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Many thanks, I been tryin to find out about "what are the qualities of good public speaker?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Ganlizabetharn Glorious Gratification - (do a search on google ) ? It is a great exclusive guide for discovering how to master public speaking without the hard work. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my colleague got excellent results with it.
extra tips a. fix your posture b. don't soft speak c. look confident d. interact with the audience e. get the crowd to laugh (have a good sense of humor)
For the last one, engaging the audience is key. Whether it's with a sense of humor or a new perspective on the topic, a sharp wit can engage the audience in ways a sense of humor might not. Talking from a place of genuine care and respect will also keep an audience in the conversation.
Stay focused on the thinks U wanna share. Accept that we R human, so we can fail and none will kill U for this. Get in touch with people, they are here "just for U" so take a deep breath stand tall and be confident! ENJOY your the moment
For once, in my 24 years of lurking in the dark that I am now ready to take public speaking seriously. It's a skill that's is applicable in almost everything we do and it opens up a lot of opportunities. Your introvert story has inspired me to put practice in how I speak and present myself. It's going to be a long journey to recondition myself but I have confidence that I can do it.
After years of gaining business through telephone calls, I realized my strengths were more in public speaking. I'd love to now apply that to earning a living. I will be starting a video/audio blog for men, women. Dealing with self esteem issues, relationships, and what men REALLY want. This video was definitely a big help Thanks, Style-Guy! Rock on,man! -Adjovi Alakoye
I did a presentation in english class and this info really does help! I sill get a bit shakey the longer it takes and the longer i talk and start to talk faster towards the end but their was a huge improvement. Thanks
This video is awesome. Practise is the key. I should watch all your videos, not just for learning how to dress but also for learning your way of putting the words. Besides, it is crazy that you are responding to almost all the comments. I have never seen anyone who has done such a good job!
Yesss, like TOTALLY loved it! Especially, about the Cali Doctor! So true, didn't realize it, until I went to college, Out of State! It definitely matters who's your audience! Another thing which i try so hard to work on too are, Hand Gestures during a speech, as well as Eye Contact , and Smiling! Errrrr Thank You For Your Informative Tips, Keep Up the Good Work!
Every great speaker be like ,” I was an introvert in my high school “. So moral of the story is be an introvert in your school and one day you will be a good speaker 😑
What about thinking while speaking? I was looking for you to say something about that. Thinking quickly on your feet and practicing the way one thinks while professionally giving a speech or a talk. It's different than everyday life thinking
Zimmermania, this takes a lot of practice and eventually, once you're used to speaking in public, it'll be just like having regular conversations and you'll be quick on your feet :)
I can sense this in my imagination. I want to start giving talks on holistic cures for cancer and degenerative diseases to groups. I am getting requests to speak but I never spoke in front of people. I'm not terribly shy but I forgot my lines in a play in 3rd grade and that ended my hollywood career... LOL I'll check out more of your stuff / vids and study up. Thanks
BTW I love mens fashion. I could design cool stuff for men all day long. Project Funway... San Diego style. But I'm just a computer geek with a twist for health and wellness. I'd like to take my camera out and talk to well dressed people about their unique choices in fashion. How cool would THAT be?
Okay I noted it that you are saying listening and talking .. last week I talked to with one person face-to-face.. and I clarify my option.. and that person agreed to me. Some point few days later that person return back to me. Did demanding before the appointment time we we agreed that make me so disappointing upset when people broke the word..how can this fix ?
Thank you very much, I for one do not like hearing myself on recording ,I have not had as of yet a presentation ,But I am working on a youtube video. I find it hard to talk to a camera and still keep in mind on what I want to say, Thumbs UP!
+Real Men Real Style thanks a lot buddy! I had to watch this because I am also a person who is not a big fan of public speaking. I have a presentation next Tuesday and I am slightly nervous. watching this video made me calm down some and feel confident about myself. so again, thank you.
It's such a good remind of me to practice more in daily life. i am not well in speaking, less organized. I have got tips from you. Thanks for sharing and look forward to your audio lessons more.
Really interesting video, i think these kind of skills should be taught at school... be able to talk in public w/o feeling fear or stressed is a thing that help your self esteem and make you feel a better person !
This was amazing, I have thought waht you said for years, but because it was me thinking it, I thought, arr man Conrad who are you kidding?! But now hearing someone else actually say it, it has made me feel a lot lot more confident...Thanks a lot my friend!!! (-:
Great Lesson!! I think practicing your speech in a mirror or video recording is under valued today. I've met many sales people that just "wing it" but when I met a seasoned sales person and to hear his presentation it turned my mind around. I'm an analytical person and to hear a well practiced speech fits my style. I'll be looking for more of your videos, thanks for the contribution!
