How to speak so that people want to listen | Julian Treasure | TED

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    Have you ever felt like you're talking, but nobody is listening? Here's Julian Treasure to help you fix that. As the sound expert demonstrates some useful vocal exercises and shares tips on how to speak with empathy, he offers his vision for a sonorous world of listening and understanding.
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  • @MrDuck313
    @MrDuck313 8 ปีที่แล้ว +30310

    He didn't use any "uhm"s or "eh"s in his speech. Absolutely amazing.

    • @chawbok
      @chawbok 8 ปีที่แล้ว +625

      At 5:10 but aside from that... Lol

    • @rodrigosegura2400
      @rodrigosegura2400 8 ปีที่แล้ว +398

      +chawbok He noticed... look at his throat 5:13

    • @RonCorwin
      @RonCorwin 8 ปีที่แล้ว +213

      Amazing? That stuff is basic. Somebody didn't listen to the exaggeration portion of this talk. ;)

    • @SilentMover95
      @SilentMover95 8 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      +Niek de Gier Must have taken some time to master his speech. I need to learn this too.

    • @AntiComposite
      @AntiComposite 8 ปีที่แล้ว +239

      +SilentMover95 A good way to avoid filler words and increase effectiveness is to make eye contact with whomever you are talking to.

  • @meditationrelaxclub
    @meditationrelaxclub 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15743

    If everyone took an extra minute to think before speaking, the world would be such a better place.

    • @theb166-er3
      @theb166-er3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +203

      I wish to remember this one ... But there would be damn looooong cues everywhere. Not to mention all the phone calls that start with one-minute silence :D

    • @nomadequipment2177
      @nomadequipment2177 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@theb166-er3 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣good one❤

    • @oldhounddog57
      @oldhounddog57 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      As my father used to say... make sure the brain is engaged before operating the mouth.

    • @eleventothesun1158
      @eleventothesun1158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      And the most awkward place lol

    • @sangto5385
      @sangto5385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Eleven to the sun it will not be a problem as long as you’re not judging someone else.

  • @MysticsofIndia
    @MysticsofIndia 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1875

    this is the shortest 9 minute that have passed. What a life-changing speech.

    • @mingyuhuang8944
      @mingyuhuang8944 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Always good to listen to these speeches to improve your own emotional intelligence, even if it's only a little bit of improvement.
      Charisma and communications are a real void for most people these days.😢

    • @WHITE-pz8sv
      @WHITE-pz8sv 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dead A** channel! Lol

  • @countmein5164
    @countmein5164 ปีที่แล้ว +1186

    Did he just influence such a large group of people within 10mins to make them stand and do some warmups like that?
    He proved his technique to be true. Amazing!

    • @TheFogLakeshore
      @TheFogLakeshore 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Wow it's so amazing. People from all around want to hear and interact, they come and sit in silence with others to hear someone elevated on a stage with an electrically-amplified voice. Lo and Behold, they are listening to the person on an elevated stage with an amplified voice! IT MUST BE A MIRACLE!

    • @abderahmanedrai2122
      @abderahmanedrai2122 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Its easy to do that actually

    • @mingyuhuang8944
      @mingyuhuang8944 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@TheFogLakeshore Always good to listen to these speeches to improve your own emotional intelligence, even if it's only a little bit of improvement.
      Charisma and communications are a real void for most people these days.😢😢😢😢

  • @swine13
    @swine13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2826

    "Theres nothing wrong with silence, is there?"
    This man has obviously never been to dinner with my family.

    • @Mina-qi1pc
      @Mina-qi1pc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      😂

    • @musabrehman4587
      @musabrehman4587 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      lol

    • @mdrakibuddinrakib3579
      @mdrakibuddinrakib3579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol

    • @kokokorea6794
      @kokokorea6794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      "There's nothing wrong with a LITTLE BIT of silence, is there?"
      Well he said a little bit and you left it out completely.... it entirely changed the meaning...

    • @fullofbullets58
      @fullofbullets58 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LMAO!!!

  • @hospitalcleaner
    @hospitalcleaner 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6830

    "People prefer voices which are rich, smooth, warm like hot chocolate" Julian said, knowing his voice sounded rich, smooth and warm, like hot chocolate.

    • @sexocity123
      @sexocity123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      This is so funny

    • @hospitalcleaner
      @hospitalcleaner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      thanks bro haha

    • @patzchan1900
      @patzchan1900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yah that "see what i did there?" 🤣

    • @RuneKatashima
      @RuneKatashima 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      That whole section is him proving it. He is literally implying he trained for that voice.

    • @sangamharsolia5069
      @sangamharsolia5069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Exception : Severus Snape

  • @Venus-9421
    @Venus-9421 ปีที่แล้ว +2904

    7 sins of speaking:
    gossip
    judging
    negativity
    complaining
    excuses, not taking responsibility
    exaggeration, that can become lying
    dogmatism, confusion of facts with opinions
    H - honesty, be clear and straight
    A - authenticity, be yourself
    I - integrity, be your word, trustworthy
    L - love, wish people well
    Humans prefer voices, that are low(coming from chest), rich, warm, smooth. YOU can train to get there (coach, posture, breathing, exercises).
    Change tones, to communicate meanings. Dont use wrong tonality and make it reflect what you are trying to communicate.
    Pace
    Silence
    Pitch - how high
    Volume - from loud to quiet
    Exercises:
    2X arms up, deep breath in - breath out as arms go down
    warm up lips "ba, ba, ba..." 8:14
    lips coming alive "brrrr" like kids
    tongue exaggerated "la, la, la, la"
    "rrrrrrrrr" like champagne for the tongue
    siren high to low 2x "oooweeeeaaaw" copied comment , used for reminder perposes

  • @ayaankhan5624
    @ayaankhan5624 ปีที่แล้ว +587

    Thank you for the great info, my takeaways:
    - Things to avoid:
    - Judging
    - Excuses
    - Gossip
    - Dogamatism
    - Complaining
    - Lying
    - Negativity
    - HAIL
    to greet or acclaim enthusiastically
    H - Honesty → Be clear and straight
    A - Authenticity → Standing in your own truth
    I - Integrity → be your word
    L - Love → Wish them well
    - Voice
    Register
    - Speak from the chest → Depth = Power and Authority
    Timbre
    - Way your voice feels → Rich-smooth-warm
    - Train your voice - Voice Coach
    - Breathing and posture
    Prosody
    - SIng song → Meta language
    - Monotonic tone is boring
    - Make it livilier with changing up the tones
    - Repeatative Prosody coming up
    Pace
    - Pace up
    - Slow down → Emphasize
    - Silence
    Pitch
    - High and low pitch signify different meaning
    Volume
    - Vary volume according to purpose
    - Warm Up Exercises
    Arms Up → Deep breath in and sigh out Aaaaahhhh
    Lips → Bupp Buppp Buppp
    → Brrrrrrr Brrrrr Brrr
    Tongue
    → La la la la
    → Thrrrrthhrr → Champagne for the tongue
    Pitch
    Weeeee - Oooooo

  • @ondermetu
    @ondermetu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2448

    4:06 " If you are wishing somebody's well, it is very hard to judge them at the same time. " impressive expression, so real.

