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4 Things That Will Happen When God Draws The One to You
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ต.ค. 2020
- How will God draw "the one" to you? What signs will God use to tell your future spouse that they should marry you? How will your future spouse know that you are the one for them? Here are 4 things God will do to draw "the one" to you.
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Shout out to the single introverts waiting for their future spouse to somersault through their bedroom window.
here's a video for them too! th-cam.com/video/1sMwS7A-lXk/w-d-xo.html
Me waiting like: 🤸🏽🚪🧍🏾♀️
Hahaha you're awesome
Yay To Us
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1. Man and woman will see that they have equal passion for him.
2. Man and women will get drawn to each other who are ministry minded and have common interests/desire towards ministry.
3. You will realize that your individual spiritual life will be enhanced by your partner- you will see/understand this quality in ur partner.
4. You will be drawn to the person who love and puts god more than anyone else..more than your relationship.
Nice!
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Some of us are still workin on that patience fruit 😩😂
@@theremnantrising what do you do when this happens AFTER being married for almost 25 years? My husband is NOT on the same page as me spiritually speaking, but I feel The Lord sent me someone, whom I've never met, who nails ALL FIVE points. My husband does not hit even one... And it was an insane, abusive marriage for a VERY LONG time. What do i do?
I agree with this. Thanks for sharing.
Amen...
He who finds a wife finds a good thing ❤️
He who finds a GOOD WIFE is blessed
Amen!
I think God quit making that model wife in the 50's.
And obtain favor from the Lord. Amen.
@@ladennayoung2939 amen
1) God will draw a man and women together by helping them see an equal passion for Him in each other
love this one!
Amen!
This is the number one factor in an online dating relationship I am currently in. God is SO faithful when we lean on, wait and trust in Him.
Same beautiful
God is enough.
Definitely!
Proverbs 18:22
He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.
" Being married of being single is not the focus...the focus is that we do what we can to live for God's glory" ....Best advice you can every receive!
Proverbs 16:9
God please provide her with your direction and protection
Thank for addressing the issue with marriage and all its scams
if you are a lonely person, I say to you this: It is simply not true, that no one is interested in you! there is somebody who loves you!
Oui, & putting God first takes you out of yourself
Mark, God is indeed using you.
Thank you Leslie, I'm so glad you are enjoying the channel! All glory to God!
Indeed!!!!
" But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." Matthew 6:33 ~~God has revealed this verse in the season to me. I desire marriage and have never been in a relationship but I know God is preparing me. I get anxious in finding my spouse as I'm in my 30s. But god has giving me peace in seeking him first and doing everything for his glory. And then my future spouse will come along as he will understand me and also have god first in his heart.
Praying you all seek God first🙏
I totally understand this video. You are awesome Mark! Love this channel 💖
God is good! So glad this was helpful!
Loneliness is so loud especially if you don't have friends or family....
That's why I love my animals. Took in two stray cats last year. It's been a trip, they've finally settled. I love them so much.
Am grateful for 2020.. because I learn so much during lockdown. I started to study Theology, join online bible study with my friends and meet new people at the same time.
Confirmation that the potentials in my life right now would not benefit my spiritual walk. I desire a man who’s on fire for the Lord and who can lead me deeper in my spiritual walk. Single is good, it’s peace, and I will keep waiting on the Lord while searching and working on my spiritual gifts and talents.
I’m a kind of lady that just works and goes straight home . I’d love to meet my future godly husband one day . But that’s going to be hard for me because I don’t usually go out .maybe I’ll meet him while I’m grocery shopping.
Try a dating site.
This may help: th-cam.com/video/mT1U5JwTEys/w-d-xo.html
Im always thinking I might find someone at the grocery because that’s the only place i go
@@vashhLOVE me too but it never happens. When we least expect it We’ll meet the right person
Stay Put! Ruth was gleaning in the field when Boaz found her !!
I definitely feel God drew me closer to Him, put an emphasis on Him first in my heart and that feels great. It feels like I am ready for that Godly relationship. I wonder who, where and how I'll meet her. Trust God, He is always there for you.
