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    - Leah
    0:00 - Introducing.. Rowena Tsai !
    0:53 - expectations of a partner pt1
    2:43 - therapy baking
    3:49 - bake your chicken nuggets
    4:32 - what's ur most toxic trait
    9:03 - friends who stare at the oven together.. talk about inner child work
    14:54 - expectations of a partner pt2
    17:56 - Jams is the guy!
    18:53 - Leah's wedding plans
    21:46 - taking life into ur own hands
    23:56 - Ro's story
    26:43 - James enters
    33:34 - 73 questions and night time routine with vogue

ความคิดเห็น • 291

  • @MaddieDragsbaek
    @MaddieDragsbaek ปีที่แล้ว +581

    this is one of my favorite series on the whole of the internet, sleepovers are so special!!! you capture friendship in such a sweet and honest way and i just LOVE IT

    • @eashh
      @eashh ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Ahhh Maddie!!!! I just watched your new video and i was on Leah's feeling so happy that I got to watch my two favssss 💖💌

    • @leahsfieldnotes
      @leahsfieldnotes  ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Awww thank u sweet angel 🤍🫂

    • @aniadunn345
      @aniadunn345 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@eashh❤ i

  • @madehooope963
    @madehooope963 ปีที่แล้ว +566

    you're my fav girl in the world, thanks for existing

    • @leahsfieldnotes
      @leahsfieldnotes  ปีที่แล้ว +95

      thank you for existing at the same time as me!!

    • @christopheribarra1170
      @christopheribarra1170 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      STOP SIMPING.

    • @hasehamster497
      @hasehamster497 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ​@@christopheribarra1170why are you saying that? That's so rude. If you don't like the comments, then don't watch it. ✨️Be kind to anyone✨️

    • @christopheribarra1170
      @christopheribarra1170 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@hasehamster497 rude to who?

    • @hasehamster497
      @hasehamster497 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@christopheribarra1170 rude to @madehooope963

  • @fruity9410
    @fruity9410 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Their conversations made me realize how much I can relate to Rowena with how she acts around others and her experiences and thoughts that made who she is today and it also made me realize how badly I need someone like Leah and their cute interactions in my life, I really love their vibes and dynamics as a duo, no filters just two sister like friends❤

  • @leahsfieldnotes
    @leahsfieldnotes  ปีที่แล้ว +333

    make yourself a tea, put on a face mask & join the sleepover!! who else would you like to see on this series?? 👀
    let me know how you're doing! I've been in edit focus zone, a challenge video is coming to you in 2 days!

    • @yuanqiong
      @yuanqiong ปีที่แล้ว +16

      moya!!!

    • @clau7522
      @clau7522 ปีที่แล้ว

      deb smikle :)

    • @loveloveyes1838
      @loveloveyes1838 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omg actually watching this with a face mask on🥰

    • @Dev-cw7cn
      @Dev-cw7cn ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Michelle choi

    • @flamingaish
      @flamingaish ปีที่แล้ว +5

      isobel hope !!

  • @jessicastradley105
    @jessicastradley105 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    Omg yall two and hitomi are the most impactful people in my life in the online space. So grateful yall are friends and have such meaningful moments together ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @briaweea02
      @briaweea02 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was just thinking the same thing! Seeing the three of them together and interacting is so intimate and full

    • @lynnn7237
      @lynnn7237 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OMG SAME!!! MY FAVOURITE YTBERS💗 I JUST LOVE THEIR ENERGY!!

    • @intotheAnnieverse
      @intotheAnnieverse ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Literally same, at the same time I feel people who watch all three could be good friends

    • @jessicastradley105
      @jessicastradley105 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@intotheAnnieverse 100%!!!

  • @jwwmg_whee
    @jwwmg_whee ปีที่แล้ว +66

    i am manifesting bffs like Leah and Rowena in my life. the amount of calm, peace and comfort this video provided me with i cannot explain in words. i wanted this video to never end istg. and Leah and Rowena are literally two of my favourite TH-camrs and i always reach out to their videos whenever I'm overwhelmed. much love to both of you. thank you to both of you for existing.

