A few years ago I had to be in a hospital 500 km away from home. I had to be there for 3 months. My husband couldn't afford driving there every weekend, but because I was missing him, he earned money by offering taxi tours to my place. During that time, he was working 40 hours a week and spending his weekends driving strangers around to come and see me.
@@karadiberlino Oh, goodness. I was being sarcastic. I have no idea what you may have experienced in life, but all men and women (with the exception of those with serious issues) treat all humans with respect and care about their well being. That doesn't mean that they are in love, just decent people.
I don't think romantic relationships are a good thing and I think this world would be a much better place without them. Most fathers hope that their daughter never finds a partner and remain single for her whole life due to the dangers and risks of romantic relationships. It seems nearly all fathers don't ever want their daughter to have a boyfriend/husband. The overprotective father thing is proof that romantic relationships are a bad thing, and that this world would be a better place without them. Most fathers seem to get upset whenever their daughter dates someone, and that proves that romantic relationships are a bad thing. Being single is far safer than being in a romantic relationship. People (especially women) should avoid romantic relationships and be single.
You 100% right! Even some men over 40 never learnt how to build an emotional attraction, and the women they were with hadn’t helped because they were to quick to go to bed with them. That’s why when those men meet high value women who want to be courted slowly , they are confused.
Also every male from my husband to my father to my son have shared with me that men thrive on challenge and that's no less true in romance. I was lucky to have a very strong father he let me know that any woman who lets herself go easy, cheap or fast is no challenge to a man and thus has little or no value for the long-term mate. Dad said that men only value what they have to work hard to achieve, even in love.
I remember the moment that I decided that I wanted to marry my boyfriend. I was telling him that I had an upcoming long layover and that a female co-worker of mine and I were planning to go out to dinner together and maybe do some sight-seeing. I was expecting him to be jealous because that had been my experience with a previous boyfriend. I couldn’t believe my ears when he said ”Could you take the Captain or the First Officer with you?” 😮 He was more concerned for my safety than being jealous. We’ve been married 40 years! And I would marry him again! LOL!
I hope I find someone who has all of these values of treating a woman. I will never sleep with a man unless I know he is being real and knows how to treat me right. I've been so hurt in the past I will never go through what I went through ever again. I'm grateful for the freedom I have right now. My dad has always said to me never let a man miss treat you unfairly make sure he respects you.
Thank you for sharing your journey-it’s inspiring to see your strength and determination. Stay true to yourself, and the right person will recognize your worth.
Shortly after meeting my hubs on an unneeded blind date, he told me he’d never been with a woman that hadn’t bored him eventually. I looked him in the face, smiled, and said “You have now.” For 42 years we never stopped talking, being affectionate, and enjoying each other’s company.
I’m not in this world to entertain a man. I’m always busy and engaged in something it’s just who I am. Every guy I have met wants to put me under a jar so they can have me contained. Too much trouble and controlling behaviour.
I've been married for a few years now and lately have been trying to understand the psychology of men. Not just out of curiosity, but also out of wanting to make sure he feels as heard, adored and listened to as I do, and now for my sons too. These videos have humbled me, and given me a lot of direction and new information. Thank you so much :)
Your are very blessed to have had a very kind husband. I also had a very kind husband that provided for me for 29 years. His name was . Geraldo. Lopez. I had met him at my job. McDonald's. I was 20 years old and he was21.. and. He said that he had fallen in love with me since he first seen me. And we were just friends in the begining. For at least 2 years . Then boyfriend and girlfriend. And then we got married. We were together in the good times and bad times in sickness and in health . He died of. Colon. Cancer. Stage 4. In the year. 2021.. on. February. 9th. I miss him a lot very much😢❤❤❤. And . He was always there for me. I trusted him with my life completely. I wish I would of died with him.. . So anyways I send you . Condolences. Because I also am a widow and I understand how you are feeling.❤❤❤. You are not alone . We have. Jesus. Christ. Because. He cares for the widow and the orphans. And even the birds they don't go unnoticed by him. Because he even cars for the sparrow.. know that he loves ❤❤❤you and I loveyou also❤. Even though I don't know you... Know that you have a new sister in. Jesus . Christ name. And hopefully we will meet in heaven someday. Because. God is coming soon.❤❤. John. 3.16. . For . God so loved the word that he gave his only begotton son that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life.❤❤❤. So believe in . Jesus. Christ for you to be saved. King . James version bible read it.❤❤❤. Love❤. Leslie. God bless you always❤❤❤❤
How do women know? He's got your back and he doesn't gossip or speak about you behind your back. He is trust worthy reliable and dependable. He is 100% on your side.
