I'm 31 and single - am I leaving having kids too late?

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  • @faffer1073
    @faffer1073 หลายเดือนก่อน +961

    Difficult to make babies when a lot of young British adults can only afford to live with their Mum and Dad.

    • @rohj4825
      @rohj4825 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      It is good when grandparents can take care about grandkids in any time of the day.

    • @swagathshetty
      @swagathshetty หลายเดือนก่อน +75

      ​​@@rohj4825 grandparents are not free labour
      They did not retire to help with babies. They have their own life too

    • @manpreetbrar838
      @manpreetbrar838 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Inter generational households forthcoming, In a good Asian tradition.

    • @bawseeeee602
      @bawseeeee602 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      excuses...

    • @paddydoyle4234
      @paddydoyle4234 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@swagathshetty family should come before anything else.

  • @jorda_n_
    @jorda_n_ หลายเดือนก่อน +712

    Why on earth would I want to put someone else in a situation I barely want to be in myself?

    • @kz9620
      @kz9620 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      So true

    • @marriagecausesdivorce7540
      @marriagecausesdivorce7540 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well, for exactly the same reason why India has a population of 1.5 billion, China has a population of 1.4 billion, and countries like Indonesia, Pakistan and Nigeria will probably get to 1 - 2 billion in total over the next 75 years. Humans seem to have a strong desire to mate and reproduce.

    • @Coastpsych_fi99
      @Coastpsych_fi99 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Lol agreed!

    • @mbotentoto5162
      @mbotentoto5162 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      U kno wut to do

    • @JeDxDeVu
      @JeDxDeVu หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Glad our ancestors didn’t have the kind of attitude

  • @AdamBrowne-eg1eb
    @AdamBrowne-eg1eb หลายเดือนก่อน +189

    Interesting this pitched the drop as a biological issue. I see it far more as a cultural and financial problem.

    • @ReadyF0RHeady
      @ReadyF0RHeady 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Of course it is ...thats also premise for the movie idiocracy

  • @craptacular8282
    @craptacular8282 หลายเดือนก่อน +609

    Government policy has made housing so expensive. People don't want families if they don't have a stable home. Blame the government.

    • @xaiano794
      @xaiano794 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The government is a reflection of the people. We are literally the only country where people think it's normal or reasonable to block others from building their own home on their own land.

    • @hussain-x
      @hussain-x หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I also blame the Bank Of England for keeping interest rates so low for so long as well as printing so much money through QE. It just pushed up house prices and other asset prices.

    • @James_Doyle83
      @James_Doyle83 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Tories were in power for 14 years

    • @xsmash5328
      @xsmash5328 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yeah, sure, housing. Never heard of an appartment? Stay a victim, don't take control of your own life ...

    • @50ztej
      @50ztej หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Plus current wars, plus a disconnect and growing resentment between the genders, plus social media, plus climate crisis and a bunch of other reasons why people don't want to start families.

  • @PaulDickson-yi2vw
    @PaulDickson-yi2vw หลายเดือนก่อน +294

    When it went from one man working to pay for a family to both working thes not much time for a family and definitely not for a big family.

    • @christopher.96
      @christopher.96 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      They have realized the robots aren’t as developed as they through they would have been by now. The realized they need another generation of wage slaves.

    • @helenarichard
      @helenarichard 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I got crippling depression when I started working full time and could feel myself ovulating but being stuck at my desk so I could never meet someone or make love if I had a partner. I gave up. Met my man thanks to being unemployed and having the time and energy to sort thing out and work on myself, and find out what it is I really want and have time to date. I hope it is not too late. Currently trying but am almost 36.

  • @derek4412
    @derek4412 หลายเดือนก่อน +317

    “If this country wants more babies, it needs to start giving people like me more money“

    • @NeygarzruinedAmerica
      @NeygarzruinedAmerica หลายเดือนก่อน

      Too busy giving to Ukraine

    • @persephone3309
      @persephone3309 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      Actually people who work still can't afford things. It's more about making things affordable than giving out handouts.

    • @blue_wolfproductions12
      @blue_wolfproductions12 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@persephone3309Agreed price controls and rent controls are needed

    • @fartunyep4501
      @fartunyep4501 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How is a larger wage a handout?​@@persephone3309

    • @marissa._
      @marissa._ 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@persephone3309
      Actually it IS about giving out handouts instead of having to work for everything! There's nothing "wrong" with handouts! No one should have to pay for what God put here free! Like water and food, etc!
      Its not about making things affordable because even if that were the case, there's people that STILL wouldn't be able to afford whatever "affordability" looks like.

