Why Women Have Sex: 3 Sex Triggers That Make Her Want You (+Field Reports)
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Why do women have sex? It's not for the Disney reasons you were told growing up. The truth is far more gritty and less pretty. Here are three specific triggers that lead to sex on a very regular basis. There are tons of other potential factors as well, but they are less common and less controllable. If you get these three factors working in your favor, you're likely to have a lot of sexual opportunities.
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Girls have sex for a ton of different reasons, but here are three of the most common ones and also three that are very much within your control... as well as field reports of each. If you can design your game to maximize these factors, you'll go a long way toward maximizing your results.
www.systembytodd.com for much more on these topics.
wavyboyo don't really take it to heart just continue on you path with todd an they all will be wanting you someday
Todd V Dating till you tell her you're a virgin :s?
Todd is really hitting it on the nail here. I love how he has turned this construct into a science! I've always attracted a ton of "fatties" and never understood why they were so focused on me when I am CLEARLY out of their league and I make it obvious. But as Todd says, they are interested in a "political win" for themselves. I had this happen at my gym. There is this short thick blond chick who was basically just getting in my way, walking in front of me, throwing her weights in my way, gawking at me, always trying to get my attention and I am just fully annoyed by her. It was ridiculous! I never thought about it but it would be a massive win for her to bang me because I am WAY out of her league. This is true for all the fatties. High School rules and constructs dominate our lives well into adulthood. We as guys are trying to be the best we can be and women are chasing an entirely different value system. Also women have said, they love the "unattainable." So if a guy seems impossible to get, they are instinctively turned on by the "challenge." This also ties into why they date "assholes" or jerks that treat them badly because it is the political/social win they are after not the guy and not the bad treatment. As men we don't realize how PETTY and small women are. Far more superficial than they admit...It's disgusting, absolutely disgusting. But as Todd would say "don't judge it, use it..."
Todd V Dating the second girl is the girl from women she love them cherry lol
Erby Oreste That wasn’t even English.
Women don't operate on logic, although they'll tell you they do. It's about the feeling in the moment. Capitalize on good feeling. Remove yourself from bad feeling. Done.
Jeffrey Gillespie please say more😎
Don’t men use emotions? Women do use logic but prefer to live through their emotions.
You're saying men operate on logic when it comes to sex??? lol First of all, men do operate on emotions more often than we think, they just hide it better because for some unknown reasons, showing emotions is "unmanly". I'm a person of logic and emotions when necessary, but I (and all normal people) usually operate on emotions and desire when it comes to sex.
Natalie Scabbia Of course men act on emotions but we are not a slave to them as women are. Girls also lack morality and discipline. For example, I could NEVER ditch the girl I was on vacation with to run off with another girl. Thati s just insane behavior ! Only women are capable of that kind of selfishness.
@@spoonman73 WOW.
4:47 EVERY women is filming a "Rom-Com" in her head; wherein SHE is the Writer, Producer, Director & Star, her "Besties" are the supporting cast, & YOU are either the "Romantic Lead", the "Comedy Relief" or the "Villain".
like your theory!
You forgot "the extra"
For us the besties are the villains. Especially the frustrated one who doesnt like her friend having succes with guys
Narcissistic woman
@@speedypete4987 lol
Yeah gaming in a way the girl feeling like shes winning by hooking up with you is the magic sauce. Our whole goal should be to flip the script. Phenomenal video
Brian Choi men should have the im the prize mentality. Woman follow
YEEEEEEAH , GONNA FLIP THE SCRIPT ON THESE HOE'S !
Damn... poor guy on vacation got ditched
I know this is a asshole creeper dude
@@tonytrilex2555 They both lack morals
Ya I’m pretty sure that’s the reason guys can’t get anything but sluts or girls that hide that they’re sluts
Maybe not poor guy.