Yes, no matter what keep focusing on Christ and he will guide you!
The timing of these are actually so spot on it’s hilarious
Honestly ! 😂
FACT!!!
That's what i thought.
I'm so glad the content has been relevant!
The man who finds a wife finds a treasure, and he receives favor from the LORD.
Proverbs 16:9
God please provide Michael with your direction and protection
Mark you just might be The
Elijah of Relationships! Calling a whole world back to proper relationships 😭😭😭❤❤ you are truly God sent
All glory to God! So glad the content has been helpful :)
This is so good.
The putting God first point is really true. Instead of using God as a means to get a godly marriage, but in honesty; put God first for Him to bless you with a godly marriage
God bless!
Blessed are those who trust in the Lord and have made the Lord their hope and confidence.
God recently gave me 1 Peter 3
These are great signs to be mindful of! God first in all things and the blessings will follow! Thanks for sharing! Keep shining! 💖
All glory to God!
“You can get married without Christ in your life. But you can’t have a godly marriage without Christ in your life” preach!!
Is it possible that if you are someone who is proactive in your relationship with God, that He can draw a single person to you (who wants to date for a serious relationship) but isn’t quite there yet with God however he states his desires to be closer to Him and shows slight interest? Or is it likely that they’re not from God..
I would caution against that type of thinking. We must assess people for who they are now rather than on who they might be later, These videos may help: th-cam.com/video/jmfH5StJa9Y/w-d-xo.html
Hi friend! I just departed from a relationship that looked similar to this. It started with him seeming like he had a heart for God, then as we dated, his different actions (or lack thereof) showed me differently. Then his language transitioned into "oh how do I pray" or "I didnt know this because I was conditioned this way." Now that we are broken up, he has shown more and more how little of a foundation and interest he has for God. He works in the church, and initially said the right things, but he admitted later to exaggerating the truth, and petitioned to making the change (he hasn't lol). My own compassion and mercy blurred the truth, but thank God for discernment. Pray that God reveals to you their heart. Even if one is Christian they can still be unequally yoked with where you are at spiritually.
Yeah I agree in being mindful of who says what they are. I think the reason I was just a little unsure is because the guy does believe in God he just isn’t where he wants to be, as in he has been kinda dormant. So he’s not worldly or anything and I can see some small efforts of him trying..
I need to keep praying man lol
@@FunnyChicken95 yes yes yes, pleaseee keep praying. Efforts are okay but counterfeits will show you what they need to in order to lure you in. I've had 2 experiences (shame on me 😔) and they used scripture and all but their spirits were not pure. Believing in God and knowing, LOVING Him are very different. If he's not where he needs/wants to be then you have to allow him to do that on his own.
It seems the way you describe you both, you are unequally yoked. :) Love (passion) is blind, be aware od such relationship
I’ve been praying for God to bring me the one for years. I’m very confused as to why I didn’t already meet her years ago. And I’ve been very distraught over not meeting her and why it’s taking so long. My faith has been wavering because of it. But I’ve learned from other believers that if you just focus on wanting a relationship with him and consider the fact that might not ever meet the one will he bring he/she to you. So I’m trying to only focus on him ALONE and asked him to remove the nagging feeling of having a soulmate and relax so that I can focus on a personal relationship with him
Not only you but me too
Yes I am waiting on God I try to be active so I am looking for my husband a God fearing man in jesus christ name I pray 🙋🙏🙏🙏🙏
There is a lack for single parents,singles in general in church so I am hoping to start a group for us
I love your videos, but now more than ever is the time to focus on the return of our Lord and Saviour. He is our true love!
Jesus only is our true savior :)
Absolutely!
@@Jellybean195 that is true, however it is a process to arrive at that resolve and this channel educates people to assess where their hearts are at and what their desires are and whether it's in tune with God's plans for them. To focus on Jesus requires a person to be honest about their heart, struggles, their desires, and in this case it's finding a potential husband which is not a sin. We can say we are focused on God, but it needs to be sincere, from the heart and in our actions not just in words.
