Foreign Women on Dating FILIPINOS | Philippines 🇵🇭
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 มิ.ย. 2023
- In this video, I explore the dating experiences of foreign women in the Philippines. After discovering the perspectives of foreign men in my last video, I thought it would be a good idea to ask foreign women about the same topic. So join me as I navigate through BGC (Bonifacio Global City) in the heart of Manila. Where I gain valuable insights from women residing in the Philippines who have experience, dating Filipinos.
Curious about the dating dynamics, and what dating in the Philippines is like? These women share their perspectives on how dating practices and expectations vary, offering a fascinating glimpse into cross-cultural romance.
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I'm Mexican American and my husband is Filipino ❤ Amazing husband, attentive to my needs, very kind, caring, and best father. I never ask him twice. I feel supported and loved 🥰 11 yrs with my husband man and we have an amazing daughter ❤
Wow big thanks to pilipino.
Congrats
God Bless to both of you.
Your beautiful 😘
Can you refer me to your Fellow Mexican ladies? ❤
I'm Russian and my boyfriend is Filipino, he's the one of the most amazing, sweetest and most caring boyfriend I've ever had.
You are very lucky and blessed to have such an adorable boyfriend like him. Many Russian women like you have relationships or married to some Filipino men, more than other European women.
Where in the Philippines is he from?
its ok if you cheat on him, he will forgive you! i know you will cheat on him soon with a guy that is hotter
Good luck with that
Im filipino 6 foot 240 pounds is your mom available?@@lyndenmanning
I like the Taiwanese lady's insight and the way She dissects her understanding of culture and relationships
Yeah right! Simple, straight to the point no more rights and lefts, that is the truth and that is what always happens in real life!
very intelligent woman
you can search her up, she's a youtuber as well. Winnie Wong she's a crazy rich asian kinda here in the Philippines
yes, saw her in alex gonzaga's vlog
timestamp?
I'm a Filipino and married to a wonderful German woman, been together for almost 12 years ❤ I would say at first we've a lot of difficulties specially on the culture subject. I let her live and experience what is the life in the Philippines and she did the same thing for me in Germany. We had to understand and respect our culture differences and as times goes on we learned each other on the positive way, through good times and bad times. My best advice for Filipino men dating western foreigners is to be open minded specially on the culture differences. 😊
Wow... I've never been to Germany, but I've met a good number of German girls in my time. I honestly think they're some of the most beautiful women I've ever seen... But from what I've heard, it seems like our culture and the way we do a lot of things are really different... Germans are known to be cold, upfront and temperamental while Filipinos are known to be warm, indirect and laid back.
I know we're all individuals, but I feel like we're generally incompatible and don't have much in common... But then again, if Filipinas can date German guys and make it work, then we should be able to date German girls and make it work too.
@@thenattygorillaThat’s not true I‘m German but I‘m not cold hearted or too direct. These are just stereotypes
@@thenattygorillaI‘m half German and half Filipina (I was born and I live in Germany) and I have to say it’s the complete opposite, german women are very chill in a relationship like they are never jealous, you can go party, have female friends etc. they don’t care, while Filipinas are very temperamental and you should be careful when in a relationship with a Filipina because some can be really crazy😂 in a good way
That's why I like to try a foreigner girlfriend, because they are open minded
So how did you both meet? I've been in the US for the longest time and from my experience American women are just so different, I think European women are raised better
My husband is the best , I'm American 52 married to 49 yr old Filipino. Best decision.
As a Filipino-Chinese raised in a Western household married to a traditional Filipino man, I would say that all the comments of these women are spot-on. Reason why I hit it off my with my husband is because he’s not a mama’s boy, my biggest issue with Filipino men. Mama’s boys tend to be extremely clingy, overprotective and literally want a woman who’s more like their mom than a woman who can freely be herself.
This is the main reason why FILIPINO men in the philippines are having a hard-time to keep a woman because they try to control their women. 😂😂
Matriarchy and father abenteeism. The Philippines is bountiful of single mothers. The ones who grew up with 2 parents present behave differently.
@@rl8571 frr
@@rl8571it’s easier to spoil than train a child. Seems like the norm in most Filipino households, regardless if the family is complete or a single family. Most of my nephews on my husband’s side are spoiled to the point that you’ve got a 4yo on a baby bottle and diapers with no medical condition whatsoever.
I actually prefer the mama‘s boys
i am a filipino man married to a hot blooded latina from mexico, we’ve been married 35 years and we have 3 amazing sons.
That’s the way
Congrats! Im Chinese-Cambodian and my wife is mexican american. Happily married for 8 years with one daugther, but been together for a total of 16 years now.
Latina is so fucking wild bro
35 years is crazy lol
Most of the Filipino guys commenting are offended by hearing the truth. Being respectful doesn’t mean coddling and being clingy. Give space, be trusting, treat women as equals. Be patient. Not everyone wants to get married as soon as you meet them.
filipino guy's view of respect to women is to do her bidding, just like how they treat their moms.
"treat women as equals"
The truth is, women and men can never be perfectly equal. There will always be things that men, on average, can do better than women, vice versa. You can never make things equal with women, and trying to do so is a Sisyphean task. I'm tired of this bullshit western narrative corrupting the East. It's not a matter of Filipino men "being offended", it's simply just because it's wrong. I'm not saying these to defend the extremely emasculated males either, that's a different issue with a different root, even if it's correlated.
Oh also, men who date to marry in the East definitely still exist, and it's an immense red flag if a woman does not date with the intent to commit. Don't know if that's the case in the west though.
I'm a Filipino and a bit offended because they pointed out my observations of the current generation of Filipino men but hey the truth hurts. Its a good thing they enforced my observations and conclusions.