    • @ScorpioHR
      @ScorpioHR 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Judgment is good but only as a starting point, that should follow with "but I can help you...."
      Unfortunately, most judgments are about: now go and fix your own problems.
      Like, if I could do it alone don't you think I wouldn't do it already?!

    • @Marmer
      @Marmer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed. I need to remember this.

    • @romanstryzhyk9156
      @romanstryzhyk9156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It was written in Holy Bible two thousands years ago, interesting fact. All new is forgotten old

    • @ScorpioHR
      @ScorpioHR 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@romanstryzhyk9156 New Testament was written by Greeks and they were "smart ones" and philosophers of the ancient times. Problem is, Romans highjacked it and changed the meaning and turned metaphorical story to literal ones, it became the story of materialistic magic. But then Revelation was added, like the fairy in the Sleeping Beauty altered the witches curse, so did they added "Apocalypse" part in it. But Apocalypse literally mean "unveiling", finding something that was hidden - the hidden meaning and the truth that if you take story of Jesus as metaphor and not literal story of a man who died and then zombified, you still can make it all fit and meaningful. Like plot twist gives you the key to re-read the book or re-watch the movie and go through the same path but now there's completely different meaning. And that key, actually, is what brings the "destruction of the world as we know it" because once you see you cannot unsee and nothing is the same any more.. New Earth, but just from the cultural perspective, we'll still have to stop the bullshit we're doing in polluting everything around us. Because once we destroy the Paradise on Earth, there'll be nothing to enjoy. As for the "gnashing of teeth" (anger) and "weeping" (sorrow) - that's reserved for the people who'll realize that everything they thought they knew - was a lie.
      Unfortunately, Kubler-Ross realized anger comes way before sorrow, so you'd be stoned before they get to the "sorry" part. Better leave it as it is then, in a century it won't matter anyway. Everyone's back to the pre-birth realm, the void.

    • @isaacm4268
      @isaacm4268 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ScorpioHR I found that description very interesting.
      ...Also, confusing, but maybe that's because I am sleep deprived.

  • @Bitter_Biscuit
    @Bitter_Biscuit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11677

    Notes and summary for myself
    The seven deadly sins of Speaking
    1. Gossip: Speaking negatively about someone who is not present. People will not trust you because a while later, you will gossip about them.
    2. Judging: It is hard to listen to someone who consistently judge you during a conversation.
    3. Negativity: Having a negative viewpoint on things.
    4. Complaining: which is mere viral misery. Could be on anything, politics, sports, or the weather.
    5. Excuses: Not taking responsibility for our actions and being a blame-thrower
    6. Exaggeration: Drawing an imaginary image and inflating stuff excessively. It can get to the point of outright **lying**.
    7. Dogmatism: stating your opinions as if they are facts without consideration of an evidence to support your claims. In other words, Bombarding people with biased opinions on a certain topic.
    - Foundation of powerful speech (HAIL)
    1. Honesty: Being clear and straight. Not using deception and lies. But using brutal and unnecessary honesty could hurt people. "Honesty tempered with Love".
    2. Authenticity: Being yourself and not imitating a non-genuine persona. "Standing in your own truth".
    3. Integrity: Be your word. Do what you say. Be trustworthy, and take responsibility.
    4. Love: Wishing people well. No judgement.
    - Toolbox of Speech (Voice)
    1. Register: Talk from your chest, not the nose or throat. "We vote for the politicians with lower voices". People associate depth with power and authority.
    2. Timbre: The way the voice feels. "Rich, Smooth, Warm, like hot chocolate." It is a skill that can be trained.
    3. Prosody: Talking with enthusiasm, having a rhythmic voice, and not being monotonic like a robot. Avoid repetitive prosody as if every statement was a question.
    4. Pace: Talk normally and slow right down to... *Emphasize*. Talking fast or slow at the right time is key in conveying your point.
    5. Silence: A powerful tool to bring attention. Should not be filled with filler words such as UH's and UM's.
    6. Pitch: To deliver an idea or ask a question and being understood. (The caps-lock of speech)
    7. Volume: The quieter the better in bringing attention. But don't be too quiet all the time and don't be a broadcaster too. Pay attention to your loudness.
    - Warm up the toolbox of voice
    1. Arms up, take a deep breath and sigh.
    2. Lips: (BA BA BA)
    3. Lips: Horse sound
    4. Tongue: Exaggerated (LA LA LA)
    5. Tongue: Roll an R (RRRRR)
    6. The siren (WEEEE [High] yoooo [Low])
    Speaking is one part of the puzzle because having a good conversation also depends on being a good listener.
    Edit: Reconstructed the phrasing of the point of dogmatism.
    Thank you for all the beautiful replies.Happy to make your day a bit easier :)

  • @K-Black_Academy
    @K-Black_Academy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    This video was posted 9 years ago but today (05-01-2024) I have been able to get a lot of value from it
    Absolutely amazing 💯
    Thank you.

    • @youcancallmedante
      @youcancallmedante 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You watched it on 5-1 - my birthday 😍

  • @james.atkins88
    @james.atkins88 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1046

    Engage your audience by simplifying complex stock concepts and incorporating relatable stories. Highlight the tangible benefits of stock investing, such as financial security and passive income. Use visuals and interactive discussions to enhance comprehension and maintain interest. Address potential risks transparently to provide a balanced perspective. Share personal experiences and stay attuned to your audience's needs, tailoring your approach accordingly. Cultivate enthusiasm and authenticity to make stock discussions both informative and captivating.

    • @edward.abraham
      @edward.abraham 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Amidst stock market fluctuations, precision in analysis remains crucial. Renowned financial outlets such as Bloomberg document instances where individuals have earned significant gains exceeding $250k within brief timeframes. Despite prevailing market uncertainty, those who navigate adeptly and identify favorable opportunities can still capitalize on potential wealth accumulation.

    • @andrew.alonzo
      @andrew.alonzo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      If you're not well-versed in market intricacies, seeking advice from a consultant or investment coach is the optimal route. Personally, consulting a professional has enabled me to navigate the market successfully, resulting in a portfolio growth of approximately 65% since January. While it might seem straightforward, I truly believe this remains the most potent strategy to enter the field effectively.

    • @Believer292
      @Believer292 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I have been thinking about how to grow my reserve by at least 40% or more within months. I will be grateful if you can give tips or anything on how to make good market picks and how I can get my portfolio diversified and balanced in order to meet up my target.