I remember there was this girl I was "seeing" in college, and by seeing I mean we were just kinda loosely affiliated. We had a bunch of classes together so we naturally just kinda hung out, and we'd go to parties and stuff together, but neither of us had any interest in a relationship with the other. We did have sex every now and then, but more or less it was kind of a "last man standing" for the two of us. That is to say, if we weren't scoring very well on a night out, we'd just go home together. Like a wingman you can fuck I guess.
Anyway, there was this dude I knew kinda well, we had some mutual friends and we'd see each other and be friendly. All of a sudden dude started acting weird at me. For example, he'd see me and just dip. I didn't really care, but one day I'm sitting somewhere on campus and the dude comes up to me all nervous and says he has something to tell me. He slept with this girl Maya (the one from earlier). He just kept saying how sorry he was he knew we were together but she was coming on to him. I told him I did not give a single fuck, we weren't together, he could go find her right now and fuck her again if he was so inclined. He still kept apologizing.
Anyway, moral of the story is that not every time there's a guy and girl it means they're committed, sometimes they're just buds. All the more reason to not give a fuck if a girl is with a guy. Might mean nothing.
I'd say he got lucky. Better alone than with a bitch that will travel with you and then ditch you for another dude! Imagine if he would eventually marry this girl. What a mistake
Notes I got from this video, awesome video Todd!
1st trigger is validation. Validation is basically when they feel that hooking up with you is a win. Make her put you on a pedestal, make her believe your a super high value guy.
2nd trigger is narrative. Basically just amazing conversations. She basically can come up with awesome reasons why you two were special. Make some awesome vibes. Narrative is important its what basically makes her feel a bond with you two, and she'll really be comfortable with you, and most importantly trust you. It's a deep emotional connection, make a story between you and your girlfriends.
The third trigger is last man standing
The thing I got from this to stick around basically, just use your bad ass game ( the game you learned from Todd) persistence is key!
Anything else you observed that I may have missed the application side of lol?
Chris Joiner these are like the main notes i felt were the most important to me, but if I rewatched it I bet id find some more info.
Ethan Wroblewski Then she better be on birth control, because she's not using her sexuality as a weapon. She would rather ditch the person she came on vacation with to get with you? So, we are promoting infidelity? Who was the person on vacation with her? A friend or significant other?
Rex Erection lol😂
this! TYVM for the notes. honestly I hate these 20 min videos with a bait title like "3 points of this" but doesn't offer that description which will only take 30 sec over a short paragraph to summarise, so I know the content and would actually invest my time watching the video. Frankly I'm not willing to invest more than 30 seconds to figure out whether the content of the video is something i want to watch or not
1. *Validation*
2. *Narrative* 4:45
3. *Last Dick (Man) Standing* 9:33
Edit: Timestamps from Brandon Blackmon
Peter Fischer why did u copy them?
dilpreets181 I did not. Saw the comment later and then mentioned that I got the times from him. The headlines are from me
Thank you!
dilpreets181 stfu
Thx
Man last time I came this early I was losing my virginity
Man, you're really just pumping out content lately. Love it. Can't wait for The System.
OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG 😲
The story about the tough girl that told you "no: that's your side" is AAAAAAAAWESOME!
You're great Todd! 😃
I'm inspired by you
I like that one too haha
Literally a tsundere
idk bruh i feel like allowing yourself to be disrespected on the small chance that she’ll be desperate enough to give you a crumb of 🐱 is wild 💀
I had an epiphany after watching this and reading some of the comments. BTW, thanks Todd for you’re insight. Really eye opening. So, I’ve been reading and researching on the game etc. A lot of good material on TH-cam. Love Todd’s material. I’ve always NOT taken action and relied on looks alone and hasn’t gotten me the results I really wanted. Rejection is the number 1 reason why I’ve avoided gaming. For me, as a 46 year old, I’m at a crucial place in my life to take action. This video has given three great examples that require you to take action regardless of rejection. So, taking action, being vulnerable, realizing rejection is a means to an end for you to push through and become successful. No other option but to take action and realize your full potential.
Todd, now that you are not with RSD, could you speak to the issue of STDs on a personal or industry basis. I have beginner game and find that it would be a risk or eventual inescapable reality at a certain level. I certainly don't do overtly stupid things, but any thoughts would be insightful.
