwhelming. The trick is to get a good feeling for when is the right time to say something and then say it clearly. 🤷🏻♀️
Ive cherished learning this skill..& i am actually good at it!! Until my brain gets that shot of oxytocin!! Ugghh!! LOL Course I also learned how to use my "pause" button. Too well at times. Uh this female brain.
Actually all advice about love and relationship are pretty confusing. The best thing is to listen to your heart. Its the best thing. Your heart will tell you what you need to do.
Darling that's the truth. We can learn here and there but the heart gives gives us the bottom line.
So true girl. ❤️
True
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5:18 "HOURS??... What am I supposed to be doing or touching during those hours... ?!" 🤣🤣
Brian, You are so awesome!! :))
Love that part, too!!
I don't think this is that easy... The truth is, you never know 100% if what you hear is a joke or not.
I was once with a guy who at the beginning of our relation said : careful, do not fall for me. And he said that when we were goofing around and he sounded like he's joking. Then, a year later he said we can't see each other anymore because he's now engaged. And he was like: what's your problem? Didn't I tell you not to fall in love with me?
I was speechless.
And another time, another guy was like always talking about babies, making jokes when my tummy becomes bigger (after a huge dinner), hugging me and speaking about our baby. 6 months later, when I mentioned how pretty our kids will be, he said he does not want to have kids, never have wanted. I broke up with him.
That’s true because I was also with a narcissistic guy but guys are usually honest about their intentions... he just to jokingly remark that Ohh... for guys NO means Next Opportunity... I badly wanted to correct him but I kept silent don’t know why. I broke up with him last year but I learned my lessons... even if he jokes about something there is some reality in it and don’t let him disrespect you even if he says it’s just a joke. A man that honours you will never joke around like that.
Thing is you need to know the person more personally to decide whether or not to take his words seriously, if you're both in good terms, chances are he's likely to be genuine with you. If you didn't get what they meant, don't hesitate to ask them about it, you would understand yourself better ❤
Happens a lot
Men do this, too. Several men have told me years later, "Because you said this (insert silly, off-hand comment I made), I left." Just as well they did, I suppose.
Thank you! I have been needing to hear this FOREVER. Extremely useful info for anyone in a relationship, which I newly and happily am. You are the best Brian!
"ooh lions, WAIT I HAVE A QUESTION!" lmao nice one, brian
4:30 🕟 is the heart ❤️ of the message. Men typically say what they mean. Women often analyze what men say way too deeply. I love men because they keep it simple.
I thank You! I've been learning about this self sabotage from your videos and putting into practice Everythinggg you've said. My love life is so much peaceful as all goes smoothly while keeping my boundaries and my character. Loving myself along with your advices in the back of my head have impacted him as well improving our long distance relationship through this Pandemic times. I think you're lovely. Please keep on posting your knowledge through this channel, I surely appreciate your effort. Thanks again!!! 💚🤗🌴
Your understanding of male/female dynamics and your ability to communicate those interactions are incredibly accurate and clear. Whoever is listening, man or woman, will improve their relationship.
Its all good and useful, but, I especially love your explanation of fore play as conceived by a woman. Haven’t heard that explained so well.
If I had understood a lot of these things in my younger days I could have ruled the (my) world.
Foreplay is one word.
@@judeirwin2222 thanks.
This man is a genius! Brian you are a genius!
He really loves you when he ignores you 🤣🤣👍
If he shows me affection and it makes me feel love. If I express that I love him its because I do, said without fear OR expecting him to say it back.
Sometimes we expect too much when we should just action or speak without fear. Go with how you feel
You are so right ( and very, VERY funny because of your accuracy)!!) As a senior single parent of adult children, alone for 25 years!, I had completely wiped out the possibility of ever meeting an interesting man ever again......when, shockingly, I have. And the years of wisdom have taught me to cherish the excellent and communicative friendship we began with, which has developed into more. After a couple of re-sets, one in which he told me I analyze too much ( ok), the only thing of actual importance is for him ( me, of course) to be happy. When he's happy, he great. I learned a lot from having two boys and am, myself, clearly worded, polite and calm, but direct. Cuts out any drama - one of the chief reasons I preferred to be alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks for being here at the very end of this video too ☺ Great one as always!
Hes the best!
Wish we'd get to see him more often!
Geert, I love, love LOVE your light-hearted explanation of the foreplay issue; absolutely bloody perfect and funny!
Thank you
"Too good" can refer to your character -- your morals, etc. If he is sleeping with other women, then you can know whether you are too good or not.