  • @justinclynes481
    @justinclynes481 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I'm not usually one for over sharing but I've just finished my first week of chemotherapy and I won't lie I'm scared of how it's affecting me, but your enthusiasm for the topic helped put my mind at ease. So thank you, you have no idea how much I needed this today

    • @anthonyszymon3032
      @anthonyszymon3032 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are strong, remember that your mind is stronger than everything, so practice ways to cure what you can with thoughts, manifestation and positive energy. So your way through this becomes easier, happier and it might even cure you faster, I believe you can control many aspects of your body with your mind (it takes time, believing and practice)

    • @nancysainhigh1354
      @nancysainhigh1354 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anthonyszymon3032 Thank you for sharing. Over the last 50 years, I've lots of experience with loved ones having cancer and hiv, I've seen information & support help immensely. Treatment has improved a lot. I hope your treatments go well. a friend of mine recommended a healer and caster for me, she helped me out.

    • @justinclynes481
      @justinclynes481 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nancysainhigh1354 wow, how can i get in touch, does she cure other sickness?

    • @nancysainhigh1354
      @nancysainhigh1354 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justinclynes481 yes, name is Luana Kae Branigan

    • @justinclynes481
      @justinclynes481 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nancysainhigh1354 wow, found her website, thank you very much for this.

  • @AalayahTamera
    @AalayahTamera ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Ahhhh the sleepover series continues ☺️💕✨

  • @ottiannatrabertina
    @ottiannatrabertina ปีที่แล้ว +81

    this was so wholesome and healing to watch I love seeing different parts of your personality come out with different people in your life!!

  • @taesthetic6598
    @taesthetic6598 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "When you let go of something, it'll come back to you"
    I needed this today, thanks 😊✨

  • @cestnikki
    @cestnikki ปีที่แล้ว +12

    in the process of ending a years-long friendship, thanks for reminding me what gentle love can look like 🥰you and rowena remind me of the people i am choosing to keep in my life. love u!!

  • @aell.e
    @aell.e ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've been waiting for this, thank you for taking the time to edit it 😚

  • @withlovelucis
    @withlovelucis ปีที่แล้ว +10

    i love how wholesome the sleepover series is ☺💕

  • @katerambolamanana4056
    @katerambolamanana4056 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I literally never want your videos to end

  • @alenasim4085
    @alenasim4085 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    this conversation is so deep but at the same time so enlightening love this

  • @nataliebarr9902
    @nataliebarr9902 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i love you both so much, this was healing and made me cry in a good way

  • @kat6038
    @kat6038 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    These conversations are so eye opening

  • @mochidiary
    @mochidiary ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh the sweetest Leah!! Thank you for always giving us comfort through your vlogs

  • @apeksha5468
    @apeksha5468 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Brooo u are just healing me
    It's her world and we are just living in it

  • @khyatiy_
    @khyatiy_ ปีที่แล้ว +14

    it's really made me feel that I am a, part of this sleepover and so warm.💞

  • @lyra3420
    @lyra3420 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    loving ever single video, always a lot of calm in my mind

  • @annasyanh
    @annasyanh ปีที่แล้ว +4

    right just when i needed it. i've been rewatching all your videos to find comfort the past two days. really love this one too

  • @Jesslee222
    @Jesslee222 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    the way you listen to eachother and see eachother is BEAUTIFUL wow

  • @leaande
    @leaande ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I've been watching a bunch of your videos and you're videos makes me look forward to the future. It makes me excited for life and reminds that I can shape it however I want. Thank you for that ❤

  • @monchhichisohee
    @monchhichisohee ปีที่แล้ว

    this series brings me so much comfort. thank you.