After 2 failed relationships i was curious to learn about men how they fall deeply in love with you but before that i learned i need to focus on myself first in order to be with someone i am dealing with my traumas and loving myself more than before. Lets see when i get that someone. And many thanks ismael for doing this it is helping a lot of women.
You're taking a great approach by focusing on yourself and healing first. I'm glad the content is helping, and I wish you the best as you move forward.
My husband is amazing 🤩 he is strong kind trustworthy and reliable.We don’t need stuff we just need each other.❤ We have been married for 37 years we met when I was 34 and he was 35 the Respect and Love we have for each other just keeps growing.
I think understanding the Love Languages plays into this. It means little to me that my man gives me gifts or says I love you all the time but I feel his love the deepest when he does random acts of kindness for me.
I appreciate hearing things from the male perspective. My dad passed away when I was 19 and I never had any brothers. It's fascinating to me how men differ from women.
In high school (waay long ago, LOL) watched a male friend comment on how beautiful one classmate's hair was and he walked over and started talking with her. The relationship developed into a deep and enduring love that was fulfilling for them both. I was surprised, a year later, when I mentioned to him that first day and how he started talking to her because of her hair, and he felt embarrased. It didn't bother me. You are confirming what I knew even then, that typically men get interested in a woman because of her looks. It is sad if a man remains superficial, as they are missing out on a lot.
My husband was my sun moon stars and King. Ours was a love out of Legend. What you said about a man doing the extra step beyond money... Please listen young people Ishmael is totally right... For 30 years I never washed one dish and I never lifted one finger to do any housework because my husband said the fact I chose him and married him I should never have to do anything like that as long as he lived. And no he didn't hire a maid, he did all these tasks himself with his own hands. My husband was as manly as it could be. He served in the British military at a high rank with specialization. He was a rock musician later and performed in his own band and even though he was a handsome girl magnet he only had eyes for me. Loving my husband for 30 years, married for 20 years Ishmael still has given me even more insight how my husband loved me. I say this now as becoming a recent widow you have really put in my heart and emotions in a good spot for healing. Thank you Ishmael.
Spot on. I have been married over 20 years and these 3 points continue to grow deeper and deeper. Particularly the second 2. I feel loved and cared for by my husband.
So happy for you, treasure every year. Sadly my love passed away this year after 54 years and I'm so pleased that I had this time with so much shared love. When bad times came along our love gave us the strength to endure.
After 15 years, I was introduced by my sister to a GREATMAN! I am so impressed by your posts. Again, just found you today! I like how you teach me things I want to know to love this man better. TY
When I started dating Ed in Feb he told me right from the start he would be spending Christmas in Fla with his daughter and her family. A week before he left I mentioned that I would be sad that we weren't spending Christmas together but I understood. He got a little upset and said "I didn't know you would be sad!!" We have been saying "I love you" for months but that made me see how much I mean to him. ✨💖✨
Dear Ismael, Thank You I'm a Very Feminine, Emotional Intelligent Woman. I totally Love your content. Thanks for helping Myself and Other Ladies become more educated on these Men that show up that are really Players and pretending to be a Good Man.
Thank you for sharing this. It’s empowering to see how much you value growth and understanding-keep embracing your femininity and emotional intelligence.
Dear Ismael, thank you so much for your concise but precise lessons. They helped me notice very quickly on the first date that the guy was focused only on pushing me to intimacy, although he tried to disguise it. Your pieces of advice saved my time and my heart. Thank you!
I would never entertainment a commitment unless it's real love. Learn about God's real love before you risk it. He wants the best for you. Ismael speaks truth.
Thank you - your video shows how much God loves us, because he did not just give us gifts out of his riches, but he gave himself on the cross. What a love ❤ Be blessed. ✝️
I can relate to him. Whenever I fall in love I try to learn his language, culture, likes and dislikes because that's how I show my love to him. Although, I came from a long time relationship with so much pain and trauma. Behind those bad experiences I'm still grateful that I'm still alive and even experience physical, psychological and verbal abuse. But I still believe there's still a man out there who could match my standard. I meant when it comes to deep emotional connection is really important to me above anything else. A man who is worth sacrificing for and worth-waiting for. By watching your videos I found strength to improve myself and be the best version of myself in the future to attract the man I like. Wishing everyone to find the one who's truly meant for us. God bless us all. 🙏✨🍀
Love it. "I talked to some of my friends and this is what they said." No real qualifications but high level of confidence in every word out of his mouth.