  • @joe9125
    @joe9125 หลายเดือนก่อน +357

    Media has always told us the world is overpopulated then what’s the problem with infertility?

    • @Mel87y
      @Mel87y หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Exactly

    • @ProductivityControl7
      @ProductivityControl7 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

      Because the way society and the workforce operate, it can't function with there being more old people than Young.

    • @e.m.doherty723
      @e.m.doherty723 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It was a lie to replace people here with outsiders. So to disrupt the social and cultural cohesion, so people would be easily divided and controlled.

    • @Victor-y9g1w
      @Victor-y9g1w หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      @@ProductivityControl7 so it is about economy?

    • @Zoetherat
      @Zoetherat หลายเดือนก่อน

      The media was wrong.

  • @H3321KG
    @H3321KG หลายเดือนก่อน +180

    My bloodline ends with me. Amen to that.

    • @apebass2215
      @apebass2215 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      Probably for the best.

    • @H3321KG
      @H3321KG หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      @@apebass2215 indeed. Would be best for all.

    • @hopolang99
      @hopolang99 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Lets go!!

    • @angelaschone2847
      @angelaschone2847 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Yey , mine too sister or brother in the distance

    • @RhondaNam
      @RhondaNam หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @simonebell928
    @simonebell928 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    Funny enough when I try to have a baby at an earlier age it didn’t work but when I got to 35, when they say fertility goes rapidly downhill, I got pregnant very easily as soon as I tuned 35, it’s not always age, it’s about genetics and lifestyle too

    • @SKIE-skie
      @SKIE-skie หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      A lot of men think they all can have babies until old age when they actually start declining at 35 same as women.

    • @whitneyanders5945
      @whitneyanders5945 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Most women do get pregnant easily after 35. A woman can get pregnant as long as she is ovulating.. which doesn’t stop until menopause. It’s like everyone has no idea about female reproduction or chooses to be ignorant.

    • @bodhisattva2348
      @bodhisattva2348 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      When some couples try to have a baby too hard it may not happen because they are under the stress of that but under no stress is will happen after a few tries.
      Fertility decreases but the chances are still pretty great at 35, I'm only speaking as a primary care physician. People seem to try once or twice & then think that they should be automatically pregnant and while that is possible sometimes it can take a few tries so stop stressing & just have fun.

    • @monkaf
      @monkaf 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Im almost 40 and i get pregnant very quick. And everything is ok. I have guilt because my younger coworker strugles to concieve.

    • @ChrisBergernson-oe9zy
      @ChrisBergernson-oe9zy 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@monkafso much sugar and alcool maybe ....

  • @mtgrabbitwizard1679
    @mtgrabbitwizard1679 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    Every 10% houses go up birth rates fall 1%

  • @allforclout2040
    @allforclout2040 หลายเดือนก่อน +221

    Feminism is doing its job

    • @biscaynesupercars
      @biscaynesupercars หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      🎯 the comparison of men and women to this was hilarious. The woman just aged out but the men being infertile were do to extreme external circumstances and for most of them improving their diet, sleep and physical activity brought their sperm count back to normal in a short period of time so the 2 are not the same thing. And its this type of propaganda that leads to women believing they have more time than they really do

    • @jacobperez8921
      @jacobperez8921 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely! Feminism lied to generations of women and now they are realizing too late.

    • @Gretaminelova
      @Gretaminelova หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@biscaynesupercars my brother is a fertility coach, and woman can also bring up their AMF with a proper diet and lifestyle change, and the can but a little more time too up until 45 . I saw how he help many women over the age of 40 get pregnant

    • @neverstop2493
      @neverstop2493 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​ @karlaNova-d9t don’t give women the idea that a special diet will allow them to stay fertile until 45. female fecundity is predicted by the combination of 1)ovarian reserve measured by AMH and 2)chromosomal degradation determined by age. Women over 35 desiring babies need to get their AMH level checked ASAP and discuss family planning with their OB/gyn.

