A big thank you to Hitomi for being so supportive of my sleepover series idea! And thank you for spending time to watch this creation🤗 What topics or guests would you like to see in the future?
this makes me have hope in finding like minded people, i crave having translucent conversations on degrees like this with someone who’s open and allows themselves to be vulnerable around me, it’s truly a form of intimacy, i love how both of you made it feel so safe to share anything and everything
You can really see how physically loving Hitomi is in this. She's constantly moving closer to you and trying to connect w you and exist in a space w you. So lovely!
I love you so much and I’m so happy we met Leah ♥️🥺✨🕊💭 You are truly such a pure reflection of tenderness and I can’t wait to c uuuu and squeeze uuu again in the future P.S. this editing is soooo goood
this video really made me reexamine how I approach relationships. If I ever had someone like Hitomi in my life, I would read her energy as more romantic than platonic. But having a platonic friend that treats you like that is so beautiful. I once had a friend tell me that I give myself to easily to other people and I think that's true. Boundaries are so important. Thank you Leah and Hitomi for helping me come to this conclusion. My love is sacred and I should see myself as such.
do you mean ‘sacred’ ?? i don’t mean this in a spelling freak sort of way, but your comment is so nice and i just want you to get the message across to everyone :’)))
i couldn't stop smiling TT also hitomi's answer about knowing when ur ready to be in a relationship is also a good way to understand if you should carry on in a relationship. i feel like once we start a relationship we just keep going because of inertia but dont stop to think would i choose to enter in the relationship again, does it continue to meet my initial criteria? does it continue to add to my life and make me feel more free and authentic?
I’ve had conversations about love and exchanging sexual energy with some of my partners before. The look of confusion on their faces.. I believe they saw it as some kinky thing I was into. In reality, I wanted it to be more sacred and feel in-tune with their soul/energy but they didn’t speak my language.
leah is such a good listener while hitomi is a wonderful storyteller/teacher and you can tell they have such a mature and powerful relationship :) when i saw that you two did a video I was so excited !!
your discussion was so nice to listen to, it felt like i was with friends tbh and reminded me a lot of conversations i would have with my own friends esp being queer. i found some of the convo about "being the man" when being with women to be too reliant on gender norms that can be a reductive way of viewing wlw relations as still heteronormative in a way, being forward and more dominant in a sexual relationship can be feminine energy too. i know you two were just speaking candidly and from experience, but i figured i wanted to contribute to this space too from my experiences! thank you for opening up this dialogue and being so open and vulnerable
Thank you so much for this reflection, I feel like there is so much heteronormativity as well as gender norms in our society and much as I try not to perpetuate those paradigms, they can still come out in internalized ways. I think I’m still learning new language to explain how it feels to be in my power when dating other femmes. Grateful to keep learning, I take full accountability that still I don’t get things 100% right all the time. Sending love to your sweet heart ♥️
I am so glad you mentioned this. As a lesbian it made me uneasy hearing that framing of sapphic dynamics and hearing penetrative sex being called more intimate and vulnerable. But I appreciate the conversation and Hitomi's response :)
I had to stop watching this halfway through because of my longterm inability to make and maintain friendships of any kind, especially like this. I don't know why I constantly retreat into such chronic self-isolation and so it hurts so deeply seeing others build platonic connections so effortlessly. This sort of bond and conversation feels completely unattainable for me.
Thank you for sharing this. I relate so much. But I know it’s not unattainable for you or for me, because things change and our hearts can heal. Sending you so much tenderness and love 💓
who wouldve thought that a 33-min video would still feel so short!! Gosh, never knew we needed this sleepover with you guys until you did it!! Hope to see more!! Love you leah and hitomi 💗✨
dear leah, i really appreciate the honesty and the pureness I can feel in this video. It made me really emotional and I am grateful for being part of your feelings. I would really appreciate a trigger warning next time, especially during parts regarding self-harm. It was a bit overwhelming, since I wasn’t really prepared. 💜🥺🍓
ahhhh I’m sorry about that! I put one before we started reading the poem but I’ll work on making it more visible next time & audible! Thank you for letting me know 🙏
at 4:30 i sobbed with you guys. i’ve been struggling with self harm and i’ve never really heard anyone talk about their self harming in any way before and this really hit deep for me. ❤️
the ending scene of you two brushing your teeth together made me feel so nostalgic and safe for some reason. I have an identical twin sister and we always brush our teeth together/sing together and Banana Pancakes is one of the songs we have sung. your friendship is so authentic and pure. i love you both so much❤🥺
this video came to me at the perfect time. cherishing female friendships above all right now when i’m 20 has proved to me to be the next step in my life. i am claiming this video as a sign to follow that calling. I LOVE FRIENDSHIPS! WOW! THANK YOU FOR THE BEAUTIFUL DEPICTION!!!!