Some of these foreign opinions are true. Compatibility is more important rather than choosing for ethnicity. The women chosen for interview seemed very westernized in thinking. Many Filipinos, Koreans, Thais and Chinese I knew married to foreign women prefer Eastern European women to Western women(American,British, Canadian) because accordingly, of easier compatibility. I had dated foreign women and Polish, Romanian, and Hungarian are easy to go with because of their family oriented and more religious mindsets. I lived in the US for many years!
yes Filipino men are too feminine for foreigners, too needy, too dramatic, and too girly lol, but if you have money you can definitely make them accept those downsides
Correct that's my point.
As a westerner I'm shocked that there are people that think about ethnicity lol. I thought that was obsolete
@@cooliipie not ethnicity, but culture and tradition. Hook-up culture is very common in US. In general, "body count" is not even talked about in the Philippines because you rarely see women having more than 5 boyfriends in their lifetime. That's what the commenter above was saying about compatibility. Our values and cultures are more similar than in western countries.
@@thecatholicway8797 eastern Europea*
surprisingly foreign women dating filipino men are very prevalent in beach centered places like siargao, la union, moalboal, etc.
Basically places where the men look like men. In BGC, most of the time the jacked guys there look gay/too metrosexual or going for that kpop look
@@blo0mfilter868 wtf is that mean 🤣
foreign women dating filipino women are also surprisingly prevalent.
@@quenchtv5436 lots of guys in bgc look guy even though they are good looking.
@@javier.alvarez764 you mean gay? Probably due to popularity of kpop they follow the trend i just noticed that kpop style are became even more popular to gen z
Appreciate taking the time for this content!
believe me if a foreign woman got Filipino man they will change their point of view about Filipino man.
my Pakistani gf so much in love with me because she feel respected and treat good very well
Interested to know how you two met? Are you also a Filipino guy?
i like the Taiwanese woman, very respectful and very smart to answer! she's got brain
That’s Winnie Wong! She’s a vlogger, too. 😊
time ?
The Taiwanese lady-educated speaker is easy to understand and elaborates perfectly on the culture Thank you
These respondents are so insightful they tick all the boxes of things i wanted to say and more so shout-out to all of them! ♥️
I'm from the Philippines. And all Filipina/Filipino are Hands on the Family. And we have a commitment if we Build a Family.🇵🇭
NOT ALL
So funny. What your saying is not true at all. Many filipino children including me, had a dysfunctional family history. 🤡🙃
Most Filipino men, especially who haven’t been abroad, would love to date a foreigner! But there’s problems like language barrier, perceived as somewhat girly, no backbone and of course: financial constraints!
the Ukrainian girl explained it so well, Filipino men are too feminine and girly for western standards, this is because they are too needy, and look less manly compared to western standard aka short no beard and less muscle
You forgot to add the looks, mentality and 90% are dependent to their parents, like 25 yr old still living with their parents 😂
@@basicallytroll2705 more like their parents are living with them. Most of them have incomes of their own and can separate, but chooses not to because of familial ties or responsibility.
@johnvaliegal6786 As far as I'm concerned and the survey from poll rate, It's the 25 yr old who is still living with their parents. Stop this BS lies 🤣🤣. The parents own the house and can only afford a house around in the range of 30 to 40 yr old, so stop defending yourselves.
@@basicallytroll2705 username checks out
These foreign girls have a point, you just have to listen to them very good. Im Filipino and most of the negative thoughts they're saying are true. But anyways not everyone are the same, theres a lot of good people out there whether your a Filipino or not as long you have a good deeds and intentions, and everyone will get along.🤗👍
yes Filipino men are too feminine for foreigners, too needy, too dramatic, and too girly lol, but if you have money you can definitely make them accept those downsides
We love filipino girls! I know a lot of my 60 yr old friends who found true love in the philippines. Mostly 18 to 22 years old. Fresh as they come! 😝🤑
I don't see them as a negative. More like a cultural difference, which they didn't like but we should also respect their opinion. That being said, negative is in their norm (high divorce rate).
Yup.. Specialy the guys are too girly or malambot.. Wtf happen?? 10yrs ago the ultimate image of being of being a man is to be macho!! Wtf happen? 😂😂
It's not really a negative. It all depends on what you are looking for. A traditional man would see an independent woman as a "negative" for obvious reasons.
As a Filipino Guy , If I meet a foreigner lady that is AFRAID OF COMMITMENTS then that would be a very BIG RED FLAG for me coz basically I would not by all means waste my time and resources in dating a woman (foreigner or not) of which I would already know the ending of it because that woman does not want to commit to a serious relationship....My wife was my friend for 6 months, then I courted her and became my Girlfriend for almost 12 years before we got married....Many of us Filipinos (but not all of course) when we become interested in a lady we are serious about it most of the time and it would be a great courtesy for a lady to be Upfront at the very start and tell the man that She is not into commitments to avoid wasting the time (and resources) of the Filipino man courting her, cheers :D
The one-night stand culture is more common in the West so commitment-wise yes it's pretty sketchy to date a foreign woman if you're a traditional man.
@@StickyKeys187 yeah
Punch her in the gonads
Dont date a foreigner for marriage, use them only for seggs.