I like to watch what speakers/presenters do with their hands, and you articulate and express very well with yours. Interestingly, I noticed that when your hands are momentarily at rest, you go for your ring - I'll call it, "putting on the ring." Is this an intentional rest point for your hands, or is it a subconscious go-to pause-spot? Thanks for the video and take care!
Every time whenever i speak in front of audience , I get nerversed. So at every moment in the speech , I pronounce awe,awe..... for a break. So help me in this regard.
Nalini Kanta Choudhury I would say practice, practice and practice in front of the mirror to see how you look and also you can ask a friend to give you a feedback on a mock presentation
1/ Practice. Put as many videos as possible. He has put well over 200 videos, plus he has deleted other hundreds and hundreds that he didn’t like. 2/ Listen. Read every single comment, people and learn from them. 3/ Record and Watch. We are our worst critic, and its going to be painful at first. Be aware of the crutch words that you use, etc.. and improve. 4/ Be honest with yourself. 5/ Know your audience and subject. Don’t let this hold you back, but learn as much as possible. 6/ Carry Notes. You can use a white board in front of you for the main points or some notes if necessary.
Slow down your speaking. Work on individual sounds and words. Break down sentences into small groups of two or three words. Work on each group of words separately… through repetition, exercising your tongue and your mouth as muscles, to make them fit. Then gradually join the word groups together, two groups, then three groups etc. Slowing down is important and lets you hear everything you are doing, so you can decide what your problem is. Then work on the exercises - single words, pairs of words, etc etc all the way up.
I am scared to death for this public speaking class I'm about to take next month.I'm trying to prepare now.I have really bad panic attacks and I tend to laugh a lot as they occur.I'll try to make a speech or something and record myself just to we where I stand,
I think it's important to stay natural and not try to do "clean" what you haven't practiced enough. Everyone remembers how irritating it is to listen to someone who's jumping out of his socks to get you on his side. It opens a whole specter of negative impressions like brown-nosing, demagogy, suppression, desperation or fogginess. When people get this bit of idea you're trying to brain-wash them they turn seriously negative. So it's barely possible to get people on your side with a speech but it's very easy to lose trust hearing any false notes caused by orator's attempts to needlessly improve his words. So I think for public speaking it's important to stay simple, informative and, to not have problems with repeating words, using crutch words or stumbling, try to speak slow and clear.
hand gestures works for me.. it eases you when you're in the crowd or presenting something.. its really distracting when you're in a 1 on 1 conversation though but hey this is youtube..
The 6th point-Carrying Notes was so good for me...I was always feeling shy on carrying notes to the school speeches I do.. But now I feel confident on carrying the notes... Yeah, we are human beings... And we tend to forget.. Thanks for this great video..
I just want to say a quick thank you. I watched this video last Monday and I have had two presentations since then. I've always had a massive fear of public speaking and your explanation of how you need to practice, practice, practice and record yourself so you can play it back really helped me a lot. Both presentations went really well, they were peer marked and most of the people I spoke to marked them highly :P Thanks again for the advice.
I have watched quite a lot of dealing with speaking in public, because I get so nervous and when I get up to the front of the room I start getting scared and embarrassed, it makes me fiddle with things, move my feet around or all my confidence drops. This video and others have giving me points on how to deal with it.
Excellent. I am a Professor and a Doctor with hopes to become a Public Speaker. These videos are very helpful. I am comfortable being in front of a crowd......my problem......'slow down my talking'.. Very helpful
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I LOVE YOUR VOICE AND THEY WAY HOW YOU SPEAK. I WANT TO MEET YOU AND BE MY MENTOR.
thanls
thanks
Cheers for the Video clip! Apologies for butting in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you researched - Tansaiah Voiceless Transcendence (do a google search)? It is a smashing one of a kind guide for getting free online traffic and make money without the hard work. Ive heard some super things about it and my mate at very last got cool results with it.
Many thanks, I been tryin to find out about "what are the qualities of good public speaker?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Ganlizabetharn Glorious Gratification - (do a search on google ) ? It is a great exclusive guide for discovering how to master public speaking without the hard work. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my colleague got excellent results with it.
For those whom don't have time:
1. practice
2. Listen
3. Record and watch
4. Be honest with yourself
5. Know your audience and subject
+Proto kjax hahaha lmfao
+Proto kjax 6. (Bonus point) Carry notes
+Proto kjax That's what everyone says number 6 is hire a voice actor
lol
Thanksss
extra tips
a. fix your posture
b. don't soft speak
c. look confident
d. interact with the audience
e. get the crowd to laugh (have a good sense of humor)
For the last one, engaging the audience is key. Whether it's with a sense of humor or a new perspective on the topic, a sharp wit can engage the audience in ways a sense of humor might not. Talking from a place of genuine care and respect will also keep an audience in the conversation.