It's so hard to find people who truly understand you and who can really be a safe place. To feel comfortable enough and trust someone enough to be able to be your most authentic self is a blessing. I feel gratitude for my relationships but I also tend to feel a longing for deep love, compassion, growth and sisterhood.
the vulnerability and candidness and love and space being held in this is a work of art, you're both poetry in motion and i thank you for sharing this with us
i haven't finished the vid yet but i just want to say thank you so much for putting this out for us! the editing in this is amazing, it really feels like a close and personal sleepover which is super comforting and much needed right now 🥺 thank you for this and for everything you do, you continue to inspire me everyday
it's the first day of my cycle and this was the most beautiful thing to witness on this day of all days to deeper connect myself with the divine feminine energies of this world
Literally my two faveourite people coming together to open their hearts to one another is the most beautiful thing. The willingness you both have to listen to one another, actively support and lift each other up is so inspiring. It reminds me how lucky I am to have female friendships and also how I want to be more open about sexuality and liberate myself and others. Thank you both for bringing such wholesome safe content to the internet, fricken lurve u guys
Ughhh, this video brought me so much joy. My husband walked in and asked me why I’m smiling so much. It brought tears to my eyes because I could feel the love through the screen. I hope to find a connection with friends like this one day💕
i just can't believe my 2 favorite women in yt where i find comfort in their videos are united and having such a great conversation. i also want to be surrounded with people who are just so open and supportive to each other. i love you both so much 😭
The energy you guys are radiating is just so wholesome, healing, loving, supporting and I just LOVE it! Definitely going to be my go to comfort video,, also I love how you guys are open to discovering different sexualities and exploring these topics with your friends!! Keep up the good work on your videos and sending hugs, kisses and love to u
seeing how connected these two are makes me think of some people that randomly came into my life recently...and they were sorta ppl u meet for the first time and it feels like ur energies were already connected. gosh I love seeing that on here! thank you for this lovely video
i'm crying and so happy, their energy and conversations are literally healing me on so many ways. thank you thank you thank you. lots and lots of love for you two
When Leah spoke about the thought of kissing girls being really nerve racking and not initiating things, I could totally relate! I think it's more intimidating because girls are so soft and pretty and usually men in general from my experience are more bold about initiating and whether or not they are into you. I remember knowing my fiancee was going to kiss me for the first time and I was so, so nervous. When we actually kissed it was one of the best kisses, if not the best kiss of my life. I only used to be able to hook up with girls when I was drunk because of this but now I've been with a woman for a long time, it's the most natural and just amazing thing in the world, I still get butterflies and nerves all the time but more in an excited way. I also agree with what Hitomi was saying about being more in touch with her masculine side when with a woman. I think I also take on a way more caring role like I wanna run my girl a bath and spoil her rotten whereas with guys I never felt like that
I love you so much, Leah. You've been in my mind lately and praying that the next coming days will feel better and lighter for you. You inspire me a lot to heal and be a better person. ❤️
it's been so long since i've been able to have a heart to hear / deep convo with my girlfriends and this was such a nice reminder and at the same time made me miss my besties! thank you for being open and allowing us to watch! what a great idea :)
I’ve been struggling lately with opening up to my friends just like you both do in this video but it felt so good watching you discuss all these interesting topics that I now feel more encouraged to reach out and trust the people I love. I adore you two really
This video got me on such a more positive and healthier way of looking at my break up that happened 5 days ago. I’ve been in such a depressive slump since but today’s the first time I left the house so thank you x
literally such a healing experience this video was !! ✨🌷💌 im having a sleepover with my best friend tomorrow night, and i know it's going to be just as vulnerable and sacred and divine as this
This is so good. I watch you and Hitomi individually and seeing you both grow your friendship together is so healing and such a beautiful thing to watch! Also this feels like a podcast and I love it.