True kuya! Raise that flag! Hahah. Filipino girl here, i feel it for the filipino men out there in this content. SSHHEESSH. (Its all about the circumstances)
The Filipino men they're describing are mostly educated and come from middle to upper middle class families and usually grow up surrounded by people who tell them to treat women with respect, to be a gentleman, and to be very caring about women because they represent their own Mom or sisters. So when they get to be in their teens or as adults, they tend to be very tactful, shy and dont really know how to be more assertive with women. But That's the minority of Filipino men. Most Filipino men are dominant, and want to show they're "macho" image or masculinity. The one thing I can say that's common among Filipino men is that they're romantic partners. And will go to some lengths to please their woman. But that doesn't mean they'll let their woman take the lead. You'll get mocked by your male friends if you do that. They'll call you "under the saya" which means you're under your wife's skirt and you're just a wimp
I agree with your comment
You do have a point there. Socio-economic background can be a factor. Overall, just like our Latin counterparts, Filipino men are romantics.
Thats why women should avoid the “macho” type. They will likely cheat and abuse women more like you see in the news all the time
Filipinos mostly put women on a pedestal. And when they feel they don't get back the same treatment form women or the women gets tired of the simpy clingy mamas boy nature or which ever comes first, then the relationship drama usually starts. This is coming from a guy with experience and not from those hopeless romantic virgins.
True. As an Anthropology student in a University, I do noticed that most males are feminized soyboy cucks in the campus. However there are specific courses where these "feminized" men and enrolled in. But the best information I can give is that most male students from engineering are more masculine and the ones from Tourism are feminized of which I am so sorry and disappointed to see.
You need to do a video asking Filipino guys about dating foreign women.
Agree
I have a colleague here in the states, He is from Philippine originally...I was lucky to learn about Filipino People and culture 🤩we are great buddies building and growing our investments together here. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life
Filipinos are lovely and hardworking, unfortunately not everyone is lucky enough to amass wealth
@@NathalieReyes750 You are absolutely right! Success requires hard work and awareness, and sometimes opportunities and a bit of luck..investment remains the best to start
@@LillyRoberts637 absolutely!
@@NathalieReyes750exactly! Many don’t know where to invest their money and lack the tips and information needed to earn passively which I would recommend to beginners
@@Lindastilinski52 I started investing before the pandemic and that same year I pulled a profit of
about $750k with no prior investing experience, basically all I was doing was seeking
guidance from an expert trader and copying her strategies which have proved effective till date.
I'm a Filipino and live here in Brazil for over 2 decade's, lots of eastern female married to a Filipino.
Oh my goodness. Philipino men seem great! They are looking for marriage and a commitment and they're family oriented? What's the problem ladies? They sound awesome and that women have hit the jackpot in the Phillipines! Not to mention they're great singers!
Don't base it off the race. Based it on the person. There are Filipino husbands who are doting family men and those who are deadbeat bums.
@@DONTcareAnymore000 so how do you explain the reason why Pew REsearch 2019 show that USA and Europe are number 1 in single parent household??....
Western women are very superficial, not many Filipino men over 6ft with high salaries
They value marriage yes, but a cheating husband is actually very common and many times excused because "a man is a man." Male friends, co-workers, and family members covering up men cheating are very common.
Most of the household now have both men and women who work but it is still the woman who is expected to do the housework. My female friend is a doctor (and supports the family financially) is still being insulted by her husband because she cannot cook, while the husband is unemployed and barely does anything because they have a helper.
Filipino men (especially in the provinces) commonly have vices - drinking mostly.
That is why a lot of filipinas are trapped in these marriages because there is no divorce or they suffer being a solo parent because not all fathers give child support.
This is not in general of course, but if you live in the philippines long enough, you will see the reality.
@@moonbear7774 Nice Joke... so explain to me why the 2019 Pew Research reveal that USA and Europe have the highest number of Single parent household??.... Explain to me why there are more Single Mothers in USA than anywhere in the world??
my cousin a filipino married a Mexican girl.. in 1986.. to this day..they are still married..
TRUE.. filipino guys are family oriented.. as we all know there is no Divorce in the philippines..for better or for worse as much as possible they stick together
It'd not a girly or shy type..were aggressive in different way.. Were just being RESPECTFULL towards opposite sex... A natural traits of us being a Filipino "Maginoo at may pagka bastos din minsan"...😂💪
But mostly MAGINOO kaya i-flex mo lang yan.
I'm just thinking, if you're one of those tall, dark and handsome guy that every girl dreams of, what if you're dating that Brazilian girl and she wanna make out on your first date, what are you gonna do? Go for it or make some excuses? Will u be MAGINOO or 😁?
Foreign women are more open to sex than Filipina women. Sex first then you can become maginoo later they won't like acting bastos
@@javapuaIn my experience, what I did is I rejected girls offer for one night stand.
I only offer my services to a potential partner or if I'm in a relationship with someone.
I know sometimes it is tempting to give in but self control is stronger and there's no way you'll get a free taste if you're not my girlfriend or spouse.
This is one of the things I LOVE about Filipinos.
@@javapua my brother would not even try to offer an umbrella to someone when it’s raining😂😂 but he had a crush for a long time but never had a talk to her even once😂😂
My daughters are going to spend theirs teens there, so I kind of expect them getting involved with Filipino guys.
This was good info. Thank you so much to take the time to put it together.
Wrong here in United States many Filipino guys height are mostly 5"10 to 6 foot tall. So they are not short. I see many Brazilian guys & other foreigners short in United States. Also there more Filipinos guys with white women in United States. If you go to Filipino restaurant or other stores I see pinoy husband white women couples and with kids.
The idea that family or parents needs approval with regards to having relationship is only prevalent for the wealthy but for the common families that is not an issue.
I tell you, even the poorest Filipino family has that culture. If the parents do not like the guy or the girl, you will forever have that friction with the family hahahah
Agree 👍💯
not really.
100% agree with Ark Ace
@@mavrickhentsibayan395and that's what we call toxicity=drama😆😆
I have several philippino friends that are men. I like them a lot and consider them to be loyal and courteous friends. I wouldn't want to be the one to make them angry.