Thank you Brian! I’m always watching your videos, I learned a lot from them.💕
That was so cute, thank you for sharing that, I needed that at the moment, lol...haha, 😂and now my husband is real with me, and we can have fun and laugh again, so thank you again. God bless you and your family 🙏🏾🤭😊
I loved this! Great info, and you are so adorably funny. God bless you!
A couple of cats taking a bubble bath together. LOL
Brian this hit Home ... I’m guilty of all this .. Bravo 👏
just the advice I needed today, thank you Geert!
Brian, you are deep in my business. But I appreciate it. Thank you so much for this work❣️
Love your Humour
You are so funny and so so right on about this! The hard part for me is remembering this when in the middle of one of those conversations!! Truly enjoy your videos and website. Thank you for sharing your insight and wisdom and ❤
Lol I literally love your analysis of men and women's interpretation of them. It's like a wild wilderness out there ❤️💯🙏
This is some vital issues , thank you for sharing .
I can watch ur videos many times...!!! God bless U cause U really helped me to be in a relationship without feeling bad or with a bad guy...
This was wonderful advise. Thank you!
Needed this!!
This is so funny 😂🤣 Thank you for this.
Love watching your videos, keep the good work going!
Thanks Brian !! ❤
Extremely informative, interesting, & helpful.
Thank you for sharing! Very useful information!👍going to watch some more videos!!
Yikes! I have made this mistake at times. Thank you for this!! Love your humour.
Ladies, find the security you need inside yourself first.. love and respect yourself first.. stop coming at relationships with overwhelming neediness..
Heal the relationship with yourself.. ❤️
And above all, really really really learn to love yourself in the way you want a man to love you..
That way, you'll believe him when he does.. ❤
Amazing video. Thank you.
I love your message in your comedic presentation!! I am not sure why we over think everything men say to us! Here Kitty Kitty...lol
Thank you Brian!!
Your informational videos on relationship connectivity are amazing!! ♡
Why is that every man I like acts like a girl..while I act like a guy.
Every character you describe for a man, fits me.
And that passive thing and just complaining without expecting solution things fits the guys I like.
I even coincidentally had girl nicknames to both the guys I liked and they melted with those nicknames like they were okay with such names.
@human bng you answered your own question. There is always a masculine and feminine energy in a relationship. If you act more masculine, that's why you attract less masculine men. Even in gay relationships there is a masculine energy and a feminine energy. That's what gives the relationships a spark.
Find the positive and be who you are or you could step back a little and try to let the man lead. Dont be afraid to let him do things for you and respond with appreciation.
In case you are having relationship issues
Operating in your masculine. Listen to love Dorsey
Guilty. Especially, when you feel you’re not in the same “league” as the guy who likes you. You really feel there might be some ploy to mock and embarrass you, if you give in to the signals he’s giving you. Like he never, ever could’ve actually considered you - even if it goes on for years.
There are no such thing as "leagues". No human is better or more worthy of any other. We are all of equal value and don't let anyone convince you otherwise. Once you truly realize this your confidence in yourself in relationships will improve by leaps and bounds.
I like your videos, I find them interesting and useful as well) Thanks! Great job.
I love you stuff and your style! 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
What u said its exactly my problem! Digging deeply and judging by my past scars ... and my partner has the same issue as well ! It needs time :(
So enjoyable and funny. thanks, Nox
I'm here so I can fall asleep. You have awesome content and your voice is soothing so I can't help but 💤 as well.
I always enjoy your videos, but this one was exceptionally funny.
But please answer the question. How do they communicate they love?
Thank you 😇
You are so hilarious!! 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you
Lol..this kind of made me laugh..aww thank you so much man..😆😂i was having a bad day...
It all makes sense now
😂😂😂😂
Ohh he is so brilliantly funny at times isnt he 💗💗👌👌👌😁... I love his sense of humor 😁🤣👍👍
Excellent TY 👌🏻🌹
Married 31 years lost my husband to cancer last year and you are so right on Men don't stop to think what they will say Until a woman scars them by reading into much if what they have said. They just are that much of a thinker they say what's on their mind and that's it! Literally!! Men only tip toe when they have been hurt by that question before..
I’ve been watching all your videos after having recently gone through a divorce and back on the market. I feel like I have the confidence now! At the moment I’m seeing a guy that I would have never had the confidence to date at any other point in my life. Your tips are some of the best.
Oh look, a pack of lions! Hey, I have a question...! 😹
Gosh, you're really sweet and adorable. Good stuff!
Omg... I absolutely love that show.