  • @sundreamer3053
    @sundreamer3053 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your videos are always so cozy and warm, it's really inspired to see how open and nice people can be 🤗

  • @bhumikamishra8949
    @bhumikamishra8949 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You’ve grown on me. I was going through a difficult period in life. But your videos bring joy to me. Thank you💕

  • @adityasingha3285
    @adityasingha3285 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are such a gem of a human ughhh just love you, keep the sleepovers cominnnnnn

  • @harirao7929
    @harirao7929 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This video is literal gold. Leah, you put so much creativity and thought to your content it inspires me to do so much more with my life and my passions. I’m really grateful I found your channel and get to see you grow :)
    Sorry, this video is actually so amazing. Both of you talking about your life stories.. could not have come to me at a better time !!!

  • @nadinem7990
    @nadinem7990 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your friendship so much! I need a friendship like this. Thank you for always cheering me up Leah :)

  • @maiha9031
    @maiha9031 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was feeling very down today and watching this made me so much happier!!! I love you 🥺❤️

  • @superlyobsessed
    @superlyobsessed ปีที่แล้ว

    I think this has just become my favourite video on the internet 🥺 thank you so much for sharing ❤️

  • @fraffeetan9395
    @fraffeetan9395 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This sister vibe is everything ❤💖

  • @studiosashie
    @studiosashie ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ro and Leah! My favorites!!! This conversation was so insightful and uplifting :)

  • @friedfishh
    @friedfishh ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I found this talk really comforting and I felt really seen. Thank you to both of you for providing a safe space :)) 💕

  • @sarabelmonteal
    @sarabelmonteal ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loved this video so much, It felt like a warm hug from a friend... Thank you for sharing the sleepover series Leah

  • @maewalsh-gibb2278
    @maewalsh-gibb2278 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    listened to this while cooking and it was so pleasant it put me at ease. Thank you for this vid!!

  • @ohkayee
    @ohkayee ปีที่แล้ว +4

    MY FAVS MADE ANOTHER VIDEO, during a really low point in my life you guys really brighten my day. Luv you both Ro and Leah

  • @sunshineserena
    @sunshineserena ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My fav series on yt💕✨ thank you for this🧸

  • @marammaaroufi6093
    @marammaaroufi6093 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so sweet and open, so lovely as always, this series is always bringing me comfort AND getting me uncomfortable at the same time but in the BEST way, it’s making me see through different eyes and prospects aspects of life I’ve been overthinking or not thinking about at all.
    And I thank you for that💗 love you

  • @keikonatsumii5879
    @keikonatsumii5879 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you two have such a healthy and comforting friendship it is so nice to see

  • @stephh2903
    @stephh2903 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    these videos provide so much comfort when i want to be having these conversations w my friends but for whatever reason can’t 🥺 u two r the best thank u so much

  • @allurized
    @allurized ปีที่แล้ว +2

    heyoo leah :') im really loving this video soo far and this was really nice to sit down and listen to pls do more of these when you can!

  • @s.k.henkle
    @s.k.henkle ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aw I love the cozy sleep over late-night talk vibes 😌✨

  • @leem600
    @leem600 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your vids brought me back to when I was naive, worry free and cute. Thank you for filming all these, it makes me feel authentic again. Wish you a happy day.

  • @lucymoon
    @lucymoon ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so soothing and reassuring. I love this series!

  • @blueberrryshop
    @blueberrryshop ปีที่แล้ว +11

    it was so good, helpful and meaningful to see Leah, Rowen ft. James talk about various things. And I did take notes from your conversation. I've always admired you Leah and I feel like I've grown up with you over the past years and I'm thankful for everything that you do, love you a lots ❤️

  • @marianjoanlapore3766
    @marianjoanlapore3766 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're really my favorite person in the whole world, it feels like my inner child is healing because of your videos. I love you ❤️

  • @Forit26
    @Forit26 ปีที่แล้ว

    The collab i never knew i needed! I LOVE THIS

  • @ivanas442
    @ivanas442 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was such a nice video, the question of how you show love & want to be loved was a prompt for the 30 day Journal challenge I was doing.

  • @lilacmints
    @lilacmints ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Daaang, Rowena really showing more of herself "off camera (for her own channel)" and it's really nice to see this side of her. Your questions to each other and answers really hit something in me that apparently needed healing too and didnt realise before. Thank you for this sleepover episode~ ❤️❤️

  • @ransoph
    @ransoph ปีที่แล้ว

    this is the most wholesome video I've ever seen!! thank you for sharing this

  • @znovy7
    @znovy7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was the coziest & most relatable video I’ve watched in a long time. ugh I could cry haha thank youu

  • @mrclka_
    @mrclka_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love how cozy this video is!!

