Uvalde Teacher Details Experiencing Survivor’s Remorse Following Mass Shooting

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  • Nicole Ogburn is a fourth-grade teacher who survived the Robb Elementary School massacre on May 24, 2022. She joins our “Uvalde Back to School” special to give us an inside look at her life three months after the horrifying shooting. Nicole also gets candid about her mission to return to the classroom as the shaken community braces for the start of a new school year.
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  • @nikki8238
    @nikki8238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Nicole is a close friend of our family and one of the most genuine and caring individuals.
    Life has been so difficult for almost all of us since that awful day. I’m so proud of her for taking the necessary steps and working through the trauma and the survivors guilt she feels. It’s not easy, and it’s not always easy to talk about either.
    Thank you Tamron, for such a heartfelt and empathetic interview.

    • @jisundergroundfornow2548
      @jisundergroundfornow2548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Please send my prayers to her.... No one should have to go through that. I still remember the aftermath of the Parkland and coordinated with someone who's grandson was at school during work.

    • @Chihuahua-chica
      @Chihuahua-chica ปีที่แล้ว +1

      the staff at Uvalde r heros!!! They r such inspirations!! May God bless them and watch over them. Peace and Love to all involved

  • @Leo-kl6ym
    @Leo-kl6ym 2 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Because of this horrible tragedy I decided to go work at my kids school as a teacher assistant (para professional). I just have to be there in case something happens, I will die fighting. Took a major Major pay cut because teacher assistants and teachers get payed literal Shit but my family comes first before anything else.

    • @rebeccaturner5113
      @rebeccaturner5113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I did the exact same thing this year. Quit my well paying career job to be with my kids at school as an assistant. I don’t regret it one single bit.

    • @lilirishgrl
      @lilirishgrl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Blessings to you, your family and students.

    • @vivito15
      @vivito15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Doing the same.

    • @antipeople3935
      @antipeople3935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      thank you you deserve to be paid as much as they pay football players

    • @alet4054
      @alet4054 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I decided to quit my teaching job and homeschool my 6year old boy. Blessings 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼to everyone.

  • @josephadiaz8343
    @josephadiaz8343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I can't help but tear up when I see these teachers and the children being interviewed, imagine what they're going through reliving that sad day.❤️🙏✝️

    • @aralyacosta3596
      @aralyacosta3596 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same I’m in line waiting for my child in Odessa looking at this crying at this video

  • @DancingOnGlass89
    @DancingOnGlass89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    It hurts my heart that these teachers have use the " well if I don't go back my kids won't trust it's safe". Teachers were already special in my heart. Y'all deserve the pay checks the actors or sports people get.

  • @jaredhaynes2066
    @jaredhaynes2066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This just made me tear up all over again. I wish those kids were still here😢

  • @deborahallen487
    @deborahallen487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Tamron, your quiet, calm interviewing style was peaceful. Nice to see a different approach.
    Nicole, you are a true teacher. So many comments putting the kids first. You can feel your devotion and kindness.
    Only saying this if it's helpful. I've been teaching 21 years. I completely changed that day, too. I happened to be home watching TV. I was done with my school year. I watched the big newscasters like Lester Holt choke up on air. But the change happened when I realized how my school and school's I've been at here in Tucson and Phoenix are almost identical socioeconomic. Robb looked like a setting I'm familiar with. It hit me hard. Physically ill. Teaching has always been my passion even though it came later in life. Quitting is not an option.
    This being said, imagine, we had a REAL lockdown on our first day of school 8 weeks ago. Police chase with a weapon involved near our school. It was 930 in the morning! On our 1st day. I was assisting a long term sub with her 2nd grade class. If it hadn't been the first week, I would have been in my own English as a second language classroom. Immediately, I knew it was REAL. I heard God say, you are in here to help everyone stay calm and show what you know. The sub had never even experienced a practice lockdown but was incredible. The kids were under their desks in seconds. We ended up having to stay in lockdown for an hour. One child is advanced, he started melting down. It's like he knew there was a real threat. Yes, a 7yr old 😥. I ended up pulling him and 2 other companion kids under a horseshoe table to try for togetherness. The kids automatically held hands. We all did. Then, the child said I'm feeling myself get more scared. This was around the half hour mark. I was dressed in all black that day. Out of nowhere I whispered, don't tell anyone but I'm really a ninja. Lol. He then said, "oh I love ninjas, I want to be one when I grow up." He was calm for the following half hour. Kids had to use the garbage can as a toilet. This is NOT the experience kids or teachers should be having. Our new existence has changed so much, so quickly, due to all the violence. There has been zero time to adapt.
    Nicole, please pray for gentleness towards yourself. You are one of a kind!!! A teaching angel 😇. Thank you for your strength.

