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- Have you ever trusted someone you shouldn’t have? Or been betrayed by someone close to you? Has anyone you love ever stabbed you in the back? Or made you regret ever thinking you could trust them?
Without trust, there can be no communication, intimacy, respect, honesty, or emotional connection. It’s only a matter of time before all our relationships start falling apart. So, how do you know who you can trust and who you can’t? We’ve made this video on the types of people you should never trust to make it a little easier for you. If you find this video helpful and want to learn more about the early red flags an untrustworthy person display, you can check out our video here: • 8 Signs Someone Cannot...
#nevertrust #cannotbetrusted #psych2go #trust
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Rida Batool
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References:
www.aconsciousrethink.com/10887/signs-untrustworthy-person/
www.lifecoachcode.com/2018/04/27/types-of-people-you-should-not-trust/
www.awarenessact.com/the-7-types-of-people-you-should-never-trust/
www.inc.com/thomas-koulopoulos/5-sure-ways-to-identify-untrustworthy-people.html
Do you know someone who you don't trust? 😭😭 Watch 7 Things Only Fake Friends Do next to see if the signs applies to you th-cam.com/video/HR-PwsUayY0/w-d-xo.html
Hi :D
everyone
Hello, I act like something I'm not, I don't even know what I am actually, can you make a video like "how to find out hwo you really are"?? I really need that
@@wimebpress3836 😔 I feel that
Well, this helped because I tend to trust too easily and maybe I have quite been sort of hurt when people stab me in the back...
Now I won't trust people after what I have learnt from this video
“5. People who can’t make up their minds”
Overthinkers: *Maybe I am untrustworthy*
relatable
please don't remind me 😞
:”)
#relatable
@@11475llen yup
#waytooridiculouslyrelatable
"People Who Can't Make Up Their Minds"
Me Who Can't Make up My Mind : I Guess I Should Not Trust Myself
_* W h e e z e *_
are you sure? maybe.. well, actually.
no, i don't agree.
but do i really?
Ikr
Inaccurate/unclear point
No u should . We all should first belive in ourselves and the rest will change itself
God will help those who can be a good person and serve the people. Every god is Equal - every god says to be a good person and spread love.
-To do good and to be good is the whole of religion.
Try on my shoes too! Being remade! Not even my choice 🤡
8) People in active addiction
9) people who lie in front of you. If they are willing to be seen lying to others, they'll have no problem lying to you.
Painfully true. Learn the hard way.
Not true. Just another generalization based off on personal experiences and nothing else.
The psychopath neighbor and exfriend lied from day 1 until 10 months latter when I realized she was a psychopath and the only way to get rid of her since she was persistent was to blackmail her with the text messages she sent. I'm still finding out the truth about her lies
@@MonkeyDYumi Have you looked into any 12 step programs?
10) narcissists.
Canceling or canceling last minute can also be anxiety. Being a good friend means being aware of that. Canceling doesn't always mean they are a bad person or friend.
I used to cancel meetings according to events in my life, last time I cancelled an outing I was hospitalised! so it's not always an indicator for a bad person...
I agree so much
I always cancel, it's just that I always think of the worst...
It probably meant people who cheat or something, like those who can't make up their minds whether or not they want to be with someone.
sure they're a bad friend they just wish they weren't and you feel sorry for them
Being able to reject the people that are untrustworthy/toxic to you has got to be one of the most important skills to achieve, because if not done it can slowly deteriorate the quality of your life!
This is a good comment! Hope more people can read this!
@@Psych2go I Agree.
How to stay away from thosw?
@@sabnamarju7964 Learn to have will power and discipline but above all, self love♥️...
@@Psych2go your channel has the goods! OP comment should have top billing!👍🏼👍🏼
Its showtime (again):
1. People who spread secrets 0:45
2. People who talk badly about others 1:15
3. People who lack self-awarness 1:51
4. People who lack emphaty 2:23
5. People who cant make up their minds 2:51
6. People who dont take no for an answer 3:18
7. People who act differently around others 3:51
Do you think i have a better job?