    • @Tribuneoftheplebs
      @Tribuneoftheplebs หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@Gretaminelova very risky to have babies after 40 because the chance of down syndrome is over 10%

  • @ForMySoulSistas
    @ForMySoulSistas หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    I'm 33 single Congolese born and raised in France and to my mind issues are also : finding a partner, affording babies, talking to men about infertility and testing them. Informative video💯

    • @MsSimpleMovies
      @MsSimpleMovies หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yes, "social infertility," as it's been called, is often overlooked.

    • @Roccofan
      @Roccofan 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      The partner should be found at 22 waiting until 30s is a bad idea.

    • @soniakostova
      @soniakostova 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Roccofansorry some of us were attending school and trying to educate ourselves at that time

  • @joenelson4235
    @joenelson4235 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    Times have changed, Mum and Dad need to downsize to enable their grandchildren to be born. We need to help this generation asap

  • @helenarichard
    @helenarichard 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    That woman in the end has nothing to do with feminism. She is simply too overweight to get pregnant. The obesity impacts ovulation.

  • @MsSimpleMovies
    @MsSimpleMovies หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    My heart really goes out to those struggling with social infertility and physical infertility. I know the drive to have babies.

  • @johntaylor8381
    @johntaylor8381 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Just want to commend how good this video is. Not condescending but hitting on some really tough issues. I've learnt some new stuff

  • @awsinger1
    @awsinger1 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    By the grace of God I am 31 weeks pregnant and just turned 26 years old last week. Honestly I need to pinch myself every day. I feel so grateful.

    • @jones2277
      @jones2277 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Congratulations! I had my first at 41!

  • @chad9971
    @chad9971 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    We're moving towards real life "Idiocracy".

  • @pd1596
    @pd1596 หลายเดือนก่อน +134

    What a depressing thing to watch on a Sunday evening lol

    • @achilles2229
      @achilles2229 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂

    • @sahab999
      @sahab999 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😅😅😂😂

    • @remimerchant8354
      @remimerchant8354 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Same here! And I did it to myself 😂😂

    • @jabberjaw84
      @jabberjaw84 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dnt watch the media! It's all bad news.

    • @richild3967
      @richild3967 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Honestly! I guess it shook me out of my delusional state.

  • @ArranVid
    @ArranVid หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    I’m 31, single, and male

    • @kni9ght
      @kni9ght หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Same

    • @Geechee-Man
      @Geechee-Man 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

      I am 28 male and single I suggest we all get our passport and go overseas where price of living is cheaper and women are more aware of their time clock..... #passportbro

    • @ArranVid
      @ArranVid 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@Geechee-Man Good idea 🙂

    • @kni9ght
      @kni9ght 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@Geechee-Man got mine already brother and trying to shore some investments here, than leave.

    • @tadeob_
      @tadeob_ 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      ​@@kni9ght I'm 21... Should I do the same?

  • @jasm5205
    @jasm5205 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    I’m lucky enough to have found my person young. I look around and see the women now. I honestly think I’d just be single if I didn’t have her.

    • @miapia7229
      @miapia7229 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂

    • @rpaafourever7908
      @rpaafourever7908 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Who knows what she really thinks 😃

  • @Michael-os1zd
    @Michael-os1zd หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    Reduced economy, reduced masculinity, reduced responsibility, reduced marriage and commitment - what does one expect - the biology is following the mindset. I for one have a sizeable family and am an outlier, and I cannot think of anything more rewarding. The hard work however is not for the faint hearted.

  • @bernob9770
    @bernob9770 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    More people need to talk about this topic!

    • @John-ih7gp
      @John-ih7gp หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Why? It's been obvious for decades! Is this new to people right now?

  • @mashikoanimations
    @mashikoanimations หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    3:15 A lot of people won't realise that a lot of these older celeb dads are utilising fertility treatments like ICSI. But they are hardly going to advertise that fact!

    • @MsSimpleMovies
      @MsSimpleMovies หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      And that's why many have twins.

    • @jones2277
      @jones2277 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@MsSimpleMoviesalmost always it’s IVF if the twins are fraternal

  • @starlightHT
    @starlightHT หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Who spent decades saying at school that the world didn't need more people because we had too many people? They forgot to say that it wasn't in European countries but the problem was in Africa, Asia, South America... Now women say they can be a mother at 50 because some famous woman was a mother at that advanced age. And nowadays women start looking for a partner to be a mother at 35 (look) and try to get married at 40 and be a mother at 50...