  • @aralyacosta3596
    @aralyacosta3596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    BLESS HER HEART!!! Lord wrap your arms around that town touch each one of them give them life lord and peace to keep going.

  • @jonmcintosh2729
    @jonmcintosh2729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This woman is so courageous to go back there and teach. Tamron is a good interviewer. So many interviewers make the interview more about themselves rather than person they are interviewing.

  • @fauxbro1983
    @fauxbro1983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    This woman shouldn't feel guilty
    The dozen of law enforcement officers who stood outside the room for at least 30 min should.

    • @SummertimeFine95
      @SummertimeFine95 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@stephguz No 💗

    • @mrsbieber076
      @mrsbieber076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@stephguz no the cops are 100000% to blame they sat there and heard those children die their excuse is the doors were locked but they never checked the doors

    • @anthonybautista3585
      @anthonybautista3585 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stephguz well if that was her then ya but they do need to be held accountable.im surprised they are still working n plus some were actually there for the first day of school

    • @kaytee5031
      @kaytee5031 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stephguz what babe? The videos the rest of the world watched showed exactly that. So please, do tell, what videos did you see?

    • @henriettasmith2618
      @henriettasmith2618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stephguz that’s not true; the cops bear some responsibility. Some of the deaths weren’t sudden. More could have survived if they got medical attention quickly.

  • @parmjeetnijjar4820
    @parmjeetnijjar4820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Made me cry alot listening to the teacher talking, she is an amazing woman and will do what she can for those kids

  • @dreamcatcher5502
    @dreamcatcher5502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hang in there Nicole. Survivors guilt is real. I had it after surviving a wildfire. It lasted 6 months or so. You will slowly heal from this and you will be OK. I promise you sweetie !! Thank you for your incredible work and bravery !!! YOU ARE LOVED !!! 😘❤

  • @jordanthompson6717
    @jordanthompson6717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    They need a new school, clean of that very tragic day. That school is still full of heroes. It takes a lot to go back. God bless these adults and children, as well as their families. Rest Easy to the Angel's that lost their lives on that ugly day 🙏❤

  • @joannepackus5736
    @joannepackus5736 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So Brave! Thank You For Coming Back To Teach! The kids need teachers like you to give them stability. The bad people of the world can not win.

  • @kathyclark2394
    @kathyclark2394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Sending prayers for all the teachers from that school. I pray they put all those kids together in their grade instead of spreading them out into classrooms that they don't hardly know anyone.

  • @nessa3070
    @nessa3070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This would be a really confronting time. The emotions for everyone. You are a brave lady, the children are lucky to have you. The world needs more like you . Those lives will never be forgotten ❤️

  • @heatherangel101
    @heatherangel101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    What an incredible woman… I can’t imagine going through all of that trauma and loss.

    • @emilybroh7004
      @emilybroh7004 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was about to say the same thing. She’s incredibly strong and persevering.

  • @Sunny-cj5ic
    @Sunny-cj5ic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    ❤️ & That’s what classrooms need to hear and feel around the world. LOVE 💗

  • @dashelledisna6239
    @dashelledisna6239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    That tragedy messed me up for weeks😭🙃

  • @leek-te5dx
    @leek-te5dx ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bless this lady. You have love for your profession and all those students. You are the reason strength and courage will remain.

  • @Tula_Bear
    @Tula_Bear 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This woman is incredible ❤️

  • @monicacecil4984
    @monicacecil4984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sending prayers for everyone in Uvalde

  • @barkeyes8592
    @barkeyes8592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is so heartbreaking!

  • @tawnytirado143
    @tawnytirado143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Amazing heartfelt interview

  • @mandymurphy7382
    @mandymurphy7382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Praying for the teachers there in uvaldie.