Yeah I guess :>
But nobodys perfect 🤷♀️
thanks dude
Thank you, kind human
Another person you should add to this list is a person who is very selfish.
The worst situation is when u trust someone and tell them about something but instead of helping u they just make the situation worst by changing your words and statements completely and telling other people about the matter and trying to make u the worst person in someone's eye, i have faced many such people so i don't trust anyone around me 🥺
This was my ex-boyfriend 🙃
Yeah that’s a dick move, I’m so sorry you had go through that 🥺
I had a roommate like that.. omg wanted to smack tf outta her
I am very cautious with trusting. I have been bullied for 5 years in elementary school and I don’t want to be bullied again.
2 girls once suddenly confronted me and asked a lot of questions about me. No personal ones, just my name, hobbies and likes. But there was one that was very sus. “Do you hate anyone?”. I said someone they were friends with, and normally I would already don’t trust them. I shrugged it off a bit, but never fully did.
Next day they ask more questions about me and one was “You like K-Pop, right? Which artists?”. I said BTS, because they’re my favourite band out of all. They said they think that they could die. I was playing it cool, but literally died from inside. A lot of other people came then surrounding us. Since I feel uncomfortable with a lot of strangers, I ran off to the toilet to see what they would do. I was waiting for a long time, then they came in and said: “Where are you?”. They laughed, and I assumed they laughed at me. They came 3 more times and I immediately ran outside when they weren’t there anymore. I walked around the school to make sure they didn’t follow me, and went inside again as soon as next period started.
Next day they followed me outside when I was with my friends and were annoying us. I firstly just ignored them, but after some time I said “Hey bitch”. They were so mad, it was kinda funny how they took it. We argued a LONG time and I soon just said: “You know what? I’m going inside, you’re wasting my time.”. They were so shook XD. I immediately told one of my favourite teachers so they couldn’t frame me. She talked with them and said that they need to let me in peace, then nothing will happen. If they would still annoy me, I could go to her again.
They stopped, but I still think they are trying something. I hope nothing goes wrong...
I'm glad you have your favorite teacher to help you out! If it continues to happen again, do speak up to your favorite teacher. Their action towards you isn't right.
Bro if I went to School right now and that happened to me I would literally spend my snack and lunch breaks with one of my favourite Teachers and talk to them in the staff room with all of the other teachers for an entire year and right now that I rarely ever see my favourite Teachers I wish School was a place to live instead of home because without them it's almost impossible to change who I am as a person especially with my Anxiety and mental health issues 😔
for number 7 (3:52), keep in mind that people bringing out different parts of your personality is *not* the same as changing yourself around different groups. being two-faced, changing morals and image, is not the same as being yourself in the truest way your friends bring out 🥰💖✨
Thank you for that, because I got really worried there for a second 😅
@@a_sort_of_artist_7259 Yhh same as I act very differently when I'm with my parents and when I'm with my classmates
What if they act differently around you bc they liked u...
Totally agree.
only reason I act different around people is to avoid politics and because not everyone knows my gender identity
Trust takes immense effort to build and can be lost in a matter of seconds.
Trust needs to be EARNED...do not give it without actions that back up that they are trustworthy.
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True.
For real !
The art is getting adorable and I love it💕💕
Thank you! Shall we do more of these animation style? What other animation work do you like the most?
@@Psych2go yes please! I love how there’s more colors!!
These are literally all of my five sisters because of being raised by an dysfunctional mother and wonderful father. My brother was dysfunctional also and I loved him immensely. He passed away three yrs.ago. My father stayed at work or on the road as much as possible. Not to be arrogant but I am the normal one. I take after my dad.
When most of your friends are like this and you just realized that it's why you have trust issues
can't have that problem if you don't have any friends or keep people at distance 👌
Am sorry about that
facts
I am in that position now, letting go of many many friendships, healing wounds and slowly opening to new, better friends.
Get better friends
*Trust*
Just like a glass..
When it broke, and get fixed,
It will never be the same...
Thats deeper that my sleep..