    • @angelaschone2847
      @angelaschone2847 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      South america is in the same trend, exclude them and asia at some countries is worse the fertility

  • @katerua4675
    @katerua4675 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    The birth rate is going to plummet considering how impossible it is for normal people to afford a home without help form their parents

  • @l.k1992
    @l.k1992 หลายเดือนก่อน +209

    Choosing to be a single mum is crazy

    • @bawseeeee602
      @bawseeeee602 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

      modern females bro

    • @mbotentoto5162
      @mbotentoto5162 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Just sit back and let it all self destruct gents. Youll get your laugh in the end.

    • @jabberjaw84
      @jabberjaw84 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      It comes across as selfish... Like some sort of personal achievement they want rather than co- building a family

    • @SKIE-skie
      @SKIE-skie หลายเดือนก่อน +68

      ​@@bawseeeee602modern males have left many women as single mothers.

    • @SKIE-skie
      @SKIE-skie หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      ​@@mbotentoto5162laugh at not being chosen to reproduce?

  • @The_Voice_of_Reason748
    @The_Voice_of_Reason748 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    This is Western Civilisation that they so desperately want to spread

    • @Lord_Meeks
      @Lord_Meeks หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yup it's satanic and against family and God.

    • @marriagecausesdivorce7540
      @marriagecausesdivorce7540 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That who wants?

    • @jabberjaw84
      @jabberjaw84 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Lol😂 true. That's why they need immigrants to push the fertility numbers up but will complain like hell

    • @danielr4774
      @danielr4774 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Low fertility is happening in Africa too

    • @savioblanc
      @savioblanc หลายเดือนก่อน

      The actual Western people, who have warned about this, have been ignored and pushed out and their views shut down.
      Ask yourself why every poll taken in the West shows the people have the lowest trust in their own news and media agencies and their journalists.

  • @constitutionalcarrot3720
    @constitutionalcarrot3720 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I became a single mother by choice in the US at 33 via IUI and donor. More than the $$, time is the greatest resources sorely depleted in our 20s. The pandemic was the perfect time to do fertility treatments without worrying about making excuses to evade my employer’s potential discrimination. Tax incentives for those who want parenthood and grants for parents are only part of it. We need more PTO, expanded WFH, and cheaper childcare!

    • @mohamedAli-kj6fb
      @mohamedAli-kj6fb 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sounds synthetic and pathetic.

  • @Saad_889
    @Saad_889 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    As a 25-year-old Virgin man, I’ve noticed that having too much information in advance has put us in a difficult position. We start worrying about the future, wondering if our bodies will function well when we’re married or if our cells are strong enough to produce a baby. We’ve filled our minds with so much information that when we start thinking negatively, it begins to affect us that way. In the past, we were unbothered, uninformed, and didn’t even know these things existed in our bodies we remained unworried so our bodies functioned well.

  • @mr.unknownindian1764
    @mr.unknownindian1764 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Most brave people can survive singlhood, I fully support their personal choice.❤

  • @danielwebb8402
    @danielwebb8402 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    Has the lie that we can delay... led to people delaying, then regretting it?
    Yes

    • @ss-ds2dn
      @ss-ds2dn หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      The "your biological clock is running out" thing has also led to many people picking bad partners. This isn't simple.

    • @Rudi_Mentary723
      @Rudi_Mentary723 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Shhhh... We don't say that to modern women.

  • @abymathew295
    @abymathew295 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    People cant afford babies anymore. Thats the truth.

    • @helenarichard
      @helenarichard 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Babies aren't that expensive. Mortgages are. And jobs are unstable now. No more careers. Men alone had good careers all their life, there was no job hopping with daily contracts and stuff.

    • @abymathew295
      @abymathew295 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @helenarichard ..True

  • @nathanbell6962
    @nathanbell6962 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Uk has the lowest birth rate in the EU, -18%

    • @Joshua-eo5hr
      @Joshua-eo5hr 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      With immigration lol 😂

  • @leodekleijn7712
    @leodekleijn7712 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    31 single by choice

    • @RTMgi9
      @RTMgi9 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      Hasn't found Chad yet

    • @c.f.okonta8815
      @c.f.okonta8815 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      @@RTMgi9yea she is still looking for Chad and will remain childless until she finds him at 41

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      They had great fun in their 20s 😅

    • @faithalbers1589
      @faithalbers1589 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@c.f.okonta8815why do people always assume it’s cause she hasn’t met “Chad” yet. Can there not be women and men who genuinely just want to stay single and do it the right way. I know that may not be common but like myself I’ve managed to stay single without sleeping around at all.