Good recap!
Could you please explain the 2nd point
Very relevant!
I'm doing a public presentation tomorrow and I've been stressing soo much. Definitely not as nervous any more. Thank you!!
Stay focused on the thinks U wanna share.
Accept that we R human, so we can fail and none will kill U for this.
Get in touch with people, they are here "just for U" so take a deep breath stand tall and be confident!
ENJOY your the moment
I do too. Although watching this made me have a panic attack... Lol hope tomorrow I get hit by a bus on the way to class.
How did it go?
For once, in my 24 years of lurking in the dark that I am now ready to take public speaking seriously. It's a skill that's is applicable in almost everything we do and it opens up a lot of opportunities. Your introvert story has inspired me to put practice in how I speak and present myself. It's going to be a long journey to recondition myself but I have confidence that I can do it.
After years of gaining business through telephone calls, I realized my strengths were more in public speaking. I'd love to now apply that to earning a living. I will be starting a video/audio blog for men, women. Dealing with self esteem issues, relationships, and what men REALLY want. This video was definitely a big help Thanks, Style-Guy! Rock on,man!
-Adjovi Alakoye
Adjovi Jimason You are welcome sir
I did a presentation in english class and this info really does help! I sill get a bit shakey the longer it takes and the longer i talk and start to talk faster towards the end but their was a huge improvement. Thanks
Great to hear that!
This video is awesome. Practise is the key. I should watch all your videos, not just for learning how to dress but also for learning your way of putting the words. Besides, it is crazy that you are responding to almost all the comments. I have never seen anyone who has done such a good job!
Raffles Zhu awesome - thank you for the kind words sir
I appreciate your vulnerability and honesty ty man
Wow....you were crisp and to the point. You kind of make me go out and talk.
Thank you for sharing these wonderful clips.
i was planning to watch the begining of your video, but i couldn't stop! what you are talking about is really what im looking for! thank u!
Great! I am happy.
Amazing video, very well spoken, cant wait to see more of your videos!
Yesss, like TOTALLY loved it! Especially, about the Cali Doctor! So true, didn't realize it, until I went to college, Out of State! It definitely matters who's your audience! Another thing which i try so hard to work on too are, Hand Gestures during a speech, as well as Eye Contact , and Smiling! Errrrr
Thank You For Your Informative Tips, Keep Up the Good Work!
Christina Lucas thank you for the feedback Christina :) appreciate the enthusiasm
Thank u very clear how to improve.
There is no traffic on the extra mile. Well said! :)
please what does it mean ?
I like that lol I'm gonna start using this
Every great speaker be like ,” I was an introvert in my high school “. So moral of the story is be an introvert in your school and one day you will be a good speaker 😑
You're body language is amazing. The way you speak and use your hands to communicate is on point.
How can I get it
Thanks a lot... Gonna share with friends... inspirational.
obaid mohammed Wow, thanks!
This applies to me very much so! Thank you for sharing!!
What about thinking while speaking? I was looking for you to say something about that. Thinking quickly on your feet and practicing the way one thinks while professionally giving a speech or a talk. It's different than everyday life thinking
Zimmermania, this takes a lot of practice and eventually, once you're used to speaking in public, it'll be just like having regular conversations and you'll be quick on your feet :)
I can sense this in my imagination. I want to start giving talks on holistic cures for cancer and degenerative diseases to groups. I am getting requests to speak but I never spoke in front of people. I'm not terribly shy but I forgot my lines in a play in 3rd grade and that ended my hollywood career... LOL I'll check out more of your stuff / vids and study up. Thanks
BTW I love mens fashion. I could design cool stuff for men all day long. Project Funway... San Diego style. But I'm just a computer geek with a twist for health and wellness. I'd like to take my camera out and talk to well dressed people about their unique choices in fashion. How cool would THAT be?
Okay I noted it that you are saying listening and talking .. last week I talked to with one person face-to-face.. and I clarify my option.. and that person agreed to me. Some point few days later that person return back to me. Did demanding before the appointment time we we agreed that make me so disappointing upset when people broke the word..how can this fix ?
Good Sharing and Clear Message.
Thanks!
DkXboxer You are welcome!
Your so helpful thank you for the great advice ! You've gained a new subscriber !
bella Bon Thanks a lot :)
I appreciate your transparency! Great video!