I love how vulnerable you two are in this video. I have an unfortunate experience of an abusive relationship with a man much older than me when I was freshly an adult. He used to sexualize me in ways I didn't even think of before. I still struggle with sexual identity and feeling constantly like I am under "the male gaze." It's feels so comforting and safe to hear women, and especially queer women, share their history with their identity because it is so unmatched to the heterosexual relationships we see in media. Thank you for sharing this, as it's opened me up to a personal conversation on how I view and love myself and others.
Seeing you two find each other has made me sooo happy 🥰 I really feel like I'm growing with you guys, I've recently really gone through some low moments and feeling so lost, and I cannot express how grateful I am for having you two as a sort of guidance (no pressure) but also just as a sort of comfort. I really love your energy and maybe feel like if we'd be in another timeline and I didn't live in Belgium we'd maybe could've been friends. I am also doing a lot better now and am really looking forward to grow and learn and be happy and really learn to put up boundaries. Sorry if this was lengthy, I know you get a lot of these. But thank you both for being here for all of us and for spreading the good vibes! much love ♥♥
I want friends like you both. It almost feels like I am there with you--it means so much to me to watch such real conversations on camera. I realized that these are conversations I long to have but have yet to find people I can talk to about love, sex, and healing--I have yet to find a queer community for myself. I don't feel like these moments are often caught on camera and listening and watching the two of you talk about your lives so openly encourages me to feel okay to take up space in the same way and really validated me as someone who WANTS to talk about these things. I always felt a little crazy wanting or needing to say things like this out loud, or even seeing how you react to each other when creating space for each other. It opens my eyes to my own reactions and thoughts and actions when taking up space and creating space for others and it just really really reassured me to know that I am on the right track when it comes to the relationships that I want for myself. I'm excited to start attracting women like the two of you in my life and bask in feminine energy and safeness
This was such a lovely video, as someone who is in their late 20's w/ no experience It was nice to hear your perspective on relationships, sexuality & sharing your sexual energy w/ partners.
This one had me bawling!!! I relate to the self harm healing journey, and to see you embody love rather than continue the cycle of cutting is really powerful. 😭 thank you for being so vulnerable🙏🏼
Watching these videos of you and Hitomi hangout and support one another really makes me wish I had a friend group or support system like this. It would be so amazing to have a friend I could share thoughts and feelings with and just, talk. These types of videos warm my heart and put a smile on my face. I struggle with vulnerability and trust so much, that I just love seeing these videos where two people can be so vulnerable with each other. It's quite beautiful and I hope to find a friend that I can feel this comfortable with so I can start practicing my own vulnerability.
I have friendships like this but I feel like I don’t appreciate our connections enough or seek them out very often. This was a necessary reminder of how important and special they are to me ✨
It was such a beautiful experience watching you two, two of my favorite TH-camrs, having a sleepover; I was in bed while watching this, and it felt like I joined in on the sleepover. Thank you for such a warm, cozy experience!
Thank you both to Leah and Hiromi. It felt like I was a part of the sleepover too. And all the discussion were so enlightening. It helped me learn a bit about myself as well. All the best to both of you for your future life journey.
Honestly, this video was Soo healing to me! I realise now that it is because no ego was involved. No one trying to overtalk the other, no one trying to cut off the other one as you were speaking. Both listening deeply to the other one, sharing hearts and being totally open and vulnerable with each other. Wow! That is what friendship should look like. Thank you for showing the way and for the deep healing. I can feel it in my chest!!💕💕💕
Honestly the self harm and the virginity portion really hit close to home. I lost my virginity at a very young age, basically on the cusp of 13 years old and it was with a guy who completely destroyed who I was. I was self harming in the 4th grade before that because I was already struggling with self worth and identity (I wanted to be a boy) and after that experience, I just kept tumbling downward from there on. And to this day, I’m now 17 (almost 18) and I’m still fluctuating and confused about who I am, desperately trying to heal and feel better. But I’m so happy that I found this video, I feel like more people need to be open about these experiences because for so long, I felt completely alone and like nobody understood what I was going through. So this definitely helps a lot.
my HEARTT aahhh this video is everything i needed and more, like hanging out with my 2 big sisters, been watching hitomi for years and you guys together are so comforting! i adore you both
related so much to Hitomi's perspective on masculine energy, hearing you both talk about this was so eye opening to my own feelings that i didn't really understand.