    • @nax1807
      @nax1807 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      what chad would want a 31yo when he could have a 21yo? oh well, at least she has the streets.

  • @missandry2669
    @missandry2669 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Don’t be a single mother women wake up!!!

  • @Terminator550
    @Terminator550 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    This is a sad, coping video.

    • @rpaafourever7908
      @rpaafourever7908 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      lol This is a sad, coping comment.

  • @T-Hazza
    @T-Hazza 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    im 25 single never had a GF and still live with my family!

  • @apocolex93
    @apocolex93 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    No. Also fostering and adoption are perfectly valid options.

    • @Noname-oo9gn
      @Noname-oo9gn 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They ain't your bloodline though 😢 I'm good had my 2 daughters young now a grandmother of 3 a d I'm only 43.

  • @KevTheImpaler
    @KevTheImpaler 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I had two sperm tests. One was a general sperm quality test: are they the right shape, are they swimming vigorously in a straight line, is there enough of them. That came back good. Then I had a DNA fragmentation test. That came back the lower end of good.

    • @CaptainCoook
      @CaptainCoook 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Good information, more gents should know about this. DNA fragmentation is always there, but it accelerates at 35 and beyond. Men can't wait for too long.

  • @7S5y3X.0th
    @7S5y3X.0th 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    Suddenly pre arranged marriges make way more sense.

    • @raalaa121
      @raalaa121 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      100 % the best thing that ever happened to me. Otherwise i'd be like my friends on dating apps trying to find the "one" ... I made my spouse the "one" after marriage.

    • @jessy7884
      @jessy7884 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Gross

  • @agnosticmanquestionsall2409
    @agnosticmanquestionsall2409 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Dating apps make it impossible to meet anyone for most men.

  • @mdaaaa1211
    @mdaaaa1211 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    These women chose to pass on marry good men seeking the perfect guy. No sympathy

    • @marriagecausesdivorce7540
      @marriagecausesdivorce7540 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Finally! 🎯🎯🎯 Best comment I've read so far. Why are birth rates/fertility down? Well because marriage rates are down and more people are single. Why are more people single? Well it is because certain people have delusional standards. If guys like Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Elon Musk are ending up divorced, what chance does the normal nice guy stand?

    • @imwatchingonyoutube5024
      @imwatchingonyoutube5024 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

      Not true. Tons of men reject and ignore good women. Stop blaming women

    • @imwatchingonyoutube5024
      @imwatchingonyoutube5024 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      @@marriagecausesdivorce7540What chance does a normal girl stand guys go from one girl to the next are that corn addicted they even ignore good women nowadays

    • @imwatchingonyoutube5024
      @imwatchingonyoutube5024 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      So sick of women being blamed when men do this to women and ignore them and reject them

    • @josiestubbs4468
      @josiestubbs4468 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      @@imwatchingonyoutube5024I think both sexes are to blame really. Some men reject good women and some women reject good men. Plus people prioritise a good time and self image these days instead of commitment and responsibility. I think finances and a lack of awareness of fertility is also a problem too. People think that IVF and adoption will be quick fixes for infertility but they’re really not

  • @ravendronesolutions
    @ravendronesolutions 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Feminism along with policies that made it very difficult for most people to even have a home is the cause of this

  • @James-pyon
    @James-pyon หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Feminism, enjoy.

    • @Hollyucinogen
      @Hollyucinogen หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Actually, this is a much more complicated social problem than your over-simplified explanation suggests. There are many factors that go into this.
      To be honest, though, humans are a blight on this planet. We've earned this.

  • @bodhisattva2348
    @bodhisattva2348 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    It never cease amaze me that at 31 a woman will act like she's 62. 🤔

    • @notmanymore1521
      @notmanymore1521 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      When she may have roughly 4 years left to have babies, and considering most people don't just have a baby as soon as they meet a partner, that leaves for a pretty small window of time left. I'm also 31 and yes, I do sometimes feel 62

    • @bodhisattva2348
      @bodhisattva2348 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @notmanymore1521 u are aware that if u have eggs u & a period u can have a baby right. She's 31 not 62

    • @bsd1158
      @bsd1158 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Research shows that a single woman over 30 has a very slim chance of ever becoming a mother. She's very smart and brave to take control of her life like that.