  • @shadymccoy7
    @shadymccoy7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Prayers for her and the kids and for all the families. 🙏🏾💜

  • @lgutierrez9592
    @lgutierrez9592 ปีที่แล้ว

    When she said we as teachers are trying to make our classrooms a safe place hopefully
    That just got me. School should be a safe place no doubt. God keep all children and teachers safe.

  • @bryan3487
    @bryan3487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Why them and not me is the hardest question you can think to answer. If you are dealing with something like this visit your local veteran's group. Normally it is strictly a "no tourists" zone but if you lived through this you will be welcome, and it may be the only place to find people who get it

  • @kristinwallace6551
    @kristinwallace6551 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am late to commenting. But I am sure it means the world to those kids that their teacher came back. What a beautiful, strong woman. All of those kids are lucky to have her.

  • @samuelugh5729
    @samuelugh5729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Why isn’t our schools? Safe? Why DMV’s court houses have guards and apartments complexes. but not schools??! why?

  • @melodybacak9668
    @melodybacak9668 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God bless Uvalde ❤

  • @antipeople3935
    @antipeople3935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This didn't have to happen. It's sad and it's even sadder to know it will eventually happen again

  • @tawnytirado143
    @tawnytirado143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    💪💪💪💪Brave strong amazing teacher.

  • @pitalitta8814
    @pitalitta8814 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hearing her has me in tears 😢

  • @pugdad2555
    @pugdad2555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It was never your decision to pull the trigger. We need to make sure all these people are getting the mental health help they need.

    • @andrewsteinberg8891
      @andrewsteinberg8891 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      first you bully them and than think it's "mental health..." It's not mental health, it is your garbage bullying culture that is the problem. Stop bullying people and these shootings will go away. Trust me.

  • @timellison24
    @timellison24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    It's survivor's guilt, not survivor's remorse. Remorse describes a feeling of regret or guilt for a wrong committed (murderers for example might feel remorse). Because the teacher was not the perpetrator, it is strange to describe her feeling as "remorse," when she clearly just feels guilty for having survived, unlike her friends. Plus, "survivor's guilt" is simply the standard phrase.

    • @lilirishgrl
      @lilirishgrl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re absolutely right

    • @henriettasmith2618
      @henriettasmith2618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I take your point, but in your argument for the words being distinct, you used one to define the other

    • @timellison24
      @timellison24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@henriettasmith2618 Not really. I used the word "guilt" in the definition for remorse with the qualification: "guilt for a wrong committed." This is the definition of remorse. If I had used the word in exactly the same way (e.g., "guilt = remorse"), that would have been a mere tautology, which you seem to suggest I did. But if you have ever spent any time with dictionaries, if you have two similar words, often one of those words is contained in the definition, but with a qualifier to make the distinction. Take the word melancholy, and say you wanted to distinguish between melancholy and sadness. To define melancholy, you will inevitably end up using the word sadness, but with additional words to explain the difference ("a feeling of pensive sadness," for example). So the part you're missing in my definition is "guilt for a wrong committed." That is what makes all the difference. I challenge you to define remorse otherwise.

  • @denroybercier
    @denroybercier 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We can't just move on. We have to be angry and do something about this. I can tell you right now how all of this could have been stopped. Shooters are looking for sitting ducks but not a gunfight. Give the teachers guns. They clearly love the kids and would risk their lives for them. If you don't trust someone with a gun around your kids, then they shouldn't be a teacher. The police were incompetent at best and weren't willing to die to save the teachers and children. "Yelp if you need help"? That's the stupidest command to tell civilians in hiding. It is sick how this went down. How many shootings need to happen for us to realize that hiring more unarmed bodyguards to just be present is not helping.

  • @carlosrg68
    @carlosrg68 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    it's hard to see teachers not get the attention they deserve, like the first responders do or actually they ensure they do by telling everyone, oh how wonderful our first responders are and oh how wonderful our policemen and woman are, all 400+ that showed up that day - the american idol these days are guns and how special they are to have and hold...

  • @michellemurphy4148
    @michellemurphy4148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice intimate quiet video

  • @buzzkincaid5521
    @buzzkincaid5521 ปีที่แล้ว

    The thin veneer of normalcy ,destroyed in a moment ,by one very sick teenager. The shock waves reverberate ,and manifest in so many ways, in so many lives. Innocents lost.

