5 Unpleasant Things That Will Happen When You Meet The One
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- What will happen when you meet the one? Will bad things happen when you meet the one or only good things? How will you know when God is revealing the one to you? What signs will God bring you when you meet the person he wants you to marry? Here are 5 unpleasant things that often happen when you meet the one God wants you to marry.
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1. Unmet longing for clarity
2. Doubt at some point
3. Sin, confess, repent and reconcile
4. Some people will disapprove
5. Need a lot of patience
God bless!
Thank you
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@@digitalbubu Rohan bohan
@Sandy F is everything okay?
I do believe I have met the one. I even asked God for multiple signs about this, and God showed me every single one of those signs confirming that he's the one. We are currently in a separation right now, but I'm patient and trust God for restoration and reconciliation. Please keep me in your prayers. 🧡
Edit: WE HAVE RECONCILED! Keep faith in God, he will do what he promised he'd do. Build your relationship with him so that you can ask him questions and he can answer you in your way. Never give up on your lover, trust me, you may not think so but the restoration is absolutely worth it!
(We reconciled after 8 months if anyone wants to know).
I’m also in a separation and praying for restoration. I feel your pain and longing.
I’m also waiting on reconciliation. I’m praying that God’s will be done!
I am in the same place now 😢
I am also in same situation trusting god's sign and keeping patience.
Same here. Hopefully she will be the one for me in due time.
I know most of people are going through hard moments for now, but putting God first is making and choosing a right way
Amen, putting God first is about our actions
How do you feel abt making secular music as a Christian? Abt your personal experiences// messages God supports without saying God specifically? Sorry for being annoying I just have no one around to ask
Truth Christian sister
Big Factz 💯
@@user-wp2iu5ef3o it doesn’t sound bad
This is exactlyyyyyyy what I am going through now ..... I keep asking God to make things clear for me and I'm willing to let it go if God says no but I am really not 100% sure what he is saying !!!!
So glad this was relevant for you! Patience is so important :)
Saaaaaaaaaaame
I'm here too
Same here been asking God to give me direction.
Me too how do we know
I’m getting married to the love of my life this weekend and we’ve definitely walked through all 5 of these phases. Even though it was tough, each of these things brought us closer to Christ, forced us to grow (personally and together as a unit)and made us become intentional with how we communicated with one another.
I’ve been watching your videos throughout my season of singleness, and am grateful for the life changing content and wisdom, that you have shared. Thank you!
Congrats Alan! So happy for you :)
Congratulations! I wish you both the best. Praying for you both.
Congrats!!! So encouraging to hear.
Congratulations!! 🎈🎉🎊🍾
Congratulations!🥳
I asked God if the boy I was with was the one, as a response, God started to allow me to see again because I was so blinded by love that I couldn’t see what was wrong.
I will never thank him enough 🙏🏾❤️
Now, I’m trying to get better at going to him first whatever the situation!
How he talked to you?
@@camilap.r.2863 He showed me red flags and allowed me to open my eyes which were blinded by love
@@joee1213 How the fact that I am calling them « boys » is going to make people see me less as a woman ?
I am absolutely not here to argue, but what’s sure is that I know that I am a beautiful and powerful woman and a word can’t change that !
On that note, have a good day. God bless you 🙌🏾❤️
Im here at 1:30 am two days after my separation with the person i thought to be the one. I came across this video and beyond my confusion, pain and impatience I realized that i need Him to strengthen me to be able to understand why this is happening. I surrendered everything to the Lord now.
Im in the same boat, I lost someone that I felt god sent to me and I too am confused & asking alot of questions why our break up happened. I try not to idolize her above Father God & Lord Jesus but its hard when you find happiness in someone so much. But I too has surrendered my life to him & I have faith that God's plan will unfold for me to either meet someone new or reunite us back together.
😔🖐 same
Same. It’s been 3 weeks and I still don’t understand what happened.