    • @CarolaTesla
      @CarolaTesla 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      ​@@notmanymore1521 She has like 10 more years to have a baby lol

    • @TheSecretBaller
      @TheSecretBaller 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@CarolaTeslapast her prime physically, men look for younger women

  • @ScottFree-GB
    @ScottFree-GB หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Are we leaving it too late?!?! 2010 when we fell to the lowest of the G7 nations was when it should have been addressed

  • @mkf628
    @mkf628 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    girl boss queens

  • @mursheedalam7485
    @mursheedalam7485 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    men fertility rate can be increased by just chnging their diet and adding some excersie .but this thing is not same with the woman even though they chnge their diet .

    • @rpaafourever7908
      @rpaafourever7908 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      lol even if that's true (which it's not), they still need a woman to procreate with and vast majority of young women don't want disillusioned and broke middle aged men. Even the ones that settle for rich guys for a short while are crazies. no sensible women wants to be with someone of her dad's age.

    • @bsd1158
      @bsd1158 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Most young guys are lazy and complacent in my experience. Much bigger issue than any women issue. I'm a man too.

    • @allinmybackyard3988
      @allinmybackyard3988 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      ​@@rpaafourever7908 i think most men know the cards they are dealt with in life as time progresses and as they age they become richer and more mentally stable for a lot of women to consider them. the entire low tfr hysteria that the media peddles out blaming men, blaming pfas, the economy is just women finding out abt biological realities of being a woman and trying to deflect the blame.

  • @margarethamaartje3716
    @margarethamaartje3716 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Why is infertility a problem? The world is over populated and complicated, i think life will br simpler, more connected and more beautiful with less people in it.

  • @caliac
    @caliac หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    So nature and time make no prisoners, huh? What a shock 😑

  • @Deano00777
    @Deano00777 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Why is the world having a lower population a bad thing?
    More food per person, more housing, less pollution, more water.

  • @LightSaber12345
    @LightSaber12345 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    Human extinction is not a bad thing, especially when it's voluntary.

    • @child_of_Lilith__
      @child_of_Lilith__ 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      agreed

    • @ST-ly8uf
      @ST-ly8uf 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Humans ain't gonna die willingly, One continent has a massive birth rate

    • @FactsCountdown
      @FactsCountdown 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Extinction due to natural disaster will cause much more suffering than voluntary extinction.

  • @eapenkurian4134
    @eapenkurian4134 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Thanks to Corporate

  • @Lucpol1986
    @Lucpol1986 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It’s down to the individual, so don’t pay attention to critics. Simples 👍🏾

  • @jessicawatson3320
    @jessicawatson3320 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Childcare costs, impact on earnings, cost of living, cost of rent/mortgages I agree government gives no incentive

  • @Gustav_Smit
    @Gustav_Smit หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Excellent video👍 Increasing infertility is the biggest, unknown crisis Western countries will face over 20 years from now.

    • @jabberjaw84
      @jabberjaw84 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Video showed it's not just Western countries, other countries are paying ppl to have babies!!

  • @myworkrota1928
    @myworkrota1928 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    The issue with democratic and capitalistic societies is they tell women to prioritise their careers over motherhood. Women then often find out too late that they should have prioritised mother hood over a career.

    • @CDAmG
      @CDAmG หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The emphasis on women working full time is Marxist. Historically, many feminists are Marxists and the Soviet Union had day care and generous maternity leave all the way back in the 1920s. It is Marxist to emphasize on uniformity between different kinds of people. This has come to the West since the 60s.

    • @ss-ds2dn
      @ss-ds2dn หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      No the issue is that society hasn't found a way for women to balance the two. It's not women's job to do a crap of unpaid unappreciated labor just because they have a uterus. Every free person needs incentives.

    • @taridean
      @taridean 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Bingo!

  • @Advic77
    @Advic77 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Its about prioritising the most important things in life..Reschooling the public on family life.

  • @brianoleson9224
    @brianoleson9224 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    this is such a foreign topic to me im 31 and i have never made out before

  • @rachedhaddar9741
    @rachedhaddar9741 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    spend the 20s "having fun"

  • @shayazi3758
    @shayazi3758 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Errrrmmm y we not talking about the rise feminist man hating zeitgeist

  • @geoms6263
    @geoms6263 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    feminist movement have something to do with infertility

  • @alexandriamares1402
    @alexandriamares1402 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    People cant afford to survive anymore. Who would want to being a baby in the world just to struggle , harder than they did before bringing a baby into the world.