It all comes down to where is the Filipino was born and raised. Filipinos here in the Philippines will treat their foreign girlfriends like gold the same way the females treat their foreigners boyfriends. If you go to the states Filipinos are no different than any other American. But I think it's way harder for Filipino men in the Philippines to hook up with foreign females they would consider attractive. The country pretty much thrives off of their females hooking up with foreign men.
Off topic but im a Filipino American and this vid made me miss BGC, I visited last summer and was amazed at the city because it was definitely not there when I visited as a child 😂
9:58 I love this lady. I feel her appreciations and support on Filipino and in the Philippines. I wish more fun and happy staying in the Philippines ❤❤❤🇵🇭
Yeah she sounds such a lovely and kind hearted woman right
You should post more videosss broo i'll keep on supporting you!!
New Friend , Proud to be a Filipino here❤❤🇵🇭🇵🇭
Great content. Such rich topic has not been talked about too much in this country. Like any other guy in the world, regardless of nationality, we Filipino men value loyalty, commitment, trust, and appreciation from our partners :)
I wish the person I was talking few weeks ago had appreciated all the loyalty I tried to show him eventhoug I am on the other part of the planet.
Interesting channel you have with interesting perspectives. However, if you take the time to look, there are many TH-cam channels with Filipino men in relationships. Men who are married or dating many different foreign women: U.S. Canadian Danish, Brazilian, Japanese, Finnish, Ukrainians, Polish, Italian, Swedish, German, French, Norwegian, Russian, Lithuanian, Polish, Austrian, and the list goes on. Appreciate the directness and honesty of the women interviewed.
Dated most of them in your list. US Canadian Brazilian Japanese Ukrainian Russian hindi pa.
Icelandic, Netherlands, Czech Republic, Spanish , Turkish , British, Belgian. Paki add sa mga na date ko.
Pero sa tingin ko sa Pinay pa din ako mappa end up hanggang ma dedbol na siguro.
Filipino men are too feminine for foreigners, too needy, too dramatic, and too girly lol, but if you have money you can definitely make them accept those downsides, the filipino you see married to foreigners are ofw which is completely different because ofw are more westernized and less feminine
@@unggoytraderAt least nasubukan mo sila tsong! Don't knock it before trying it! 🍻😎
I am far from a "social butterfly" but I personally know DOZENS of Western women who have "gone native" here during their stay in Pinas! Most of them actually tend to be Europeans (especially Russian, French, British and German women)...
My first foreign woman was French, but I have dated Russian and African women as well. Also had "near misses" with at least two British women in parties.
I can tell you with confidence I am far from alone in my social circles when it comes to this. Some of my fellow kababayans in my circles have much longer lists when it comes to this than I do. 🤣🤣🤣
I am happy being a Filipino.
I like how winnie answered and explain. ☺️
You are a lucky guy to meet her also. ☺️
Rob, your interviews are at its best. Keep it up & going.
There are a lot of feminine & queer guys in BGC area so i could definitely relate to that Brazilian woman.
I love your street/mall interviews here in the philippines. I suggest u to do foreign interviews in greenbelt malls or rockwell in makati or in poblacion at night and ofcourse in the island beaches of the philippines. Looking forward to more interviewing foriegners in the ph. Good luck rob. Take care.
Hey Rob. Its a fun video you make! Hope u can make other topics
Amazing episode!
The girls who had been interviewed had said thier experiences maybe here in the Philippines, but i would say the Ukrainian her last words is the best, the asian girl also said correct. The brazilian girl is more on western mind set. As filipino we like commitment and want to have nice family.
Understood, but if filipino really like commitment and want to have nice family i wonder why too many filipinas that are single moms in ph and abroad working their asses of to provide for their family and babies growing up with no father and having broken families in Philippines. Why too much filipino guys leave their kids and wives for another woman and once he impregnate the other woman, he move to the next and the next… if we are really wanting commitment and having nice family, why filipinos have so much broken families and single moms
@@debraglows This is my opinion as a filipino. Broken families can be
1. Due to poeverty. Filipino men are allowed by the catholic church to jave more kids and family planning is not allowed also by catholic church. Empty stomach can cause separation either the men work abroad or the women find another men to support her.
2. Filipinos men think when they have more kids its an image of being Macho.
3. The catholic church doesnt allow family planning and doesnt allow divorce equals broken families.
4. Even in Europe Sweden has the highest number of divorce followed by other european countries.
5. I have lived in germany since 1993 maybe you were not born that year. Germany has lots of divorces as well. But the government takes care of thier low income citizens.
6. I can explain more but what is happening in the Phillippine marriage is happening as well in many countries.
7. Online searchers for partners can be a cause as well of separations....and so on and so fort.
8. Unfortunaley men (women) dont have satisfaction in this world. Men continue in search for life, a true life. Lives can only be good, can only be better single or not ONCE They have Jesus in thier Lives. Jesus predicted the kind of life we have on earth being away from Him....like Homosexuality it is mention in old testament the Sodom and Gomorah where sex for men is just like a toy. Life is amazing if they have the Life Giver in thier Lives. Welcome to the Philippines🙂🇵🇭🌹🏝️👍
@@debraglows its not only filipino men's fault lol stop being one sided, you think all that filipino single mom's are casually left by filipino partner for no reason? Very one sided
@@user-jy3vb5jt6h😂👍
@@user-jy3vb5jt6h You hit the nail on the right spot friend. The Filipinas commitment during the honeymoon phase is very fake. They always blame men for all the failures. The woman is also have a part in it.