1-when you meet the one,you will have an unmet longi6for clarity at first.
2-when you meet the one,there will be probably be doubt at some point.
3-you two will sin,confess,repent and reconcile.
4-some people in your life will probably disapprove.
5-when you meet the one,you will need a lot of patience.
God bless!
This is everything I’ve gone through. We’re on number 3
@@heysheslaye6242 on number 5❤️
I have experienced all 5 and I thought something was wrong with me.🥺
I learned this week...
There is no fruit without both friction and frustration.
God bless!
Not necessarily. Those aspects are a matter of tests of faith. It’s not so much the fact that friction is necessary. In many relationships today there’s people that believe that and decide to create problems where there are not real issues. They’re creating friction thinking that it adds zest to their relationship smh. Very foolish.
@@watitduful I love your statement. Foolish, indeed… but when I said this I wasn’t speaking to the babe in Christ. This is who you speak of in your statement because a mature Christian, on meat vs milk, looks at every relationship as God ordained and maintained and ‘drama’ would not be a part of what they are in.
A babe in Christ = a seed… it must go in the ground and die before maturity is a consideration.
A mature Christian= a Psalm 1:3 tree. These produce FRUIT. And just like Jesus, there is a wildernesses experience that will introduce itself.
Then and only then will fruit come forth.
In the life of s Christian, before you see fruit you will experience friction and frustration.
God bless 🥰
Very mature
Let me rephrase it to a truthful statement. WHEN there is NO fruit, there is frustration.
Matthew 21:19 Seeing a fig tree by the road, he went up to it but found nothing on it except leaves. Then he said to it, “May you never bear fruit again!” Immediately the tree withered.
Waiting patiently for God to reveal who the one is for me.
God bless!
Hope it is revealed for you when the time is right, sis! Prayers for you and your one.
everyday prayer!
I mostly pray the whole time for this person becoz oneday if we make the big step i want God to be the centre of our relationship
Love that! Amen!
i love that your emphasized "Doubts are healthy at times" as WE CANNOT TRUST OUR HEARTS since it can be deceived by our own emotions and the examples of this world. The only trustworthy and never failing guide is the WORD of God. Thank you for sharing
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needed this-crying now
Be aware of the charming people. They usually know how to throw you off
The end of Proverbs 31 talks a bit about this
and if you are charming then beware of yourself
@@Williamb612 YES!
Facts
I dont understand, how can a charming person throw you off? Pls explain
This video was so comforting to me. I always thought that when I met “the One” I would just know. I am dating someone who is a strong Christian, wonderful man, but I have been going through some of these stages. Knowing that it’s normal is very reassuring. Thank you!
You know they are not the one, when you sin against them and repent and try to reconcile, and rather than forgiving you, they leave you. I experienced this.
No when u seen against them u are not the one for them. U’ve got it the other way round
@@user-fv6cv9ef6h Both ways around are correct. If you are not the one for them they are also not the one for you. Its not one or the other.
Your statement is loaded and not so easily explained. 1st, how did you sin against them? Both people are going to make mistakes and if one person is unforgiving, that doesn't bode well for the future. However, if your sin against that person was infidelity, I don't blame them for breaking up with you. Most people have a pattern of behavior and if someone will be unfaithful once, they will usually do it again. Particularly if the two people aren't married, the person who was cheated on should think long and hard before they marry this person. 2nd, forgiveness doesn't always mean that two people should stay in the relationship. Sometimes it becomes glaringly obvious that one or both of you aren't mature enough for a romantic relationship. 3rd, how many times has this happened? I say this because I have known people who talked like you and left out pertinent information that makes it clear why the other party left. Just saying. For future reference, whatever this sin was, get to the root of why you committed it and make an extreme effort to guard against this behavior so that you don't hurt the next person. Yes, our partners should be forgiving and keep no account of wrongs. However, we should not take advantage of this by sinning against them and throwing scripture at them when they are justifiably hurt.