You are great at this. I'll be taking your advice and I'll begin to work on myself ASAP! Please keep doing what you're doing! :)
Brittani Harris thank you for the kind words - this just makes my day. Appreciate your comments
I am a Network Marketer and i do presentation a lot and this video is a big help for me. Thank you!
Rainier Jaeg Glad to know! :)
practice,practice,practice ,practice and again practice that makes perfect....
Yeah
Right brother
Great tips...I will bring them to my classrooms...Thanks
Thank you Samah Lattakia
really helpful video
Very well done. Thank you for this video. You're effective and natural. All the right stuff to be a polished speaker.
philanddeb818 thank you for the kind words.
Truly deserved. The pleasure is mine.
archont thank you for the feedback.
thanks you're honestly man
Thank you very much, I for one do not like hearing myself on recording ,I have not had as of yet a presentation ,But I am working on a youtube video. I find it hard to talk to a camera and still keep in mind on what I want to say, Thumbs UP!
Awesome video and I have subscribed , thank you
+katherine waterhouse Great to have you here! You're very welcome.
+Real Men Real Style thanks a lot buddy! I had to watch this because I am also a person who is not a big fan of public speaking. I have a presentation next Tuesday and I am slightly nervous. watching this video made me calm down some and feel confident about myself. so again, thank you.
+john johnson I have a speech tomorrow (when postin this comment) and I'm kinda freaking out.
Thank you💙
Thank you! That was great advice!
It's such a good remind of me to practice more in daily life. i am not well in speaking, less organized. I have got tips from you. Thanks for sharing and look forward to your audio lessons more.
Mathew Chan You are welcome
Great speaking tips my friend. I appreciate what you do.
Lakeisha McKnight thank you :)
nice tips. can u please make some videos for interview preparation?
Sound advice, well presented, helpful video!
Really interesting video, i think these kind of skills should be taught at school... be able to talk in public w/o feeling fear or stressed is a thing that help your self esteem and make you feel a better person !
Merio M exactly!
Real Men Real Style Thanks for the reply and keep up the good work !!!
Very well said "no traffic on the extra mile".
So work hard and get lucky :)
This was amazing, I have thought waht you said for years, but because it was me thinking it, I thought, arr man Conrad who are you kidding?! But now hearing someone else actually say it, it has made me feel a lot lot more confident...Thanks a lot my friend!!! (-:
Conrad Moore thank you. appreciate that!
Great Lesson!! I think practicing your speech in a mirror or video recording is under valued today. I've met many sales people that just "wing it" but when I met a seasoned sales person and to hear his presentation it turned my mind around. I'm an analytical person and to hear a well practiced speech fits my style. I'll be looking for more of your videos, thanks for the contribution!
You're welcome Ramal26 !
I belive that its the first step for how to speak professional
Bravo Antonio, I love following your great TH-cam channel!!Ciao from Italian Gentleman!!
+Pietro Oliva Thank you Pietro! Ciao Italy!
I like to watch what speakers/presenters do with their hands, and you articulate and express very well with yours. Interestingly, I noticed that when your hands are momentarily at rest, you go for your ring - I'll call it, "putting on the ring." Is this an intentional rest point for your hands, or is it a subconscious go-to pause-spot? Thanks for the video and take care!
thanks alot mr
This is the most useful video..great job.
My sophomore speech is tomorrow and .. I'm Beyond nervous! This helped a lot. Thank you!
Bro, you're a beast.
you talk professionally and manly
+calvin kuek thank you!
Real Men Real Style thhg
I would agree! @@RealMenRealStyle I really appreciate the transparency.
Kalvin Kuek lol manly that didn’t really cross my mind... lol
Good video
skip to 0:46 to learn the 5 tips...
Nice
Every time whenever i speak in front of audience , I get nerversed. So at every moment in the speech , I pronounce awe,awe..... for a break. So help me in this regard.
Nalini Kanta Choudhury I would say practice, practice and practice in front of the mirror to see how you look and also you can ask a friend to give you a feedback on a mock presentation
1/ Practice. Put as many videos as possible. He has put well over 200 videos, plus he has deleted other hundreds and hundreds that he didn’t like.
2/ Listen. Read every single comment, people and learn from them.
3/ Record and Watch. We are our worst critic, and its going to be painful at first. Be aware of the crutch words that you use, etc.. and improve.
4/ Be honest with yourself.
5/ Know your audience and subject. Don’t let this hold you back, but learn as much as possible.
6/ Carry Notes. You can use a white board in front of you for the main points or some notes if necessary.
Thank you
Very useful, thanks!