Licensed professional counselor Lexie Lee explains that the real difference between deep love and infatuation is that the state of being “in love” can’t survive a difficult patch or the realities of life. “Infatuation is focused on the facade we want to project to the world,” she says. “When you move from ‘in love’ to ‘love,’ a deepening intimacy has occurred. You have to be vulnerable and share who you are on a deeper level. You feel safe to be yourself.”
Dude! Need part 2
Refreshing! A different perspective.❤
I’m Filipino and happily married to Indonesian American for 14 with 2kids. Filipino men shy and girly 😂 I never really met one. My Uncles are bunch of play boys. My Dad’s brother have 4 wives all at the same time. I had friends that just came from Philippines and would pull games at the clubs.
Not something to flex tho
I married a Filipina, She's so loving and caring all the time. By the way, I'm a Filipino.
Lol
How much? 😂
my husband is filipino
As a Filipino guy, I’d be open to dating SE Asian women who are conservative and family-oriented like many Filipinas I know. I also find Indian women and Latinas beautiful. Modern Western women never appealed to me. I also know that not a lot of Western women like Asian guys. Many Asian guys from Western countries go back to their origin countries to look for spouses. Even Western guys are looking outside their countries for wives. There are too many red flags, especially from those Western and local women who engaged in hook-up culture. I don’t think many Filipinos will want serious relationships with women who have been with many men.
Western women is just for fun
Actually, Western women with Pinoy partners here in Pinas are NOT as rare as they were 15-20 years ago (and I actually personally know DOZENS of Western women who have "gone native" at some point during their stay here). Just because for instance American women don't date/hook up with Pinoy men much does NOT mean Western women of other nationalities aren't willing to try it.
Most Western women I have come across in real life (both randomly and among people in my various social circles) who have gotten themselves Pinoy partners here in Pinas are actually European women (particularly Russian, French, British and German ones). But I admit, it often tends to be much easier to meet foreign women in beach resort town settings (think Boracay, El Nido, Siargao and their ilk) than in a big city like Metro Manila (where you have to know the "right circles" to gain access to them)!
@@mrconfusion87 Yes, I've heard about European women who married Filipino guys. Many of those women came from countries in Eastern Europe (Poland, Ukraine, etc.), that are relatively traditional and in sync with our family-oriented culture. It helps that they are usually fit, friendly, and feminine, like many Filipinas are. Some look like models. What’s not to like? But in my circle, Filipino guys usually go for Filipinas, and vice-versa. My Filipino guy peers married in our twenties to local girls. No chance to get seriously involved with foreign girls even when they were assigned or have migrated to other countries. They can be considered as the top 1% in our country. The richest and most good-looking of us was engaged right out of college to a similarly attractive, not as wealthy Filipina. She pursued him. They are doing great. The good ones are taken out of the dating pool early. Some of my friends hooked up with local models when they were younger and broke but chose to marry traditional Filipinas later. A couple of my friends who were assigned abroad were popular with foreign girls. The girls they hooked up with were mostly Asian and some East European. One considered marrying a Lebanese woman but chose a Filipina girlfriend in the end. He also told me had good working relations with East European women and men because of similar cultures and attitudes. The two Filipinas I personally know who engaged in some hook-ups married traditional Filipino guys in the US. I doubt if the husbands know of their past. Those women are now traditional wives who defer to their spouses and are proud of it. One has a Master’s degree in a STEM field but chose to be a housewife. The traditional Filipinas I personally know who married foreign guys in the US outright are the ones who were considered wallflowers in high school. They were nice and friendly, but the competition for guys was fierce. Almost all the guys, including nerds and socially awkward ones, in our social circle have married and stayed married. On the other hand, we have a lot of single ladies who still want Filipino guys even if they have much better chances with foreign guys. One career woman married down, financially speaking, to an American bum. She bought her own engagement ring and paid for the wedding herself. She runs the house. She seems toxic, and no guy in our circle wanted her even if she’s probably a top-percenter in the US and is not bad-looking even to Filipino guys. I’ve read that Filipino guys were also reportedly popular with American women during the 1900s in California. Some of them were discriminated against and mobbed by local guys because of jealousy. That’s written in Fil-American history journals. The Western women I’m referring to in my previous comment are the modern women who are the "boss babes/ultra-feminists" who think men should serve them because they exist and that it’s ok to hook up with many men. They are usually from the USA, the UK, a large part of Europe, and, anecdotally, Australia. We also have those in the Philippines, but not as prevalent, and you can spot them miles away. No self-respecting Filipino will want a delusional girl with a high body count. You are right. There are also American/European women who married Filipinos. Many of those women have stayed in-country for a bit. Some are children of missionaries and appreciate the local culture. They also married in their 20's and probably didn’t have time to be ruined by the Western hook-up culture and feminism. There were lots of missionary families here two-three decades ago, Western women marrying Filipinos happens, but not nearly as often as Western men to Filipinas. Western women also generally look down on Asian men. You can see many stereotypes against Asian men coming from Western women in the mainstream and social media. Why bother? Chinese (mainland), Korean, and Japanese women are also attractive to many Filipinos, aesthetics-wise, but the culture seems a bit different. I personally don’t like women who are materialistic, have cosmetic surgeries, and wear lots of makeup. I see lots of ordinary Filipinas who do not need much help to be attractive. The ones I interact with daily usually have great personalities as well. They probably can get foreign men if they want to. I think that applies to many SE Asian women, too. I plan to travel around the region next year.