Incredible content Mark!!! Thank you!!! This is happening in my life right now and I give all the glory to God🙏🏿♥️
Blessings to you, your family and ministry☺️
Awesome Vanessa! Keep seeking the Lord! He will guide you :)
Thank you so much Mark, because you spoke to my heart .I love Jesus my Lord so much , He's using you through sharing videos God bless you.
Amazing Mr Mark....Just Amazing....So much of Learning.....Glory to God....Hallelujah 🙌 🙌....God Bless you very much
God is amazing and his ways are wonderful. Thank you for this video and God Bless you and everyone.
So glad you are enjoying them! All glory to God!
This is so true! DJ we are ready right now!💞
God bless
Thanks for the video.Gods timing is always perfect
Always!
Maybe that is he broke me up. I am still in agony but i am trying to gather my self again
Amen, so beautiful. 😇🌼🌻🙏
After rewatching this video about a year later, it makes a lot more sense now. Also it’s great that I’m not so prone to taking offense anymore 🤔🥳
I'm so glad it's clearer now!
This is the best video so far, and I’ve watched a lot! Thank you!
I'm so glad you enjoyed this one Alicia!
Pastor Mark B, you are really gifted with the teaching capacity. I've seen a lot of your videos and I've been helped a lot. Thank you! To God be the glory!☝️✝️
Blessings from Sweden🇸🇪
I'm so glad this content has been helpful! Amen, all glory to God!
Thank you🥰Mark 😄... I wish I had this understanding when I met my 1st LOVE💖JESUS. I will definitely share what I experienced and learned from you🔥
I'm so glad this was helpful!
Thank you because this was greatly needed!
You're so welcome! all glory to God!
I love this video and the message!!! Thank you brother!!!
Glad you enjoyed it!
God bless you and thank you This helped a lot amen 😄😊🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤
Glad it helped!
God is soamazing! I completely agree with the things mentioned on that video. I thought that God called me to be single which I had already accepted and then the Holy Spirit put into my heart all of a sudden to desire for marriage. Also drawing a godly man to communicate with me and see our deep devotion to Him. Both of us never thought fellowship would lead into romantic love. Like what was said in that video, we saw how together, God’s glory will be shown through doing His wonderful works. Distance is a hindrance to that as of now but with God, nothing is impossible. His will shall always be done in Yahushua/Yeshua/Jesus’ name.
Thank you for sharing this video and may God draw more saints together to glorify, worship and serve Him.
Thank you, is the truth! Amen 🙏🏼Im with Jesus Christ.
God is so goo!
I love this video it reminded me that I always say in my vows when I merry I will say I promise to love God above ourselfs to honor you it's funny had been years since I had forgotten thank you so much for the reminder n God bless
So glad this was a good reminder!
Love the last comment about Being afraid that a spouse might hinder my walk with God, and they (might?) not see Christ like me, pretty obvious when someone else states it from the Biblical texts. Thanks Mark.
So glad it was helpful Paul
Love all stay blessed
God bless you as well :)
This is so spot-on! Awesome! You following me around again? Or you following him?
😂😂😂😂
lol, so glad this was helpful!
Good word!!
God bless!
Yes I love God and I've put him first always♡ I gave him my fate and destiny because I trust him. He created me and knows me better than my parents. I love and trust God and thankful for his gifts and selection my man for me.. Thank God always and forever♡ Amen.
Amen Mark, I only want to marry if it brings God more glory for us to be together than apart from one another. Excellent points, keep up the good work!
Amen Victor!
Your right! God comes first because he rules and knows what best ✌.
Thanks for the awesome presentation. Is there a test to know what spiritual gift a person has? How do we recognize what spiritual gift God has given us?
I prayed and asked God, also other people saw spiritual gifts upon me and told me.