You can protect the glass
Jajs al chile q profundo (?
@@chihomayorakacringeacc4458 xd
It will always have the cracks....
I tend to be two-faced not for my own image, but for the happiness of others. If I find something that makes someone I care about happy, I’ll change the way I behave to make them happy. I feel as though my existence serves no purpose than to please others. I’ll act like a sweet kid around my parents so they’re happy. I’ll act however my partner wants to make them happy. I know that everyone would be less happy if I was my authentic self. And at this point I’m so far away from that, I’ve forgotten what I really even am. I feel so meaningless. Nobody likes me, they like the me I’ve created to please them. There’s barely anything left of the real me. I feel so empty.
Hey dude I can understand how you feel but then ,you cannot fake urself like this forever,ur the best u can cross any hurdle, my friend please try being urself orelse u may end up hating urself,u may feel worthless one or the other day in the end u won't be happy and satisfied
Being urself is the strongest step in ur life don't lose ur authenticity for anyone I'm damn sure that ur parents and friends will understand you, and eventually accept u for the who u are 😇😇😇💜💜💜i wish that u overcome ur problem bravely I'm sure u can do it 💜💜💜💜💜💜
The title: "7 Types of People You Should Never Trust"
What I learned: 7 Ways to be Trustworthy
Yeah same
And teaching untrustworthy ppl who wants to trick others how to mask their ugly truth xD
Me too, I think this toxic traits I need work on.
3:17
My mom: *_That sign won’t stop me cause I can’t read it_*
me too lol
Lmaooo
How is this 2 month ago......
@@eve8006 I think there’s a glitch or something cause the other comments are like that.
@@eve8006 it's an unlisted vidéo
1. People who spread secrets 0:47
2. People who talk badly about others 1:16
3. People who lack self awareness 1:51
4. People who lack empathy 2:25
5. People who can't make up their minds 2:53
6. People who don't take NO for an answer 3:17
7. People who act differently around others 3:52
thank you
Thank you time traveler
The first one is my sister- 😔
wh-- how did you write this 2 months ago? Was it open to patrons or something?
Thank you
One thing about flaky people that makes it really difficult: they seem to really like talking to you and treat you like a close friend when talking. I keep wanting to give these people chances, but of course, keep letting me down by ignoring me, canceling plans or sudden decide to take an interest in you again out of nowhere even when you want to avoid them or you thought they were bored of you.
I think it's just normal to commit some of these sometimes 'cause nobody is perfect anyway. Especially venting out your frustrations about someone else to your confidantes. 'Cause as your channel had said many times, narcissistic people exists. You'll never win even if you confront them. So I think it's healthier to let your anger out than bottle your emotions up.
people who lack empathy are people who should never be managers!!! Dealing with a terrible manager right now
:( can sense the frustration
Sadly it's the cut throat people who get to lord it over other people.
I’m happy I don’t lack it 😭
Yes, and empathy lackers are often made managers unfortunately. The idea of being manager attracts dumb, over confident people. A lot more businesses should utilize psychology, as it’s mostly about interactions with people!
Unfortunately you have to be an emotionless maniac to be a manager. It's almost a compulsory requirement.
I remember my mom telling me this when I was little ...I used to be so sensitive and easy to harm , but now Im more careful abt ppl around me , its hard at first to get them out of ur life , but please ...your mental health and your feelings must be your first priority , you will feel much better after.
Sorry my english isn't my first language, Im still learning hehe . 🐰
i tell people things and they say 'i wont tell anyone', but sometimes they message me and start spilling secrets other people told them not to tell
This posted after blocking my "friend" who talk behind my back🥰
She needed me to go online class
I had a friend like that once, but she blocked me
*sigh, the timing of this video is also pretty convenient to me ;-;
Not gonna tell why, cause I dont wanna talk behind her back even if she does to me..
Tbh I know my friend talks behind my back and I think it’s fine rn because I gossip so once I can meet my own standards, I’m down to call her out
That's funny, this video popped up in my feed shortly after a "friend" burned her bridges with an entire group I'm with, just because many started to speak up against her selfish and self-serving behaviors that were actively hurting everyone else. She didn't claim even the slightest bit when it comes to personal faults and thinks everyone else wronged her.