6:40 that's the strength of a german female who knows what she wants
Sir i'd love to see you run a commentary
Lived in Germany for a couple years, very true statement 👍
0:54 validation
4:45 narrative
9:30 Last man standing
Brandon Blackmon thanks bro
This was really organized and easy to understand. The real life examples are really good. I sometimes get overwhelmed with only the concepts so the examples really help drive the points home. Thanks man.
Todd you are an amazing instructor man!..Taken a huge leap forward since breaking the chains..Great stuff!! Thanks
13:14, That little smirk you give, right after telling that story....priceless.
That is called a micro expression and is usually an indication of a feeling associated with a lie or embellishment. The feeling in this case being "ohh shyt I barely got away with that". There is a lot of literature on reading microexpressions and its the secret to reading people.
Amazing content and fantastic examples, Todd. Thanks!
Loved it ❤️. Very interesting stories . I would love to listen to your audio book . Stories by Todd . Funny and with value ! Thank you 🔥📈👍
I'm watching a video on getting laid. What is wrong with my life?
Mr pepe You ain't getting laid
Nothing is. You're actually doing the right thing, getting knowledge, gathering experiences.
+Dave Cirlclux lmfao!
@todd v dating hey man, I love your content and your style of game. I was noticing that this video could use some graphics such as headers to section the video, making it easier for people to follow along and possibly even take notes. If you ever need someone to add graphics or headers into your videos I would be happy to do so. Otherwise, keep up the great content! These videos are upping my game very quickly!
Hahaha I'm floored by the "Devil's Threesome Bluff" story. He finessed the hell out of that guy 😂. Way to think on your toes!
Thanks Todd, these tips are gold. Thanks for sharing your experiences. I love you man, thanks for being awesome. Have a good day 😊👍
I'm having a moment of silence for the scorned guy in Miami.
If there is so much hassle with women: spending a lot of time with woman equals all those lost work hours. So for a very busy career oriented person, aren't escort girls better option?
Yes they are
If you have the money and want female "company" why not.
It's perfectly normal and much easier.
Over the years once i got redpilled and kinda understood how female brain works i really started to respect escorts and prostitutes.
@@kostam.1113 what made you respect them?
@@shawnsta7779 Because they are simple and straightforward.
You give money and in exchange you get a service.
It's fair
There is no bullshit
@@kostam.1113 yes but if u want to breed it's going to be a pain in the ass to find a woman who is worthy lol
@@shawnsta7779 No woman is worthy.
Compromises will have to be made.
Personally i never had any intention to breed, and considering that dealing with woman had became so complicated that "need" is weaker than ever.
I will work on perfecting myself, on my career and that's it.
I have all your programs; this video is one of your best. Simple logic that is grounded in stories is easy to remember Infeild. Thank you, sir
I think this is the third time I heard the final story. The first time I was in a post break up white knight phase. Now I feel like had that guy said yes... That's how best friends are made.
Todd I appreciate your advice that you share with men, this is vital information. I do have to disagree with last d**k standing method. I think from the stories you shared there was a loss of dignity and self respect. Personally I'm not competing with another man over a female. I feel my value is too high and not allowing her to choose as if she is higher value. I'm also not hanging around a chic that made a disrespectful comment out the gate with size (I'm 6"4). As a man she should respect us for that. Allowing her to get away with that comment she assume it will work with the next man. She needs to be put in line to teach for the next time.
Stay up
Stay blessed
Last dick standing is not a method, it's a principle.
You don't have to take disrespect, or lose dignity to be with a girl.
Those stories just show that if you're the guy around at the end of the night, and the girl wants to have fun, you're gonna get the girl.
Todd your videos are classy and genuine. Cheers bro
You dropped some gold...
you have a good way of explaining things.. thanks
Hey, Todd! Could you explain the difference between Ego and Self-Esteem. Cause it seems like a successful person should get rid of former without hurting the latter. And how do you do that?