I agree with this video, putting God as your priority in life whatever you ask He shall give it to you. My experience is im a fearing God woman for 10 years single and i promise to myself that i will not married a man who is not godly man. One time pray to God, and i pray like this.. LORD IF THIS IS YOUR WILL FOR ME TO GET MARRIED, I WANT A MAN WHO LOVE YOU, WHO CAN PRAY WTH ME, WORSHIP WTH ME AND HIS DESIRE IS TO SERVE YOU. after i pray this i fast for a week but he came already through my friend. I ask signs, if he is the one who send Freind request for me, and if he have a bible verse, And it happens. Now, we are already 2yrs in a long distance relationship, we pray together and have one spirit to glorify Jesus. I believe in the power of prayer, faith, amd trust. And nothing impossible in God. 🙏🙏🙏
Amen
I love a godly man
AMEN🙏
God is good!
I love this video... thank you for sharing! God bless you. You spoke to my heart.💜
Glad it was helpful!
Mark, this is so true! I love God my Father regardless of what. He’s the one who has full control of my life, what’s best for me and blesses me everyday waking up to another day without asking. But yes, any man in my life (friend, future husband, associate etc) must believe in God. It’s a requirement. But what if a person (man or woman) raised to believe in God, now older believes in God but now on the dark side bc they fell in love with someone who believes in Spirituality, Satan? This person has changed so much Idk who they are anymore! I don’t want any contact from them nor be friends. Yes it’s that’s bad. I would pray for them, but I can’t pray for someone who is in denial. Thank you for sharing this important msg!🙏🏽🎼💐
You can pray that God unhardens their heart. Maybe you need to intercede on their behalf. ❤️
@@Girlintheewild maybe...Thank you. God bless you! 🙏🏽🎶💐
Keep reading and applying God's word no matter what!
AMEN
God bless!
Praise the lord god jeh Jesus holysprit
But how does it look like to proove to myself and God I love him more than others? Like, do I go meet up with a friend or do I stay in and pray?
#4 🗣FACTS
God bless!
I had to listen to that one several times over because it's just so good, and so true! 😆😄
God bless!
Do you have a video on how a young widower should approach christian dating and marriage?
No, but after a season of grieving and healing, you can apply basically all the same principles as someone who was not married before
Right now I haven't seen or feel drawn to anyone.
🙏🏽
God bless!
First viewer. Dang.
Nice!
First!
Nice :)
🙏🏼
God bless!
Risky area even in christian churches
A couple were in a christian fellowship and were attracted
The church prayed for them and
Thought god approved
They married and a few weeks later
They divorced
They found out in the married situation they couldn't cope
Avoid churches and use own judgement away from others
Point number 4.. 🥺
I found the one , sadly he passed away two weeks ago and I’m finding it hard to understand why god would have me meet the one yet take him immediately away from me . I know I shouldn’t question our savior , but I’m hurting .He was godly and he was such an amazing person , he was the one , yet God took him
😔
Would God connect you to the one through the internet if they lived in another country?
👏👏
How do you put God first without being unselfish.
Matthew 5-7 is helpful
Idk when I will meet someone with the same ministry and passion for God with my age range coz singles in the church are mostly 10 years younger than me 😂😂😂
What if someone is involved in the church, serves, and leads ministries but the other person doesn’t? My covenant are my co workers at work. I’ve been at my job for two months and as I get closer to my co workers I realize just how much I love them all even if they have their faults they are super important to me just like this guys church and the people are important to him. I don’t just join a church to join a church I need to feel safe at that church and most Christians just want to try and change me or give me advice which is why I don’t want to get involved. I did find a wonderful church online that has amazing theology called Imperfect Church in New York but I’m in CA. It’s by far my favorite one and I listen to the sermons all the time. But yes I’ve been to churches where I’ve just been treated badly. Not said hello to, felt left out, was talked to rudely, asked to leave a Bible study because of my drinking. I just think Christians should learn to minister in the right way. 😕🤔
What if physical attraction isn't quite there?