@@orlandodizon4755 Thanks for clarifying what you meant by "Western women"... I knew it couldn't mean "all white women" by any stretch of the imagination, as even amongst "whites" there are a huge amount of differences among them! Btw, I was speaking as a mid-30s Pinoy yuppie in the Philippines that lives in the city but travels around the country for fun who has pretty diverse social circles despite not being a "social butterfly" - though I admit a large chunk of my friends in my various social circles prolly aren't exactly what people would describe as "square" in terms of personality, and tend to have strong artistic/creative/bohemian tendencies... 😊
BINNGO! And to correct the video, Western women are not independent they only say that when the idea of them having to cater to a man gets brought up. But in reality they are more known to be gold-diggers, and gold-diggers are not independent they are bums!
So accurate when the lady said Filipino men can easily be used. Over and over and over again sadly.
As a filipino I can confirm what they told about us is true. All of it. But for me I won't treat them a housewife all the time. They can do whatever they want like, have a job and be independent. They can have job for them to be also a successful. I will respect their decision. As long as they won't cheat on you when you're married then there's no problem.
To my fellow filipinos out there, if you wanted to date and have a foreign wife, listen to them. Do not just stick to our own culture. We also need to blend in.
In a word,compromise
Most Filipino do not treat women like a housewife. Most women just want to be a housewife and that's just it even though we Filipino's give them freedom to do whatever they want.
@@Vergil20000 Women who wanted to be full time housewife are only applied to those women who are conservative(Most likely). Liberated women doesn't want to be treated that way.
@@Vergil20000 most accurate comment
Women in the Philippines prefers to be housewife tho
Girly? lol. Westerners have always misunderstood this about us. Not just approaching women. We've also been called "subservient" until they find out we're not. lol. It's a cultural thing. We're not as agressive as western men when it comes to women. We tend to e very careful in our approach to women, which makes it easy to to call us "girly"...until they find out we're not. lol.
What you're describing is being shy, not girly. Many filipinos definitely act girly. Ever heard others say "bakla ba yan?" Many guys take selfies all day, mga pa cute. Yung iba mga pabebe. Mga pa fall. Yung tipong kaka kilala pa lng sa girl, pag hindi agad na replayan, kukulitin ung girl hanggang mag reply. Those are girly traits. Pag may nakikilala akong ganyan nilalayuan ko, nababaklaan ako.
@@Misaki11111 you're probably talking about teenagers or high school boys., or even early 20 somethings, or just not the right kind of boys. haha If guys still act pa-cute in their late 20's or early thirties, I assure you they'd be getting flak, not just ffrom women / girls but men peers as well. lol
Girly means how asians look. Just look at those KPop. You cannot differentiate a man from woman base solely on their faces. I see them as Lesbians because they look like little girls. The influence of Kpop is becoming rampant in the Philippines. Some of these boys are like little girls unlike western men they know how to act like a real man.
@@Misaki11111 Boba spotted HAHAHAHA Be quiet na lang po
@@binaurallegends8229hahhaah wag mo naman ehh pranka
This would be heaven for Traditional Men! “Family Oriented”!
Oh Winnie Wong her bf is Filipino and they already have baby. I think she's the sister in law of Direk Paul hubby of Toni Gonzaga. 😅
Yup😊
I (german) am in a relationship with a philipina girl. I met this people and their culture during my working contracts on a cruiser. They are Very good seamans btw. One thing i learned: the advandige of interracial relationship is that the partners often dont understand each other 100% by terms of ther native language, which makes you and your Partner kind of immune against marytess/ marytoss (gossip). Also what i learned: white people are one of the most wanted Partners but they are also most difigulcts ones regarding their behaivor because they are Very selfish and arrogant. Social media is not Very good for all of us btw
Western men are only getting the low quality Ugly asian woman and the low class women desperate for money.... Most western men can't even differentiate what is ugly and beautiful asian face...they are afflicted with the psychological phenomenon of 'Cross Race effect'.... Second, Korean pop culture dominate the country... Asian men is the favorite of philippine women and many Expats vlog don't even want to mention about this....
We Filipinos don't mind dating foreign girls it's just depend if the girl appreciate what Filipino men can give or what they have. Because sometimes it's about the standards of a Filipino men if his rich then its no problem. But for Filipino men who is not rich, it's just kinda like you ar lucky to find foreign girls who appreciate what you have and what can you offer.
Filipino ako. Youdon't know what you're talking about! What you're saying is BS!!!
I really love the Taiwanese girl especially the way how she talks 👏🤗💕
She’s a bit popular in thr Phils , I don’t know if she’s really taiwanese or just living in Taiwan.
@@9Blackcat I think she's originally from Taiwan but grew up here and yes she is a popular TH-camr
She’s Winnie Wong! She vlogs, too. 😊
@@9Blackcat Taiwanese but grew up here
@@ronsabsalon3670 yes
I was excited for the video idea when I saw the title but you only asked two women mainly & one small clip of another woman at the end which is not enough. I wish you asked like 10 & compiled them all in 1 video. Love the video though.
Listen guys, majority of women are hypergamous. Meaning they will only date up and along the same socio economic level.
You will never see a woman lawyer or CEO of a company date a starbucks barista ( no disrespect)
She will be looking for some one higher than her.
Whereas us guys will have no problem dating down as long as she is fit fun feminine and will not give is headache all the time.
So guys level up.
Make your bank happy, go to the gym and learn to be sociable.
That way you level up as much as possible and you will have a wider choice of women instead of thinking in a scarcity mindset.
If a woman you are dating does not comply to your frame ( frame is your preferences) then let go.
#dothework
#chaseexcellence
You got this big man 👍 🏋️♀️ 💪 ❤
we filipinos is not straight forward when we are meeting someone that we totally dont know, were humble filipino guys, even if we know the girl, humbleness still runs in our blood (normal filipino guy) but if you want straight forward filipinos, we can be that too, its in favor for us because it will cut time and effort, and money too.