Let me add my story. I met my bf when he had breakup with his ex and I thought he have moved on but one day they were together and kissed and hug. Later on I got to know about it from his friends. At the starting i didn't believe he could do this at my back but after asking a lot of time he was quit and was saying sorry to me. I know should break up at that day itself but it was really hard for me to lose him so I forgave him for the first time. But till now, the trust never built up on him that I used to have before.
You never will trust him again. My husband cheated on me when we were engaged, on our first wedding anniversary as well. and I can go on and on. Why did I stay with him? I have no idea. It is something I am trying to figure out. We were married 38 years. He passed away 6 years ago. The other night I was thinking about all of this, about how could I have stood for all that, I was still so angry after 45 years. Then all of a sudden it hit me. I wasn't still mad at him, I was mad at myself.
If I had done that I would have married a man with a micro penis. Sexual satisfaction is an important part of marriage, and there was no way he could have satisfy me through intercourse.
Yes, the gift giving can be confusing. I had a guy give gifts but then over gifted to me and my parents. I told him it's not in my culture to accept such gifts from strangers. We had only recently met. I also said it was psychologically making me and my parents indebted to him and to please stop. He didn't. He said it wasn't like that. Then I noticed all the gifts made him look good, including what he gave my parents. Of course gifts are wonderful but his felt wrong. Hope this helps someone. Cheers!
Respect works both ways. Neither male or female needs to be told what to do,how to think ,or how to behave. Mature people respect each other’s point of view and differences. They don’t play games to get attention, they naturally attract it. The biggest test of a relationship comes when you have to deal with hard times. You both either deal with hard times with a positive attitude and humour or you add to the stress by constantly complaining.
The story of the Irish American friend learning Spanish to connect with his partner's family gives me so much reassurance that I will meet someone like that one day. Men like these really exist; those who will go out of their way to be part of your world. Instead of trying to force you to be more like them. May I have the wisdom to recognize him when he shows up in my life. ❤
its videos like these that make me realize that ive only dated guys that didnt genuinely care for me... or maybe i just didnt let the relationship develop properly and there was a lot of fear and lack or understanding of what a healthy relationship was...
Wonderful advice and very well expressed to make these 3 aspects clear and really applicable --- I'm very happy to say my husband epitomizes what you are saying here. I am sooo loved by this great and lovable man --- how fortunate I am! I'm going to play this video for him today!
Wish I'll meet a man like this soon. If I tell someone that these are the qualities that my partner I want to have, they say I'm a dreamer, cause I ask for too much...
Thank you this really helped me evaluate my relationship. I know my partner does all 3 of these important things. This really helped me to put some perspective and a posetive reassurance about my relationship thank you. So many woman need to hear this thank you❤ ❤❤
Choose wisely....Big words and so true. Often are choices are based on our emotions and one day you look back and wonder how you could have been so infatuated 😮😮😮
Ishamel, you must have a lot of examples of healthy relationships in your family. After nearly dying from a covert narcissistic ex who gave me lavish gifts, your points are dead on!
You have the most beautiful energy, Querido Ismael 👑🌟🙏🏻 A very sensitive soul, mature and incredibly wise. Your channel is a Gem. I am learning so much from your humanity and your wisdom and I'm so happy I've found you, here. Thank you so much for everything you do. God bless you always. Much love from Spain ❤🌹
How do you know that you love yourself? I don't settle for poor treatment, but the men I meet have been only interested in the physical stuff and they're way too young for me. The men who are my age show no interest or if there's an exception, he's after the same thing as the young ones. So I have no clue what's going on here.🥺😱
How are you attracting men? Where are you attracting men? Are you going to a bar dressed in tight, revealing clothes? ( Recipe For disaster). Or are you going to neighborhood/church socials dressed in classy conservative attire. ( Recipe for good men).
I thought I would never find a man who would make an effort on relationships. Nowadays, it's so easy for every women and men to get on a date and get what they want but for true relationship which leads til marriage, it's hard to get. I am not guarantee about what our future holds but by focusing in present moment, my boyfriend does have those (3) signs. Very coincidentally, the second sign and first sign are which I am currently facing. The way he handled those problems are speechless for me. As a woman who had never asked anyone in her life to give or adjust for her own needs was stunned by her boyfriend actions. This video is right on time on my recommendation. Thank you for sharing this and I hope you are doing more facts on understanding men. This really helps on my relationship journey.
It is all 100% true. The complications of all relationships are mainly: compatibility. Some people could last just because of that... Love alone doesn't make a relationship work. Compatibility doesn't mean they are iquals, some people are completely opposite! But somehow they click perfectly.