@Nunya Mfnbysiness I'm not a narcissist I'm not justifying it, I know that it was bad. Its not like I sinned and felt good about it, I was very sorry. Are you saying I should end my life because of how I f-ked up in such an unforgivable way? It sounds like you are saying even God won't forgive me and that I'm in a hopeless situation for life. I could go on about how I was disgusted with the way I behaved but you probably won't believe me....
@ymarrero23 I never cheated or hit her. I got drunk bc of depression and loneliness following my father's death and my mother's subsequent constant hospitalization. I said some dumb things and she dumped me in the heat of the moment. I've apologized and begged forgiveness but now she's blocked me and refuses to come back
Don't expect to know the full story when your story with someone is just beginning🙌🙌thank you for those words...I'm writing them now💕
God bless all of you
You too!
God bless you too :)
God bless you too! ✝️🤍👏🏼
Blessings right back to you! ❤
I have a long time beloved friend, I don't know if she is the one, I pray God he reveals his will for me.
Yes, friends are great :) But male to female friendships don't last long as someone always starts liking the other person or starts dating someone else which then changes the friendship. God bless :) This may help: th-cam.com/video/2xbZs-Cwcz0/w-d-xo.html
This mind boggling! I just prayed in my car concerning a particular someone. I asked that if what God revealed to me is of him, I needed him to show me! To give me another confirmation. As I look on my news feed here is this video highlighting everything that I am experiencing concerning whom I wasnt confident to be the one! Thank you Lord for Confirmation!!!!!
I'm so glad this was useful to you!
when it comes to longing for clarity it is important to realize that god will not choose who you should marry for you and that there isn't such thing as "the one" because there are so many great people out there and really the best you can do is ask not for clarity but for approval from god
Thank you. I am on this page and of belief that doubt and examining self are healthy.
Wholeheartedly agree. I am older Christian and am pleasantly surprised and appreciative for your words of wisdom as a younger man/Godly husband-pastor mentoring figure.
You really cover the whole gamut of wisdom and discernment concerning listening to other Christians but to also expect some potential disapproval as well as when to really take heed etc.
God truly does reveal His truth through the Word and you are refreshingly in tune with Him. It is encouraging. Praying for you and your family.
Faith and patience is key
amen
Song of Solomon 3:4 "but I found him whom my soul loveth"
Thank you to prayers from the AGW community as I had commented on videos along the way of my relationship, from start to engaged, to nearly breaking off engagement, to now married.
Congrats! All glory to God!
I needed this. This video just came appeared to me on right time. Love is patient.
Thanks Mark
I really needed this seeking god is key
I kept on praying to God about this. And today before I've read the bible, I have prayed again about it and then minutes after I've seen this and this adds up to the current situation which is amazing..
So glad the Lord is speaking to you!
Can’t wait to watch
I hope you enjoyed it!
The content of this video is really rich. It is a blessing to me and I appreciate your time and consistency to bring the truth with such openness and frankness not coated with religious bias. God bless you Mark!
Amen! Just when I was quick to give it up but somehow I couldn’t decide!
I am going through all these exact same things right now so thank you for that it was a little clarity!
So glad it was useful to you!
Mark you are a true blessing,thankyou for the many eye opening things you point out in the Bible that most people don't know .enjoy your videos ,very educational,keep up the good works!
It's very tough time hey!!!
True love never fail ✊
Amazing timing!! Thank you for this, Pastor Mark!
You are so welcome
Excellent video Brother! Thanks so much for sharing!
Yes the Lord is WITH you
All glory to God!
I needed to hear this🙏🙏🙏
Patience isn't a real trial for me. I'm 30 and have been single my whole life. I've been tested with patience ever since I first started liking women.
This is spot on.
Let us be patient then
...Ty♥️💃🌈🎄
Thank you Mark! This is on spot!
I think for now I need patience.
God bless y'all!
So glad this was useful to you!