You still haven't addressed the fact that women are no longer traditional women? Most have had at least a few years of feminist indoctrination, more with 4 year degrees especially in social sciences, and education programs. As a result, most not all, no longer possess the qualities and biblical values that are essential for a Christ centered marriage that is balanced and functional. You have so many videos on Christian men and women finding the partner God intended and will bless, which is great, not trying to be difficult or aggressive towards your ministry. I've quite enjoyed many of them and it's wonderful to hear about the purpose and blessings of marriage from God's intended plan. That being said, what marriage, even a modern Christian marriage is now is a messy bastardization of God's plan and how it's become what it is with the churches blessing is never addressed. The countless lives of believer's lives being completely destroyed, children raised by divorced single mothers with no father, men being stripped of everything they worked for as more and more women serve them with divorce papers without a second thought. Men share their part of the blame for sure but it is women who are given all the power and control legally the minute he puts a ring on her finger, and nobody is addressing this. Marriage in God's plan is amazing and good, what men are walking into now is a fight they can't win and left with all of responsibilities while women get all of the benefits and no accountability. And if he doesn't owe up to the "responsibilities" as dictated by a family court judge, he will be put in shackles and put in a cell with his debt to her only accumulating with interest and no voice of reason from the church, no help, no support, nobody calling her out, nobody forcing her to denounce her vows to her husband and her covenant with God. Worst case scenario but if you don't think things between men and women and marriage, family, divorce, and the consequences suffered by everyone isn't important, you're being a lazy leader of your flock and I hope you will feel at least some conviction to to address what is happening Christian marriages. And nobody hurt me, never married, military life is hard on relationships and it just never happened with my deployments. I've seen it happen to so many men both in the military, my own family, and past church families. Good men in almost every case put through a meat grinder of a divorce, lost access to their children, homes, wives in most cases so vindictive and cruel, all of these women met and married in church. I don't know any men in my walk that divorced their wives, they kept their promises to God, their wives, and families and are happy.
the "church" is too feminized to address this unfortunately, but more and more men are waking up
I know marriage is supposed to be a good thing. and I know for some people it is, but I was married once and it was such a VERY VERY BAD decision he was so abusive. and to this day if he can steal from me and my children he will. Now it's so hard for me to believe good can come from marriage, because of that. and I'm a born again Christian and I know Christ and I believe ME as the BODY HIS BRIDE AND CHRIST is my HUSBANDMAN. But In the Earth it's hard for me to believe.
Relationships and marriage are overrated, to many ppl are obsessed with finding the one, focus on being the best you you can be, living and loving life 💗💗💗
Yes, they can be idolized. But don't want to devalue something God made. 1 Corinthians 7:7 is a good balance
Since we are surviving through COVID-19 pandemic, I wonder if this would be applicable for Christian online dating?
If I were I’d ask God about that tbh.
Just to encourage you Raymond. I just met someone on a Christian dating site in early September. I prayed that God's will be done. This man I want to marry, is a man who runs after God. Fruit will always display. Whether intentional or not. Upon messaging back and forth on the site. He wanted to meet on zoom so we can communicate face to face since distance is a factor and this current global situation as well. We connected. We talk daily. We are planning on meeting once travel bans along with my renewed passport is mailed back. Marriage has been discussed and continues to be in our communication.
Whatever you decide, I pray you're blessed richly in The LORD🙏🏿
Yes, online dating can be a good option when used properly
Ok, but I don't see how people can have love feelings or get attracted to each other when just meeting and talking to each other on screen, unless you meet Harry Potter on Zoom. Maybe I'm one of those who couldn't accept earth is round yet.
Sir, I have been watching your videos and wish to know if God considers an arranged marriage performed on false claims valid? Here in India, most of the marriages are arranged even Christian marriages. And I am trapped in such where my husband hardly communicated before marriage and even after marriage has tried to control me by threats and provocation. He even didnt want me to have kids. So I have returned to my father's house. I wish to get a divorce as I feel cheated. He talks to others constantly on phone but has no time for me even in the first year of marriage. What should I do?
Seek God through this season cry out to him ALL things are possible with God, I pray God gives you strength to persevere in prayer and to seek his voice daily. I'm sorry your husband mistreats you and marriage life, isn't going good for you. Father God protect this women and keep her safe 🙏🙏🙏
I can see why God would not want us to be with one who isn’t a Christian and doesn’t want to become a Christian, but would it be possible for God to want us to be with one that is not a Christian now, but is willing to become a Christian?