I once had to have shoulder surgery. The tendon was torn and had to be repaired surgically. I had to rest my arm/shoulder, so I had to wear a sling with braces day and night for three months. I was not allowed to, and could not, do anything with that arm. I had to wear a sling day and night for 3 months. I was therefore called upon for my boyfriend's help. He had to undress me, shower, wash my hair, dry me and dress me again etc. He was rough, impatient, grumpy, and he caused me so much pain mentally, but mainly physically, and also because of misunderstanding and his lack of compassion. Anyway, I’m mapping my way out.
Bro..!!!! May GOD bless you!! I jus like the way you have intended to help...always when you speak it means a lot to me and I think so many like me have been helped with this!! But why most of men are dishonest?????
Ismael I would love your insight on relationships after having kids.Would you make a video some day for single parents,dating and relationships? Or everything you say apply already even after the kids?
My man gradually became distant, avoiding conversations and intimacy. I tried everything. open communication, spending more time together, and even compromising my own needs. but nothing seemed to reignite the connection.
Care for him. Bring him breakfast in bed. Make his favorite foods, iron his clothes. Plan dates to places he likes. Go the extra mile, see if he responds well to that
A few years ago I had to be in a hospital 500 km away from home. I had to be there for 3 months. My husband couldn't afford driving there every weekend, but because I was missing him, he earned money by offering taxi tours to my place. During that time, he was working 40 hours a week and spending his weekends driving strangers around to come and see me.
That’s such a beautiful testament to his love and dedication-what an amazing partner.
My ex husband is like this
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Then why he is ur ex.@@GailHarris-p1f
So, when a man treats you like a human being, he loves you. (Bravo!)
Well im over the moon. Id probably die b4 we- the Man n I meet in person, if he's scared why? .
The irony in it…and yet it is true.
Few men will treat a woman like a human being in the first place.
Only gentlemen do that! 😍🙏🏼
@@karadiberlino Oh, goodness. I was being sarcastic. I have no idea what you may have experienced in life, but all men and women (with the exception of those with serious issues) treat all humans with respect and care about their well being. That doesn't mean that they are in love, just decent people.
lolol we might get the wrong idea to every nice people if the bar is so low
@@Di-wm5zz LOL! Right! That was the original point I was making.
“True love is about making sacrifices from scarcity.”
I don't think romantic relationships are a good thing and I think this world would be a much better place without them. Most fathers hope that their daughter never finds a partner and remain single for her whole life due to the dangers and risks of romantic relationships.
It seems nearly all fathers don't ever want their daughter to have a boyfriend/husband. The overprotective father thing is proof that romantic relationships are a bad thing, and that this world would be a better place without them.
Most fathers seem to get upset whenever their daughter dates someone, and that proves that romantic relationships are a bad thing. Being single is far safer than being in a romantic relationship. People (especially women) should avoid romantic relationships and be single.
You 100% right! Even some men over 40 never learnt how to build an emotional attraction, and the women they were with hadn’t helped because they were to quick to go to bed with them. That’s why when those men meet high value women who want to be courted slowly , they are confused.
Also every male from my husband to my father to my son have shared with me that men thrive on challenge and that's no less true in romance.
I was lucky to have a very strong father he let me know that any woman who lets herself go easy, cheap or fast is no challenge to a man and thus has little or no value for the long-term mate. Dad said that men only value what they have to work hard to achieve, even in love.
It’s better to be high maintenance than low-rent. @@cheyennealexander3039
I remember the moment that I decided that I wanted to marry my boyfriend. I was telling him that I had an upcoming long layover and that a female co-worker of mine and I were planning to go out to dinner together and maybe do some sight-seeing. I was expecting him to be jealous because that had been my experience with a previous boyfriend. I couldn’t believe my ears when he said ”Could you take the Captain or the First Officer with you?” 😮 He was more concerned for my safety than being jealous. We’ve been married 40 years! And I would marry him again! LOL!
Some other women is supposed to train a man for a ‘high value women’ 😂
I agree with you!
I realised that no men ever love me , I love myself a lot . Hope oneday I'll find a nice man like me ❤
I hear you!
learn to be happy by yourself and get a dog. Life will be a lot easier...
@Freetobee-f1l Okay I will 🥺
@souminandi1000 Yes you will!!! Some times when you least expect it. Just keep on investing in yourself first.
I hope I find someone who has all of these values of treating a woman. I will never
sleep with a man unless I know he is being real and knows how to treat me right.
I've been so hurt in the past I will never go through what I went through ever again.
I'm grateful for the freedom I have right now. My dad has always said to me never
let a man miss treat you unfairly make sure he respects you.
Thank you for sharing your journey-it’s inspiring to see your strength and determination. Stay true to yourself, and the right person will recognize your worth.