This is so good! 👍😅
Unless, She is a Woman like me who listens with Her heart and can feel Bullsh*t! TRUST YOUR GUT LADIES. It is never wrong. 👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽
Right. Some of us are blessed/cursed with excellent perception and can see through what they are saying. I asked a guy I was dating what I thought should have been a very simple question. When he responded, his voice went up an octave at the end. Then what do I do? I know he’s not being truthful. If I tell him it seems there’s something more to his response he says “stop over analyzing me” which is basically telling me to stop being me, to stop perceiving truth. It always ends badly, as it did that night. How about instead of you lying to me (and lying badly so I know you’re not being truthful) you just tell me the truth? It turns out there was something more to it and it wasn’t a big deal to me. But he thought it was so he hid it. The second part to this is that men don’t want to be with someone who is very perceptive. They know I can see right through to their true self and it makes them uncomfortable. I just want to find a guy who can handle being genuine and upfront about things. And no, I’m NEVER going to ask if I look fat in this or if you think she’s cute or any question that I don’t want to hear a true and genuine response. Just. Be. Honest.
@Darcy Royce Therapeutic Art In Rhythm And Rhyme NO. We are spirit beings having a natural experience. Your gut feeling is never wrong. Now you can choose to ignore it....but that would not be wise to do so. Trust yourself more. That is the lesson we are all here to learn. If your higher self could not lead you to all truth, then we have some serious problems. 💙💙💙
Thanks for pointing out on the most simple explained way, with mindful and chill with a lil dose of heaviness.
Your comment was something i wanted to find in comments.
Hugs and kisses sis
After 3x meeting a wrong guy (players/cheaters). I can confirm my gut feeling is 100% correct in all of the time! I was the one who didn't listen to myself & trying to give these men the benefit of a doubt when I shouldn't have. My mom said we women have strong gut feeling due to our maternal nature, to protect our children from harm & to make up what we lacking in physical strength. We can sense danger from hundred miles away before it happens. But unfortunately a lot of us women rather listen to men telling us we are overthinking & being overdramatic.
Laughing so much at the foreplay remarks... hours... days... what sequence she would like that in? 😆🤸🏻♀️🪄✨🧡
Complicatedly amazing 😂
So challenging yeyyy 😂😂
This was a very simple explanation of how to solve this issue of men’s comments, but in real life it may be a bit more complicated. At the beginning of our relationship my man told me, but very carefully: please don’t change. He was probably mature enough to handle this with taste and that’s what I want - a mature sensitive man who doesn’t blurb just whatever 😆
Why do we always need to please men? Why we can be love the way we love them?
My favorite video of yours. :-)
You're a very funny guy.
Lmao “is that bad thing that happened to be going to happen again, must dig deeper.. “. omg the story of my life.. for everything not just men! Eyes open!
😁 U r LITERALLY the BEST!! Seriously, I can’t begin to explain how Totally & Completely AMAZING U R! SOOOOOOO many women need to hear ALL of ur messages (I MEAN it ladies, binge watch the F outta his channel! That will be the Only time u didn’t regret spending Hours on TH-cam, AND, you’ll have actually learned some completely useful and absolutely Necessary knowledge which, I promise, if u actually implement it in your love life, your relationships will without a doubt last as long as YOU want them to) k, more 4 Gert...Hgert...Heurt? Lol no...?...ok! I love the way you explain things in order to get your point across & to be sure practically everyone will be able to understand your message. Plus, just everything about u is totally Adorable!!😉😘 oh, BTW, LMAO some women’s reactions to this video just Proves your point immensely! XOXOXOXXX
You explain very funnily😂😂👌👌
So true
Does anyone else picture him opening the doors to a closet full of black crew neck sweaters 🤣 I love his advice though, very healthy outlook!
Good video. I just broke up with a man because he doesn’t tell me how he feels about me. All of his actions say he cares for me an perhaps loves me. It was very confusing. I invited him to tell me how he feels. He couldn’t answer me. Not sure what his true feelings are. I broke it off because I want a relationship where 2 people can communicate their feelings. I thought about it for a while before breaking it off. I really care for him and it was a tough decision. I’m thinking that no response is a powerful response. Indifference perhaps? Or he’s not capable. It’s sad and I’ll miss him greatly.
He’s afraid of saying it or he’s just not in love or doesn’t have that feeling yet.
Your mạn showed you his loves by his actions. He gave you his heart when he does things for you. Most high values, honest men do this. They don’t feel comfortable telling their woman about their feelings. Men don’t think or behave like women. Women can communicate feelings naturally easily. Players had many years of experience, so those men can blurted out I love you very very easily. The men that gets nervous, tongue tied, sweaty and silent when cornered about their feelings are the one who really loves you. Trust your instincts believe in his actions towards you. If he doesn’t loves you he will not be by your side, will not does thing for you, will not cares for you.