  • @prernasingh8908
    @prernasingh8908 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I'm in my 40s and trying now!

  • @Smartlib_lol
    @Smartlib_lol 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Add to all this feminism… single most impactful factor for drop in fertility.

    • @GirishPandit-y7v
      @GirishPandit-y7v 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      intentionally introduced so as to not let countries go the way of Indo China population boom

  • @helenarichard
    @helenarichard 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I gave up on finding love at 32 and found the love of my life at 33. Now am 35 and trying. Fertility depends a lot on the semen, not so much the woman, if she is still in her thirties everything is possible. But honestly this world makes me exhausted that sometimes I wonder if I would be ok as a mother.

  • @mpex1980
    @mpex1980 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Could Tattoo ink affect fertility?

  • @cl1ff892
    @cl1ff892 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Blaming men. Typical. Biology is unfair ladies deal with it

  • @vlad-dracul
    @vlad-dracul หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    When she was 21 there were probably some men who wanted to start a family with her, but she is strong and independent.

    • @mercymdw
      @mercymdw 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Your opinion may be right but it's usually good to know what ones life has been like. War and the economy is a worldwide issue. Other people have dependents.

    • @joyariffic4217
      @joyariffic4217 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      21 is waaaay to young to be a mom

    • @Amatuallah-jt2kg
      @Amatuallah-jt2kg 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      @@joyariffic4217and 31 is way to old to be a mum

    • @fartunyep4501
      @fartunyep4501 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      I doubt it. What 21 year old man in the west settles down.

    • @tinkshu4002
      @tinkshu4002 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@joyariffic4217you really wrong

  • @AKGWORLD123
    @AKGWORLD123 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Strong independent woman

    • @JeremySayers38
      @JeremySayers38 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yeah, she gonna freeze her eggs!!!! £15000 to freeze eggs, better to buy a MX5!!!

    • @AKGWORLD123
      @AKGWORLD123 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @JeremySayers38 good one 👍👍

    • @AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh
      @AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Career single mother's,paid for by government ruined the nuclear family.

  • @ello34
    @ello34 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    they are experts in male biology now

  • @eyesonly4755
    @eyesonly4755 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    a lot of people would gladly become grandparents and raise the grandchildren, to ease the economic concerns

  • @cathyo1089
    @cathyo1089 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    35 is the tipping point usually

  • @paulinejackson5861
    @paulinejackson5861 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    If men aren't earning so little these days, this wouldn't be an issue.

  • @Crazy111AUT
    @Crazy111AUT 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I think the issue is that we tell young women that they are supressed by the patriarchy if the are not striving to become a CEO.

    • @MaxFromSydney1
      @MaxFromSydney1 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Who is “we”?
      It isn’t society telling women this, it’s feminism.

  • @sarbantz
    @sarbantz 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Feminism contributed to this crisis as well.

  • @aaaabbbbccc123
    @aaaabbbbccc123 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Blame UK FAMILY LAWS - Most men dont wanna be screwed by women. So no babies thank u

  • @stanleykachuik2589
    @stanleykachuik2589 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Correction: Historically ( before 1960 ) pregnancy after 27 years of age was considered geriatric.
    It was recently that they raised it to 35. Due to advances in modern medicine and to suit the Liberal narrative.

  • @charlesopoku-afriyie7113
    @charlesopoku-afriyie7113 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    It's funny how they take a small percentage of men and magnify it and use it as a shaming tactic

  • @Marcho978
    @Marcho978 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    The wall always wins

    • @rpaafourever7908
      @rpaafourever7908 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Not for too long.. and remember when the wall wins, men lose too 😂

  • @raalaa121
    @raalaa121 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Pre-arranged marriage ... BEST thing that ever happened to me.

  • @HarleyButler-ox3qn
    @HarleyButler-ox3qn หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Ow no, what will the preditors at the BBC do now!