  • @yourbigsis
    @yourbigsis ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this made me feel all warm and fuzzy. ily so much

  • @kushali_diary
    @kushali_diary ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey Leah first of all I love this video it made me feel a little bit less stressed from my school work. This coming week is packed with events I have to go to and going to school early and afterschool to work on my chemistry work. So honestly I'm feeling quite terrified about whats going to happen. But whats been getting me through this also craxy weekend studying for a chem test test is taking things one at a time so that's what I'm going to do this week.Thank you for this beautiful video love :)

  • @morgan3804
    @morgan3804 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh my gosh the way I paused watching this video weeks ago for no reason, came back to it, and Rowena mentioned the part of herself that has held her back from being a good friend/having friends was so current for me. Thank you Rowena! I feel like I can put more intention and really see that wall of mine that is up that is preventing me from making deep connections with people. I have had this wall up to protect myself for so long I didn't realize it is now hurting me more than it is protecting me.

  • @salicyn.willow
    @salicyn.willow ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Such an amzing video! Im currently working on a graphic novel and editing a vlog from when I went to Vietnam in January!!! Im excited for your next video!! Love this community for real!!

  • @camillelee-own8380
    @camillelee-own8380 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I loved the chat between you two, felt like I was listening in on some friends and it was so peaceful 😊 i also really resonated with Rowena’s fiancé (sorry didn’t catch his name!) and his enneagram style - I literally said exactly the same thing at the same time! I’ve never linked my resentment at work to that before but it rings true so lots to unpack there!

  • @arvonaps
    @arvonaps ปีที่แล้ว +2

    sis, so relatable with the 'Asian mum not wanting her compliment get to your head part' 🥹
    thank you for this honest conversation

  • @kadeeeartiaga
    @kadeeeartiaga ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i’m waitinggggg so long for this! ❤

  • @karina-vi4ir
    @karina-vi4ir ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow I love this. I'm going through a tough time right now and was able to relate to parts of this video. It felt like such a pure conversation between two genuine people

  • @Neha-sn3ce
    @Neha-sn3ce ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Ohhmygoshhh this conversation/collab/sleepover was everything I could have ever asked for, thank you for sharing it with all of us, I got a lot out of it and it just felt like I was hanging out with you guys

    • @leahsfieldnotes
      @leahsfieldnotes  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Awww you're so welcome! Thanks for joining us 🫂

  • @maev_8927
    @maev_8927 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg Leah, we are birthday twins and it actually brought chills down my arm when you described your "toxic traits". I'm currently in a relationship for almost 1 year and the thing you said about wanting them to grow a change FAST is exactly how I think. That is so CRAZY!!! I love your videos by the way

  • @rainbowpeapod2796
    @rainbowpeapod2796 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    so happy and excited to watch this new video :) thank you :) many blessings + big hugs!

  • @cathymendoza9328
    @cathymendoza9328 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    hi leah hope your having a great day today. I love your talking videos it keeps me motivated and get in action lol. Love from asia

  • @studyoasis
    @studyoasis ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow as someone feeling lost in their early 20s, I really needed this. Just the depth of conversation & relating as an Asian American going through family drama & struggles really makes this a safe space.❤ I know Rowena already has a podcast but these conversations should definitely be included in them!! My goal is to have such loving friends like what you both exude where we feel so comfortable having such deep convos about life & the future.❤ Thank you so much for sharing it with us!!❤

  • @Rimasbader06
    @Rimasbader06 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos just makes me feel so cosy and I love it

  • @benlafave5789
    @benlafave5789 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much wisdom, reflection, and good vibes. ty

  • @jerlynyeo
    @jerlynyeo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    leah u have to have unlimited friends so that this series will never end 🙏🏼. i adore it so much

  • @clau7522
    @clau7522 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    YESSSSS love the sleepover series :))

  • @hahahanhan8673
    @hahahanhan8673 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so genuine and calming.