Hitomi burrowing during the compliments & validation is the real mood 🤩 just completed grad school and got awards and I've never been more awkward in my life
I can't remember the last time I felt close and safe to someone, especially a sacred sister. Over the years everyone in my life seems to consistently get farther and farther away. Leaving me feeling unimportant and alone in this world (especially with covid) Thank you both for being my safe space and giving me the illusion of have sacred friendships ❤️
I absolutely LOVE seeing women love and empower each other, it's so refreshing. Growing up all I saw in the media was women pitted against each other and fighting and arguing. I've never been like that with my friends. Sisterhood is the best
wow! i'm listening to this while i'm working bcos leah's vlogs calms me but then i'm on the part where hitomi's sharing her relationship experiences and i'm crying because i relate to her sm 😭☹
Okay my two favorites TH-camrs in one video of thirty minutes I’m gonna cry. This Is already Christmas. I had a really shitty day yesterday so thank you for that
Honestly I’d love to see you do more of these videos, they feel so genuine and relatable. I felt like I was just hanging out with some friends and having good conversations about life :) I kinda want to see you and jasmine in the future. I’ve been watching her videos for so long and she became one of my favourite TH-camr (with you of course heheh)
Thank you Leah. I find myself listening along to both of you, completely understanding your stories and enjoying the lovely moments that you two have shared here. I find myself falling in love with the two of you, you’re both too sweet. :’)
I literally was smiling everytime and whenever i caught myself smiling it grew bigger lmao I love you guys. You're such an inspiration and I call these type of female friendships into my life! Also, I have a gemini sun in my growing friendgroup and she's the best. I love geminis (I'm a libra sun and scorpio moon
A big thank you to Hitomi for being so supportive of my sleepover series idea! And thank you for spending time to watch this creation🤗 What topics or guests would you like to see in the future?
Maybe some meal ideas? Love u:)
Honesty the same guest. This is the perfect video genre and content we all need esp. this year
would be awesome to see cup of jasmien and you together !!
Hiromi was wonderful and very insightful. I would love Rowena as a guest in the future too.
ashley aka bestdressed 👀
yall don't understand how much we all needed this 😭 thank you leah & hitomiiiiii !!!
omg moya i love your videos too- what a crossover hahaha
Riightt
Literally!! Im so thankful to be able to have found their videos
Omgggg gurl I love your videos too.
I wish you were there in this video too
i love your vids moya! hopefully you and hitomi connect in paris xx
the longing for soft, intense and pure sisterhood is REAL ✨🥺
Me too girl
i feel you
Ditto
seriouslyy!! the LONGING
Same
this video is so beautiful & comforting 🥺 i can’t wait to see future guests in this series!!
Well I do have this really cute n cool n smrt friend called Amanda 😩
@@leahsfieldnotes pls i would be honoured
this aged like fine wine!!
this makes me have hope in finding like minded people, i crave having translucent conversations on degrees like this with someone who’s open and allows themselves to be vulnerable around me, it’s truly a form of intimacy, i love how both of you made it feel so safe to share anything and everything
i feel you sm and i'm sure those people will come into our lives
You can really see how physically loving Hitomi is in this. She's constantly moving closer to you and trying to connect w you and exist in a space w you. So lovely!
I love that about her too
I love you so much and I’m so happy we met Leah ♥️🥺✨🕊💭 You are truly such a pure reflection of tenderness and I can’t wait to c uuuu and squeeze uuu again in the future
P.S. this editing is soooo goood
I LOVE YOU BOTH SO MUCH AND IM SO HAPPY YOU GUYS ARE FRIENDS
So so grateful for you & the universe for bringing us together 😭💗🫂🌿✨
My favorite youtubers!!
i just flippin love you SO much, it's unreal!!!!!
Ur both such angels
this video really made me reexamine how I approach relationships. If I ever had someone like Hitomi in my life, I would read her energy as more romantic than platonic. But having a platonic friend that treats you like that is so beautiful. I once had a friend tell me that I give myself to easily to other people and I think that's true. Boundaries are so important. Thank you Leah and Hitomi for helping me come to this conclusion. My love is sacred and I should see myself as such.
do you mean ‘sacred’ ??
i don’t mean this in a spelling freak sort of way, but your comment is so nice and i just want you to get the message across to everyone :’)))
ミア - m i a Yes! thank you so much
@@katetheworld4053 no problem!
i couldn't stop smiling TT also hitomi's answer about knowing when ur ready to be in a relationship is also a good way to understand if you should carry on in a relationship. i feel like once we start a relationship we just keep going because of inertia but dont stop to think would i choose to enter in the relationship again, does it continue to meet my initial criteria? does it continue to add to my life and make me feel more free and authentic?