  • @michellejames5953
    @michellejames5953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So sad and moving

  • @gamerhistorian7843
    @gamerhistorian7843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is America

  • @kathleneda2514
    @kathleneda2514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are here to teach students to climb back up and show them how you did it.

  • @timarmstrong9992
    @timarmstrong9992 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I will pray for the family 🙏 God bless you and he will always be there for you always be there for you and your family. and another thing is that my opinion from bottom of my heart from Timothy Allen Armstrong. I am going to put them in my prayers for all the loss of the kids and another thing is I also feel like crying.

  • @christinecardimen544
    @christinecardimen544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Crying so hard…..

  • @swimgirl24
    @swimgirl24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ban assault rifles. This is so tragic and terrible. This man LEGALLY bought an assault weapon and then attacked a school. 😔

    • @CharlesLandell25
      @CharlesLandell25 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assault Rifles would be gone then you'd still have a bunch of other firearms. Same situation with columbine ,uvalde and other schools. Just another school that is easy for someone to commit another mass tragedy.

  • @lenmoore9109
    @lenmoore9109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Tamron, why?????

  • @karenmixer8782
    @karenmixer8782 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is my TV lying to me again?

  • @lovechild1351
    @lovechild1351 ปีที่แล้ว

    America 🇺🇸 beautiful Billy. Yaya Tru dat grandpa. Love 😍 elite.

  • @zuleimahernandez8037
    @zuleimahernandez8037 ปีที่แล้ว

    Even if I was showing bravery in the face of adversity as an example I could not send my kids back to that school after that.

  • @johndashwood7671
    @johndashwood7671 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It is time the cops went to prison.

  • @Jaxpg19
    @Jaxpg19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🙏🙏🙏 Jude:2

  • @jisundergroundfornow2548
    @jisundergroundfornow2548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No one should have to go through that... It's too bad the country may not be able to heal from the right's intense defense and worship of guns and the 2A [which they don't understand and/or rewrote'

  • @josettek.esquivel7938
    @josettek.esquivel7938 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    #JusticeForUvalde
    🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎

  • @rosalbagutierrez9551
    @rosalbagutierrez9551 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @carlaaxelson6338
    @carlaaxelson6338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m not sure I like the interviewer. “ can you hear the children’s voices”? Wtf

    • @300thNPC
      @300thNPC ปีที่แล้ว

      She was trying to bait her into talking about the screams. Sick woman

  • @susanjakubiec4009
    @susanjakubiec4009 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sad❤

  • @SuperAlandin
    @SuperAlandin ปีที่แล้ว

  • @mizztia5303
    @mizztia5303 ปีที่แล้ว

    The police chief couldn't organise a root in a brothel,

  • @loymoreno8546
    @loymoreno8546 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Uvalde strong,song on TH-cam by elscum

  • @erikag7334
    @erikag7334 ปีที่แล้ว

    So does god just pick and choose who he wants to protect ? I am so confused in this faith stuff like idk

  • @MexiMelt1988
    @MexiMelt1988 ปีที่แล้ว

    TRUMP N HIS WIFE TED CRUZ NEED WEIGHT WATCHERS LOL
    PS HE LOST LOL

  • @fusemore1059
    @fusemore1059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This interview was so slow and boring. Yawn we are want the details of everything

    • @irmajgarcia6009
      @irmajgarcia6009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What details? You got problems if you find this boring. No heart..

    • @christinecardimen544
      @christinecardimen544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Seriously, omg. Then leave.

    • @nykiasmith7404
      @nykiasmith7404 ปีที่แล้ว

      What details? What how loud the kids screamed when they died. Idk what else there is to need details to. The police sucked I blame them

    • @x3kittiekat
      @x3kittiekat ปีที่แล้ว

      Really? You want entertainment out of a tragedy? Out of many people and kid's traumatic experience? Seriously what's wrong with you, how can you be that insensitive

  • @sodamnsexy16
    @sodamnsexy16 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good for her… I wouldn’t go back

  • @amandacolonna3872
    @amandacolonna3872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so heartbreaking 💔