I really trust everyone and everyone ends up hurting me, there is no such person here who I can trust🙂
you can only trust yourself since you're the only person that will never leave you.
Same and thats why now I can't trust anyone
@@hel2727 aww Thank you I needed that
"7 types of people you should never trust"
Brain: 1- *yourself*
For real I seem to be a fake friend omg I hate myself
Yep
I have to admit I am very guilty of Being the person who can’t make up their mind..
I was in a friendship being the person who can’t make up their mind and the other person was actually the fake friend.
The people who can’t make up their minds are always really bad.
I don't trust anyone because everyone does these at least once in their lives. I've always had trust issues (i had a school assignment to write a short story about my life and my main theme was trust and connecting with people), due to events earlier this year my trust in everyone across the board, humanity itself, has been shattered
No one is perfect. And that’s the hard beauty of reality
Never trust a rat, whether they ratted you out or someone else.
I'm disabled and I was bored out of my mind. I was scrolling down TH-cam when I found one of these videos. It looked interesting, so I decided to watch it. I have a B.A. degree in psychology, and this has long been a topic of interest for me. I've now watched two or three videos and I've loved all of them. This woman's voice is so lovely. I've subscribed so I won't miss any. Thank you so much, Psych2go!
I wish you the most happiest life sweetheart
The last one is me...I'm scared that people will judge me, so I act the way I think they expect me to and act differently around people I'm comfortable with.
Guess, I'm still not acceptable....maybe even I can't trust myself....I don't know who I really am?
Dam I’m wishing you luck
@@maplewhatever5581 thanks
I'm the same way, and it's torn me in two.
I don't need to watch this, I already have trust issues but I need to hear the calming voice 😭
*do I trust myself?*
* me : what does that mean...?*
Trusting yourself means being able to attempt to do all kinds of things without judging yourself too harshly if you spend a lot of time regretting things you've done or decisions you've made, you don't trust yourself. If you beat yourself up, if you think you're not doing good enough, or if you constantly feel like you've got under utilized potential then you don't trust yourself.
@@angii4818 thanks for this. ...actually needed. ..bless you
@@mygoalistohave1ksubscriber141 bless you too
@@angii4818 what if, say, a "friend" beats themselves up inside for the decisions they do (or don't) make, even when they believe the decisions are genuinely the best ones, BUT it's because they trust themselves not only to be harsh self-critics, but also mindful receivers of critique? Would you have anything to say to them? Again, definitely 100% asking for a friend and it definitely could potentially not be about me.
@@roythomas3667 then I feel like your friend is a sensitive soul who can withstand things and still be strong inside your friend has probably realized what type of person they are and even if some decisions hurt they still realize it was the best for them .Of course, all self-criticism is not harmful. Some is extremely beneficial. For example, the good kind, when not pursued to perfectionism, contributes to building your self-confidence and allows you to learn from your mistakes. On the other hand, the bad kind destroys self-confidence
did that help*
My ex was super serious around the house, but when we were out with mutual friends, it seemed like a switch flipped in his head, he would be more cheerful, make jokes, and laugh alot, it took me by surprise, it was like seeing an entirely different person!
It could be because the environment he's in changes his attitude, not sure..
Great video! I had experience dealing with untrustworthy people. I'm a kind person naturally. I go by someone's actions. No, we're not perfect but some people are not good and have bad intentions. I really dislike people who take advantage of people or use them for their own personal gain. Narcissists do stuff like that. Those seven signs are absolutely right! We must protect ourselves and KNOW who's genuine and who's not. I enjoyed this video. Keep up the amazing work!
Thanks for making this video its so useful everyone should watch it.
Glad you think so! Let us know what you think about this video and if it applies to you!
I have these as my "Friends."
I've tried to "ditch" them, but ever since the pandemic hit, it's been difficult to find friends or people to hang out with.