Same I was smiling the WHOLE time
leah is my safe space, i feel so much better just watching her videos, i love them sm😭
same!
YES
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I’ve had conversations about love and exchanging sexual energy with some of my partners before. The look of confusion on their faces.. I believe they saw it as some kinky thing I was into. In reality, I wanted it to be more sacred and feel in-tune with their soul/energy but they didn’t speak my language.
A lot of people don't believe in these concepts or haven't even heared of them. Imo their reaction shouldn't be too surprising
I relate to this so much
people think you're so over-invested when you talk like this but it's just the most logical thing to me!
you're very brave for doing that, truly hope you can bond with someone the way you wish to
leah is such a good listener while hitomi is a wonderful storyteller/teacher
and you can tell they have such a mature and powerful relationship :)
when i saw that you two did a video I was so excited !!
your discussion was so nice to listen to, it felt like i was with friends tbh and reminded me a lot of conversations i would have with my own friends esp being queer. i found some of the convo about "being the man" when being with women to be too reliant on gender norms that can be a reductive way of viewing wlw relations as still heteronormative in a way, being forward and more dominant in a sexual relationship can be feminine energy too. i know you two were just speaking candidly and from experience, but i figured i wanted to contribute to this space too from my experiences! thank you for opening up this dialogue and being so open and vulnerable
Thank you so much for this reflection, I feel like there is so much heteronormativity as well as gender norms in our society and much as I try not to perpetuate those paradigms, they can still come out in internalized ways. I think I’m still learning new language to explain how it feels to be in my power when dating other femmes. Grateful to keep learning, I take full accountability that still I don’t get things 100% right all the time. Sending love to your sweet heart ♥️
@@HitomiMochizuki222 Love the original comment, and love your classy response! Thanks for being open to listening and learning.
I am so glad you mentioned this. As a lesbian it made me uneasy hearing that framing of sapphic dynamics and hearing penetrative sex being called more intimate and vulnerable. But I appreciate the conversation and Hitomi's response :)
I had to stop watching this halfway through because of my longterm inability to make and maintain friendships of any kind, especially like this. I don't know why I constantly retreat into such chronic self-isolation and so it hurts so deeply seeing others build platonic connections so effortlessly. This sort of bond and conversation feels completely unattainable for me.
Thank you for sharing this. I relate so much. But I know it’s not unattainable for you or for me, because things change and our hearts can heal. Sending you so much tenderness and love 💓
I too feel like you and honestly at this level I don't know what to do. I feel kind of lost
this is so true
who wouldve thought that a 33-min video would still feel so short!! Gosh, never knew we needed this sleepover with you guys until you did it!! Hope to see more!! Love you leah and hitomi 💗✨
Omg I didn’t even realize it was that long!!
Thought I was the only one feeling this way … it really felt short lol
dear leah, i really appreciate the honesty and the pureness I can feel in this video. It made me really emotional and I am grateful for being part of your feelings. I would really appreciate a trigger warning next time, especially during parts regarding self-harm. It was a bit overwhelming, since I wasn’t really prepared. 💜🥺🍓
ahhhh I’m sorry about that! I put one before we started reading the poem but I’ll work on making it more visible next time & audible! Thank you for letting me know 🙏
at 4:30 i sobbed with you guys. i’ve been struggling with self harm and i’ve never really heard anyone talk about their self harming in any way before and this really hit deep for me. ❤️
What a refreshing collab! I literally felt like I was listening to you gals in the room. Female friendships are so powerful
the ending scene of you two brushing your teeth together made me feel so nostalgic and safe for some reason. I have an identical twin sister and we always brush our teeth together/sing together and Banana Pancakes is one of the songs we have sung. your friendship is so authentic and pure. i love you both so much❤🥺
wow. the importance of feeling SAFE. for creativity, for intimacy, for not feeling shame because I honored my body.
this video came to me at the perfect time. cherishing female friendships above all right now when i’m 20 has proved to me to be the next step in my life. i am claiming this video as a sign to follow that calling. I LOVE FRIENDSHIPS! WOW! THANK YOU FOR THE BEAUTIFUL DEPICTION!!!!