VadimCC id like that video aswell
Prolific AF! Thanks for the content!
Does anyone feel like validation examples could be considered "social circle" sets? Does validation always have to come with some sort of temporal social proof? Can you create a feeling of desiring validation off of a cold approach?
The different approach of not making her the price, but you add value to the situation by just her being with you.
Todd can you grant us the chance of asking questions like you did in the past , if yes i wanna know what's take on a girls reaction to you fighting with other men as in verbally for her or flat out physically ? Do you have to stand up for her or play the chill attitude ? will she ditch you for the other guy especially if you lost the fight ?
Hey Todd, Love the new channels you have with good content keep it up!
I have a couple of questions that you could answer: What is value exactly in a man?
How can one quantify value, increase value? can value even be measured? I think answering these questions can help clarify me and a lot of guys the true meaning of value.
Thanks a lot and keep up the good work!
PRESELECTION- already shown to be selected by other women
PROTECTOR of loved ones- will physically if needed protect those he loves
CONFIDENT- Not lacking fear, but rather able to walk through and handle fear with courage
Willingness to EMOTE- we're human, we have more than one emotion, can you demonstrate those emotions and use them appropriately
LEADER of MEN- do other men follow you? Do you have a group of friends that will follow you to the club, event, or even into "battle"
Good stuff todd! Much love n respect!
Your content is fucking awesome doesn't only teach game but also the reasons behind each technique. I love the old school pick up mindset where it's not all about personal development but straight to the point on how this particular concept helps you get better girls! And the way you manage to merge it into the new sociological mindset that every day to day person at the club believes which is stand off-ish and non-neediness. THANK YOU TODD FOR BRINGING PICK UP BACK TO ITS ROOTS
I loved the examples! It's much easier to learn like that.
Awesome content. Really helpful
The tag team is a great added value service!
Love the tips Todd, your videos are honestly and genuinely the best best dating videos out there! ...but thinking of dating as a game has really turned me off from the idea recently tbh. I'll probably just hang out with myself more 🤣
20+ minute Todd video. Take notes, children.
This is some very interesting psychological insight here man... awesome content.
The last dick standing stories are great. It's great to hear someone teaching game some stories where the girls are very resistant.
As a guitar player in a popular band, I can definitely relate to example one. Girls see me as a guy who can get any girl I want, so if I do get physical with a girl, it makes her feel really special. I can't argue with sound logic like that. ;-)
34 subscribers and you think your bands popular lol.
@@kylejames6691 down to 10 now! 🤣
@@damunzy 10 HOT GIRL subscribers
My respect Todd!!!This not sounds Mainstream ,Keep it up!!!
DRIVE A CAR ! You'd be amazed how intimate you can get on a hill when it's dark out . You are allready leading , being non needy , having all the logistics in place .
From where I can buy a black long sleeve shirt like yours? and your black tshirt that you wear in many of your videos? I would really appreciate it. Good videos!
It's really like everything in life: The more you have, the more you get! Question is, where so I start.. 🤣
I think this girl was stalking you. You randomly meet 3 times in different places?!
Monroe Morgan and then while on vacation she ditches the guy she came with
Frederick0220 yeahh.. idk about this dude tbh. Shady shiz going on
The odds get narrowed down when you consider lifestyle. She likely has a lifestyle where she travels a lot and goes to large clubs. He has a lifestyle where he travels a lot and goes to large clubs. Also considering how long he's been gaming, he has approached over a hundred thousands of girls at this point, so a story like this is bound to occur.
How do you actually do the validation one if you aren't a public speaker or happen to talk to a hot girl
I will like every video I see from you, you’re a legion dawg
I live near a girl I meet online and now she isn't messaging as much anymore. How can I trigger more interaction to land her?
What do you think of IN10SE material (october man, speed rapport etc)
where are the subtitles? i need them
Good stuff buddy!
why no subtitles! please add!
Very open, very brave of you.