Shortly after meeting my hubs on an unneeded blind date, he told me he’d never been with a woman that hadn’t bored him eventually. I looked him in the face, smiled, and said “You have now.” For 42 years we never stopped talking, being affectionate, and enjoying each other’s company.
❤❤❤❤❤
I would have rolled my eyes and said, "I'm bored already".
That’s such a beautiful story-true connection lasts a lifetime.
❤🎉
I’m not in this world to entertain a man. I’m always busy and engaged in something it’s just who I am. Every guy I have met wants to put me under a jar so they can have me contained. Too much trouble and controlling behaviour.
I've been married for a few years now and lately have been trying to understand the psychology of men. Not just out of curiosity, but also out of wanting to make sure he feels as heard, adored and listened to as I do, and now for my sons too. These videos have humbled me, and given me a lot of direction and new information. Thank you so much :)
Your are very blessed to have had a very kind husband. I also had a very kind husband that provided for me for 29 years. His name was . Geraldo. Lopez. I had met him at my job. McDonald's. I was 20 years old and he was21.. and. He said that he had fallen in love with me since he first seen me. And we were just friends in the begining. For at least 2 years . Then boyfriend and girlfriend. And then we got married. We were together in the good times and bad times in sickness and in health . He died of. Colon. Cancer. Stage 4. In the year. 2021.. on. February. 9th. I miss him a lot very much😢❤❤❤. And . He was always there for me. I trusted him with my life completely. I wish I would of died with him.. . So anyways I send you . Condolences. Because I also am a widow and I understand how you are feeling.❤❤❤. You are not alone . We have. Jesus. Christ. Because. He cares for the widow and the orphans. And even the birds they don't go unnoticed by him. Because he even cars for the sparrow.. know that he loves ❤❤❤you and I loveyou also❤. Even though I don't know you... Know that you have a new sister in. Jesus . Christ name. And hopefully we will meet in heaven someday. Because. God is coming soon.❤❤. John. 3.16. . For . God so loved the word that he gave his only begotton son that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life.❤❤❤. So believe in . Jesus. Christ for you to be saved. King . James version bible read it.❤❤❤. Love❤. Leslie. God bless you always❤❤❤❤
How do women know? He's got your back and he doesn't gossip or speak about you behind your back. He is trust worthy reliable and dependable. He is 100% on your side.
After 2 failed relationships i was curious to learn about men how they fall deeply in love with you but before that i learned i need to focus on myself first in order to be with someone i am dealing with my traumas and loving myself more than before. Lets see when i get that someone. And many thanks ismael for doing this it is helping a lot of women.
You're taking a great approach by focusing on yourself and healing first. I'm glad the content is helping, and I wish you the best as you move forward.
Absolutely, I too found this very recently in me...
My husband is amazing 🤩 he is strong kind trustworthy and reliable.We don’t need stuff we just need each other.❤ We have been married for 37 years we met when I was 34 and he was 35 the Respect and Love we have for each other just keeps growing.
Emotional intimacy is so sexy. It amplifies attraction.
Absolutely. When you connect emotionally, the physical attraction becomes so much deeper.
I think understanding the Love Languages plays into this. It means little to me that my man gives me gifts or says I love you all the time but I feel his love the deepest when he does random acts of kindness for me.
Me too!
That is my husband’s love language…he also loves gifts and surprises.❤
Your friend learning Spanish 🙏🏻🥹 that is SO heartwarming. What a class-act. Beautiful ❤️🔥
I agree, that’s such a thoughtful and beautiful gesture. Truly admirable.
I appreciate hearing things from the male perspective. My dad passed away when I was 19 and I never had any brothers. It's fascinating to me how men differ from women.
Thank you for sharing that. It means a lot to know this perspective resonates with you.
In high school (waay long ago, LOL) watched a male friend comment on how beautiful one classmate's hair was and he walked over and started talking with her. The relationship developed into a deep and enduring love that was fulfilling for them both. I was surprised, a year later, when I mentioned to him that first day and how he started talking to her because of her hair, and he felt embarrased. It didn't bother me. You are confirming what I knew even then, that typically men get interested in a woman because of her looks. It is sad if a man remains superficial, as they are missing out on a lot.
That's such a great example. Looks can draw someone in, but it’s the emotional connection and mutual respect that keep things strong.
My husband was my sun moon stars and King. Ours was a love out of Legend.
What you said about a man doing the extra step beyond money... Please listen young people Ishmael is totally right... For 30 years I never washed one dish and I never lifted one finger to do any housework because my husband said the fact I chose him and married him I should never have to do anything like that as long as he lived. And no he didn't hire a maid, he did all these tasks himself with his own hands.