It's so hard to find people who truly understand you and who can really be a safe place. To feel comfortable enough and trust someone enough to be able to be your most authentic self is a blessing. I feel gratitude for my relationships but I also tend to feel a longing for deep love, compassion, growth and sisterhood.
the vulnerability and candidness and love and space being held in this is a work of art, you're both poetry in motion and i thank you for sharing this with us
I'm not even halfway through this and it's just so comforting and soothing. 💗😤✨
What a synergy of female energy, loved this 💛
I truly wish my late teen-early/twenty year old self had more opportunities to have time like this with people who listen & share ideas.
i haven't finished the vid yet but i just want to say thank you so much for putting this out for us! the editing in this is amazing, it really feels like a close and personal sleepover which is super comforting and much needed right now 🥺 thank you for this and for everything you do, you continue to inspire me everyday
Both of you are my comfort space on the internet. Thank you for sharing your lives and energies with us. So grateful. Sending love and light!
it's the first day of my cycle and this was the most beautiful thing to witness on this day of all days to deeper connect myself with the divine feminine energies of this world
Literally my two faveourite people coming together to open their hearts to one another is the most beautiful thing. The willingness you both have to listen to one another, actively support and lift each other up is so inspiring. It reminds me how lucky I am to have female friendships and also how I want to be more open about sexuality and liberate myself and others. Thank you both for bringing such wholesome safe content to the internet, fricken lurve u guys
Ughhh, this video brought me so much joy. My husband walked in and asked me why I’m smiling so much. It brought tears to my eyes because I could feel the love through the screen. I hope to find a connection with friends like this one day💕
i just can't believe my 2 favorite women in yt where i find comfort in their videos are united and having such a great conversation. i also want to be surrounded with people who are just so open and supportive to each other. i love you both so much 😭
You had me at “I thought my tongue was going to fall off” 😂😂The duo I didn’t know I needed. You guys are so funny 😂❤️
felt a bit like I was an actual part of this sleepover! So amazing how honest and deep you talked and let us be a part of it!
that's soooo sweet
i've never gone to a sleepover, thank you for invating all of us!! it surely thought me a lot and made my heart warm
The energy you guys are radiating is just so wholesome, healing, loving, supporting and I just LOVE it! Definitely going to be my go to comfort video,, also I love how you guys are open to discovering different sexualities and exploring these topics with your friends!! Keep up the good work on your videos and sending hugs, kisses and love to u
seeing how connected these two are makes me think of some people that randomly came into my life recently...and they were sorta ppl u meet for the first time and it feels like ur energies were already connected. gosh I love seeing that on here! thank you for this lovely video
i'm crying and so happy, their energy and conversations are literally healing me on so many ways. thank you thank you thank you. lots and lots of love for you two
When Leah spoke about the thought of kissing girls being really nerve racking and not initiating things, I could totally relate! I think it's more intimidating because girls are so soft and pretty and usually men in general from my experience are more bold about initiating and whether or not they are into you. I remember knowing my fiancee was going to kiss me for the first time and I was so, so nervous. When we actually kissed it was one of the best kisses, if not the best kiss of my life. I only used to be able to hook up with girls when I was drunk because of this but now I've been with a woman for a long time, it's the most natural and just amazing thing in the world, I still get butterflies and nerves all the time but more in an excited way. I also agree with what Hitomi was saying about being more in touch with her masculine side when with a woman. I think I also take on a way more caring role like I wanna run my girl a bath and spoil her rotten whereas with guys I never felt like that
I love you so much, Leah. You've been in my mind lately and praying that the next coming days will feel better and lighter for you. You inspire me a lot to heal and be a better person. ❤️
are you kidding me?! i love and found you both seperately, so to see you have found your way to each other is beautiful.
can y’all start a podcast this was so healing and full of love ❤️
this is the series we needed!! Feels like a whole girl talk session so comforting
it's been so long since i've been able to have a heart to hear / deep convo with my girlfriends and this was such a nice reminder and at the same time made me miss my besties! thank you for being open and allowing us to watch! what a great idea :)
I really liked this. It feels very unfiltered and genuine--no music, no random cuts or transitions. It felt as if i was really there.