The last time I left them for a while, I hung out with my cousin's friends to talk about what I should do.
If there's anything in mind, can you make a video on "What You Should Do With People You Should Never Trust"
Pandemic Scamdemic however you perceive it the time it gives allows for you to re evaluate who is good to be in your life and who is not.
@Carrie McClure Get a divorce throw the husband out, your kids...the boyfriend in committed relationship with you. Solitary🤣
@Carrie McClure I told my cats to get a job and help pay the rent, they' re still here, dunno just dont listen Grrr...😂
Hanging around toxic people because you have no other friends is never a good idea , concentrate on making better friendships , toxic people can never be anyone's friend ,
i take a slight issue with #2: i seldom speak ill of others, but when i do it's out of honesty. if someone has told me straight up what they're doing, i have now knowledge of it, i will hold it in reserve in case something comes up -unless there's mortal danger or course. some people brag about their bad behaviour, perhaps not knowing others don't feel the same way i guess.
7. I'm introvert. I only show my true (happy) self to the ones I trust, the ones I don't trust or who I'm not close with, I will simply be not friendly with them.
This made me think of myself and everyone that I shed myself from this year.
I definitely need to be more aware of my actions and will definitely be slower to accept companionship when I'm ready to receive it.
It might even take me a year to actually really trust someone xD
That sticks me as pretty quick (unless you've had a dramatic bonding experience).
i never trust my friends anymore lmao
It take me 2 weeks-a month
@Karina Poghosyan until they break it in 2 minutes
REally Meeeee!!!!
Ofcourse these traits remind me of many people i've had around ,esp. the socalled closest ones ,my family members,sisters ,aunts ,mother,cousins ,friends stabbed me in the back
This is one of the best videos…right to the point and sooooo true!
1:21 that animation was so cute though but yes this is very accurate to fake friends thanks dude I love your advice
@Lone Wolf Nergigante ironically, that's how we loners get played. By not having the experience to spot these things early.
@Lone Wolf Nergigante yh, our habits give us time to reflect on what's happened and learn from it
@Lone Wolf Nergigante I wish I could enjoy being alone 🥺
#7 welp. I guess I can't be trusted lol
😂 all girls are like this
Well if you’re like silly and dumb with your best friend that’s fine I’m sure everyone is like that with their best friends but not with other people
Same here, I think I want my friends to really criticize me.....
Many of these things already happened to me, but it's nice to see that I was getting upset over real issues!
3 people who were in my life came to mind through this video and none of them knew they were being inconsiderate...
My former boss fit the "lack of empathy" description to a T. A lot of people quit suddenly and she always had an explanation of why it was that person's fault that they couldn't "handle" it. Nothing was ever her fault. There was always someone who had "done her wrong". I can't believe I actually believed her. I still feel like an idiot.
Me when I read the title: Hmm.... that seems interesting
Also me(1 sec later): Oh wait, I already don't trust anyone 😅
Same😅
Same😅
I'm the opposite, honestly I gave my trust to a wrong person a lot.. ;-;
@@Riinxan me as well, happens to the best of us.
@@Riinxan We're not opposite, I too did that and the result is now I don't trust anyone 😬
"People who can't make up their minds"
Welp, I guess nobody should trust me then.
I remember trusting two people in high school that I regret trusting (and who still occasionally haunt my dreams to this day ten years later).
Long story short: it was drilled into my head throughout my school years that explicitly asking about sex and anything related was an absolute taboo that would get you (especially if male) labelled a pervert for even the slightest question on the topic. But the two people who I made the mistake of trusting were two girls who weren't shy about the topic, so in time I felt I could trust them with issues I couldn't trust to the outside world. And after a very long time (almost spanning a few years) of me confiding my doubts on the subject with them, they then turn around and blab to the whole grade (which was admittedly small due to me being in a private school operating out of a house), and I was made to feel humiliated for the rest of the day.
Today, if a woman I know starts making any gesture that could be considered sexual in nature (such as swaying their hips side-to-side repeatedly), my first instinct is to yell "What the hell are you trying to pull?!" and rescind the trust placed in that person.