Yeeee, you did it 💪💪
As a Filipino with European partner right now, I think it's just a matter of finding the right person for you regardless of the race. Tho most western girls want to pay for themselves or share expenses. If it's not that way, maybe you should assess the situation if they are just only using you or not.
I‘m ,,western’‘ but I don’t really wanna pay for myself or share expenses. It might be the religious background I grew up with that had an impact on my thinking but I think there are things that men are better at and there are tasks that women are better at. It should be separated. Depends on the values honestly
@@vanillagrammer6019most of the time for that to actually work you gotta cook like I see a lot of traditional couples that women takes care of house and man pays for trip with friends or mall or if they both work women cook man wash dishes and does some chores
@@travis1271 Exactly! I would cook, take care of the house and children. That the household chores are separated is often not the case among ,,modern‘‘ couples. I often see that both are working, but the women is still expected to do all the household chores by herself. But I completely agree with your comment.
Would be wonderful if you had interviewed more
Well, a lot of Ukrainian women are married to Filipino men.
looking for ukranian refugee 😅😅
Same here
The Rissians are coming, the Russians are coming!
sana ol
not good content
As a Filipino guy, I definitely understand what those foreign girls were saying... I've met and seen a lot of foreign girls who are willing to date us, but it rarely happens because of the reasons they gave in this video. It's painful to hear, but true nonetheless. That being said, there are still Filipino (and Asian) guys out there who do well with white women. I think it's just the mismatch in culture and social dynamics that turns white (and foreign) girls off in most cases.
And I think the main reason why there are WAY more Filipinas with foreign guys than there are Filipinos with foreign girls is because Filipino culture is matriarchal, so masculinity is pretty sparse in our upbringing as men. When the girls in the video started talking about how Filipino men were "feminine" I immediately knew what they were talking about. Being "feminized" as a man doesn't just mean acting like Vice Ganda or something like that. There's a masculine energy that you exude which comes out in the way you act and conduct yourself. They'll see it in the small things you do, the way you express yourself, your mannerisms, your values and so many other things... Women can definitely perceive all of that.
I can only hope the next generation of Filipino guys become aware these flaws in our culture and upbringing and end them.
She said feminine as in baby face and no facial hair. Typical East Asian features. If Jason Momoa had the Filipino boyfriend character and personality, they’d be gushing about how he’s such a gentleman and would make the perfect husband. Filipinos are great. Western masculinity is toxic.
Philippines is a matriarchal country??? This is the first time that I've heard that. 😂
I wouldnt say that our filipino men's "femininity" should be called weak. I think part of the issue is that for most other places that, unfortunately, it isn't perceived as a "desirable" characteristic in men compared to someone perceived as more "masculine" :/
I think the ability to see the value(and perhaps the disadvantages) in both sides and to be able to discern which "side" can be applicable in certain situations can help a person become more well-rounded. Why cant a person be both anyways? But anyways, this issue feels like smth that needs a more lengthened and thoughtful discussion that, i, am too brain-dead rn to engage in 😂
Lol cope. Look at Hollywood. You see asian females fetishised but asian men made into gays or jokes. Prior to 2015 every asian guy was asexual. Mr chow in hungover, will hung from American idol, Jet li who couldn’t kiss a girl on camera.
Asian men on dating apps have the lowest match rate by every race. Meanwhile asian girls have the highest.
Nothing to do with culture. Women will say anything to justify what they feel.
Actually its because asian culture in general lacks that open dating dynamics. Most of us asian, men specifically are very rooted to our culture and custom that dating or sex before marriage is looked as taboo. This is the reason why most asian men lacks that 'game' when it comes to approaching women because there's little to no experience and most asian men in general don't have that 'smooth talk' because it's never been developed like I said. Most tourists gets the local women because they come with all the boxes checked on how to's and whatnot because western society specifically is more open about dating and sex and they're direct with their approach. Most asian men in general would never make the move because it comes back to the cultural appropriateness again. I know this for a fact because I'm indian and majority of the guys out here are just as described above and it would take a very patient and caring women to actually want to take their time out to fall in love with a local guy.
open minded and not to be judgemental is the key .... my advise to the brazillian girl
I think she had bad experiences and haven't met the good ones
as a Filipino. we highly respect women and marriage here.
yeah, but we also have a lot of out wedlock babies. My cousin has 5 FIRST BORNS!!! to this day still not married.
Philippines has the highest rate of children out of wedlock in SE/East Asia i think.
Cant speak for everybody but not all filipino men are respectful towards women
@@carlloren5499and same with Western world.
Then why are there so many single mothers and women going to woman's desk 😜
Thank you for chosing Philippines ❤
I appreciate your efforts on this video...
About the Brazilian girl, looking good in Brazil is such a competitive thing. I remember Daiana Menezes once said that her face in Brazil is a normal face, and she probably wouldn't stand out. But she's such an attractive lady here. And usually Brazilians here in the Philippines have jobs as commercial or runway models.
her face is just typical
Brazil standard of Handsomeness is good body built and Thick Beards...they look like Tikbalangs..... Give that Brazilian woman a Dose of Korean Pop Boy bands, and I am sure she will change her standards.....LOL
@@norushicdtad
Who Menezes face or that Brazilian who called Filpino Men's faces looks girly and feminine?
@@awakenedsoul2638 Daiana
Foreign women especially American women who are looking for a traditional man will have a culture shock here in the Philippines. The biggest culture shock would be the close family ties we have. It's not uncommon here for children to still live near their parents or even with their parents as adults. American women might be surprised by this, as many of them think that adults should be independent. That's not how things work here in the Philippines. We value family very much. It's not uncommon then to take care of our family especially when our parents are elderly. Often it's either they move in with the children or the children stay to support the parents. Again it is what it is here, and if a Filipino guy has an American girlfriend he might want to have sit down and talk with her or explain to her what she's seeing if she visits.