I’ve been struggling lately with opening up to my friends just like you both do in this video but it felt so good watching you discuss all these interesting topics that I now feel more encouraged to reach out and trust the people I love. I adore you two really
This video got me on such a more positive and healthier way of looking at my break up that happened 5 days ago. I’ve been in such a depressive slump since but today’s the first time I left the house so thank you x
I just love this woman energy and the sisterhood! So beautiful!
Living for these consistent videos! Leah i can tell you’re putting so much effort into these, and I appreciate it❤️
literally such a healing experience this video was !! ✨🌷💌 im having a sleepover with my best friend tomorrow night, and i know it's going to be just as vulnerable and sacred and divine as this
This is so good. I watch you and Hitomi individually and seeing you both grow your friendship together is so healing and such a beautiful thing to watch! Also this feels like a podcast and I love it.
this sleepover series idea is the best!! cant wait to see more!
this type of friendship is all i want in life😭
I love how vulnerable you two are in this video. I have an unfortunate experience of an abusive relationship with a man much older than me when I was freshly an adult. He used to sexualize me in ways I didn't even think of before. I still struggle with sexual identity and feeling constantly like I am under "the male gaze." It's feels so comforting and safe to hear women, and especially queer women, share their history with their identity because it is so unmatched to the heterosexual relationships we see in media. Thank you for sharing this, as it's opened me up to a personal conversation on how I view and love myself and others.
Seeing you two find each other has made me sooo happy 🥰 I really feel like I'm growing with you guys, I've recently really gone through some low moments and feeling so lost, and I cannot express how grateful I am for having you two as a sort of guidance (no pressure) but also just as a sort of comfort. I really love your energy and maybe feel like if we'd be in another timeline and I didn't live in Belgium we'd maybe could've been friends. I am also doing a lot better now and am really looking forward to grow and learn and be happy and really learn to put up boundaries. Sorry if this was lengthy, I know you get a lot of these. But thank you both for being here for all of us and for spreading the good vibes! much love ♥♥
I want friends like you both. It almost feels like I am there with you--it means so much to me to watch such real conversations on camera. I realized that these are conversations I long to have but have yet to find people I can talk to about love, sex, and healing--I have yet to find a queer community for myself. I don't feel like these moments are often caught on camera and listening and watching the two of you talk about your lives so openly encourages me to feel okay to take up space in the same way and really validated me as someone who WANTS to talk about these things. I always felt a little crazy wanting or needing to say things like this out loud, or even seeing how you react to each other when creating space for each other. It opens my eyes to my own reactions and thoughts and actions when taking up space and creating space for others and it just really really reassured me to know that I am on the right track when it comes to the relationships that I want for myself. I'm excited to start attracting women like the two of you in my life and bask in feminine energy and safeness
This was such a lovely video, as someone who is in their late 20's w/ no experience It was nice to hear your perspective on relationships, sexuality & sharing your sexual energy w/ partners.
definitely enjoyed every second of this and i was really laughing through and learning as well. didn't even realize it was 33 minutes long!
This one had me bawling!!! I relate to the self harm healing journey, and to see you embody love rather than continue the cycle of cutting is really powerful. 😭 thank you for being so vulnerable🙏🏼
the feminine energy we all severely needed
Watching these videos of you and Hitomi hangout and support one another really makes me wish I had a friend group or support system like this. It would be so amazing to have a friend I could share thoughts and feelings with and just, talk. These types of videos warm my heart and put a smile on my face. I struggle with vulnerability and trust so much, that I just love seeing these videos where two people can be so vulnerable with each other. It's quite beautiful and I hope to find a friend that I can feel this comfortable with so I can start practicing my own vulnerability.
I have friendships like this but I feel like I don’t appreciate our connections enough or seek them out very often. This was a necessary reminder of how important and special they are to me ✨
I really appreciate you guys talking about topics that most people don't talk about!
I am so happy you guys finally met and had the chance to have these wonderful talks
i love how you are sharing your experiences and trauma and sharing this with us.. all throughout the video i felt like i was there with you..
It was such a beautiful experience watching you two, two of my favorite TH-camrs, having a sleepover; I was in bed while watching this, and it felt like I joined in on the sleepover. Thank you for such a warm, cozy experience!
Thank you both to Leah and Hiromi. It felt like I was a part of the sleepover too. And all the discussion were so enlightening. It helped me learn a bit about myself as well. All the best to both of you for your future life journey.