My “friend” always talks about her self and only her and one time I told her I liked someone but I don’t think they like me she said “yeah he probably would never like you I think he likes ***” and every time I try to talk about myself she gets mad she’s so self sentenced and if you argue with her she is massively rude or just wanna do something that she doesn’t want you to do
That's not a friend, friends are suppose to encourage one another. Move on.
Your videos have made me more interested in psychology! I plan on taking the class next semester ✨💕
I used to have a "good" friend (I thought we were good friends) who scarily hit every points mentioned in this video. I trusted her for so long and got stabbed so many times, not until last year that I realize she doesn't deserve my trust. One of the reason why I still try to trust her so much is that I developed a feeling toward her. It was the hardest time I ever been thru in my life. There were so up, but she will never show empathy or care about my feelings. She is the one that says "you are my friend" when she needs something, but also says "why are you so fragile with your feeling" when she hurt you. I am so happy that I've got over her now. These kind of people are really dangerous for your mental health.
Thanks for this video, it helped me realise that there are persons in my life I should stop being friends with. I already knew that there was a problem, but I was like "whatever, it doesn't matter", but now I'm starting to think that maybe I should do something about it. So, again, thanks.
Never thought I'd hear the phrase "piss you off" from Psych2Go
everyone acts like number seven 7 to some extent... There's diffrent typed of relationships and comfort zones and that can cause people behavior to change as well as different social situations
As long as that person isn't hurting anyone it's probably nothing
And jumping to shame or embarrassment is ludicrous think horses not zebras there's simpler answers like just plain human behavior and social etiquette
Yeah, obviously. I dont act the same way around my friends as i do like, my grandparents. Were talking about acting differently to fit in, such as being really nice to people when somebody is around, but the second they leave they stop. Sure, i dont act the same to everyone i meet, but at least i dont act
Yeah I do because I’m positive though more quiet or more talkative
I'm an example of number 7. I always find myself shifting my core values to relate to everyone I talk to in order to gain their trust. How do I stop?! It's tearing me apart!
Thank you for always coming up with such useful content >>>>
The art style always makes me so happy god it's just too cute 🥺
3:51 so I do this actually and for me personally I act a lot more like who I am with just one person because I feel a lot more comfortable around just one person then when it comes to a group of people I feel more pressured? I guess it’s kind of complicated I don’t really know how not to be two faced when it comes to that
“So.. did anyone come to mind while watching this video”
Yes, me 😭
That’s why I don’t really make close friends, I always feel like I’m gonna do something wrong and push them away.
Ah. I just dont make close friends cause im a guy and most people are very shallow and boring anyway
Yeah me too but yiu can change though you only did something wrong but you arent a bad person as long as you dont do the same thing again then you would be fine
Great and amazing video as usual.
I know a lot of people that are totally untrustworthy. This whole thing started to come to my mind when I was in 7th grade after interacting with a number of my peers. Unfortunately, there are a lot more untrustworthy people as opposed to good, decent people. That is the whole entire truth.
This is literally my entire family lol
Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. It won't work, if you don't trust each other." “I trust you" is better than "I love you" because you may not always trust the person you love but you can always love the person you trust." "The best proof of love is trust
The first tattoo I got were the kanji for, Trust, Respect, Honesty & Sincerity.
I believe these 4 things are integral for building and maintaining healthy relationships, no matter the setting.
Cheers for the video.
Thank you once again for a great video....
This channel makes my life so much easier, Thanks for your hard work. ♥️
Happy to hear that! What's your favorite topic so far?
@@Psych2go the HSP one, cause all my life ive been more sensitive than other people and now ik why💓
Hey! I’m too faced and I just suddenly change personality around certain people like when I’m around a certain friend I’m an all out party guy and with another I’m cold and collected
Right on!!! Knew someone who was flaky and had other qualities in your video. I kept on eye open and in the end the same red flag that was present remained. Not to be trusted!