Good persistance!! Im almost in owe by theses storie
Can you explain persistent but not needy or direct me to where its discussed already in a video if you have?
same problem, dunno when it is turning awkward af and when it is just a test...
Push Pull... escalate while de-escalating
Winning is not always a win!
His videos work because now I'm deeply in love with Todd.
😂
I need to watch this again to really absorb everything. Jesus Todd you're a genius! Any advice how to attract women from work. The context here is I work for a massive corporate company in a big open plan office and the teams seem kind of cliquey. The only times I can talk to girls if I time it right when they are in the kitchen or going to the vending machine.
Thanks for the vid, so there are there 2 types of girls short term and long term girls, sorta seems messed up.
Think I'd rather spend my time climbing or playing squash, you know, activities that are actually fun rather than do something that takes a lot of time and energy that most of the time is all for nothing
If it's for nothing you're still at the basic level of game... expert is 5 for 5... I am at 3 for 5 and loving the heck out of it. 46, balding, belly like a basketball.... still getting girls 20 to 25... no worries. LEARN the game.
Cassius Smith sounds like you’re a creepy old dude getting with chicks because of daddy abandonment issues
@@crholmes7678 instead put energy into getting in shape and getting validation from yourself
Your contents is quality mate.
Good stuff...really good stuff.
What did you say to her at 13:05? I couldn't here it well. Thanks!
Skoot over. Like it means to give me space to sit
More stories man !
Get laid
The Professor breaks it down, boom.
I remember you talking about the "threesome bluff" story in an other video but you added background of the story it is really interesting. Thank you todd
Jin 12, which video was it?
I'm old and tired of certain things, so I just "pay" for it.
that's late life np early life you game
It just makes me sad knowing that even if your game is the best it could be past on experience, social friends and psychology. Women will still have 500% better chance at finding somone who they generally enjoy being with. Because they can just go from one guy to another. When men just have to one day after the maybe 15 to 20 woman max pick somone soloy out of the purpose of not being alone :(.
Seek therapy dude
Try being an ugly girl
So Many Reasons Which also means that they can be the reason for a breakup and go on to the next guy to extract resources from him...
Awww 😰
@Devan Ford lol good point
Song name at the end of video?
It true they do, just for validation, but its so sad. I'm afraid its so superficial that I may just knock her back if she is thinking like that.
One of the best videos Todd has put out! Extremely concise and easy to understand.
Good stories Todd
“I was persistent but not needy”. - continuously getting shot down. Following her in the cab, needing to use the restroom 😆😆😂 . Todd ftw
What's not needy about following a girl around all night? This dude is lying lol and it's funny how ALL this chicks are hot....C'mon bruh
Love those stories!
thanks
What is the track in the credits?
I would also like to know
Same
Xxyyxx ..fields
Very nice 👍👌 I think this is a nice psychology lesson which is useful even for engaged or married couples which is why I watch it💕👰🏻
Does the teasing still work on 30plus women?
This man is speaking facts.
I don't agree with you bringing out program after program after program , however what a great last story with the tap on the but
+ rep, good content
12:09 "Made sure I didn't die on the stairs?" Misheard? What's that supposed to mean?
Was 99% still ignoring him in other words, but didn't ditch him on the stairs and leave him alone.
+julien himself i heard this story before.
I wonder how many men actually buy these programs.
Thousands
Millions.
Billions and billions and billions and billions......
This is the waste of time. Focus on your carrier, educate your self, perfecting your self, and then the chicks will come to you eventually. ( bad english sorry)
@@GTrax1992 yeah I doubt it
Both the 'Last dick standing' stories stirred up anxiety inside me just listening to them, haha. Exciting stuff Todd!
Todd is on point!!
This is GOLD !!!
Can you please do a video on the process after you pulled her back to your / her place?
This is the best comedy show ever.
Did you say you want to create a system?
Brooooooooo, that story ending at 13:20 just destroyed me xDD
In the modern age women go as far as walking around half naked(looking like sex objects) to get validation in the name of self-confidence and feminism
excellent stuff