  • @HannaBella98
    @HannaBella98 ปีที่แล้ว

    My heart is full, thank you for this video 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @bbbeckyyy
    @bbbeckyyy ปีที่แล้ว +6

    omg we have the same dream! i've always said that i'll retire on a blueberry farm one day (best berry, fight me if you feel differently) and build my own home! breaks my heart to know that it likely won't happen because of how expensive housing is where i am, but a girl can dream. can't wait til this comes to fruition for you, Leah! would love to see the process

  • @Dev-cw7cn
    @Dev-cw7cn ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I never usually go and comment anything ever but this vdo made me feel so comfortable and attentive at the same time. Like yours and Ro's bond is ao cute it made me wanna call my bff asap ❤️

  • @kawwo1198
    @kawwo1198 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this :) missed you very much and the long format of the sleepovers is so comforting !! can't wait to have many of my own someday ! also, gonna reflect on the pressure of being a perfect partner - which I put on myself so thanks for that too ! Love you so much and sending you many hugs!

  • @hanhhee
    @hanhhee ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really like to watching your videos, it's so meaningful and give me more energy. Hope you always happiness❤️

  • @venusn.3023
    @venusn.3023 ปีที่แล้ว

    My 2 favorites in one video 😚 you guys talking about life gives off healing energy😌

  • @lug7463
    @lug7463 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    awwww!!!! my weekend just became better!!!!

  • @ann8786
    @ann8786 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this so much! So authentic vulnerable and healing! Wish I had a friend to do this...

  • @brianapagan3760
    @brianapagan3760 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys are amazing ! ❤

  • @JeffreyChang
    @JeffreyChang ปีที่แล้ว

    love these convos

  • @cinnaminute
    @cinnaminute ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Re: perfectionism, self-critique and judgement, I find the thought "my life is not a problem to be solved" very helpful. A reminder that I don't need to be constantly trying to improve in every way, I can just be. Just live. I can release some of that seeking, striving energy and focus on enjoying the present. Love from Toronto! XO

  • @faithyuna
    @faithyuna ปีที่แล้ว

    ahh i love this so much, i truly felt like i was sitting across from y'all the whole time

  • @NiharikaGuptasings
    @NiharikaGuptasings 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That was one of the sweetest videos i’ve ever watched ❤

  • @ouaispasmal
    @ouaispasmal ปีที่แล้ว +2

    yay i just got back from london and i have tons of homework for monday morning😭😭 gonna watch this video while eating dinner!!

  • @loveloveyes1838
    @loveloveyes1838 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your sleepover videos💕

  • @bukolaola2505
    @bukolaola2505 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Been waiting for this love you both ❤

  • @kathleenttu
    @kathleenttu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    also y'all have the cutest friendship ever 😭💕

  • @castaspeIIa
    @castaspeIIa ปีที่แล้ว +2

    yesssss new leah video!!!!!!

  • @adyfern
    @adyfern ปีที่แล้ว

    i love this series 🤍✨

  • @Kelly-fj9xk
    @Kelly-fj9xk ปีที่แล้ว

    Was having a bad day yesterday n was wishing you would post and you posted today😭🥺ily

  • @DaisyShaz
    @DaisyShaz ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved this so much x

  • @justfrith
    @justfrith ปีที่แล้ว

    This is wholesome, great video🥹☺️

  • @aluel3721
    @aluel3721 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    im so happy i found ur channel :)

  • @clary4743
    @clary4743 ปีที่แล้ว

    MY FAVORITE PPL TOGETHER LIFE IS GOOD

  • @Moorkralle
    @Moorkralle ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just want to say that I used LOVED that unfiltered pure sit down

  • @heathershackford
    @heathershackford ปีที่แล้ว

    I love watching your videos. They make me comfortable.🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @zemfirameloyan3055
    @zemfirameloyan3055 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    finally, our girl is back 🤩

  • @username1093
    @username1093 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omg leah postedd