    • @andrew.alonzo
      @andrew.alonzo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

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    • @rebecca_burns14
      @rebecca_burns14 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@andrew.alonzo I appreciate this advice, and I'd like to mention that "Camille Alicia Garcia" comes across as exceptionally well-informed. Upon discovering her online profile, I carefully reviewed her resume, educational history, and credentials, and I must admit, they left a strong impression. I took the initiative to get in touch with her, and I've successfully scheduled a session.

  • @gilsukim
    @gilsukim 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6747

    Four things I learned from watching this talk
    1. "Seven deadly sins of speaking to avoid"
    1) gossip -> I need to work on this sin
    2) judging -> I need to work on this sin
    3) negativity -> I need to work on this sin
    4) complaining -> I need to work on this sin
    5) excuses
    6) lying (embroidery, exaggeration)
    7) dogmatism (confusion between fact and opinion)
    2. what I need to say: four powerful cornerstones of speech to make a change in the world
    c.f. "hail means to greet or acclaim enthusiastically"
    1) H: honesty (be clear and straight)
    2) A: authenticity (be myself)
    3) I: integrity (be my word)
    4) L: love (wish them well)
    3. how I need to say: tools to play with to increase power of my speech
    1) register: e.g. if wanting weight, lower pitch of voice
    2) timbre: the way voice feels e.g. breathing, posture
    3) prosody: rhythm (e.g. not monotone)
    4) pace: e.g. slow to emphasize
    5) pitch: e.g. make pitch high or low
    6) volume: e.g. louder to emphasize
    4. exercise the following before making a presentation
    1) arms up to sigh out with ahh
    2) lips with ba ba
    3) lips with brrr
    4) tongue with la
    5) tongue rolling an r
    6) siren from we to aww

    • @neuralnetwork17
      @neuralnetwork17 8 ปีที่แล้ว +519

      Gil Su Kim You made a summary and shared it with everyone. You must have been the nicest kid in class when you were in school. (Or, now that I think of it, maybe you still are. I don´t know your age.) Thank you, I appreciate it.

    • @gnouveli
      @gnouveli 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      :( _when I speak by action, then people only able to listen by perception_

    • @SearchBucket2
      @SearchBucket2 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      +Gil Su Kim
      Do all of that Gil and you will have become a robot!

    • @Gottenhimfella
      @Gottenhimfella 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      +Gil Su Kim
      I reckon he missed one: Defensiveness
      (and I did wonder if the list should include fake humility/the apology reflex, but I suppose that comes under Lying, with a hint of Excuses)

    • @realniqqa101
      @realniqqa101 8 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Thank you angel of God. Note taker

  • @klashenkoff633
    @klashenkoff633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2645

    I like his head it is shining

    • @axeaclick
      @axeaclick 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Shining so bright i couldnt focus on the talk

    • @mahakala
      @mahakala 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      lubed fucking head

    • @vksherlockholmes
      @vksherlockholmes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      His head is brighter than my future

    • @JodBronson
      @JodBronson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      " Head Polish " - They sell " Bee Bald! 😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️

    • @ragingbonercontrolcentre
      @ragingbonercontrolcentre 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Cut it off and take it home- it's what I do

  • @Efalstrup
    @Efalstrup ปีที่แล้ว +81

    4:01 "Tempered with love, honesty is a great thing." What a powerful statement; so, so true.

  • @ysa7823
    @ysa7823 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +165

    I assumed this would be your basic talk on vocal coaching, how to carry and conduct oneself in public speaking. But he went to a deeper level and emphasized how we should speak about goodness, light, and positivity ❤ A concise message that hit the mark precisely ❤

    • @shawnUT1960
      @shawnUT1960 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He absolutely demonstrated all of his techniques. Amazing.

  • @IKY94Zac
    @IKY94Zac 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1740

    Now this gentleman here cuts right through the chase, I usually dislike long introductions to the real subject. A lovely lecture indeed.

    • @Chimpmanboom
      @Chimpmanboom 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Iky Scars cuts right TO the chase

    • @NabeelAhmed-ln3fw
      @NabeelAhmed-ln3fw 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Iky Scars here cut??

    • @bernardomoreira
      @bernardomoreira 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Iky Scars exactly my thought in the first 10 seconds

    • @LukzaFactory
      @LukzaFactory 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      SP95 ntR Intended ! Hahaha

    • @159753smith
      @159753smith 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Iky Scars hence his ted talk topic

  • @ChristinaDunlap100
    @ChristinaDunlap100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1372

    Not one time did my mind wander or drift away. This was pure excellence.

    • @nanab3959
      @nanab3959 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here hope you're ok

    • @ajun7111
      @ajun7111 ปีที่แล้ว

      mine did on the NEGAtivity

    • @carolinaquirosduran3447
      @carolinaquirosduran3447 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@nanab3959 😢

    • @deanmutusva2796
      @deanmutusva2796 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙈 Me reading this comment in the middle of watching the video

    • @Jinna_00
      @Jinna_00 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes...what you say is true

  • @zzo_duduu_20
    @zzo_duduu_20 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He such a good speaker. I like the way he spoke and his confidence. I love his speech

  • @jenkinomusic
    @jenkinomusic ปีที่แล้ว +704

    0:13 Intro
    0:33 7 deadly sins of speaking
    2:45 4 positive/powerful elements in speech
    4:22 The toolbox
    7:44 Vocal warmup
    9:05 Conclusion

    • @AylaLibre
      @AylaLibre 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Gracias !!

    • @Jinna_00
      @Jinna_00 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes

    • @muaazmohammed7205
      @muaazmohammed7205 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not all heroes wear capes

    • @e.r.4447
      @e.r.4447 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some of us are born leaders!

    • @chatgpt4135
      @chatgpt4135 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🎉

  • @mathieublake1670
    @mathieublake1670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2890

    The Dont's
    Habits to move away from -- Seven deadly sins of speaking:
    1. Gossip
    2. Judging
    3. Negativity
    4. Complaining
    5. Blame-throwing (Excuses)
    6. Embroidery, exaggeration --> lying
    7. Dogmatism (my way or the highway; conflating fact and opinion)
    The Do's
    H.A.I.L -- Four (4) cornerstones of powerful, change-making speech
    H - Honesty: Being true - straight and clear.
    A - Authenticity: Be yourself. [Standing in your own truth.]
    I - Integrity: Be your word. [Doing what you say.]
    L - Love: Wish them well.
    Toolbox (the voice) - Some tools
    Register - (P.s. Depth is associated with power and authority.)
    Timbre - The way your voice feels -- rich, smooth, warm (can be trained!)
    Prosody - the sing-song, the meta-language, the root 1 of meaning in cnversation.
    Pace - including silence (don't have to be filled with ums and ahs)
    Pitch - to indicate arousal, etc.
    Volume - excitement (loud), attention-grabbing (quiet)
    Warm up your voice!
    1. Arms up, deep breath in. Sigh out.
    Lips:
    2. Ba-ba-ba-na
    3: Brrrrrrr
    Tongue:
    4. Exaggerated la-la-la-la
    5. Roll an RRRRRR
    6 The siren - Weeee (high)... awwww (low) [Repeat] The only one if able to do only one.