We must assess people for who they are now and not on who they might be later, These videos may help: th-cam.com/video/jmfH5StJa9Y/w-d-xo.html
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Thank you!
@@delossruddmusic4789 My mom wasn't a Christian and wasn't in church, but my dad was and she eventually came to Christ and became saved. So I'll say yes.
What exactly does he mean by ministry? And why roes it have to be in ministry? Cant tou meet someone outside of church? 🤔
By ministry he’s not talking about being a pastor or preacher behind the pulpit, what it means is what you and your spouse will do in your life’s for God as a couple, (missionary work, feeding the homeless, teaching in the prisons, whatever God puts on your heart etc) we’re all called to do something and the wife is the helpmate to her husband as the Bible says 🙏🏻
But man must first love GOD,BEFORE HE WILL CARE IF GOD SHOWS THROUGH HIS WIFE
please pray for my mother to be healed, she is really sick and she is at the hospital. Thank you!
Probably not 1st🙃
lol, close though!
can a catholic man be “the one” if your christian ??
I talk about that here: th-cam.com/video/6lC2P66Gz-M/w-d-xo.html
I need a caring and loving woman for a serious relationship
Am sure god will bless us with someone who is serious about us but we have to be serious also and just ✋. And just live right and put god first and do not let anyone tell you how to live your life. Enjoy your life and stay safe . No sex before marriage is the 🔑 . So you keep that key as a reminder to ✋ Do not use that key until god is ready. He has your prize but or you going to obey or be disobedient.
I can Honestly say in the past yr I have been given a reason to believe I’m God like Testimony on Testimony IN THE MIDDLE IF THIS COVID TOO that I never saw coming and it’s still 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
My heart has just been aching lately. I feel like God is silent... Maybe it's because I haven't been seeking God like I should?
God never left😁💕
Not if she's not a true woman of God it's not a good thing
God wanting people to be single contradicts genisis!
The whole reason God created eve was they saw man needed a partner!
What sort of life does God expect a single man or woman to lead?
The married couples get to enjoy intimacy, pleasure from each other, become parents.
So if you eradicated all self pleasures you still have each other .
A single christian has to eradicate all self pleasures and desires that be would classed as sinful.
So what kind of life is the single man to have.
He can't even have intimacy with another single woman because of the no sex before marriage christian rule.
I still question this rule in Christianity of marriage because modern day marriage is no more than a legal document.
In hebrew times marriage was you took the woman you wanted to be your wife,and consummated that marriage under the eyes of the lord and you were married.
When did this rule change?
Modern marriage which the christian church endorse is just a legal document!
I believe that if God brings two people together, and their intentions are the same, that they behave and live as though they are married then that is what pleases God
Otherwise all the Christians in say provinces in asia, which is far more religious than the west, where they cannot afford to legally get married are then seen as living in sin and God didn't ordain this!!
I think modern day christianity has interpreted many things wrong!!
Let me Interject.. having the one drawn to you is not something I have ever seen. From living life I see things through this lenses. That the one is a idea 💡 but on paper how is this a real thing? From my research and just living life you hit on people and they reject you. Then you get lucky and get people of low quality rinse cycle repeat. If we go off of averages and numbers if you hit on 1000 women in a span of 7 months what’s the return on that investment? I am a firm believer in facts. The facts just are not there for me to believe the one exists. No matter what book/ you tuber say so. I have seen people beg for a partner and never get one. Where is this the one ....my relationship with god is this in a nut shell. I ask god for so little and he does not do it. I plead / cry/ beg/ cry some more etc. silence ...that’s how it’s been my whole life. When my father tried to beat up my mom In 4th grade. To all the trauma and abuse I have been through. Nobody was ever there. So by all means the one is a myth. Here is life in a nut shell. You are born then you go through tons of problems. Money / health and series of things that break you. Then you get old if you make it then you die. That’s what life is. With tons of begging and pleading and watching others prosper. It’s a fact
99% of people will serve God better in marriage to someone who is also a servant.
God is very rotten and evil as it is since he punished many of us men with singleness, even though we never wanted to be.
What if god gave you two woman.and you blew it twice
Not!