@@jennienguyen7137 so true. you can feel, as a women, your intuition will let u know if you can trust that the man loves u or not. When men say "I love u" then women say "actions speak louder than words", lol. But when met with a man who shows it they wanna hear it. Yes, communicating and being able to hear "I love u" is important too. For those who can show it... Allow them time to get to a place where they can express it verbally or just learn each others love language. True unconditional love... Will allow u to be confident in each other's love language.
@@whitefeatherdf4301 agreed, the man truly loves you will eventually tells you his feelings, but not when you forced him to answer. He will says it in his own time, especially if he’s shy or haven’t felt real love before. Remember that words has to have actions to back it up. Go with his actions first because it always came from the heart. Words are usually from the brain and “other” organ.
Whitefeather DF I haven’t heard from him at all since Thursday. I did what I thought I had to do and I feel good about it. It’s sad to think he really cares and/or loves me but wouldn’t share that with me. I thought about the love language thing but I didn’t discuss it with him. I think that he wouldn’t risk losing me if he truly cared. Anyway....I’m just doing my best here. It would mean a lot to me if he tried to talk to me about it. Maybe I’m old fashioned because I believe the man should take the lead.
Thanks for the thoughtful comments. 🙏❤️
Love ur advice sir...
Thnkzu so much for ur advice sir...god bless u alwys....
Thnkz so much sir... I think his my soulmates sir....he not say he likes me but I feel he like me cz everytime when he chats me he makes a jokes sir...god blesss I pray to to god if he the one for give me a good sign.....sir...god blesss alwys sir ...
Especially from after the 5 minute mark 😁☺👍👌
Hey lions, I have a question. Love it. 🦁❤
So funny!😆
"About as likely as you seeing a bunch of cats taking a bubble bath together...so really small"
TH-cam reccomends: "cats in a bubble bath."
...we have very different search histories my friend. Lol.
This is definitely something I am guilty of. Always trying to figure out his underlying meaning. OK then.. What you get in return decide if you can live with that!
So,. Moral of d story is jst don't assume or overthink by their words & Communicats with them alots... & try to undrstd "DEEP DOWN THE WATERS" by their efforts of Actions...!
Yup.
Cats taking a bubble bath together hehe
Minute from 6.45
😂😂👌🤣👍👍lol
I love the way you communicate Brian but I also believe a man is saying volumes when he makes a statement. The statement is exact but there is much more behind it than meets the ears!
Just say yes the dress is fine but you know what I also love this dress on you 😊
In my experience, men rarely mean what they say. Half the time, they don't know what they are feeling to know how to verbalize it in an efficient manner. This is why when we are communicating they act like a deer in headlights.
If he says, multiple Times" I love you" I'm so glad you are Back in my Life, I never want to Let you Go, you Are my woman you have Always been , I love you " etc etc you say that he means what he said.. that's nice, but. . how come when he went away I hardly heard from him again 🤷🏻♀️. I guess they don't always mean what they say and if they do they probably don't know what to do with it in real life...bummer😔
Lions! LOL !
Hiw i deal with breakup after 10 years ?? I cant make relationship with other men😔
i wana hear more on dating and likes not love. im not married or in a relationship so i cant really use the "love" cuz thats too far in and im just dating
Aliens are slimy hahaha! I have never seen one!
I had a guy that promised everything ,loved me , said he buy a house for us , texted love notes. The man is so sweet! One problem . He never dated me or seen me in 6 months. What kind of guy keeps trying to string women along like that ? Said he love me ,then he go be on dating site for four hours ! Why do men do that ? There's nothing sexual between us. It's so weird. I not returning any texts anymore. I hope he fades away.!
Same exact thing happened to me and we had that relationship for a year(if you call it even a relationship!!) But eventually got over due to i was insisting to see him and date him few times and I think he couldn't bare it and just disappeared (eventhough first few month of it he was into meeting me too but cuz of this shitty pandemic didn't happen and afterwards didn't happen at all)
I still don't know if I was being fooled around or he just stopped wanting me...
This TV show is called "Mariés au premier regard" in France 😅😁
In other words, don't OVER analyze every little thing he\she says. Over thinking things can destroy a good relationship by picking it to death. Learn to relax, keep your sense of humor and pay more attention to what he does......instead of what he says!
The whole “men just say what they mean” statement is definitely not true for all men, or even most men for that matter. Plenty of men say what they think makes a woman happy even if they’re lying through their teeth. As an autistic, I notice most neurotypicals don’t actually say what they mean, and it throws us autistics off all the time. If people generally just respectfully said what they really meant, it would make everything simple.