  • @coffeewithkyle1911
    @coffeewithkyle1911 7 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    Vocal Exercises begin at 7:50 :
    1. Raise arms above head, take a deep breath, sigh loudly. "AAaaaaaaahhhh."
    2. Warm up lips."Bop. Bop. Bop. Bop. Bop."
    3. Blow Raspberries. "Bbbbbrrlllthhhhh."
    4. Exaggerate LA's. "LA. LA. LA. LA. LA."
    5. Roll an R. Like champagne for the tongue. "RrrRrRrrRrRrrRrR."
    6. The Siren. The WE's are always high and the oo's are always low. "WWWEEEEEeeeeeeeeeooooooowwWWWEEEEEeeeeooooooooowwwwwwwwwww."
    I enjoyed writing this.

    • @Mor4dracoRules
      @Mor4dracoRules 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      CoffeeWithKyle lol I am sure you did

    • @uygarkurt2958
      @uygarkurt2958 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      CoffeeWithKyle I listen it every morning

    • @priyadharshini3941
      @priyadharshini3941 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      CoffeeWithKyle h

    • @bravitarey
      @bravitarey 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you did it!!! 😂👌🎊🎊

  • @DanielMelogpi
    @DanielMelogpi ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is one of my favorite talks of all time. The presentation itself is a testament of these techniques

  • @lusamafatman1517
    @lusamafatman1517 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    His speech is like his head. Clean and smooth

  • @MicahBuzanANIMATION
    @MicahBuzanANIMATION 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4143

    If these types of interpersonal skills along with mindfulness meditation were taught in schools, we would live in a much more sane world. Intelligence isn't just about memorizing facts.

    • @kazonikz
      @kazonikz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      That's true man

    • @MatthieuAmherst
      @MatthieuAmherst 8 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      +Micah Buzan Yup :) Therapists would be out of a job.. and the world would be so different. I wonder at the possibilities

    • @trpessoa
      @trpessoa 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +MatthieuAmherst That would be a real problem for status quo...

    • @wellesradio
      @wellesradio 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      +MatthieuAmherst Actually mindfulness meditation seems to be what is being called the third wave of therapy and is becoming more popular every year among therapists. Some are even saying it could overtake CBT. I've found both CBT and mindfulness to be very useful. It's a great tool for therapists, so I don't think it will put them out of a job. Remember that they work to help people, so many of them would do well to spread the word.

    • @Abulous1986
      @Abulous1986 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Micah Buzan Couldn't agree more

  • @ParadoxBassMachine
    @ParadoxBassMachine 8 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    1:24 that guy. So perfect

    • @Felixkeeg
      @Felixkeeg 8 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      It costs like 6000$ to attend, lol
      That nap better be worth it

    • @Felixkeeg
      @Felixkeeg 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Aeonian Sybaritic
      Yes, it does
      www.ted.com/attend/conferences

    • @Felixkeeg
      @Felixkeeg 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aeonian Sybaritic
      please elaborate

    • @michaelbryansumner
      @michaelbryansumner 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The old man with glasses at the right sleeping

    • @michaelbryansumner
      @michaelbryansumner 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Maybe he's the kind who internalises his listening?

  • @kingzeus36
    @kingzeus36 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Conversation and speaking is truly an intricate art. The mastery of it takes discipline composure and consistency, among many other things. I now take every single interaction I have, whether it be a physical interaction or via any digital format text messaging, etc. I take it as a test for myself every time. I then rate my conversion based on how well I applied this great information to work on all my weaknesses each time I strive to do better than my last interaction. How to correctly apply this information is key. Thank you for sharing this information with us all. To anyone reading this comment, I really do wish you all the best. The more we practice, the better we all become so start now and take action immediately speak light and positivity all day every day. Children of the light stay close to all those who speak and live life positively.

  • @VikramTV_FitnessFreaks
    @VikramTV_FitnessFreaks ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Clear , Crisp and Concise ..... Kudos Julian

  • @aeronaut7346
    @aeronaut7346 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2530

    Imagine someone being late and walking in at 8:49

    • @BTanya-rj4gv
      @BTanya-rj4gv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Omg😂😂😂❤👏

    • @Ender11037
      @Ender11037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      *Goes to check sign*
      "Is this the "How to start a cult" talk?"

    • @first_last-
      @first_last- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      Imagine someone being late and walking in at 8:30

    • @siddharthkalia6709
      @siddharthkalia6709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Good one😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @MohammadAli-eu8uf
      @MohammadAli-eu8uf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      OMG

  • @nitahudson343
    @nitahudson343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +435

    He is an incredible professional speaker. I thoroughly enjoyed this talk!

    • @bawlstars7857
      @bawlstars7857 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same here! I also really love Andrew Solomon's talk about depression. Both him and Julian are professional and impactful speakers. :)

    • @chaoswitch1974
      @chaoswitch1974 ปีที่แล้ว

      How am I the only one who finds his voice grating?

  • @jeehyesa5160
    @jeehyesa5160 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Before mentioning his highly fluent speech I could feel how confident he is about himself. What an amazing speech I have ever seen! Love it!

  • @jarjarbinks4368
    @jarjarbinks4368 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    I love this speech so much that I’m using it for an out of state declamation tournament
    Edit: I got second place overall with it😎

    • @NalaSweetlove
      @NalaSweetlove ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Congrats! 🎉

    • @noexcuses5524
      @noexcuses5524 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is great insights especially the seven deadly sina of communications.
      The society, our parents ... we heard them gossiping so our brain functions in a way that this is normal but it is not. It is an illusion that fog up with negativity. People even gossips just to feel close to one another.
      It is okay to vent your problems but never gossips in day to day basis. It is very unhealthy.

    • @leek1002
      @leek1002 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome

    • @kwimms
      @kwimms ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@noexcuses5524 Gossiping is what women do. Like hens in a coup.

    • @creaturemoon1546
      @creaturemoon1546 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kwimms wrong. It's a soceital thing. Social media was made for gossiping.

  • @footangnanglaaggg2827
    @footangnanglaaggg2827 7 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    he sound so professional. i did the warm up a minute in lobby before job interview. i passed but requiring psychological test.

  • @OHMyResistance
    @OHMyResistance 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1595

    I can just imagine a bunch of people applying for a job position, all gathered outside the boss' office going:
    "RRRRRRRRR"
    "BA! BA! BA! BA!"
    "WEEEEEYYOOOOOOOWEEE"

    • @Itsabdullahkhan007
      @Itsabdullahkhan007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      th-cam.com/video/GkvqJmVMC3E/w-d-xo.html

    • @yveltal7012
      @yveltal7012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      that's hillarious=))))

    • @hmmm4758
      @hmmm4758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      dewie 🤣

    • @sarilangakhusi1350
      @sarilangakhusi1350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂

    • @stephenlakin1828
      @stephenlakin1828 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes well that's why you would find a quiet place to practice I would hope lol

  • @illuminatedsoles331
    @illuminatedsoles331 ปีที่แล้ว

    it's fantastic not only that he exemplifies his points but how unobtrusively he does it. Great speech!