Girl...I am now the Queen of patience. Lol. But eventually it does pay off. Lol.
@@MP-ie4je trust God, sis!
This is what I need now. God bless
Thank you for this!
I first pray that God will touch and change the heart of the woman i persue and that he makes me ready to lead this person in the way of the lord
And thank for teaching us about patience and this five signs describe the point iam now with the one i persue
This is confirmation!
Great message, thank you!
You are so welcome!
This is wonderful 🙏 Praise God
Hi Mark Great advice, especially on the Christian advice perspective, I have a situation to where two great pastors I seek advice from told me two different things the first encouraged me in marriage, and told me to start premarital , the other told me because we sinned and almost went to far, that we should break up.
Others have told me they encourage premarital, and not to break up.
I really trust and believe this is my wife.
But sometimes I do get attacks now of what if! Or attack of what happens if I don’t obey the second pastor.
I read Jonah and how when things weren’t God’s will it was evident, we’re almost finished w premarital and things have been great, vision has been clear things we’ve prayed about together and individually have line up.
But I do ask for prayer to stop always doubting and Trust God!
I've had a knowing feeling about someone, but recently wondered if it was my intuition, mind, ego or God’s will. I just prayed for God to give me a very clear sign and this video comes up. I was already on TH-cam for something else. Thank you 🙏💖
A knowing feeling is the Holy Spirit in you.
Thank you so much, Brother Mark! This is super helpful😁.
I'm so glad it was helpful! God bless!
Your timing is impeccable, Mark! Thank you for this video! I REALLY needed to see this! THIS is what I think I'm going through RIGHT NOW! Uncertainty, doubt, and patience really hurts! I don't know what's happening, it's so confusing! And here, I thought I was just being too negative or full of anxiety.
I'm so glad this was timely for you
I thank God for sending this video to me, i came across this when k was questioning the same about my relationship, thanks to God for sending me confirmation and i had pray God help me and give me a sign and he told me to be patient and trust in his timing. I am happy about this🙏🙏❤
This is so what I needed to hear!
Thank you so much for sharing this.
Excellent points
So glad you enjoyed it Renata!
Wow…this was in my recommendations. The timing was really divine because i just sent series of messages to who i believe is “the one” regarding doubt and illusions. There is disapproval from people and patience is being tested. Not a coincidence.
I’ve been through all of these phases with my now fiancé and now seem to be in a holding pattern with the patience. I go back and forth saying I can’t do this anymore to I’m ready to marry. This morning was tough and after praying I came across this video and it really spoke to me. I asked God for confirmation but he showed me I was being selfish and to continue to have patience.
Did y’all go through a season of separation?
@@Crybabycry884 it ending up not working out as she had a season of depression and I did not. The season of separation is what I needed but I choose to go into a relationship to early before Gods will. Needed to grow more and for God to prepare me.
@@integra360 I’m sorry to hear that
Spot on. Excellent video
I believe this is so true, it’s like a testimony but the real one where you and the person are both working towards God’s work!! Even in some degree it was hard and want to give up but having patience help each other to understand each other to conquer the obstacles that’s really his work to show you this person that your with is the one he gives you!!!
Now makes sense. I saw first the video on why God is hiding my future spouse and returning to this message explains alot about why it feels like a warfare to find clarity since God doesn't want me to know😂. I laugh because God really puts me to test and I spent this days with doubts, reaching to him to tell me and he brings rememberence of him but denies to answer me a yes or no question😂😂😂. Always God's will no matter what. Amen
Bless you and your family Mark 😘🥰💜. Great messages ❤
God bless!
So on time! Clicked on this video by mistake. . . LORD HOW I LOVE THEE LET ME COUNT THE WAYS 💫♥️💫
So glad it was helpful :)
Yes true I’m feeling this now
Thank you for this.
Mark , OMG ! Thank you ever so much sir .
My pleasure Jerry! God bless!
Excellent advice.
This video give me so much motivation..