My husband was as manly as it could be. He served in the British military at a high rank with specialization. He was a rock musician later and performed in his own band and even though he was a handsome girl magnet he only had eyes for me.
Loving my husband for 30 years, married for 20 years Ishmael still has given me even more insight how my husband loved me. I say this now as becoming a recent widow you have really put in my heart and emotions in a good spot for healing. Thank you Ishmael.
Thank you for sharing, I am so touched and love knowing that man like your husband do exist. Wish you well for your healing.
Praise God 🙏🏻
Beautiful sharing.. thanks 😍
Your experience is every girl's highest dream in her relationship 💗 this is beyond beauty 🤩😍
He was too good
Love your pair❤
Thank you for shared this
Spot on. I have been married over 20 years and these 3 points continue to grow deeper and deeper. Particularly the second 2. I feel loved and cared for by my husband.
So happy for you, treasure every year. Sadly my love passed away this year after 54 years and I'm so pleased that I had this time with so much shared love. When bad times came along our love gave us the strength to endure.
@@lindabennett6597hi Linda. So sorry to hear about your husband. Happy to hear about your wonderful life together ❤ treasured memories 💕
True love is about making sacrifices😊😊
After 15 years, I was introduced by my sister to a GREATMAN! I am so impressed by your posts. Again, just found you today! I like how you teach me things I want to know to love this man better. TY
Cuban American here my parents always told me when a man loves you youl know 🙏
Nice background with the rain. 😊
Thank you. I think it was time for a change.
When I started dating Ed in Feb he told me right from the start he would be spending Christmas in Fla with his daughter and her family. A week before he left I mentioned that I would be sad that we weren't spending Christmas together but I understood. He got a little upset and said "I didn't know you would be sad!!" We have been saying "I love you" for months but that made me see how much I mean to him. ✨💖✨
He can be critical of me but woe behold anyone else. I trust that man with my life. We have been together for 44 years ❤
Wow, 44 years is incredible. It sounds like you’ve built a deep trust and bond over the years.
Omg.. he sings too❤
My singing? Decent. My dancing? Legendary. Next video maybe...
@@SaveTheMessenger whoop whoop! 🙌🏽
Dear Ismael, Thank You I'm a Very Feminine, Emotional Intelligent Woman. I totally Love your content. Thanks for helping Myself and Other Ladies become more educated on these Men that show up that are really Players and pretending to be a Good Man.
Thank you for sharing this. It’s empowering to see how much you value growth and understanding-keep embracing your femininity and emotional intelligence.
Dear Ismael, thank you so much for your concise but precise lessons. They helped me notice very quickly on the first date that the guy was focused only on pushing me to intimacy, although he tried to disguise it. Your pieces of advice saved my time and my heart. Thank you!
I'm so glad my advice could help.
I would never entertainment a commitment unless it's real love. Learn about God's real love before you risk it. He wants the best for you. Ismael speaks truth.
Thank you - your video shows how much God loves us, because he did not just give us gifts out of his riches, but he gave himself on the cross. What a love ❤ Be blessed. ✝️
Thank you so much for your beautiful words.
Love that rain background.. 😍
Senor gomez... don't be singing like that 🥰 we already in love with you 😆
I can relate to him. Whenever I fall in love I try to learn his language, culture, likes and dislikes because that's how I show my love to him. Although, I came from a long time relationship with so much pain and trauma. Behind those bad experiences I'm still grateful that I'm still alive and even experience physical, psychological and verbal abuse. But I still believe there's still a man out there who could match my standard. I meant when it comes to deep emotional connection is really important to me above anything else. A man who is worth sacrificing for and worth-waiting for. By watching your videos I found strength to improve myself and be the best version of myself in the future to attract the man I like. Wishing everyone to find the one who's truly meant for us. God bless us all. 🙏✨🍀
Your resilience and self-growth are truly inspiring-wishing you all the love and happiness you deserve.
Love it. "I talked to some of my friends and this is what they said." No real qualifications but high level of confidence in every word out of his mouth.
I'm glad you loved it. It’s great that your friends noticed the confidence.
Direct, meaningful message. The world needs more…thank you 🙏🏻
I really appreciate that.
Let me add my story. I met my bf when he had breakup with his ex and I thought he have moved on but one day they were together and kissed and hug. Later on I got to know about it from his friends. At the starting i didn't believe he could do this at my back but after asking a lot of time he was quit and was saying sorry to me. I know should break up at that day itself but it was really hard for me to lose him so I forgave him for the first time. But till now, the trust never built up on him that I used to have before.