  • @-skyandrainbows
    @-skyandrainbows 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I just wanna share something that happened to my voice, to see if others experienced this too. I used to have a higher pitched voice. But through the years where I have done a lot of self education, I saw that my voice was changing. It was going deeper. The more I found myself and felt better in this world, the lower my voice got. I literally have found my own voice now haha. Now when I speak I feel more calm, and people listen to me way more! 😊

    • @KoalaHtet
      @KoalaHtet 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good for you.

    • @ObakuZenCenter
      @ObakuZenCenter 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're either hitting puberty, or your inauthentic way of forced speaking is starting to damage your vocal cords.

  • @jenjenwithyumi99
    @jenjenwithyumi99 8 ปีที่แล้ว +296

    His head is brighter than my future.

    • @_HsHProd_
      @_HsHProd_ 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Jen Tan (Jaye) lol this comment made me die of laughter

    • @anayamehta2000
      @anayamehta2000 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Jen Tan (Jaye) Great example of ... if you wanna gossip, be funny ;-)

    • @HiddenWen
      @HiddenWen 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Jen Tan (Jaye) I might quote this in the future xD.

    • @5uper5ubscriber4
      @5uper5ubscriber4 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Jen Tan (Jaye) You made my day XD

    • @zukodude487987
      @zukodude487987 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Home Sweet Home Productions Lol this comment made me lie of daughter

  • @dr.alan.niemies
    @dr.alan.niemies 8 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    One of the best 10 minutes I spent in my life using TH-cam.

    • @gazmaska7593
      @gazmaska7593 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      +Alan Niemies REAL TALK
      respect

    • @paulden3158
      @paulden3158 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alan Niemies
      Suggest u watch more useful vids like this then! there certainly are plenty of them

  • @naimatnawabi7632
    @naimatnawabi7632 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He is such a good speaker that I want to listen to him for days and days. I feel energized whenever I listening to him.

  • @JeffreyRufino
    @JeffreyRufino ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I love this!❤😊❤
    I love seeing people be able to speak confidently, and to use their voice in a way which is both powerful, but also compassionate and empathetic.❤😊❤
    I love Julian's point about how when we're speaking, we can really use our voice to create an environment of warmth and connection - by changing our delivery and tone. I love how that is able to help people feel so much more understood ❤😊❤

  • @mu9608
    @mu9608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    He speaks so clearly, even I can understand almost whole words

  • @tommykiki5840
    @tommykiki5840 8 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    That was the fastest 10 min of my life. This guy is amazing.

    • @jaredkoehn1626
      @jaredkoehn1626 8 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      +Tomas Petkovski That's what she said!

  • @syilvani-7912
    @syilvani-7912 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When speaking there is something to pay attention to. Honesty, authenticity, integrity, and love are very necessary when speaking in addition to training the voice and knowing the type of voice, rhythm, speed, tone and volume is also very necessary volume tone and thank you for the tips to train yourself before speaking

  • @hnhi3079
    @hnhi3079 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you so much for such an amazing sharing. The way you talk to inspire making me feel so convinced

  • @santoshraja2000
    @santoshraja2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    "If you wish people with love its really hard to judge them" , its absolutely true . I try to do this everyday . No matter what wish people well and you will find yourself free of all the negativity. And a smile from that stranger will make your day

    • @neolam2362
      @neolam2362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Very true! Heroic opportunities don't cross our path very often.

    • @raeighnisha428
      @raeighnisha428 ปีที่แล้ว

      A blatantly spurious assertion.

    • @pavnisingh-ep6vl
      @pavnisingh-ep6vl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just like ur comment made me smile😊

  • @darja25
    @darja25 9 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    I wish this was actually true. But in my humble experience to many people I come off as a boring individual simply because I refuse to gossip yet love to talk about things that matter. Most people like trivial talks, they can only connect to one another by bad mouthing someone. I have a sister who isn't a bad person,but man does she love to gossip and talk about stupid, irrelevant things. And yep: she has tons of friends and acquaintances.Which is not something that I can say for me. But I don't expect the whole world to like me..i'm just surprised how undervalued some values are nowadays.

    • @cohavideos
      @cohavideos 9 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Darja, it sounds like your sister may have what you call many "acquaintances", but not many friends. People who live off of the negative energy of gossiping about others are parasites and are likely very unhappy internally that they do these things to save face. Please do not think yourself inadequate because you may have less outwardly appearing " friends". Your conscience knows that you are doing the right thing, and that is what truly matters. Your conscience is the greatest friend, and though it is hard to understand at first, befriending that conscience will bring you much more joy and happiness than trying to attain happiness through many fake and superficial friends. I speak of this because of my own personal experience, and in mine, I am 100% confident that I am more satisfied and happy as an individual by knowing in my being that by ignoring the petty and immature urge to gossip, I know that what I am doing is right. This surely brings more happiness than fitting in to the cult of the world which is so wrong and in high numbers, but also very convincing.

    • @darja25
      @darja25 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      cohavideos Thank you very much for your opinion, even though I share it and live by it, it is sometimes so hard to be 'alone' in these values/opinions.. But I agree, one should never ever have to change oneself just to be like others and to please them. In the bottom of my heart I'm happy that I'm not like others whose only goal is to talk trash, but I wish there were more people that think like we do. Wow now I sound so vain. :) Happy Christmas!

    • @cohavideos
      @cohavideos 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      darja25 it definitely is hard to stand firm in your convictions when everyone around you is telling and shouting at you that you are wrong. That is why it is so important to a) make spiritual or loving friends who accept you the way you are, and b) to constantly check in with your 'self' and to interiorize with meditation and introspection, also making sure to tell yourself that you are "the captain of your ship and the master of your fate". Enough people around us may have their sails so lost in the winds of delusion that they can only make themselves feel better by talking trash and bringing others down. If almost everyone around you is doing this, it is important to have at least you making sure to tell yourself that you are loved and what you are doing is right. It may sound vain, but the truth is that this world is very confused, and though vain it may sound, it is much better to do good for yourself and others knowing within that you are right, instead of becoming frustrated and wishing the world was better. Be the change, said Gandhi. Meditate on that. And then be fearless about being that change. It is scary to be alone sometimes but it is the path of all successful people who have forged ahead in all worthy pursuits of life. If you are interested in getting help on that path, look up SRF (Self-realization fellowship). The founder, Yogananda, brought many ancient scientific techniques of Yoga from India for help on the path of right action and meditation, which it sounds like you are doing very well on so far. I wish you the best darja. Merry Christmas, and hope you have great holidays coming up.