There's so many people who will step on others to get ahead, there's a difference between competition and just being horrible. There is no need to do these things, path to success is availiable to everyone. God bless ❤❤❤❤
I'm that friend you can trust your secrets to .. cuz I literally forgot about it later on
Same
cool profile picture. who is it?
@@therockman-holic7429 just some random illustration of a girl I found on Pinterest, I don't even know haha
@@tsun-tsuna4345 is that so? ha ha.. it's fine. it happens to me all the time. thanks!
I am so naive !!! I trust everyone blindly >_< 😞😞 thankssss for this videeeooo !!!! Thankksss for saving me !!!
Did you find this video relatable to you? Hope it helped you!
Yes it did !!! Tysm♥️♥️✨
It’s the same with me. I’m super childish and naive.
I so much LOVE Amanda's voice 💓
Please make a video on overcoming indecisiveness. I direly need it.🙏
One person came to mind hearing these traits and that's me
Multiple of these sounds like my parents. Heres one more, someone who treats you nice when you live up to there demands, but gets angry when you don't.
Oh shit... I do this omg 😳
I was 5 of these (not the first 2) with my little sister growing up. I believe my mother was toxic and limited my ability to grow (she wouldn't allow me to get a job, or learn to drive. She wanted the authority position and thought she couldn’t have it if I started being independent) as a result I made the household more toxic. I have moved out, grown and now I really am a different person, but that doesn't change what I did to my sister growing up. I believe we have an honest relationship now, but I don't honestly know. I'm truly just waiting for her to be able to leave that toxic environment and grow her own self so I can actually meet the real her.
This is very validating.
Once wrote a personal letter to my ex-husband apologizing for my lack of empathy, taking blame for our breakup. He showed it to a mutual friend. I know because she told me he shared it with her. Any remaining trust I had with him went out the door. That hurt.
Now I m gonna observe people well before trusting them😁
Thanks for this amazing content dear♥️..... Love ur channel❤️
Thank you so much for watching! 😀 I hope you learned something new from this video. Did you find them relatable?
@@Psych2go yeah
... Your content is amazing as always♥️
Oh goodness, the last one reminds me of the last man I dated. I stayed for a while because I felt empathy for his insecurities and tried to encourage him to be himself with others, thinking if I could show him I was safe he'd be more honest. At first he was, but eventually his compulsion to hide his true self and perform for others meant he started trying to hide our relationship with people he feared wouldn't approve... Big time ouch. I'm glad he eventually told me he didn't love me in the way he needed to marry me. Though I felt hurt and staying away felt painful, it was a good opportunity to let go of someone who couldn't really be trusted. Thank you for this video. It is helping me put it all in better perspective. Of course, I had my challenges too and made choices I probably won't make again in reaction to being hidden and him being kinda fake. But this helps me see how to avoid being in that kind of situation in the first place. Thanks again!
I can relate to the last 4 of them except one I find coworkers, old friends now my enemies, and family acting like this I've been around this type of behavior for the majority of my life and I find this video quite interesting it confirms and defines more of the people I encounter on a day to day basis
I have had trust issues after this incident.
Once I had a crush (6th grade). He was very nice to me and we played a lot of games like Minecraft and stuff. He was almost a bit *too* nice, but I didnt think of that back then. He hated it when other people would join us, even in online games. He screamed at them to leave and then became like an angel to me. My feelings started to drift away from him. He notice that and he started to make up more excuses to be with me. he started using me. It was terrible. Finally I had enough. I stood up to him and told him off. He backed off after, but my feelings were not entirely dead. I shared every thing with him because I trusted him. And he broke me
So I don't really trust easily anymore.
Sorry if it's a lot of typing
Just my story in case you read it ✨
I'm feeling bad I just hope that I would have watched this video earlier before trusting my childhood friend blindly... 😞
Its okay we all have been through some difficulties and staying strong at all those movement is what makes us stong
I feel you, mine told everyone my secret (I had a crush on a girl, I study in an all-girls catholic school), she was the reason I was bullied, and years after that she had the nerve to say I should get over it.