  • @GreatGazoo8
    @GreatGazoo8 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A career in middle management at the widget factory is surprisingly unfulfilling to most women

  • @jamesstpatrick8493
    @jamesstpatrick8493 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is because of women choosing to be an adult and joining the workforce

  • @_Anime_Shortz
    @_Anime_Shortz 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The primary cause of reduced childbirth imo is socioeconomic and not biological imo

  • @J.Shabazz
    @J.Shabazz 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    NOT IN SOUTHEAST ASIA, AFRICA, or INDIA

    • @rpaafourever7908
      @rpaafourever7908 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      It's coming there.. already seeing signs of it.. just wait 🤭

    • @bsd1158
      @bsd1158 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Southeast asia is much worse than the west. Look at birthrate of Thailand, Taiwan, Singapore etc.

  • @esparda07
    @esparda07 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    To some it's a crisis.
    To the healthcare community it's another money making opportunity.

  • @muckraker7942
    @muckraker7942 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Meanwhile Mustafa in his council flat having ten babies.

    • @mr.unknownindian1764
      @mr.unknownindian1764 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      It's his mindful religion, don't be jealous.

    • @MuftiMasala
      @MuftiMasala หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Lmaoooo

    • @jakelister5152
      @jakelister5152 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Ask him for tips

    • @Victor-y9g1w
      @Victor-y9g1w หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      and that too from only 1 wife, he has 3 other in three other council flats. soon, UK will be become UKe (united kingdom emirat)

    • @mr.unknownindian1764
      @mr.unknownindian1764 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@Victor-y9g1w I want to see wwe ( wild west economic 📉 ) ....
      Hindus Vs Muslims Vs christians Vs SCIENCE 😂

  • @allinmybackyard3988
    @allinmybackyard3988 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    interesting how the only instance men are included in the discussion is when women want to make it seem like the birth rate crisis is not the issue of one sex. also, men and women sharing nearly equal parts of reproductive health issues is complete bull and not nearly equal like the lady wishes to show in the video.

  • @titeness
    @titeness 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    People don’t believe in God anymore - so they give in to circumstances.

    • @Arun-dx9sn
      @Arun-dx9sn 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I dont see anything unusual in this video.What should we expect in this country after supporting and proclaiming abortion like anything.Shedding innnocent blood is not simple in the eyes of god

    • @christophebrou1178
      @christophebrou1178 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Lol, God!

  • @RUUDEBOI5
    @RUUDEBOI5 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Blame feminism and abortions, simple.

  • @ambersouthwick3509
    @ambersouthwick3509 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Im 35, Canadian. I am university educated and been employed since 15. I feel my husband and I should be studied for our fertility. I'm having our 4th and last just after my 36th bday. Weve never struggled with fertility. And as I research more, listen to more stories it is mind boggling that it comes so easy to us. Im curious what makes us special when we know others who struggle? I had my first at almost 28, and this last at 36. Young women, STOP WAITING!! Embrace the wonderful woman witchcraft that is the ability to make babies out of thin air. Dont start at 35 and wonder why it isnt working.

    • @beaulieuc8910
      @beaulieuc8910 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      nah don't want to make rapists, thieves, killers etc. every criminal has a parent

  • @Nana-rn3iq
    @Nana-rn3iq 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Before having a family one must need money and be financially stable.

  • @jackbrown6788
    @jackbrown6788 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Plus a generation of young men who are growing up resenting women because they can't get a date. It remains to be seen if they will be receptive to women suddenly showing an interest in them when they hit 35.

    • @Dylan-y6n
      @Dylan-y6n วันที่ผ่านมา

      who in your opinion is responsible for that, men or women?

    • @jackbrown6788
      @jackbrown6788 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Dylan-y6n I'd say technology is responsible, primarily. Social media and dating sites. Don't get me wrong, some men are unpleasant and probably don't deserve dates but there are a lot of nice guys that aren't getting any female interest because they aren't great at presenting themselves well on social media or just aren't good looking enough or maybe a bit socially awkward.

  • @DEANSKIN09
    @DEANSKIN09 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    don't care

  • @ray1411
    @ray1411 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Did they have an old feminist bring up Henry the 8th? Damn, the same playbook. No one will chop off the heads of infertile women. Calm down.

  • @ammarsawi
    @ammarsawi หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Never too late Remember Zachary

  • @adamsgaddaf9596
    @adamsgaddaf9596 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm 38 years old single and I'm a man never married before but may be will consider doing so I don't really know for now😊

  • @ohenrico17acr92
    @ohenrico17acr92 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Strong and independent. We don’t care