    • @darja25
      @darja25 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      cohavideos Thank you on the advices, but the only sailor of my ship and master of my fate is JESUS who is the only path and way. Congratulating me Christmas and at the same time promoting fake religion such as Yoga is something where I draw the line on this conversation, because I don't believe in your philosophies, even though they may be well intentioned. They are simply based on something fake that is called self realization or new age philosophies which is a false doctrine. No man can save himself without Jesus. "Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me." John 14:6 I hope someday you realize this. Blessings!

    • @avedic
      @avedic 9 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      darja25 lol....welcome to reality. Bertrand Russell once said, *"The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt."* On top of that, those in the status-quo mentally-dim majority are actually *_turned off_* by intelligent conversation. Sadly, this is the norm. Luckily, there's a solution: Only associate with highly intelligent interesting creative ethical people. : )

  • @anthonyguy143
    @anthonyguy143 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That speech is fascinating. Every once in a while, I drop by and remind myself of how important it is to speak.

  • @royalhighness8383
    @royalhighness8383 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    I'm learning more on the internet than I'm learning in school

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      @popsarah7805 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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      @mbalimaka6393 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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      @alicemark5918 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @alicemark5918 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @popsarah7805 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @dannymacoi2287
    @dannymacoi2287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +772

    The trick is, whenever you're talking to people have confidence in yourself don't look shy, look into people's eye, don't bow your head down a minute unless you checking the shoes or down-wear.
    But first hit your throat, Mnmn Mnmm...
    •••Men speak with a little base in it, avoid speaking to fast.
    •••Ladies speak calmly men automatically like that.
    Avoid, Eh, ehm, etc in the middle of your speech.
    Just pause and continue with the next word,then everyone in the audience will automatically see you as an intelligent person subconsciously.
    It's a human trick.

    • @euphoria156
      @euphoria156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      True. Also, How about just saying the TRUTH? Which DOES include Gossiping, Judging etc. How abt emphasizing that ppl who ONLY tak positive are Pretentious Liars and are NOT Truthful. Like this man- Julian Treasure could be one of them. I am sick of those "Wanna be a Good Human Hypocrites" !! Just be Truthful

    • @dannymacoi2287
      @dannymacoi2287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@euphoria156 You're right, it's in the confidence bracket...Who ever speak the truth is confident and does not care about what anyone thinks.
      As long as it's the truth, it's done.
      *Some people also lie boldly tho

    • @anuoluwapoobipehin4894
      @anuoluwapoobipehin4894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      'Men automatically like that'🤣🤣🤣 i don't really care🤣🤣🤣

    • @dannymacoi2287
      @dannymacoi2287 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anuoluwapoobipehin4894 Same with some men being attracted to other men.
      Things don't seems all that okay with all humanity ,people got preference.

    • @ksxjjxdx5890
      @ksxjjxdx5890 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So Elon Musk is not intelligent because he stutters while talking?

  • @AnthonyMonaghan
    @AnthonyMonaghan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Nice definition of Love....wishing someone well. I like that.

    • @samwallaceart288
      @samwallaceart288 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah; that's what love is. I can't believe you millenials; what with sleeping couples in bed that are weirded out with saying "I love you" like it's perverted; damn kids need to get off the lawn that is the English language and metaphysical concepts of altruism.

  • @10128hyj
    @10128hyj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow, I learned from this video how to deliver a powerful speech. The six elements you mentioned, 'Fegister, Timbre, Prosody, Pace, Pitch, Volume' for effective speaking were really impressed for me. Your presentation was both informative and incredibly engaging because of your talking skills. After watching this speech, I feel confident that I, too, can deliver compelling and captivating speeches like you. I'm looking forward to watch you on your next video. Have a good day!

  • @ahsan.06
    @ahsan.06 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man didn't take a single step throughout his speech of around 10 minutes, yet was sounded so perfect with everything he said. Julian Treasure, his name speaks for his class.
    This is by far the best TED talk ever. 💯

  • @LKonstantina915
    @LKonstantina915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3826

    i feel like youtube recommendations are personally attacking me

    • @CalixLuv
      @CalixLuv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      😂 same

    • @emperorqin114
      @emperorqin114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      lol

    • @stephaniecogonon8214
      @stephaniecogonon8214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same😂

    • @JustViolet626
      @JustViolet626 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      This time around they're just trying to help because it cares about you.

    • @selenachannel2782
      @selenachannel2782 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hahahaha in fact it's attacking all human beings!

  • @vinayseth1114
    @vinayseth1114 9 ปีที่แล้ว +518

    1:24 The guy sleeping lol!

    • @thesoccerpr03
      @thesoccerpr03 9 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      lol guess he wasn't listening

    • @vinayseth1114
      @vinayseth1114 9 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      thesoccerpr03 haha TED talk fail :P

    • @FlameableMusic
      @FlameableMusic 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Perhaps! Or he's writing down stuff, which some of the people do there

    • @MashrufKabir
      @MashrufKabir 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      lolll

    • @abineshzor
      @abineshzor 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea he he ha a

  • @jaybelonguel68
    @jaybelonguel68 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The speaker's verbal communication were clear and easy to understand. He also show us how to make other people want to listen to us. Eventhough his non verbal communication is vague it is still understandable so I can say that he is a very good speaker.

  • @johnfurseth9791
    @johnfurseth9791 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Truly a marvelous talk linking speech to values and understanding.

  • @Buthyful
    @Buthyful 8 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    I had 4 cats sitting around me, I tried to do the Wee waaa and they all ran hehehe :)
    Very beautiful talk.. Thank you

    • @rosacutejenniely8339
      @rosacutejenniely8339 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Buthy ful What's the Wee waaa? oo.....00

    • @rosacutejenniely8339
      @rosacutejenniely8339 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Buthy ful Oh I get it now.... haahahaahahah!!! You're hilarious! xP

    • @Buthyful
      @Buthyful 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +rosacute jenniely heheheheheh it also made me laugh loudly when they freaked out :-D hehehe

    • @gmoschwarz
      @gmoschwarz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Buthy ful eruditefeline.files.wordpress.com/2015/04/crazy-cat-lady-color.jpg

    • @Buthyful
      @Buthyful 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +gmoschwarz Hahahahhahahhahahahahahaha

  • @enigma3297
    @enigma3297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3127

    Me to my crush: hey I wanna talk to you about something
    *Starts excercising my voice in front of her*
    Her: leaves in silence
    Me:*still excercising* wEeEEeOOoO

    • @AlexAnder-rv1gu
      @AlexAnder-rv1gu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      LOL!!! You were supposed to do that BEFORE she came over

    • @jasontighe3927
      @jasontighe3927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I think the point is to do the exercises in private. That is, make it a morning ritual. Just as you would exercise your body.

    • @RuzoOwzy
      @RuzoOwzy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@AlexAnder-rv1gu They normally come uninformed. Suddenly she is there.