Be grateful that you discovered & uncovered hidden knowledge about someone you trusted.. just you learning the types of people that you shouldn't trust is a huge step into this selfish world.. I know people in their 70s who had just barely realised that their partner in marriage doesn't love them & couldn't care less about them from over 50 years of marriage they've been together.. he just realised this.. never paid attention to the signs.. never read between the lines.. never understood double talks.. never questioned strange behaviors.. just blindly giving all of his trust from day 1.. now he is critically depressed & dying of old age with all sorts of illnesses.. plus all of his children turned out the same as their mother & they love her more than him & actually threatened him they'll kick him out of the house if he tries to remarry someone else or bring a helper or a nurse for his needs.. that's my uncle & his "family"
Life can be cruel for the ignorant.. & a blessing for the wise
@-R o s i e இ de nada :D ❤️
SAME HERE! It's probably cos I don't have many of those. Now I'm LITERALLY paying dearly for it. Not sure what to do other than cut them off.
Perfect timing. Because I need to get over and stay away from some people. This made me realize they're not my friends.
Ok so I just stumble upon this channel and I got say the animation and art is so CUTE! 😆
Yeah I have a friend that can’t take no for an answer, they’re an online friend but every time they see I’m online they try to get me to spend time with them, and if I try to suggest a different thing for us to do they sord of.. throw a fit? It’s kind of exhausting because I’m an introvert and I can’t be spending every day with the same person. I’ve tried to include them if I’m playing with another friend but they don’t stay very long. I’m pretty sure they just don’t want to. I don’t really know what to do. Sorry for the vent lol
I'm really sorry you had to go through that, I'm currently distancing myself from a friend that straight up tells me to "talk" whenever I don't respond back right away. I've told them multiple times to stop but they don't, so as of now I'm putting distance between us so that I don't have to deal with it anymore.
@@cc10higa yeah, I’m glad you’re able to distance yourself from them. Sometimes it’s hard, or at least for me.
@@holly205 I get how difficult it is to make the decision of distancing yourself from them. On one hand, you miss all the good moments you guys have had, and it can easily make you forget the bad parts. But it is possible to make new friends, and I did manage to make a couple new friends
@@cc10higa Thank you, this is helpful. Yeah, you’re right. I guess being bad at saying “no” and someone who won’t accept “no” isn’t the best combination.
@@holly205 yeah, it is hard to learn how to say no, and it is also difficult to deal with people who take no for an answer. I want to smack the latter across the face tbh. I still have trouble saying no at times but I'm working on it.
This is just a suggestion as I enjoy watching your videos. I think it's about time you put English subtitles in your videos.
Good idea, I think TH-cam has an auto-generated english caption when you click on CC.
@@Psych2go I wouldn't be suggesting this if auto-generated caption is accurate and convenient. Since so many people watch your videos and they are interested to learn about psychology, I think it will be better to have subtitles. Plus, not everyone speaks English as their native language. Anyway, this is just a suggestion from one of your long time subscribers, but the channel is truly yours, so you do you.
This is so true people are too faced 😊❤️
Number 1 - Listen to your instinct it tells you who you should not trust never neglect its first sign and the vibe you feel when the person is around you 🌸🌸
Yea I trusted the wrong people and they replaced me..
Most of these sound like me in middle school haha
It's okay. We all make mistakes, if you regret these then it is almost the same as not doing it ☺️. Don't punish yourself for those mistakes too much, you deserve good as well 😊❤️
Nice Moonbyul I see 👀👍👌
MOONBYUL
hello people
How was this 2 months ago-
Ouf. I like to think I'm honest and trustworthy, but I think this video may have helped me with some self-realization. Thank you for the perspective.
Your all videos are very helpful 😘❤️❤️ and this video is amazing.. best for all type of age👍🏻 but teens have to see this❤️❤️
huh. Looks like all of those reasons is the same way my best friends acts- :/
I may not trust myself much.
2 months later: I MUST not trust myself much.
I want to learn your drawing style it looks so simple and cool!
Excellent...thank u
Me: have trust issue.
Also me: check out the entire video to see if i have any of the signs or not.