You never will trust him again. My husband cheated on me when we were engaged, on our first wedding anniversary as well. and I can go on and on. Why did I stay with him? I have no idea. It is something I am trying to figure out. We were married 38 years. He passed away 6 years ago. The other night I was thinking about all of this, about how could I have stood for all that, I was still so angry after 45 years. Then all of a sudden it hit me. I wasn't still mad at him, I was mad at myself.
Exactly, now I realize a very important thing.
So, a new page is being opened up for me
Thanks a lot for sharing.❤
I'm so glad that realization is helping you turn the page to a new chapter.
These 3 kind of says it all for me! Thank you for posting!!!
Don't have sex till after marriage
You're right
@miss...tell that 2 women who are nearing menopause & stil waiting 4 sex after marriage
If I had done that I would have married a man with a micro penis. Sexual satisfaction is an important part of marriage, and there was no way he could have satisfy me through intercourse.
I love your videos , they are short and go straight to the point ❤!! Thanks!!!
Yes, the gift giving can be confusing. I had a guy give gifts but then over gifted to me and my parents. I told him it's not in my culture to accept such gifts from strangers. We had only recently met. I also said it was psychologically making me and my parents indebted to him and to please stop. He didn't. He said it wasn't like that. Then I noticed all the gifts made him look good, including what he gave my parents. Of course gifts are wonderful but his felt wrong. Hope this helps someone.
Cheers!
Fantastic discussion
Excellent analysis
I always love listening to you
My life has improved since I discovered this channel
Thank you Sir
Thank you! You’re one of the best relationship coaches on the internet! Appreciate you
Agreed. These are the things I look for in a man
Very nice clear and short, yet sufficient sharing -
Thank you Ismael !
This is really, truly a beautiful life lesson for all people. Well done Ish!
May you be blessed richly for your insight. Thank you!
Ismael, you exist (when you mention there are men like that who exist). Thank you!
Would you learn Austrian for me?
Respect works both ways. Neither male or female needs to be told what to do,how to think ,or how to behave. Mature people respect each other’s point of view and differences. They don’t play games to get attention, they naturally attract it. The biggest test of a relationship comes when you have to deal with hard times. You both either deal with hard times with a positive attitude and humour or you add to the stress by constantly complaining.
Absolutely right...these men do exist..It may Only be once in a lifetime you connect with Someone who shares these qualities .💞🙏❣️
The story of the Irish American friend learning Spanish to connect with his partner's family gives me so much reassurance that I will meet someone like that one day. Men like these really exist; those who will go out of their way to be part of your world. Instead of trying to force you to be more like them. May I have the wisdom to recognize him when he shows up in my life. ❤
You are an intelligent, good-looking young man. Love the accent! This is a good video, thank you.
Thank you for the kind words and for taking the time to watch. I’m glad you enjoyed the video.
its videos like these that make me realize that ive only dated guys that didnt genuinely care for me... or maybe i just didnt let the relationship develop properly and there was a lot of fear and lack or understanding of what a healthy relationship was...
Exactly what you said, me too. It's hurtful and painful
Also, I just want to say that I really appreciate your insights. Thanks for trying to make it easier for us
Wonderful advice and very well expressed to make these 3 aspects clear and really applicable --- I'm very happy to say my husband epitomizes what you are saying here. I am sooo loved by this great and lovable man --- how fortunate I am! I'm going to play this video for him today!
Agree.....he will make sincere sacrifices to make u happy
Yet again you're 💯 Your videos and advice are the best!!
Wonderful insight, as usual. Ty!
I like the background✨️✨️✨️✨️
Wish I'll meet a man like this soon. If I tell someone that these are the qualities that my partner I want to have, they say I'm a dreamer, cause I ask for too much...
Omg i have been told the same 😭💔
you're telling the wrong people. what's real love without any of these values?
Good luck to your friend! Preply though, is MUCH better! Great advice, by the way.
Bravo. Thank you for the tips.
Thank you very much for your video. It made me respect my husband even more. 🥰
I love this. Thank you! 👍🏻
A wonderful exceptional video-with amazing insight!
Thank you this really helped me evaluate my relationship. I know my partner does all 3 of these important things. This really helped me to put some perspective and a posetive reassurance about my relationship thank you. So many woman need to hear this thank you❤ ❤❤
Thank you! Greetings from Miami, Florida Cuban American. God bless you more and your channel it’s very needed. Happy holidays to all!💚❤️
Choose wisely....Big words and so true. Often are choices are based on our emotions and one day you look back and wonder how you could have been so infatuated 😮😮😮
Absolutely. Emotions can often cloud our judgment in the moment, but with time, we gain the clarity to see things more clearly.
Ishamel, you must have a lot of examples of healthy relationships in your family. After nearly dying from a covert narcissistic ex who gave me lavish gifts, your points are dead on!