    • @leegyamfi8211
      @leegyamfi8211 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Crazy.......

    • @jeffrynaguirre5153
      @jeffrynaguirre5153 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      LOL

  • @setepiatessalonika1269
    @setepiatessalonika1269 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was truly a great video to improve our skill in speaking especially giving a speech. The speaker giving us some tips how to deliver a powerful speech. He makes contact with the audience by giving a little joke while talking so that the audience isn’t bored and interested in the material. Such a confident and clear speaker because every words he says can be understood. In the last video he invites the audience to put into practice the tips that he has already given. Amazing!!!!❤️ thank you for the new knowledge

  • @user-eh8vx9lf7t
    @user-eh8vx9lf7t 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This speech reminded me once again.
    Things I missed and made mistakes when I was speaking.
    It even made me aware of things I didn't think of.
    I only tried to convey what I wanted to say quickly to the other person, but I found it wrong.

  • @ednafrench6269
    @ednafrench6269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    I was a professional pilot back in the days when carbon mikes were the only choice. As a female, I learned to lower my voice’s pitch in order to activate the carbon crystals. Discovered that I also got a lot more respect and was heard better when I used the deeper richer timbre. Also stopped ending all sentences like a question. That really eliminated a lot of confusion with air traffic control.

    • @dakotaridgek9
      @dakotaridgek9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I know nothing of “carbon mikes”. Or activating carbon crystals. Do tell!

    • @thelordsportion1273
      @thelordsportion1273 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience. I worked with school age children, and was led by The All Knowing one to learn about these styles and forms of communicating. Really does make a difference!! Especially when shaping and cultivating a young humans learning experience. SHALOM

    • @channel-so2st
      @channel-so2st ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The technical term for ending sentences like a question is "upspeak".

    • @skippy6462
      @skippy6462 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      When I was learning to fly (PPL) was told that I sounded like a mouse by my second instructor. I'd already done 13 hours with my first instructor. Lost my confidence to fly as easily as that. (1st instructor left as got a job with an airline). He was all the qualities needed to be an top class instructor because I flew my first solo under his guidance. My 2nd instructor wasn't and I gave up flying sadly. How to speak made all the difference to me. Will always appreciate the first instructor for an amazing life experience. Second instructor can't take that away.

    • @EinSofQuester
      @EinSofQuester ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@channel-so2st You mean "Upspeak?"?

  • @cherrysatin730
    @cherrysatin730 9 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I felt like the video went for 2 to 3 minutes. Came to the realization that it was 9:59 minutes long.... This man wasn't lying.

  • @Zion-Summers
    @Zion-Summers 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was truly a great video to improve our skill in speaking especially giving a speech. The speaker giving us some tips how to deliver a powerful speech. He makes contact with the audience by giving a little joke while talking so that the audience isn’t bored and interested in the material. Such a confident and clear speaker because every words he says can be understood. In the last video he invites the audience to put into practice the tips that he has already given. Amazing!!!!️ thank you for the new knowledge

  • @hildakhalisa4858
    @hildakhalisa4858 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This speech helped me a lot, I have learned a lot from this. I feel frustrated that I can't communicate my point properly while speaking. Because I often feel anxious when speaking in front of many people. In this 10-minute long video, I get all the tips I need, even down to the smallest things I might never have thought of before, like that I can work with my voice tool box to speak better. There are also some comments that give implied messages from the video that make me think that i can be powerful with my voice tool box, if i speak with calmly and love. Hopefully I can apply it when I speak in front of many people in the next opportunity

  • @saifayesh3385
    @saifayesh3385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +800

    *Walks into the boss's office to ask for a raise*
    Boss: "Yes, How can I help you?"
    Me: "PRRRRRRRRRRRR WEEEEEEYOOOOOOOO WEEEE"

  • @7Lovz7
    @7Lovz7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    "Understanding would be the norm" I love this and I live for this! It's so important to be present and always go into a conversation with the goal to understand as much as you can and if you can't -> accept.

  • @goforward684
    @goforward684 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy here had a speaking which was truly inspirational!! He accomplished what he said in the title.

  • @johnf.wagner8848
    @johnf.wagner8848 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    *I’m 48years old living in California.I’m hoping to retire at 50 if things keep going well for me. Bought my first house last month and I can’t be more proud that I’m now. I’m glad made a great decision about my finances that change me forever*

    • @jeffrey8758
      @jeffrey8758 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations you are really doing well at your age.I’m 43 I’m my finances are in a mess right now,any great tips would really go along well in shape my life.I’m want to buy my own house that’s really good too

    • @johnf.wagner8848
      @johnf.wagner8848 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jeffrey8758 Hey sorry for late response , I apparently I used the FIRE movement to put my finances in shape, you can research more about it,then invest in stock ,forex trading , real estate through the assistance of investment pro Expert Mrs Harry Ava

    • @remliebert8175
      @remliebert8175 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow amazing to see here who trade with expert Mrs Harry Ava I'm currently on 5th trade with her and my portfolio has grown tremendously

    • @Ashley8__
      @Ashley8__ ปีที่แล้ว

      @Donald inks I’m so happy taking bold step in working and investing $20k with Mrs Harry Ava after a week I receive $75k to my bank account

    • @Nathanieljacksom
      @Nathanieljacksom ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't usually do reviews but Earning ×3 of my monthly salary from Mrs Harry Ava trading account in just a week is overwhelming

  • @Brumfield85
    @Brumfield85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    This was 10 minutes of my life well spent.

  • @thanhduong334
    @thanhduong334 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have watched this video for several times. I have learnt a lot from this. Thank you so much !

  • @muhammedirshadp
    @muhammedirshadp 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What an absolutely amazing speaker.i Loved this speech very much 💯✨

  • @user-ef1ss1ow2i
    @user-ef1ss1ow2i 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    人を惹き付ける話し方
    このタイトルに惹き付けられてきました。

  • @javianjohnson8746
    @javianjohnson8746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    This is a really good demonstration on how you can be more impactful when talking to people. I sincerely feel like I just learned a whole lot

    • @cherylzaccone9685
      @cherylzaccone9685 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's useless when you are surrounded by people for a lack of a better word "idiots"

  • @chetanadhone4734
    @chetanadhone4734 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "What would the world be like if we were creating sound consciously, consuming sound consciously and designing all our environments consciously for sound? That would be a world that does sound beautiful, and the one where understanding would be the norm and that is an idea worth spreading." These words caught my attention. INCREDIBLE LECTURE!

  • @olhashevchenko5072
    @olhashevchenko5072 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an amazing speech!💕 Bravo!!! 👏

  • @Eatbeans6739
    @Eatbeans6739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I had saved this to ‘Watch Later’ for quite sometime now, but this morning, while still in bed, I had the sudden urge to watch it, and I am so glad I did. I now know why I have problem with getting people’s attention when I speak to them. Most of this applies to me, I put my hands up. I am grateful for this video. It has done me an immeasurable amount of good.