I’m filipino married to a beautiful filipina and grew up half my life in the Philippines and moved to the US when I was about 19. I definitely agree that guys typically are too clingy and that’s what the culture before was. But I think nowadays, that attitude is now changing. It’s just a matter of adjusting to the differences. And that’s really up to each individual. It’s interesting to see how different cultures percieve other cultures.
I was an expat from Singapore working in Manila. Agreed with most of the points made. Singaporeans are more open to various cultures and ethnicities due to the diverse population.
Look forward to meet this ladies in BGC
Interesting that the first Miss Universe, Armi Kousuela of Finland, married a filipino, Gil Hilario.
Yup
Even the first Miss International Stella Marquez from Colombia, married to Jorge Araneta.
So what? Nobody cares.
@@Misaki11111 your left behind? Hate your self not the world ! Bruh!
@Misaki11111, this lunatic is literally everywhere in the comment section
Nice Content Rob, ☺️☺️💫❤️
Great content!
when a filipino love a woman, it will last a lifetime ... they will treat you like a queen ...his salary as a husband wil be given to you to manage the finances, so you better know how to handle money .
this video gave me confidence that filipino like me can date female foreigners
Im filipino and if you look a good heart to love and care to understand and to have a happy family..im waiting for someone that God give me🥰
It would be good if you make part 2
foreign women problem with filipino men is the culture when it comes to sex , we consider sex as sacred .
Meanwhile, as a Filipino guy like me here in San Diego USA dating a Ukrainian woman as well lol.
Whille men in the PH prefer filipinas
the ones who f* around with foreign women are the Fil-Westerners.
The woman who introduced herself as from Taiwan is actually Winnie Wong and a youtuber herself
hello good morning rob nice video i watching from dumaguete philippines
How can anyone have enjoyed Sir. When you have interviewed a very limited number for additional data regarding Filipino men.
Love and attraction are the most important then the rest will follow. Filipinas are hard working when it comes to their lovelife. They want serious commentment that includes having children. while filipino guys are lazy about their lovelife (some) and can't be bothered by other aspect of married life compared to filipino women. dont get me wrong here, guys are also seriously committed and they love foreign women too but this stuff isnt their top priority. i believe this mindset dates back during spanish down to american time in the philippines where local women who got married to spañol or amboi, have seen their children and how beautiful is the combination of two blood together. and mostly, those mixed blooded filipinos fetched the higher level in society particularly in showbiz, business and carrer opportunities and beauty contests! (a lot them are beauty queens) Filipina mothers are dreamers as well as disciplinarian for their children and they are willing to go beyond (in a nice way possible) and this is their common ground...
@Gaming Site There's nothing wrong with that my dear... its two people's decision to get married. as long as they are inlove and who wouldnt fall inlove a handsome dude? every woman is dreaming about this...
That's True the Filipino are family oriented and very loving
To all my ahhh..fellow Pilipinohs.... now this is my side.... Listen, look and listen and learn
Wow, many different foreigners now in Manila huh.
When the ukrainian says when he provide i will provide, thats what partners do, its a green flag for me atleast both of you wants a better future for ur family😊
im a filipino.. and i like your interview..
Good observation ❤❤❤
I dated 5 different nationalities,just a tip for my kababayan, don’t be a simp and too much respectful. Just be playful and don’t show you like them straight away or else you’re creepy to them especially to the western women. Just make them laugh then ask them to go out for a coffee but take them to the pub or after having a coffee 😂
@Relly Jay Lanaja exactly bro.we Pinoys fall in love easily haha,I have a half Aussie girl friend(not a gf) she told me when she stayed in the Philippines for more than a year,she has heaps of suitors.they all want to marry/in a relationship with her right away,giving her a lot of gifts and texting all the time.Napaka creepy daw Sabi nya,haha
Haha we've got it right pre.. ako naka 3 banyaga nang inahin brits japs and Arab with 5kids na😂😂 arat na sa tatlo at pang 5kids lang yong kaya ku ma sustain na Allotment ng mga bata😂
Generally speaking, many Asians prioritize family and place great importance on maintaining strong bonds with their relatives, particularly during challenging times. This is one of the reasons why there tend to be fewer homeless individuals in Asia. In contrast, many Westerners value independence, and some Western women prefer to be treated as equals rather than relying on traditional gender roles. In Western society, the significance of family structure is diminishing as some individuals prioritize having a life partner over a traditional spouse.
I appreciate Elona’s advice on dating. 🤟🏼
Oh you interviewed Winnie Wong. Cool!
One reason why most Filipino men still prefer Filipinas.
Exactly. Even western men like Filipinas for the exact reason. Western women are generally liberated and if they bring that mentality here, filipino men in general don't want that. Those who happen to fall in love with them think that they will act the same way a filipina would, but in general they don't.
@@thecatholicway8797 unfortunately, there are some Filipinas (pinays with pinoy parents), esp those who grew up in the US specifically, who are becoming and acting like western women as you have described.
@@thecatholicway8797aybe not as a serious gf/wife, but most Pinoy men will NOT say no to a chance to sleep with a white women when the opportunity presents itself...
@@thecatholicway8797 Foreigners think it is easy to get a filipina, without them knowing that they are only getting the ugly ones and the left overs.... Foreigners continue to fail to detect the symmetry of faces... They think all asians look the same....LOL
@@geraldzano142 there r many stupid asian ladies ( not all )who think they r western if they r born or are living in west and follow policy aka "no dating asian policy" they all r ignorant and forget who they r actually and wannabe western