You are welcome.
Great Tips. Love it! Thanks a lot.
Obing Ghozaly You're welcome! :)
i was told when speaking i tend not pronounce words well. what should i do!!!!!!??
mugubi moses Just keep on practicing! :)
Slow down your speaking. Work on individual sounds and words. Break down sentences into small groups of two or three words. Work on each group of words separately… through repetition, exercising your tongue and your mouth as muscles, to make them fit. Then gradually join the word groups together, two groups, then three groups etc. Slowing down is important and lets you hear everything you are doing, so you can decide what your problem is. Then work on the exercises - single words, pairs of words, etc etc all the way up.
Real Men Real Style
Recite poetry out loud and over-enunciate the words. I'm a preacher and I had the same problem. This fixed it.
I am scared to death for this public speaking class I'm about to take next month.I'm trying to prepare now.I have really bad panic attacks and I tend to laugh a lot as they occur.I'll try to make a speech or something and record myself just to we where I stand,
Kayla C great to hear Kayla!
I think it's important to stay natural and not try to do "clean" what you haven't practiced enough. Everyone remembers how irritating it is to listen to someone who's jumping out of his socks to get you on his side. It opens a whole specter of negative impressions like brown-nosing, demagogy, suppression, desperation or fogginess. When people get this bit of idea you're trying to brain-wash them they turn seriously negative. So it's barely possible to get people on your side with a speech but it's very easy to lose trust hearing any false notes caused by orator's attempts to needlessly improve his words.
So I think for public speaking it's important to stay simple, informative and, to not have problems with repeating words, using crutch words or stumbling, try to speak slow and clear.
RedGallardo great point there!
You are right. As simpler your words are , easier to listen and understand your words become.
Ever met a pyramid scheme spokesman that is very loud and overly enthusiastic? I don't trust people that are like that.
great pointers and you should develop this idea. good luck thanks again
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He uses far to many hand gestures...that's distracting!
TheAlanakane Thanks for your feedback! :)
You're Welcome!
Nothing bad about that.
Real Men Real Style
Your hand gestures are very natural. I wasn't distracted.
hand gestures works for me.. it eases you when you're in the crowd or presenting something.. its really distracting when you're in a 1 on 1 conversation though but hey this is youtube..
i'm looking for a partner to practice my English? anyone?
have you found anyone yet???
+Moh Ammouri How did it go?
It's a very usefull video.....thanks....
The 6th point-Carrying Notes was so good for me...I was always feeling shy on carrying notes to the school speeches I do.. But now I feel confident on carrying the notes... Yeah, we are human beings... And we tend to forget.. Thanks for this great video..
I just want to say a quick thank you. I watched this video last Monday and I have had two presentations since then. I've always had a massive fear of public speaking and your explanation of how you need to practice, practice, practice and record yourself so you can play it back really helped me a lot. Both presentations went really well, they were peer marked and most of the people I spoke to marked them highly :P Thanks again for the advice.
You are welcome sir! Appreciate the kind words
Hey Matt! How is your life now?
I need more of this from you and i would be much more happy thanks for the work u put out on youtube
I have watched quite a lot of dealing with speaking in public, because I get so nervous and when I get up to the front of the room I start getting scared and embarrassed, it makes me fiddle with things, move my feet around or all my confidence drops. This video and others have giving me points on how to deal with it.
Thanks for the suggestions....... I really need this thinks
Great video, thank you sharing!
MAXIMUS You're welcome! :)
thank you so much for the tips!
Excellent. I am a Professor and a Doctor with hopes to become a Public Speaker. These videos are very helpful. I am comfortable being in front of a crowd......my problem......'slow down my talking'.. Very helpful
This is awesome! Then thank you for sharing this tips.
Lerry James Timpangco thanks Lerry!
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Amazing Tips Thanks A Lot...
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Pankaj Wagh Thank you!
I am gearing up for a student council campaign and I am just observing and taking notes for future reference.
Cool!
Really enjoyed it ...Thank you.
Great video! You break it down in a basic but organized format.
+Defender213 Thanks!
Awesome video! Very helpful, thank you very much! :)
Orie Ansorie You're welcome! :)
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Good advice to improve your self. Thank you very much.
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Proper solid advice. Great work.
Football10Fan thank you for the feedback :)
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Sounded very authentic in your delivery. Thank you
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Short, Sweet and Simple videos with a great impact. Thank you so much.
Thank you for the great vid!
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Putera San You're welcome! :)
yes...I m gonna follow these tips in my next speaking. thank you.
i needed this, thanks . i want to try this! hopefully it will work for me too!
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