  • @premachan7677
    @premachan7677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Speaking is one thing but the tone in which you speaks with is of utmost importance. Such a confident and clear speaker: he catches your attn within the first 1 minute with his calm tone and eye contact. Alot to take away. 💯

  • @BS-detector
    @BS-detector 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Coming from a family who is high strung, intelligent, passionate and constantly talking over each other (remarkably well, I might add) this calm, deep voiced way of conversation not only seems hard, but would make me virtually invisible if I tried it with them. This might work on strangers, but still seems like a difficult adjustment to make into a habit..

  • @allnyter
    @allnyter ปีที่แล้ว

    He's so good at his ability to deliver that it almost detracts from the content because I'm just thinking about how f*****g great he sounds when he speaks.

  • @Anastasia12344
    @Anastasia12344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3754

    How to be a great public speaker:
    Step 1. Have a British accent
    End of steps

    • @rajaaahmad2336
      @rajaaahmad2336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      that is so accurate lol

    • @Anastasia12344
      @Anastasia12344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@rajaaahmad2336 😁

    • @fieldkasrel3140
      @fieldkasrel3140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +168

      If you have a British accent in America.... your immediately getting all the attention 😂😂

    • @goodnameidea7107
      @goodnameidea7107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@fieldkasrel3140 you're*

    • @hello-zf2fk
      @hello-zf2fk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      bruh i am british but i still can’t speak😭

  • @TheShravan111
    @TheShravan111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    What an absolutely amazing speaker. Loved this speech💯✨

  • @tinisupartini955
    @tinisupartini955 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like this talk,it is very clear,smooth and also gives me inspiration and motivation.Thank you Julian

  • @jahanzaibzafar6252
    @jahanzaibzafar6252 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is my first comment on any video over TH-cam. Totally amazing. I would want to hear & practice this often.
    But I'm also sure that a good speaker may fail but a good listener would never fail.

  • @daniellee5116
    @daniellee5116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i agree that warming up stage is the most important stage to speak and announce. I am really thanksful to julian.

  • @LetsLearnwithvigneshnow
    @LetsLearnwithvigneshnow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    I really loved the way, the idea for this talk, begin with a problem, suggest a solution, offer Hands-on experience for the audience. Beautiful sir, thoroughly enjoyed every frame of this video. The activity towards the end, I believe many of us will be a different speaker after that. Thank you for this.

    • @leticiachiok8057
      @leticiachiok8057 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is an awesome talk...direct to the point, of being a conscious speaker. So love the tips and techniques. He's a great communicator, he got me glued.

  • @user-tp2wz1gq4z
    @user-tp2wz1gq4z 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This presentation was really insightful! It made me think about my own speaking habits and how they can affect my conversations with others. For instance, I’ve noticed I often fall into the trap of negativity, which probably turns people off. The "seven deadly sins of speaking" and the positive "HAIL" principles were especially helpful. I'm excited to try out the vocal techniques you mentioned, like using different voice registers and improving timbre, to see how they can enhance my speaking skills. Thanks for all the useful tips-I can't wait to put them into practice!

  • @austincross6256
    @austincross6256 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sometimes we need silence. Sometimes we need to listen and process what is being said before responding. I just remembered someone nothing that it is important to have a moment of pause in responding during a conversation to allow proper thinking.
    What a world we would live in if we stopped the gossiping, negative talk, judgement, and instead actually listened, showed compassion for others, and talked effectively and with purpose… there is still hope!

  • @deepalijoshi4631
    @deepalijoshi4631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    He has such a wonderful aura..and presence. It's very aesthetic to watch him speak

  • @amirorvati3968
    @amirorvati3968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This speech was actually so cool. To be more accurate, he spoke so well that we all wanted to listen.

  • @Daria-xt1hs
    @Daria-xt1hs ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn’t feel those 9 minutes, what a great speaker! If everyone subtracts the habits to gossip, complain, exaggerate and etc people will become much more conscious.

  • @faris2781
    @faris2781 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm glad that these people are gathered around as they wanted self-improvement, and not to blame others. The world is getting better!

  • @MsJanetWood
    @MsJanetWood 7 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    I'll listen to this later.

    • @rainaesthetics1523
      @rainaesthetics1523 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Janet Wood ironic 😂😂😂

    • @jacobcloak529
      @jacobcloak529 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks for the update

    • @ayoubhamimid829
      @ayoubhamimid829 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      underrated comment !

    • @CombraStudios
      @CombraStudios 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It was in my 'watch later' for two years

    • @edwardkent
      @edwardkent 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      i wouldn;t if i were you janet

  • @mindvolution
    @mindvolution 6 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    Brilliant talk. Human intelligence combined with higher levels of awareness will save the world!

    • @c.a.g.3130
      @c.a.g.3130 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is by grace through faith in Jesus Christ alone. For there is no other name under heaven given to man by which we must be saved.

    • @ianandrews4371
      @ianandrews4371 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      mindvolution

    • @MackDK77
      @MackDK77 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      17M and counting, only another 16.83 billion people in the world to watch this video :D

  • @SanzAlfredo
    @SanzAlfredo ปีที่แล้ว

    Very useful video Mr. Treasure, thank you. Many times I feel that I have a toboggan between my brain and my tongue. This video helps me to speak better. Greetings from Argentina.

  • @arghvl7141
    @arghvl7141 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    boy have I learned that public speaking is not just to simply speak in front of an audience, there are broader and deeper aspects that make one’s speech interesting; where you would actually listen to what they are saying. It is compelling to learn the many ways you could competently speak in front of an audience, more than just articulating words and thoughts but rather, the way you speak those words and thoughts. Great video! great speech!

  • @TheAquaticBeef
    @TheAquaticBeef 7 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    that one lone laugh at the beginning killed me. 0:45

    • @LukzaFactory
      @LukzaFactory 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TheAquaticBeef me too hahaha

    • @TheAquaticBeef
      @TheAquaticBeef 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LukzaFactory Haha, it's totally something I would do!

    • @LukzaFactory
      @LukzaFactory 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      TheAquaticBeef I laugh that way

    • @acharich
      @acharich 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂

    • @generous_coconut
      @generous_coconut 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      They say... don't be... a sheep... Lol XD

  • @stephanielane1821
    @stephanielane1821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wow, I really enjoyed listening to this most interesting, intelligent and informative talk. You really are a treasure !!

  • @iansingsiansings2101
    @iansingsiansings2101 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Julian,
    you have given us treasure.

  • @kakashihatake2052
    @kakashihatake2052 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pure class. Indeed, this video is a masterpiece.

  • @Tony-1971
    @Tony-1971 8 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Have to watch this again later. I wasnt really listening.

    • @zapkvr
      @zapkvr 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know he does tend to whine a bit