Thank you
Literally sounds like my relationship. But MOST people support us and it's like His family has my back and speaks on my behalf, and my family does the same for him
Spin on brother
Thank you. Amen
I'm in the season,God,may your will be done
God is good
Thanks.
Blessings.
May the Lord bless you as well!
Thank you! 🙏
Thank you I need to know about Doubts, I do love my man but have doubts at times.
When I do I put it in the lords hands seams when I do everything always work out.
Oh my I do confuse to my man
When I do wrong.
He knows all I do ..
I no doubt know my man is the one we have always been there for one another no matter what.
Long distance relationship you have to have patience anyway.
When things get rough I turn to God..
Thank you for this post as always it has helped me understand more every time is listen to one..
🙏🙏🙏
God bless Joyce!
I loved this!! This was so helpful!!
I'm so glad!
Ding ding ding!!!! That's all I need to say!!! He's the One ! Thank you JESUS
useful, thanks
Been married a few years. Lol I want to marry him all over again. Marriage is hard but wonderfully worth it.
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Levels to this ! Love it ❤❤ more work , repent 🙏 reconcile with God ! Most will not approve , they have there own relationship issues funny ... 🍷
God bless Chassidy
When I met "the one" I loved her right from our first lunch together, and a voice whispered "this is your wife" in my mind as I was walking out of the restaurant, and none of these unpleasant things was necessary or happened.
Nice that you heard the whisper
Very true
I'm having difficulty being patient. 😭 Pls pray for me.
I hope he comes across this. God bless.
Another great video that popped up on my feed. God, your timing is impeccable as always
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Revelation 3:19 Those I love, I rebuke and discipline. Therefore be earnest and repent.
Jesus is coming, He loved you so much He prove it on the cross. Please repent and return to him God bless you all!Have a wonderful day. .
Amen!
Right on time
God bless!
Wow 🤩 literally just went though this with mine and came across this evidently not by chance
Video right on time. Thanks Mark. May God continue to bless you.
So glad it was timely Jayvon!
I think I met the one but we are separated right now I’ll update you guys keep praying for me.
Any update
Great vid. Really useful.
Glad it was helpful!
Please pray for me...because I am going through the same phase....all the points are really happening in my life...please pray
Im waiting for the one lord i know your plans is better than me🙏🙏single lady hoping and praying😁
Thank you Sir.. blessings 💜💜💜❤️❤️❤️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🇬🇾🇬🇾🇱🇨
God bless
Thank you God 🙏
Amen 🙏 my Lord
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Interesting...♥️
God bless!
I legit ran into most if not all of these
Wow the first one is so powerful
So glad it was helpful Steve
PRAISE THE LORD JESUS CHRIST! THANK YOU LORD JESUS CHRIST! HALLELUJAH AMEN 😇
This was a super helpful video for me right now.
Sister there are four spirits present in the world, the spirit of the animal that doesn't have a soul, the spirit of the fallen man who is a sinner, the spirit of satan, and the Holy Spirit.
Music is mostly the working of satan, as told when Moses was receiving the ten commandments on the stone tablets and God sent him down the mountain because the people were sinning. Besides the sinning of the golden idol they were playing music and dancing. What that was was dancing naked and fornicating to Jezebel music, music that was from Egypt. Hollywood, sports, msm, the idols in the Catholic church are all tools of the devil, and are here for us to drive us into sinning and put us further from God. The jesuits are in the Catholic church, and run entertainment, music, porn, Hollywood etc and denied Jesus. They are the ones Jesus thru out of the Temple, for sexual perversions such as sodomy and jezebel dancing. The music you listen to and post, as well as movies you watch should be a warning of what spirit is trying to work in you.
Have you ever listened to a sermon on the evil of music?
@@checkingoutgypsymike2075 No. i don’t live in fear of a he devil.
I'm so glad to hear this!
👍
Confirmation!
My God...
God bless Malinda!