I'm really sorry you had to go through that. I hope you're finding healing and strength moving forward.
If you genuinely care for people ❤ your wife is indeed very lucky 💕
You have the most beautiful energy, Querido Ismael 👑🌟🙏🏻 A very sensitive soul, mature and incredibly wise. Your channel is a Gem. I am learning so much from your humanity and your wisdom and I'm so happy I've found you, here. Thank you so much for everything you do. God bless you always. Much love from Spain ❤🌹
Gracias Miriam. I appreciate you for leaving such a lovely comment.
How do you know that you love yourself? I don't settle for poor treatment, but the men I meet have been only interested in the physical stuff and they're way too young for me. The men who are my age show no interest or if there's an exception, he's after the same thing as the young ones. So I have no clue what's going on here.🥺😱
Keep ur legs 🦵 closed until marriage or at least an 💍 engagement ring on ur finger, wedding invitationsin the mail & much will be revealed to u.
How are you attracting men? Where are you attracting men? Are you going to a bar dressed in tight, revealing clothes? ( Recipe
For disaster). Or are you going to neighborhood/church socials dressed in classy conservative attire. ( Recipe for good men).
I enjoyed you singing Whitney . As always another insightful video. 🙌👌 Thank you and as always , i appreciate you.
I thought I would never find a man who would make an effort on relationships. Nowadays, it's so easy for every women and men to get on a date and get what they want but for true relationship which leads til marriage, it's hard to get.
I am not guarantee about what our future holds but by focusing in present moment, my boyfriend does have those (3) signs. Very coincidentally, the second sign and first sign are which I am currently facing. The way he handled those problems are speechless for me.
As a woman who had never asked anyone in her life to give or adjust for her own needs was stunned by her boyfriend actions.
This video is right on time on my recommendation. Thank you for sharing this and I hope you are doing more facts on understanding men. This really helps on my relationship journey.
Stop screwing on the first date, and you might be more successful.
Wow this Great, happy to hear this from a man🎉😊
Thank you, I really appreciate that.
Gracias, esto es muy dulce ❤ Este este es el amor que todas merecemos
Rain at the back ❤️
This man you speak of sounds amazing! And now I find that I’m sad… because I’ve never known it.
It is all 100% true. The complications of all relationships are mainly: compatibility. Some people could last just because of that... Love alone doesn't make a relationship work. Compatibility doesn't mean they are iquals, some people are completely opposite! But somehow they click perfectly.
I don't know why I'm even watching this. My man is an living example of what women dream of...❤
100percent true
Ismael, I love your videos.❤
I once had to have shoulder surgery. The tendon was torn and had to be repaired surgically. I had to rest my arm/shoulder, so I had to wear a sling with braces day and night for three months. I was not allowed to, and could not, do anything with that arm. I had to wear a sling day and night for 3 months. I was therefore called upon for my boyfriend's help. He had to undress me, shower, wash my hair, dry me and dress me again etc. He was rough, impatient, grumpy, and he caused me so much pain mentally, but mainly physically, and also because of misunderstanding and his lack of compassion. Anyway, I’m mapping my way out.
right on the money
You are so sweet ❤❤❤
Muchas gracias🇬🇷❤🇱🇧
I am the Type of woman I don't except fancy gifts from anyone except my self
Me too. I'm a giver. Not a receiver. A people pleaser 😊
Bro..!!!!
May GOD bless you!!
I jus like the way you have intended to help...always when you speak it means a lot to me and I think so many like me have been helped with this!!
But why most of men are dishonest?????
Excellent! Thank you!
loved this video☺
3rd one really hit me hard!
I love this video .,..Godbless you and to the rest of the family as well...Godbless us all Amen🙏❤️😘😊😍🫂💋
Great content ❤
Ismael I would love your insight on relationships after having kids.Would you make a video some day for single parents,dating and relationships?
Or everything you say apply already even after the kids?
🎉 amazing video 🎉
Brother you hit the nail on the head, there🙏✌️🌟👍
Thanks for listening.
Thank you. I agree
My man gradually became distant, avoiding conversations and intimacy. I tried everything. open communication, spending more time together, and even compromising my own needs. but nothing seemed to reignite the connection.
Care for him. Bring him breakfast in bed. Make his favorite foods, iron his clothes. Plan dates to places he likes. Go the extra mile, see if he responds well to that
SO WONDERFUL WHEN A MAN IS INTERESTED IN ME
Thank you this helps a lot for me to find a man for my life... ❤ thank you😊😘
And the flips side is: if he doesn't show these, there is no love.
Ok, you singing Whitney made me smile 😊