Honestly, this video was Soo healing to me! I realise now that it is because no ego was involved. No one trying to overtalk the other, no one trying to cut off the other one as you were speaking. Both listening deeply to the other one, sharing hearts and being totally open and vulnerable with each other. Wow! That is what friendship should look like. Thank you for showing the way and for the deep healing. I can feel it in my chest!!💕💕💕
Honestly the self harm and the virginity portion really hit close to home. I lost my virginity at a very young age, basically on the cusp of 13 years old and it was with a guy who completely destroyed who I was. I was self harming in the 4th grade before that because I was already struggling with self worth and identity (I wanted to be a boy) and after that experience, I just kept tumbling downward from there on. And to this day, I’m now 17 (almost 18) and I’m still fluctuating and confused about who I am, desperately trying to heal and feel better. But I’m so happy that I found this video, I feel like more people need to be open about these experiences because for so long, I felt completely alone and like nobody understood what I was going through. So this definitely helps a lot.
I am so into intense female friendship like there is nothing more powerful than that bond
leah, the way you listen to people is beautiful.
my HEARTT aahhh this video is everything i needed and more, like hanging out with my 2 big sisters, been watching hitomi for years and you guys together are so comforting! i adore you both
related so much to Hitomi's perspective on masculine energy, hearing you both talk about this was so eye opening to my own feelings that i didn't really understand.
Oh my!!!! This hit so hard! I want to share this with every female in my life. Thank you for sharing! This means so much!
the tenderness in this video is outstanding
Coming back to this video for the 1000th time to replenish the sapphic energy I needed✨
Hitomi burrowing during the compliments & validation is the real mood 🤩 just completed grad school and got awards and I've never been more awkward in my life
“your spirit knows that sharing you energy like that is way to secret” OMG
I always come back to this video whenever I need comfort. Thank you
absolute collab of the century how am i only just finding this!! sending love xxx
My heart feels so full, this is divine femininity 🥺✨
i really wish this video existed when i was in highschool , such beautiful souls
I can't remember the last time I felt close and safe to someone, especially a sacred sister. Over the years everyone in my life seems to consistently get farther and farther away. Leaving me feeling unimportant and alone in this world (especially with covid) Thank you both for being my safe space and giving me the illusion of have sacred friendships ❤️
I absolutely LOVE seeing women love and empower each other, it's so refreshing. Growing up all I saw in the media was women pitted against each other and fighting and arguing. I've never been like that with my friends. Sisterhood is the best
wow! i'm listening to this while i'm working bcos leah's vlogs calms me but then i'm on the part where hitomi's sharing her relationship experiences and i'm crying because i relate to her sm 😭☹
Okay my two favorites TH-camrs in one video of thirty minutes I’m gonna cry. This Is already Christmas. I had a really shitty day yesterday so thank you for that
Hope today is nice, sorry yesterday wasn’t ❤️
Honestly I’d love to see you do more of these videos, they feel so genuine and relatable. I felt like I was just hanging out with some friends and having good conversations about life :) I kinda want to see you and jasmine in the future. I’ve been watching her videos for so long and she became one of my favourite TH-camr (with you of course heheh)
ive never longed more for a feminine bond like this one
this was so incredibly beautiful. female friendships are so sacred
Oh my god my two favourite content creators together, I’m so happy ☺️❤️
Hitomi good job for overcoming something so horrifying, good job girl. *hugs*
Idk how to put this but this video cleansed my soul like its so warm and real. These are the kind of girl hangouts that im manifesting
Thank you so much for letting me be a part of this! It’s like I’m sitting with you guys and chatting! Your videos mean a lot to me 🙏🏼😊
The collab we didnt know we needed 💞💖
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You don't know you need to hear something until it's said. Feeling all sorts of ways after this, this is already such a beautiful series ❤
Thank you Leah. I find myself listening along to both of you, completely understanding your stories and enjoying the lovely moments that you two have shared here. I find myself falling in love with the two of you, you’re both too sweet. :’)
This literally made me so happy....I smiled the whole time...
I literally was smiling everytime and whenever i caught myself smiling it grew bigger lmao I love you guys. You're such an inspiration and I call these type of female friendships into my life! Also, I have a gemini sun in my growing friendgroup and she's the best. I love geminis (I'm a libra sun and scorpio moon
recognizing your own comphet is such an enlightening experience :))
I love this please keep making more vids together